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I Am a Second Wife

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    I'm not a second wife yet

    but I know my boyfriend is going to propose soon. We've been together since I was 17 and he was 18 so for 4 and a half years now. When we first started dating I knew he had two daughters and an ex wife which didn't bother me at the time but now it drives me nuts. I lost my...
    Ashhhhx Ashhhhx 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2015

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    He spent the day with her

    and their daughter. Idk why but every time he comes home after, even if he takes a shower, I just feel completely uncomfortable and turned off from him. Why do I feel like this? It didn't start until after I became pregnant with our daughter and he came home smelling like...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I would love to watch my wife held down by 2 guys while the other one pushes her skirt up and rips down her black tights and white knickers
    knickersstain knickersstain 46-50, M 1 Response 19 mins ago

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    60 seconds spent with you, Brought me minutes, And minutes lost into you, Turned hours, And hours made those days, I never could count, Weeks, months or years. And now a...
    vulnerablespirit vulnerablespirit 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    I have just discovered how much I want to share some pics of my hot little wife while someone tells me how they would use her.
    mikeykno mikeykno 46-50, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Once when me and my wife were out my wife was tipsy at back of the bar there was 1 guy who had been looking at her legs in her black tights he was sat down I got her to stand up...
    knickersstain knickersstain 46-50, M 15 hrs ago

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    My situation is much different then most others in this situation. Let me clarify, I am the wife of a widower and let me start from the beginning. When we were dating it was told...
    ss2002 ss2002 31-35, F 19 hrs ago

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    I'm that friend that is always the second choice. No one ever thinks to invite me anywhere unless everyone else is busy. No one sees how much it really hurts, I wish I would be...
    proudbelieber010 proudbelieber010 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've tried not too. I know it's wrong. I should love her and in some bizarre, distorted, corrupted way I still do. But Holy F***ing s**t sometimes she does or says things and I...
    egbertnosh egbertnosh 51-55, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I will tribute your wife's pics sent your photos to dallasheart1970@yahoo.com and tell me where to send the results we are active on flick and have a tribute page there If you...
    dallasheart1970 dallasheart1970 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    I been with my boyfriend on and off for 6 years .The reason is because he mostly in Japan and I don't get to see him for 2 years at time .This is his second time in Japan for 2...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I am looking to explore the lifestyle. Any couple wanna chat?
    milizbeth milizbeth 46-50, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    my husband and I would like to meet someone. Anyone interested in urban homesteading and geeky gamer stuff?
    Tallaverosa Tallaverosa 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I'm excited to soon be the wife of a widower. I have been with my widower for 4 long joyous years. Don't get me wrong it has had its trying and hurtful times. How am I to feel when...
    lettiebaby79 lettiebaby79 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    I get really jealous of everyone husbands or boyfriend.The reason is I haven't seen my boyfriend in 2 years .This is the second time he been over sea straight for 2 years .We never...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Coming few weeks will be in Goa. Looking forward for a fun-fill vacation with like minded couple / single. It's always a pleasure to see my wife take an advantage of her freedom of...
    thesnob thesnob 31-35, M 4 Responses Jan 29

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    Little story about a long time ago. The kids were still young and we had this inflatable swimming pool out. My wifes sister and her husband came over with their two sons to play...
    AdBlue AdBlue 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 29

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    I am a 50 year old white male married to a 39 year old Indian women a few years a go we were on holiday india , staying at a hotel my wife said she going to bed early I stayed in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 28

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    That is how it was at the start of me sharing her but then it got ouit of my control . she was phoned by Jack who she knew as Jills husband. his wife had kicked him out and he was...
    anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M Jan 27

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    How the hell can anyone justify this? Oh, that's right, they can't. Which is why it's being done in the dark. http://m.naturalnews.com/news...
    Sicarium Sicarium 36-40, M Jan 26

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    My username in Second Life is Sanndy Sands. If you want add me there, first say hi and talk before sending a friend request.
    SanndySands SanndySands 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    My Husband got his Orders, he deploys on February 15th. He's leaving right after Valentine's Day, and the day I enter my Second Trimester. He isn't coming back until November, so...
    awakenstarchild awakenstarchild 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I have only been with her eleven years and as each day goes by, my love for her goes straight up. We are the same age, 66 and I hope we will be together for the rest of our lives...
    leslove69 leslove69 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    And I almost never have a second coffee. I needed something to have with my coconut macaroon. You have been warned ; )
    1gr8guy 1gr8guy 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 22

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    I don't know if he noticed me first or her second, or me second and her first. I know is he noticed the blonde hair with the deep blue eyes, and my red hair with milky brown eyes...
    Syd96 Syd96 18-21, F Jan 21

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    My wife and I went out for a night out with another couple we were friendly with. She was feeling extra naughty and decided to go out with no bra on. She wore a tight top that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 21

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    More like third language. French being my second and Spanish being my first... Ahaha But yeah, all my education at school was done in French. Very little English was taught. I...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    A second chances doesn't always mean a happy ending. Sometimes it's a chance to end things right.
    foodloverpeople foodloverpeople 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    A couple days ago we were having issues with our computer. My brother-in-law gave me the name of a guy who straightened his out. I called him and yesterday he came over. My wife...
    2toydishers 2toydishers 66-70 9 Responses Jan 17