I Am a Nice Guy

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    Nice guys finish last.

    .. because we last longer ?
    wiredwolf wiredwolf
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    If you ever thought was it to be in a bed with

    a very fat Windragon , then it´s your chance hehe >:3
    FattyShiron FattyShiron
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2015

    Well, I'd Like to Think So...

    ...I think we're all fundamentally nice;  all good people.  That's why we're here, right?
    alobar alobar
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Jul 17, 2007

    I'm everything women say they want: I'm

    honest I'm loyal I'm respectful I'm attentive I'm funny I know how to communicate I'm affectionate, even when I know sex isn't going to happen I'm family orientated I'm intelligent Except I'm fat... and apparently a well trained German Shepard.
    ausofbounds ausofbounds
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jun 30, 2014

    I am a nice guy who treats people politely

    and with respect and therefore I always end up last. I have a lot of friends (boys and girls) and I have been told several times that I am a nice person. I also noticed that girls go after jerks and as*holes who would leave them with broken hearts and wet cheeks. Not just that...
    Razor00Edge Razor00Edge
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 6, 2014
    Tayzdn Tayzdn
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 17, 2014

    A Nice Guy, But With Limits.

    I am a nice guy. I help other and enjoy seeing other people succeed in life. During my college years I was the guy the would help a girl move with a few hours notice, change the oil in her car, or help her out in many different ways. To be direct, I was used and chumped many...
    painofshame painofshame
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Dec 16, 2012

    My Reason For Being An Uncommonly Gentle Man.

    The reason I am the way I am is because of my parents. I've always been very close to my mom and growing up I would always have to witness my dad being a complete @$$hole most of the time and it would hurt my moms feelings and even make her cry sometimes. So I promised myself...
    creuset creuset
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

    I Try

    I have always been just a nice guy. I never got why people are jerks to eachother. It just seems so stupid. People end up hating you when you are mean. I was always the kid to share my crayons hahaha. To girls I am always the nice one, even when they are not. :) I only...
    Superblink281 Superblink281
    18-21, M
    Mar 19, 2012

    I'm A Nice Guy

    I've been told by my friends that I'm a nice guy, and I guess they're right. I mean, I'm not mean to the people I care about, I don't put myself ahead of others, and I don't think I'm better than anyone just because I'm me. But it's true what they say: nice guys finish last, all...
    NoWayToGoOn NoWayToGoOn
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2010

    What I See

    What I am seeing in this group are the best that men have to offer. I'm also seeing a group of men weighed down by a phrase. "Nice guy" has too much baggage with it. It screams "door mat" or "milquetoast." We are more than that. I see here men who are capable of dealing with...
    yetti1973 yetti1973
    41-45, M
    May 27, 2013

    The Best Gift

    During my Junior Year of high school, I switched to an online high school. I made a few friends through it, but one really stood out. We started talking a lot and we eventually confessed our feelings for one another. We hadn't gotten to meet in person, but I had talked to her...
    crow1990 crow1990
    26-30, M
    Jul 9, 2013

    I've always been the nice guy

    and it's never really paid off. None of the girls in high school or college were ever looking for the nice guy. I practically lived in the friend zone most of my life. I remember having flowers delivered for a girl in high school and all it did was result in all of her jock...
    bgood79 bgood79
    36-40, M
    Jun 22, 2015

    I feel like I'm such an outcast in my

    generation. I don't like going to house parties where dumb choices are going to be made , I don't do drugs and I'm so politically informed I'm not the slightest be interested in drama but most of all I hate the though of using girls or just casual sex. I want attachment. Mental...
    deleted deleted
    May 27, 2015

    I Could Never Be Mean to a Woman

    I am too nice for my own good. I cant browse this site without seeing some story that says "I want to be raped" or "Taken advantage of" Or "Oh, it makes me so horny when a man leaves me within inches of my life! I could ********** to my bf stabbing me...
    BoomSickle BoomSickle
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 26, 2008

    A Teddy Bear

    My fiancé (at the time) was telling me about a teddy bear she had when she was a little girl. It meant the world to her. At some point, she lost him. The wheels already turning in my head, I asked her to describe him to me. She did so, unaware that I was taking mental notes of...
    crow1990 crow1990
    26-30, M
    Jul 14, 2013

    The Worst April Fool's Joke

    I got a call from my girlfriend (at the time) one April Fool's Day. She said that she needed to tell me something, and asked me to come over right away. I had a feeling what she had to tell me. Even though I knew what day it was, I still knew that she wouldn't ever joke about...
    crow1990 crow1990
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 7, 2013

    So this one chick from my job is mad at me.

    I don't know why but it gets to a point that we stop talking and being friends. This lasts for months. And recently I found out from another friend that she is mad at me because I was teasing her with another female. I joke around a lot at work and she knew that, but I guess...
    VGod888 VGod888
    22-25, M
    Jul 13, 2014
    rubenr1002 rubenr1002
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Oct 29, 2014
    Theguy0298 Theguy0298
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 9, 2014

    I May not finish first,

    but Ill always finish Best.
    SShawnO SShawnO
    41-45, M
    Jun 11, 2014

    I am a nice guy, but I guess being will fulfill

    my needs of having a girlfriend. I was raise by my mother to a good person, respectful, kindness and then I become more wanting to help others like poor or the sick which I haven't meet any yet.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 8, 2014

    I am a nice guy only let good people in my world

    and hugs and flowers for all the ladies walking on earth
    yourtwist yourtwist
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 17, 2015
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    Im a lovely genuine sweet british guy i just

    people would give me a chance rsther than just jump to the conclussion that im just like every other guy who only wants 1 thing :( :(
    hotspot2016 hotspot2016
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 24, 2016

    Im Nice!!!

     im a nice guy, i admit it!!! im nice cos i was brought up to be nice, im nice cos its who i am, im nice cos i want to be nice, im nice cos i enjoy being nice!! im not going to act a bit more macho just to get a girl, and i dont need to be a backstabber or an *** licker just...
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    7 Responses Jan 24, 2010

    Nice Guys... Not For Young Women?

    I have heard it said that older women prefer nice guys. I think this is largely true. I believe that as women get older, they value security more than excitement. Sure excitement is valued but facing the reality of spending the rest of your life alone would cause any man or woman...
    Scorpio1987 Scorpio1987
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

    I Freely Admit To Being A Nice Guy.

    I was bought up to be. I have good manners and I care about people (too much sometimes).
    Adam42life Adam42life
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 4, 2011

    Most Of The Time Anyways.

    I like to think I'm a nice guy for the most part. I have my moments when I'm not so nice, but overall I'm a nice guy. I don't want anyone thinking I'm a push over or weak, because I'm not. I will standup for myself, my family and friends should the need arise, but in the...
    0ppa 0ppa
    36-40, M
    Oct 6, 2012

    What They Think A Nice Guy Is And What We Should Be.

    I've been asked why I reject the term "Nice Guy." It's simple really: it's not a compliment. It's not something to aspire too. On the surface it sounds alright. Being the definition of nice is "pleasing," "agreeable," or even "well done." There is a connotation to the phrase that...
    yetti1973 yetti1973
    41-45, M
    Jun 5, 2013

    After telling this woman how I felt

    and not receiving any feedback I got drunk last night. I proceeded to call her and make an *** of myself. why am I such an ***? what the **** do I do now. even if she doesn't want to be with me I still want to be friends down the road. why is she waiting to say something...
    watamesoulscw watamesoulscw
    26-30, M
    Oct 31, 2014

    Many assume I'm weak

    because I'm nice. They think I'm a pushover, and use that to get their way. The thing is, a guy can only take so much. Like the quote goes, "Even the devil was once an angel."
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 9, 2015

    im a nice guy with a kind heart

    but i never get given the chance to show it i just grt pushed aside
    mustangkid2021 mustangkid2021
    18-21, M
    Feb 3, 2015

    Couple days ago, some guy ripped me off

    for $200. I saw him yesterday and he was wanting to try another scam, but mentioned that it was his birthday (it really was, I saw his ID) and he needed the money to be able to party. I don't know the guy at all, but I know people have a hard life here -- I remember working for...
    sethrin sethrin
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 27, 2014

    I don't have a choice,

    I'm born again! Thank you Jesus!
    QuickandtheDead QuickandtheDead
    51-55, M
    Sep 23, 2014
    andrewD51 andrewD51
    18-21, M
    Sep 29, 2014

    It's official. Been told many times.

    Not sure it always works in my favour. But that's fine. I rather like being me!
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Oct 28, 2014

    I thin it's a shame that nice girls never seem

    to be interested in the nice guys. Even here some of the jerks ruin it because some of the girls won't talk to other guys who may very well be nice. Then again maybe nice guys finish last because the nice guys care about her and don't want to make a mistake so never get the girl...
    jlogan5000 jlogan5000
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    This app is closing soon

    so I just wanted everyone to know that I'm a guy not a girl lol. I know it not going to be a shocker or anything but YOLO.
    DirtyGirl696969 DirtyGirl696969
    18-21, F
    Apr 19, 2016

    Nice guys finish last?

    Nice guys don't finish at all.
    dontgitbit dontgitbit
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 12, 2015

    As a friend told me, probably too nice

    for my own damn good. Going in to work for a few hours...on my day off. It's a damn good thing for my bosses I mostly like them.
    Handyman25 Handyman25
    26-30, M
    Nov 7, 2015

    one of my coworkers was

    once telling me that all men are dogs. I stopped her and said yes maybe most or lots are dogs but not all. I also told her that I like to think of myself as a nice guy, and you can't call all men in the world dogs based on your few experiences of men.
    deleted deleted
    May 18, 2015

    Today, somebody said to me,

    "It made me feel inaducate." I didn't make fun of her. You're welcome, Jesus.
    DeGustibus DeGustibus
    31-35, M
    Jul 30, 2015

    A Tad Depressed.....

    Five yrs ago I began to lose blood, somewhere, for 5 yrs I was chronically anemic, finally surgery fixed that; then I tor both rotator cuff muscles...still exists, which is a bit of a problem since I am an active paraplegic of 36 yrs, played competitive basketball and tennis...
    Deek Deek
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2007

    17 Nice Guys

    out of HOW MANY And are you really nice too - there are many who pretend but are the worst always.
    Thought1 Thought1
    3 Responses Sep 30, 2009

    Being Yourself

    I'm beginning to wonder if being nice aka being yourself is going to get me anywhere. I don't believe in faking who I am just so I can get with the girl. In general, I'm a nice guy with values and morals. I hate to see people I like having relationship problems and still staying...
    jjas111 jjas111
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

    I Am A Nice Guy...

    ... but some might not think so. Those that don't think I'm nice might be judging my behavior here on EP... how can a nice guy be looking to have an affair with somebody? Good question... and I have no ready answer, except to say that the first person I need to be nice to is...
    jayhavinfun jayhavinfun
    51-55, M
    Nov 14, 2010

    God Always Has A Plan

    Right now, I'm at a point in life where I'm wondering if I'm headed in the right direction. I thought administration assisting is what I wanted to do but after thinking it through, I thought this isnt really for me. So now I'm taking next semester off to think about what it is I...
    jjas111 jjas111
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 9, 2011

    I'll Protect You

    In the Summer before my Sophomore year of high school, I was dating this one girl. I had really started talking to her during the Spring semester of Freshman year, and I immediately had a crush on her. During the Summer, I was able to spend time with her. Eventually, we started...
    crow1990 crow1990
    26-30, M
    May 18, 2013

    Honestly Its The One Thing I Dislike Most About Myself

    Yup, that I am too nice. I have gotten alot better over the years so I am not taken advantage of as much anymore. It was still frusterating tho because being my age, most women arent looking for a nice guy, they are out chasing after the bad boys and what not. But hey, thats...
    Krie Krie
    1 Response Nov 30, 2012

    Lost In Las Vegas

    I ended an abusive relationship going on two years. Our relationship was stormy for the most part. Her husband cheated on her with a secretary she hired for him, got her pregnant, abandoned her and the two kids (young adults) and she finds out the house was mortgaged over twice...
    Jan 10, 2013

    all of my life i have always done what i can

    for others from waiting to shower in the morning when living at home with my parents so not to wake them or my sistor at night, to doing all i can to help friends in any way at any time. i have been taken advantage of and manipulated and abused if you want to look at it that...
    bob926543 bob926543
    36-40, M
    Nov 7, 2015

    People have asked me

    why I'm so nice to people who have been mean to me. Honestly I'm nice to people because in cases they're hurting inside and want others to feel their pain. When I get a rude slur thrown at me or my friends I say sorry and walk away. I've lived by that since I was 8, I see...
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17
    18-21, M
    Jul 28, 2014

    The words Nice guys finish last always enter my

    brain whenever I'm nice to someone they take my kindness and use it to there advantage then when there done using me they throw me out like a wet rag I'm done being used no more mister nice guy. (damn two cliches in the same post)
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109
    18-21, M
    Jun 3, 2014

    even though i get upset,

    but i do get over it fast
    loveybugy loveybugy
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 8, 2014

    just don't mess with my friend

    or family or your see the over side of me
    matezz matezz
    18-21, M
    Oct 14, 2015
    Bloodycharmer Bloodycharmer
    26-30, M
    Jan 25, 2015

    Too nice that i always get friendzoned.

    Maybe i need to be meaner tougher.. make a girl crave me...want me
    mustangkid2025 mustangkid2025
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 16, 2015
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