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I Am a Non Custodial Mom

This group is for all non custodial mothers who have lost there children through the family court systems 86 People

    I Am Preparing For Battle.

    I am preparing for my second time around with the family courts. I hope to find others here who have been through it or who are going through it. Unfortunately, my first experience with the family courts lasted over 13 years. It came to an end in a violent and awful way...
    Teger Teger 41-45 6 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    Thinking About Giving Custody Of My Son To His Father

    I currently have full custody of my 7 year old son. His father has been fighting me for custody since we split up when he was 2 years old. He will not stop fighting me and he has money, which I do not. My son has a range of behavioral disorders and I have tried to cope and...
    serenabelle54 serenabelle54 22-25 1 Response Oct 4, 2012

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    How I Became A Noncustodial Mom

    my exhusband and i split up. he moved in with his mother in his hometown and i got an apartment for myself and our 3 kids in the town we lived in at the time.my mother had just passed away from cancer and i had guardianship of my 2 younger brothers. the apartment i had was large...
    j050103 j050103 26-30 May 16, 2012

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    June 15th 2012, The Day My Heart Died.

    I will try to sum up my story in as few words as I possibly can...but it won't be easy. In May 2012 I lost my 2 precious boys to their father who lives in Sweden. He won residential custody based on "fraud". My ex said I moved our family back to America simply to divorce him...
    MomPom MomPom 36-40, F Dec 3, 2012

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    A Love So Strong...a Pain So Deep!

    I'm a non custodial mom of 3 beautiful children aged 8, 12 and 14 as well as a custodial mom of a 6 year old bundle of joy. I divorced my ex 5 years ago after 10 years of marriage. Nine of those years I worked and ran the home but I wasn't allowed access to my own money. He...
    Alwaysemptymom Alwaysemptymom 36-40 1 Response Dec 12, 2012

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    My Custody Battle, My Nightmare!

    I found a site where moms alike could share their story and being a member of this site, I thought I would share with you what I wrote on the other site. Its called noncustodialmoms.com I began to write this in response to another post on that site, and well I just figured I...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 19, 2013

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    I am dealing with not having my 6 year old son

    with me. My ex husband and I were married in one state and had my son. We divorced, I remarried. Me & my husband had to move away because of my husbands work. My ex & I have joint custody, him being the custodial parent because I live across the country. I want my son to be here...
    AFK1029 AFK1029 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2014

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    How Do You Move On?

    How do you get over this? Or at the very least come to terms with it? It has been two years since I have seen my children...yes I have a visitation order, but since my ex gave physical custody to his mom...my court order has no effect and I have no way of going to court to fight...
    mrsbrightside1978 mrsbrightside1978 31-35, F 3 Responses May 30, 2012

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    Non-custodial Mom For 7 Years; Sometimes The Longing Becomes Overwhelming

    I have been a non-custodial mom for seven years, live in another state, and see my 14 year old son during summers and holiday breaks. The fall is the hardest when I have to go four months without seeing him, and needless to say, he's not much of a phone caller. Seven years ago...
    hkelley hkelley 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2011

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    When Abuser Gets Custody

    I am a Non Custodial Mom and I love my daughter as much as any custodial mother. At the age of twenty two I met my second abusive partner but I had no idea how much he would change my life. He became abusive very soon in the relationship. It was actually right after I gave up my...
    KristyLanae KristyLanae 26-30 6 Responses Aug 14, 2008

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    17 Years Without-In 1997 I was preparing to be

    transferred from Yokohama Japan back to a base in the United States(I was in the Army) when my lover of the last 6 years a half Asian/half White local guy vanished taking our 3 and 5 year olds with him. His mother had never approved of our relationship and she had been demanding...
    45ChocNFab 45ChocNFab 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Yes, I Too, Am a Non Custodial Mother

    And it sucks. I left my "marriage" 2.5 years ago, and have been ducking ever since. The guilt I feel is overwhelming at times. I miss my little girls so much, the pain is unbearable. Mostly, I guess I just beat myself up all the time, which is dangerous to do...
    unknownlegend763 unknownlegend763 41-45 8 Responses Feb 8, 2009

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    How did I become a non custodial mom?

    About 6 years ago my ex kicked me out of our house with nowhere to go and no money.this wasn't the first time he had done this but that's a whole different experience.Anyway I had been a stay at home mom/homemaker for the last 6 years of our relationship, we never married.That...
    strikeout3 strikeout3 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    My Angels Are So Missed

    My ex and I battled for years..he cheated on me when I was pregnant with our second son.  Nine months after I delivered we seperated and it was myself and the boys until he moved in with his new girlfriend.  At that time they had a lot of money to burn on attorneys and...
    ldegilio ldegilio 36-40 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Half Mom Half God Knows What

      i am also dealing with an unusual parenting experience..(very unusual!) i have a child , a beautiful child! from an unwanted pregnancy. yes it was unwanted and i was forced into having this little angel. i wanted to die..i didnt want neither the child nor the father. didnt...
    loveislifeislove loveislifeislove 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    My Story

    My heart has been empty since my ex called me and told me he was taking me to court for our 3 children , his parents have money so they got him a lawyer... I on the other hand , had to rely on legal aid... Which I got declined cause it was a QLD matter , I applied for legal aid...
    Shonny29 Shonny29 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Easter without all my kids

    and as unbelievable as this may sound I'm being denied time with them for "non cooperation"
    alexakisfan1997 alexakisfan1997 31-35, F Apr 18, 2014

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    I Need To Know Im Not Alone!

    my oldest son is 3 yrs old, his dad and i split when he was 7 months old, (jan. of '09) we went to court and i agreed to do joint custody, week on week off, everything 50/50 to be "fair" and not feel guilty as well as to help me finish high school and start college (i know super...
    wifenmomof2 wifenmomof2 18-21 2 Responses Aug 2, 2011

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    Every Moment Is Like Living Hell

    I want to share my story. I came across the ep because I was researching info and it lead me here. This group is the most important to me but I have been avoiding looking at this page. The pain never stops. At times I cannot believe I can contain this amount of pain inside of my...
    psychomagnet psychomagnet 31-35, F 16 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    Years Of Pain

    I am a non custodial mother living in Connecticut. My children have been in Michigan with their father for the past 4 years. The relationship was abusive and controlling, and thankfully the divorce was finalized in 2011. One problem I have ( among many) is my ex-husbands...
    IntoEther IntoEther 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    Non-custodial Mom With Autistic Kids

    I was married to a controlling, psychologically abusive man for 16 years. During that time, I had to endure guilt over talking to friends and family, belittlement, and head games. Two beautiful children came out of that marriage, and my oldest from my first marriage had siblings...
    rainmom rainmom 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    From Stay-at-home-mom To Non-custodial Mom

    I lost custody of my children to the court system and a very abusive and manipulating man who is the father of my children because he has a lawyer who is just relentless. It has been a heartwrenching experience after being a stay-at-home-mom to four for almost fourteen years. Its...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 17, 2012

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    Free Bellar

    I haven't been to court, yet. We have had mediation and as of now I stick to the agreement I made with Isabella's father. Which is every other Sunday thru Tuesday. at the time i thought it was best for her to stay at her Grandmother's with her father while I was in a one...
    elle2l elle2l 23, F Feb 9, 2010

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    Neieve

    who was victimized by .....the Court system. I'm not sure how to start all of this ---there is A LOT!!!--my husband was arrested for domestic violence call made by neighbors ---(official arrest was for warrant,traffic violation) I went to my mothers house, a few towns away, after...
    devastamom devastamom 26-30 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    1) my mom left my dad when I was two 2) I was sexually assaulted continuously for a year by two guys when I was six 3) I was verbally and sometimes physically abused by one of my...
    xXino2Xx xXino2Xx 18-21, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Me: mom why do best people die early? Mom: when you're in a garden which flowers you want to pick? Me: The most beautiful one's.
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    My mom is so mean and unfair. I'm not just saying this because and fifteen and moody. I'm saying this because she's so mean to me. Yesterday I was fighting with my older brother...
    Linsey14 Linsey14 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    my mom is battling breast cancer and has to have another surgery on March 18th. I'm not going to lie, I'm afraid. I hate when anyone has to have surgery. Please keep her in your...
    taurusboi23 taurusboi23 22-25, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    i think the worst moment of my life was knowing that my 3 daughters were watching me as i was dying. knowing they were the only thing that kept me fighting. that little angelic...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 11 hrs ago

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    I would love for a mommy to pull my pants down and put me over her knee and spank me!
    babymatt121589 babymatt121589 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    Back in the early 1970's parenting was a whole lot different then today. "Tough Love" was well practiced. No kid wanted his dad involved if he got into hot water. Extreme fear...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 4 Responses Feb 6

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    You Never Thought Of Anyone Else-I hate that she cannot live without a certain demented individual who has beaten and pimped her as well as abused her children ever since he walked...
    OrchidOracle OrchidOracle 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I definatly prefer people like this but with how our society is today there are not many of open minded and non judgemental people
    Just1OriginalMe Just1OriginalMe 22-25 2 Responses Jan 26

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    If a non-epileptic seizure isn't a seizure than what the heck is it? I'm sick of everyone brushing it off like its nothing just because it isn't an actual seizure caused by brain...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F Feb 14

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    "It's time to wakey wakey!" my mom says way too gleefully at 6 in the morning. "I'm not getting up." I role over to my left side, now facing away from my mom. "I'll give you 5...
    whoevenknows022896 whoevenknows022896 13-15, F Feb 15

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    I am gender non-conforming. GNC means I am male and I have the male body, but I am not masculine at all. I wear dresses, I wear make-up, I act feminine. I identify as gender fluid...
    QueerCobweb QueerCobweb 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I'm in what I'll call a one-sided open marriage... My husband (I'll call him Zack) is the one who has other relationships. Before our marriage we tried to have an extra person (a...
    zodiac79 zodiac79 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    It's irritating as hell because as a non smoker, the smell of smoke literally makes me sick. Not just allergies. Nausea and migraines are common around smoke. I've got a roommate...
    Sariliz Sariliz 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    Ever felt like you are the WORST daughter/son ever when you make your mom cry?? It happened to me today. I did not disrespect her. We were just talking about my dad... who...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 4

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    I'm a 20 y/o Arabian (not muslim) and I come from a rich cultural back ground and my mother is from the most royal family from my country. I'm going to be 21 in less than 6 months...
    psychedelicblues psychedelicblues 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    just a few minutes ago, i got called down to the office for some odd reason. i thought today will finally be the day where i got something from a secret admirer, but then when i...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 13

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    I grew up in a small town in the Upper Peninsula of Mich. in the 60's and 70's. My "mom" came from a family of 13 brothers and sisters of Polish decent. During family meals my dad...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F Feb 8

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    haha as I was searching for this title, I found another experience called "i am afraid of my mom dying"... well, honestly, i thought i was the only one! that calms me down a little...
    Tomboygirl98 Tomboygirl98 16-17, F Feb 12

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    my mom had a rough upbringing. rape, abuse, etc with about 13 other brothers and sisters. she had 3 kids. I'm the baby. as kids, we had a horrible childhood as well. she made sure...
    niafiend niafiend 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hello this is my first post I don't even know where to start with this I am reaching out to people going through the same thing or anyone who can offer any advice I am desperate...
    Sophiamyeverything Sophiamyeverything 18-21 Jan 28

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    The reason I don't get along with my mom is when i was growing up she was abusive to me and my little sister. I think that is one reason that dad left her for. her had vistation...
    jsmith19941978 jsmith19941978 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    Au Natural-I love Nude moms & our mom is & has always been a nude mom-(that is what makes her so unique & special). Nudism is something that our mom is & has always been perfectly...
    theswordinthestone theswordinthestone 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    Online Only I would love to be your new mommy. I would love to take care of you.I do like to re-name my babies but if you want to keep your name just tell mommy. The only thing I...
    MommyLucy MommyLucy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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