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I Am a Post-op Transexual Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 84 People

    Payback

    the last time i was back home i was at the bar and a guy came up and started flurtting with me and i did the same when i realised he was a false freind in high school who said some very hurtful things when i told him what i was going to do. he had no idea who i was, giggle,so i...
    sexysedra sexysedra 31-35, T 46 Responses May 7, 2011

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    Xxx Nakedness ~ No Hiding Place Xxx

    XXX NAKEDNESS ~ NO HIDING PLACE XXX  As a post~op woman of five years I thought I had travelled my path and had taken my penultimate step as I now live my life as myself in a busy professional and social life having experienced no difficulties or drama along the way. Three years...
    KellyMac KellyMac 46-50, F 26 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    The Beauty Within.

    Many of you know me and many of you don't. I have alot of friends here and appreciate all of them.  There are a few that are very special to me and they know who they are.  This may be a brief story, but none the less it is my thankyou to all of you that have befriended me and...
    valeriemonetti valeriemonetti 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    I Have Had A Crush On A Post-op Trans Woman

    I remember growing up in the 80s and watching all of those trash tv shows that were all about sleaze and sex and there was this one show that talked about how this lady was killed because she had been a man and even though she had become post-op her husband killed her! They...
    robin12 robin12 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    Positive Work Life

    I have been Post Op now for 4 years. I was Very fortunate to keep my job They really had no choice as I am working With the Canadian Government. It was very hard at first. I lost many friends and gained Others. Looking back now as far as I am concerned everything is as if I...
    Wendytgif Wendytgif 41-45 5 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    I Am A Post-op Transsexual Woman And I Regret Having Surgery

    I'll keep it as brief as possible but I've scoured the internet and I can't find what I want. I had surgery when I was 26 - 4 years ago. I regret it but I don't regret living as a woman. I just wish I was a woman with a penis instead. Is there anyone else out there? As my...
    Wonttakenoforananswer Wonttakenoforananswer 26-30, T 11 Responses Jun 7, 2011

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    Post-Op And Doing Well

    I had my GCS on July 16 of 2013. I have to admit that I am please with they way my body is healing. There have been a couple problems with dilation, but nothing life threating. I think that I've healed well enough that I can finally go out and buy the new clothes I've had my...
    stacygurl86 stacygurl86 26-30, T 14 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    St. Patrick'S Day Bliss

    It was Saturday, and I had invited Brad over at 7:00 pm, so from about 8:00 am, after coffee, I spent from that time all that morning wearing just a yellow t-shirt, and white shorts, and sandles, my hair in a ponytail. I started just especially cleaning counters, the kitchen, (I...
    Jackieperson9 Jackieperson9 18-21, T 3 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Help my sanity please?! I will post here as most will see this then. Brief background if u don't know- 2.5 yrs of friendship started online. Emotional affair. Physical affair for...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    *controversial post alert* I don't blame my boyfriend's wife if she is defensive or worries about my friendship with him. I often wonder why ow hate on the wife. I admit I have...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 10 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    A life post... A little bit ago I found out after over two years how much money he had. It's his. Yes, I repeat it's his. I have every intention to sign a prenup dividing his...
    RedHotPepper RedHotPepper 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    In October I had an abortion. I've gone through the stages of grief, though it was painful I understood it and so did others. But then there were the emotions and thoughts that I...
    DizzieDazie DizzieDazie 18-21, F Jul 5

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    I’m not the other woman. I am a man. I am not the other man either. I am married and not involved with another married woman. Interesting fact that some 950 men are currently...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 17

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    *Clears throat* Guys? *Clears throat again, desperately hoping that middle-age will lend her an aura of authority* Guys?! This post has nothing to do with being the "other woman...
    BoudoirWhispers BoudoirWhispers 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I am NOT the other woman any longer but then again I never did feel that way…..For those that know my story already know that my relationship was an open book for all including...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973 41-45, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi everyone, my friends and support group here. I miss reading and replying to your post. My country was stricken by typhoon, 3 days now. No electricity, telecommunications and...
    annettesan annettesan 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    Hello EP! This is my first post here. I have spent a lot of time reading others experiences and have found comfort in knowing that there are so many others in a similar situation...
    JulyBug JulyBug 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 3

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    Let's talk about sex, shall we? One of the most difficult things to get past after Dday is the thought that your husband had sex with another woman. I know I struggled with this...
    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    This is the first time I wrote something like this, if you cared enough to read...Thank you.. On the other day I saw a post here that said something like "we -the other women- are...
    ShallowPink ShallowPink 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    Anyone have a post accidentally end up on the "I am tired of being the other woman" forum? In case you were wondering...not so friendly folks over there when you are talking about...
    ynoTme83 ynoTme83 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    "at some point you will realize you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. leave them alone. walk away. it's not like your giving up...
    allthingsgood allthingsgood 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Day 3 post 'break up'. Haven't even cried today. Why? He's shown jealous tendencies today. He's also dumped his girlfriend. We've msgd a lot today but only the usual. He's...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    he stopped by my place early this morning...after all my worrying and overthinking in his absence he came over and put it all to rest. said he got home late last night from...
    allthingsgood allthingsgood 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    The last time I wrote a post was 2 weeks ago. We had a magical night where he expressed how much he loved me and wanted to be with only me! Who knew this is where I'd be today...
    MsE84 MsE84 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 4

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    And a final note: every time I post on this site I get messaged by a man propositioning me. Disgusting!
    nycgrrrl nycgrrrl 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 9

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    Day 2 Post Breakup I had to talk to him today because he needed my help at work. So awkward and sad! I regret dating a coworker. Initially it was great because we got to see each...
    ownomore ownomore 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    So people please.... Read dates of posts before you reply to them.... Here I am trying to move on to the best of my ability and I have people commenting on posts a month and half...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    My previous post got deleted... not sure why. Today I walked into work and to my surprise, the task I do (and dread) every Tuesday was done for me... by him (he has off Tues & I...
    lostanddistraught lostanddistraught 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I question everything!!!! Everything... What he says, what he doesn't say.... Anything and everything.... I look for hints of him not loving me, not wanting to be with me, wanting...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    Where is that one girl that was going to post her back story stating she would shock us with how crazy it is?
    pinkismysignaturecolor pinkismysignaturecolor 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Note to self: he is not obligated to text you every time he has time to get on Facebook or EP. He is allowed to do those things and other things with his time. However nice it...
    neverendingmadness neverendingmadness 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    The W nailed him via text! This is kinda long sorry. So for those that know my back story my MM and I have been an official couple for over a month now. I still try and post my...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    This might be a long post sorry in advance. When i was six years old i moved to a predominantly white area . My first day of first grade i remember walking into the classroom...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 13-15 7 Responses a week ago

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    Brand, shiny new to EP. I came in need of emotional support for dealing with PMDD. As God would have it, there's a forum for being the OW. After one day, I am already so thankful I...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 19 Responses 4 days ago

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    So :) want your opinion on this: He and I have had this thing with social media .... Facebook, Instagram. Long story short he hated my fb bc of past flings and bf I was still...
    ap05 ap05 26-30, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just want to first thank all of you incredible ladies for the supportive words on my last post. It's nice to have the support, it helps me to not feel alone. I'm very tired...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    I pretty much have moved in. My house is just an expensive closet at this point. I only go there to grab clothes and mail. Sometimes I'll do laundry, only because my washer and...
    RedHotPepper RedHotPepper 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I wasn't sure if I should post this under "I am sensitive" or the OW forum. I don't know who would see it if it was under the sensitive one...and I feel like I'd like some input...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Totally isn't about being the OW, but since I've already shared my story here, figured I could post... It's one of those days. My H is getting in my head. I know leaving him is...
    PrincessLG PrincessLG 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Just so everyone knows...I come here mostly for myself I like to get it all out in writing because I have no one I can really talk to on the subject. I do love most of the...
    ynoTme83 ynoTme83 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Found A Big Dose of Red Bugs ! Mercy ! Trying to get through this post-op. Wow! Two day ago I went to a funeral of a family member and I guess it is a delayed reaction. Clorox...
    MaryBarbie MaryBarbie 46-50, F 12 hrs ago

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    I am currently on Day 11 recovery from a tonsillectomy. I have to say, a tonsillectomy is not for wusses! Having suffered for as long as I can remember with constant bouts of...
    anitarate anitarate 31-35, F Jul 11

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    I'm a FtoM trans. I'm post op but I saw a gender doc the other day and he gave me a script for T. Now I'm waiting for the pharmacy to order it. I can't wait to start using it! I...
    Larsman Larsman 46-50, T 3 Responses Jul 12

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    For many years now I have thought about getting a breast reduction. Ever since I was little I was made fun of by girl and boys because I was so developed at a young age. By the...
    RayeannB RayeannB 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    This is my story, i posted in my facebook page. This page is like dead tho, cos i have no friends there, so read it and think about all what i said: I think im leaving for...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Everyone is free here to block whoever they want. The abuse takes place whenever someone decides to evade important questions or simply a painful truth. To call adultery by its...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M Jul 14

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    Yes I do. I am an adult. I am willing to listen what others have to say, be it good or bad, positive or negative. Responsibility means that I make myself accountable and that I...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    The movie After The Fall is one of my favorite movies. It is about a young woman who competes in a horse competition and has a horrible fall that renders her paralyzed. I am...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1