I Am a Push Over

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    Ridiculous.

    Honestly, I wish more than ANYTHING that I could be more of a *****. For some reason, I can be a horrible person to the people i love, but the people who treat me like crap. . well I try so hard to get them to like me. Growing up, I was always that girl that would drive...
    newdress newdress
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2010

    I am...and I hate it.

    I am way too nice to people. people who don't even deserve it. I can't help it. It's who I am. Being like this.. it's like second nature to me. I can never be "mean" to anyone. I can be sarcastically rude :D But that's my way to defend myself. But being mean? Cant do it. But...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2014

    "right Here"

    So i other day my best friend of forever and day came over with her boyfriend. We were playing the wii and she was holding my son just chilling talking about something and then out of no where she says to my son. "Your mama's a pushover" I got really embarrassed and squeaked...
    UnderTheBridge UnderTheBridge
    22-25, F
    May 13, 2011

    although I am one, I'm slowly coming out of it,

    sometimes I don't want to say no because I care about other people's, feelings but it's time I stop that foolishness
    youcantbeserious youcantbeserious
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2015

    Written On My Forehead

    Sometimes I think "SUCKER" must be written on my forehead.  It's hard for me to 'say no'. I either empathize, sympathize or maybe I feel uncomfortable 'disipleasing people'.... and maybe I'm just gullable!   I do think I need to learn to say 'no' more...
    Bunji Bunji
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Aug 2, 2009

    I Need To Not Be

    I often feel I'm too complacent. People always easily manipulate me. I feel too guilty rejecting people's requests or orders, even though they interfere with me negatively. I wish I could say no easily, but I feel people will start to dislike me- so I end up doing what people...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame
    18-21, F
    Mar 1, 2013

    But I Kinda Love It...

    My best friend has a very strong hold over me. She can get me to do almost anything she likes. All of our other friends in our group seem to find it quite intriguing and immusing. I have been called her slave, her servant, her puppy dog. But i actually really love...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 14, 2009

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