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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    The Random Mass Of People

    I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact, I don't want so many friends, I don't want people to look at me and think I'm popular. I don't want to be on that high...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I am a loner and I have been this for as long as I can remember I don't have friends and I don't know how to talk to people. So I'll probably be this way forever but I guess I'm ok...
    erasemyexistence93 erasemyexistence93 22-25, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I'm a loner, but I'm never lonely. Everyone is attaching loneliness to the label of loner and making it into a pity party. Loners are people that prefer being alone and enjoy it...
    BennyBoy68 BennyBoy68 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I'm not a loner by choice but by society...it's not fun when you ever day going to school being made fun of because you weak and weird and no one liked you....no one care for the...
    Tiffany654300 Tiffany654300 16-17, F Apr 10

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    I'm a loner by choice and have been all my life. It took awhile, but I've seem to final understand the kind of person I've chosen to become. Use to feel lonely and depressed, but...
    markraytan markraytan 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Even though I try to socialize, I mostly feel out of place. Like I was born in the wrong time period. Or the wrong place. Some people I feel a "kindred spirit" with, some just a...
    UniqueDLP UniqueDLP 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    It's like I do things for everybody else then once I put myself first (without hurting anybody) I become too self absorbed. Is there no middle? Being self absorbed does not mean...
    achantal achantal 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Hi im justin im 14 and i have been bullied for 3 years right now im on 8th grade but next year im going to high school and im scared i really cant stand it no more i wanna kill my...
    JustinPirate174 JustinPirate174 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    I think I'm a loner by default. When enough people **** you over just enough to make you hit your breaking point becoming a loner seems like the only option until I'm ready enough...
    niceintrovertedwoman niceintrovertedwoman 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    And I would love to stop being a loner. Any other loners feeling talkative?
    BabbyKing BabbyKing 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 24

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    I just don't fit in. I can't handle the gossip and bullshit. So a loner I shall stay!
    bbybleu bbybleu 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Not really, I just went for the fun of it. Had an adrenaline rush all day and wanted something fun to do to kill the energy. And the teacher is so adorable lol he's shorter than me...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    My name is Dennis Day...If the lord allows me ..I'll turn 51 in june...wow..where does time fly...My daddy is bobby day..google him..my cousin...my grandmothers sister son..is...
    daykeith5 daykeith5 46-50, M Apr 19

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    Why do people in my life disappoint me soo much? My family is fine but I feel much more connection with my four uncles and my therapist. But anyways, all my life I was and am a...
    SpiritualStoner SpiritualStoner 16-17, M 6 Responses Apr 7

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    it's like when you think someone is truely your friend when whole time they turn out to be just like everyone else...I would never do ppl the way they do me and I think being a...
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I have very little or no friends in real life circles. Most are just acquaintances. I am a loner. I Walk alone, eat alone, have fun times alone. And this situation is beyond my...
    Significant Significant 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 12

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    well back at school just a loner again
    Tiffany654300 Tiffany654300 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 13

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    All my life i had t connecting and open up to people friendship wise. Probably because of pas experiences of being rejected and hurt by others. Nowadays i keep to myself most of...
    Musicisabless Musicisabless 22-25, F Apr 13

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    I'm a loner almost all the time cause all my friends left cause I was way to "depressing"
    DarkWorld21 DarkWorld21 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    Sometimes I walk alone in the halls. Sometimes I never pair up with anybody. Sometimes I sit at a table full of people and not talk to one person. Sometimes I listen to people's...
    DieForYou DieForYou 18-21, F Apr 20

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    I have decided to go through life as a loner. I honestly have no desire for close, intimate relationships with other human beings. For this reason ( and other reasons which I won't...
    atpeacewithme atpeacewithme 31-35 1 Response Apr 22

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    you know I thought people in 2015 were gonna be fill of loners never thought people would learn to love unfortunately I'm still one and trying to have a good senior year bit how...
    Tiffany654300 Tiffany654300 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I still feel that lonely ness even though I'm with someone ....my own fiance can't make me happy instead it's going the opposite way.....people in school are starting to isolate me...
    Tiffany654300 Tiffany654300 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Found this on tubler, really strong. Before you self harm in any way, you should probably know what you’re getting into. Before you make that cut, please keep in mind that you...
    josef2000 josef2000 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 13

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    I sometimes find myself surprised that I didn't self-harm earlier on in my life because there’s so many reason why I would have; a) because giving myself physical pain could help...
    lunightandday lunightandday 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Could perhaps be phrased better.. but.. I spend alot of time alone + dont know where I want to go in life really. ... There is a book called "Polarities of Experience...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Apr 6

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    THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT Comment down below what you associate as being silly. Only once you've done that continue reading- So maybe you relate being silly to a child capering...
    AwquardTallGirl AwquardTallGirl 13-15, F Apr 12

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    So I was sitting in class today and my friend was drawing. She kept putting her self down about it. She was saying what she drew was horrible and that she had "absolutely no...
    YourNotSoImaginaryFriend YourNotSoImaginaryFriend 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 24

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    I am addicted to taking selfies especially naughty selfies and selfies of dares I have done as proof and share them online .
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M Apr 6

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    Sometimes I just get so frustrated. Im trying to not self harm but its just so hard. Everything builds up inside and I explode. If I cant cut ill punch walls, sometimes even myself...
    darebearsworld darebearsworld 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    My therapist decided to ignore my struggle with self harm after he asked to see my self harm scars. I was very fortunate that I ended up with very few and they aren't very...
    thornedrose thornedrose 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13