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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    Loner

    i think that maybe this should be self professed loner and not professes, but anyway . i am 41yrs and i have had to deal with this "problem" of being a loner all my life. i have always been very happy on my own , all i require is that people leave me alone . i have 5 or 6 real...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    The Random Mass Of People

    I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact, I don't want so many friends, I don't want people to look at me and think I'm popular. I don't want to be on that high...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    So here is a confession... I think I am a terrible friend sometimes. I shut out the people that want to get close to me because I have had so many disappointments in the past with...
    blackrabbit815 blackrabbit815 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 2

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    All loners are different in their own ways. That's what makes it so interesting for a loner to be a loner. Some just read books. Some just watch movies and tv shows, and ask why...
    ashfaaqb ashfaaqb 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I dragged by body to my bed while basically crawling on the ground for some time. wounded and broken .. perfect definition to describe my conditions. I disappointed people who i...
    deathiscold deathiscold 70+, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Ok so, I have been a loner for about 3 years now. Fun yay! I hate it -.-t So I need friends who I can be myself with and well will accept me for who I am...so yeah... I am so...
    HlinGoddessOfProtection HlinGoddessOfProtection 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    As an individual, speaking with all honesty ... I still have not approached the light at the end of the tunnel which is loving myself the way I am. I've come to a realization that...
    Angelanorexic Angelanorexic 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I don't think I can handle anymore. this is the end... can I go back to my old self? can I start again? I can't handle the pressure and pain I'm being put under.
    brokenlovatic1999 brokenlovatic1999 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I was a popular macho biker but as my wife helped me into the sissyhood the less popular I became. My riding buddies quit calling or coming around and the more sissified I became...
    CdKimmi CdKimmi 66-70, M 3 Responses Oct 25

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    I have been a loner most of my life because of my weight. It sucks and I hate it so much. I always wanted to have a girlfriend, but yet here I am thirty-one and single. I am so...
    marques30s marques30s 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 30

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    With age, I have learned to be at peace with being alone most of the time. I like the quiet. I've learned to live with my thoughts, with the stillness of the moment. So usually, if...
    beautifuldisaster76 beautifuldisaster76 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    I am a true and blue loner. I only hang around my family members. Those are the only people that I feel truly connected with. As far as I can tell, I have always been aloof...
    bloomingheart bloomingheart 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    So my friend says I'm a loner ..... O well
    Bloodwolf Bloodwolf 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 3

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    Every person who I have been friends with turned their back on me, even family was looking at me and my children different, I don't even bother to go around anymore! Now I find...
    kbberry kbberry 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 5

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    Be a loner that gives you time , To search for the truth . Have holy curiosity . Make your life worth living .
    Kraverine Kraverine 18-21, M Nov 8

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    I'm scared of connections with others. I used to be outgoing and still am. However there comes a point where I back off. Become shy and recluse. Bad experience dictate how trusting...
    BunniesCry BunniesCry 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 8

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    I don't really fit in with any group so I have grown up an outsider or a loner and have come to were IM better on my own
    luke401 luke401 16-17, M Nov 9

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    I don't mind being a loner. I enjoyed my own company. I like to think through stuff throughly and being alone give you that opportunity. I trust myself a lot. I find it hard to...
    masmelo masmelo 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    I love being alone, I don't like to communicate with other people. I just have this urge to be alone most of the time. I try to be by myself, and I don't start many conversations...
    cin8888 cin8888 13-15, F Nov 12

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    She always makes fun of me. Apparently for fun. Hurm maybe because im such a loner.
    swisssach swisssach 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    Off late I've been a loner. It is with an aching heart thst I sit alone at a restaurant while everyone else has somebody. It pains me because I would love to go to the movies or...
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 16

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    I'm a male to female transgender I'm a loner cause I'm afraid of letting people in my life and being abandoned again or beat or raped it's hard finding genuine kind understanding...
    SexyLexie88 SexyLexie88 26-30, T 1 Response Nov 16

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    I'm a loner. And it sucks sometimes and sometimes it's great.
    Amaze16 Amaze16 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Sometimes I feel like I need someone to talk to until I get someone and then I'm annoyed with them. I tend to ignore some of my closest friends because of it. I try to keep up with...
    Joey1215 Joey1215 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I am a loner who pretends to be social.
    SunshineOverClouds SunshineOverClouds 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am very much a loner a lot of the time. I have some wonderful friends on here, people like LadyLouisiana, Copper, Merguin, Littlepiggy and a couple of others, as well as one or...
    anothernightowl anothernightowl 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    "Understanding the nature of our Higher-Selves (aka Oversouls) is essential to living a whole and fulfilling Spiritual life. Each one of us have a higher-self and by being in...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    You're not just born with self respect, a lot of people don't know their self worth. I was one of them, I didn't realize my self worth was not linked to what others think or value...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 31

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    I'm so thrilled to say I'm actually gaining some self-esteem without feeling guilty about it. Man, this is such a freeing thing. Usually when I feel like asserting myself I think...
    EngulfingBreeze EngulfingBreeze 22-25, F Nov 10

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    I’m almost fifty-seven years old and I’ve spent a good portion of my life feeling bad about my physical appearance. I didn’t set out to be this way, I’ve just managed to...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    WHEN you focus/Are focused ON SELF, it is the Natural progression To Become INDIFFERENT. Indifference "may seem" harmless, UNTIL -One Day - AFTER a lifetime of it You WAKE UP from...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 5 days ago

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    I wrote a poem to try and figure out how I feel about my self sometimes and this is what came out. I apologize for it being so long. My Many Faces By Lindsey Burkholder I have...
    beautybehindthefat beautybehindthefat 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I read some of the stories here and they break my heart, so I wanted to share some information that might help Have you ever heard of DBT? "Dialectic Behaviour Therapy" www...
    EmperorJulian EmperorJulian 46-50, M Oct 29

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    selfiestickstore selfiestickstore 22-25, T Nov 5

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    I think having self respect is having the ability to look into a mirror and have a critical eye. Without letting your conscience govern most of the things you do, I feel, your self...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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