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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    The Random Mass Of People

    I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact, I don't want so many friends, I don't want people to look at me and think I'm popular. I don't want to be on that high...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Here's what drives me crazy: It is a dog-eat-dog society, yet mainstream society is at the same time relentlessly social. I have for the most part given up on people. Most people...
    atpeacewithme atpeacewithme 31-35 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    i am a person who sure does do give a lot to owns self respect and so like people who do have a sense of self respect!
    romell romell 41-45, M 12 hrs ago

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    and I hate it! My personality is not one that does loner well,it needs people. I need to love and be loved,to touch and be touched,to be emotionally and physically close to people...
    bornfem bornfem 56-60 3 Responses a week ago

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    I feel I always screw up and must punish my self.. so I do
    cosciatony cosciatony 26-30, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I would tell my past self, "that wasn't beef"
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I self harm and I like it. Sorry. I don't want to stop. If I didn't like it I wouldn't do it. Can't friends and family get off my back
    iSceneGirl iSceneGirl 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm a person of many thoughts and actions. I try to keep my actions seperated from my thoughts most of the time because I have social anxiety and one embarassing scentence goes a...
    Mewl Mewl 18-21, F Feb 8

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    Sooo I can't sleep and I was reading a few experiences and I felt like trying this out. I'm a sophomore in my 5th semester of jr. College and I don't have friends. When ever I do...
    candycat13 candycat13 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    So I feel neglected and used. Oh well things like this happen to me a lot. Not in the sense of romance to clarify matters. We're all passerbys in life. Especially on those chatting...
    procupcakeeater procupcakeeater 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I guess i kind of am now. I moved schools and i dont know one there. To say its ok to be a loner would be sounding like a narcissist. I am not one who enjoys his own company. So...
    Yungneechie Yungneechie 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 3

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    Being a loner becomes a bit lonely at times. I've even taken walking about the house in outerwear to feel held
    Danlor9991 Danlor9991 22-25, M Feb 5

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    I picture myself as a loner and have always thought of myself in this way, however, I am seldom alone. I am guided by a direction that I truly feel comes from inside of me. In the...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 4 Responses Feb 7

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    Since being promoted at my job, I'm having to deal with a lot more people than I did before. Naturally, this leads to more social interactions. What really upsets me about the...
    GiantKaiju GiantKaiju 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Can anyone help me not be a loner at most times????
    joeyangell2804 joeyangell2804 13-15, M Feb 22

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    I have been self harming since I was 12, I am about to be 21. The last time I harmed was a month ago and I made one big deep cut that should've had stitches because the scar now is...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Selfish people have a very narrow focus. They are focused on getting what they want, when they want it. Instead of seeing others' opinions, feelings, and desires as guides ( things...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F Feb 8

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    So many people in my age group are beginning to self harm and it makes me sick. I wish I could stop. This is my story: When I was younger, I would look at self harmers and go, "My...
    lily13576349 lily13576349 13-15, F Feb 17

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    I'm honestly tired of people glorifying self harm. I'm done and I need a good rant. Depression is NOT fun, it's NOT a choice, and more importantly self harm is NOT beautiful. It's...
    Whathi Whathi 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't exactly know why I'm writing this. I'm not one to seek attention, I never have been. I guess that's why I'm writing this... To show that self harm isn't for attention. I...
    Ticcat Ticcat 13-15, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    not in the meaning of selfish but I spend 70% of my day time alone in my work I tried not to talk to others I left home some times I stop the car and set with my self I love my...
    tetomni tetomni 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    For starters Hi I'm Noah (: I have been self harming for 8+ years and recently I have met someone awesome but because of us being intimate I was forced to stop self harming...
    NoahVolley NoahVolley 18-21, M Feb 3

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    There is this guy in my school who we'll just call Adam for privacy's sake. We used to be really close friends when we were little but the only thing that I think I've ever even...
    HypoallergenicUnicorn HypoallergenicUnicorn 13-15, F Feb 18

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    People who have self respect and act in a respectful, decent and dignified way are those that I then in turn respect. Took me a long long time to learn this. If you have self...
    nunos nunos 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 20

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    I always try to exercise my honesty towards myself. Additionally, there are moments that I indulge with my vanity. One of which is taking pictures of my self aka "selfies". I...
    BloviatingBuffoon BloviatingBuffoon 70+, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    Honestly you can't find people with self-respect anymore ... I really admire a person who can take the time to really understand their self-worth . Exposing yourself isn't...
    xolex18 xolex18 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wonder what's the deal with young people and their work ethics?? It's like they don't even know the definition of ethics!! I'm on this site fixing the stuffs up done by...
    h4n5dj22 h4n5dj22 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 4

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    Trying so hard not to tonight, damn I really messed it up. The woman of my dreams and I are on a break because I can't quit smoking. She doesn't understand that it's a form of self...
    nohopekid nohopekid 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    Why idk. But I have an entire album of hundreds of selfies. If I ever go missing the police will have a very wide selection of photos to pick from for my missing persons poster. I...
    Daring2care4u Daring2care4u 26-30 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I am not self confident at all because I got a round face ,I really hate that ,but I can't change anything as I was born to be kind of that , I can't even look up person when I...
    jessicatong jessicatong 26-30, F 14 Responses Feb 8

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    Dear self-confidence, I miss you a lot. Specially in these periods of hard working. Building up self-confidence is difficult, I do sport, I try to stay positive, I try to be myself...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 8

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