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I Am a Post-op Transexual Woman

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    I Am A Post-op Transsexual Woman And I Regret Having Surgery

    I'll keep it as brief as possible but I've scoured the internet and I can't find what I want. I had surgery when I was 26 - 4 years ago. I regret it but I don't regret living as a woman. I just wish I was a woman with a penis instead. Is there anyone else out there? As my...
    Wonttakenoforananswer Wonttakenoforananswer 26-30, T 11 Responses Jun 7, 2011

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    Post-Op And Doing Well

    I had my GCS on July 16 of 2013. I have to admit that I am please with they way my body is healing. There have been a couple problems with dilation, but nothing life threating. I think that I've healed well enough that I can finally go out and buy the new clothes I've had my...
    stacygurl86 stacygurl86 26-30, T 14 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Xxx Nakedness ~ No Hiding Place Xxx

    XXX NAKEDNESS ~ NO HIDING PLACE XXX  As a post~op woman of five years I thought I had travelled my path and had taken my penultimate step as I now live my life as myself in a busy professional and social life having experienced no difficulties or drama along the way. Three years...
    KellyMac KellyMac 46-50, F 26 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    I Have Had A Crush On A Post-op Trans Woman

    I remember growing up in the 80s and watching all of those trash tv shows that were all about sleaze and sex and there was this one show that talked about how this lady was killed because she had been a man and even though she had become post-op her husband killed her! They...
    robin12 robin12 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    Payback

    the last time i was back home i was at the bar and a guy came up and started flurtting with me and i did the same when i realised he was a false freind in high school who said some very hurtful things when i told him what i was going to do. he had no idea who i was, giggle,so i...
    sexysedra sexysedra 31-35, T 46 Responses May 7, 2011

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    Positive Work Life

    I have been Post Op now for 4 years. I was Very fortunate to keep my job They really had no choice as I am working With the Canadian Government. It was very hard at first. I lost many friends and gained Others. Looking back now as far as I am concerned everything is as if I...
    Wendytgif Wendytgif 41-45 5 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    The Beauty Within.

    Many of you know me and many of you don't. I have alot of friends here and appreciate all of them.  There are a few that are very special to me and they know who they are.  This may be a brief story, but none the less it is my thankyou to all of you that have befriended me and...
    valeriemonetti valeriemonetti 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    St. Patrick'S Day Bliss

    It was Saturday, and I had invited Brad over at 7:00 pm, so from about 8:00 am, after coffee, I spent from that time all that morning wearing just a yellow t-shirt, and white shorts, and sandles, my hair in a ponytail. I started just especially cleaning counters, the kitchen, (I...
    Jackieperson9 Jackieperson9 18-21, T 3 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Hmm... he's supposed to come over and visit me tomorrow morning like he said, but I haven't heard from him all day today, and he hasn't checked our messaging app.... no sign of...
    velvetnico velvetnico 31-35, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Ok so this post is intended to a dear friend that is a part of our EP family....They will know immediately its intended for them once they read this....and honestly I want him to...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    Question way do you cheating wife's post in I'm the other woman. Your cheater you should post in the affair post the place your truly at.
    pleasestoplying pleasestoplying 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 10

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    Life is strange. The way things work is strange. A lot has happened since my last post. It's been a whirlwind of emotions. In my last post, I said he was moving out of the...
    lifeisajourney14 lifeisajourney14 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Hi! This is actually my first post... wasn't sure if I should post it here or somewhere else. I just feel that if I get this off my chest - then just maybe I will heal a little bit...
    yogachic76 yogachic76 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    Whoever posted this the other day, I want to let you know that you saved a marriage. I printed it out for my MM and gave it to him yesterday. I knew in my heart that it would...
    Breeze62 Breeze62 51-55, F 10 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Update: It’s a long one sorry….So my ExMM came here and read my last post….he had promised me he would never invade my privacy again (he has come here in the past and read...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    We haven't even met in person yet... I'm new here, so I'll just launch right in. I'm having a lot of trouble dealing with these "other woman" rules. I've been here before, but I...
    Ahmazing Ahmazing 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Have you ever thought that one of our fellow OW is an imposter??? The other day I had someone PM me and it made me question their intention due to some questions.... It wasn't...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    Wow! Seems I've stirred up the pot a little bit with one of my posts. Thought I would take this opportunity to clarify a few things for the OW that may want to pay us a visit. 1...
    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I will often sit down and write a post about how I'm feeling. I write how I hate that I'm still really nervous around him and how self conscious I feel sometimes. I try so hard not...
    RedSheep2 RedSheep2 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    My ex MM had his big art show opening in London last weekend. He was written about in the Huffington Post. He is about to become very wealthy and famous. I'm happy for him...
    nycgrrrl nycgrrrl 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My ex MM had his big art show opening in London last weekend. He was written about in the Huffington Post. He is about to become very wealthy and famous. I'm happy for him...
    nycgrrrl nycgrrrl 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    Just having readqueenfl's last post (it was really good), I'm now feeling confused / angry and tired /sad / broken. I love this guy, and the writing speaks for itself. I feel...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have had an epiphany. On one of my post earlier a man had commented that if he were to have an affair it would be for fun and excitement. And that he would do the same things my...
    freddiesgirl69 freddiesgirl69 41-45, F 26 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've been reading the threads on "the other woman" all day, and all I can feel is disgust and contempt. You play the victim card like nothing else. "Oh, it just happened," "It...
    rollingdoro rollingdoro 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Well I spoke to him ( if your confused see my previous post). He said there's no way he can still be with her. He started off by saying he's sorry for putting me in that position...
    dolovf dolovf 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    I met my husband in the 7th grade but we didn't connect until high school. I became pregnant in our Senior year and we were married while still in school (a week to the day after...
    olderbutnotdead olderbutnotdead 51-55, F 5 Responses Aug 25

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    I just want to say first...Trolls....this post isn't for you! It's been 3wks (I think) since I ended it with the MM. Until Friday past, I hadn't seen him since June! Happily, I...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Day 1 of NC Made it to 23.75 hours of NC and he sent me a message about a project he has been working on and finally completed today. It was a two line message with no mention of...
    JulyBug JulyBug 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    Well since my last post. .. my mm has been calling & calling what should i do ....
    confused7years confused7years 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    This is inspired by a very old post that popped up, and is not very PC as far as this group goes, but it's on my mind and I wanted to get it out. My (ex?) MM used to always talk...
    inaraserra inaraserra 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 29

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    Wow!! What a long week. I haven't got to post here much, just restarted my college classes this past Monday so I have been super busy! But I missed reading all of your posts, I...
    ArlingtonRose ArlingtonRose 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Things have been really quiet for the last month. We don't talk about it .. We seldom do.. When he goes quiet I don't pressure him, I take the hint fast.. And stop initiating...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    It's been a while and I keep wanting to post but I have nothing good to say. My MM is fine. We are fine. But the crap that goes on around me in my home is not fine. Nothing is fun...
    neverendingmadness neverendingmadness 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    After my last post I got together back with him but am now tired of him and the way he treats me and always promises to change but doesn't.. I want to tell him face to face but he...
    Ruru7 Ruru7 31-35 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I'm on a roll today so here's another post. Just give me your thoughts. I think it is ok if my OW leaves her fiance for me instead of thinking its the right decision to the leave...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 9 Responses Aug 31

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    So Fine, as Wine...To me:You are, a true vintage,classic, so timelessan embodiment of sheer beauty.A desire to relish, an unforgettable aftertaste,such a savory reflection of...
    bemyvalentine bemyvalentine 56-60, F 17 Responses Sep 1

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    My exAP has been talking to me more lately. He is lost and miserable and confused. I told him something he didn't want to hear on Friday, so he went quiet...always does when that...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    My second post and I want to thank everyone for being so nice and supportive especially since I'm in a lot different situation than most of you but still basically the same in most...
    newyork2687 newyork2687 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    After lurking for the last week, I thought I'd post my own story. Many years ago, I met this guy online on a MMRPG. He was married with 2 small kids so even though I liked him...
    chitownchic chitownchic 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    So many thoughts on my mind tonight, trying to find any distraction by browsing through my PM’s on EP during and after the course of my affair with exMM. And there it is, a...
    lostsoul0311 lostsoul0311 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    After this post, I have decided to take a break for a little while. This man has totally destroyed my life. Today has been the most difficult day in the entire past year for me...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 12 Responses Sep 4

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    So anxiety is getting the better of me... Haven't heard from my boyfriend since noon, which is very much unlike him. We talk all the time, so I'm a little worried. Normally this...
    SweetHeresy SweetHeresy 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    So this really isn't a post about mm.....well indirectly I guess.....but I trust you ladies! So last night I had plans to see SG....I was at my nephews bday and said I'd let him...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    My ex MM (sort of? Maybe? Will be my ex as of 9/19 at least) went to a wedding this weekend with his wife, and I'd been dreading it for months. Even though we are supposedly done...
    inaraserra inaraserra 31-35, F Sep 8

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    My moods are up and down so I wanted to post this so I can come back to it when I need. Honestly no matter how this mess turns out. Whether she forgives him and they stay together...
    Khaleesii Khaleesii 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    What do think? If I could get a man's perspective that would be awesome. But ladies you are welcomed too ;). Ok, I have be very fortunate during this particular relationship to...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    His W found out about me, but he's still lying. I feel lost, worthless, broken, and I'm sick of crying. Sorry there's not much to this post other than me being depressed. It's so...
    StuckInEternity StuckInEternity 18-21, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I entered into this relationship with my MM, I never had the intention of breaking up his marriage; nor do I have the intention now. So I often find myself wondering why I'm...
    hiddennlove hiddennlove 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago