I Am a Serial Monogamist

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    Serial Manogamist??

    i think i could be a serial manogamist. im 25 and have had alot of sexual partners,57 in all. i lost my virginity at 14 and at 16 was in my first and only long term relationship,5 yrs in all. when we split i found it hard,like my world had ended,but in fairness it wasnt gonna...
    annon855 annon855
    5 Responses Sep 13, 2009

    Am I One?

    since 14 I've never been without a boyfriend for longer than 6 months, and never been without just a man for 2 months. After my college boyfriend, I really wanted to be single. I was miserable but didn't know how to end it. My excuse was that we were saving money living together...
    ilani ilani
    Sep 27, 2010

    I Sure Am!

    I have never seen the need to risk my relationship for something that isn't going to last beyond one evening.
    KatieJane KatieJane
    36-40, F
    Sep 13, 2009


    nothing better than feeling the commitment, true love and trust that this brings :)
    TonyUK TonyUK
    36-40, M
    Apr 21, 2011

    Haven't Been Single In Forever...

    I've been in a relationship since I was fifteen and a half. Four years. Holy hell. I dated one guy in high school for two years; then I went to college, met guy #2, had guy #1 start to ignore me long-distance, and broke up with guy #1 for guy #2. It broke my heart to do that...
    rainbowchristmaslights rainbowchristmaslights
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 2, 2008

    Please Help

    I am a serial monogamist I had my first real relationship at the age of 14 we dated for 2 yrs and when we broke up it broke me he was my best friend and the only person I shared everything with but he wanted way more than I could give him so I let him go. . . As you can imagine...
    Tricey2010 Tricey2010
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

    One Guy, One Girl

    I know it's a common male fantasy to have two girls at once. For me, it is not that way. I'm so into the person that I'm with that I don't think about anyone else and I barely notice women around me. I certainly don't fantasize about them. It's normal for me to be thinking about...
    bassplayer bassplayer
    46-50, M
    16 Responses Mar 19, 2011

    One 10 Yr Relationship And One 5 Month Relationship And Still Can't Decide

    Well I don't really know where to start. I dated this guy for 10 years all through high school, all through college. It had its ups and downs but we were best friends. At the end after a huge fight and realizing he was really taking me for granted I decided to break up and that...
    amiinlove amiinlove
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2010

    I tend to jump from one relationship to the

    next. I like being in a relationship and feel sad and lonely without one.
    ScottyB3389 ScottyB3389
    51-55, M
    Jul 15, 2015

    IDK, I am just rethinking this monogamy thing

    altogether. I gave it my all, and did better than most of the people I was with. So monogamy did me little good. If monogamy was a friend then the relationship would be WAY off kilter -- WAY one sided. So monogamy has done me few favors and I think I might have to let it...
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    The Archetype of Serial Monogomy

    I am the true serial monogomist.  I've been in and out of dozens of relationships my entire life, well over thirty of them. I get out of a relationship and the first thing I've done is try to get into another relationship. On rare occasions I've either dated multiple people...
    Strangeling Strangeling
    4 Responses Dec 11, 2008

    Yes..I Am..

    This is such a good description of me...serial monogamist.  I have only really been alone for a very short time in my life. It's time for me to do it again , now , and I'm really nervous about it.  I will only have myself to depend on, and I'm not very good at being...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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