I Am a Prude

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    I Sooo Do Not Talk About My Sex Life

    I am happily married, and obviously have sex since I have four kids, but I am not into sharing the details!  I'm going to leave it at this:  My husband and I love each other very much, we are very satisfied with one another, and not broadcasting the intimate details of...
    mj915 mj915
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Oct 25, 2007

    I decided to break in my new home with a comedy

    to fill my home with laughter. The comedian was dark and she talked a lot about women and intimate relationships. I couldn't relate to much of what she was saying. it kind of makes me feel like I'm weird. I dress conservatively compared to today's standards. I wait until I'm in...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme
    26-30, F
    Jun 28, 2015


    So i am in a realtionship with this wonderful boy and i am 15 a sophmore and i am dating the love of my life and i know it we have been together almost a year now and the fartest we have gone is intense making out and feeling eachother up am i prude for not giving him a ******* i...
    Varisitysoccerchick Varisitysoccerchick
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2012

    I Still Can't Say the "S" Word Out Loud

    but it depends on who I'm with.. if I'm with my friend.. i have to be blunt about it with her.. cause i don't want her to lose her virginity at a young age i "technically" still have mines which make people think I'm a lesbo since I've never...(cough cough)....with a...
    MorbidxMalice MorbidxMalice
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2008


    Understanding Prude….   Webster says:   Main Entry: prude Pronunciation: ˈprüd Function: noun Etymology: French, good woman, prudish woman, short for prudefemme good woman, from Old French prode femme : a person who is excessively or...
    Lexus Lexus
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Nov 6, 2007

    I don't mind talking

    or joking about sex but showing it makes me feel very uncomfortable. I'm fine with violence. Language to a degree, no continuous cussing
    supergirl805 supergirl805
    22-25, F
    Dec 14, 2015

    Why Is Being A Prude Such A Big Deal?

    I've had a lot of people judge me and say mean things to and about me for being a prude.Why is it considered okay to be hypersexual but not okay to be prudish?I can understand if i was someone who was holier than thou and tell people they should be prudish like me. I don't care...
    Hydronica Hydronica
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jun 12, 2011

    I'm Upset By Sexy Games Being On My Husbands Phone.

    My husband want to have a game on  his smart phone that shows girls in sexy outfits, almost nude , and I feel upset about it, he says I'm a prude, jealous and petty,
    meliab1 meliab1
    41-45, F
    14 Responses Apr 24, 2011

    Oy Vey

    alright so i've been with my boyfriend for a year now, and im still scared to do stuff wiht him. i really want to, but i just can't push myself.  i keep trying too and all it does is **** him off cause im not going through wiht what i say i'll do.  someone help me. ...
    sushiluver sushiluver
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2008

    Men Say They Hate Prudes...

    I will need someone to be patient with me and teach me before we start "doing it". Most men say they hate prudes and don't have time for that. :(
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Apr 26, 2013

    Prude to Strangers

    yeah I have to admit im one big fat prude...Only when it comes to talking bout my sex life!!! I have a healthy one WITH my husband. I get severly ticked off if people want me to discuss it with them. I can joke and laugh about it to people,  but what we do in the...
    irishwannabeky irishwannabeky
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2007

    I never understood why

    so many people see it as a bad thing. My friends make fun of me because I automatically try to change the subject when sexual stuff comes up. It makes me really uncomfortable and I honestly don't like how people openly talk about it. It should be saved for the bedroom. >=(
    MichaelMyers1 MichaelMyers1
    22-25, M
    Apr 22, 2015

    I have been called a prude

    and many times. I don't mind. I don't listen to music that's profane, vulgar, hateful. It is the same with books I read, TV and movies I watch, clothes I wear. Radio Disney edits songs that have curse words or language that might be too grown-up for younger listeners. And I...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend
    36-40, F
    Oct 24, 2015

    Why is being monogamous

    and committed considered prudish nowadays?? When did mutual respect and communication between partners become replaced by deceit, mean-spiritedness and distrust? Whatever happened to the days when a couple was a team, two people working for a common goal, joined by the mutual...
    Lilyhammer420 Lilyhammer420
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015

    I Don't Understand What's Wrong With Prudishness!

    I'm completely sick of hearing that people should lose their virginity in their teens. I have enough willpower to control my hormones, and I don't know why people see that as a bad thing. I dress modestly, going to the point of loving Lolita fashion (based off Victorian era...
    frogbertlhudson frogbertlhudson
    4 Responses Oct 11, 2011
    PinksTheNewBlack PinksTheNewBlack
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015

    I have been called a prude by more

    than one person online and offline. It is not offensive to me even if people try to use it as an insult to offend me. Every reason people call me a prude is my own thing that makes me, me. I accept it. I own it. I am not ashamed of it. I do not push it onto others. I know that...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2016

    I Don't Like Sex.

    I didn't sleep around for years. Then I tried it. It was okay. Most of the guys I was with were incompetent. Then some guy called me a sl#t, and I was like, "I'm through with this $hit". I don't like sex enough to deal with that kind of blowback all the time. And I really don't...
    stphnmclrn46 stphnmclrn46
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2013

    i'm so proud to be a prude

    that i even wrote a song about it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXsv1_hjovA hope u enjoy!
    krembo83 krembo83
    31-35, F
    Sep 7, 2015

    Just Curious

    Why is is that a few of you feel like you can't say the word 'sex' or talk about anything to do with it? How do you feel when the topic is mentioned or asked about? I am just wondering because I used to be that way and wouldn't speak about it until I met some of my closest...
    myhorsedied myhorsedied
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

    When I was younger I was a party animal

    and had a libido of a teenage boy (but I'm a girl). I had a lot of fun I was carefree in my youth. I attracted whoever I wanted to attract. But I have changed and have become a prude. It's like I'm a completely different person....I see things with different eyes. Things that...
    Peaches4you Peaches4you
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 20, 2015

    Some Things Agree With You On

    the world has changes face it willit go back to what is was a long time ago i am afarid not as long as you have TV shows like teen mothers our govermentsis corrupt the end is coming it is just a matter of time
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2011

    It's Good To Be A Prude.

    What some call prudishness.... I call common decency and common sense! http://missdaphne.wordpress.com/
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Dec 5, 2009

    Or Maybe?

    I'm just sick of the same crappy comment threads being looped day after day! For the love of all that is Holy, will you shut the *bleep* up already & go take a time out, or something! Jeez!
    SevenTierCrazyCake SevenTierCrazyCake
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jun 8, 2013

    I didn't know I was abnormal

    until a few months ago. I liked this guy a whole lot and we started kissing inncoently. I don't have much experience so it was probably like kissing an eighth grader for him lol He then started to stroke my back and kiss me more passionately and my whole body froze. I was so...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    What's The Big Deal?

    Only society can be blamed for the harsh judgment of people who are prudes. At a young age, our parents try to shelter us from these "things", but it doesn't matter. There is always someone you hang with who knows more than you, or has even had more experience. You can't escape...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 14, 2013

    Let's Not Talk About Sex

    ...And I intend to always be prude! I've notice lately, how dramatically prude I am! I don't know, it might be that guys become perverted during summer, or I might just be extra sensitive right now. But jeez, everyone wants to talk about sex but me. I'm honestly grossed out by...
    Lola91 Lola91
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 24, 2008
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