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I Am a Prude

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    Understanding Prude….   Webster says:   Main Entry: prude Pronunciation: ˈprüd Function: noun Etymology: French, good woman, prudish woman, short for prudefemme good woman, from Old French prode femme : a person who is excessively or...
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 11 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    I Still Can't Say the "S" Word Out Loud

    but it depends on who I'm with.. if I'm with my friend.. i have to be blunt about it with her.. cause i don't want her to lose her virginity at a young age i "technically" still have mines which make people think I'm a lesbo since I've never...(cough cough)....with a...
    MorbidxMalice MorbidxMalice 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    Just Curious

    Why is is that a few of you feel like you can't say the word 'sex' or talk about anything to do with it? How do you feel when the topic is mentioned or asked about? I am just wondering because I used to be that way and wouldn't speak about it until I met some of my closest...
    myhorsedied myhorsedied 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I didn't know I was abnormal

    until a few months ago. I liked this guy a whole lot and we started kissing inncoently. I don't have much experience so it was probably like kissing an eighth grader for him lol He then started to stroke my back and kiss me more passionately and my whole body froze. I was so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I never understood why

    so many people see it as a bad thing. My friends make fun of me because I automatically try to change the subject when sexual stuff comes up. It makes me really uncomfortable and I honestly don't like how people openly talk about it. It should be saved for the bedroom. >=(
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M Apr 22

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    Oy Vey

    alright so i've been with my boyfriend for a year now, and im still scared to do stuff wiht him. i really want to, but i just can't push myself.  i keep trying too and all it does is **** him off cause im not going through wiht what i say i'll do.  someone help me. ...
    sushiluver sushiluver 18-21 1 Response Oct 11, 2008

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    What's The Big Deal?

    Only society can be blamed for the harsh judgment of people who are prudes. At a young age, our parents try to shelter us from these "things", but it doesn't matter. There is always someone you hang with who knows more than you, or has even had more experience. You can't escape...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 14, 2013

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    Or Maybe?

    I'm just sick of the same crappy comment threads being looped day after day! For the love of all that is Holy, will you shut the *bleep* up already & go take a time out, or something! Jeez!
    SevenTierCrazyCake SevenTierCrazyCake 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    I Don't Understand What's Wrong With Prudishness!

    I'm completely sick of hearing that people should lose their virginity in their teens. I have enough willpower to control my hormones, and I don't know why people see that as a bad thing. I dress modestly, going to the point of loving Lolita fashion (based off Victorian era...
    frogbertlhudson frogbertlhudson 18-21 3 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    I Sooo Do Not Talk About My Sex Life

    I am happily married, and obviously have sex since I have four kids, but I am not into sharing the details!  I'm going to leave it at this:  My husband and I love each other very much, we are very satisfied with one another, and not broadcasting the intimate details of...
    mj915 mj915 31-35, F 10 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    Men Say They Hate Prudes...

    I will need someone to be patient with me and teach me before we start "doing it". Most men say they hate prudes and don't have time for that. :(
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Prude to Strangers

    yeah I have to admit im one big fat prude...Only when it comes to talking bout my sex life!!! I have a healthy one WITH my husband. I get severly ticked off if people want me to discuss it with them. I can joke and laugh about it to people,  but what we do in the...
    irishwannabeky irishwannabeky 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    Let's Not Talk About Sex

    ...And I intend to always be prude! I've notice lately, how dramatically prude I am! I don't know, it might be that guys become perverted during summer, or I might just be extra sensitive right now. But jeez, everyone wants to talk about sex but me. I'm honestly grossed out by...
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2008

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    Why Is Being A Prude Such A Big Deal?

    I've had a lot of people judge me and say mean things to and about me for being a prude.Why is it considered okay to be hypersexual but not okay to be prudish?I can understand if i was someone who was holier than thou and tell people they should be prudish like me. I don't care...
    Hydronica Hydronica 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    Yes I Am!

    I'm a Prude! :D And I refuse to perform lewd dances at luckypickle's party :p I have come to find sanctuary!
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 10 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    It's Good To Be A Prude.

    What some call prudishness.... I call common decency and common sense! http://missdaphne.wordpress.com/
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Some Things Agree With You On

    the world has changes face it willit go back to what is was a long time ago i am afarid not as long as you have TV shows like teen mothers our govermentsis corrupt the end is coming it is just a matter of time
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response Oct 12, 2011

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    I Don't Like Sex.

    I didn't sleep around for years. Then I tried it. It was okay. Most of the guys I was with were incompetent. Then some guy called me a sl#t, and I was like, "I'm through with this $hit". I don't like sex enough to deal with that kind of blowback all the time. And I really don't...
    stphnmclrn46 stphnmclrn46 22-25 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    Prude?

    So i am in a realtionship with this wonderful boy and i am 15 a sophmore and i am dating the love of my life and i know it we have been together almost a year now and the fartest we have gone is intense making out and feeling eachother up am i prude for not giving him a ******* i...
    Varisitysoccerchick Varisitysoccerchick 16-17 3 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    I'm Upset By Sexy Games Being On My Husbands Phone.

    My husband want to have a game on  his smart phone that shows girls in sexy outfits, almost nude , and I feel upset about it, he says I'm a prude, jealous and petty,
    meliab1 meliab1 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 24, 2011

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 5

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    DarkestDespair DarkestDespair 36-40, M 1 Response May 15

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    BreastLoverInNM BreastLoverInNM 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Second time posting. The EP censor is a real prude. The first thing I notice is that there are a ton (probably a couple hundred tons) of women here. Interesting... Either way, I...
    AnxiousBizzareandCynical AnxiousBizzareandCynical 13-15, M 2 days ago

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