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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    The Random Mass Of People

    I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact, I don't want so many friends, I don't want people to look at me and think I'm popular. I don't want to be on that high...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    Loner

    i think that maybe this should be self professed loner and not professes, but anyway . i am 41yrs and i have had to deal with this "problem" of being a loner all my life. i have always been very happy on my own , all i require is that people leave me alone . i have 5 or 6 real...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I sometimes feel as if there are two kinds of people in the world: me and everybody else. I'm certainly not saying that I'm smarter or better. I've always just been different in a...
    atpeacewithme atpeacewithme 31-35 1 Response Oct 15

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    A lot of people don't believe females can be loners, but I am one. A lot of people think loners are psycho, weird or maladjusted, but I'm not. Therefore, a lot of people fail to...
    chickiebos chickiebos 31-35, F Oct 21

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    I lived in my Van. I traveled thru BC. I am a woman in my 50's. I will do this again but would love to have company to just travel to wherever and whenever with no time to think...
    lutqueet lutqueet 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    I am a Loner. I was born as kid who did not have many friends in the neighbor to hang out with; yet I was a bright kid - as people said. As a kid, I was considered cheerful...
    mischievousloner mischievousloner 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I like my own company... But sometimes I get a little lonely.. But with being a loner, it gives a chance for those who actually care, to send a text or call... I've found that I...
    catho catho 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    i have no faith, no love, no friends no spouse. i am a loner. i need care. please help me.
    iseeuthrou iseeuthrou 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 2

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    When I was a child it seems to me that I had friends to the moon and back. Every time I pulled up to school there would be kids everywhere and you could walk into any crowd and be...
    ZaydaMarie ZaydaMarie 22-25, F Oct 8

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    I could be surrounded by millions of people and still feel so alone. I think it's because no matter how hard I try to fit in I just don't. Many people have told me that the problem...
    loneintrvrt loneintrvrt 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 18

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    I feel that most of the time I'm a loner by my own doing. I have lots of friends I can call, but tend to be alone unless someone invites me to do something. Even then, I often...
    itspirit itspirit 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 21

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    MOST of the girls my age are annoying, so that's why I choose to be a loner.
    Jovanite Jovanite 13-15, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I was a popular macho biker but as my wife helped me into the sissyhood the less popular I became. My riding buddies quit calling or coming around and the more sissified I became...
    CdKimmi CdKimmi 66-70, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have been a loner most of my life because of my weight. It sucks and I hate it so much. I always wanted to have a girlfriend, but yet here I am thirty-one and single. I am so...
    marques30s marques30s 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    With age, I have learned to be at peace with being alone most of the time. I like the quiet. I've learned to live with my thoughts, with the stillness of the moment. So usually, if...
    beautifuldisaster76 beautifuldisaster76 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I know, or think I know, that I'm not really "selfish," at least not any more than most, and probably (maybe) less than most. But I also can't help feeling that that bar is much...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    Most of the time, I just wanted to be here I know it's not the right thing to do but I needed an escape. My sister just tried to come over and talk but I don't want anyone to come...
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I never wanted to self harm. I thought "This is stupid, why would anyone do this?" Then at sixteen, after an awful fight with my stepfather about an ex-boyfriend, I knew why. I...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F Oct 20

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    You're not just born with self respect, a lot of people don't know their self worth. I was one of them, I didn't realize my self worth was not linked to what others think or value...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I guess I have suffered from low self esteem for a lot of years maybe even always There's also been experiences in my life that's not helped like I was in an emotionally abusive...
    Ellievale Ellievale 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    An article about overcoming low self esteem and improving self confidence. http://margavita.wordpress.com/2014/10/14/rising-above-low-self-esteem/
    Margavita Margavita 22-25 Oct 14

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    I don't mind people who self harm or judge them, though i personally think that the act of self harm is stupid. I understand that people do it to relieve pain that they hold, but...
    DexterPyro DexterPyro 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 15

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    I've been self-harming for almost 2 years. It didn't really get bad until my online friend faked her suicide. And I started to self harm almost daily. It was mostly cuts starting...
    mugzib mugzib 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 22

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    I read some of the stories here and they break my heart, so I wanted to share some information that might help Have you ever heard of DBT? "Dialectic Behaviour Therapy" www...
    EmperorJulian EmperorJulian 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I have a problem, I'm actually trying very hard to learn from another persons selfish ways. This other person is a dear friend of mine and my "boy friend" He's just very mean...
    meshbegin meshbegin 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    I've dealt with low self esteem and confidence issues for as long as I can remember. I grew up as the only disabled kid in school and had to deal with the bullying that came with...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    I had recently started self harming. Most of my life has been filled with misfortune and alot of negative treatment from people. Those negative events started when i was only four...
    DarkKnightPEKKA DarkKnightPEKKA 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    I'm known as the Scar Guy at the gym. Not to my face, of course, but I have good hearing. A lot of the comments are negative, which I expect with the stigma surrounding self...
    InkedAmongTheSands InkedAmongTheSands 31-35, M Oct 4

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    7 months today!!! Every month that passes I put it more and more behind me. In 3 short months it will be a year since I self harmed, so great to keep the fight up! It's so far...
    xImparfaitex xImparfaitex 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    I DO NOT! My Ex gf cuts her self which I just found out today when she said her arm was hurting. She had cuts completely covering her left arm.. Then I got mad because I didn't...
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I'm depressed and I've been selfharming since I was 11, 6th grade. I've tried to kill myself twice and the 2nd time I freaked out and told my dad and he just screamed at me for 20...
    YourBabeAnon YourBabeAnon 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    There are 2 things I'm extremely self conscious about, and both I was actually bullied for back in elementary school. 1. My voice. One thing that bothers me about my voice its not...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    I feel like I am incapable of letting myself to be truly happy. I need to be perfect, I need to always do the right thing -and if I don't, I get anxious. I feel like I don't...
    Laluna29 Laluna29 70+ 1 Response Oct 10

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    I have a really hard life. I'm from Palestine, and at 8 i moved to Norway, after i learned the language i started in a new class. It was the fifth grade. I thought that i will get...
    ThatGirlR ThatGirlR 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    I'm so selfish and stupid. Why can't I put others before me? I really disgust myself sometimes. My girlfriend does nothing but love me to death, but whenever a little something...
    StrawberryMilkTime StrawberryMilkTime 22-25, F Oct 12

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    I would not call this a selfie but I do love taking selfies, this is really called a groupie ip think but here is a picture of me and my friend from a while ago.
    AshleyCatz AshleyCatz 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 14

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