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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    Loner

    i think that maybe this should be self professed loner and not professes, but anyway . i am 41yrs and i have had to deal with this "problem" of being a loner all my life. i have always been very happy on my own , all i require is that people leave me alone . i have 5 or 6 real...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M Jan 6, 2011

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    The Random Mass Of People

    I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact, I don't want so many friends, I don't want people to look at me and think I'm popular. I don't want to be on that high...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    I'm a loner stoner and I ******* love being a loner stoner. No drama , just me and my self :)
    Lonurstonurdoge Lonurstonurdoge 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ever since I was really young I was always a loner I never really felt like I fit in with any one sometimes not even my family. My parents were young when they had me. My dad was...
    sunnytrees sunnytrees 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    People like myself need to be encouraged to put her own needs first and to find a relationship that reciprocates. I have been way, way too selfless. A traumatic pattern of being a...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M 17 hrs ago

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    I am shy and socially awkward and basically have no friends but even tho i am a loner at points I can still take selfies with a smile
    lillyrahela lillyrahela 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    No matter how hard I try, I just can't boost my self-esteem, When I look at myself, I see this hideous person with an ugly nose, huge lips, thick eyebrows, small squinty eyes...
    MLW1123 MLW1123 18-21 2 days ago

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    I do. I love when someone knows how to deal with loneliness. I'm a lonely person, not necessarily by choice, but someone that can use their time and enjoy their own company...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F Jun 25

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    Yes I am a Loner,but that doesn't mean I am lonely.nor that I am alone. I merely do not need nor desire a large circle of friends nor a busy social schedule. This is just who I am...
    GreenBlueEyes GreenBlueEyes 41-45 1 Response Jul 6

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    I could have went out tonight but instead I decided to stay home and watch movies by myself. I think I'm more of a loner because most kids my age are immature and annoy the...
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I lied tonight and virtually every night/day when asked by acquaintances to join in said activity. To them I seem genuine but in my head I'm laughing and thrilled to be going home...
    mariesun93 mariesun93 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Yeah I am. At this point in my life I have major trust issues with just about everyone in my everyday reality. I was trying very hard to change that but damn it wouldn't you know...
    Jericho7 Jericho7 36-40, M 5 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm one of those people who have no social life or any friends in real life. But, it doesn't really bother me anymore. I remember the phrase, "The less people in your life, the...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 30

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    Lets just say, I would rather be a loner then in a park smoking & taking drugs. I don't exactly come across as an attractive or friendly-looking person to be honest either, that...
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Though out my entire life, it was really hard for me to make friends. I just was to shy to make friends with anyone. Except this one girl that I have known since we were 3. She was...
    bowsandarrows bowsandarrows 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I make even a wolfs life seem more fun and full of friends. Im always alone , most time time im wondering why there are so many humans on the planet . I use to try and make...
    Aniceguyforyou Aniceguyforyou 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm a Loner that doesn't like being alone. y'know what I saying like I'm usually pushed out of the circle and sometimes I like being alone and then sometimes I'm like damn I'm one...
    JuanitaaLovee JuanitaaLovee 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I've always been a loner. I don't know why, just am. I tend to keep to myself, don't open up to anyone. I also think a lot, just by myself.
    TheReflector TheReflector 16-17, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have too many selfies 😩
    t1dus10 t1dus10 22-25, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    My sister has started self harming again. She was clean for awhile but she started a week ago again.
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I love when people do nude self dares
    YAimThatguy YAimThatguy 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    Selfish, and Very Proud! Of course I'm selfish. Everyone is selfish if you really think about it, I'm just going to be upfront honest with you about the fact that I'm selfish and...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F Jun 28

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    One thing that bothers me about "self-harm" is people always associate it with cutting or burning or whatever. There's other forms of self-harm people don't realize that they are...
    l3x1l0v3 l3x1l0v3 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I take so many selfies it's unhealthy aha, I generally take around 50 selfies a day if I'm honest I have an album named 'selfies' and that has around 1000 selfies in
    drunkonwords drunkonwords 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    TO EVERYONE WHO SELF HARMS, PLEASE READ THIS: I don't know what it is that caused you to self harm, and I am so sorry that it has to happen; I wish it was different. I know many...
    Phoenix259 Phoenix259 16-17, M Jun 30

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    I find things like this to show my story because when I do on other things people enjoy it. I started self harming three years ago, I was bullied since 4th grade & raped twice on...
    UmBaylie UmBaylie 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    There is one beauty about selfish. But is perhaps also the ugly part about it. Selfish dont ever need to explain, reason or justify anything. The only part maybe selfish...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Jul 5

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    It's weird to complain about that. My mother was a psychologist and she worked hard on me since I was a child to make me confident and have great self steem... and she was...
    tuttyfrutty tuttyfrutty 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I do not romanticize self harm, or believe it to be good. This is just my experience with it. I've never been a "hard-core" self harmer, but it's still an addiction that I...
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F Jul 13

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    My brother is a cutter, so for a long time, i saw that as the only version of self harm, the extreme version. It wasnt until talking with someone that i realized that things i had...
    mairesequin mairesequin 16-17, F a week ago

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    I started cutting my freshman year of high school, in a crowded student center, unnoticed. At the time, my boyfriend had let me down. It was such a SMALL thing, but it got to me. I...
    thecellist thecellist 18-21, F a week ago

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    I've been self harming on and off since I was 19 and I'm 23 now. The only way I can cope when drastic things happen in my life is when I mutilate my body. I don't know how to deal...
    Sorasai Sorasai 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I started self-harming about a year ago. I was in a bad relationship and hated myself for it, so self harm was a way to cope with emotional dissonance. Now it helps me cope when...
    alikatherine alikatherine 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I self harm. I have about 70 something scars, both forearms, my thigh and ankle. I have a special knife, perfect pointed tip, enough to feel the pain. I've even poured boiling...
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I am not proud of it but I do self harm. I have been since I was 13. I have tried to stop before but i haven't succeeded. I cut, burn and hit myself. It's so hard to stop and...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    The Scar's Are Where I Have Been.. I first self harmed when i was about 11, i remember what i used too. I was alone and crying my eyes out i think it was the time my mum got rid of...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jun 29

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