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I Am a Push Over

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    I Need To Not Be

    I often feel I'm too complacent. People always easily manipulate me. I feel too guilty rejecting people's requests or orders, even though they interfere with me negatively. I wish I could say no easily, but I feel people will start to dislike me- so I end up doing what people...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame 18-21, F Mar 1, 2013

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    "right Here"

    So i other day my best friend of forever and day came over with her boyfriend. We were playing the wii and she was holding my son just chilling talking about something and then out of no where she says to my son. "Your mama's a pushover" I got really embarrassed and squeaked...
    UnderTheBridge UnderTheBridge 22-25, F May 13, 2011

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    Ridiculous.

    Honestly, I wish more than ANYTHING that I could be more of a *****. For some reason, I can be a horrible person to the people i love, but the people who treat me like crap. . well I try so hard to get them to like me. Growing up, I was always that girl that would drive...
    newdress newdress 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2010

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    Written On My Forehead

    Sometimes I think "SUCKER" must be written on my forehead.  It's hard for me to 'say no'. I either empathize, sympathize or maybe I feel uncomfortable 'disipleasing people'.... and maybe I'm just gullable!   I do think I need to learn to say 'no' more...
    Bunji Bunji 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    I am...and I hate it.

    I am way too nice to people. people who don't even deserve it. I can't help it. It's who I am. Being like this.. it's like second nature to me. I can never be "mean" to anyone. I can be sarcastically rude :D But that's my way to defend myself. But being mean? Cant do it. But...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    But I Kinda Love It...

    My best friend has a very strong hold over me. She can get me to do almost anything she likes. All of our other friends in our group seem to find it quite intriguing and immusing. I have been called her slave, her servant, her puppy dog. But i actually really love...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 14, 2009

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    I've been hurt and screwed over by too many people and now if I even am able to get close to someone I tend to push them away after I start to get to close to them.
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    I push people away because I feel I'm not good enough. I push people away because I'm scared to let them know the real me. I push people away because I don't want unnecessary...
    Mywandshere Mywandshere 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I have a bad habit of pushing people away. I try not to though. When I go through hard times of numerous sorts, my first instinct is to push people away. I have this mad desire...
    topsykrit topsykrit 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just hate being pushed into things so much that I have been compared to and called a wild dog by some of my friends and family, only for the reason that the harder they push me...
    REY98 REY98 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    im glad I'm being pushed more I'm glad I'm pushing myself more ...I'm glad I'm stubborn ,I'm glad I'm not giving up , I'm glad I'm stronger than I think I am at times ,I'm glad...
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    I'm a fairly smart person. I can read. I know right from left. Why do I always read the sign that clearly says 'PULL' and then push? I also pull the push door and use this door...
    Scorpio116 Scorpio116 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I just have a hard time trusting people. I've been screwed over by people who meant the world to me and because of those past experiences I always will keep my guard up.
    AlexisH94 AlexisH94 18-21, F Nov 24

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    adeleccaa adeleccaa 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    I push away everyone even though I don't mean to. Maybe it's the commitment I'm scared of or I can't give them my trust. Either way it's left me depressed and alone .
    jebony jebony 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 24

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    I don't push them away, they choose to be with someone else when i'm in need.
    4everShiNee18 4everShiNee18 13-15, F Nov 24

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    I know she ins't really meaning to but sometimes it feels like shes pushing me away. She barely tells me whats wrong anymore and it honestly upsets me that she comes to me, it...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F Nov 24

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    I think i have an aura that pushes people away from me. Or maybe there is something about my appearance i don't know. Somehow people always think i don't like them , or that i don...
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    Whenever I have a problem and someone try's to talk to me about it I shut down and push them away I don't mean to I'm just scared I feel like no one really cares idk how to fix...
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 29

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    someone has to look out for me. if trying to push people away will stop me from getting hurt then that's what has to be done.
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Not the best day for me...but trying too push through once more...
    ThatLatinChick20 ThatLatinChick20 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    No need for a push up bra! Triple d's!
    Kbrown428 Kbrown428 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 3

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    There's a fine line between chasing what you want and being assertive and just being pushy and creepy. Just sayin
    Ownedforaprice2 Ownedforaprice2 22-25, F Dec 6

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    they're very sexy but my hands work much better at pushing them up right to my hungry mouth...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'm as nice to people as they are to me. but push my buttons and I do have a pocket full of crazy waiting!!
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I think I've pushed away everyone who has ever cared about me. I don't even know who to talk to anymore.
    LisaTorres LisaTorres 16-17, F Dec 9

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    So yesterday I was at the mall and the mall was about to close so we had to rush outside and I pushed the pull door and my girlfriend ran into me 😂
    xxafxx xxafxx 18-21, M Dec 10

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