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I Am a Push Over

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    Ridiculous.

    Honestly, I wish more than ANYTHING that I could be more of a *****. For some reason, I can be a horrible person to the people i love, but the people who treat me like crap. . well I try so hard to get them to like me. Growing up, I was always that girl that would drive...
    newdress newdress 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2010

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    I Need To Not Be

    I often feel I'm too complacent. People always easily manipulate me. I feel too guilty rejecting people's requests or orders, even though they interfere with me negatively. I wish I could say no easily, but I feel people will start to dislike me- so I end up doing what people...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame 18-21, F Mar 1, 2013

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    But I Kinda Love It...

    My best friend has a very strong hold over me. She can get me to do almost anything she likes. All of our other friends in our group seem to find it quite intriguing and immusing. I have been called her slave, her servant, her puppy dog. But i actually really love...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 14, 2009

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    Written On My Forehead

    Sometimes I think "SUCKER" must be written on my forehead.  It's hard for me to 'say no'. I either empathize, sympathize or maybe I feel uncomfortable 'disipleasing people'.... and maybe I'm just gullable!   I do think I need to learn to say 'no' more...
    Bunji Bunji 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    "right Here"

    So i other day my best friend of forever and day came over with her boyfriend. We were playing the wii and she was holding my son just chilling talking about something and then out of no where she says to my son. "Your mama's a pushover" I got really embarrassed and squeaked...
    UnderTheBridge UnderTheBridge 22-25, F May 13, 2011

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    I'm pushing my family away sometimes they are nice people and this is an awful thing to write . I talk to them sometimes but I'm trying to spend as little time with them as...
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    Bullies. Egos Pigs. Morons. Why be pushy. At least teachers can care. The only pushy exception.
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    Often when I get upset over something my few friends will ask me what's wrong... My usual replies are go away or I just keep on walking. You can tell when I'm about to loose it...
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    The thing is sometimes there are cases where you got to push people away for your own good.
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    Every generation has people who will step up and challenge the current boundaries. If it wasn't for those people, women would still have to hide their ankles! I like being one of...
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    Someine tell me why i do this to I don't know why I do it but I've pushed away pretty much everyone who was ever there for me now and I don't know why because it hurts them...
    AmberFenning AmberFenning 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    It's happened in every relationship I've ever been in. There will be a great guy who I really like, and who has the potential to be an amazing boyfriend. About a month into the...
    e11e20 e11e20 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I really don't understand why men are so pushy. When a woman or anyone says no, respect that. I'm not talking about sex, but in everything. It is as if your words go in one ear and...
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    I liek how itz a school bus. I shall push it into a rivah.
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    I don't like it when people push me & rush me into things. I like doing things on my own time, but then I'm also a big procrastinator. So even though I know they're only doing to...
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    I have anxiety, so I am not very good at socialising, but I pushed away my only friends and now they don't want me back and I struggle to make new ones :(
    anxietyloser anxietyloser 16-17, M Aug 29

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    I am really pushing it!!!!! Wtf????? Nice job turning our picture face down btw
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    I keep pushing people away when all I really want is a hug
    InternetKid905 InternetKid905 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Some kind of fire inside of me has sparked today and I will no longer be a pushover. I let far to many treat me badly and it's about time I started to be a b**ch.
    youaretheonlyexception youaretheonlyexception 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I don't want to push people away but I'm afraid I'll hurt them either way
    InternetKid905 InternetKid905 13-15, F 1 day ago

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