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I Am a Second Wife

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I hate the fact that I'm a second wife, seems like my husband has done everything that I want to do when he was married to his first wife. He reaction to most things are, " Been...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am 25 yrs old at our second duty station which is Vilseck Germany. I work full-time, got to school part time. I haven't been on this page since my husbands first deployment in 2...
    acola420 acola420 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    Wife and I want to trade pics message me. We are 23. Wife is 5'2",135lbs, brunette.
    dnk1210 dnk1210 22-25, M 30 mins ago

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    Hi I found out you're willing to help. I recently found out that my 27-year-old wife had affairs with at least two men. Very furious I traced her and installed a GPS and a recorder...
    Babak1357 Babak1357 31-35, M 14 hrs ago

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    Hi I found out you're willing to help. I recently found out that my 27-year-old wife had affairs with at least two men. Very furious I traced her and installed a GPS and a recorder...
    Babak1357 Babak1357 31-35, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I have always hoped I would meet a guy that from the first moment we just had feelings for each other. We become friends and I start spending time with him. He likes that I am...
    Janae60 Janae60 51-55, M 13 hrs ago

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    I love it when my wife teases me about my small **** and she tells me how much better of bigger **** is.
    werelookingforathird werelookingforathird 36-40, M 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Come on ladies, you are no bundle of fun either. We men like to explore, have fun, travel, and be with our buddies much more than being with you. Why is that? Most every man I...
    mbb50 mbb50 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    We will be celebrating our second anniversary on August 4th. That day was such an incredible moment for me. The first thoughts before being walked down the aisle were "oh my, this...
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    So my Marine left for SOI Monday. It was hard saying see ya later for the second time. It wasn't as hard as boot camp but it's pretty up there. Right now I'm just a at a loss. Sigh...
    desiali719 desiali719 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So, I married one of my former teachers. He is twenty years older than I am. Of course this means he has had sex with more people than I have. I am his third former student, but...
    Hushgirl Hushgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    Work in Progress Hello, I'm new to the Experience Project so please do forgive me if I do something wrong or break a rule, it is not my intention. I'm a recent college graduate...
    CupcakeVenom CupcakeVenom 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    3 years ago I found out about my wife's many affairs. One of those affairs was with a really good friend of mine. I chose to try to work it out. But it's been 3 years of ONLY me...
    Jemo75 Jemo75 36-40 3 Responses Jul 29

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    “My Ride to the Mountain”The Journey & The AnxietyBy: Saar-rah Robinson"Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its...
    SisterPrisonWivesBFF SisterPrisonWivesBFF 61-65 2 days ago

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    Moving from California to Kentucky has not been easy whatsoever ! First the weather completely sucks , second the insects are horrible and all over the place and third there's no...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I can't help but feel overwhelmed with sadness seeing everyone else posting about how they got there first letter and stuff. My amazing fiancé and I have been dating for 2 years...
    lilgompas lilgompas 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    i am not married, but my girlfriend loves to humiliate me. Last weekend, we were at a bar in downtown Omaha dancing and having fun when, just as I went to put my hands around her...
    grendelll grendelll 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Second Life is addicting to me because my avatar is a reflection of how I see myself in real life. I am FtM transgender in real life, and one of my favorite things to do is shop...
    havokitten havokitten 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    The necklace My wife my 6 yr. old son and I went on vacation to Miami as we are leaving the beach one day we see a street vendor selling necklaces of sharks tooth. My six year old...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I have fond memories of previous years with my wife, but in the last few months she doesn't want to help me with the simplest thing and we don't go have fun together either. We...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My wife isn't really getting fat at the moment but rather has always been plump. She was only 5'0 tall and 190 pounds when graduating from highschool in 1993. By the time we met in...
    hsnpman hsnpman 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have spent a lot of time on second hand n bookshops and must have bought several hundred second hand books. There was one shop in central London which had a basement section...
    Wulfstan Wulfstan 70+, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    This happened a while ago... I have been having this fantasy of seeing her with another man.. could never get it done... Have always used those visualizations during our love...
    stimulatingcouple stimulatingcouple 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 27

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Ive made a few major decisions in my life so far. When I was 12 I decided to leave my adoptive home in account of the abuse that I was dealing with. In deciding to go live with my...
    xXUnusualXx xXUnusualXx 16-17, F Jul 23

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    I've known this guy for four years now. We dated for like a month and we practically never broke up since I got so jealous and stop talking to him. While we dated I was going to...
    Notwhatyouthinkiam Notwhatyouthinkiam 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Addiction to on line games and worlds is a concern of mine, since I've faced it repeatedly and I've seen it so much over the years. It's sad and we need help. If you are facing...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Aug 9

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    "If in the dark we loose sight of love hold my hand and have no fear I will be here...as sure as seasons are made for change our lifetimes are made for years...I will be true to...
    rockypoly rockypoly 31-35, M Aug 13

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    Yes it all started five years ago when doing some shopings, i entered into a shoe shop and i saw a pair of red ballet flats in number 12! Of course i looked for an empty people...
    Bisbix Bisbix 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have suspected my wife of having an emotional affair around 5 months. In that time she reassured me countless times that he is not her type, he is not as sexy as me and there...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 28

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    I lost my wife to breast cancer Mothers Day weekend 2013. She had been battling for 5 years ..she was 43 when she passed away leaving me with a 7 year old daughter who only knows...
    bigbryman bigbryman 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    At the pool I asked my wife to pull her straps down so she wouldn't get strap marks. She did and the rest fell into place nicely. After a while she forgot all about her straps not...
    pxl1050 pxl1050 56-60 5 Responses Jul 28

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    it was about 3 years ago.i was away on different country and we were communicating via messenger,skype pretty often.she knew my fantasies and i literally was begging her to find...
    becks1981 becks1981 31-35, M Jul 29

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    A friend of mine just got off on my wife's pic, what an awesome felling it was when he told me that he was getting off on her **** . And to top it up he sent me the pic of his...
    flex0712 flex0712 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I am a divorce attorney who has represented women and men in countless cases. based on my observations, there are certain truths about marriage and divorce. 1. Marriage is a...
    divorceatty divorceatty 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 1

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