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I Am A New Air Force Girlfriend

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    sejlaplewis sejlaplewis 18-21, F May 7, 2014

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    Well my boyfriend is not in the Air Force yet,

    but he's studying and filled out the application for the officer program. I'm kind of nervous about it all. I do want to be with him no matter what. That's not the issue. I just don't want the distance to destroy us. I've been in many long distance relationships before, but it's...
    Jusme08 Jusme08 22-25, F Jan 2, 2014

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    USAF

    My boyfriend is Of course in the Air Force. Can I send him things? What should I take with me when I get to see him at his graduation or should I take anything?
    bnjones bnjones 18-21, F Sep 24, 2013

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    I'm falling harder and harder

    for my airman... He just left to go back to base. All we had was this weekend together. This is the first time we've said goodbye not knowing when we'll see each other again. I honestly feel like I'm missing a piece of myself with him being gone. I don't know... Everything just...
    taylorjmusic taylorjmusic 18-21, F Oct 12, 2014

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    My Boyfriend Left For Basic Training Aug 7th :(

    My boyfriend of 2 years just left a few days ago for lackland airforce base. He will be gone for 8 weeks before i get to go down & see him graduate. I am so proud of him but miss him terribly. I've been doing nothing but staying busy the past two days but that still doesn't seem...
    AirmansAngel107 AirmansAngel107 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    How long is bootcamp?

    Does anyone know
    theshu12 theshu12 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    ahoyitsbailey ahoyitsbailey 16-17, F Jul 4, 2014

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    New To All Of This

    I'm pretty new to this whole experience. My fiance left for BMT about a week ago. I heard these forums and such are a great way to gain support because everyone on these things understands what it's like to go through the days away from their significant other. None of my...
    shy27 shy27 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    Starting A Relationship While He's Away

    So I am really going to need some feed back on this one. Robert and I have been friend since high school. Kinda lost touch for a while. He joined the Air Force and is currently overseas. I would get random messages from him on Facebook. A little over a month after me and my ex...
    somecountrygirl somecountrygirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Bmt Graduation Was A Success..

    I just got back from my 5 day stay in San Antonio, Texas. My boyfriend was at Lackland AFB. Seeing him for the first time was AMAZING. There are literally no words to describe the feelings going through my body while we held each other for the first time in 10 1/2 weeks (he was...
    kwheel11 kwheel11 22-25, F Sep 4, 2012

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    My BF is away at BMT ,

    starting week 5. I have only received one letter , and a quick three minute phone call . I found out that he had called his girl best friend from college before me . This broke my heart - I was writing everyday , but I have backed off . I feel hurt , I feel him backing away from...
    mkgestone mkgestone 26-30, F Aug 23

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    My boyfriend announced out of nowhere

    that he wants to join the Air Force. I've only known for a few weeks and I've been going crazy ever since. I always promised myself I'd never date a military man, and my boyfriend's decision was a total shock. I had no idea he was even considering it... Had I known ahead of time...
    AnneHeintz AnneHeintz 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2014

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    my boyfriend just left

    for basic training yesterday. and I feel really bad because I was told today that if they have candy they will get I'm a little trouble . I gave him these open when letters and there was candy in one . Am I a bad person now ?
    kurvmv kurvmv 16-17, F Jul 10, 2014

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    Only 19 days until I go to graduation!

    !!! So happy, nervous, worried, and everything in between! Anybody been to a graduation?? What can i expect??
    stephy418 stephy418 18-21, F Jan 10, 2014

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    Our first deployment together is coming right

    after my prom. :( I'm so bummed about it.
    Laurxo417 Laurxo417 18-21, F Apr 26

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    The love of my life arrived in Texas June 29th

    for BMT. The last thing he said was "I'm in Texas" I haven't heard from him since. I'm sure they toke his phone away before he even got a chance to say goodbye. I miss him very much. I know it's only July 2nd now but I'm anxious and impatient because I can't write him without an...
    shakursqueen shakursqueen 18-21, F Jul 2

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    My boyfriend left for BMT 2 days ago

    and I didn't expect it to be this hard! I'm sooooooo proud of him and soooooo happy for him because he worked so incredibly hard for this and he's going to be working so much harder in the Air Force! It's just so hard with him being gone and what gets me the most is I can't talk...
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 1 Response May 28

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    I had a dream that he kissed me.

    All he's done so far is a kiss on the cheek when I was leaving to drive home last time I saw him. Maybe this'll be my weekend :)
    taylorjmusic taylorjmusic 18-21, F Oct 1, 2014

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    And This Is Just The Beginning.

    My boyfriend of three years has very recently decided to join the USAF. Of course, I was shocked at first, but now I am very excited for him. While I know it will be hard, it will also be very rewarding. I am just trying to keep myself together- for both him and me. I would love...
    ashleesmith27 ashleesmith27 18-21, F Jan 14, 2012

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    I need Air Force girlfriend friends lol someone

    who understands what I'm going through ... Other people think I'm crazy for even committing to this life
    Laurxo417 Laurxo417 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    My Story!

    Hey guys, I'm new so give me a break. :) Tanner and I have been together for almost 2 years, (our anniversary is the first day I see him November 28th!) He left for Basic training last week from here in Dallas, out to San Antonio. Like any relationship, we've had our ups and...
    meaganfxoxo meaganfxoxo 18-21, F Oct 10, 2012

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    Tonight was the last night I got to spend with

    him before BMT.... I've cried myself to sleep for the past three nights and he hasn't even left yet...
    jeannalee jeannalee 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    My boyfriend's graduation is next month

    and I'm so nervous! I don't know what to expect at all... Do i dress up or is it jeans and a tee? (I hope its dressy, I wanna show my man what he has been missing lol XD) Most importantly, I'm nervous about seeing him, which must sound weird... Alot can happen in 8 1/2 weeks...
    Kannd101 Kannd101 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    this is the hardest thing I've ever done. I miss him so much..... and no one understands what I'm going through, or what it feels like or supports me....
    jeannalee jeannalee 16-17, F 20 hrs ago

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    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    Well. The weeks are finally winding down. My trainee is currently at beast week right now; which kind of sucks because that means no letters. But, at least he can still receive...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I think I've hit a rough patch. Idk why, I was doing pretty good til now.. I'm missing him so much today.
    TaylorT1216 TaylorT1216 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend started his 6th week of basic yesterday :) was hoping for a phone call but didn't get one unfortunately. Everyone is saying it should happen before this week is over...
    Stutterdoll Stutterdoll 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I got my phone call today! Ugh:) he sounds so good. I got the end of it because he called his parents first. My phone call lasted for exactly a minute, but it was the best minute...
    bug45x bug45x 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I miss my guy like crazy right now! He just finished beast week today :) when should I expect a call now?
    Stutterdoll Stutterdoll 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I finally got a letter, containing 4 different letters from my boyfriend at BMT! It's been over 2 weeks and it was so amazing to hear from him. He wants me to write him everyday...
    Jacqi94 Jacqi94 18-21 6 days ago

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    I never realized how much I leaned on my man for self esteem. is that normal? due to having a gorgeous, out going college roommate, and not being told on a daily bases I am...
    poreoticz poreoticz 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    My boyfriend is now in about week 2 of Basic Training 1400 miles away. The days feel like they are going fast, but overall it feels like it's taking forever! I'be gotten 2...
    TaylorT1216 TaylorT1216 18-21, F a week ago

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    I just found this and it's great advice. Originally posted by Heismyrightwingman A Girlfriend's Guide To Surviving Her Airman's Tech School So finally, finally, finally BMT is...
    grodemeiser grodemeiser 22-25, F a week ago

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    It's been over 2 weeks since my boyfriend left. I've sent 3 letters and still have yet to receive one from him.... This is so hard. Everytime I check the mail and there isn't a...
    Jacqi94 Jacqi94 18-21 4 Responses a week ago

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    My boyfriend has just left for basic as of 11 this morning and I'm a complete mess... everything reminds me of him and then I find myself crying... I just can't take my mind off...
    savvyg8 savvyg8 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    Got another letter today and I couldn't be happier. It's the longest one I've received yet:) I got my base passes in it too, so now it's all coming to life <3 just 25 more days...
    bug45x bug45x 18-21 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Today is my last day in Texas and was the last day I got to see my boyfriend. These past days were great and the graduation ceremony made me so proud.Ive gotten through bmt, now on...
    grodemeiser grodemeiser 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    My BF is away at BMT , starting week 5. I have only received one letter , and a quick three minute phone call . I found out that he had called his girl best friend from college...
    mkgestone mkgestone 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    My girlfriend is currently in tech school. Shes supposed to graduate tomorrow, which would be really exciting but last we spoke, the recruiters assistance program option fell...
    serepuff serepuff 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Well, the first week of my freshman year of College is over, and my boyfriend is doing great in basic:) only 34 days until I get to see him! I knew he was going to join the Air...
    Tiffanyj52 Tiffanyj52 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    my boyfriend called his mom instead of me to give him his address even when I told him to call me. I wish we would have called me, and it hurts...is that ridiculous
    poreoticz poreoticz 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    My fiance left for BMT on Tuesday. I mailed my first letters today but don't know when I'll hear from him.
    Geronimo9212 Geronimo9212 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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