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I Am a Serial Monogamist

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 59 People

    The Archetype of Serial Monogomy

    I am the true serial monogomist.  I've been in and out of dozens of relationships my entire life, well over thirty of them. I get out of a relationship and the first thing I've done is try to get into another relationship. On rare occasions I've either dated multiple people...
    Strangeling Strangeling 41-45 4 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    I tend to jump from one relationship to the

    next. I like being in a relationship and feel sad and lonely without one.
    ScottyB3389 ScottyB3389 51-55, M Jul 15

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    Please Help

    I am a serial monogamist I had my first real relationship at the age of 14 we dated for 2 yrs and when we broke up it broke me he was my best friend and the only person I shared everything with but he wanted way more than I could give him so I let him go. . . As you can imagine...
    Tricey2010 Tricey2010 18-21 2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    Haven't Been Single In Forever...

    I've been in a relationship since I was fifteen and a half. Four years. Holy hell. I dated one guy in high school for two years; then I went to college, met guy #2, had guy #1 start to ignore me long-distance, and broke up with guy #1 for guy #2. It broke my heart to do that...
    rainbowchristmaslights rainbowchristmaslights 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    Am I One?

    since 14 I've never been without a boyfriend for longer than 6 months, and never been without just a man for 2 months. After my college boyfriend, I really wanted to be single. I was miserable but didn't know how to end it. My excuse was that we were saving money living together...
    ilani ilani 26-30 Sep 27, 2010

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    The Rebirth Is Worth The Dearth

    The closest thing I've ever had to a "fling" was developing a friendship that turned into more, with an adventurous lifeguard, in college. Before and after him was my first love, whom I met when we were thirteen. I once tried dating two people at once - not being intimate with...
    girlcapitol girlcapitol 51-55, F 12 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    Yes..I Am..

    This is such a good description of me...serial monogamist.  I have only really been alone for a very short time in my life. It's time for me to do it again , now , and I'm really nervous about it.  I will only have myself to depend on, and I'm not very good at being...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 56-60, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    One 10 Yr Relationship And One 5 Month Relationship And Still Can't Decide

    Well I don't really know where to start. I dated this guy for 10 years all through high school, all through college. It had its ups and downs but we were best friends. At the end after a huge fight and realizing he was really taking me for granted I decided to break up and that...
    amiinlove amiinlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2010

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    Serial Manogamist??

    i think i could be a serial manogamist. im 25 and have had alot of sexual partners,57 in all. i lost my virginity at 14 and at 16 was in my first and only long term relationship,5 yrs in all. when we split i found it hard,like my world had ended,but in fairness it wasnt gonna...
    annon855 annon855 22-25 5 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    One Guy, One Girl

    I know it's a common male fantasy to have two girls at once. For me, it is not that way. I'm so into the person that I'm with that I don't think about anyone else and I barely notice women around me. I certainly don't fantasize about them. It's normal for me to be thinking about...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 19 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    I Sure Am!

    I have never seen the need to risk my relationship for something that isn't going to last beyond one evening.
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F Sep 13, 2009

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    :)

    nothing better than feeling the commitment, true love and trust that this brings :)
    TonyUK TonyUK 36-40, M Apr 21, 2011

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    IDK, I am just rethinking this monogamy thing

    altogether. I gave it my all, and did better than most of the people I was with. So monogamy did me little good. If monogamy was a friend then the relationship would be WAY off kilter -- WAY one sided. So monogamy has done me few favors and I think I might have to let it...
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Related Experiences

    It all started in fifth grade when I was kinda bored, so I start thinking about an opposite version of me, it was a girl because im a dude, and then in sixth grade things...
    ChristianMixson ChristianMixson 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    Obviously a few screws loose. I'm not like that and I won't accept serial cheating & lying on the most disgusting levels. Gross.. ALFRED LO YEE KIAT has bad Temper and shakes/throw...
    fepimmaziny fepimmaziny 70+, M 5 hrs ago

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    Aha! That's my ex ALFRED LO YEE KIAT. The serial cheater and liar since ~2008 that's sleeps w random girls/other ppl wives he hunts from sex/swingers forums! Like a public toilet...
    fepimmaziny fepimmaziny 70+, M 5 hrs ago

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    A serial killer catches 2 guys and a girl. he asks the first guy what's your name ? the first one says Tom the serial killer kills him. he then asks the girl what's your name ? she...
    Mindlha Mindlha 22-25, M 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    especially females who do this.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    Holy crap sociopaths are idiots. Has anyone ever tried to manipulate another sociopath? RIDICULOUSLY EASY. I wish it wasn't and I really feel like it shouldn't be but let me pose...
    moralinsanity moralinsanity 31-35, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    So there's a film where a man's wife is brutally murdered by a serial killer and his son is left physically disabled. In a twist of events the son is kidnapped and kept in a tank...
    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester 41-45, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    Here my favorite story off all time is in picture.
    LadyScorpio95 LadyScorpio95 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Why I would never meet up with anyone on a social site - especially THIS one. A 39-year-old Faribault man is charged with killing an Ohio woman he met online and hiding her body...
    Gavriella Gavriella 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I'm staying in a city away from home and my bestfriend and my mom and my dog for a school program. I'm spending all my free time sleeping and being alone. I've started watching...
    atticusfinch5 atticusfinch5 18-21, T Aug 24

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    (1) When my son was born, I cried like a baby. (2) I survived an F-3 tornado in 2002. (3) My favorite music is Big Band. (4) I have a fascination with serial killers. (5) I don't...
    TheQuirkyQuasar TheQuirkyQuasar 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    Pink Flamingos, Female Trouble, Polyester, Crybaby, Hairspray, Serial Mom, A Dirty Shame...the list goes on and on. He's a fantastic director!
    piscesdame piscesdame 26-30, F Aug 22

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    A short list of Christian Serial killers: •David Berkowitz (Corbis) called the SON OF SAM, murdered more than 10 women. The newspaper said "He called himself a born again...
    50shadesofexodus 50shadesofexodus 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    The Babysitter Murders Chapter Fifty - Epilog We never moved back home again. After three days in jail and a week on trial, Daddy was sentenced to death by lethal injection. The...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Aug 21

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    I know it's kind of a morbid fascination but I've had it for a pretty longtime. What fascinates me so much about them is: Why and How? What made them want to kill over and over...
    Kittygirl17 Kittygirl17 16-17, F 35 Responses Aug 21

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    Creep was really good! Short, sweet to the point. My fave kind. Plus it being about a serial killer is always a plus! 😀
    cataluna49 cataluna49 22-25, F Aug 19

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    the ego is a serial killer,we move at a fast paste in ample space steady knocking each others knees & needs....whats the thrill of the chase??
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    You know what is weird? I write stories often about human rights. Also gay rights, most of the anti people who argue with me belong to this group. Among other groups that say "I...
    50shadesofexodus 50shadesofexodus 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    If only I knew then what I know now! Anyone here who was/is married to a serial cheater! I'm still trying to get my head around this!
    MLH205 MLH205 41-45, F 8 Responses Aug 16

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    I like knowing what drove them to commit to the crime as i find it fascinating.
    Darkstar101 Darkstar101 16-17, M Aug 16

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    So today I went out and fixed a leaky roof in the rain. I got shocked a number of times, as I was required to use an electric hammer drill, and oh they just NEEDED it done right...
    SlideSquare SlideSquare 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    So I have this wonderful idea! I need a male and a female for this. So I will play a character that is pretty much a serial killer. She goes on a date with a co-worker (the male...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Hey guys Im hoping that with a few heads comming together in one place that somebody may be able to suggest a good serial killer film that I haven't seen yet. Mine for those that...
    LexJimChild LexJimChild 26-30, M 6 Responses Aug 13

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    Most serial killers are born a Saggitarius
    Chimywongwong Chimywongwong 18-21, F Aug 12

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    I'm currently reading "The Gates Of Janus" written by serial child murderer Ian Brady. I was just wondering if anybody else has and if so what did you think? Any other book or film...
    LexJimChild LexJimChild 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I do not understand why people say they are fascinated by murderes and serial killers. i dont find anythink fascinating about them at all. they are just filled with hate and anger...
    furrycats furrycats 31-35 1 Response Aug 9

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    I've always been single. I'm 28 (as of this posting), and have never -- not once -- been on a date or a relationship. This seems to shock some people, but the simple fact is, I...
    wildfaith wildfaith 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    I found a new mod for Fallout New Vegas called Dust and it's soo fun instead of all the vanilla quests and stuff the games like this survival simulator. Everyone and their mother...
    Kaylalie Kaylalie 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 8

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    1. My name is Chad 2. My left testicle has a serial number. 3. I'm a tattoo artist. 4. I got to meet Godsmack backstage on my birthday 5. I'm a caregiver to a paralyzed bedridden...
    inkantationtatz inkantationtatz 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 7

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