I Am a Negative Person

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    I Have Been Told I Am Very Negative

    I definitely am negative I spose, people say it to me and I'm rather sarcastic most of the time and I can rarely be bothered to do anything I commit to! Everything seems a chore and I don't enjoy moments.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 25, 2013

    Negativity

    She always says I am so negative. She is right. I am. Its easier this way. Im used to failing and when I do, Im not surprised. If you set yourself too high, when you fall, you'll kill yourself. I keep my goals low. If I miss my goal, I hurt my foot instead of fall...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2008

    What....you thought I chose this name just

    because? I have been plagued with what I like to call Chronic Pessimism...only it is Chronic because even if I try to think positive and optimistic...it molds into Negativity. I have realized now that my pessimism probably cannot change due to how long I've been pessimistic...
    Sepulchral Sepulchral
    26-30, M
    Aug 20, 2015

    I just realized that like all of my posts are

    very grinchy. So, I just wanted to post about the beauty of the world, and the pinkness of the ocean
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    Delete Me!!!!!!!!!

    So yeah, more than occasionally you'll find me bitching because I am a terrible person, okay, got it? Good. Fuckking unfan me if you don't wanna here me complain. I am sorry that I am a human being. I am sorry I am not perfect. I am sorry that I am sensitive. I am trying to...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    7 Responses Dec 23, 2010

    I Am Losing My Friends

    at first people thought i was being sassy, funny and that my cynical personality was part of my charm. then all of a sudden they turn and say they cant be around me, that I am a downer. I dont want to walk on eggshells all the time. Its not my fault that I dont think everything...
    bearcamp bearcamp
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    Are People Avoiding Me?

    When I'm thinking negatively, I try to keep my opinions and thoughts to myself. Except when it came to having a bad job. In this awful job market, I am luckily still employed. And the job I had before was boring and bringing me down; so after some griping to everyone I knew I...
    rastusbosconi rastusbosconi
    46-50
    1 Response Jan 31, 2011

    Negative Persons Point Of View

    Everyone says "YOU ARE SO NEGATIVE ALL THE TIME!!" Even though I am, I want to slap them because the people who say that are just as negative, exept they don't admit it, I do. So that puts me one step ahead of them. Hey, that wasn't so negative of me,was it? I really am a...
    DewDropsontheGrass DewDropsontheGrass
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

    I am such a negative person I am not

    even positive. I can't even get out of those negative thought
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 6, 2015

    I can be extremely negative

    and sarcastic it's a part of my personality I'm actually kinda annoyed by super positive people
    Poppytaco Poppytaco
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2014

    Hmm. Sorry. But I just need somewhere to vent

    the negativity. It's not my intention to make someone else sick with this though. I also hope that I can cope better and see the world around and inside me more brightly.
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky
    26-30, F
    Oct 12, 2015
    miz0217 miz0217
    18-21, M
    Aug 12, 2014

    over time...I guess my negativity is there

    but now I seem to think positively in a sense, like whatever happens happens, and I'll just accept it.
    XxSxarletxX XxSxarletxX
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2015

    Being negative not so bad i think .

    Act like a pollyanna doesnt work in real life
    fauxlady fauxlady
    22-25, F
    Aug 12, 2014

    Help

    I feel that i am a very negative person. It has gotten to the point of being so bad that my marriage is in major trouble. I know that my husband is not cheating on me or doing anything wrong, but for some reason there is always this little voice in the back of my head that tells...
    ashnrick ashnrick
    22-25
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2008

    The Glass Is Always Half Empty...and Theres a Hole In the Bottom.

    I never see the positive side to anything... ever!   That way, I'm not disappointed when something bad happens, and if something good does happen {Yeah, right} then I'm pleasantly surprised.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 30, 2007

    I Hate The World

    Everyone cannot work together, political debates, crimes when people always know its wrong, the world to me is just stupid. I even use negativity for my jokes. Say, if ur in the girls b-room and someone makes fun of your boobs, say, If u want a cleavage to laugh at try Katy...
    Izzzooka Izzzooka
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2013

    Can't Stop Being Negative.

    Something good happens... and I'll immediately start thinking of all the bad things that could happen. I just can't accept that something good has happened to me. I have to worry about it. I'm so negative about everything... I just can't see anything good ever happening to me. I...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 30, 2009

    I'm never happy and always think in negative

    terms. Don't have any real friends............always get the vibes that nobody likes me.. Even my Mom puts me off (in a way which i hope no one experience). No matter what i say to myself, an inner voice always says no one can ever understand me..........might be cause am...
    shivit shivit
    22-25, M
    Jul 5, 2015

    Negativity

    I'm negative because of past experiences. I feel as if i had more loses than wins. In some ways being negative makes me happy, like licking my wounds and just thinking about how hard i have it but yet i havent given up makes me feel strong. alot of times i feel like everyone else...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 14, 2012

    I myself am a negative person.

    And my husband also is a negative person. It's a disaster. I don't know how much longer the marriage can last. For me, I hope our marriage grow stronger. But my husband seems to be very disappointed in me. I'm doomed now. I wanted to rely to him in the future. But maybe I'll...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky
    26-30, F
    Apr 1

    Don't Mind At All

    It's that negativity that helps me learn and comprehend stuff in the world, it gives me lots of knowledge that makes me act like whole different person than who I normaly am. I've been told it's a gift and I want to embrace it. But sometimes this "gift" can hit back and cause...
    AngelsReflection AngelsReflection
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Mar 15, 2010

    I'm What You'd Call A Cynic

    I believe life is worthless, because in the end we all die.
    girlanonymous girlanonymous
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2011

    "stop Being So Negative All The Time."

    If I'm not being sarcastic, I'm being negative, says everyone. I know I have an issue with negativity, but it's starting to get the best of me. I can be the most positive and uplifting person for other people, but when it comes to me, I just bring myself down. I hate who I am...
    Hollyvm92 Hollyvm92
    18-21, F
    Sep 1, 2012

    Infected With Negativity

    I think my negativity started when i was a kid. My parents split and i began to feel like something was missing. As a result i grew up thinking no one cared about me, my mothers love wasnt enough. Then i met my boyfriend and he made me feel whole again. I soon moved in with him...
    shamoo77 shamoo77
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2009

    Let Me Put It This Way...

    I hate everyone and everything. I sit in my home and fear what others will do or say because deep down inside I know it's all bad. I can't watch the news because it reminds me that someday the world will end it will be the same day I win the friggin' lotto. Everything sucks and...
    TheKamikazeKid TheKamikazeKid
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2013

    Reading the news made me tired.

    The economy in my country now is not good. Many students lost their scholarship and financial help. Universities budget has been cut. Meaning, future academic jobs are also bleak. My country also not very 'friendly' with foreigners. Foreign students pay double tuition fees...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky
    26-30, F
    Jan 27

    Okay, I'll Start...

    I consider myself to be quite the negative person.  I learned it at a young age.  The way I was raised, it was always to accentuate the negative and ignore the positive. I'm fully aware of it. I try not to force the way I am upon others. People are free to be...
    meowmeowface meowmeowface
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 1, 2007

    I Stand By What I Said About Positrons Being Robots But I'm Starting To Get Better.

    So I have to goooo I LOVE YOU PEOPLE STILL! I Would rather supportive friends than ALWAYS POSITIVE ones but <3' People who demand you always be happy are pretty much worse than energy vampires. I stand by that. I don't expect you to be happy. I understand depression is not...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    Sep 25, 2012

    I'm Trying Not to Be

    I'm a horribly negative person, but I'm trying not to be. Just when I think I'm getting better, something changes and I'm back to being negative.   No matter what it is, I always see the down side. I don't know how to stop.
    DietIcedTea DietIcedTea
    36-40, F
    May 7, 2009

    Im Negative, So What!

    They all say it, teachers, peers, parents,friends..."You so negative!". Well... who cares? I for one feel better off being negative because I don't see it as negative, I see it as practical. If I am always doubting myself I can never be disappointed when I fail, and I...
    rawkfreak13 rawkfreak13
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2009

    When Does the Light Come Back?

    I have been a completely bitter, hateful, jealous, and angry person since 1989. It's 2009. Twenty years... and my mind has changed little to not at all. Life at most times feels like an unmoveable rock on my chest. Turning on the TV just makes me worse. I think about how...
    angry247 angry247
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Sep 10, 2009

    try not to be but half the time can't explain it

    but I do feel negative i am hoping things will change but things don't feel eny better for me at all am fed up to the back teeth of myself to be honest
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 6, 2015

    I try not to be...but really it's

    because of all that's happened so far. I always think negative negative negative. I hate, I rant, I'm sad, I'm not a nice person.I try not to be, but I guess I got tired of being nice with no pay back. Makes sense since I don't believe in karma.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 30, 2015

    Negative

    Negative,At times,That's me,So much gone wrong,Depressing me,Sometimes,I find it hard,To be anything else.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 20, 2012

    Okay, I'll Start...

    I consider myself to be quite the negative person. I learned it at a young age. The way I was raised, it was always to accentuate the negative and ignore the positive. I'm fully aware of it. I try not to force the way I am upon others. People are free to be positive people...
    O38OO2661677 O38OO2661677
    36-40
    4 Responses Dec 3, 2012

    I carry so much negative energy with me i make

    you depressed even if u have a good life
    miz0217 miz0217
    18-21, M
    Aug 12, 2014

    My Marriage To The ' Love Of My Life'

    I married a sociopathic narcissist, who for 5 yrs was a dream! Anything i wanted! He was wonderful! Got up one am, went to work, returned a mean, sadistic sob who to this day gets his joy in life tearing me apart. Yea, im negative.
    tszer200 tszer200
    51-55, F
    Aug 12, 2013

    I thrive in anger and bitterness.

    if I am angry I get things done and make things happened. Without anger energy i am a lame conformist that everyone overlooked and abuse. If I am not angry I am trying so hard to help and please everyone and never do anything for mysef
    kalamakara kalamakara
    36-40, F
    Apr 17, 2014

    People Say So, But I Don't Believe It

    Just because you lived a tough life with a disability doesn't make you a negative person. The same people who tell me I'm too negative are the ones who avoid me, tell me hurtful things, KNOWING I'm sensitive, & never point out anything positive. They point out attributes...
    otad12 otad12
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

    Recently I am really worried about my husband's

    negativity Then I just remember that I am very negative too At those time it's always my husband who Listen to all my whining Give me loving encouragement But I was still denying the advices and kept whining Now when my husband is very negative I feel irritated Nothing I...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky
    26-30, F
    Nov 5, 2015

    Eternity

    To be trapped here forever For what seems an eternity Is more hell than anything else I want to wake from this dream I want to feel glad Yet there is not a way For impurity to see good So here I will stay Trapped and alone Begging on my knees for help
    MaiaTheBroken MaiaTheBroken
    18-21, F
    Jan 22, 2012

    I am a negative person.

    But I just realized, ..that I might be the luckiest person in this world. Our campus has several areas of dormitories. Unfortunately, because it is semester break, cafes in all surrounding dormitories are closed. So I need to walk to another cafe which is quite far. I don't...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky
    26-30, F
    Jan 25
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