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I Am a Nice Person

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    But I have such a hard time meeting new people.

    I'm so shy! Once I feel comfortable I'm okay but the first initial conversation with someone is so painful. Anyone else feel this way? It sucks. I have no friends anymore and it's so hard for me to make new ones.
    sheslikeariot sheslikeariot 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I Am A Nice Person

    I am nice to people when they talk to me.  I couldn't be otherwise it's  not in me to be nasty.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Jan 21, 2012

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    I have always been a nice person,

    which can be a pain in the ***. Yes it's awesome that people feel that they can come to you with anything, but some people take advantage of your niceness & see it as a license to use your as a doormat. So, although it's cool to be nice....don't let people walk all over you...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    Nice Guy Next Door

    I am a quiet average guy that likes to make the world a little better. I've always been involved with groups and worked in places where I feel like I am making the world a better place. My last adventure in making the world a little better was helping to organize a small...
    peteynj22 peteynj22 26-30, M Apr 30, 2011

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    Define Niceness

    I mean, in our society today, you cant really tell what being nice really is. How do you define niceness? Sometimes you try so hard and you think you're a nice person but it turns out you're not, i need a little help on this one
    jazzy93 jazzy93 16-17, F Jun 28, 2008

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    Nice Person

    Nice person,That's who I am,There's no other way,I'd rather be.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 8, 2012

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    I'm 14 and have only about 3 friends in real

    life and i am looking forward to making new friends :) and dont ask about any recent pics i dont have any
    Kanimaz Kanimaz 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I Think Most People Might Say ...

    I think most people might say that. I try to be, anyway.
    mspac mspac 21-25, F Sep 15, 2007

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    Nice Guy = Friend

    what is it with women they all say oh i just want to meet a nice guy, but if you are a nice guy you get nowhere with them. a couple of my friends keep telling me you can't be nice you have to treat them like dirt to get anywhere with them. i didn't want to believe it for the...
    sted sted 31-35, M 3 Responses May 29, 2007

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    Random Acts Of Kindness.

    The other day, I was doing homework for school (which I'm an A honor roll student) at Barns and Nobles, and I saw one of the employees struggling to clean off the kid's table, so I helped him out. I organized some of the books for him and put away some of the stuffed animals, and...
    soccerbeast soccerbeast 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2011

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    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Shanequa18 Shanequa18 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Like My Mama Said "she's Sweet And Nice But She's Not That Nice"

    LOL.............I guess what she meant is I am a very giving and loving person. I am affectionate and I show it. I am a Sagg and have a Scorpio rising so I am more like a Scorpio where this is concerned. Don't back me in a corner, try to cage me or put me down without knowing...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 10, 2010

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    sanusii2 sanusii2 22-25, F Mar 14, 2012

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    I Am Nice Most of the Time. ...

    I am nice most of the time. I used to be nice all the time. I don't know what happened that changed me, but I am not afraid to stand up for myself anymore. I actually tend to be pretty mean when someone messes with me now. Most of the time, I am nice to everyone. I will let a...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 14, 2007

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    (((grin)))

    I'm not here to insinuate favors, But I think I'm a nice person. (((grins)))
    zephyr2005 zephyr2005 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2011

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    Isn't It Nice?

    Did you laugh just a little? Did a smile cross your face? Did you feel the ice around your heart slowly begin to melt? Do you want me to continue? Do you really want me there? Isn't it nice to have a friend? To share-To care- Isn't it nice?
    LadyLouisiana LadyLouisiana 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    I like to think i'm a nice person,

    very open minded and willing to help people out when they need it
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Jan 19

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    "Nice"

    Even though 'nice' to one person may not mean the same to another, I believe that I am a nice person. I don't abuse my partner, I'm not cruel to animals, I say my pleases and thank yous, I hold doors open for those following me though the door and I try to see the good in other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 28, 2013

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    Mrs. Nice Girl

    I am a nice person, at least I like to think that I am. I would give anyone anything I had if they needed it. I just have an issue with alot of people taking advantage of my niceness. Ive had it happen quite a few times. I guess Im just an easy target. I suck it up and move on...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 15, 2007

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    Why I Think I'm a Nice Person

    Now this is funny 'cause almost everyone thinks that he/she is nice- no difference here.  I think i'm nice because: I look for the good in people, not the bad. I don't pick flowers, i leave them on the tree so that they can brighten someone else's day. I...
    Candita Candita 22-25, F 6 Responses May 1, 2007

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    I consider myself a very nice person

    and easy to get along with.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F Jan 10

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    I love being friendly to people.

    Sometimes I feel like I give off the wrong message though :/ I tend to be somewhat guarded, which I'm trying to get past, and i feel like people think i'm sort of hostile sometimes, but when interacting with others, I love to build friendships and get to know other people...
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I am a really nice person.

    I would give someone the shirt off my back. If someone is rude to me or rude to others for no reason then I will be rude back. I can't stand rude people.
    kobe14 kobe14 22-25, F Dec 17, 2013

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    Kill Them With Kindness

    Today someone told me that the reason why so many mistreat me is because I'm "too nice". That my positive behavior towards other people is to blame for other people's malevolence. See, I just don't agree with that. I am not a spineless creature, that has no courage or common...
    saddah22 saddah22 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    I Know Why.

    LOTS of girls say,"I want a nice guy but none are real.", which is usually responded with, "They are everywhere! Why don't you notice US!" And through a lot of research I THINK I have found out why. Some people think that,"It's because they don't talk to women."(P.S. I'm a nice...
    rob36611 rob36611 13-15, M Jul 14, 2012

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    Outlet Wars

    I wandered into a popular coffee chain with my laptop in tow, ready to hunker down and write out a few brilliant pages of fiction. I had brought along my charger because my battery was low, so of course was submitted to the embarrassing situation of poking your head around...
    Ronsunny Ronsunny 22-25, F Nov 28, 2012

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    I been told I am 2 nice.

    Like in middle school and high school I would write people essays people that didn't deserve the help. I just like to give and I always expect not to receive
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    8tattoos 8tattoos 70+, M Aug 4

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    There are a lot of sick people on here.

    It has gone downhill since I first joined. I can't share an experience or story in the last month without having to delete it because of sick, disgusting and/or rude comments. What ever happened to... "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all". Makes me worry...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I Need Your Assistance

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    fweshboi09 fweshboi09 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2012

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    I've always been a nice person.

    I hold doors open for people, I help somebody when they drop something, I'm always friendly. I always think that I am to friendly. I think, what if I dropped something, would this person help me?
    ificutmyhairhawaiiwillsink ificutmyhairhawaiiwillsink 18-21, M 1 Response May 28

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    Don't show that trait to much.

    Why? Because people will take advantage of you. So be aggressive a little, after all you're not hitting anyone, if they get offended. Maybe they're a bit to sensitive lol
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Jul 29

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    If you talk to me you can judge

    for you self if you think I am nice
    rosiebloom rosiebloom 22-25, F Jul 1

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    I Am Almost Too Nice

    Yes, I am a nice person as well. I don't want to hurt peoples' feelings. I am supportive and empathetic. I smile a lot because being in a good mood helps others to be in a better mood also. Those are good points but the bad part is, I don't always stick up for myself til I...
    Valentine Valentine 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2007

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    Probably a little too nice.

    But I'm honestly about done with trying to help people with their problems. Everytime I ask what's wrong they'd either get an attitude or won't tell me anything at all. So if you have any problems please dont come to me at all. Sorry. 😒
    XXtrentXX XXtrentXX 18-21, M 1 Response May 8

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    Sometimes Too Nice.

    Don't get me wrong it's not always a bad thing to be nice. I am always a sweetheart and yes this means I'm the girl that can't say no. Therefore I am always in over my head with different projects. I've always been a nice girl. It's how I was raised. But here lately it's been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 25, 2012

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    But I'm home on a Saturday night!

    So lonely. Anyone want to talk about nice things?
    sheslikeariot sheslikeariot 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 28

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    I'd Like To Think So

    If you asked me three years ago, maybe even 1 year ago, if I was a nice person then I would definitely say yes. I still am to a certain degree, but within the last 6 months, I've seen this aggressive side come out. It's not that bad, I just have more attitude than I used to have...
    Bloo Bloo 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    Be Kind, For Yourself And For Others.

    Sometimes we come across someone who's in a bad mood, someone who can't see the positive in a somewhat negative situation. A smile, a friendly hello, or a simple conversation filled with smiles and listening to the other person is sometimes all it takes to turn a frown upside...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    I Am Too Nice Maybe

    I consider myself to be a nice person. I help my friends out whenever I can. I have always been like that. Even growing up whenever my brother needed anything if i could I would help. He's asked for money plenty of times and I never questioned him why, he was my blood so I felt...
    harveyr84 harveyr84 26-30 4 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    Asian men are so hot especially the Koreans but not going to judge all Asians are sexy in there own way I could use one right now
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    But ****, some people just deserve a hit in the face... With a brick and a shovel.
    kmm95 kmm95 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I hate always finishing last and being used I guess it's my own fault cuz I can't say no or be mean I can be honest but I can't be the complete jerk who takes advantage of whoever...
    Waqasauce01 Waqasauce01 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I say hello and have a nice day to strangers I don't know. That's being a nice person. Now having a convo with someone I don't know. I really don't know if i would do that. Some...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Today I realized that I'm too nice. Like I knew that I was a super nice person, but now I see that it is a true weakness. This makes me really, really sad and angry. I didn't know...
    RoyalTeee RoyalTeee 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Tink0624 Tink0624 26-30, F Jul 28

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    Im actually a very nice person. I helped this random kid because every one was being racist to him and i told them to leave him alone which actually worked and now were good...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    I never just decide, I'm getting this girl even if I come across like a ****. I'm always thinking, na she's just being nice, she's not interested even after people say to me "dude...
    itsfate itsfate 26-30, M 11 hrs ago

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    I'm a music school teacher. Looking nice and smelling good, is important when you work with students all day long, I think. Therefore I shower before work and I chew gum during...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Yes I get really hyper when I'm bored and then I start coming out with some crazy **** lol and doing crazy stupid stuff .I have always been a hyper person I was constantly getting...
    lovemusicnicole lovemusicnicole 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I am a passionate person. The things and people I love in my life I love passionately and with an intensity that I know can be overwhelming for some. My level of intensity is not...
    QueenAwesomePants QueenAwesomePants 36-40 5 Responses Jul 24

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