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I Am a Push Over

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    So i other day my best friend of forever and day came over with her boyfriend. We were playing the wii and she was holding my son just chilling talking about something and then out of no where she says to my son. "Your mama's a pushover" I got really embarrassed and squeaked...
    UnderTheBridge UnderTheBridge 22-25, F May 13, 2011

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    I Need To Not Be

    I often feel I'm too complacent. People always easily manipulate me. I feel too guilty rejecting people's requests or orders, even though they interfere with me negatively. I wish I could say no easily, but I feel people will start to dislike me- so I end up doing what people...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame 18-21, F Mar 1, 2013

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    Ridiculous.

    Honestly, I wish more than ANYTHING that I could be more of a *****. For some reason, I can be a horrible person to the people i love, but the people who treat me like crap. . well I try so hard to get them to like me. Growing up, I was always that girl that would drive...
    newdress newdress 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2010

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    Written On My Forehead

    Sometimes I think "SUCKER" must be written on my forehead.  It's hard for me to 'say no'. I either empathize, sympathize or maybe I feel uncomfortable 'disipleasing people'.... and maybe I'm just gullable!   I do think I need to learn to say 'no' more...
    Bunji Bunji 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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