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I Am a Second Wife

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Related Experiences

    I hate the fact that I'm a second wife, seems like my husband has done everything that I want to do when he was married to his first wife. He reaction to most things are, " Been...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    My wife knows I'm bi and when we fist got together. She said he wanted to watch. We met this guy online. Met at a hotel. She watched us suck each other off. I told her to come an...
    Lust4mee Lust4mee 46-50, M 6 hrs ago

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    My wife cheated on me a few years ago.
    travisgk2001 travisgk2001 36-40, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    My wife is in love with her hp
    ramlythings ramlythings 61-65, M 3 hrs ago

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    I'm 37 years old. I want to be a wife and have another child one day. I want my own family. Do you think that I'm to old to have kids? Is it too late for me? I was going to give...
    OneTooManyTears OneTooManyTears 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    So my Marine left for SOI Monday. It was hard saying see ya later for the second time. It wasn't as hard as boot camp but it's pretty up there. Right now I'm just a at a loss. Sigh...
    lovedesi lovedesi 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    “My Ride to the Mountain”The Journey & The AnxietyBy: Saar-rah Robinson"Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its...
    SisterPrisonWivesBFF SisterPrisonWivesBFF 61-65 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Moving from California to Kentucky has not been easy whatsoever ! First the weather completely sucks , second the insects are horrible and all over the place and third there's no...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I can't help but feel overwhelmed with sadness seeing everyone else posting about how they got there first letter and stuff. My amazing fiancé and I have been dating for 2 years...
    lilgompas lilgompas 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    i am not married, but my girlfriend loves to humiliate me. Last weekend, we were at a bar in downtown Omaha dancing and having fun when, just as I went to put my hands around her...
    grendelll grendelll 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I am 25 yrs old at our second duty station which is Vilseck Germany. I work full-time, got to school part time. I haven't been on this page since my husbands first deployment in 2...
    acola420 acola420 22-25, F Aug 21

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    Watchful thought within your back gardenR17;s existing characteristics will lay the foundations to your landscape structure.No matter what it's you'll need, We've got the caliber...
    Meljbr26d Meljbr26d 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    As vegetarians, when at times we observed the variety limited at meal, the chefs were being usually accommodating and geared up extra dishes which had been particularly tasty!We...
    Magalyid72 Magalyid72 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Although I've only been married for a year, my husband and I have been together for almost 14, we're high-school sweethearts. He's the drummer and back up vocalist of the band...
    Schmoolie Schmoolie 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Off we go to Fort Riley. The house is all packed into a U-Haul and the bird is in his carrier and very unhappy about it. We're camping our way there so that should be interesting...
    WOwifeLaura WOwifeLaura 18-21, F a week ago

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    I was an Army Wife for 8 years, and I hated it. It's total sacrilege to say that and current Army Wives will totally rip you for saying it. You're supposed to be super proud to be...
    HouseholdSix HouseholdSix 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    Second Life is addicting to me because my avatar is a reflection of how I see myself in real life. I am FtM transgender in real life, and one of my favorite things to do is shop...
    havokitten havokitten 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    The necklace My wife my 6 yr. old son and I went on vacation to Miami as we are leaving the beach one day we see a street vendor selling necklaces of sharks tooth. My six year old...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I have fond memories of previous years with my wife, but in the last few months she doesn't want to help me with the simplest thing and we don't go have fun together either. We...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 6 Responses Aug 17

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    My wife isn't really getting fat at the moment but rather has always been plump. She was only 5'0 tall and 190 pounds when graduating from highschool in 1993. By the time we met in...
    hsnpman hsnpman 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 18

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    My wife Do you know my wife? Of course not I keep her in secret because she is special All men who lay eyes on her Will try to steal her but they will failed My wife is not like...
    broskidude broskidude 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Addiction to on line games and worlds is a concern of mine, since I've faced it repeatedly and I've seen it so much over the years. It's sad and we need help. If you are facing...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Aug 9

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    "If in the dark we loose sight of love hold my hand and have no fear I will be here...as sure as seasons are made for change our lifetimes are made for years...I will be true to...
    rockypoly rockypoly 31-35, M Aug 13

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    Yes it all started five years ago when doing some shopings, i entered into a shoe shop and i saw a pair of red ballet flats in number 12! Of course i looked for an empty people...
    Bisbix Bisbix 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I don't really hate my wife. It's just that I don't love her like a wife any longer. She's just a roommate and we have a great division of labor. In our relationship, there's me...
    RoniHo RoniHo 51-55, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a divorce attorney who has represented women and men in countless cases. based on my observations, there are certain truths about marriage and divorce. 1. Marriage is a...
    divorceatty divorceatty 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 1

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    My wife has been on Prozac for (8) years. It is really bad when she decides not to take them anymore. The early years of marriage were good and we raised (3) great children whom...
    RIDJEMAN RIDJEMAN 56-60, M Aug 6

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    I've been married 13 years. Both my wife and I work. I work long hours 12 -16 a day and am gone a lot. Oil fields. My wife has started with the I'm tired excuse and lately it's...
    goodguy4455 goodguy4455 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Not True. I am ex- wife of a Navy man. Now, I am no one WIFE.
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I recently bought my wife a QOS necklace. She has temp. tats and anklet but wanted something more visible when she needed it. We went to a local department store one evening to...
    dshby dshby 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    It took a while for my conservative wife, but i finally got her to be naughty, she is doing nice things......check her out in sexy wife!!!!!!
    ray2000 ray2000 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 15

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    I've been married for 15 years now. My wife has endometriosis and I can't penetrate her because it hurts like hell. I make her ****** several times by rubbing my tool against her...
    Captain06 Captain06 41-45, M Aug 17

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    This Friday I am planning on telling my wife that I want to file for divorce. Saturday is my birthday. I do not care that it is my birthday. I never enjoy anything anymore. I feel...
    Fluxification Fluxification 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I want to move on from my wife of 15 years, GF of 2 years and other GF of 6 months. I just need the time to pursue my passion, sex, So I find nothing in common anymore except...
    liveitover liveitover 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Looking for someone to print out my wife's pictures and put them in places like truck stops, adult peep show booths, college campuses, bars, etc with my email address on them...
    wifeshowheroff wifeshowheroff 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 19

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