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I Am a Self Professes Loner

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    I'm A Loner.....so What?

    That's what I want to say to people sometimes. For me this is a chosen lifestyle. I don't have low self esteem, I don't dislike other people, I just don't always want to do what other people want to do, when they want to do it. It annoys me to be in a room where many...
    brian189 brian189 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    I Walk A Lonely Road

    I walk a lonely winding road that has no end
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    15 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lonely And Or Slightly Depressed! (comment please)

    1- They get so caught in their own thoughts approximately more than five times a day! 2- They are easily attracted to messed up movies, movies that mostly talks about life struggles, loneliness, depression, addictions and etc. And they like to watch them alone! 3- They always use...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    The Random Mass Of People

    I'm what you consider the "good girl" who gets along with everyone. When people look at me, they think I'm popular, that I have so many friends. In fact, I don't want so many friends, I don't want people to look at me and think I'm popular. I don't want to be on that high...
    TheWanderingWriter TheWanderingWriter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    The Loner

    The Loner I am a loner in this world I have been alone for years There is no one to comfort me, No one to wipe my tears I walk a road of loneliness Each and everyday I don’t know what is ahead of me But alone I know I’ll stay The philosophy of this world is To be as strong as...
    dpi2005 dpi2005 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 3 Responses May 14, 2007

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    I Guess I'm

    From my own experiences i know that loneliness can make three kinds of people. The first kind is someone who's loneliness teared them apart and they have secret addictions like self injury, drinking, smoking, etc... and they just think about suicide and putting an end to their...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    Definition of a Loner

    Are you a Loner or not?  This would seem to be an easy question to ask and answer...seemingly.  But I don't think anyone is really a true Loner.  Unless you prove me wrong, I'll assume you have coworkers and family that you gladly associate with.  Why do you...
    iamforreal iamforreal 41-45, M 1 Response May 14, 2007

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    Im Fine Being Alone

    this bothers everyone i know because they need people around all the time.me i don't care.
    mmmbrains mmmbrains 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    I Would Rather...

    I've decided a long time ago, that I'd rather be alone than be among ppl who are shallow, hurt others without a second thought or don't care...ironic considering I ended up married to the wrong type of person... I guess self-inflicted traps didn't occur to me at the time :(But I...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    I Like To Be Myself

    I just don't like most people. This may seem cruel to you, but they're bad people. They crack a stupid joke, fine. I crack a good joke, I'm a weirdo. They're judgemental and hate everyone who isn't a copy of them and doesn't act like them. If I don't follow the robot rules that...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    I Am A Born Lesbian.

    i realized that i was a lesbian when i was about 15 years old.but look back to my  life,i can tell the first girl i liked .it happended when i was about 6 or 7 years old.i can never like boys like i like girls.it is a uneasy feeling to tell...and i know it won't be easy for me...
    piaofuamanda piaofuamanda 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    I Really Don't Like People.

    Sometimes I am in a mood to be surrounded by friends and family. I am NEVER in the mood to be in a group of strangers. I like sitting home on weekend nights, just chilling out. I can't stand being over at my fiance's house because it seems there is always a bunch of family...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Disclaimer: This is all opinion. Take it with a grain of salt. _____________________________ I spend lots of time in the forests alone, or just anywhere. I find it hard to change...
    ecofox ecofox 22-25, M 5 Responses May 13

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    I'm a loner, but I'm never lonely. Everyone is attaching loneliness to the label of loner and making it into a pity party. Loners are people that prefer being alone and enjoy it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 29

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    I have always been the loner since I was little my sisters never wanted to play with me and when they they would play game where they would run away from me and I would try to...
    KaylaDem33 KaylaDem33 18-21, F 3 Responses May 10

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    Ever since I was born I always been a Loner, of course I had make som friends in my life but never that kind of friends who are so called real "friends". More like that kind of...
    Chichikun10 Chichikun10 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hi im justin im 14 and i have been bullied for 3 years right now im on 8th grade but next year im going to high school and im scared i really cant stand it no more i wanna kill my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 30

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    And I would love to stop being a loner. Any other loners feeling talkative?
    BabbyKing BabbyKing 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 24

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    I just don't fit in. I can't handle the gossip and bullshit. So a loner I shall stay!
    bbybleu bbybleu 16-17, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I am a loner and I have been this for as long as I can remember I don't have friends and I don't know how to talk to people. So I'll probably be this way forever but I guess I'm ok...
    erasemyexistence93 erasemyexistence93 22-25, M 1 Response May 5

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    Last night, I jumped in my car, and just drove around. I went to a random apartment complex, and having to drive slow over the little speed bump things, I was able to take a glance...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    I'm not that friendly cause I'm always shy on approaching people. We moved in another country and I stayed here for already a year and a half. I don't have friends here. I always...
    chasinlight7 chasinlight7 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I love being by myself... It has become more and more desirable for me to spend time alone. There is so much peace in quiet. Though there are some who thrive in the noise, drama...
    lifespadawan lifespadawan 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    you know I thought people in 2015 were gonna be fill of loners never thought people would learn to love unfortunately I'm still one and trying to have a good senior year bit how...
    Tiffany654300 Tiffany654300 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I still feel that lonely ness even though I'm with someone ....my own fiance can't make me happy instead it's going the opposite way.....people in school are starting to isolate me...
    Tiffany654300 Tiffany654300 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I wouldn't consider myself a loner necessarily......I mean I got my family......and I mean I only have allies and acquaintances right now but who cares......that's still someone. I...
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M May 8

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    I moved to a different country when i was 13 and in the beginning it was all fun, meeting new friends and experiencing a new culture, but when i started school thats when i started...
    foreverhide foreverhide 22-25, F May 11

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    But not because you are a loner doesn't mean you are lonely. :) In my case, being alone is heaven. My friends accepted me that way. I am so introverted that I go crazy when I'm...
    PercyAmor PercyAmor 22-25, F 1 Response May 14

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    I'm a loner because of choice. Thankfully, there have been kind and nice people who have accepted this and accept my presence when I accept their invitations :) (Thank you so much...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 1 Response May 15

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    I'm a bit introverted and always have been since I was a little kid. At primary school in the playground I was always on a bench reading instead of joining in with the fun games...
    misskelz90 misskelz90 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    idk why but I've always been a loner, my mom would tell me I was even like this when I was young, I'd play alone and we'll pretty much do everything alone. I guess I'm still the...
    Last0fUs Last0fUs 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Sometimes i think i am better off a loner, at least in real life. Cos then i do not have to put up with peoples bulls*hit and constant drama, or risk being stabbed in the back...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a loner most of the time, but I'm completely fine with it. It's great to be alone, I mean yes, being with people and having conversations is necessary, but being alone is one...
    oscaxr oscaxr 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I sometimes find myself surprised that I didn't self-harm earlier on in my life because there’s so many reason why I would have; a) because giving myself physical pain could help...
    lunightandday lunightandday 18-21, F 2 Responses May 3

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    I no longer cut or burn myself, but I still do other harmful things like picking at my skins and scabs, pulling out my hair, biting my lip until it bleeds, digging my nails into my...
    NaturallyPeculiar NaturallyPeculiar 18-21, F 1 Response May 7

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    I recently turned 30, and I have self harming since 12 yrs of age, on and off. I've gone months to years without insistent. However, self harming s always there like a companion...
    Emmy508 Emmy508 26-30, F May 15

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    It doesn't matter how deep you cut, how much you cut or how long and often you burn! Self harm is self harm and it's not just people trying to attention seek. Whether you Cut...
    EricaAudrey22 EricaAudrey22 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My mother has borderline personality disorder. It's all or nothing, black or white to her. You have to give her attention and she is constantly taking and editing selfies. She is...
    angelique422 angelique422 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    So I was sitting in class today and my friend was drawing. She kept putting her self down about it. She was saying what she drew was horrible and that she had "absolutely no...
    YourNotSoImaginaryFriend YourNotSoImaginaryFriend 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 24

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    I woke up this morning and realized that I don't have many friends or a girlfriend, because I have low self esteem and self confidence, I have always known there was something...
    JodyValero JodyValero 18-21, M 1 Response May 12

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    Ok so my dad has seen my self harm scars (the picture above shows most of them). He doesn't understand self harm in the slightest bit. He thinks I do it to try to be "cool" or it's...
    KakeLove KakeLove 13-15, F 1 Response May 13

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