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I Am a Non Custodial Mom

This group is for all non custodial mothers who have lost there children through the family court systems 80 People

    Thinking About Giving Custody Of My Son To His Father

    I currently have full custody of my 7 year old son. His father has been fighting me for custody since we split up when he was 2 years old. He will not stop fighting me and he has money, which I do not. My son has a range of behavioral disorders and I have tried to cope and...
    serenabelle54 serenabelle54 22-25 1 Response Oct 4, 2012

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    Half Mom Half God Knows What

      i am also dealing with an unusual parenting experience..(very unusual!) i have a child , a beautiful child! from an unwanted pregnancy. yes it was unwanted and i was forced into having this little angel. i wanted to die..i didnt want neither the child nor the father. didnt...
    loveislifeislove loveislifeislove 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    Non-custodial Mom With Autistic Kids

    I was married to a controlling, psychologically abusive man for 16 years. During that time, I had to endure guilt over talking to friends and family, belittlement, and head games. Two beautiful children came out of that marriage, and my oldest from my first marriage had siblings...
    rainmom rainmom 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    How I Became A Noncustodial Mom

    my exhusband and i split up. he moved in with his mother in his hometown and i got an apartment for myself and our 3 kids in the town we lived in at the time.my mother had just passed away from cancer and i had guardianship of my 2 younger brothers. the apartment i had was large...
    j050103 j050103 26-30 May 16, 2012

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    Years Of Pain

    I am a non custodial mother living in Connecticut. My children have been in Michigan with their father for the past 4 years. The relationship was abusive and controlling, and thankfully the divorce was finalized in 2011. One problem I have ( among many) is my ex-husbands...
    IntoEther IntoEther 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    My Custody Battle, My Nightmare!

    I found a site where moms alike could share their story and being a member of this site, I thought I would share with you what I wrote on the other site. Its called noncustodialmoms.com I began to write this in response to another post on that site, and well I just figured I...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 19, 2013

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    Non-custodial Mom For 7 Years; Sometimes The Longing Becomes Overwhelming

    I have been a non-custodial mom for seven years, live in another state, and see my 14 year old son during summers and holiday breaks. The fall is the hardest when I have to go four months without seeing him, and needless to say, he's not much of a phone caller. Seven years ago...
    hkelley hkelley 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2011

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    When Abuser Gets Custody

    I am a Non Custodial Mom and I love my daughter as much as any custodial mother. At the age of twenty two I met my second abusive partner but I had no idea how much he would change my life. He became abusive very soon in the relationship. It was actually right after I gave up my...
    KristyLanae KristyLanae 26-30 6 Responses Aug 14, 2008

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    From Stay-at-home-mom To Non-custodial Mom

    I lost custody of my children to the court system and a very abusive and manipulating man who is the father of my children because he has a lawyer who is just relentless. It has been a heartwrenching experience after being a stay-at-home-mom to four for almost fourteen years. Its...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2012

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    June 15th 2012, The Day My Heart Died.

    I will try to sum up my story in as few words as I possibly can...but it won't be easy. In May 2012 I lost my 2 precious boys to their father who lives in Sweden. He won residential custody based on "fraud". My ex said I moved our family back to America simply to divorce him...
    MomPom MomPom 36-40, F Dec 3, 2012

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    A Love So Strong...a Pain So Deep!

    I'm a non custodial mom of 3 beautiful children aged 8, 12 and 14 as well as a custodial mom of a 6 year old bundle of joy. I divorced my ex 5 years ago after 10 years of marriage. Nine of those years I worked and ran the home but I wasn't allowed access to my own money. He...
    Alwaysemptymom Alwaysemptymom 36-40 1 Response Dec 12, 2012

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    I Need To Know Im Not Alone!

    my oldest son is 3 yrs old, his dad and i split when he was 7 months old, (jan. of '09) we went to court and i agreed to do joint custody, week on week off, everything 50/50 to be "fair" and not feel guilty as well as to help me finish high school and start college (i know super...
    wifenmomof2 wifenmomof2 18-21 1 Response Aug 2, 2011

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    Easter without all my kids

    and as unbelievable as this may sound I'm being denied time with them for "non cooperation"
    alexakisfan1997 alexakisfan1997 31-35, F Apr 18

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    Neieve

    who was victimized by .....the Court system. I'm not sure how to start all of this ---there is A LOT!!!--my husband was arrested for domestic violence call made by neighbors ---(official arrest was for warrant,traffic violation) I went to my mothers house, a few towns away, after...
    devastamom devastamom 26-30 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    My Story

    My heart has been empty since my ex called me and told me he was taking me to court for our 3 children , his parents have money so they got him a lawyer... I on the other hand , had to rely on legal aid... Which I got declined cause it was a QLD matter , I applied for legal aid...
    Shonny29 Shonny29 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    How did I become a non custodial mom?

    About 6 years ago my ex kicked me out of our house with nowhere to go and no money.this wasn't the first time he had done this but that's a whole different experience.Anyway I had been a stay at home mom/homemaker for the last 6 years of our relationship, we never married.That...
    strikeout3 strikeout3 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Every Moment Is Like Living Hell

    I want to share my story. I came across the ep because I was researching info and it lead me here. This group is the most important to me but I have been avoiding looking at this page. The pain never stops. At times I cannot believe I can contain this amount of pain inside of my...
    psychomagnet psychomagnet 31-35, F 15 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    How Do You Move On?

    How do you get over this? Or at the very least come to terms with it? It has been two years since I have seen my children...yes I have a visitation order, but since my ex gave physical custody to his mom...my court order has no effect and I have no way of going to court to fight...
    mrsbrightside1978 mrsbrightside1978 31-35, F 3 Responses May 30, 2012

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    I Am Preparing For Battle.

    I am preparing for my second time around with the family courts. I hope to find others here who have been through it or who are going through it. Unfortunately, my first experience with the family courts lasted over 13 years. It came to an end in a violent and awful way...
    Teger Teger 41-45 7 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    My Parents Don't Think I Have The Right

    I am 22 have a 5 year old son, who my mother has custody of but sent him 3000 miles away to live with my dad. I had no say in the matter. I have always been in my son's life, I just had issues I needed to take care of for myself before I could be the kind of mother my son needed...
    ForbiddenLove2356 ForbiddenLove2356 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    Yes, I Too, Am a Non Custodial Mother

    And it sucks. I left my "marriage" 2.5 years ago, and have been ducking ever since. The guilt I feel is overwhelming at times. I miss my little girls so much, the pain is unbearable. Mostly, I guess I just beat myself up all the time, which is dangerous to do...
    unknownlegend763 unknownlegend763 41-45 8 Responses Feb 8, 2009

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    I Haven't Had My Son Since He Was 9 Months Old

    When I had my son I was 17 years old still living with my mother. My mother didn't know how to step back and let me be a mom, and I didn't know how to step up to my mother so she would let me be a mother. She basically took over about a week after he was born and never let go...
    ForbiddenLove2356 ForbiddenLove2356 22-25, F Nov 12, 2012

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    I am dealing with not having my 6 year old son

    with me. My ex husband and I were married in one state and had my son. We divorced, I remarried. Me & my husband had to move away because of my husbands work. My ex & I have joint custody, him being the custodial parent because I live across the country. I want my son to be here...
    AFK1029 AFK1029 36-40, F Aug 15

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    My Angels Are So Missed

    My ex and I battled for years..he cheated on me when I was pregnant with our second son.  Nine months after I delivered we seperated and it was myself and the boys until he moved in with his new girlfriend.  At that time they had a lot of money to burn on attorneys and...
    ldegilio ldegilio 36-40 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Free Bellar

    I haven't been to court, yet. We have had mediation and as of now I stick to the agreement I made with Isabella's father. Which is every other Sunday thru Tuesday. at the time i thought it was best for her to stay at her Grandmother's with her father while I was in a one...
    elle2l elle2l 23, F Feb 9, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    ... she hurts me all of the time, even if she doesn't realize she's doing it. My family isn't poor, but we know what it's like to have too much month left at the end of the money...
    yaguu yaguu 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    It has been 4 years since I became a noncustodial mom. I hate to even say this because it's not something I'm proud of! I mean how could I be? But I'm a great mother and should...
    kotajo18 kotajo18 26-30, F Sep 13

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    That moment when someone say "You won't see me for a while" and all you could muster is "Oh Okay" nonchalantly when you wanted to know why. That moment when you have to act you don...
    Callllie Callllie 70+ Sep 22

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    I hate taking care of my mom. I hate that she's living with me. I feel suffocated and overwhelmed. I moved over 800 miles to get away from her. That lasted 9 months before she...
    EclecticHumanDecoy EclecticHumanDecoy 41-45 2 Responses Sep 23

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    My mom has gone through a lot, and I love her, I really do & she loves me more than life itself. What the problem is, is that whenever my mom & I get into fights (which have been...
    ShadesOfCool ShadesOfCool 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    Anthony825d5cr0 Anthony825d5cr0 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Anthony825d5cr0 Anthony825d5cr0 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    Anthony825d5cr0 Anthony825d5cr0 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    I want an EP mom because I feel like none of my family cares about me. :(
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I am a mom of a self mutilator. My son is a teenager and he cuts himself a lot. He is an introvert that is very unhappy with himself and with life. Anyone else out there? I cry...
    helpmeworryless helpmeworryless 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    So , these are just stories of my daughter getting in trouble and what punishment I gave her. My daughter when home after curfew one day and I asked her what happened. She then...
    PleaseRandom PleaseRandom 46-50, F 12 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am glad to listen to yours turned out nicely, as there are some horror tales on the market. And that i hear you on the jogging factor, I once in a while run however it is so not...
    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    The more gay men I have met in my life, the more I realize that once you get to know a gay man, you realize most are non-traditional. I do think "non-traditional" is code for...
    shygrant shygrant 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 19

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    I do not smoke and only date non-smokers. I do like a pipe, but for the sake of my body and future children I prefer a non-smoker.
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I wanted to start a non-profit related to education in Canada and around the world. So many children don't get a proper education because of poverity. Does anyone know what hurdles...
    mraven7 mraven7 26-30 17 hrs ago

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    i'm nonbinary! i don't identify with either gender, i'm somewhere in the middle. it's like a void. i use they/them pronouns.
    chisaki chisaki 16-17 Sep 13

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    I like to think that I'm nonjudgmental...but every now & then I find myself judging others. I don't like being judged myself, so I back up & just let people be who they are. It's...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F Sep 19

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    Well not exactly but, I did go fully nude on a non nudist beach, it felt great being seen by all the clothed people, it even gave me a hard on. I was reported tho after some hot...
    Pat1843 Pat1843 18-21, M Sep 21

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    I like nonsense - it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living. Its a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope...and that enables you...
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and his mom (and grandma) don't like me AT ALL. at first she was nice to me, she would always tell me how pretty I...
    lundenxo lundenxo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Okay so I'll have to live with both my parents for quite a while into the future of my life, and I can't stand being around my mom. You see, I'm an atheist and mom is a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    Like most teens I had attitude. I remember once when I was having an argument with mom about what I should do about something. Anyway, she finally said: "That's enough! Get it done...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F Sep 8

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    Me and my mom has big different. When it pay day, she become sweet to me and when I'm broke, she act like I'm not there. When I try talk to her, all she say what you wanted me to...
    colonaileen colonaileen 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    Hello everyone! I'm a 25 year old guy and I'm very close with my mama. She's 53 and she's been divorced for 6 years. She has been the best mom anyone could ask for. My friend Tommy...
    golferguy32 golferguy32 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 12

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    I have the best online mommy in the world. I may annoy her sometimes but she truley is the best mommy I have ever had she is always here for me when I need her and I sometimes act...
    mommysbabygirl mommysbabygirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13