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I Am a Pretty Quiet Person, Until You Get to Know Me

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    but people rarely get into

    that phase with you.... cause youre just too DAMN QUIET!!!! nobody cares *sorry im talking to myself
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I come across as very reserved

    and quiet . especially if you're meeting Mr for the first time. I'm very careful of how I present myself .it's only when I meet frequently and I'm in a comfortable place that you'll get to know how I am. One I talk you can't shut me up. The more you try to stop me from making...
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 18

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    My work mate think am a mute.

    Kind of annoying as she does not know me and she makes it harder as she is obnoxious.
    lisa84a lisa84a 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    cutedisha cutedisha 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Most of the time I will talk my head off to

    anyone, but I usually have to have at least one person that I know really well around me. If I am completely alone in a group of people I barely know, I will quietly listen. It feels weird to be quiet, but some people are just harder to talk to than others. Does anyone else feel...
    Blackbutterflies99 Blackbutterflies99 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    I'm quiet and only open up to my friends

    and to people who take the time to get know me
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 15

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    I am usually shy when I met new people

    but once you and I get to know each other I'm like a jack in box, I'm full of surprises
    meekakitty meekakitty 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 16

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    I wanted to pick a subject of "Whether to

    believe what's in your head." Making reality into unspoken words or what seems reality, is hard, and sometimes you just can't believe your own self.
    neffi neffi 13-15, M Oct 18

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    I like to people watch every

    where I go. It's a secret habit that I practice and I believe it helps me better interact with other humans.
    youguyssuck69 youguyssuck69 18-21, M Sep 20

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    Opening The Book

    I'm friendly and always polite to anyone I meet, but I also tend to be quiet and reserved. I pick and choose my words carefully...I am cautious about offending people. I don't share a lot of personal information...I keep thoughts and feelings to myself. When first meeting me...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I'm so quiet when it come to school

    and Everybody around me tell me that I'm quite but all my friends say I talk to much :) and that I'm wild and crazy. Funny don't you think. :)
    zoeyflower zoeyflower 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Discrimination gets you nowhere,

    except between a rock and a hard place. Learning about other people can be a life-time experience , can be a Summer vacation, and/or can be a stick in the mud. Whoever you pick to get to know , do it mom artery what, you won't know the outcome.
    neffi neffi 13-15, M Oct 18

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    Don’t Judge Me Because I’m Quiet,

    Just because I'm quiet doesn't mean I'm mute Doesn't mean I'm boring Doesn't mean I can't be outgoing Just because I'm quiet Don't make fun of me Don't judge how I am Don't treat me like an animal Just Because I'm quiet I still want make friends Still love to have conversations...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 22, 2012

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    Two Sides Of Me

    Some of my friends would say, that I'm talkative, and that I don't shut up. Some others would say that I'm quiet, and don't like talking to people at all. Both of them are right. I am shy/antisocial, and try to avoid starting conversations with people I don't know, or barely know...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20, 2013

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    ajphotolover ajphotolover 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 16

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    I am totally Opposite in reality.

    I am Bubbly, happy go lucky kinda woman. Very easy going .. Freindly.. not afried to speak to any astangers ! Specially If I find someone "Inteclectually Comunicatable" then.. it is like the more are the marier. So, that is who I am. Howver, I do not share my PAIN or SORROW with...
    Cowsir66 Cowsir66 41-45, T 25 mins ago

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    I am oh so shy. The girl

    who sits quietly in class and although I may know the answer I still won't raise my hand. Or if I am in a big group of people I just met I usually won't speak. I guess I'm always scared someone will judge me or say something rude. However once I get out of my comfort zone I am...
    Nocturnallover Nocturnallover 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I can admit to being shy at first

    when meeting someone new. However, I do get over that. I takes me a while to warm up to most people. Every once in a while I will meet someone who I feel instantly comfortable with. I like when that happens! Then there are some people that I just don't click with. Doesn't mean I...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F Sep 22

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    I get so shy in front of everyone.

    My twin sister is the exact opposite. It takes me a while to warm up.
    Kierstyne Kierstyne 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I guess it just happens naturally

    for me, I am a little quiet in person or especially around groups but as you get to know me I feel more relaxed and open up more, I guess you could say that at first I just sit back and observe before I move forward.
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M Nov 15

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    It takes me quite a while to get comfortable

    around people but once I'm comfortable I'm definitely not as quiet
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am very shy at first.

    I have a hard time letting people in and trusting them so it can take years for me to warm up to a person but when I do I can be my goofy, hyper self without worrying much about if they like me or not. I wish I didn't do that, I wish I could just be me from the start but..easier...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Sep 15

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    I am a naturally shy girl.

    I don't like being in the spotlight too often, but i am working on it. Once I feel that a person is not a weirdo or perverted or someone who is looking to get married and will not make me feel awkward while talking to them, then i will tend to talk more freely. Of course i am...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I am an introvert and shy girl

    and often get misconstrued as egoistic. I open up once the comfort and trust is established. I am very slow in making friends and I hope people here will be patient with me.
    deepaforeverangel deepaforeverangel 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I am a pretty quiet person,

    until you get to know me. I can be very shy, maybe too shy sometimes. I have always been that way, maybe its why I don't make friends easily and why I have a hard time interacting with people, but once you get to know me, and once I start talking to people and getting to know...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Apr 12

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    Once you get to know me,

    you'd be surprised on how loud I am. It just really depends on how comfortable I am talking to you.
    camillee camillee 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    Always come across as quite

    and shy until I get out of my comfort zone and will confident around people then I change completely haha
    patrick6cfc patrick6cfc 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 21

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    It's funny how I'm so quiet.

    . And I told unless I know people but when I do you could say I'm a party animal πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ
    kysswashere kysswashere 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    But When I Have Something To Say...

    Sometimes I feel like most people go around talking constantly for the sake of breaking up the silence. At work, on the train, walking down the street... all I hear is a lot of people talking about mostly nothing. Not me. I've always been the quiet type. I'm very private and...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    I feel like I'm way more awkward

    before I get to know you properly hahah. I'm easy to talk tho don't get me wrong x) but after I get to know u , I'd say i'm a completely different person almost haha XD
    ChrisXyris ChrisXyris 16-17, M Oct 1

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    When I'm in a group of people

    that I don't know, is very difficult for me to talk because I'm a quiet person and I tend to watch people's behavior πŸ™ˆ I'm always daydreaming, though I love a good laugh..once I get to know people I'm very friendly.
    lizzyWaterbearer lizzyWaterbearer 18-21, F Nov 11

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    When u get to know me im like a bomb exploding

    in ur face with noise, laughter and lots n lost of talking hahaha :D
    lynnewolf99 lynnewolf99 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    Very quiet. I don't know what to say to

    strangers to even start a conversation and only respond if they initiate. But, after meeting someone a few times I talk a lot :)
    PitofDespair PitofDespair 26-30, F 6 Responses May 2

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    SuicidalSilence SuicidalSilence 13-15 Dec 13, 2013

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    When you first meet me I'll be quiet

    and shy, but if you show me you're a good person and that I can trust you. I'll slowly start to trust you and once I have fully trusted you then you'll get to the know the real me.
    Catina25 Catina25 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 24

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    Cautious

    I am always a bit shy and cautious when I meet people for the first time. I need to get to know them. When I do I am a pretty open person and love to make close friends that I would do anything for.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    I'm naturally shy and introverted put me in a

    group of people that I don't know I'm the wallflower...quiet as a mouse. I'm the complete opposite though when you see me with people I've grown up with...I'm the better of attention, always cracking jokes, and with the loudest laugh.
    Mct7988 Mct7988 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 10

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    I am quiet, and I am awkward,

    sometimes I'm antisocial. But if you can spare the time to get to know me, I'm much more then that. And so are all of the people on this world who are also quiet, awkward, and anti social. We are all much, much more.
    PieBombs PieBombs 13-15, F Nov 5

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    I'm very quiet at first

    but then when u meet me I'm completely different
    Klovespuppies Klovespuppies 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    And then, you know...

    after that all bets are off. ;)
    Myfairlady1 Myfairlady1 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 17

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    Duct Tape

    When you first meet me, you may notice that I'm quiet, until you realize that there's duct tape on my mouth. I am like the Tin Man and you are like Dorothy. (work with me here. Yes, it's a stretch. ) So, out of pity, you gently remove the duct tape. At that point I...
    NoLongerHere NoLongerHere 41-45, M 10 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    Online, I will talk until people stop replying. In person, I rarely open my mouth.
    ADawnS ADawnS 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    on ep I am more open than I am in person. once i get to know someone I open up more. its kind of sad to be at a party and standing in a corner or on the coat tails of a friend...
    regalshewolf regalshewolf 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I like to be quiet. I also like quiet places. When I was younger people never really let me say much, not that I'm older they want me to say everything.
    RedUsaSoccerBoy RedUsaSoccerBoy 13-15, M Nov 18

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    Ok I'm work late . I come home relax try to get some sleep.. Neighbors dog keeps barking . So I put sleeping pill in a sausage throw over fence . The dog ate it and stopped barking...
    832getsum 832getsum 22-25, M 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    People are so annoying with their never ending questions. I just want to be left alone, and not be judged. You get judged if you talk too much or too less. I'm not unhappy, sad...
    lmaoellie lmaoellie 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    mayor of fort lauderdale Jack Seiler Arrest a 90 year old men for feeding homeless. WTF in public park where the f are this people to go there homeless. So city can be pretty it...
    Marisa85 Marisa85 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    Waiting for this moment, searching for emotion a connection and I find it there in her for a fleeting second and then As my grey starts to lift and hope comes The thunder...
    rainyraven rainyraven 31-35, T 2 Responses Oct 30

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    i met someone and they changed me in ways i didn't even know possible I was lost, so alone, locked in a cage of sorrow. But she found me. Like a merciful angel she reached out me...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M Nov 17

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    Ok the interview went well last Thursday. It was an hour and forty minutes long. Got an email on Sunday night requesting a writing sample. I tried to write a short research paper...
    Gingersmiles Gingersmiles 41-45, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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