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I Am a Second Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 53 People

    And Im Not Happy About It....

    my chauvinist husband thinks im not woman enough for him on my own...  what a pig..  I  think my adam's apple isnt helping =(
    badbinary badbinary 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Shara's Shadow

    I'm 20 years young, recently married&my newly wed husband was recently widowed in 2011F ebruary 2011 to be exact. when his first wife,Shara passed away while trying to give birth to their daughter. Their little girl didn't make it either. We started dating June 2011. Before we...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Shocking Discovery

    My husband was married before he married me. This I knew. He said they had been together eight years but they got divorced when she couldn't have kids. I believed this story for a year after we got married. One day, I was cleaning the house, when a woman showed up at my doorstep...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    I'm married to a man

    who was married before and has two children from that marriage. Their union was by no means perfect, but I am haunted by it. When we starting dating, it didn't seem like such a big deal. I never saw the kids and so I never thought of them or the ex. Obviously, I started to see...
    secondandunhappy secondandunhappy 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    Broken

    My story starts 17 years ago. I met a man that had just had his wife leave him for another man. We both had a child when we met and things were alot like a roller coaster. But weve made it. For 17 years I guess I always knew I wasnt her. Shes tall,thin and married to a man that...
    mitzied mitzied 36-40 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    Need Advice!!

    I have never been married but this is the only group I feel that could relate. My boyfriend and I have been together since he separated with his ex wife... which has been a year and a half. They are now divorced. Although we are not married, the subject of marriage has...
    rae622 rae622 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Second Hand Family

    So my husband&i have been trying to conceive on and off for about 6 months and this morning i took a pregnancy. My body gave me reason to believe this was it,a baby is in the making. So when it comes back negative and i am naturally upset and discouraged,husband decide to change...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    Thin Ice! Touchy Subject

    hubby&i are currently trying to conceive our first of many bundles and up until yesterday we thought we were pregnant with our first. my girl time started yesterday after being about 3 days late. i was starting to get comfortable with sharing my petite frame with a little one,he...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    Stepmom Support! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F Aug 27, 2009

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    He spent the day with her

    and their daughter. Idk why but every time he comes home after, even if he takes a shower, I just feel completely uncomfortable and turned off from him. Why do I feel like this? It didn't start until after I became pregnant with our daughter and he came home smelling like...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    I Feel No Place In This

    I am from a very conservative place and married this man from a very open culture, I just wanted simple basic things a couple would want. A religious wedding.. the surprise of a baby coming to the family..enjoy looking for our first house.. well we were both married before but I...
    alwayssecond alwayssecond 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Second Wife.second Place. Second Best

    I never thought I'd ever be married yet alone be married so young (20 years young). The 'hallucinations' of my ideal marriage would being happily married to a wonderful man that was no doubt my soul mate. In my hallucination I had a beautiful, big, joyous occasion of a wedding...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Approach With Caution

    Last night my husband and I resolved a 4-day feud after hours of confessions, hurt feelings and shock. One thing led to another and we were all over the place in hot steamy passion. Fast forward past the awesome amazing love making,he realizes that my girl time is late. At that...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Morning After..he Really Said That

    It's been awhile since I've written anything but believe me you there has not been a shortage of 2nd wife experiences. Our recent arguments over the last few days have been brutal. Brutal how you ask? For one he has told me to get out find somewhere else to go,let's see other...
    SharasShadow SharasShadow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    we made a agreement that when we face argument we should hug each other at any cost , then one day this happened i saw we went to argument to argument , then immediaately without...
    amarnathnaga007aarya amarnathnaga007aarya 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    he's been gone at MCRD San Diego for exactly 30 days. I received my second letter from him saying he still hasn't gotten my letters. I sent all of them a week and 4 days ago. Is...
    krystallklearr krystallklearr 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    he's been gone at MCRD San Diego for exactly 30 days. I received my second letter from him saying he still hasn't gotten my letters. I sent all of them a week and 4 days ago. Is...
    krystallklearr krystallklearr 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I. Mutual duties of husband and wife. 1. The husband and wife owe each other love, since marriage is principally a union of heart and affection. The qualities of this love are: (a...
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I am a married man, who has been having an affair with a married woman for 3 years. I am not leaving my wife, and nor is she leaving her husband. Neither one of us are IN love with...
    ChurchKei ChurchKei 31-35 Apr 15

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    This week we had a guest, my wife "little cousin". He's 22 right now, but my wife was her babysitter many times in her teens, so for her, he's still a baby. She told me she took...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 14 Responses 2 days ago

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    When I first met my wife, she wore the dresses and occasionally pantyhose. Over the years though, it became clear that she was the more dominant spouse. Her career combined with...
    deeken deeken 36-40 4 Responses Apr 9

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    Lost. Sad. Heartbroken. Confused. Angry. I'm not really sure what the future holds. I love my wife with everything that I have, every part of my spirit. We both have made...
    UndisputedTruth UndisputedTruth 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Hmm not sure if I love it but it's a lot better than sharing a house with a cold woman. For the first few years of our marriage I just used my wife for sex and she let me thinking...
    mike541 mike541 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I've thought about it and I know if it were the case, this is how I'd be and act. I mean I don't believe in second chances in relationships (Depends on the matter at hand for me...
    Cooper802 Cooper802 18-21, M Apr 8

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    As you know, I found some pics of my wife in her cell... they were sent by his coworkers. I finally talk to her and she told me she was fuc**d several time that night before I...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 17 Responses Apr 17

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    i love my wife..coz..my wife always support for me..and..am proud to my wife
    manomona manomona 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I used to give people second chances but then i realised i was stupid for doing so because they never seem to change. They promise they woun't do the same thing again but they end...
    jeffthekiller1 jeffthekiller1 16-17, M Apr 1

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    I actually find it kind of distasteful. No offense to anyone who does it. But, I'd hate it if I found out man was sending his friends pictures of me, or swapping pictures of me...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 4

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    I always find myself being the second choice when it comes to relationships. It doesn't matter how close I get to a guy, there's always some reason he doesn't want to commit to me...
    livslife livslife 16-17, F Apr 10

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    Giving a person a second chance is like giving them a second bullet because they've missed the first shot.
    mr8bitmonster mr8bitmonster 18-21, M Apr 11

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    Yesterday I got told at my job, that I really love, that probably I'll have to quit soon, because of my impulsive emotional behaviour, which doesn't come in handy when you're a...
    NHKK NHKK 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 16

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    Yesterday my wife and I went to the coffee shop where the girl I like frequents. She was disappointed we didn't see her. So I've won my wife around to me having something with this...
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So, yesterday I took the day off for a Dr appointment. My wife asked me to clean some leaves around our airconditioner and pool pump. No problem. I didn't do it because it rained...
    shadowplt shadowplt 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I met my man 30 yrs ago. Lost touch with my friends from back then until my divorce. I started dating him 6 months after his wife died. His wife took her own life. We have been...
    2findmyfit 2findmyfit 41-45, F Mar 31

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    None of you guys have a chance with my sexy waitress wife... but keep trying. The same characteristics that make her a fun and desirable waitress, are the same characteristics...
    TheBigGun TheBigGun 46-50, M Apr 2

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    I have been married twice and when my first wife and I were together we had a very varied sex life .Over the road from us was a wood where people took their dogs and a lot of the...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M Apr 6

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    I had arrange a sensual massage for my wife about 6 months ago when we had spent the weekend in Dallas. It was very erotic watching my wife get a massage by another man who was...
    cgris71 cgris71 61-65, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    My name is Kedra..I'm a disciplined wife...I admit I deserve it and I need it.My husband is very strict with me and our twin daughters age 2 and 6 ur old daughter..We have a 5 ur...
    Kedra86 Kedra86 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 10

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    I met my wife 5 years ago. The first 2 were amazing and I proposed. Since I have been married my wife has become a lazy joke. She quit her job , decided to do some course on...
    Dimmy1981 Dimmy1981 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    The easiest thing is to find a man willing to be with your wife but to find a woman willing to be a third party is so much harder. My wife only ********** when I'm torturing her...
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    If you like showing off your wife add me. And feel free to fill my inbox of your beautiful wife/girlfriends. I love giving detailed feedback
    Shhhhandenjoy Shhhhandenjoy 26-30, M 4 Responses Apr 15

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    So my wife and I have been married for 2 years in june, and lived together for a total of 8 years. We have a 3 year old son and just purchased our first home. Things are great to...
    wheelman82 wheelman82 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 16

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