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I Am a Post-op Transexual Woman

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    St. Patrick'S Day Bliss

    It was Saturday, and I had invited Brad over at 7:00 pm, so from about 8:00 am, after coffee, I spent from that time all that morning wearing just a yellow t-shirt, and white shorts, and sandles, my hair in a ponytail. I started just especially cleaning counters, the kitchen, (I...
    Jackieperson9 Jackieperson9 18-21, T 3 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Post-Op And Doing Well

    I had my GCS on July 16 of 2013. I have to admit that I am please with they way my body is healing. There have been a couple problems with dilation, but nothing life threating. I think that I've healed well enough that I can finally go out and buy the new clothes I've had my...
    stacygurl86 stacygurl86 26-30, T 14 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    I Have Had A Crush On A Post-op Trans Woman

    I remember growing up in the 80s and watching all of those trash tv shows that were all about sleaze and sex and there was this one show that talked about how this lady was killed because she had been a man and even though she had become post-op her husband killed her! They...
    robin12 robin12 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    Payback

    the last time i was back home i was at the bar and a guy came up and started flurtting with me and i did the same when i realised he was a false freind in high school who said some very hurtful things when i told him what i was going to do. he had no idea who i was, giggle,so i...
    sexysedra sexysedra 31-35, T 46 Responses May 7, 2011

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    Xxx Nakedness ~ No Hiding Place Xxx

    XXX NAKEDNESS ~ NO HIDING PLACE XXX  As a post~op woman of five years I thought I had travelled my path and had taken my penultimate step as I now live my life as myself in a busy professional and social life having experienced no difficulties or drama along the way. Three years...
    KellyMac KellyMac 46-50, F 26 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    The Beauty Within.

    Many of you know me and many of you don't. I have alot of friends here and appreciate all of them.  There are a few that are very special to me and they know who they are.  This may be a brief story, but none the less it is my thankyou to all of you that have befriended me and...
    valeriemonetti valeriemonetti 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    Positive Work Life

    I have been Post Op now for 4 years. I was Very fortunate to keep my job They really had no choice as I am working With the Canadian Government. It was very hard at first. I lost many friends and gained Others. Looking back now as far as I am concerned everything is as if I...
    Wendytgif Wendytgif 41-45 5 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    I Am A Post-op Transsexual Woman And I Regret Having Surgery

    I'll keep it as brief as possible but I've scoured the internet and I can't find what I want. I had surgery when I was 26 - 4 years ago. I regret it but I don't regret living as a woman. I just wish I was a woman with a penis instead. Is there anyone else out there? As my...
    Wonttakenoforananswer Wonttakenoforananswer 26-30, T 11 Responses Jun 7, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I am NOT the other woman any longer but then again I never did feel that way…..For those that know my story already know that my relationship was an open book for all including...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 26

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    I have been following another post on here and I'm sure what I'm about to post is going to get some comments. ...I was a wife who was cheated on, my husband left me not once but...
    leigh8133 leigh8133 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 10

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    Just a little randomness, not really a rant because im not angry about it but why as a married woman, albeit a sour one, go looking for a space such as this to read stories from...
    SweetAsSugar10 SweetAsSugar10 22-25 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    He always tells me he loves me and asks if I love him. I do, so I say yes. We've been "together" almost 2 years. I am very good friends with his wife so I feel like a terrible...
    rideaway rideaway 18-21, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been reading all your post but never posted till now let me tell you my story I use to date a guy 15 years ago I was his first ever girlfriend he was the love of my life...
    fluffyf fluffyf 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    I still post on here even though my MM and I have been an official couple for 3 months now. Hopefully, my transitional experience will help other. So my BF and I had a 5 hour...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I just wanted to update everyone on my post from last night. I do not think I experienced D-Day after all. Here is a little bit of a back story to clarify from last night's post. I...
    ArlingtonRose ArlingtonRose 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    Oh ya--c'mere and say that--you're gong down lady. Can you do this? 10 sets 20 reps each. It's about resistance and technique not speed. I am a fit, sensuous play kitten but do I...
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 46-50, F Aug 1

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    Our rate is determined by how competitive your key terms are, and just how much operate should be performed. For very competitive keywords and phrases, and scenario where by the...
    Joshua950z5kh8 Joshua950z5kh8 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Anyone have a post accidentally end up on the "I am tired of being the other woman" forum? In case you were wondering...not so friendly folks over there when you are talking about...
    ynoTme83 ynoTme83 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    I felt so bad today not only that he will be going for vacation tomorrow for a week in addition he cant give me his time today to chat with me. He can be so insensitive sometimes...
    essencesa essencesa 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    i need some help and don't really know what to do ... I've been the other woman for 8 years now on and off.. the last 3 years have been totally on.. when our relationship started...
    gmouse81 gmouse81 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I had an awkward experience two years ago that I wanted to share. I originally posted this on someone’s blog but I thought it would be good to post it here as well. I went to...
    WestLondonGirl WestLondonGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Note to self: he is not obligated to text you every time he has time to get on Facebook or EP. He is allowed to do those things and other things with his time. However nice it...
    neverendingmadness neverendingmadness 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    The W nailed him via text! This is kinda long sorry. So for those that know my back story my MM and I have been an official couple for over a month now. I still try and post my...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 22

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    This might be a long post sorry in advance. When i was six years old i moved to a predominantly white area . My first day of first grade i remember walking into the classroom...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 13-15, F 10 Responses Jul 23

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    Brand, shiny new to EP. I came in need of emotional support for dealing with PMDD. As God would have it, there's a forum for being the OW. After one day, I am already so thankful I...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 19 Responses Jul 26

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    So :) want your opinion on this: He and I have had this thing with social media .... Facebook, Instagram. Long story short he hated my fb bc of past flings and bf I was still...
    ap05 ap05 26-30, F 10 Responses Jul 27

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    I just want to first thank all of you incredible ladies for the supportive words on my last post. It's nice to have the support, it helps me to not feel alone. I'm very tired...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 11 Responses Jul 28

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    I pretty much have moved in. My house is just an expensive closet at this point. I only go there to grab clothes and mail. Sometimes I'll do laundry, only because my washer and...
    RedHotPepper RedHotPepper 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I wasn't sure if I should post this under "I am sensitive" or the OW forum. I don't know who would see it if it was under the sensitive one...and I feel like I'd like some input...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Totally isn't about being the OW, but since I've already shared my story here, figured I could post... It's one of those days. My H is getting in my head. I know leaving him is...
    PrincessLG PrincessLG 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 29

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    Just so everyone knows...I come here mostly for myself I like to get it all out in writing because I have no one I can really talk to on the subject. I do love most of the...
    ynoTme83 ynoTme83 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Help my sanity please?! I will post here as most will see this then. Brief background if u don't know- 2.5 yrs of friendship started online. Emotional affair. Physical affair for...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    *controversial post alert* I don't blame my boyfriend's wife if she is defensive or worries about my friendship with him. I often wonder why ow hate on the wife. I admit I have...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 13 Responses Jul 30

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    A life post... A little bit ago I found out after over two years how much money he had. It's his. Yes, I repeat it's his. I have every intention to sign a prenup dividing his...
    RedHotPepper RedHotPepper 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    So I read a lot, but don't post much. I've been with MM 18 months. We see each other 3 or 4 times a week mostly lunch, coffee, etc. We are both married, but have really filled a...
    balloongirl balloongirl 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 31

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    He didnt ever say hi or something .-. Just told me that out of nowhere. The first didnt fit in the picture but he just say he is a guy that likes to be torture by woman.
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    He came by this morning before work...never done that before. Called and said he was driving to work, changed direction, wanted to see me. Stayed for about an hour. Feels like a...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I am no longer the ow but when I was it was the best feeling in the world. Its better that he chose his son over me but of still hurts. Of anyone wants the whole story let me know...
    hopelessromantic9613 hopelessromantic9613 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Has anyone seen this website Shesahomewrecker? This looks like a place where all the angry W's post pics and stories about the OW and their husbands.
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 5

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    For all of you beautiful ladies… Maybe it’s my mood today. Maybe it’s because it’s summer, maybe it’s because I’m feel lonely, and maybe it’s because I’m angry...
    lyrics101 lyrics101 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 5

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    So I'm back from the Dominican Republic and I'm not sure what's going on between me and my mm. Reminder: my mm renewed his vows 8/2 and I left before that..... He didn't see me...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    One last post before I pass out, because I am on cloud 9! MM came over to my work last night and we ended up having sex... He is so freaking sexy! He knows how much he turns me...
    lifeisajourney14 lifeisajourney14 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    This an update from my post earlier today. I said I wasn't going to be responding to his morning email and I did not. So at 8:30 tonight, he emails me and by the tone, indicated...
    ArlingtonRose ArlingtonRose 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 7

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    We talked this morning. About the trip. About our situation. As you can see from my last post, I understand why he should go on the trip. I just wish we would be past all this...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    So it occurred to me today that this site is not only for talking to people in similar situations without judgement, it's also for very bored, lonely people to pass the time either...
    dizzygirl5 dizzygirl5 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I would never want any of you wonderful women to blow smoke up my butt about my relationship with MM. If I post something and ask for insight, please give me the truth. I read a...
    BlackHiHeels4Me BlackHiHeels4Me 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 10

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    So I'm finally home and in my bed. Today was the last day of visiting my MM in his city. As mentioned in my other post, I was annoyed that his wife would find every reason to...
    OrangeTwist OrangeTwist 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    Do any of you women have an opinion as to why the wives do not want sex? My MM said to me on Saturday that she never wanted or wants him. He feels closer to me than to his own W. I...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 16 Responses Aug 12