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I Am a Post-op Transexual Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 85 People

    Post-Op And Doing Well

    I had my GCS on July 16 of 2013. I have to admit that I am please with they way my body is healing. There have been a couple problems with dilation, but nothing life threating. I think that I've healed well enough that I can finally go out and buy the new clothes I've had my...
    stacygurl86 stacygurl86 26-30, T 13 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Xxx Nakedness ~ No Hiding Place Xxx

    XXX NAKEDNESS ~ NO HIDING PLACE XXX  As a post~op woman of five years I thought I had travelled my path and had taken my penultimate step as I now live my life as myself in a busy professional and social life having experienced no difficulties or drama along the way. Three years...
    KellyMac KellyMac 46-50, F 26 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    The Beauty Within.

    Many of you know me and many of you don't. I have alot of friends here and appreciate all of them.  There are a few that are very special to me and they know who they are.  This may be a brief story, but none the less it is my thankyou to all of you that have befriended me and...
    valeriemonetti valeriemonetti 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    St. Patrick'S Day Bliss

    It was Saturday, and I had invited Brad over at 7:00 pm, so from about 8:00 am, after coffee, I spent from that time all that morning wearing just a yellow t-shirt, and white shorts, and sandles, my hair in a ponytail. I started just especially cleaning counters, the kitchen, (I...
    Jackieperson9 Jackieperson9 18-21, T 3 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Payback

    the last time i was back home i was at the bar and a guy came up and started flurtting with me and i did the same when i realised he was a false freind in high school who said some very hurtful things when i told him what i was going to do. he had no idea who i was, giggle,so i...
    sexysedra sexysedra 31-35, T 45 Responses May 7, 2011

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    I Have Had A Crush On A Post-op Trans Woman

    I remember growing up in the 80s and watching all of those trash tv shows that were all about sleaze and sex and there was this one show that talked about how this lady was killed because she had been a man and even though she had become post-op her husband killed her! They...
    robin12 robin12 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    I Am A Post-op Transsexual Woman And I Regret Having Surgery

    I'll keep it as brief as possible but I've scoured the internet and I can't find what I want. I had surgery when I was 26 - 4 years ago. I regret it but I don't regret living as a woman. I just wish I was a woman with a penis instead. Is there anyone else out there? As my...
    Wonttakenoforananswer Wonttakenoforananswer 26-30, T 11 Responses Jun 7, 2011

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    Positive Work Life

    I have been Post Op now for 4 years. I was Very fortunate to keep my job They really had no choice as I am working With the Canadian Government. It was very hard at first. I lost many friends and gained Others. Looking back now as far as I am concerned everything is as if I...
    Wendytgif Wendytgif 41-45 5 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    To whom it may concern at The Experience Project Team: Can you please look at what DAVIDKNOWSALL is doing to this group? He keeps changing his David names so he can keep trashing...
    Changedforever9514 Changedforever9514 41-45, F 7 Responses Oct 9

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    Right ladies, I have decided to post something that suddenly hit home to me over last couple months. You can disregard it if you wish, you can ignore it or not read it, you can...
    monty1212 monty1212 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 16

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    I just joined this site and I wanted to post my experience. 5 years ago, I was 21 years old and found myself in a relationship with a man who was frankly disgusting. He told me...
    MzKtlyn MzKtlyn 26-30, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    This man post says it all. I totally agree with him as a woman. Too many people are too one sided and have their heads in the clouds instead of looking hard at themselves and ask...
    browntaurus browntaurus 26-30, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's been a really great week with my AP. Lots of one on one time and not a whole lot of that was spent the way you think. I enjoy that we get to work together and have so many...
    surfandturf surfandturf 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 16

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    Get ready for a LONG post! This was this morning, the last time we talked/ will talk. He and his W were messaging me. Initially it was her who messaged me, but I begged for him to...
    jyj78 jyj78 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18

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    How can people post so long story ??? Half of them are fake or copy paste and those have their real story they also don't post such a long story?????
    Luvtohavefun Luvtohavefun 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 23

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    So ladies I just wanted your opinions if you could please : ) A post made me think about this. So it's been going on over a year with my MM, we started as friends but it developed...
    LoveBytes LoveBytes 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I decided tonight to dress in my skinny jeans, knee boots and sleeveless turtleneck...I feel great, I realized that I had to put a bill in the mail so I rounded up my purse, keys...
    TinaCDER TinaCDER 26-30 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I wanted to share my story because I feel like a lot of the stories on here are kind of depressing. I mean, I know I'm in no position to go about telling people how to run their...
    ajane2127 ajane2127 26-30 9 Responses Oct 3

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    I guess I'm not technically the 'other woman' anymore, as I broke off our affair once my husband confronted me. . . but here I am. Its been nearly three weeks since d-day (when I...
    mrsteacherlady84 mrsteacherlady84 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 5

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    I just responded to a post on here which got me to thinking (yes, y'all are in trouble while I ramble). If you're not mature enough to handle being an OW, sugar don't go down...
    CherokeeEyes CherokeeEyes 41-45, F 26 Responses Oct 8

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    How do I deal with the fallout of DDay? the emotional fallout and the emotional changes are hard enough to bear, but it's the practical things that is really getting to me. So I...
    missnojudgement missnojudgement 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    How do I deal with the fallout of DDay? the emotional fallout and the emotional changes are hard enough to bear, but it's the practical things that are really getting to me. So I...
    missnojudgement missnojudgement 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 15

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    I am no longer... As I said in my last post My mm and I were no longer "together" I informed him that I was going to start dating... And I did... I am dating It was so nice to...
    jupsta jupsta 36-40, F 14 Responses Oct 19

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    Recall my last post about how I think his feelings for me a disappearing, trust a woman's instinct. He said yesterday all these arguments I keep causing have really pushed him away...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 14 Responses Oct 24

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    Not only did she block me, but crying to the EP Gods and had my post pulled. I got the very nice finger shake, now don't you embarrass her again or you're out. You don't KNOW how...
    CherokeeEyes CherokeeEyes 41-45, F 16 Responses Oct 2

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    Since my last 2:45am freak out post, things have been spotty... he actually called me that morning (I didn't pick up), ended up leaving me a message saying he wished I was there...
    Ahmazing Ahmazing 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    Felt like I needed to post this...so true
    Dreamingofhim0514 Dreamingofhim0514 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    So I have to post. MM just popped up to my place unexpected in his W car and I didn't answer. Since I told him that we can no longer see each other but have remained friends, I...
    Truone16 Truone16 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    Inspired by Redsheep2's post today. Who said the big "L" word first and how did the other one of you react?
    GenieH22 GenieH22 36-40, F 20 Responses Oct 6

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    Hello! I'm new to EP. Trying to figure out this posting thing before I share my story. I want to make sure I post it in the correct place before I say too much.
    eapple eapple 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 8

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    Ladies just a heads up David has a new name it is Davidistruth!! He just got me on a post I posted in my I am a military girlfriend experience please keep your eyes out for him!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    Are the David's gone or are they still harassing people? I expect some haters to attack our group, but seriously, the military girlfriends group? He actually did us all a favor...
    surfandturf surfandturf 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 9

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    I know I have read someone post never believe things said in the heat of passion. I think sometime it's like a drunk person running their mouth saying all those things they are...
    lilymn lilymn 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 9

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    Ok so I thought I'd post to you ladies as I know we all had to deal with the David issue. As you know I am not the other women and that I am a military girlfriend. I protect my...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 8 Responses Oct 10

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    Why is EP not updating for me? I still see a 4 day old post as the last one. Ugh. Any advice on how to fix this?
    BlackHiHeels4Me BlackHiHeels4Me 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 13

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    So I've been sick. Super sick. Like lay in bed all wkend and today I came home early from work, sick. I never do that. I read another chapter of the book, "Will He Really Leave Her...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    It's been a bit of a gloomy few days here on this forum. Someone post their happy moments, with or without your MM. Let's share some JOY! Love you ladies! Xoxoxo
    CherokeeEyes CherokeeEyes 41-45, F 13 Responses Oct 15

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    "Will he really leave her for me?" Book review. Part 3: the affair. Chapter 7: assessing your affair. This chapter is long. And I read it when I was sick and exhausted. AND...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    Having read JuliaH's post about being an OW for sexual gratification and or friendship...Are there any OWs out there that are not having sex with their MM? I can't be the only...
    insouciant1 insouciant1 41-45, F 8 Responses Oct 16

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    So again I have been having some meditative thoughts about why so many of you, of us, don't get their desired results. I have been doing some performance reviews at work, with my...
    monty1212 monty1212 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 17

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    Super Troll Sunday is probably the most clever title anyone could ever come up with for what happens here. I love when someone makes nasty comments on your post and then when you...
    surfandturf surfandturf 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 19

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    Does your MM know you post on here? Why or why not does he know?
    eapple eapple 31-35, F 26 Responses Oct 19

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    Disclaimer: Sorry if this post offends or disgust anyone! When I first started with my mm I was living with my H and I still had a very active sex life with my H (almost daily...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 16 Responses Oct 20

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    This is more of a question, but wasn't sure how to post it .... And this is my first experience and I hope to share mine like so many of you have. Is there a good substitute name...
    BluCoastGal BluCoastGal 36-40, F 13 Responses Oct 20

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    The only reason I post this in here is because the level of support is high and i truly appreciate you. My stress level is at an all time high. I lost my godmother to Alzheimer's...
    Gingersmiles Gingersmiles 41-45, F 8 Responses Oct 20

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    I am writing this post in hopes that it gives some of you ladies, waiting to be with your mm, hope and encouragement to hang on. First a little backstory on me. I have been with my...
    sensitiveme sensitiveme 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 21

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    Excitement has turned into stress and an immense amount of pressure. I'm starting to freak out, you guys. My last post was pretty hopeful, just wanting to be excited about this...
    Ahmazing Ahmazing 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 21

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    Got another message from MM today. I had sent him a message a week ago to him through an online writing forum we met through three years ago (we lived nearby at the time, and met...
    mrsteacherlady84 mrsteacherlady84 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 22