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I Am a Second Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 54 People

    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    He spent the day with her

    and their daughter. Idk why but every time he comes home after, even if he takes a shower, I just feel completely uncomfortable and turned off from him. Why do I feel like this? It didn't start until after I became pregnant with our daughter and he came home smelling like...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Being a second (or third) wife to a man that already has a family is like being a mistress. You never feel like a wife. He already has or had one. She's family. You are replaceable...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Does it make me a horrible person if I don't let my husband go to his first daughter's baptism? The last time he was left alone with her (the baby mom) she tried to convince me she...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    And I always will be. My husband's sister called me by his ex's name on our wedding day. :(
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was living with my father and his second wife.I was 15 and skipped school,and like most young men my thought turned to self pleasure.this time I decided to check out her panty...
    maryrosemary maryrosemary 56-60, M 1 Response Oct 16

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    Whilst I was busy working my *** off in the office starting a new business to come back from a financial catastrophe in 2005, I returned home unexpectedly one afternoon to catch my...
    TrentT TrentT 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    I just want to use this platform to vent out my inner thoughts.  I lived an excellent life with my wife and kids.  I was the only person in my family who was well settled...
    smarty75 smarty75 31-35, M Oct 7

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    Im 21 years old and I am pregnant with my second baby <3. I had my first at 19 years old with a guy that wasn't right for me.Now Im married to my high school sweetheart and im...
    demonicsangel2011 demonicsangel2011 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Once your wife decides to have you become her personal sissy maid, being a sissy becomes second nature to you after awhile. Like yesterday. My wife had to leave early for a...
    deeken deeken 36-40 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Me, my wife, her best friend and her boyfriend went on a weekend trip together to a secluded house with a pond. We all went swimming and before you know it all...
    tbobo1 tbobo1 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Her Routines, An introduction to my wife, domestic discipline and our 30 years together so far. When we first met I knew she was a person who needed routines to function in life...
    mistermisery mistermisery 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I married her because I love her. We've been married the second time now since Feb 9th 2008. I guess I also shared this experience and story to let people know that I don't want to...
    Genesis1983 Genesis1983 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    Hi guys new to this group. My partner is on suboxone maintainance (bupe& nalox. Films) I am concerned about his use however. I am a student in addiction and behavioral sciences...
    coffeedrop83 coffeedrop83 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I don't think I have ever felt as lonely as I do right now. Yes, I'm sitting in a lecture hall full of people yet I feel like I'm all alone in the world. And it's all because my...
    hotstreak426 hotstreak426 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    We provide Artistic styles that can boost your brand name and company digital identification coupled with advanced personalized web development integration options. We have now...
    Laurenazrj90 Laurenazrj90 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 17

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    The Dog The other day my wife was off work for a change and later that day my 20 year old step son (her natural son) was coming back from China where he spent his summer vacation...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 4 Responses Sep 26

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    My wife knows that I love for her to wear revealing clothes in public, and although she's not thrilled with the idea, she will accommodate my desires, provided that it is a safe...
    celtics11 celtics11 41-45 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    As I sit here right now while my wife has gone grocery shopping for the family I think about how blessed I am to have the best wife in the world. We met under somewhat strange...
    handytim59 handytim59 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Since I was about 12, I have dreamed about being a wife, things I would do for my husband, and things he would do for me, wearing sexy lingerie for him, and doing other things...
    ashliemarie01 ashliemarie01 31-35, T Oct 5

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    my wife is also know about my hobby of wearing female dresses i like to wear saree blouse much. i have few collection of saree blouse bra paticoats wig ,jweleries etc One day we...
    priyankapatel131089 priyankapatel131089 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Letter To My Wife Nazim Hikmat.. 11-11-1933 Bursa Prison My one and only! Your last letter says: "My head is throbbing, my heart is stunned!" You say: "If they hang you, if I...
    Pheroswife Pheroswife 41-45, F Sep 25

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    I'm 24, and yes I wanted to be a wife. Not only a wife but the best and the most understanding wife for him. I have so much love, passion, care and kindness to offer for my future...
    IAMPINAY IAMPINAY 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I have been in a domestic partnership with my love for years. We have two children together. Just for clarification we are a straight couple and unmarried. His brother's wife is...
    alora236 alora236 22-25, F Sep 28

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    I like to watch my wife spread her legs. Sometimes she does it at home while it is just the two of us and at other times while we are in public. She likes to do it in front of our...
    drlesmoore drlesmoore 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 2

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    Just some advice, there are guys out there who might try and steal your wife from you. Sometime in early July we were walking through the hospital, we are there a lot for...
    Garraway Garraway 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 4

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    Today is one of those days where I'm reminded of the type of sissy I am. My wife has to go to work later. But for now, she's relaxing in the living room, wearing a pair of pajamas...
    deeken deeken 36-40 2 days ago

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    I have over 100 internet friends (usually husbands) and we like share wifes pics - could resend Your wife to my over 100's friends :)
    annjashusband annjashusband 36-40, M 6 Responses Sep 30

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    Well....I am a soon to be truckers wife, my husband of 8 years woke up and decided that he no longer wanted to be an electrician, but wanted to become a truck driver. He talked...
    sadrich1 sadrich1 26-30, F Sep 30

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    They had only dated for a few months before getting married. They were married for a year and a half before she left him for a woman. She moved her new girlfriend into their house...
    SoapBoxKid SoapBoxKid 26-30 1 Response Oct 8

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    My wife and I have a great sex life but recently invited another male into are bed it's very exciting but scary am I wrong to let another man enjoy my wife
    raiderfan51 raiderfan51 46-50, M 12 Responses Oct 9

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    Ive never met anyone i could tell EVERYTHING, and i mean ANYTHING, ive never met anyone who told me EVERYTHING, ive never met anyone whos idea of a good time, was making sure "I...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 11

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    I do have a girlfriend but not a wife. Even tho we are not married I still call her my wife. If anyone wants any pictures of her then please feel free to message me as I'm more...
    10KalHill 10KalHill 22-25, M 9 Responses Oct 11

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    I love my wife 2 much... No one can imagine it.. Though v fight some time but most of the the time v hv fun even in fighting... I think your wife should be your best friend..
    dukedom4ever dukedom4ever 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 11

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    We were in a shoestore and I lifted her socked foot to my lap and began tickling. She was cracking up as a lady walked around the corner and commented how cute it was. I held my...
    Miked43 Miked43 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    I spend most of my days dressed as a maid now. My day usually consists of taking care of the house and seeing to my wife's needs. She is a career