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I Am a New Military Wife

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    New To This Life

    My husband is in the process of signing with the National Guard. I'm still trying to wrap ky head around it. We have two young children and have been married for almost 10 years.
    rosie830 rosie830 31-35, F Mar 12, 2012

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    What Happens Now

    Me and my husband werent together very long.  We met June 18th of 07 and married 5 and a half months later on Dec 1st.  He was supposed to deploy in Jan but was switched to a differant area whiched only caused problems.  First he was deploying in June then they...
    MrsKnutson MrsKnutson 16-18, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2008

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    Wonderful New Begining

    Well i am not sure how new is viewed here but myself and my hubby just got married march 22nd.  I lived in another town with my exhusband who wasnt military but never the less took me away from home.  When i moved back from out of town i met up with an old friend...
    georgiapeach04 georgiapeach04 21-25, F Nov 19, 2007

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    Confused Nervous and Upset

     i understand what all these military wife mean. I just recently got married a month ago to my bf who is in the army. He will be gone for a year. Plans were changed so many times that i knew i wasnt going to be able to live with him where he was stationed. we had our...
    svazquez78 svazquez78 26-30 9 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    Fort Benning, Ga

    Hey ladies. So in the past I've met so many wonderful ladies who have helped me so much with my ex being in the army, so I thought Id come back. Well, a month ago I married my wonderful husband, and he just recently left for BCT 2 weeks ago at Fort Benning. I'm curious to know if...
    Tabbie121712 Tabbie121712 18-21, F Jan 23, 2013

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    Soon To Be A Navy Wife...

    My fiancé and I met in high school 7 1/2 years ago. We went to college together, I graduated a year ahead of him, and started a full-time job in our hometown. After he graduated college, he also commissioned as an officer into the US Navy. Now he is in flight school, and I get...
    thefuturemsmass12 thefuturemsmass12 22-25, F Mar 30, 2012

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    New and a Little Worried

    I am a new Air Force wife living in Asheville NC.  Obviously I don't have the same support that I would if I were on base but I think I am doing ok with that part.  The part I am having trouble with is that I knew that at some point my husband would have to be deployed...
    BearKat BearKat 21-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2007

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    Looking For Some Advice!

    So the past 6 months have been crazy between leaving for basic, graduating bmt, going to tech school, getting married and now about to graduate tech school. We got married in July and he received orders about a month ago that we were going to Tyndall AFB. He went last week to get...
    proudafgirlfriend22 proudafgirlfriend22 18-21, F Sep 7, 2013

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    Newly Married

    My husband and I got married july 10th and left for basic august 17th, I know the emptiness I feel, and would like to talk to others in my situation, maybe even those who have had their significant other leave the same day as mine did. This is the first time my husband and I have...
    candie18 candie18 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    What Do I Do?

    I'm a new military spouse and I am experiencing my first deployment. My fiance is one of the most caring and loving men I have ever met but things have changed since hes been over there. He used to always be concerned about me. I got sick when he was away for about 2 months and I...
    usafwife2111 usafwife2111 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 23, 2008

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    Casting Military Girls!

    Are you in love with a man in the military? We’re currently looking for girls of all ages NATIONWIDE that want to share their unique love stories for an exciting new television project. DId you just recently become a military girlfriend/fiancé/wife or have you been strong...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews 22-25, F Jan 23, 2013

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    New And Young Military Wife

    My husband and I were together for a year and four months and we just got married December 19, 2012. I love him with all my heart, and he is now at Ft. WainWright, Alaska. I want to go with him so bad, but he doesn't want me to come because he is concerned about the cold. What...
    pumpkin777 pumpkin777 18-21 Dec 27, 2012

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    Just Got Married October 24th,2011

    My husband is at patriot academy and i am lonely as hell. i miss him like crazy and just want him home. patriot academy was only supposed to be 4 months and now it looks more like 6 but there is no way to be sure. i hate that i cant be in his arms, i cant kiss him, i cant just...
    asgutierrez asgutierrez 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    hi everyone. my name is tiffany

    and im a 38 yr old mom of 2, my husband is currently deployed in afghanistan. im new to this military life u can say its kind of a civilian in transition process..lol...but anyhow, im here on this site to hopefully chat with other military wives or girlfriends and to get advice...
    aSargeantsWife38 aSargeantsWife38 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Just Got Married October 24th,2011

    My husband is at patriot academy and i am lonely as hell. i miss him like crazy and just want him home. patriot academy was only supposed to be 4 months and now it looks more like 6 but there is no way to be sure. i hate that i cant be in his arms, i cant kiss him, i cant just...
    asgutierrez asgutierrez 18-21, F Mar 19, 2012

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    I Am a New Military Wife

    i am a new military wife whos husband is deployed untill june 2008.  will be moving to fort bragg then. im so new to this im just trying to fin other ives for suppot
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 2, 2008

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    To Mail to Your Loves One

    I just found out that you can go on line to united states postal service and order boxs free of charges for Priority mail to be shipped to your house.. so you can mail your husband things while he is deployed.You pay for it to be shipped that is all...I went to the post...
    sunflowern4u2 sunflowern4u2 22-25, F Sep 27, 2008

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    Sort of Scared

    I met my husband 2 1/2 years ago. I swear it was love at first sight we were best friends for a year and then started to date. We got married on November 10th 2007 and he left for Basic on the November 13th.  I Love Him with ALL my heart! He is in the Air Force and...
    BriBabe1986 BriBabe1986 19-21, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2008

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    Missing My Hubby While He's In Tech School. But It Sure Beats Being In Bmt

    My husband is away at Tech School right now. But at least it's close by, only 45 minutes away:) Just counting down the days until he get ATP (phase) so I can pick him up for the weekend. Eeek=)
    xxusafwife xxusafwife 22-25, F May 12, 2012

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    New Navy Wife And Loving It (:

    Hi, name is chelsea and i am a new navy wife . my husband is an ET and will work on a sub when we get to our next duty station in less than 2 months (fingers crossed for california). i am so proud and excited to be a wife but i am nervous about a new move and him being on a...
    mrschelseabailey mrschelseabailey 18-21, F Jan 7, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am having bad run ins with military spouses an I try to be nice, but a few have been rude. What would you do?
    poshshiny poshshiny 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Anyone the wife of a drill sergeant? My husband will be going to training to become one and I was wondering what to expect. I know somewhat of what to expect.
    momof289 momof289 22-25, F Jun 29

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    I married my husband November 6th 2013. He is an army veteran. (Infantry and ranger). We married each other after 3 month of chatting back and forth. Then meeting a few weeks later...
    RebeccaReynolds RebeccaReynolds 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    My "boyfriend" and I aren't technically dating. He treats me like his girlfriend and calls me his baby girl and princess and stuff but we have an online relationship!! He lives 3...
    SavannahLatimer SavannahLatimer 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    So, I haven't been on this website in years and so much has changed since I last logged off. First things first, I am no longer a girlfriend! We eloped on March 19, 2014 in a...
    sarashay sarashay 18-21, F Jul 8

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    Any one of you guys have a husband who would know how to get back in the Navy? My boyfriend got an honorable discharge a few years ago while he was in BUDS. He is the most hard...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I want to get my own apArtment due to the fact that I won't be going to japan . I feel as tho since I'm a married woman I should have my own place . Simply because I'm tired of...
    keyonna95 keyonna95 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    My husband is deployed currently and I know I am a strong woman, but why are some nights unbearable? I just want him home! I hate deployments...
    wwtiernan wwtiernan 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    we be cheesing.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
    ahoyitsbailey ahoyitsbailey 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I am talking to a guy in the navy, he just graduated from dive school, only about 30 mins from me, he moved to another base about 30 mins the other way, to go to EOD school... He's...
    mrbctb2012 mrbctb2012 22-25, F Jul 17

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    I don't understand why my love thinks I'm going to leave him or do something to lose him. I'm here staying completely faithful not even living my life to make him happy. Is what I...
    MEGANELIZABETH716 MEGANELIZABETH716 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have a question I recently got married and been getting things squared away so our housing will come through but everyone went on leave a few days after we turned in are housing...
    aconner324 aconner324 18-21, F Jun 30

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    I'm a new military girlfriend and new onto this site as well not sure how it works but my marine is deployed and it sucked not spending his birthday together we actually haven't...
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a new military girlfriend...new to the entire military lifestyle and have no idea what I'm getting myself into!.. I'm hoping to find support from strong women who know what...
    MissKay6 MissKay6 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm not exactly where to begin with the huge transition that has happened in my life during this year. I guess we can start off by saying me and my high school sweetheart eloped...
    sarashay sarashay 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I am a recently new military girlfriend. My boyfriend was sent on deployment in September 2013 and has come back in June 2014. He's done his long time so hopefully wont be going...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I have suspected my wife of having an emotional affair around 5 months. In that time she reassured me countless times that he is not her type, he is not as sexy as me and there...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Hello everyone!.. I am new to this "new experience" however I have been looking for support for a very long time so I am really hoping that this will help me!..I am a new...
    MissKay6 MissKay6 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I just purchased my plane ticket and in exactly 8 days 9hours and 10 minutes I'll be in Kentucky with my husband in our new home together. We've been through everything we never...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 16, my boyfriend is 17 turning 18 in Jan. so basically I'm a sophomore (Late bday) & he's a senior. Anyways he's leaving for basic training once he graduates and I have no idea...
    dalicervantes dalicervantes 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost ten months. He is in the national guard and once a month he goes to drill just for the weekend. Yesterday he left for annual training...
    cryst9876 cryst9876 18-21, F Jul 12

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    While I may not be new to the military life, Im new to being the girlfriend of a soldier. I've known my significant other since I wsas ten, over fifteen years ago, but just started...
    wishuponastar88 wishuponastar88 26-30, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My first boyfriend, first love of my life, first relationship with anyone turned into me becoming a military girlfriend. But it wasn't always like this, before my boyfriend told me...
    aliyacharles aliyacharles 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    So since we have gotten married a lot of things have been moving along. My name is officially changed! We got offered a house on base and it's even better then the one we wanted...
    Trueinfinity Trueinfinity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Do NOT add me unless you're a military girlfriend, fiance or wife. There's no reason for me to be in your circle if you're not any of those!! I'm tired of creep guys putting me in...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend's now a marine and I'm just more than proud of him for that. He just graduated to become a marine mid late june, he was home for 10 days and he just left back to san...
    jannette7 jannette7 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Anyone ever go to a military ball?? If so, was it worth the price and cost of the dress uniform?
    AFWifeK AFWifeK 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm reading "The 5 Love Languages" Military Edition. Any one else going through this book with their spouse?
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 2 days ago

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