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I Am A New Air Force Girlfriend

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    my boyfriend just left

    for basic training yesterday. and I feel really bad because I was told today that if they have candy they will get I'm a little trouble . I gave him these open when letters and there was candy in one . Am I a bad person now ?
    kurvmv kurvmv 16-17, F Jul 10

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    Bmt Graduation Was A Success..

    I just got back from my 5 day stay in San Antonio, Texas. My boyfriend was at Lackland AFB. Seeing him for the first time was AMAZING. There are literally no words to describe the feelings going through my body while we held each other for the first time in 10 1/2 weeks (he was...
    kwheel11 kwheel11 22-25, F Sep 4, 2012

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    And This Is Just The Beginning.

    My boyfriend of three years has very recently decided to join the USAF. Of course, I was shocked at first, but now I am very excited for him. While I know it will be hard, it will also be very rewarding. I am just trying to keep myself together- for both him and me. I would love...
    ashleesmith27 ashleesmith27 18-21, F Jan 14, 2012

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    Starting A Relationship While He's Away

    So I am really going to need some feed back on this one. Robert and I have been friend since high school. Kinda lost touch for a while. He joined the Air Force and is currently overseas. I would get random messages from him on Facebook. A little over a month after me and my ex...
    somecountrygirl somecountrygirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Only 19 days until I go to graduation!

    !!! So happy, nervous, worried, and everything in between! Anybody been to a graduation?? What can i expect??
    stephy418 stephy418 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Well my boyfriend is not in the Air Force yet,

    but he's studying and filled out the application for the officer program. I'm kind of nervous about it all. I do want to be with him no matter what. That's not the issue. I just don't want the distance to destroy us. I've been in many long distance relationships before, but it's...
    jennied08 jennied08 22-25, F Jan 2

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    My boyfriend announced out of nowhere

    that he wants to join the Air Force. I've only known for a few weeks and I've been going crazy ever since. I always promised myself I'd never date a military man, and my boyfriend's decision was a total shock. I had no idea he was even considering it... Had I known ahead of time...
    AnneHeintz AnneHeintz 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    New To All Of This

    I'm pretty new to this whole experience. My fiance left for BMT about a week ago. I heard these forums and such are a great way to gain support because everyone on these things understands what it's like to go through the days away from their significant other. None of my...
    shy27 shy27 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    ahoyitsbailey ahoyitsbailey 16-17, F Jul 4

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    USAF

    My boyfriend is Of course in the Air Force. Can I send him things? What should I take with me when I get to see him at his graduation or should I take anything?
    bnjones bnjones 16-17, F Sep 24, 2013

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    My Story!

    Hey guys, I'm new so give me a break. :) Tanner and I have been together for almost 2 years, (our anniversary is the first day I see him November 28th!) He left for Basic training last week from here in Dallas, out to San Antonio. Like any relationship, we've had our ups and...
    meaganfxoxo meaganfxoxo 18-21, F Oct 10, 2012

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    sejlaplewis sejlaplewis 16-17, F May 7

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    My Boyfriend Left For Basic Training Aug 7th :(

    My boyfriend of 2 years just left a few days ago for lackland airforce base. He will be gone for 8 weeks before i get to go down & see him graduate. I am so proud of him but miss him terribly. I've been doing nothing but staying busy the past two days but that still doesn't seem...
    AirmansAngel107 AirmansAngel107 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I've been with my airman for almost 2 years. I've always said I'll never date a military man, but you can't help who you fall in love with... He is currently in Columbus, MS for...
    trevino2b trevino2b 22-25, F Jul 30

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    I'm dating a guy in the United States Air Force and he has a five month old son. The mother of the son still lives with them. She doesn't work and she stayed home. They are...
    kaylenkay93 kaylenkay93 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for just over four months, he's been gone for more than half the time we've been dating. He is in tech school in Ohio for the next four months...
    macky24 macky24 18-21, F a week ago

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    first I should say that I'm from germany. I was living in spain last year for one year (one of the most romantic cities!!!) and there I met the most wonderful man! we met in...
    resero resero 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I just want to say thank you to all because I had a really hard time last night without my airman being here. And today feels like a whole new beginning because of so many...
    bleake16 bleake16 16-17, F Jul 28

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    So I need some opinions..... So my boyfriend and I are trying to obviously plan our future.. Well I will be starting college next year.. We are about 1,900 miles apart, and...
    Airforcegirl18 Airforcegirl18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Hello everyone, I'm kind of new to this if you can tell already. My boyfriend, who just turned 18, left for basic training on the 22nd. Now I understand they are supposed to call...
    bleake16 bleake16 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    Up watching my Airman sleep. Felt so good to sleep in his arms last night. Already hating that I have to leave him again on the 10th. Cherishing every moment. ♥So in Love with...
    USAFGf25 USAFGf25 26-30, F Aug 2

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    So to get my mind off of the fact my man is deploying soon I went to the local county fair with my best friend and her family. It was a great day and we saw jake Owen in concert. I...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F Aug 8

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    My airman has been at basic for 3 weeks now, and I received the first letter and I got so excited that I almost cried!. I Love this boy with all my heart and can't wait to see him...
    Laniegh28 Laniegh28 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    What exactly am I supposed to wear to the graduation of my airman!!! Help!!!
    Laniegh28 Laniegh28 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Hello everyone. My airman just contacted his mother and she just called me. Turns out he is in medical hold, whatever that means. They think he has appendicitis. Can someone please...
    bleake16 bleake16 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Does anyone know if: an airman has appendix surgery during basic, will they send him home or keep him there to recover? My mom works in a OR and says that there is a 2 weeks...
    bleake16 bleake16 16-17, F Jul 29

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    My airman just landed in Turkey within the last 24 hours. Saying good bye was so hard but he messaged me and we are talking on facebook. I have faith that our love is strong enough...
    kellykelly95 kellykelly95 18-21, F Jul 30

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    My airman is deployed in the desert since one month now and he still has to stay there for 5 months. He's being distant a little bit the last days and today I just couldn't take it...
    resero resero 22-25, F Jul 30

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    We haven't heard from my airman since Tuesday. We found out that day that he is in med hold for sickness. Does this mean he went back to training? Can anyone tell me a rough idea...
    bleake16 bleake16 16-17, F Aug 1

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    So we are just hanging out and I find a request for leave that he hid in my purse. (My SO works nights so I expected to spend days with him while I'm here). He requested off for...
    USAFGf25 USAFGf25 26-30, F Aug 4

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    So my heart is broken right now because I missed my airmans call.. He's still in med hold and waiting to be medically discharged.. Why isn't he home yet? This is so frustrating...
    bleake16 bleake16 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    How do you communicate with your airman over seas? With this whole scare thing about the Facebook messenger I'm very nervous to keep using it! What are some apps you lady's use? I...
    airfrocelove airfrocelove 18-21, F Aug 10

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    So, my boyfriend of a year and a half has been in Lackland for training for air safety, crew, training for about 2 weeks now since he graduated BMT. I went to the graduation...
    breanalyn breanalyn 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Spent 10 wonderful days with my love. We went to a winery, hung out around base and went to an arcade to ride go karts. Exactly what I needed before school starts.♥So in...
    USAFGf25 USAFGf25 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Is it alright if you draw in the letters you send to bmt? Will that get them extra attention? The outside is plain but I'm fighting the urge to draw inside the letter.
    Logivali Logivali 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Me and my bf started dating 3 months before he left for basic in May 2013 and now in the present me and my bf have been dating little over a year(mind you we have seen each other...
    Bri7 Bri7 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Well, my FIANCE (just got engaged!) just left for Basic Training yesterday. He leaves on his flight for San Antonio, Texas this evening. I'm super nervous about the simple fact of...
    lilgompas lilgompas 16-17, F Jul 29

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    This is all becoming so real. His date to go to MEPS was supposed to be this Thursday, but his recruiter changed it to tomorrow. I know he'll only be gone for two days, but when he...
    dearmatt dearmatt 18-21, F Jul 29

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    Waiting for my second letter is driving my crazy..
    Laniegh28 Laniegh28 18-21, F Jul 30

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    I got my second letter :) and it was great to read how he was doing. By this time next year he wants to get married. But I'll be 20 years old. Of course I love him so much but I'm...
    Laniegh28 Laniegh28 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    My boyfriend got shipped off yesterday and it was the hardest thing ive ever had to do. I basically lived with him for a year and waking up alone feels so bad and going to bed is 1...
    dianap123 dianap123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    My bf has the worst mood swings. He goes from one extreme to the other. One day he super loving and the next day he is very cold. I have learned not to ask or push the issue. He...
    soniaaveti soniaaveti 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I can't help but feel overwhelmed with sadness seeing everyone else posting about how they got there first letter and stuff. My amazing fiancé and I have been dating for 2 years...
    lilgompas lilgompas 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I got my first letter today! Words cannot express my excitement and happiness. It's so good to know that he's doing well, and his letter was so very sweet! Only 42 more days left...
    lilgompas lilgompas 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    So it's been two weeks since we have seen each other, not too happy about that but it is what it is. Tho over the last few days I've been extremely nauseous, I have two kids and...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    So my boyfriend leaves for basic in less than a month and I'm really struggling with it right now. We were together for two years and had a rough break back in may for a few months...
    chelsea1993 chelsea1993 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hey there! I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now, we met in college where he did AFROTC and I was very involved at the detachment. He's in Pilot training now at Vance AFB...
    katb456 katb456 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Having a tough time with him leaving. Probably because I didn't get to see him. We talked about a few things an the possibility of one of our future plans happening now. His...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

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