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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    Loner

    i think that maybe this should be self professed loner and not professes, but anyway . i am 41yrs and i have had to deal with this "problem" of being a loner all my life. i have always been very happy on my own , all i require is that people leave me alone . i have 5 or 6 real...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    The Random Mass Of People

    I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact, I don't want so many friends, I don't want people to look at me and think I'm popular. I don't want to be on that high...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M Jan 6, 2011

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'm a loner stoner and I ******* love being a loner stoner. No drama , just me and my self :)
    MisledS0ul MisledS0ul 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I am shy and socially awkward and basically have no friends but even tho i am a loner at points I can still take selfies with a smile
    lillyrahela lillyrahela 13-15, F Jul 18

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    No matter how hard I try, I just can't boost my self-esteem, When I look at myself, I see this hideous person with an ugly nose, huge lips, thick eyebrows, small squinty eyes...
    MLW1123 MLW1123 18-21 Jul 22

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    Yes I am a Loner,but that doesn't mean I am lonely.nor that I am alone. I merely do not need nor desire a large circle of friends nor a busy social schedule. This is just who I am...
    GreenBlueEyes GreenBlueEyes 41-45 1 Response Jul 6

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    I don't have a car at the moment so it's hard for me to get around where I live. I keep applying to jobs but have not had good luck with that and the ones I have gotten in the past...
    manicattackx manicattackx 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Lets just say, I would rather be a loner then in a park smoking & taking drugs. I don't exactly come across as an attractive or friendly-looking person to be honest either, that...
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Though out my entire life, it was really hard for me to make friends. I just was to shy to make friends with anyone. Except this one girl that I have known since we were 3. She was...
    bowsandarrows bowsandarrows 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I make even a wolfs life seem more fun and full of friends. Im always alone , most time time im wondering why there are so many humans on the planet . I use to try and make...
    Aniceguyforyou Aniceguyforyou 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm a Loner that doesn't like being alone. y'know what I saying like I'm usually pushed out of the circle and sometimes I like being alone and then sometimes I'm like damn I'm one...
    JuanitaaLovee JuanitaaLovee 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I've always been a loner. I don't know why, just am. I tend to keep to myself, don't open up to anyone. I also think a lot, just by myself.
    TheReflector TheReflector 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Being a loner is taking it's toll on me physically and mentally, I don't know how to get out this deep dark hole I've put myself in.
    Doof00 Doof00 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There is one beauty about selfish. But is perhaps also the ugly part about it. Selfish dont ever need to explain, reason or justify anything. The only part maybe selfish...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Jul 5

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    It's weird to complain about that. My mother was a psychologist and she worked hard on me since I was a child to make me confident and have great self steem... and she was...
    tuttyfrutty tuttyfrutty 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I do not romanticize self harm, or believe it to be good. This is just my experience with it. I've never been a "hard-core" self harmer, but it's still an addiction that I...
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F Jul 13

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    My brother is a cutter, so for a long time, i saw that as the only version of self harm, the extreme version. It wasnt until talking with someone that i realized that things i had...
    mairesequin mairesequin 16-17, F Jul 16

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    I started cutting my freshman year of high school, in a crowded student center, unnoticed. At the time, my boyfriend had let me down. It was such a SMALL thing, but it got to me. I...
    thecellist thecellist 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I have no self confidence. I have always sucked at social relationships or any social encounter. I'm 5'4 always been shorter then everyone at school. People would make fun of me. I...
    furquijo101 furquijo101 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I've struggled with self harm since about 7th grade. I am now in 10th. I have not cut since January 28, 2014 but I still struggle with other types of self harm. I binge, perge, and...
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I've been self harming for 3 years.. It started out 11 year old me just trying to cope, and with little scratches... After a few months I had scars and I started using it as a form...
    BulletForMyBlackVeil BulletForMyBlackVeil 13-15, F Jul 10

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    people call me selfish because i gonna leave my familly i just know i will feel worse if i stay, does that make me selfish? its my life, so if people think iam selfish so what?
    jojo12380 jojo12380 18-21, M Jul 12

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    haha I just came up with a smartass name for the phenomenon of unjustified self loathing teen girls... emo, whiny, I am soooo ugleh, etc etc hateurbation. n. The act of getting...
    mrinvader mrinvader 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Here I am, a single overweight mom and teacher at the age of 38. Been single since ex H left me for office **** at 7 months pregnant. So yeah that is depressing and I used to be...
    smcordova smcordova 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    People like myself need to be encouraged to put her own needs first and to find a relationship that reciprocates. I have been way, way too selfless. A traumatic pattern of being a...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M Jul 24

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    I'm a shy person. I want more self-confidence. well, I had joined a theater club in my school to boost up my self-confidence. It worked tough, but sometimes I think I'm still lack...
    gytriajeng gytriajeng 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Dammit. I'm going to start behaving with a little more self-respect starting now. No more fawning over him, he doesn't want me. That's fine. No recriminations. But I will have...
    Specificity Specificity 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I started self harming around a week ago. it's amazing how a few cuts can turn into 100. I started with a few on my legs, then a couple of minutes later my whole leg was bleeding...
    silentgirl1234 silentgirl1234 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I have given up. I was clean for a month. Sorry. The urge took over. NEVER START SELF HARMING BECAUSE IT TAKES OVER YOU. (I am not promoting self-harm, I just wanted to tell you.)
    thefaultinmylife thefaultinmylife 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 3

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    Have you ever just felt so upset, and you're crying so hard that you're shaking and no noise comes out? Have you ever just wanted to run the blade across your skin because its all...
    dyingalittleinside97 dyingalittleinside97 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 4

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    I first started to self harm when I was 13. My parents went through a divorce. It was a rough time especially with an alcoholic father. I had stopped self harming when I turned 14...
    EveMarieJones EveMarieJones 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I dont even take a selfie of myself. I get weirded out about the idea. I mean, I'm okay with myself. But that doesn't mean just because I don't take selfies, doesn't mean I feel...
    flyoffsomewhere flyoffsomewhere 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I think everyone feels self conscious at times whether you want to admit or not. Yes, I get self conscious sometimes, but it's because we live in a generation with so many judge...
    XxMarxX XxMarxX 18-21, M Jul 5

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    Coincidence? Think not! Selfies are the devils work! 😂 one more selfie and yo *** gon rot in hell.
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F Jul 5

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    I love my self but, i think no one will love me, i have a amazing personality but not a perfect body, I'm funny, but what is it for if there is no one who will laugh with my...
    justasmileaway1927 justasmileaway1927 18-21, F Jul 6

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    Ugh I said that this site would be the one I'd be true to myself since I can't really get myself into that in real life so I guess its time for me to get over with this topic... I...
    alpaqqa alpaqqa 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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