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I Am a Second Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 54 People

    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    He spent the day with her

    and their daughter. Idk why but every time he comes home after, even if he takes a shower, I just feel completely uncomfortable and turned off from him. Why do I feel like this? It didn't start until after I became pregnant with our daughter and he came home smelling like...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    I want a second wife. You can live with us for free. Keep me company
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    My husband has two sons from previous marriage. His ex now has a 5 year old child with her boyfriend. Husband and I have a baby girl. It drives me mad with fury that he will often...
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    In the beginning there was love. Two wounded souls who met and thought they could make a better life together. I was divorced with three kids, he had two, both had experienced...
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    My husband is in BMT right now. WOT4. He graduates on May 22nd. realistically I am almost there. but it is tearing me to shreds. I am from an Air Force family. I know how this...
    Namende Namende 18-21, F Apr 29

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    After a 7 month deployment he finally came on the 18th! He left on the 30th and we spent every day together ❤️ I'm looking forward to seeing him Memorial Day or flying to his...
    VGASR VGASR 18-21, F May 1

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    Hello ladies, Hope everyone is having a great Saturday! I have two questions for you ladies. Ok so I've been dating my Marine for 3 years and 7 months. We've been together since...
    VGASR VGASR 18-21, F a week ago

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    New Member, new wife (1 year, 1 week). I was also previously married, my ex and i have struggled to set aside our issues for our kids and we have been super successful. he comes...
    LeighChristine LeighChristine 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    This week we had a guest, my wife "little cousin". He's 22 right now, but my wife was her babysitter many times in her teens, so for her, he's still a baby. She told me she took...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 19 Responses Apr 24

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    There are a few good second hand bookstores in and around this city, and I always have to be careful when I'm out shopping in town not to go past one, because if I do, I cannot...
    TheBookAddict TheBookAddict 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 30

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    Been a member since 2008. I have several accounts to accommodate different role play. I have a few that I role play as a family dog. One I have is a child which I grow up and down...
    jamielove7777 jamielove7777 26-30, F Apr 27

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    Five years ago I married the love of my life. I can still recall the exact moment I first saw her as if it were yesterday. As I entered the doors of our on campus coffee shop my...
    WorkingOnIt WorkingOnIt 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    As you know, my wife's cousin has been home several days. Initially it was going the weekend, but then he told us if he could stay more days as he felt very comfortable with us and...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 20 Responses Apr 26

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    Spent 2 straight days painting the rooms of the house with the wife. No fights, just painting, music and food with my best friend....my wife.
    ncfootguy ncfootguy 36-40, M 2 Responses May 4

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    I'm a pastor's wife. Just recently a woman came to our church, who just recently received her ministers lic. She is very sweet, loves the Lord, and has a burning passion to help...
    DAJ1 DAJ1 56-60, F 1 Response May 5

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    The first thing I did when I joined experienceproject was look at the stories of people leaving their wives and kids, because that's what I did. Most of the stories were about some...
    anoniMitty anoniMitty 22-25, M 1 Response May 7

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    my wife just love's sissifing me I am normally forced to wear a pink training bra pink Barbie doll dress a pink size 4 little girls panties pink ballerina shoes and made to hold my...
    subsissy1989 subsissy1989 26-30, M 2 Responses May 8

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    This morning I woke up to my step son yelling at my wife. When I told him to stop the attitude and be more respectful to his mother, he runs to her and says I'm mean to him. Then...
    bipolarPeter bipolarPeter 31-35, M May 9

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    I actually have both a wife and a husband my wife is actually my adoptive black sister my husband is also black and they are going to help me become a black woman because I begged...
    sexkittenmax sexkittenmax 18-21, T 2 Responses May 11

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    On Monday I've booked an appointment where that nice young lady who flirted with me works. I've told my wife she is coming with me and must dress up. I can't wait for my wife to...
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Fellas! The wife tells me theres a book on amazon called Vanessa's Confessions. It's about husband who likes to hear about his wife's sexual past during sex. She recently...
    hardbernard hardbernard 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I lost my wife to cancer, today making it 2years, i just can't wait to be with her again, my whole world crushed with her, now I'm let with pieces. My whole life became a shadow...
    Kisonas Kisonas 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm planning another trip to Cancun with my wife in July. I'm buying my wife a couple of sheer bikinis. Like I said in my other post, she only does things like that when she is...
    Guyvaca Guyvaca 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The one who did it first don't really get looked at... It's the one who made it popular is the one people look at..... Michael Jackson and the moon walk.... Plenty others... I can...
    LeahLoveeU LeahLoveeU 13-15, F Apr 28

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    I want to say that playing second life is the most fascinating and addictive game ever I joined about two yes ago and I love just another way to broaden my social life and I have...
    caylafleming caylafleming 31-35, F Apr 28

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    Surprise surprise, the bf has another excuse to be late. I'm so used to this by now, why don't I expect it. I'm a bored frustrated housewife, i wonder why lol. Most nights after...
    rachhappyville rachhappyville 31-35, F 16 Responses May 9

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    pls LadyAlissaForevor, I'm so sorry if you thought I was like that, pls can I pls have a second chance ?
    xNicholas xNicholas 16-17, M May 12

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    And I should be ashamed of myself. I shouldn't be leading other women on know full well that I am taken. I shouldn't be treating my wife with such disrespect and I can't believe...
    rjk115 rjk115 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 24

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    I have to say I was first shocked to fine out my wife was cheating. I think I was also lucky. Soon after marrying, she confided that her previous bfs had accused her of cheating...
    det21865 det21865 46-50 1 Response Apr 25