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I Am a Serial Monogamist

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    I Sure Am!

    I have never seen the need to risk my relationship for something that isn't going to last beyond one evening.
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F Sep 13, 2009

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    :)

    nothing better than feeling the commitment, true love and trust that this brings :)
    TonyUK TonyUK 36-40, M Apr 21, 2011

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    The Rebirth Is Worth The Dearth

    The closest thing I've ever had to a "fling" was developing a friendship that turned into more, with an adventurous lifeguard, in college. Before and after him was my first love, whom I met when we were thirteen. I once tried dating two people at once - not being intimate with...
    girlcapitol girlcapitol 51-55, F 12 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    Didn't Start Out to Be

     But with 4 divorces and 5 marriages that's what it looks like.  I really, really wanted them all to work but it was me that didn't.  Character flaw?
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 6 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Serial Manogamist??

    i think i could be a serial manogamist. im 25 and have had alot of sexual partners,57 in all. i lost my virginity at 14 and at 16 was in my first and only long term relationship,5 yrs in all. when we split i found it hard,like my world had ended,but in fairness it wasnt gonna...
    annon855 annon855 22-25 5 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    One 10 Yr Relationship And One 5 Month Relationship And Still Can't Decide

    Well I don't really know where to start. I dated this guy for 10 years all through high school, all through college. It had its ups and downs but we were best friends. At the end after a huge fight and realizing he was really taking me for granted I decided to break up and that...
    amiinlove amiinlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2010

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    The Archetype of Serial Monogomy

    I am the true serial monogomist.  I've been in and out of dozens of relationships my entire life, well over thirty of them. I get out of a relationship and the first thing I've done is try to get into another relationship. On rare occasions I've either dated multiple people...
    Strangeling Strangeling 41-45 4 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    One Guy, One Girl

    I know it's a common male fantasy to have two girls at once. For me, it is not that way. I'm so into the person that I'm with that I don't think about anyone else and I barely notice women around me. I certainly don't fantasize about them. It's normal for me to be thinking about...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 19 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    Yes..I Am..

    This is such a good description of me...serial monogamist.  I have only really been alone for a very short time in my life. It's time for me to do it again , now , and I'm really nervous about it.  I will only have myself to depend on, and I'm not very good at being...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    Haven't Been Single In Forever...

    I've been in a relationship since I was fifteen and a half. Four years. Holy hell. I dated one guy in high school for two years; then I went to college, met guy #2, had guy #1 start to ignore me long-distance, and broke up with guy #1 for guy #2. It broke my heart to do that...
    rainbowchristmaslights rainbowchristmaslights 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    Please Help

    I am a serial monogamist I had my first real relationship at the age of 14 we dated for 2 yrs and when we broke up it broke me he was my best friend and the only person I shared everything with but he wanted way more than I could give him so I let him go. . . As you can imagine...
    Tricey2010 Tricey2010 18-21 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Am I One?

    since 14 I've never been without a boyfriend for longer than 6 months, and never been without just a man for 2 months. After my college boyfriend, I really wanted to be single. I was miserable but didn't know how to end it. My excuse was that we were saving money living together...
    ilani ilani 26-30 Sep 27, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Again on the topic of human psychology, serial killers such as Jeffrey Dahmer, Ted Bundy, Edd Gein, John Wayne Gacy etc interest me because although they are human but they're not...
    HowLongWillWeBeWaiting HowLongWillWeBeWaiting 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Currently reading a book called "Why Kids Kill" and it's about children who have gone on school shootings. The author discusses their past history, and theorizes on what made them...
    blazeee blazeee 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 16

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    I am watching such kind of serials from my childhood. I hurt myself in childhood due to performing a stunt from one these serials. I don't know but I think that superheroes are...
    Jms04 Jms04 18-21, M a week ago

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    After spending an entire semester writing a research paper over serial killers and psychopaths I can fully appreciate the existence of this experience.
    Annapie Annapie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    From Bundy to Mason to Jack the Ripper (and even fictional serial killers), I find them absolutely fascinating. No I'm not crazy; yes i get it. They went around and murdered...
    Lokilover49 Lokilover49 16-17, F 13 Responses Jul 16

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    Jeffrey Dahmer, Albert Fish, Delphine LaLaurie and Elizabeth Báthory have to be my most favourite serial killers to study.
    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    Don't mind me just a non-serial killer person...as far as I know...
    MidnaZ MidnaZ 18-21, F Jul 18

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    I wonder what criteria require to become criminologist? I saw ppl written study law, psychology can specialize in criminology, is that meaning every field can further their study...
    fallenangle fallenangle 22-25 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Interest but never ever get addicted..lol. never thought that I would give such a dumb answer haha, guess those who mark my answer sheet will laugh his *** off.. Vividly recall...
    fallenangle fallenangle 22-25 Jul 20

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    I'm very simple with everything. If I like it, I like it. If I don't, that means I didn't like it. I don't know why I have a silly thought sometimes that I am supposed to like...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    Last week, i purchased UUSP UPA USB ECU programmer from auto diagnostic obd center with DHL delivery term. 3days i got the UUSP UPA USB ECU programmer in USA. And so happy that it...
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    So today I've been seriously thinking about my relationship and how I got here and where I've been. I realized that out of the 11 people I've slept with, *8* of them were in...
    Livesforme Livesforme 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    The 802.3 ae supplement that initially defined 10 Gigabit Ethernet was adopted in 2002 and recently Cisco to launch a product compliant with IEEE 802.3ae 10Gbase-SR/SW, Cisco SFP 1...
    asfa34 asfa34 22-25, F Jul 9

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    I love this show it's amazing how he is a serial killer who kills serial killer it would be so cool if that was true :)
    Fire143 Fire143 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Trolling For Tresses I am one of those guys who love a challenge. I always believe you'll never succeed if you don't try. And if I fail, I brush off the dust and try again. As a...
    hairitgoes hairitgoes 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Trolling For Tresses I am one of those guys who love a challenge. I always believe you'll never succeed if you don't try. And if I fail, I brush off the dust and try again. As a...
    hairitgoes hairitgoes 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Whoooaaaa where do I start? Many yrs ago I was stationed in the florida panhandle, and I have to say those were some of my happiest memories. Loved the area, southern charm, kind...
    gws35 gws35 51-55, M Jun 29

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    Once a cheater, always a cheater....?? Really? Who believes this? I think cheating is an action, a choice. It's a behavior, not a character trait. I think some people are given to...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F 11 Responses Jun 30

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    Accounting & Bookkeeping Services Bookkeeping Services Payroll, accounts receivable & accounts payable, and preparation of financial statements are just some of the day to day...
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    Every night...it doesn't bother me as much now. Nonetheless I have a low self esteem. My mom ridicules me. Several people know. I hate wearing diapers. Their infantilizing and...
    alkaem alkaem 18-21, M 9 Responses Jul 6

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    Wellon VP-896 is updated version of VP890 universal programmer. VP896 EEPROM programmer is EEPROM Flash MCU programming tool. VP-896 programmer Support 80000 ICs.Wellon VP896...
    autodiagnosticobd autodiagnosticobd 22-25, F Jul 8

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    Okay so this is a bit long, but there's no way to summarize it and be accurate at the same time. I have been diagnosed (more or less) with having certain traits of psychopathy BUT...
    pretender1326 pretender1326 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 8

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    How would be the conversation between a psychopath and a serial killer about executing someone?
    ajisurecstacy ajisurecstacy 22-25, M Jul 9

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    That awkward moment when a rapist picks up a hitchhiking serial killer. Killer: "Turn down that dark road down there." Rapist: "I was planning on it..."
    morganonnet2 morganonnet2 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I really hate my family but spend each day trying to make things better. So long story short but when I was two my mom passed away and my dad played the mom/dad role for many years...
    leek12345 leek12345 22-25, F Jul 9

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    He's def. not a sociopath but my husband is devoid of any type of genuine emotion. It's like he's learned what SHOULD be an appropriate emotion to be feeling and pretends that he...
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I am a business man I am merried my wife is also know about my hobby of wearing female dresses i like to wear saree blouse much. i have few collection of saree blouse bra paticoats...
    surekha57rpandya surekha57rpandya 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    It never ceases to amaze me how often criminals gain access to someone’s home through an unlocked door, window, or garage. I’ve heard of this happening more times than I can...
    Rutterman Rutterman 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Serial Dating - EP Style He plays with woman to woman, just like a bee sipping nectar from flower to flower. While his needs are satisfied, he leaves them wondering as he flies...
    CandyxCane CandyxCane 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    1. I'm bipolar 2. I'm a nymphomaniac 3. I love peach iced teas 4. I've been single for a year 5. I'm getting my drivers permit at the end of summer 6. I'm constantly abused and...
    cuteshyginger cuteshyginger 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I was dating this guy, and he was a serial cheater and a pathological liar. He would lie about everything from talking to his ex girlfriend, to just minor things. He told me that I...
    misunderstoodgal32 misunderstoodgal32 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Not gonna lie I'm a notorious serial hugger :D lol! My friends either love it when I randomly jump them or find it awkward. I promise I'm not some kind of creepy perv, I'm just a...
    janicefromkansas janicefromkansas 18-21, F Jul 14

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    I'm a serial dater, but I'm awful at it. Three relationships, spanning from 10 months to 1.5 years over the course of 4 years. All three guys hate me, won't speak to me and have...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    there's disney a film where a man's wife is brutally murdered by a serial killer and his son his left physically disabled. In a twist of events the son is kidnapped and kept in a...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 17

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    there's disney a film where a man's wife is brutally murdered by a serial killer and his son his left physically disabled. In a twist of events the son is kidnapped and kept in a...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 17

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