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I Am a Second Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 54 People

    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    He spent the day with her

    and their daughter. Idk why but every time he comes home after, even if he takes a shower, I just feel completely uncomfortable and turned off from him. Why do I feel like this? It didn't start until after I became pregnant with our daughter and he came home smelling like...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    I need people to tell me that I'm not being stupid. I am a second wife to be,he is 46 I am 18(I know). I am quite educated,come from a hard working background and have so much life...
    celinamars123 celinamars123 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's not the children's fault. It's the parents waiting years to get divorced and complicating my life. I met my BF/husband to be while he was still legally married. He explained...
    celinamars123 celinamars123 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    My wife is a piece of s*** she got onto my phone when I was asleep and deleted all female friends that I have on Facebook emphasis on the word friends that is all they are and...
    birdlips84 birdlips84 46-50, M 7 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My wife an dI met in Colorado a few years ago, and I fell head over heals for her. we skipped the dating phase and went straight to living together/ We were fine at first, though I...
    User1123123 User1123123 22-25, M Mar 17

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    I entered Second Life eight years ago. I was in SL everyday for the first year, but slowly RL commitments stacked up so my time in SL became less. I still have, my two avatars and...
    Neondaze Neondaze 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I may take this further and not understand it "right" but.. The second best... (second to none?). I wont always settle for second best.. But the best, number 1 is often abit too...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Mar 12

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    Hi everyone. Thought I would reach out to this community since I haven't had any help asking from friends or family. My wife and I both work and have two kids - 10 and 8. About a...
    annoyedhusband annoyedhusband 36-40, M Mar 17

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    Depends on who they are, and what they did wrong. I've been known to give too many chances. Sometimes it's better to just "so long, sucker" the first time, then it is to keep...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    My wife keeps me in a chastity cage. Last weekend we had some of our neighbours over. One of my wife's friends brought up in front of a bunch of them that Jen (my wife) keeps me...
    Jensbitch Jensbitch 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    O boy and what an amazing date it was. We both loveeee thrifting so we spent most of our time at our local thrift shop. We talked and laughed. Tried on goofy clothes and hats. The...
    nytrydaa nytrydaa 22-25, M Mar 22

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    I don't know how it went so wrong so fast but I feel like im the only one that actually gets it .My wife and I have been together for 16 years high school sweet hearts. We have two...
    outofit420 outofit420 26-30, M Mar 22

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    Recently I started feeling more and more like moving forward with the things that make me happy and excites me such as piercing my ears or buying some new stilettos. But The truth...
    Danairis Danairis 46-50, T 1 Response Mar 22

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    Want to talk women into seducing my wife. want to talk to women behind my wife's back to ask them to sleep with my wife.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    i love my wife..coz..my wife always support for me..and..am proud to my wife
    manomona manomona 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am not a sissy made by my wife. I am the wife. But I read some of these stories. Lots of fantasy out there for some of these guys. However, if all it takes to get your hubby to...
    ginat10 ginat10 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    It just seemed to happen. A friend a hot summer day a few drinks a cooling swim in the pool. A wife that is sexy and has been know to flit a time or tooo. A dare to go topless...
    housecat1 housecat1 61-65, M 7 Responses Mar 7

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    Yes !!! I love my wife too much. She is my best friend, best adviser, best financial planner, best life partner, best bedroom player and so and so. Almost all things we are made...
    BenJimmy BenJimmy 31-35, M 4 Responses Mar 8

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    My now ex-wife and one of our best friends had an affair for almost 2 yrs now. He claimed he didn't know how she felt and she back pedaled and said the same thing. The thing is...
    hosedsailorboy hosedsailorboy 41-45, M 15 Responses Mar 9

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    Recently my wife tried to wear one of her favorite skirts and it is clear that now she outgrew it. And we both proud of it :)Here are few photos of my wife's big belly:
    yetanotherfeeder yetanotherfeeder 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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    not really a wife but my wife says I am anf she paddles me
    mikedriver75 mikedriver75 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    Hey there, My wife and I are young, in our mid-twenties, and she loves to watch TV. She watches quite a lot of it, but not to the point where she's slacking off on life. I didn't...
    Nileay Nileay 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    My wife dresses me in her clothes sometimes. How many other wifes do this?
    crazyluke crazyluke 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I want a lesbian to marry my wife. please join us and make love only to my wife.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian 22-25, M a week ago

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    I was over joyed when my wife came out as lesbian. she dates women but stays with me. or did before she left me for her lesbian wife.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian 22-25, M a week ago

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    I found this pic of my wife in her cellphone.I remember that day I arrived late from work (around 11pm) and she had dinner with her friends of work.She bought food and they ate...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    So, yesterday I took the day off for a Dr appointment. My wife asked me to clean some leaves around our airconditioner and pool pump. No problem. I didn't do it because it rained...
    shadowplt shadowplt 51-55, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It took me a while and a couple of mistakes to really realise my own self worth. I am no long accepting being a second choice.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Mar 12

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    Always give others a second chance - so YOU can get it too!
    BUalways BUalways 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I believe in second chances. Don't believe in third chances.
    Brookedrumm Brookedrumm 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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