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I Am a Self Professes Loner

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 47 People

    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I have self harmed since I was 12 I am a very shy girl and have social anxiety and have never really been good at making friends and I was bullied a lot for it all through middle...
    DeadDirection07 DeadDirection07 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Everything is fine. I am going good at studies and at other things. Its just the self confidence where I suffer. If I had some self confidence my life would have been much much...
    waiting4someone waiting4someone 18-21, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Everyday I breath is a battle. I am stuck in a world that I am trying to get out. My life has always been a hard one...and lately it has been a hard battle. In a toxic marriage...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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      This is also posted under "I Was Caught Crossdressing".  I started dressing in my mothers clothes when I was ten with her leotards and tights. By the time I was...
    MichelleTiedup MichelleTiedup 56-60, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    "Dear Younger Self, You're going to make some terrible decisions, you're going to mess up some things until they're irreparable and you're going to do some things that are going...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am a loner by choice. I do have friends and see them once in a while to keep in touch but otherwise try to avoid mingling. Facebook messenger is a blessing. Being a loner doesn...
    AsiG AsiG 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I keep on fainting and getting really drowsy and wanting to throw up after I cut. Is there any way to stop fainting after I self harm. Don't say "don't self harm" cuz I'm going to...
    LittleMissCynic LittleMissCynic 13-15, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was probably a "semi" loner when I was younger. Not many friends at school and just a few friends to go out with at night to clubs. Now I am a complete loner. The only contact I...
    Evee183 Evee183 41-45, T 3 days ago

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    I keep to myself. I go to work, I go home. The introvert works in too, as I tend to lose energy from being around people, and recharge by being on my own. I look forward to being...
    musikid48 musikid48 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't call it selfish, I call of self awareness and taking care of yourself. nobody is going to take care of "you" but "you". I'm actually not selfish at all. I'm very giving and...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 3 days ago

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    I seriously couldn't sleep last night, a lot of stuff on my mind, so I've been up all night and morning. All 7 of my roommates are home this morning which is unusual, so I get up...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    well, only when it comes to some girls i like. i didn't know where to put this story so i'm just gonna put it on here. this is strange, but whenever i like a girl , i'm very...
    thenameofthegame thenameofthegame 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't have any friends because every time I'm asked a question I go red and stutter and if I get it wrong I can feel them staring and laughing at me.Yes I am a loner and I like...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I research on selfies in the streets and urban spaces. Plz help me. Tell me ur story about selfies and if u want send me ur city selfies photo.
    SarahAlef SarahAlef 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    l'amour de soi  noun: self-loveregard for one's own well-being and happinesschiefly considered as a desirable rather than narcissistic  characteristic...
    cosmosdrift cosmosdrift 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I did and sent it to a friend. She liked them and send me one back. The selfies became more and more brave and now we send selfies with not a thread on our bodies
    theoutsideofme theoutsideofme 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    The Loner Kid. i'm tempted to tell people this just so i don't have to bother with friends anymore. i don't have friends. i either betray them or they betray me. or something...
    DemonsFreak DemonsFreak 13-15, M a week ago

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    With great trepidation, I joined this experience, with full knowledge that, on the surface, my love for "selfies" will appear juvenile and not just a tiny bit vain. But I am rarely...
    badassgirrrl badassgirrrl 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 25

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    hello everyone, as most I want more self-confidence in myself. I never had it and now I'm in dying need of it. I hate living a life of self hate/doubts. I am ready to be free of my...
    SolHeart SolHeart 26-30, F Aug 24

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    I have been self harming for 5 years and I literally self harm almost every day because I don't see the point in recovery when I have such low self esteem and no close friends...
    Alexx556 Alexx556 16-17, T 1 Response Aug 24

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    So... apparently, I've got issues. I just had a talk to my brother, or more like an argument. He says that I'm not at all reaching my potential because of how I think about...
    S1NK1LL3R S1NK1LL3R 22-25, M Aug 24

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    At the end of every single day I always think I'm a loner. I was born a ****** loner, and I will die a loner, that's just something I'll have to deal with. 😬😧😒
    sunshineh13 sunshineh13 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 23

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    I used to self harm for a lot of reasons and in a lot of different ways. I self harmed because I was scared and angry. I did it because I was abused by one of my treatment centers...
    LateApology LateApology 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    well I can't really blame anyone for being a loner. I'm alone most of the time yet people call me super sociable which I guess is kind of true as well. I hope it is not bad that I...
    Hayden23 Hayden23 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I self harm and yet I'm not ashamed of my scars nor do I hide them any more. I used to cut on my arm till one drunk night I cut so deep I gave my self permanent nerve damage in my...
    cosciatony cosciatony 26-30, M Aug 22

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    People always wonder what's the gain out of self harming.. And I was like "I feel so much better" but I was wrong. There is no gain. Glad I stopped. I actually feel pretty lame...
    Alltimefreak Alltimefreak 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I feel pretty lame that I self harmed. my dad is emotionally, verbally, and mentally abusive towards me. I guess anytime he was abusive towards me that's when I'd self harm. I...
    haleymc haleymc 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    I like being a loner because I can be me. No one can make me sad, or mad. I usually keep myself happy. I do get lonely at times but not that much, usually i get lonely if I'm...
    iseektobeme iseektobeme 16-17, M Aug 22

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    I am 26 and I lost one of my front teeth. Guess what? Chipped right to the gum. Dentist said there was no hope, unless I have money to buy my way out of such a tragedy...
    myfungasm myfungasm 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 21

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