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I Am a Second Wife

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I hate the fact that I'm a second wife, seems like my husband has done everything that I want to do when he was married to his first wife. He reaction to most things are, " Been...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Being under the influence of love is not unlike being drunk or high -- that's why we fall in love. We don't join in, or sign up or practice being in love. We simply fall. So I...
    cindycap cindycap 41-45 Sep 4

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    I hate that everybody he knows expects me to "just go with it." To just go with whatever the first one wants because I have to respect the fact that she and her daughter came first...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    And this is why, when I first met her, she was working over 40 hours a week, raising two children, and going to college full time, on top of taking a chance on deciding to juggle a...
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    My wife wants a urgent divorce I can't cope? I was caught in a spa with her very good friend and I did not say I was going there with her ( don't look good at all ) When my wife...
    uncleginge uncleginge 26-30, M 19 hrs ago

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    “My Ride to the Mountain”The Journey & The AnxietyBy: Saar-rah Robinson"Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its...
    SisterPrisonWivesBFF SisterPrisonWivesBFF 61-65 2 Responses Aug 18

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    i am not married, but my girlfriend loves to humiliate me. Last weekend, we were at a bar in downtown Omaha dancing and having fun when, just as I went to put my hands around her...
    grendelll grendelll 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I am 25 yrs old at our second duty station which is Vilseck Germany. I work full-time, got to school part time. I haven't been on this page since my husbands first deployment in 2...
    acola420 acola420 22-25, F Aug 21

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    Watchful thought within your back gardenR17;s existing characteristics will lay the foundations to your landscape structure.No matter what it's you'll need, We've got the caliber...
    Meljbr26d Meljbr26d 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    As vegetarians, when at times we observed the variety limited at meal, the chefs were being usually accommodating and geared up extra dishes which had been particularly tasty!We...
    Magalyid72 Magalyid72 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Although I've only been married for a year, my husband and I have been together for almost 14, we're high-school sweethearts. He's the drummer and back up vocalist of the band...
    Schmoolie Schmoolie 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Off we go to Fort Riley. The house is all packed into a U-Haul and the bird is in his carrier and very unhappy about it. We're camping our way there so that should be interesting...
    WOwifeLaura WOwifeLaura 18-21, F Aug 25

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    Lets Clear my name. It is Blue Mahzabin. Blue Moon, you can say. It is in Farsi. I am no Man. I used to know a Muslim Man, who believed and Worship his GOD. When he needed to lie...
    BlueMah BlueMah 46-50, M Sep 2

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    Nights are the hardest. I'm just thinking about what it was like for him to actually get there today and get his gear and everything. How long does it take for my first letter? I...
    Kendykay Kendykay 18-21, F Sep 8

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    It's been a week since the 30 second voicemail I got from him in the airport. Haven't gotten a letter yet and not talking to him stinks. Missing him like crazy.
    Kendykay Kendykay 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have fond memories of previous years with my wife, but in the last few months she doesn't want to help me with the simplest thing and we don't go have fun together either. We...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 6 Responses Aug 17

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    My wife isn't really getting fat at the moment but rather has always been plump. She was only 5'0 tall and 190 pounds when graduating from highschool in 1993. By the time we met in...
    hsnpman hsnpman 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 18

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    That's right you read correct, my wife shaved her head. Conversations have been happening for months with my wife who has been spending her free time studying the bible and has...
    HoMaj HoMaj 31-35, M Sep 2

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    My wife Do you know my wife? Of course not I keep her in secret because she is special All men who lay eyes on her Will try to steal her but they will failed My wife is not like...
    broskidude broskidude 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    I AM 45 YEARS OLD. I MY DAUGHTER AND WIFE USED TO LIVE IN BALLYGUNGE. WIFE WAS VERY NAGGING. I LOVE MY DAUGHTER AND SHE ALSO. I HIRED A MAID OF 15 YEARS OLD . SHE IS VERY SEXY AND...
    pm6789 pm6789 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't really hate my wife. It's just that I don't love her like a wife any longer. She's just a roommate and we have a great division of labor. In our relationship, there's me...
    RoniHo RoniHo 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 27

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    Not a actual wife........im just saying if i was a wife i think i'd be a good one. i learned how to cook this summer. i love cleaning (sometimes). im a very chill person i dont get...
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I have a boyfriend we have been together now for three years. We have a baby together a year and a half. I have a son with my previous, and he has two sons with his ex wife... Four...
    lovinglife222 lovinglife222 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Not just a wife but I want to be the perfect wife to my future husband(whoever he is) I want to love him with all my heart and be loved in return. I want to cook for him,Make...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    It's been a while since I was last here. A lot of things happened. I'm not sure if any of you guys will read this, or care. But I'll share a bit of me with you. Please, excuse my...
    marie027 marie027 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Not long ago in during a Vegas trip my wife and I met a gentlemen at the bar that my wife found very attractive. After hours of drinks he joined us in our room. Check out the pics...
    wowme123 wowme123 46-50, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I've been married for 15 years now. My wife has endometriosis and I can't penetrate her because it hurts like hell. I make her ****** several times by rubbing my tool against her...
    Captain06 Captain06 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    This Friday I am planning on telling my wife that I want to file for divorce. Saturday is my birthday. I do not care that it is my birthday. I never enjoy anything anymore. I feel...
    Fluxification Fluxification 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I want to move on from my wife of 15 years, GF of 2 years and other GF of 6 months. I just need the time to pursue my passion, sex, So I find nothing in common anymore except...
    liveitover liveitover 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Looking for someone to print out my wife's pictures and put them in places like truck stops, adult peep show booths, college campuses, bars, etc with my email address on them...
    wifeshowheroff wifeshowheroff 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 19

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    Wife and I want to trade pics message me. We are 23. Wife is 5'2",135lbs, brunette.
    dnk1210 dnk1210 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 21

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    This is crazy, but a couple girlfriends and I pretty much started this group like 6 years ago!!! It's crazy to see how far the group has come. Too bad it wasn't a stock, because...
    NatATTACK NatATTACK 22-25 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I really wish my wife would take charge in the bedroom and bring and introduce think I'm over always being the one to iniate it and try new things etc how can I get my wife to take...
    toadau toadau 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 26

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    So me and my wife went to really cool bar with good music and nice priced drinks..we stayed there and drank until we were completely waisted..knowing we couldn't drive anytime soon...
    MoeLong7 MoeLong7 22-25, M Aug 26

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    I have countless pics of my 29 year old wife taken over the 13 years we've been together. Started taking sexy pics when she was 18 and still take them regularly. She's enjoyed...
    Brewitup7 Brewitup7 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 27

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