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I Am a New Military Wife

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    To Mail to Your Loves One

    I just found out that you can go on line to united states postal service and order boxs free of charges for Priority mail to be shipped to your house.. so you can mail your husband things while he is deployed.You pay for it to be shipped that is all...I went to the post...
    sunflowern4u2 sunflowern4u2 22-25, F Sep 27, 2008

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    Wonderful New Begining

    Well i am not sure how new is viewed here but myself and my hubby just got married march 22nd.  I lived in another town with my exhusband who wasnt military but never the less took me away from home.  When i moved back from out of town i met up with an old friend...
    georgiapeach04 georgiapeach04 21-25, F Nov 19, 2007

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    Newly Married

    My husband and I got married july 10th and left for basic august 17th, I know the emptiness I feel, and would like to talk to others in my situation, maybe even those who have had their significant other leave the same day as mine did. This is the first time my husband and I have...
    candie18 candie18 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    What Happens Now

    Me and my husband werent together very long.  We met June 18th of 07 and married 5 and a half months later on Dec 1st.  He was supposed to deploy in Jan but was switched to a differant area whiched only caused problems.  First he was deploying in June then they...
    MrsKnutson MrsKnutson 16-18, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2008

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    Casting Military Girls!

    Are you in love with a man in the military? We’re currently looking for girls of all ages NATIONWIDE that want to share their unique love stories for an exciting new television project. DId you just recently become a military girlfriend/fiancé/wife or have you been strong...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews 22-25, F Jan 23, 2013

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    Confused Nervous and Upset

     i understand what all these military wife mean. I just recently got married a month ago to my bf who is in the army. He will be gone for a year. Plans were changed so many times that i knew i wasnt going to be able to live with him where he was stationed. we had our...
    svazquez78 svazquez78 26-30 9 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    New And Young Military Wife

    My husband and I were together for a year and four months and we just got married December 19, 2012. I love him with all my heart, and he is now at Ft. WainWright, Alaska. I want to go with him so bad, but he doesn't want me to come because he is concerned about the cold. What...
    pumpkin777 pumpkin777 18-21 Dec 27, 2012

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    I Am a New Military Wife

    i am a new military wife whos husband is deployed untill june 2008.  will be moving to fort bragg then. im so new to this im just trying to fin other ives for suppot
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 2, 2008

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    New Navy Wife And Loving It (:

    Hi, name is chelsea and i am a new navy wife . my husband is an ET and will work on a sub when we get to our next duty station in less than 2 months (fingers crossed for california). i am so proud and excited to be a wife but i am nervous about a new move and him being on a...
    mrschelseabailey mrschelseabailey 18-21, F Jan 7, 2012

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    Soon To Be A Navy Wife...

    My fiancé and I met in high school 7 1/2 years ago. We went to college together, I graduated a year ahead of him, and started a full-time job in our hometown. After he graduated college, he also commissioned as an officer into the US Navy. Now he is in flight school, and I get...
    thefuturemsmass12 thefuturemsmass12 22-25, F Mar 30, 2012

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    Looking For Some Advice!

    So the past 6 months have been crazy between leaving for basic, graduating bmt, going to tech school, getting married and now about to graduate tech school. We got married in July and he received orders about a month ago that we were going to Tyndall AFB. He went last week to get...
    proudafgirlfriend22 proudafgirlfriend22 18-21, F Sep 7, 2013

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    New To This Life

    My husband is in the process of signing with the National Guard. I'm still trying to wrap ky head around it. We have two young children and have been married for almost 10 years.
    rosie830 rosie830 31-35, F Mar 12, 2012

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    hi everyone. my name is tiffany

    and im a 38 yr old mom of 2, my husband is currently deployed in afghanistan. im new to this military life u can say its kind of a civilian in transition process..lol...but anyhow, im here on this site to hopefully chat with other military wives or girlfriends and to get advice...
    aSargeantsWife38 aSargeantsWife38 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Fort Benning, Ga

    Hey ladies. So in the past I've met so many wonderful ladies who have helped me so much with my ex being in the army, so I thought Id come back. Well, a month ago I married my wonderful husband, and he just recently left for BCT 2 weeks ago at Fort Benning. I'm curious to know if...
    Tabbie121712 Tabbie121712 18-21, F Jan 23, 2013

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    Missing My Hubby While He's In Tech School. But It Sure Beats Being In Bmt

    My husband is away at Tech School right now. But at least it's close by, only 45 minutes away:) Just counting down the days until he get ATP (phase) so I can pick him up for the weekend. Eeek=)
    xxusafwife xxusafwife 22-25, F May 12, 2012

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    New and a Little Worried

    I am a new Air Force wife living in Asheville NC.  Obviously I don't have the same support that I would if I were on base but I think I am doing ok with that part.  The part I am having trouble with is that I knew that at some point my husband would have to be deployed...
    BearKat BearKat 21-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2007

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    Sort of Scared

    I met my husband 2 1/2 years ago. I swear it was love at first sight we were best friends for a year and then started to date. We got married on November 10th 2007 and he left for Basic on the November 13th.  I Love Him with ALL my heart! He is in the Air Force and...
    BriBabe1986 BriBabe1986 19-21, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2008

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    Just Got Married October 24th,2011

    My husband is at patriot academy and i am lonely as hell. i miss him like crazy and just want him home. patriot academy was only supposed to be 4 months and now it looks more like 6 but there is no way to be sure. i hate that i cant be in his arms, i cant kiss him, i cant just...
    asgutierrez asgutierrez 18-21, F Mar 19, 2012

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    What Do I Do?

    I'm a new military spouse and I am experiencing my first deployment. My fiance is one of the most caring and loving men I have ever met but things have changed since hes been over there. He used to always be concerned about me. I got sick when he was away for about 2 months and I...
    usafwife2111 usafwife2111 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 23, 2008

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    Just Got Married October 24th,2011

    My husband is at patriot academy and i am lonely as hell. i miss him like crazy and just want him home. patriot academy was only supposed to be 4 months and now it looks more like 6 but there is no way to be sure. i hate that i cant be in his arms, i cant kiss him, i cant just...
    asgutierrez asgutierrez 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am almost 20 years old and as of January a new navy wife. My husband gradated boot camp in October and got stationed almost 9 hours away from where we used to live. I recently...
    watson13 watson13 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm gay (lesbian) and married into the military. I got married to get away from a bad situation and I am in a *better situation but I'm still gay on a straight/christian-y military...
    KLynnMarie KLynnMarie 18-21, F Apr 7

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    My husband is deployed and honestly, I'm just very lonely and I'm tired of it
    sam3294 sam3294 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    Can't wait to be in his arms again
    sam3294 sam3294 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I NEED ADVICE! I am flying to Germany in a couple weeks to go live with my husband there for 3 years. We have a young son who is 1 1/2. I need to know things I can do to keep him...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela 18-21, F Mar 29

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    Sometimes I feel so alone. I just wish e was here. I'm trying to be as positive as I can but right now it's so hard for me. I want him home.
    Dobermeier Dobermeier 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Got my first phone call today but missed his call because I was at softball practice. Feeling pretty ****** right now
    Dobermeier Dobermeier 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    He's here these days and im so happy bout it!!he's done wit BCT btw he's going to AIT...btw everytime he'd kiss me xD I thought he would change but...he's still the sweet same guy...
    ardesia ardesia 18-21, F Apr 10

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    He just left yesterday...oh...i miss him already 😥...
    ardesia ardesia 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    So my dad told my boyfriend's mother that my boyfriend and I won't last because we're going in "two different directions" in our lives. My boyfriend was devastated when he heard...
    tsmith25 tsmith25 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Anyone else hate when people say "military wife/girlfriend, hardest job in the ____ " ? It's like...well , you know, I'm not the one on submarine or a boat or in some foreign...
    Sierragoneau Sierragoneau 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Being a military wife, the most dreaded word we hear is deployment. When said, we do not hear this word for what it is. We hear danger. We hear loneliness. We hear sacrifice. But...
    Mrs1105 Mrs1105 18-21, F Apr 8

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    To the Hoe's on Ep named Jessica, Ruby, Etc...FIND yourself a single Man & leave my husband alone. You ladies wont stop calling & texting his phone, your lucky I haven't answer...
    LeaveMyHusbandAlone LeaveMyHusbandAlone 26-30, F 13 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    My engagement ring from my Marine :) can't wait to embark on this new journey with him <3 any military wives have some advice for a soon to be marine wife? I've been a military...
    lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Just wanting peoples take on the situation: My husband still has his name on a house with his ex wife. During the divorce it was made that he has no obligation to the house but it...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hey ladies! So I'm a fairly new Marine girlfriend. I met my Marine through my stepmom.... ironically her boss is his mother. :) She knew about me from talks with my stepmom and...
    JELarson3514 JELarson3514 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    So I haven't really been on here in a while and I guess you can say its because the man that I fell in love with and thought was my soldier has ended things with me. Basically I...
    Cierraaa15 Cierraaa15 18-21 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm about to become a military girlfriend :(
    MyrkaEspinoza MyrkaEspinoza 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Haven't posted in a while because everything has been so hectic. I AM ENGAGED!!! My soldier is at basic training right now and sent me a letter asking me to go with him where ever...
    meliamill meliamill 18-21 Apr 1

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    Hey ladies! So I'm a fairly new Marine girlfriend. I met my Marine through my stepmom.... ironically her boss is his mother. :) She knew about me from talks with my stepmom and...
    JELarson3514 JELarson3514 26-30, F Apr 4

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    I'm looking for someone who has gone through a boyfriend/ girlfriend/fiancé/ husband/or wife leaving for the marines or any branch of the military. My fiancé ships off to basic...
    ScaredyKatH ScaredyKatH 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Newbie - ive been on this site before but never really payed much attention to it. Yesterday my friend made an account here and he told me to make one too, turns out this place is...
    missleadingthoughts missleadingthoughts 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    As the significant other of someone in the military, you know. You know what it’s like to wonder if he’s okay. You know what it’s like to lay awake at night and wonder if he...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    So I was thinking about getting news that your loved one will be gone longer than originally planned, or there is some other unforeseen event that prevents you from seeing them as...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Apr 1

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    Sometimes the military sucks. But you get out of it what you put into it. If your going to be one of those people who just complains that your soldier is gone or cant be with and...
    lmsabatino lmsabatino 22-25, F Apr 10

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    I have been thinking about it. I have made a few friends in college who were in the military. I'd never personally known anyone before who had served. And while I used to not like...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    I support all military personnel; both men and women alike, in our American armed forces. My husband has now retired from the military after 23 years of service. I have two sons...
    momwithcleavage momwithcleavage 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I may not like you. I don't like the way you smell, your breath always smells of rotting milk. I don't like the way you talk, it's always too loud. I don't like the way you want to...
    heymunoz heymunoz 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    anyone in the NY/CT area? Im new to the military life and would like to make some new friends :)
    smRose smRose 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    New EP female now. Looking to chatting and sharing with others.
    femalesimplybeautiful femalesimplybeautiful 41-45, F 7 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    who lives in New Zealand? i want more friends on here that are closer to home
    OrranM OrranM 18-21, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I'm new to this whole thing lol lets have some fun? ;*
    MissMaddi MissMaddi 18-21, F 14 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Hello folks, I am new here too. So far the site looks ok. Trying to find ppl with similar upbringing/culture....hard to gel with my american friends here in US. I thought this...
    diana19 diana19 18-21, F 5 Responses 46 mins ago