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I Am a Non Custodial Mom

This group is for all non custodial mothers who have lost there children through the family court systems 82 People

    Free Bellar

    I haven't been to court, yet. We have had mediation and as of now I stick to the agreement I made with Isabella's father. Which is every other Sunday thru Tuesday. at the time i thought it was best for her to stay at her Grandmother's with her father while I was in a one...
    elle2l elle2l 23, F Feb 9, 2010

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    Neieve

    who was victimized by .....the Court system. I'm not sure how to start all of this ---there is A LOT!!!--my husband was arrested for domestic violence call made by neighbors ---(official arrest was for warrant,traffic violation) I went to my mothers house, a few towns away, after...
    devastamom devastamom 26-30 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    My Custody Battle, My Nightmare!

    I found a site where moms alike could share their story and being a member of this site, I thought I would share with you what I wrote on the other site. Its called noncustodialmoms.com I began to write this in response to another post on that site, and well I just figured I...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 19, 2013

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    I Am Preparing For Battle.

    I am preparing for my second time around with the family courts. I hope to find others here who have been through it or who are going through it. Unfortunately, my first experience with the family courts lasted over 13 years. It came to an end in a violent and awful way...
    Teger Teger 41-45 6 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    How Do You Move On?

    How do you get over this? Or at the very least come to terms with it? It has been two years since I have seen my children...yes I have a visitation order, but since my ex gave physical custody to his mom...my court order has no effect and I have no way of going to court to fight...
    mrsbrightside1978 mrsbrightside1978 31-35, F 3 Responses May 30, 2012

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    Thinking About Giving Custody Of My Son To His Father

    I currently have full custody of my 7 year old son. His father has been fighting me for custody since we split up when he was 2 years old. He will not stop fighting me and he has money, which I do not. My son has a range of behavioral disorders and I have tried to cope and...
    serenabelle54 serenabelle54 22-25 1 Response Oct 4, 2012

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    My Angels Are So Missed

    My ex and I battled for years..he cheated on me when I was pregnant with our second son.  Nine months after I delivered we seperated and it was myself and the boys until he moved in with his new girlfriend.  At that time they had a lot of money to burn on attorneys and...
    ldegilio ldegilio 36-40 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Half Mom Half God Knows What

      i am also dealing with an unusual parenting experience..(very unusual!) i have a child , a beautiful child! from an unwanted pregnancy. yes it was unwanted and i was forced into having this little angel. i wanted to die..i didnt want neither the child nor the father. didnt...
    loveislifeislove loveislifeislove 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    Non-custodial Mom With Autistic Kids

    I was married to a controlling, psychologically abusive man for 16 years. During that time, I had to endure guilt over talking to friends and family, belittlement, and head games. Two beautiful children came out of that marriage, and my oldest from my first marriage had siblings...
    rainmom rainmom 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    Yes, I Too, Am a Non Custodial Mother

    And it sucks. I left my "marriage" 2.5 years ago, and have been ducking ever since. The guilt I feel is overwhelming at times. I miss my little girls so much, the pain is unbearable. Mostly, I guess I just beat myself up all the time, which is dangerous to do...
    unknownlegend763 unknownlegend763 41-45 8 Responses Feb 8, 2009

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    My Story

    My heart has been empty since my ex called me and told me he was taking me to court for our 3 children , his parents have money so they got him a lawyer... I on the other hand , had to rely on legal aid... Which I got declined cause it was a QLD matter , I applied for legal aid...
    Shonny29 Shonny29 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    How I Became A Noncustodial Mom

    my exhusband and i split up. he moved in with his mother in his hometown and i got an apartment for myself and our 3 kids in the town we lived in at the time.my mother had just passed away from cancer and i had guardianship of my 2 younger brothers. the apartment i had was large...
    j050103 j050103 26-30 May 16, 2012

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    From Stay-at-home-mom To Non-custodial Mom

    I lost custody of my children to the court system and a very abusive and manipulating man who is the father of my children because he has a lawyer who is just relentless. It has been a heartwrenching experience after being a stay-at-home-mom to four for almost fourteen years. Its...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 17, 2012

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    When Abuser Gets Custody

    I am a Non Custodial Mom and I love my daughter as much as any custodial mother. At the age of twenty two I met my second abusive partner but I had no idea how much he would change my life. He became abusive very soon in the relationship. It was actually right after I gave up my...
    KristyLanae KristyLanae 26-30 6 Responses Aug 14, 2008

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    Non-custodial Mom For 7 Years; Sometimes The Longing Becomes Overwhelming

    I have been a non-custodial mom for seven years, live in another state, and see my 14 year old son during summers and holiday breaks. The fall is the hardest when I have to go four months without seeing him, and needless to say, he's not much of a phone caller. Seven years ago...
    hkelley hkelley 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2011

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    I Need To Know Im Not Alone!

    my oldest son is 3 yrs old, his dad and i split when he was 7 months old, (jan. of '09) we went to court and i agreed to do joint custody, week on week off, everything 50/50 to be "fair" and not feel guilty as well as to help me finish high school and start college (i know super...
    wifenmomof2 wifenmomof2 18-21 1 Response Aug 2, 2011

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    I am dealing with not having my 6 year old son

    with me. My ex husband and I were married in one state and had my son. We divorced, I remarried. Me & my husband had to move away because of my husbands work. My ex & I have joint custody, him being the custodial parent because I live across the country. I want my son to be here...
    AFK1029 AFK1029 36-40, F Aug 15

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    How did I become a non custodial mom?

    About 6 years ago my ex kicked me out of our house with nowhere to go and no money.this wasn't the first time he had done this but that's a whole different experience.Anyway I had been a stay at home mom/homemaker for the last 6 years of our relationship, we never married.That...
    strikeout3 strikeout3 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    June 15th 2012, The Day My Heart Died.

    I will try to sum up my story in as few words as I possibly can...but it won't be easy. In May 2012 I lost my 2 precious boys to their father who lives in Sweden. He won residential custody based on "fraud". My ex said I moved our family back to America simply to divorce him...
    MomPom MomPom 36-40, F Dec 3, 2012

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    Every Moment Is Like Living Hell

    I want to share my story. I came across the ep because I was researching info and it lead me here. This group is the most important to me but I have been avoiding looking at this page. The pain never stops. At times I cannot believe I can contain this amount of pain inside of my...
    psychomagnet psychomagnet 31-35, F 15 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    A Love So Strong...a Pain So Deep!

    I'm a non custodial mom of 3 beautiful children aged 8, 12 and 14 as well as a custodial mom of a 6 year old bundle of joy. I divorced my ex 5 years ago after 10 years of marriage. Nine of those years I worked and ran the home but I wasn't allowed access to my own money. He...
    Alwaysemptymom Alwaysemptymom 36-40 1 Response Dec 12, 2012

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    Easter without all my kids

    and as unbelievable as this may sound I'm being denied time with them for "non cooperation"
    alexakisfan1997 alexakisfan1997 31-35, F Apr 18

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    Years Of Pain

    I am a non custodial mother living in Connecticut. My children have been in Michigan with their father for the past 4 years. The relationship was abusive and controlling, and thankfully the divorce was finalized in 2011. One problem I have ( among many) is my ex-husbands...
    IntoEther IntoEther 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    DangBobby DangBobby 18-21, M Dec 9

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    plantboii plantboii 13-15, T Dec 10

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    I will leave you too. I will leave you too. You push me too. 'Ricky tell this, ricky tell this. What you do at night?' My fuking nights. I stay inside. In my room and you have to...
    imnotbad imnotbad 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    needloveinlife needloveinlife 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    I am 19. I can't really do anything. I can't drive, I can't move out of my parents house. Medical history I had a small brain hemorrhage in December of 2012. They didn't do...
    CrystalLynn1995 CrystalLynn1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    If you just glance at the stories I've written here, you manage to take one thing away: I hate my mother. I don't even consider her my mother. More like an older woman who kept...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 23

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    It's more about that my mom doesn't understand me, and how I feel. I live in a house that is completely trashed all the time except for my room which I keep spotless. My mom's...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    My Mom always complained that my table was a mess. But why was it a mess? Everytime my mom has a mail or my sis/dad had anything. They just came in the room and left it there. So...
    Jaaslyn Jaaslyn 16-17, F Dec 6

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    RP Only No K*ik Hi baby! Are you looking for a Mommy cause this mommy wants some babies to take care of! My favorite age is 11 months to about 2. I love putting my babies in their...
    MommyMaya MommyMaya 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    RP Only No K*ik Hi baby! Are you looking for a Mommy cause this mommy wants some babies to take care of! My favorite age is 11 months to about 2. I love putting my babies in their...
    MommyMaya MommyMaya 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    RP Only No K*ik Hi baby! Are you looking for a Mommy cause this mommy wants some babies to take care of! My favorite age is 11 months to about 2. I love putting my babies in their...
    MommyMaya MommyMaya 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 26

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    AwakeYetDreaming AwakeYetDreaming 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    I always think when I'm alone what kind of response I would get if I shared my story, would I get hate, esp because I was the one who made the statistics seem more true? My mother...
    EmmaDex EmmaDex 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hello, i have two wonderful children, my son is 7 and daughter 10. I love my job being a mom, even though it is tough. Can get boring and lonely at times being a single mom, hope...
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    My step mom took custody of me since I was 10 since my mom moved to Canada and my dad left her. My step mom hates me. She treats me as a baby. I have an absolutely embarrassing...
    Redskinsfan600 Redskinsfan600 13-15, M Dec 2

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    I am currently 18 years and I'm pregnant and I am completely sure that my mom absolutely hates me. I am 13 weeks pregnant I had and I had a blood test to make sure that everything...
    roxanaaaaa roxanaaaaa 18-21, F Dec 4

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    I wish we were close but she has done so many things to hurt me it's hard to respect her and get along. I love my mom to death but it gets so hard sometimes being around her and I...
    ZaquoyaTinsley ZaquoyaTinsley 13-15, F Nov 20

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    Life is made of millions of moments, but we live only one of these moments at a time. As we begin to change this moment, we begin to change our lives. - Trinidad Hunt
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 21

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    I miss my mom who passed away 2 weeks of this year before her birthday on April 1st. I miss her so much. I loved going to see her. She was there when I needed to talk to her. I...
    NightRaider1969bc NightRaider1969bc 41-45, M 5 Responses Nov 23

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    Right now, I'm laying beside my mom while she sleeps on her cheap air mattress that she has laying on her floor, inside her empty apartment alone with a fan blowing and cheap food...
    HereToBleed HereToBleed 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 23

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