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I Am a Second Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 54 People

    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    He spent the day with her

    and their daughter. Idk why but every time he comes home after, even if he takes a shower, I just feel completely uncomfortable and turned off from him. Why do I feel like this? It didn't start until after I became pregnant with our daughter and he came home smelling like...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Sometimes I hate being a second wife. I know for a fact that his mother likes his first wife better, she has told me that his first wife is beautiful and I'm ugly. She even...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 14

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    Cant stand the things he did for her!!! i have been with my fiance for a year. we have a baby on the way our first child together but third for us both. my problem is i resent that...
    srnyers srnyers 26-30, F Jan 3

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    I want to put with heart of mine away behind a prison wall and lock it away....it makes me feel and do such foolish things....it makes me try and please everyone and make "them...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I am not sure what all to put in the so I will just write things as they occur to me. I have been married for 14 years and have two awesome kids and a very beautiful wife. A wife I...
    simonlabond18 simonlabond18 46-50, M Jan 6

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    Just seen a lady climbing on a chair to clean her second-storey window. It was almost dark and I was on the pavement across the road. As I got closer, I looked up hoping to see...
    WalterFM WalterFM 61-65, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I just came home after a week to travel with my Marine for New Year. Just only one week but it was the wonderful time with him. I could sleep next to him and woke him up everyday...
    PaulineLe PaulineLe 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    So me and my boyfriend have been together since February 2014 I am almost 19 and he is 20 and we are coming up on our 1 year anniversary now. We met at a difficult time considering...
    dunnivana96 dunnivana96 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    If I've to decide on to construct ample retirement funding as my self study on retirement including hazard fastors equally in retirement years and work decades, then I'll pick...
    Jamys726n0sm9 Jamys726n0sm9 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    I got my phone call today. <3 It was a whole 9 minutes and 38 seconds! I feel so lucky. He's officially a Marine now and I'll get to see him is 4 days!!! ^-^ So ready!
    FutureMrsCobos FutureMrsCobos 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I have this overwhelming desire to be a homemaker. Not the 50's kind but like the modern version. I know that sounds really bad but it is how I feel right about now. My grandmother...
    DreamCloud17 DreamCloud17 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Feeling a little lost today. I have not posted anything on here in a long time. I have dated a marine before it ended with him being moved and my job and I not being able to...
    cleeb19 cleeb19 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Hi. This won't be an easy one. I'm 37 years old, and have been married for over 16 years. My wife and I have three girls, 16, 12 and 10. I have not been a loyal husband, but up...
    Betruetoyourpath Betruetoyourpath 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    For a crossdresser its a absolute win situation when a wife supports or even accept the idea of husband to dress in opposite sex attire. The feeling of wearing a new female cloth...
    Sareelover2015 Sareelover2015 31-35, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    Evil Wife's failed IVF Please refer to my earlier stories. After much pressure from my wife and advice of my parents, I decided to get IVF treatment for my wife. I thought having...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    Please refer to my earlier stories. This Sunday my evil wife had a tiff with me on the same issue of going for another IVF and while quarreling with me she held me by my collar...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M a week ago

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    I love my wife for many reasons. Do we struggle, yes often, and I have to work very hard to be a loving husband sometimes but isn;t that what marriage is about. It is so...
    Nigel1224 Nigel1224 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    i had drunk with my friend in my house.my wife also join with us.later night she was dancing with my friends.i also enjoyed show.she had slept with my friends in our bed room.in...
    roxdemon roxdemon 26-30, M 6 Responses Jan 17

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    I believe if you give someone a second chance it will give them a chance to prove that they are trustful, also i believe second chances helps people understand what they did and...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M Jan 7

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    Being a second option is hard. You're the always one that's there, but when someone else enters his life, he just throws you away. Whenever he needs you, he'll call and text you or...
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F Jan 14

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    Hi everyone. My name is Cher B and I have been a Navy wife for two years. 0.o Wow time goes by fast. I love to talk to other military wives and hear there experiences. Also I take...
    thestickyapron thestickyapron 22-25 Dec 27, 2014

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    Hi I know I post mostly stupid post but this one is for a wife on her that thinks her husband might be a sissy So guys be truthful and tell her... Do sissies want to wear...
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I like my wife cheating on me in the beginning and later I feel jealous. I also find myself insecure and started to love my wife more and more.
    dbmh72 dbmh72 36-40 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I started dating my husband 10 years ago this week. We will be celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary this summer. I have been friends with his sister for 20 years. Ive known...
    jess85MN jess85MN 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    she expected me to marry her and I did... because I really do love her more than anything. she expected us to move in to her mother's house and we did because I believed in her...
    Dioca Dioca 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    any marine wives willing to give me some advice? my marine and I have talked about marriage a lot. he's very independent which is what i love most about him, so he's very aware...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    So my ex-wife got the spade tattoo and now my wife is interested in one after telling her why the ex got one.
    pete3032 pete3032 26-30, M 11 Responses Jan 14

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    I am a happily married man who is in search of a loving and caring woman to expand and complete my family. My wife and I want to add a sister wife to our family unit. We have been...
    polyfam polyfam 41-45, M Jan 16

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    For years I have enjoyed guys,both younger and older, ogling my wife in public venues such as shopping centers, sporting events, social affairs etc. A big fantasy of mine is to...
    grabby612 grabby612 56-60, M 5 Responses Jan 18

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    Back when we first met, my wife took a job as a waitress in a Mexican restaurant. Her uniform was sexy as hell, short red skirt and black tights. One of her co workers wore...
    Garraway Garraway 51-55, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok where to begin.... I've been dating my now Bf for almost 2 yrs now. At the beginning of our relationship he was this amazing smart funny guy who wanted to have kids and talked...
    lyfe2015 lyfe2015 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I travel a lot and am on a trip now. while sitting at the bar a man already drunk sits next to me and says " take my advise and never get married" I tell him that I am, and he...
    Matthews6288 Matthews6288 31-35, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I gave someone a second chance and they blew that one too.
    nwwvgrl nwwvgrl 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Of course, a surgeon are unable to make a name on technological know-how by yourself. For those who have an interest in having liposuction, you ought to consider any Sophisticated...
    Noah5284psu4 Noah5284psu4 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 7

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