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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    Definition of a Loner - Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    I Like To Be Myself - I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    Loner - i think that maybe this should be self professed loner and not professes, but anyway . i am 41yrs and i have had to deal with this "problem" of being a loner all my life. i...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I Walk A Lonely Road - I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    I Would Rather... - I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please) - 1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    Definition of a Loner - Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    I Really Don't Like People. - Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    I Am A Born Lesbian. - i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    The Random Mass Of People - I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    Im Fine Being Alone - this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    I'm A Loner.....so What? - That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    I am a loner. I am lonely. I am all alone. I am a sociopath. I'm hostile to people and people are hostile to me. When I make friends they get quickly tired of me. I can be very...
    garagara garagara 16-17 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Every person has dealt with low self-esteem and so have I. It’s not the best feeling in the world, but it’s not that bad either. The way we value ourselves is a hard thing to...
    BeingAnAnglophile BeingAnAnglophile 16-17, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I was self harm free for about five months, and one day I started having rushing thoughts I started overthinking everything I saw everything that wasn't bad as a horrible thing . I...
    uunbroken uunbroken 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

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    I just want to find someone who understands who I am without judging me. Most people think I'm stuck up because I don't really interact with people and I don't look anybody in the...
    fearflash fearflash 18-21 2 Responses Mar 23

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    well I'am,I find it really hard to make friends cause I get so shy around people.I have never had a boy friend....I'm a loner.I will prob stay single for a long time cause it is so...
    shygirlaquamarine shygirlaquamarine 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I have always been a loner, going my own way regardless of what other people do or think; but I have come to believe this is not always a good thing. Human beings are social...
    Qataram Qataram 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    It's more like I feel alone than I am alone. I don't really have "actual" friends. I'm always around my peers. We've been with each other for years but they're still just people...
    bethepea bethepea 16-17, F Apr 6

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    I'm a massive loner.. I'd prefer to have friends older than me also because well.. All my 'fiends' are immature and I can't stand most of them.
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    I believe I am a loner, but the kind of person who makes it that way. According to other people when I tell them I don't have many friends. They always tell me it's my fault. I do...
    UglyGhostGirl UglyGhostGirl 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I aint your typical girl who talks non-stop and will just walk up to you and say hey. I don't just go sit next to you and introduce myself. At school, I sit by myself. If I do not...
    regulare05 regulare05 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was 4 months self harm free but then I relapsed. Now I'm 3 weeks clean no where near 4 months but I'll hopefully get there. I'm just fighting the urge, fighting the addiction. It...
    ashricard ashricard 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    For you (many, girls), who cut yourselves. Please remember that some of us love you, care about you. ----- Food for thought (an article from Psychology Today) ----- Sax on Sex...
    Karll Karll 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I self harm. I've been self harming since i was 11 years old i am now 14 and i am slowly starting to recover. A year ago i attempted suicide and nearly succeed, but my best mate...
    jayspiller1 jayspiller1 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Have you ever felt like your driving force in your mind made a bad turn? You off the right road and somehow got lost? Negative self talk can do damage to self esteem. It can have...
    aries3296 aries3296 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It started when I was 10 or 11. Things were going badly at home and I was struggling with undiagnosed depression and anxiety. I'd cut to relieve my anxiety and keep me calm, to...
    skinnylittlewrists skinnylittlewrists 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I don't know where to begin when It comes to my experience with self harm. I started cutting when I was 13, the first time I had ever self harmed was in my bathroom with a large...
    musicforthemorningafter musicforthemorningafter 13-15, F Apr 7

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    That night I was scrolling through tumblr. I recently searched up the words skinny, thigh gap, anorexia, collar bones, death, self harm,....etc. I decided I would film what goes...
    MorbidRainbow MorbidRainbow 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    What is the journey of self discovery? How do you know when you've reached it? I don't believe you do know when you've reached it. The journey of self discovery is life. We get so...
    LaughLoveLiveHope LaughLoveLiveHope 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I always had a fairly healthy self worth. So I thought..I realised I was in denial. I always imagined that the reason people dont seem to care about me is because of some failure...
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F Mar 18

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    I an not your typical "self harmer." For most people, when they think of self harm they think of razors and wrists and wearing long sleeves to cover it up. I am not that person. I...
    harperm97 harperm97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Soo I don't have a name for it... But yeahh Anger is a sign of depression they say that with alittle treatment you'll be okay. But one day when everything is gone and black and...
    olivias78 olivias78 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Truth is I don't think I've ever had any Self Esteem or Confidence. I say that only because looking back throughout my life I cannot recall a time where I was truly okay with being...
    needinganescape needinganescape 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Selfies is addiction. I haven't taken so much picture in my life now I have seen my photos its around 300 of myself lol wtf . Most nights when I'm out with friends I usually take...
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I don’t care about people properly. I won’t give in to it. There are people who matter to me, but the moments where I feel like I’d do anything for them are rare and...
    Ridiculousity Ridiculousity 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I did it. I finally called a helpline about my self harm and depression problems and I'm so proud of myself. I then told my brother. I had cut that afternoon, but it was a bad one...
    writercookies writercookies 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I believe that without selfishness world can become a better place. That includes the corruption and stuffs like that. Don't act like you own things that you really don't. Don't...
    yuichie yuichie 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Every day, I grip my penknife tightly, sighing in relief as the blade cuts through my flesh, smiling as the blood drips from the cut, staining my skin crimson red, relieving me of...
    Josephineong Josephineong 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I have been in a long distance relationship for over 5 years now. It was instant love when we spent our first summer together. We absolutely clicked! Being 1000 miles apart and...
    cynic44 cynic44 22-25, F Mar 18

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    I recently found out one of my friends self-harm, although i do finding out she did was a big shocker. She just dropped it on me as well! She showed me the marks on her and I asked...
    xcircusfreak xcircusfreak 13-15, F Mar 19

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    It's been about 4 months since I've self harmed. I have been self harming since I was 12 and I'm 20 now. Although it's been 4 months I struggle everyday not to harm. Cutting and...
    ashricard ashricard 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Self pity it's just such a waste of time. I am tired of it, and I really have no room for this in my life. I am pushing myself out of this nasty little self pity ditch I have...
    QueenAwesomePants QueenAwesomePants 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    I like to look good. Take pride in your outer self and your inner self will reciprocate. The reverse is true as well
    lujocin lujocin 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    ***May be triggering i don't know*** Some of my story (sorry it's kinda long) I've been bullied since I moved in grade one. I'm used to it to tell the truth. I found out last...
    Darkerthanlightash Darkerthanlightash 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Highly! I don't agree with girls that act loose, in order to comfort themselves and feel love by a male, when really they are making themselves feel worse, sleeping around leads to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Throughout my entire life, I've struggled with self esteem. From childhood through my sophomore year in college, I was always teased and was the main topic for everyone's cruel and...
    Paul1538 Paul1538 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    So for the past month I've planned this spring break trip with my parents and two of my best friends. We've been shopping for clothes and sandals and beach necessities. Now 4 days...
    blackxrosexyuuki blackxrosexyuuki 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I used to self harm last year. I'm starting to have those feelings and I really want to go back to the blade. Call me crazy. I don't care. But one thing that stops me doing so. My...
    HydroChronexia HydroChronexia 13-15, F Mar 26

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    I hate my self harm scars. I can't wear any shorts that I used to. They aren't so big or so many of them. But their all white and I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my...
    anetteton anetteton 13-15, F Mar 26

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