Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Am a New Military Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 105 People

    New And Young Military Wife

    My husband and I were together for a year and four months and we just got married December 19, 2012. I love him with all my heart, and he is now at Ft. WainWright, Alaska. I want to go with him so bad, but he doesn't want me to come because he is concerned about the cold. What...
    pumpkin777 pumpkin777 18-21 Dec 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just Got Married October 24th,2011

    My husband is at patriot academy and i am lonely as hell. i miss him like crazy and just want him home. patriot academy was only supposed to be 4 months and now it looks more like 6 but there is no way to be sure. i hate that i cant be in his arms, i cant kiss him, i cant just...
    asgutierrez asgutierrez 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 19, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What Happens Now

    Me and my husband werent together very long.  We met June 18th of 07 and married 5 and a half months later on Dec 1st.  He was supposed to deploy in Jan but was switched to a differant area whiched only caused problems.  First he was deploying in June then they...
    MrsKnutson MrsKnutson 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    New and a Little Worried

    I am a new Air Force wife living in Asheville NC.  Obviously I don't have the same support that I would if I were on base but I think I am doing ok with that part.  The part I am having trouble with is that I knew that at some point my husband would have to be deployed...
    BearKat BearKat 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel
    alyannj93 alyannj93 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    hi everyone. my name is tiffany

    and im a 38 yr old mom of 2, my husband is currently deployed in afghanistan. im new to this military life u can say its kind of a civilian in transition process..lol...but anyhow, im here on this site to hopefully chat with other military wives or girlfriends and to get advice...
    aSargeantsWife38 aSargeantsWife38 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Confused Nervous and Upset

     i understand what all these military wife mean. I just recently got married a month ago to my bf who is in the army. He will be gone for a year. Plans were changed so many times that i knew i wasnt going to be able to live with him where he was stationed. we had our...
    svazquez78 svazquez78 26-30 9 Responses Nov 12, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    New To This Life

    My husband is in the process of signing with the National Guard. I'm still trying to wrap ky head around it. We have two young children and have been married for almost 10 years.
    rosie830 rosie830 31-35, F Mar 12, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just Got Married October 24th,2011

    My husband is at patriot academy and i am lonely as hell. i miss him like crazy and just want him home. patriot academy was only supposed to be 4 months and now it looks more like 6 but there is no way to be sure. i hate that i cant be in his arms, i cant kiss him, i cant just...
    asgutierrez asgutierrez 18-21, F Mar 19, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To Mail to Your Loves One

    I just found out that you can go on line to united states postal service and order boxs free of charges for Priority mail to be shipped to your house.. so you can mail your husband things while he is deployed.You pay for it to be shipped that is all...I went to the post...
    sunflowern4u2 sunflowern4u2 22-25, F Sep 27, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Wonderful New Begining

    Well i am not sure how new is viewed here but myself and my hubby just got married march 22nd.  I lived in another town with my exhusband who wasnt military but never the less took me away from home.  When i moved back from out of town i met up with an old friend...
    georgiapeach04 georgiapeach04 18-21, F Nov 19, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel
    haleycole haleycole 18-21, F Aug 13, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sort of Scared

    I met my husband 2 1/2 years ago. I swear it was love at first sight we were best friends for a year and then started to date. We got married on November 10th 2007 and he left for Basic on the November 13th.  I Love Him with ALL my heart! He is in the Air Force and...
    BriBabe1986 BriBabe1986 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't want to go on a rant

    but I'm having a really rough time with the whole deployment thing I think my husband is a little stressed out at how much I love to hear from him just to know he's okay I honestly don't bother him that much or talk to him. We speak maybe once every other day or once every two...
    SpiritDancer4227 SpiritDancer4227 22-25, F Sep 20, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 14, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Missing My Hubby While He's In Tech School. But It Sure Beats Being In Bmt

    My husband is away at Tech School right now. But at least it's close by, only 45 minutes away:) Just counting down the days until he get ATP (phase) so I can pick him up for the weekend. Eeek=)
    xxusafwife xxusafwife 22-25, F May 12, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Fort Benning, Ga

    Hey ladies. So in the past I've met so many wonderful ladies who have helped me so much with my ex being in the army, so I thought Id come back. Well, a month ago I married my wonderful husband, and he just recently left for BCT 2 weeks ago at Fort Benning. I'm curious to know if...
    Tabbie121712 Tabbie121712 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Casting Military Girls!

    Are you in love with a man in the military? We’re currently looking for girls of all ages NATIONWIDE that want to share their unique love stories for an exciting new television project. DId you just recently become a military girlfriend/fiancé/wife or have you been strong...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews 22-25, F Jan 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    New Navy Wife And Loving It (:

    Hi, name is chelsea and i am a new navy wife . my husband is an ET and will work on a sub when we get to our next duty station in less than 2 months (fingers crossed for california). i am so proud and excited to be a wife but i am nervous about a new move and him being on a...
    mrschelseabailey mrschelseabailey 18-21, F Jan 7, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Looking For Some Advice!

    So the past 6 months have been crazy between leaving for basic, graduating bmt, going to tech school, getting married and now about to graduate tech school. We got married in July and he received orders about a month ago that we were going to Tyndall AFB. He went last week to get...
    proudafgirlfriend22 proudafgirlfriend22 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Soon To Be A Navy Wife...

    My fiancé and I met in high school 7 1/2 years ago. We went to college together, I graduated a year ahead of him, and started a full-time job in our hometown. After he graduated college, he also commissioned as an officer into the US Navy. Now he is in flight school, and I get...
    thefuturemsmass12 thefuturemsmass12 22-25, F Mar 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Newly Married

    My husband and I got married july 10th and left for basic august 17th, I know the emptiness I feel, and would like to talk to others in my situation, maybe even those who have had their significant other leave the same day as mine did. This is the first time my husband and I have...
    candie18 candie18 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am a New Military Wife

    i am a new military wife whos husband is deployed untill june 2008.  will be moving to fort bragg then. im so new to this im just trying to fin other ives for suppot
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 2, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What Do I Do?

    I'm a new military spouse and I am experiencing my first deployment. My fiance is one of the most caring and loving men I have ever met but things have changed since hes been over there. He used to always be concerned about me. I got sick when he was away for about 2 months and I...
    usafwife2111 usafwife2111 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 23, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    My husband left for Navy bootcamp yesterday. We have a 16 month old, and it's been hard the past 24 hours. (And he's gone for 8 weeks). I feel so alone and like there's something...
    lindsey628 lindsey628 18-21, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I talked to the Army recruiters today. I got information from them, now I just need to talk to some veterans and get their advice. I am not sure what job I want in the military yet...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well I finally got all the medical clearance paper work done, finished changing names and insurance and today I'm calling about places to live at our new base. I also turned in my...
    Tiffanyj52 Tiffanyj52 18-21, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's hard not getting to talk to him as we use to I know that it's going to be like that because he's working but It's tough not being able to not call him like 24/7 😂 because...
    Trinityhester318 Trinityhester318 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hello all! I just wanted to say first and foremost I am not a military girlfriend however, I am a substance abuse and clinical counseling student who would love to know what your...
    tozourj15 tozourj15 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    hello everyone, I'm new to this site. my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, not to mention this is my longest relationship I've had, and he is in the army. recently...
    COzuna11 COzuna11 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Message me if you want to talk about anything! I am new on here and I am looking for some friends ! xx
    hayleya123 hayleya123 18-21, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm excited to soon be the wife of a widower. I have been with my widower for 4 long joyous years. Don't get me wrong it has had its trying and hurtful times. How am I to feel when...
    lettiebaby79 lettiebaby79 36-40, F Feb 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Is any of the other newly weds having trouble getting all their paperwork signed and stuff by the military for medical clearance??? Ughhh it's so frustrating...
    Tiffanyj52 Tiffanyj52 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My family used to be in the military so we moved around a lot, especially when I was young. Making friends has always been hard for me. I was always the new kid, or the friends...
    Lacrimosadies Lacrimosadies 18-21, F Feb 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met my boyfriend in high school we did not start dating until he left for the military.we had 2 week together than 2 years apart .He was station in Japan and he was deployed in...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Im a fiancee of a soon to be marine i have been with him and engaged for 5 months and he leaves in may for basic and he wants to get married right away but my parents and his...
    Danielle090715 Danielle090715 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Does anyone else notice that they are starting to like being alone? And the only person they'd enjoy being with is their man? And since you can have him, you just rather be alone...
    jellybelly1217 jellybelly1217 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    my boyfriend and I got together when he was on leave recently so I'm fairly new to this dating someone in the military. his birthday is the day before Valentine's Day so I want to...
    gibbsashlee6 gibbsashlee6 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My heart is currently in my stomach. I am a firm believer in God, I know he always has a plan and will take care of us. Not even an hour ago my soldier said he needed to call me...
    maryashlyn maryashlyn 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm hoping someone here can help me! I've been thinking up valentines gift ideas and I have a pretty good one, I just can't seem to find what's in my head online. Since he's fairly...
    mallorylauren mallorylauren 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Anyone deal with the military tearing your relationship apart .Me and my bf been together on and off for 5 years .I only see him for 2 weeks or a month than I won't see him for 2...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend and I live together and he just left for BMT a week ago. I keep trying to think of all the positive things but keep finding myself down all the time. I'm trying to...
    muddyboots7 muddyboots7 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm moving to Goose Creek, South Carolina this week to be with my husband in navy nuke school. Any wives in the area with husbands in that program? It would be nice to be able to...
    madisonkinder madisonkinder 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25