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I Am a Second Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 52 People

    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    He spent the day with her

    and their daughter. Idk why but every time he comes home after, even if he takes a shower, I just feel completely uncomfortable and turned off from him. Why do I feel like this? It didn't start until after I became pregnant with our daughter and he came home smelling like...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    My husband spoils his kids because he feels guilty that he doesn't see them as often. He lost his job and is struggling to pay child support. He's still required to pay the amount...
    Martiloo Martiloo 36-40, F Dec 10

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    When we divorced we could not stay away from each other enough, but slowly over the years that changed. She asked me to visit her and do a couple of electrically related jibs...
    lab1950 lab1950 61-65, M a week ago

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    Since it isn't so here I am to tell how I was born in Pitsburgh, Pensalvenia. I am originaly from Pakistan. I worked for a Bangladeshi man from Chittagong. I would enjoy smoking...
    mrrahman04 mrrahman04 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    We were driving down the highway and my wife told me to take a right turn. I knew it was a mistake but did it any way. She immediately noticed her mistake and apologized and we...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    There is a Meetup group in Annapolis, MD called the Second Half Rally, a social circle of people who are in their second half of life. They get together for social events. I like...
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 24

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    Our first child is nearly 7 months old now. We both work full time. She makes nearly 3x what I do. This is her second marriage. When I was in grad school I remodeled our house and...
    ethicalrelic ethicalrelic 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    30 RULES FOR MEN 1. Don’t ever beat your wife for any reason.Prov. 19:11, Prov. 20:3 2. Don’t ever forget that your wife is your greatest asset. Prov. 12:4, Prov. 18:22 3. Don...
    Joseharde Joseharde 31-35, M a week ago

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    My husbands ex wife constantly tells the boys horrible things about their father. They indirectly ask me if they are true and I used to handle them well. But they have become so...
    brandymyoung brandymyoung 31-35, F Nov 25

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    Search phrases are in essence the terms people today will research to find your products and services in the online search engine, like “New York DUI Attorney.” Picking and...
    Matthew0593cun9 Matthew0593cun9 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 2

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    He left for his second training and probably won't be here for my birthday I miss him and I know that we will be together soon ... I advise us to stick together and lean on one...
    Kyah2 Kyah2 16-17 Dec 3

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    The nice news is that the U.S. Government allows for selected physical gold and silver solutions to generally be included in an IRA or Roth IRA, earning owning gold and silver...
    Alexander0493fzr1 Alexander0493fzr1 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    One, I didn't look for... but alone came along. The first one is sustained by monotony...while the other one, is full of love and passion. This one here (the second one) I live it...
    LisLoves30Kilo6 LisLoves30Kilo6 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    Being a maid for your wife doesn't always mean you will be dressed like a sissy. In fact, my wife recently asked me to look for a proper maid uniform online, in the event that her...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Nov 27

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    Whilst you might be training your Pet, lots of occasions will conspire versus you and tempt your Canine to move. It's your work to control these distractions as much as you'll be...
    Aiden875z0uei Aiden875z0uei 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    Before we get married, we have had chances to meet each other thrice or four time between engagement and wedding. She shared so many things about her and her life and her family...
    esskayindian4u esskayindian4u 36-40 1 day ago

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    My wife is considering having her sister stay with us for awhile since she's going through a hard time right now. That made me a little nervous at first, so I asked her if I would...
    deeken deeken 36-40 4 Responses Nov 24

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    One evening my wife and i were sitting in the living room with an old neighbor that happened to come and visit. I had already mentioned to my wife that i would like watching her be...
    Strms Strms 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 2

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    A long story spread over about 10 years so i'll keep it short. My wife is divorcing me on the grounds of abuse. I've never physically hurt her btw. For those years she and my...
    johnpbatchelor johnpbatchelor 41-45, M Dec 8

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    Hi, Sorry I'm not a cheating wife but thought you guys could help, A few weeks ago I was on my wife's iPad, when I looked at her Facebook I noticed she'd been searching the...
    confusedhubby123 confusedhubby123 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 8

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    Yesterday my wife came home around 9:30 PM. I was already in my maid uniform, a short French Maid Dress matched with a pair of black high heels and silk pantyhose. When she came in...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Dec 10

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    We have a fantasy about shopping. The idea is to chose a man who will go shopping with my wife for a couple of hours. During that time they will go to the shops he chose and he...
    nenalola nenalola 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My wife is at most 5 ft tall...she's a little more curvy now (expected after giving birth to two kids) than she was a few years ago. She's the perfect "size" for me, so much...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    Our last child was born a couple years ago and since then my wife has been consistently hitting the gym working out, doing cardio, lifting, Zumba, etc. She's quite proud of...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M Nov 22

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    We have been married for 13yrs but one thing I have concluded is that in every thing I do my wife is always looking for something that is not right and she forgets the effort...
    Akiragen Akiragen 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Hi, I'm 66 years old man who has recently lost my wife of a 22 year marriage to cancer after she had a 10 month battle with this rotten disease, so now there's a big hole in my...
    WilliamTell100 WilliamTell100 66-70, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    About a month ago, my beautiful girlfriend and I got married. It was the best day of my life. I am 29 and Sophie is 26. My new wife, Sophie has always disliked the way she looks...
    nigelhemfield nigelhemfield 26-30, M Nov 30

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    My wife hates her body. I understand why. She has more than one autoimmune disease. The end result is that she can gain weight (up to 30 lbs or so) in a few weeks. She also is...
    jd5659 jd5659 51-55, M Dec 5

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    I need to get this off my chest. My fiend and his wife have been married for 10 years. The have been together a lot longer. They got along great till they had there daughter...
    jf11mm jf11mm 46-50 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I am 29 years old and been married for almost two years. I married my wife when she was in college so didn't manage to live together (she lived in college hostel) since marriage...
    Rirchu Rirchu 26-30, M 8 Responses Dec 8

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    My wife cheated on me with my best friend. I found out this morning when my friend admitted to sleeping with her, and showed me the pictures he took of her naked. When I confronted...
    gabe1982 gabe1982 31-35, M Dec 11

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    Another few pounds of pleasure!My wife now is a bit over of 100 kg, and we measured my wife today. Bosom is 121 cm (47.63 inches), waist is 117 cm (46 inches) and hips are 130 cm...
    yetanotherfeeder yetanotherfeeder 31-35, M Dec 12

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    I am willing to share pics of my wife's hot body on Yahoo Instant Messenger with guys who will comment on her hard body. You can be nice to her or mean. My username is workout.wife...
    Leaslut Leaslut 18-21 4 days ago

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    My cross dressing started, as I think many do, with the purchase of one or two garments at a time, and now my wardrobe is full of feminine cloths. My wife is in full support but...
    mizmaid mizmaid 36-40, M 2 days ago

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