I Am a Pretty Quiet Person, Until You Get to Know Me

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    They say that "No man is an island "

    but i dont have friends
    Mhaerkit Mhaerkit
    16-17, M
    Feb 2

    As a young girl I was painfully shy

    and reserved. Adults loved me because I always listened, never made a scene....I was a good girl. The sweetheart, the little doll, the quiet one. *cringes. In all that quietness I observed. Ever watchful. Ever perceiving. In time I learned to speak more. But I'm still the...
    snowberry75 snowberry75
    36-40, F
    13 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    I always get ask the question

    why am I so quiet and Im just like "Are you my friend"
    Kyceyodiditagain Kyceyodiditagain
    13-15, F
    Oct 13, 2015

    I am quite shy. It takes me a

    while to warm up to people I don't know at first. Once I know you better, I am pretty open.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jan 16, 2015

    I'm a pretty quiet person,

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    diyalambaxxx diyalambaxxx
    26-30, F
    Mar 1

    I'm extremely shy but

    when I meet you and find out you're very nice, then I can talk YIUR head off! lol
    youngadult25 youngadult25
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 21
    canadachick430 canadachick430
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 29, 2014

    I'll be pretty shy when we first meet

    but as we get to know each other I'll open up
    cutegirl104 cutegirl104
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 19, 2014

    This is literally the truest.

    I seen quiet at first. Most people tell me I'm seen as super friendly because I smile and I don't have the resting ***** face like my twin but I'm still quiet. Why? I don't know you yet so I'm like shy. But once you do get to know me, oh you find out I am the most strange in a...
    domdotcom domdotcom
    18-21, F
    Oct 7, 2015

    a lot of people say this to me

    because I am quiet, but i never shut up once you get to know me!!(:
    beccawhatevea beccawhatevea
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2015

    I generally feel better opening up

    and talking to people if they approach me first. I am pretty shy and quiet when I don't know who you are. But once we have spoken a few times I'm a loud mouth :)
    xWarriorPrincessx xWarriorPrincessx
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    People: Wow you're so very quiet Me: Well

    nobody plans a murder out loud
    BackToBiege BackToBiege
    18-21, F
    Jan 22

    When I first meet someone,

    I tend to be quiet while I silently feel them out. If I determine they aren't really someone I want to waste my time getting to know, I tend to just remain quiet. If they're someone I feel the slightest connection with, I have no problem chatting them up and letting them in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 29, 2015

    Very quiet. I don't know what to say to

    strangers to even start a conversation and only respond if they initiate. But, after meeting someone a few times I talk a lot :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses May 2, 2014

    I feel like I'm 2 persons,

    at home I go crazy & basically be myself, when I'm on public especially with groups of people like in school, I'm really calm & quite, I'm afraid to say anything, I'm like Dead, Iced ...etc
    boom991 boom991
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Feb 20, 2015

    At the early days of friendship,

    you might as well call me mute. I don't care about the awkwardness, because I only to talk if I have something good to say. I call that adjusting. Instead of talking, I observe you. More importantly, I "listen" to you first. (and I just laugh a lot and smile) But as we develop...
    SparkofDecency SparkofDecency
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 14

    I keep myself to myself mostly

    until I get to know you properly, I am known as quite to strangers but when people get to know me I'm loud and brassy. I don't like to reveal all when I start chatting it may take a few months for me to warm up to you
    shazzyshazza shazzyshazza
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 23

    When I'm around strangers I don't talk much

    and they think I'm just a shy little butterfly. But what they don't know is that I have a picture of my cousin with the worst haircut ever and I fully intend on using it to blackmail him into buying me Minecraft for Xbox.
    OperaFantasma OperaFantasma
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 4

    I might look very calm

    and introvert at first but as Time goes I become very active and funny 😆
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2015
    MariahLoveDough MariahLoveDough
    13-15, F
    Feb 10

    I am the quietest person you'll ever meet

    until you befriend me then i just chat non-stop. Im like a monster.
    Penispotato Penispotato
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 17, 2015

    I'm always the quiet one in groups

    but when u get to know me I speak a little but when we are bestfriends I'll do the stupidest random **** Lol. that's Me
    unrrulytamii unrrulytamii
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Apr 3, 2015

    Unless I get completely arseholed I find it

    really difficult to talk to people because I'm afraid of not being good enough.
    HyacinthMay HyacinthMay
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2015

    Every time I meet someone knew I'm always shy,

    like really shy, I can hardly say my name. But after you get to know me I talk non-stop. I'm worried people will think I'm annoying.
    Harryp0tter Harryp0tter
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2015
    Jupiter613 Jupiter613
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    I'm usually quiet. Sometimes it takes me a

    while to get used to someone but I feel really comfortable after I do
    Ariannaaaaa Ariannaaaaa
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 15

    Gotta love that when someone doesn't like your

    reply they'll block you in return
    vol7769 vol7769
    36-40, F
    24 Responses Aug 21, 2015

    I do not say much at first I am very shy .

    But once I get to know you I never shut up
    princessandravensmom princessandravensmom
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Aug 7, 2015

    Yeah I'm quiet at first.

    But it's a quiet confidence. It's a quietness of choice, not of fear. It's the deliberate decision to process and observe, rather than blabber or make small talk. Because I hate small talk. Small talk is for the fools, small talk is for the birds. Small talk is for those who...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 26, 2015

    So, sorry if it takes a while

    for us to connect when you message me :/ just stick with it and you'll finally see the super-goof, odd-ball maniac that I am!
    DeeBuzzifiedBee DeeBuzzifiedBee
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 27

    I am a pretty quiet person

    but my friends would say differently. : )
    ChaosArchangel ChaosArchangel
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    I am shy and quiet, but

    once I get to know someone, I am talkative and able to be myself. Once I feel comfortable with you, I don't let anything hold me back.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    People always assume I'm mean

    because I don't talk but then they talk to me and see that I'm absolutely insane (lol).
    lifesacruelgame lifesacruelgame
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 24, 2015

    But people find me annoying anyways.

    I understand how my silence can be a nuisance... but it still hurts.
    Nero7universe Nero7universe
    18-21, F
    Jan 29

    Everyone thinks I'm quiet,

    but the truth is, once you get to know me, you'd wish I'd shut up!!!!
    AmeliaC2002 AmeliaC2002
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Jan 10

    I am quiet. But then

    after like 2 moths or so BOOM i go off like a firecracker.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    I tend to stay quiet

    until someone cracks my shell. Then i talk until their ears run away. Sometimes I feel like it is annoying to them. But oh well.
    Stephenwashere92 Stephenwashere92
    22-25, M
    3 Responses May 11, 2015

    I'm pretty talkative

    and I'll never shut up once you get to know me. I might start talking about comedians than end up at Japanese snacks (like taiyaki).
    AfterFall AfterFall
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2015

    When you first meet me I'll be quiet

    and shy, but if you show me you're a good person and that I can trust you. I'll slowly start to trust you and once I have fully trusted you then you'll get to the know the real me.
    Catina25 Catina25
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 24, 2014

    I should be sleeping

    or studying but I'm not because of this interactive app. Am I the only one?
    shortbrunette3 shortbrunette3
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    I was bullied when I was younger

    because people would say things to my friends like "you can't be her friend if you want to hang out with me" (says the self proclaimed cool kid). Because of that, I didn't talk much with other people and still don't. I mainly wait for people to approach me to talk. I don't even...
    Kriptess Kriptess
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    This is me I just show

    who you been talking to and comment my experience:)
    LucidxxShivery LucidxxShivery
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 9

    Hey guys seeing as this app is shutting down I

    thought how about we follow each other on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook? Kik- rachelx2002 Twitter- @beautgraveyard / @raubrey8 (I have 2 accounts Instagram- raubrey8 Facebook - https://m.facebook.com/rachelann.aubrey?fref=nf
    Raubrey8 Raubrey8
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 24

    I'm a pretty shy person.

    I don't normally introduce myself to people. But once we get to know each other it's hard to shut me up. It's weird though cuz at home I'm super crazy and bouncing off the walls but as soon as I get into a public place I completely close up. The only thing I'm really good at is...
    therealpinkpony therealpinkpony
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    People assume that because I'm quiet

    that I'm a prude. I absolutely love their expressions when they get to know me and learn that I am by no means, a prude. Priceless.
    notthis78 notthis78
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jan 25, 2015
    kezzaaap kezzaaap
    18-21, F
    Jan 12

    I'm pretty soft-spoken at school

    but with my friends my Jersey accent really comes out and I love to yell and sing spontaneously at home
    RachelDare RachelDare
    16-17
    Feb 18
    lynnox lynnox
    22-25, F
    Dec 31, 2014

    Most people know me to be shy

    and unusually quiet. And in some cases, they aren't wrong. I usually am quiet and shy. But once I begin to get comfortable with someone, (not just after being around them for a long period of time) but after I've let my guard down with someone, letting them into my deepest...
    DarkDesires019 DarkDesires019
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 9, 2015

    People on the bus always ask me,

    why are you so quiet but my true friends always tell me you are so loud shh. Im probably so quiet on the bus because no one is sitting with me LOL😂😋😆
    JonesboroChick JonesboroChick
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 10

    Duct Tape

    When you first meet me, you may notice that I'm quiet, until you realize that there's duct tape on my mouth. I am like the Tin Man and you are like Dorothy. (work with me here. Yes, it's a stretch. ) So, out of pity, you gently remove the duct tape. At that point I...
    NoLongerHere NoLongerHere
    41-45, M
    9 Responses Jun 18, 2012

    I'm quiet but at the same time,

    if you ask me I'll tell you.
    TheBarbieKat TheBarbieKat
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 25

    People moan and pick on you

    because you're quiet then when you talk they look at you like a piece of crap, like they've just a heard an uninteresting noise.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 22
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