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I Am a Push Over

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    Written On My Forehead - Sometimes I think "SUCKER" must be written on my forehead.  It's hard for me to 'say no'. I either empathize, sympathize or maybe I feel...
    Bunji Bunji 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    Ridiculous. - Honestly, I wish more than ANYTHING that I could be more of a *****. For some reason, I can be a horrible person to the people i love, but the people who treat me...
    newdress newdress 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2010

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    "right Here" - So i other day my best friend of forever and day came over with her boyfriend. We were playing the wii and she was holding my son just chilling talking...
    UnderTheBridge UnderTheBridge 22-25, F May 13, 2011

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    I Need To Not Be - I often feel I'm too complacent. People always easily manipulate me. I feel too guilty rejecting people's requests or orders, even though they interfere with me...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame 18-21, F Mar 1, 2013

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    I am. And im gonna go ballistic soon if it doesnt stop. So please. Talk to me before i do something i regret
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    Hungarian Schnapsodie played by Mnozil Brass!!! I just can't get over that beautiful trombone sound
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    I am writing this experience because of the guilt, shame, and pain I feel about pushing someone away... If you can relate to this, please comment... I could use your support... I...
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    Well I'm pretty much homeless again... Moving from place to place at least... "Couch surfing" as it were. The first few nights were awkward at best, but I tried to make the most...
    Anonymouself Anonymouself 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I keep pushing away the one good thing I have in my life. I'm so insecure and I guess you could say paranoid when it comes to my boyfriend about the dumbest things. We have a rocky...
    courtneyxchaos courtneyxchaos 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Last year, I decided to attend a Christian Girls Club that my best friend wanted to go to after school. I didn't want her to go alone, so I went with. At first, it seemed alright...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My boyfriend and I are currently trying to work things out after he made out with someone else 3 weeks ago. We have been dating 2 1/2 years and live together. His is my best...
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    I recently got into a very emotional relationship with a friend and it started off one-sided, with him showing a lot of interest in me. He would always compliment me and call me...
    FaintSmile FaintSmile 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    The first time anyone tries to push me into something I dont want to, I try to avoid it as much as possible. But if they push me to much Ill rebel. And then get in trouble for it...
    tikani tikani 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    My one spanking from grandma. My maternal grandfather was a Baptist preacher, and my grandma was a teacher. They raised my mom strictly with spankings through her teens, and were...
    StarterStar StarterStar 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I listen to lux aeterna by Clint mansell because I feel it motivates me and makes me push myself to do what I can to make myself happy.
    latinounico latinounico 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 17

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    It's insane. Everything is just happening all at once. On the other hand I feel betrayed because someone lied to me about something huge with my job. On another hand I feel nervous...
    shyguy38 shyguy38 18-21, M Mar 31

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    Sitting alone and remembering what a utter **** I've been in the past.... I hate over thinking. I'm not a bad man I just made some bad choices when I was younger. Times like this...
    Nateee Nateee 36-40, M 21 hrs ago

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    Okay! Pm me and tell me what you want me to eat/drink in my next stuffing!! Let's try to push my limits!!!!!! (;
    rush95 rush95 18-21, M Mar 18

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    Okay. This is going to be a long post. I'm suffering and still grieving 2 months on. Everyone has relationship problems right? Everyone has times in their relationship where they...
    sophiejade92xo sophiejade92xo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Every time I'm sad and feel like something stupid, I want to tell my boyfriend about it because he told me I should but then at the same time, I don't want him to know. He says he...
    Kay8712 Kay8712 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    So long story short I dated a sociopath for 3 years. worst experience of my life. He destroyed everything about me....for fun. I was so helplessly in love with someone who didnt...
    IndependentGrl IndependentGrl 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I do this unknowingly some times. It's really hard for me to let people into my life when I'm in pain. My pain is messy and to let others see that mess is what I have a hard time...
    rebrat91 rebrat91 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I find myself unknowingly pushing people away out of fear of rejection. How do I stop?
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    When something good comes along, I don't recognize it, so I push it away. And I run after all of the bad things that I shouldn't be going after. It's frustrating. But I'm slowly...
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    that my life!!!!! I sometimes don't understand why I do that but I do and I hate it because I push the ones that actually do care away too. ans that's sad
    lillyg96 lillyg96 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm not feeling great today. What's worse is that I'm acting up. I'm anxious, frustrated, I am worried about money and I'm still suffering from the dull sickening ache of pmt. My...
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    I'm use to having negativity in my life. So anything that's suppose to be good for me, I tend to push away because I'm afraid and it's unfamiliar to me. It's irritating, but that's...
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    Getting pushed away from your bestfriend is probably the worst feeling ever..
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    iamj iamj 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    leahmusic96 leahmusic96 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Mom's lap vs. Dad's lap I went over both my parents' laps many times over the years, and I remember both laps had a different... I dunno, mood about them. As a kid, getting...
    StarterStar StarterStar 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    When I get that one song in my head , I throw on my headphones, & stop and listen to it over and over on repeat singing every word, meaning every lyric, with passion... I love...
    soitskindoflikeadiary soitskindoflikeadiary 16-17, F Mar 26

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    vers vers 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    And stop thinking all these little things are "things" at all. I need to stop guessing. We've been "done" for months. No more sneaking around. No more hand holding. No more tears...
    Notwhereithoughtidbe Notwhereithoughtidbe 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    cherryblossom257 cherryblossom257 26-30, F Mar 16

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    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M Mar 16

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    Especially when I'm taking to people online. If it takes me a while to respond, I'm probably going over a bunch of different responses and thinking how you'll react to them. I will...
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Arya94 Arya94 18-21 1 Response Mar 18

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    Have you ever heard a song called let her go by passenger -.-i've been listening it all day long :/ yeah over and over again :/
    aikaew aikaew 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    visionsofexile visionsofexile 18-21, M Mar 20

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    addictedtoweightlifting addictedtoweightlifting 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20

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