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I Am a Second Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 59 People

    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    He spent the day with her

    and their daughter. Idk why but every time he comes home after, even if he takes a shower, I just feel completely uncomfortable and turned off from him. Why do I feel like this? It didn't start until after I became pregnant with our daughter and he came home smelling like...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Again tonight. I got "in trouble" for something completely out of my control. As punishment or whatever, there's no conversation tonight, no talking about the day, just...
    notsocomplex notsocomplex 31-35, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I believe my wife always had a crush on her father. He treated her different than he did her siblings. He was not a demonstrative man, but would hug her randomly. Her brother and...
    wuzgnu wuzgnu 66-70, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have been married to my wife almost 20 years and can't stand being around her anymore. I met her in the mid 90's on a trip to my homeland. Although I was not looking for a wife...
    lordhelpme1000 lordhelpme1000 56-60, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    "More Than I Bargained For." Like many husbands, I love other men seeing my wife partially or fully nude. We have had any number of experiences where men have caught an...
    d5447 d5447 56-60 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Everyone deserves a SECOND chance. Never be haste in judgements.
    KosmicKonnection KosmicKonnection 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate my wife. I am everything but good to her and she ***** on my life every day, Whether its just not doing the dishes (which i am the only one who works) or not doing the yard...
    imsorrytomywife imsorrytomywife 70+, M 4 days ago

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    I let this go I for a long time. My H isn't the only one who does this, most if my friends do as well. I feel more comfortable letting people think they're in control, or...
    notsocomplex notsocomplex 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 33 years old. My wife is 34. We have two kids. My wife and I have been together for 16 years. I was a junior in high school. I thought I had it made. She was born in a smart...
    uswdyp47 uswdyp47 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I get a lot of messages asking if I'd share my wife. So there you have it: NO, never. Every one does with it as he pleases, but to me sharing my wife would be disrespecting myself...
    Luckyguy1970 Luckyguy1970 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I have not been on Second Life for long, but I love playing it! It's so much fun meeting new people and traveling to new places. By the way, I try to get some of my real world...
    Lyokowarrior18 Lyokowarrior18 18-21, M Aug 24

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    My wife commenced with epilepsy in 2012, after her organs failed for the first time. It turns out she has suffered a significant atrophy of her brain cells over the years, now with...
    NottsProfGent NottsProfGent 46-50, M Aug 24

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    When ever wife is shopping in Malls, I try to find out if some older man are starring at my wife's rounded ***, and often find some older guy starring at her *** with a smile on...
    oldmushroom oldmushroom 61-65, M 5 Responses Aug 24

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    It took too long, in more ways than one, but I met her, I really met her. The amazing woman that I've been speaking to the last little bit on the phone, the one I met ironically...
    anon8369 anon8369 31-35, M Aug 21

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    I have never loved nor regretted something so much in my life as having a child with my husband. I am his second, and in result come in last to his ex and their 2 sons. My...
    fightingfit fightingfit 22-25 Aug 20

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    Ive been married for a year and a half to my husband. When we were dating I didn't mind he was previously married but now that we are married I hate being number two like it's bad...
    bchp1963 bchp1963 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I am working on it now, though. Now on 3 second delay. 7 more seconds to go! 😐🙊
    LolaHaze9 LolaHaze9 22-25, F Aug 17

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    I do think that the wife should be on a dress code. She should only put on floor long dresses or skirts. Her dresses or blouses should show some of her femininity but not be giving...
    LordAshcroft LordAshcroft 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    My boyfriend cheated on me with a fake profile I created i know it was a bad move on my part but I felt I wasn't enough by the experiences he wrote. I forgive him, i believe in...
    ShadowMgrove03 ShadowMgrove03 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    This isn't about my current relationship with my new fiancee, whom I love dearly and who is NOTHING like my ex. This is about a miserable experience I had with my former wife. We...
    yanholing yanholing 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I would love to meet those seconds.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 14

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    When my beautiful wife and I got married, she weighed about 140, but she is a tall woman (5 foot 10 inches) and as far as I was concerned, she was far too thin. So I decided to...
    Shnytop Shnytop 70+, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I met a man in January of this year and we decided to get to know each other. At first we were most worried about whether our children would get along, but they were best friends...
    serapphine serapphine 31-35, F Aug 12

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    I've always been attracted to smart women. I'm not attracted to weak willed women. When I met my wife I found someone who was both smart and strong willed. I'm a strong willed man...
    G0dzilla G0dzilla 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    i created my second account with a profile name of "sorryaboutthat" i think i actually might wanna change it though to something a little differently cause it might give stuff away...
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    i created my second account with a profile name of "sorryaboutthat" i think i actualy might wanna chnage it though to something a little differenty cause it might give stuff away...
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M Aug 12

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    I've had my share of live comments such as: "How old is she ? OMG, she so beautiful and looks 10 years younger" Or: "Can I have your wife's bikinipic as my screensaver ?" Or...
    Luckyguy1970 Luckyguy1970 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 11

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    Today is my two beautiful and adorable little girls second birthday. Its hard to believe that just two years on this day I was giving birth to them. They have really changed my...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    After all we are not angels. And we can never be. It is the beauty of human nature that it very well acknowledges the value of adjustments and compromise; that further helps in...
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10