I Am a Pushover

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    Wish I Was Not

    I wish i was not such a pushover, but part of me thinks that I am not so much of a pushover I just like helping people. It is very natural to put everyone else's needs in front of my own because I like the idea that I am helping people with their problems no matter how...
    rainbowdoor rainbowdoor
    18-21, F
    Jun 28, 2010

    I had thought that if I would be nice to

    everyone, no one would be mean to me. How naïve and ignorant. I get taken advantage of pretty regularly. People will lie to me, take my things, touch me, do rude and mean things to me and use me because I don't say anything or do anything. Except get sad or angry with myself...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2014

    Here's the thing. I'm always giving people

    so many chances. I've come to realize that I'm a total pushover, always concerned with making people like me. With pleasing others, no matter how ****** they treat me. But sometimes I wonder where are my standards? Do I not have respect for MYSELF? Here's an example. Last night...
    emelon12 emelon12
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2014
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