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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    The Random Mass Of People

    I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact, I don't want so many friends, I don't want people to look at me and think I'm popular. I don't want to be on that high...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    loners are sexy **** what anyone else says.
    ayiraartistf ayiraartistf 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    When society thinks of a loner, they think "what a creep! Eww." or "Weirdo, that kid will be some kind of serial killer one day." However, I greatly disagree. Maybe some loners are...
    chicagoartist500 chicagoartist500 18-21, M Jan 21

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    There came a time I just needed to distant myself from really close friends and family. No one was understanding me and since I am a pretty sensitive person. I'd pick up on there...
    tantralad tantralad 22-25, M Jan 10

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    I know where I'm happy. in solitude, where I can let the social self fade, where I can let my true self run free.
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M Dec 30, 2014

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    I think most young people these days are loners or prefer being loners. I think I'm more a narcissist. Hence I prefer my own company. Such is life. One adapts :)
    NotgoingsoloAus NotgoingsoloAus 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I accept im a loner. Im a loner by choice. I had friends but slowly stopped talking to them. I sometimes wonder where i would have been if i never stopped talking to my friends. I...
    TonyMontanah TonyMontanah 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    I am a lonely loner who is not a loner by choice. Am not that shy. Being shy is being different from being introverted. An introvert is inclined not to seek out company due to...
    wombat456 wombat456 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    More selfies :) this is me before going to my criminology class today 💁
    MimiGT MimiGT 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Being a loner, I feel that dieing alone will be my destiny.
    GunWarrior GunWarrior 13-15, M 14 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I'm a loner. It started when I was bullied for four years in high school and had no friends. Since then I've kept to myself. I enjoy socializing with the right people and dependent...
    lamalbelle lamalbelle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I always feel like I don't matter one bit at school. My "friends" forgot my birthday which is tomorrow , January 5. & they aren't coming to school. I always eat lunch my myself...
    ashleeyj5 ashleeyj5 13-15, F 9 Responses Jan 4

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    I'm a loner. Always have been. Probably always will be. I don't complain about not having any friends but everyone else seems to have a problem with it and I just don't understand...
    WeirdToBeProud WeirdToBeProud 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    The truth is... that i'm so terribly bored by most people i'm not even interested to put up with them anymore. I'm sort of welcoming being a loner most of the time. Of course it...
    BadWolf221ib BadWolf221ib 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    Being a loner in my life is just a phase . Introspection. Mihko wakayios told me so..
    TonyMontanah TonyMontanah 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    Ok, I know i'm not sociable. but that doesn't mean that I'm not a good person. And it really depends on which group i am in. like, in some kind of groups I become really chatty...
    lameandhonest lameandhonest 22-25, F Jan 12

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    I dont know what to say there was a time when even homes with landline phone was a distant dream and all I know was my home and school and nothing so it was like I am the only one...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    well, im a loner for years now I also believe I have social anxiety. I feel like I never fit in with anyone in my family only talk to my parents and siblings. I have no friends but...
    heavyj18 heavyj18 18-21, M Jan 15

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    When I think about something or something stupid I did in the past I just laugh or cringe at it while my sister just stares at me weirdly .like I'm such a loner
    WeirdOrUnique WeirdOrUnique 13-15, F Jan 18

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    Yeah, I'm definitely a loner. My friends will just talk to me when they don't have any friends to talk to, they are always like that. Sometimes, it's good to be alone cause nobody...
    iiEdieCupcakeii iiEdieCupcakeii 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Realizing that being a loner isn't that bad. We learn more about ourselves then most people. It's something so mysterious about that to me...
    CBlaze22 CBlaze22 18-21 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    *Trigger warnings are in the post* I started self-harming in early 2008. I stopped in late 2011. So four years. I was in highschool then, and finished highschool in 2012. I...
    Nomnomk Nomnomk 18-21, F Jan 4

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    It's hard for me to express this thought the way I intend without sending the wrong message, so bear with me if I don't make sense... Look, I'm not saying that it should be...
    Ztun7856 Ztun7856 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    1:30am in the morning, here I am sat in a dark, silent house reflecting on my past, my regrets, my guilt and the ‘what I would have done differently’ scenarios. However...
    deathfromabove1066 deathfromabove1066 22-25, F Jan 18

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    Showing respect towards others is always important to me. But having respect for yourself is more important. If you don't have self respect, or lack of it, how are you going to...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I am a recovering self harm addict. It's been 7 months since I last self harmed, but even though it was only 4 cuts a relapse is still a relapse. It used to be really bad, but the...
    Ramellan Ramellan 22-25, M Dec 30, 2014

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    A role is a role why must we be a self troll? What means will help us get beyond this strange looking toll? So Just wonder with us please I'm sitting on the bus and this...
    tantralad tantralad 22-25, M Jan 12

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    I've gotten to the point when I don't even really eat anymore. I rarely eat breakfast because I'm not a morning person and I have class during breakfast time. I sometimes eat lunch...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    i'm not happy with my self . i can't feel happiness anymore. i dont know . my life is so boring. i just wanna scream loudly . i cant be like this forever right? but i cant change...
    onikaa onikaa 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    What to say to a self harmer in public if you see one? Nothing. Just be nice. The only time I will talk to someone I do not know about self-harm is if they are a cutter or are...
    spudlydudly spudlydudly 22-25 Jan 2

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    I have only met a handful of people who aren't self obsessed or selfish people. Especially at my school. I can tell you that I had a friend who used to be so happy and joyful but...
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 16-17, F Jan 2

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    False. Depression and selfishness go hand in hand. Withdrawing from the world hurts the people we love. What is more selfish than wallowing in self-pity? Most of us want to...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 3

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    I have depression and I don't think it's selfish. I mean why is it selfish? I didn't ask for it! it comes and hits me and that **** feels like the whole world is crashing down on...
    sadmistak3 sadmistak3 18-21, F Jan 4

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    One of the worst things someone ever said to me was, "how can you be depressed when you have everything". We're told we're selfish because they believe we don't appreciate what we...
    willibemissed willibemissed 22-25, F Jan 4

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    I was in the selfie mood xP I curled my hair how does it look i never curl my hair and im sooo proud of my self i burned my self less and i didnt burn my face like the last time...
    Millerbabe17 Millerbabe17 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 7