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I Am a Serial Monogamist

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    I Sure Am!

    I have never seen the need to risk my relationship for something that isn't going to last beyond one evening.
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F Sep 13, 2009

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    The Archetype of Serial Monogomy

    I am the true serial monogomist.  I've been in and out of dozens of relationships my entire life, well over thirty of them. I get out of a relationship and the first thing I've done is try to get into another relationship. On rare occasions I've either dated multiple people...
    Strangeling Strangeling 41-45 4 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    Yes..I Am..

    This is such a good description of me...serial monogamist.  I have only really been alone for a very short time in my life. It's time for me to do it again , now , and I'm really nervous about it.  I will only have myself to depend on, and I'm not very good at being...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    :)

    nothing better than feeling the commitment, true love and trust that this brings :)
    TonyUK TonyUK 36-40, M Apr 21, 2011

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    The Rebirth Is Worth The Dearth

    The closest thing I've ever had to a "fling" was developing a friendship that turned into more, with an adventurous lifeguard, in college. Before and after him was my first love, whom I met when we were thirteen. I once tried dating two people at once - not being intimate with...
    girlcapitol girlcapitol 51-55, F 12 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    Am I One?

    since 14 I've never been without a boyfriend for longer than 6 months, and never been without just a man for 2 months. After my college boyfriend, I really wanted to be single. I was miserable but didn't know how to end it. My excuse was that we were saving money living together...
    ilani ilani 26-30 Sep 27, 2010

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    One 10 Yr Relationship And One 5 Month Relationship And Still Can't Decide

    Well I don't really know where to start. I dated this guy for 10 years all through high school, all through college. It had its ups and downs but we were best friends. At the end after a huge fight and realizing he was really taking me for granted I decided to break up and that...
    amiinlove amiinlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2010

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    Didn't Start Out to Be

     But with 4 divorces and 5 marriages that's what it looks like.  I really, really wanted them all to work but it was me that didn't.  Character flaw?
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 6 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Haven't Been Single In Forever...

    I've been in a relationship since I was fifteen and a half. Four years. Holy hell. I dated one guy in high school for two years; then I went to college, met guy #2, had guy #1 start to ignore me long-distance, and broke up with guy #1 for guy #2. It broke my heart to do that...
    rainbowchristmaslights rainbowchristmaslights 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    Please Help

    I am a serial monogamist I had my first real relationship at the age of 14 we dated for 2 yrs and when we broke up it broke me he was my best friend and the only person I shared everything with but he wanted way more than I could give him so I let him go. . . As you can imagine...
    Tricey2010 Tricey2010 18-21 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Serial Manogamist??

    i think i could be a serial manogamist. im 25 and have had alot of sexual partners,57 in all. i lost my virginity at 14 and at 16 was in my first and only long term relationship,5 yrs in all. when we split i found it hard,like my world had ended,but in fairness it wasnt gonna...
    annon855 annon855 22-25 5 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    One Guy, One Girl

    I know it's a common male fantasy to have two girls at once. For me, it is not that way. I'm so into the person that I'm with that I don't think about anyone else and I barely notice women around me. I certainly don't fantasize about them. It's normal for me to be thinking about...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 19 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    I love reading about serial killers. It's the only interest I have, a lot of people don't 'get it', but it's so interesting.
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    I am really sick of people judging me for having a big interest in serial killers, who cares. They are people like me and you.
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    I don't know why, but they are fascinating. I want to know why they do what they do. Maybe lost family member, bored with life, completely insane, revenge on the world, believes he...
    LuckyGuy001 LuckyGuy001 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    I obviously don't like what they do to people but I wonder why they want to kill others. I really like psychology of the mind.
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    For those who have not been having sex with the same one person for 15 years or more can't express what long term or serial monogamy is like, I'd even say 10, but 15 is a good long...
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    I just had a talk inbox with a guy in this group.. (Saurabh****) and i was kidding but he believed am a serial killer.. Just want him to knw that am kidding.. So he can sleep tight...
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    To some degree, I'm for it. Like if there's a serial killer and depending on how gruesome or they murdered the victims, and the actual proof that they got the right guy, then yeah...
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    I've spoken about right and wrong, the very fine line of vigilantism in the past, but I've noticed something interesting... I call it the BOTB effect. (Bottom of the barrel...
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    Yes and that's how serial killers are born just saying
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    Probably shouldn't have texted him after a bottle of wine saying I hate this. When he responded this morning and said "I know, I hope it gets better" I definitely shouldn't have...
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    I was just thinking... I will be on the couch after a long day and watching a favourite movie or TV Serial... And there will be a lover who rests his head on my lap and falls...
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