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I Am a Second Wife

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    It is so hard being in your 40s. Everyone has so much past baggage with divorce, kids, and financial obligations. I have been trying to move forward with a man who is getting a...
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    My wife likes to sexually chat with a group online, I am going to allow her to continue in an effort to save our marriage.
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    Come on ladies, you are no bundle of fun either. We men like to explore, have fun, travel, and be with our buddies much more than being with you. Why is that? Most every man I...
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    There was a period of my career when I came in from working my morning job. I would have about 3 to 4 hours free to shower and kick back until I had to go on duty at my other job...
    freddyshirley freddyshirley 51-55, F Jun 28

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    mikenmikena mikenmikena 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So, I married one of my former teachers. He is twenty years older than I am. Of course this means he has had sex with more people than I have. I am his third former student, but...
    Hushgirl Hushgirl 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Do the both of you stress out before he leaves or is it just me? I love him very much and want to spend every last second he is here with him. But we also need our space and I...
    j10413b j10413b 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Kind of a long story- so here is the first part: Unbelievable, but great coincidence of timing! She and I were in the livingroom. There are two medium-sized windows on two...
    thenextdoorwife thenextdoorwife 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    After Korean, Russian, Kyrgyz,and German. My mother and stepfather are Korean. I was born in USSR and grew up in Kyrgyzstan. I moved to Germany for university where I met and...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M Jul 3

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    First, let me start of by saying that I am not trying to offend anyone with this post. Technically, my boyfriend is not a Marine yet, but he’s in bootcamp! And that’s what this...
    alecsgirl18 alecsgirl18 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    My wife and I are hardly talking because of her relationship with a boyfriend she used to have 20 years ago. This boyfriend was her very first in all regards and I know is very...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    While cleaning out my father in laws cabin after my wife and I bought it from him, I was moving some of the furniture, My wife's sister used to live at the cabin when she was...
    johnie5 johnie5 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 27

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    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M a week ago

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    5 Seconds of Summer lyrics/my lyrics: "Don't Stop" 5 Seconds of Summer lyrics: "Your like perfection :3" My lyrics: "5 Seconds of Summer is like perfection <3" ~ So true :p
    Sophisticat3d Sophisticat3d 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    We have two in my local shopping area... I was looking for a text book for a course I'm on, it was over £60 brand new. So I hit the second hand stores... no luck but left with...
    nunos nunos 51-55, M 4 Responses Jul 10

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    I have spent a lot of time on second hand n bookshops and must have bought several hundred second hand books. There was one shop in central London which had a basement section...
    Wulfstan Wulfstan 70+, M 2 days ago

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    I finally got to watch my wife get a cut at the barbers It was awesome watching her sitting there getting a short boys cut by a barber and he really gave her a much shorter cut...
    blackcape blackcape 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    My ex wife and I have 3 kids. We share custody where we have alternating weeks with the kids. I pay child support and alimony. In addition to that i also pay for my two oldest...
    RichardHertz RichardHertz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    We are married for 1.5 years. My wife a bengali sexy lady who loves sex very much. After a long nagging i hav managed my wife to get her shared with another man. I wanna try. If u...
    smazumder1984 smazumder1984 26-30, M 10 Responses Jul 14

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    I love my wife very much. I can do everything for my goddess wife. She always treat me like her slave and humilate me infront of others but I love her style and attitude. My...
    wifeslaveritesh wifeslaveritesh 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I got my first DUI in 2011 which I blew .83. I did one day in jail, my class, and my license suspended. I am still trying to get on my feet from that. 2014 was going to be the...
    kimberlee730 kimberlee730 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    Ive made a few major decisions in my life so far. When I was 12 I decided to leave my adoptive home in account of the abuse that I was dealing with. In deciding to go live with my...
    xXUnusualXx xXUnusualXx 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    My husband was away at ALC and just got back to work this week. He comes home for lunch yesterday telling me he was asked if he was going to his ball tomorrow (which would be today...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 27

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    I am not married but coz I am just 18 but I think wife should not be beautiful becoz most of the beautiful women are not good from heart and the main think not faithful that's why...
    Popobandar Popobandar 18-21, M Jun 29

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    my friends and well wishers& all kind hearted people of ep i need all or wises,blessings for my princess& angel wife&son....they are having a lovely time on this weekend....my love...
    sherrymunna sherrymunna 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    dropping my kids off at my separated wife's place....returning back to my rented lonely house...I am sad beyond words.I dont want to live here anymore.I am clickng my red ruby...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 7

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    This doesn't really have to be a serious thing, but I just want an online wife. A kind and innocent girl who I can just talk with as if we are a close friends. I don't really want...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Alright, okay. I really just need to get this out there, even if it is to a community of strangers. I would also like to apologize in advance for how long this may be. I am deeply...
    7Questions 7Questions 13-15, M Jun 25

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