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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    i think that maybe this should be self professed loner and not professes, but anyway . i am 41yrs and i have had to deal with this "problem" of being a loner all my life. i have always been very happy on my own , all i require is that people leave me alone . i have 5 or 6 real...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    The Random Mass Of People

    I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact, I don't want so many friends, I don't want people to look at me and think I'm popular. I don't want to be on that high...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    No family 2 friends 1 takes me shopping weekly and 1 ive never met he lives in another country mobility problems spent most my life looking for love to be treated like **** now I'm...
    aromantic2012 aromantic2012 31-35 2 hrs ago

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    i made myself a loner, i isolated myself from the real world . yenno i had girlfriends,friends, a LIFE . but then i started to get acne real bad and lowered my confidence and...
    Mihkowakayios Mihkowakayios 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    Ive always been labelled and agreed that I was a "loner" Im pretty happy with my own company (with exception of black dog) love thinking, quiet times..But somehow find myself with...
    Blondie1978 Blondie1978 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I used to have friends. But it's because of them that I developed partial trust issues. Eventually I just broke off from any friendship ties and became a loner.I love being a loner...
    Zephyix Zephyix 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I'm in FYJC in one of the top colleges in mumbai. I come from a very well to do family but I'm from a very simple school. I'm a pretty girl and very nice and humble, but I'm a very...
    prettyloner prettyloner 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I am an independent loner and I love it. But what is crazy is that I am a very social person. People love having me around and they call me for everything because I am very easy to...
    anonymousaquarious anonymousaquarious 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Im a loner by choice because i want real friends. Not semester friend
    tomasalmas6789 tomasalmas6789 18-21, M Aug 26

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    I don't choose to be. Seriously who wants to be alone? Nobody. I just don't have a lot of people that care about me to invite me anywhere. I have no choice, but to be a loner...
    seakissedjem seakissedjem 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I seriously have no friends and what lil family I do have, we don't socialize with each other. I enjoy being a loner. I can go out and have a whole conversation with a homeless...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 6

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    I miss having friends but I guess I'm just too much of a loner to have any. I try to make friends but I am horrible at keep up with the communication. I'll make a friend in one of...
    Robin1226 Robin1226 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    Today i went walking, didn't care where my feet lead me. Was having a bad day. Wind up in some neighborhood with cute little houses. Sat on the sidewalk, and just watched these...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    I'm a loner, but I don't think that's a bad thing. I have a large family I hang out with a lot, and a couple good friends, but I spend most of my free time alone, willingly...
    PastaBanana PastaBanana 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Letting less and less knots loose. I wasn't meant to hold everything together. I look at myself and see the strength I've built up, through tolerance. Endurance of people I...
    sbomber25 sbomber25 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Well my older sister started messaging me and fangirling about how happy she is what she had gotten to talk to her boyfriend again (more like they're not even together, they were...
    ravenzewolf ravenzewolf 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    The growing trend of taking smartphone selfies is linked to mental health conditions that focus on a person’s obsession with looks. According to psychiatrist Dr David Veal...
    MFBG MFBG 61-65, M Sep 13

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    One of the most unattractive qualities in people is being too selfish and self absorbed to understand others or see things from a more objective and realistic perspective. Being so...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Selfie here, selfie there, here selfie there selfie everywhere a selfie. Hahahaha (;
    Country00Girl Country00Girl 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    i think to be selfish in some extent is not bad ,because u can help any one only when u help ur self ,we are bound to do work for our selves first rather than anyone else whether...
    rev429 rev429 18-21, M Aug 29

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    EP, the land of SELFIES......S-Selection....so crucial to a posted selfie....looking your best is the keyE-Elimination....eliminate the flaws and expose your inner beautyL...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I'm reading an amazing book tonight, entitled "Boundaries and Relationships: Knowing, Protecting, and Enjoying the Self". One part of it made me cry because I just cannot believe...
    mistletoe41 mistletoe41 41-45, F Sep 3

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    I find nothing wrong with self harm like most people do. The only thing I find wrong with self harm is what lies beneath it but not the actually self harm itself. Like, I cut...
    starryxo starryxo 22-25 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Cutting is one of the most misunderstood human behaviors. And like any addiction, cutting is an extremely difficult thing to stop. We can become addicted to the chemicals that our...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I honestly don't really know if it's official or not, and I don't want to go to a doctor. I think I'm fine managing by myself. I started to have bad anxiety/depression since last...
    AwfullyRad AwfullyRad 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    #selfie lol I love taking selfies but I hate the girls that go overboard and take like 1000 selfies a day :/ like seriously go away haha
    Karianne6614 Karianne6614 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 25

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    I'm not proud of it. I started self harming when I was 14 years old. I didn't hurt myself, and it wasn't very often. It started getting really bad while I was 15, my parents had a...
    CemoneDC CemoneDC 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    My goal: to be the person I want to be with in more ways then one... With this in mind I find myself getting anxiety from a place of self perfectionism, but then I take a step...
    mzwhat mzwhat 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    i dont really have much self esteem anymore. i used to be really fat but even then, I was happy and I felt pretty. nowdays, i dont. it's like, everyone tells me im pretty and that...
    TrueLondon TrueLondon 18-21, F Sep 3

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    This is a Poem that i wrote, I never write or do anything like that. I've been feeling depressed so i wrote down what i was thinking. This is a Personal Poem about how I feel...
    Nick54 Nick54 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    There was a small time in my life that my confidence started to bloom. I modeled for a few photographers, I was happy with the way I looked minus a few things if course. I...
    MarKri MarKri 22-25, F Sep 7

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    Unno i just saw someone post something on instagram and its just so true i wanted to say it here because i thought it was relevant.. "When someones self concious everyone tells...
    Theheavyheart Theheavyheart 13-15, F Sep 12

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    I started becoming depressed when I was 12 in the middle of 7th grade. My depression got worse and I began to self harm during the summer (when I was going into 8th grade). I had...
    livinglifeinpain livinglifeinpain 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I used self harm for attention, and then it soon became more like an addiction so I started keeping it to myself. I now have stopped and Im almost a year clean :) I'm so glad I got...
    zennarts zennarts 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    The world continues to move around me. The chatter, the frenzy, the seeking, the competition. What is it that each of us is striving for? How many are even aware? Or are we just...
    mistletoe41 mistletoe41 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Ive been battling self-conscious and low self esteem for sometime now.. Hav u ever experienced asking ur seatmate or friends for answers for exams or seatwork? And soon finds out...
    Chiscuit Chiscuit 26-30, F Aug 25

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    I've been having some thoughts about this for a few days now, which I might have partly reflected in comments I've made here and there, can't remember... What I've been thinking...