I Am a Single Lesbian With Kids

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 46 People

    Finding That Right One.....

    I am a 31 year old mother to two young children. I am educated and looking to start over at a new location with a new career. Dating I have not done because there are so many out there who want to play games and games I do not play because this involves my children. For someone...
    Lovejones31 Lovejones31
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2012

    I Am A Single Lesbian Parent

    I am 35 yrs i am a single lesbian parent with 3 children. I have a 15 yr old Honey, a 13 yr old Jill and a 9 yr old Charlie. Honey knows that i am a lesbian, i dont want to tell Jill because she is my baby and i dont want to tell Charlie because he is to young.
    Mummy2myAngles Mummy2myAngles
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 24, 2012

    Single Parent Lesbian With A Daughter

    Hi! I am a 33yr old lesbian with a daughter. I was recently 'outed' by somebody else to my daughter. My daughter is 10yrs old, and i was waiting until the time was right to explain my situation, but someone else decided to divulge my sexuality to her instead!! Things were a bit...
    andreaelliesaffi andreaelliesaffi
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2011

    Single Lesbian With Kids Who Is Very Shy

    I am a mother of 2 kids n its so hard I was in. 9 yr relationship with my x gf she is the only real relationship with a female I had. I don't know how to go meet women I don't know how to approach them so I feel like I don't know what to do. I want to build a friendship n hope it...
    BeyouTfulDisaster BeyouTfulDisaster
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Sep 23, 2012

    Lesbian Mum Loves Her Son

    Hi everyone I am a single 38 year old lesbian mum.I find it so hard to meet that special someone as they either don't want kids or have kids and just want to keep partying can anyone give me some advice on where to meet someone special.I don't live in a big city so that makes it...
    sammy180199 sammy180199
    36-40
    4 Responses Apr 19, 2009

    Where Is My Miss Right?

    I am 30 and I have 2 boys who are 5 and 6 from a previous relationship with a man, he is absent from their lives through his own choice. I have been always been aware of my attraction to woman and for the last 2 years have been solely with women. I am very open with my children...
    Cornishkitty Cornishkitty
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

    Dating...ARG!

    Being single and a lesbian with a child is sooo hard. All of the single lesbians I meet don't have kids, or they have kids and still party alot. I can't find a single women that is interested in the same lifestyle I am in. Having a child is like having a family without the...
    Andiwill08 Andiwill08
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2009

    Mother Of 3. Lesbian Of 29 Years.

    I love my kids, they are my world. They know who I am as I hide nothing from them. I have been single for four years now, and I kind of enjoy this time to love me. Though, I do miss the feeling of "being loved" by a significant other. Yet, I no longer desire shallowness...
    Lessynz Lessynz
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2012

    Their Teen Years - My Sanity

     Dedicated - personal equipment manager to a (male) hockey player and (female) soccer player; try not to be a "helicopter parent" where I hover too much; try to model balance during teen emotional crises .... no wonder some days I wonder if the cost of their...
    mom2them mom2them
    46-50
    1 Response Mar 10, 2009

    Lonely

    im a single lesbian mother. i feel lonely at times..
    topaz28 topaz28
    41-45
    4 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1
    16-17, M
    Apr 20
    Although I'm single and mingling, I still believe I've made so much progress internally, emotionally, and spiritually without having a bf/husband or kids to prove otherwise. I've...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 20
    hi every one i am a lesbian from morocco looking to marry a gay muslim guy preferably in the UK or in Europe, i have a girlfriend from the UK and its so hard my family are...
    foxyroxy123 foxyroxy123
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    i agree with other peoples opinions. Nobody ever gives you attention or see's too you if you're a young girl who likes the same gender. it's like they don't believe us, but i know...
    trxfflebutter trxfflebutter
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 20
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    malibulang malibulang
    31-35, F
    Apr 20
    Hi I'm a 34yrs old gay Muslim man living in Canada. I am looking for a lesbian in a similar situation who also wants a MOC. I am financially stable, well educated and good...
    Proof22 Proof22
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 19
    lesbianism should be encouraged and any straight girls should be punished and forced to be lesbian.
    Elaine4les Elaine4les
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 19
    We are a desi couple and I am the husband here. Have been here earlier and had some good interaction with people and friends here. Since EP is closing, I would like to connect...
    Desicouplefun Desicouplefun
    46-50, M
    Apr 19
    I'm a lesbian still in closet. I dated a girl once and we broke up . She won't talk to me and even block me in all social media . My family is not helping either . They hate the...
    ConfuseTeenager19 ConfuseTeenager19
    18-21, F
    Apr 18
    i found out i as lesbian for sure yesterday when my bestfriend kissed me and it felt kind of ...... this is stupied ........... MAGICAL! yah stupied right. But hen she kissed me it...
    ChaleeEllis15 ChaleeEllis15
    13-15, F
    Apr 17
    I wanted to write this post from last few months but couldn't find the right words. I just heard that EP is going to shut down on 21st April. That is my birthday! And this is the...
    taurean0014 taurean0014
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 17
    I don't think majority of people understand that when your single everything is more there like all you see is more couples and people getting engaged and having kids. I mean I'm...
    Kimmyextreme Kimmyextreme
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 16
    I have come to understand that everyone has some degree of self esteem issues. I am a single mom who was never supposed to have kids. My son was worth every pound I gained, but it...
    ffnell343 ffnell343
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 16
    one day i wanna have a family as well.but first i wanna finish college.i wanna fall inlove and i wanna have kids (maybe adoption) i wanna be able to support my family and provide...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 16
    I'm single by choice rather than by lack of choice. I've been told I have attractive features here and there, but I don't really like hearing that. I mean, it feeds my ego 100% of...
    Knitemair Knitemair
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 16
    I'm an Asian guy 39 from New York , looking for a lesbian or lady friend for a cover.... I'm legally and happily married .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 15
    Yes! I want go get married one day and have kids, umm lot of kids? I don't think so actually, but I want a couple. Even I already thinking about their names. If she's a girl, her...
    Daddysgirllll Daddysgirllll
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 15
    I am depressed and it's getting worse. I will be 38 this year and am not married and do not have a baby. That was always my dream but spent too much time with wrong guys. I am...
    katielee102 katielee102
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 14
    anyone want to be lesbian or bi friends? i think girls are so beautiful and would love to meet some and hang out ?:)
    yeessyymartina yeessyymartina
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 14
    "Come on little earthling, let's have some fun outdoors." I held his tiny hand and we walked. On our way towards the gate, I accidentally stepped on a small angry bird plushie...
    SparkofDecency SparkofDecency
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 14
    That is my gift for you all single people!!!! enjoy the life and be living like nothing keeping you!! you are free :Dalso riding solo now! but later who knows ;) you will be...
    gamesBOSS gamesBOSS
    18-21, M
    Apr 14
    Any lesbians or bi interested in befriending a crossdressers?
    CDAaliyah CDAaliyah
    18-21, T
    1 Response Apr 14
    Where do I start? I am a gay man, I have known I was gay since 3rd grade. Growing up was tough and is a story for a later time. I met my first long term partner when I was 22, we...
    taletotell taletotell
    41-45, M
    Apr 13
    15, lesbian, Chicago. I'm looking for a potential girlfriend
    Grrlpeach Grrlpeach
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Apr 13
    I had a best friend and he hired me to work for him. I did and when I did he started hitting on me. I felt sorry for him bc I knew his marriage sucked so I let it roll off my...
    ceg333 ceg333
    36-40, F
    Apr 13
    I love them. They are too cute and adorable. Kids love me and I certainly have patience for them. And the best part of it, is that when I take care of kids. I enjoy cooking food...
    Shxxxooo Shxxxooo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 13
    My best friend just told me she is a lesbian. We are only in 8th grade and I didn't know people could tell that young. I am completely supportive it is just a little hard to wrap...
    jmm4225 jmm4225
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 13
    The only relationships I've been on in ate long distance relationships. Even those are hard for me to hold on to. They usually leave without a warning, without a single goodbye or...
    Marie107 Marie107
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 13
    I guess I'm single because I'm at a point in my life where I prefer something genuine. I don't want to settle and just be with anyone. I here that people say they're shocked I'm...
    gorjus1 gorjus1
    26-30, F
    Apr 12
    Almost always in situations like this is straight guys being okay with lesbians because two girls on eachother is hot and two guys are not
    BioticCactus2 BioticCactus2
    13-15, T
    3 Responses Apr 10
    hey girls..please talk to me...I promise i am a nice girl...i just want a lot of lesbian friends cuz i only have straight friends in outside life and sometimes i feel like i am the...
    dreamhigh23 dreamhigh23
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 9
    My friend sent me the link to this video: https://youtu.be/irfd74z52Cw I cried watching it. Although the pressure to get married is nowhere near as crazy as what it is like in...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    26-30
    Apr 8
    I had an affair with another woman. She was beautiful, strong, intelligent, naive and a million other things. We had six months. It has been years since. But I still miss her...
    Kirbyyyy Kirbyyyy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 8
    I've worked with kids and believe me when I say that some of them tend to be very weird in terms of their tastes...like for example this one kid who always watched Mary Poppins and...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 8
    I'm going to be 44 years old this month. A month before my16th birthday my beloved Grandmother died. No sweet 16. My family thought it would be in inappropriate. When I turned 18...
    18776J 18776J
    41-45, F
    Apr 7
    I have a younger brother, with Autism. He is still at a young age and it is very difficult. He has behavioural problems, and simple things such as going out or shopping we can't do...
    lostmyselftodepression lostmyselftodepression
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 7
    Lolol true true true. Many people are single, oh well. My life is how it is. Now goodbye, I am going to go hide🙈 1universe 8 planets 192 countries 180497 islands 85 seas 7...
    Kayla429 Kayla429
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Apr 6
    I am the only lesbian at my school
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 5
    I am having troubles finding another lesbian in my age group to chat with. I keep getting catfished and I'm tired of it.
    sweetmiss123 sweetmiss123
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 5
    I'm afraid that I'll be single forever. *softly chuckling* I'm unsure if that's how I truly feel. I'm more scared of myself than the entire quote. "I'm afraid that I'll be single...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 4
    I'm 38 years old, asian gay living in Paris. I'm looking for 25-42 yrs old lesbian/asexual for a short term or middle term moc. Things will be planned out properly and there will...
    Denisone Denisone
    36-40, M
    Apr 4
    I am a 33 year old Indian gay looking for an open marriage with a straight female/lesbian. I am in the US and seek someone that is sane, stable and serious. Please get back to me...
    krishere1982 krishere1982
    31-35
    Apr 3
    I am a 33 year old Indian gay looking for an open marriage with a straight female/lesbian. I am in the US and seek someone that is sane, stable and serious. Please get back to me...
    krishere1982 krishere1982
    31-35
    Apr 3
    I am a 33 year old Indian gay looking for an open marriage with a straight female/lesbian. I am in the US and seek someone that is sane, stable and serious. Please get back to me...
    krishere1982 krishere1982
    31-35
    Apr 3
    I am a 33 year old Indian gay looking for an open marriage with a straight female/lesbian. I am in the US and seek someone that is sane, stable and serious. Please get back to me...
    krishere1982 krishere1982
    31-35
    Apr 3
    I am a 33 year old Indian gay looking for an open marriage with a straight female/lesbian. I am in the US and seek someone that is sane, stable and serious. Please get back to me...
    krishere1982 krishere1982
    31-35
    Apr 3
    I am a 33 year old Indian gay looking for an open marriage with a straight female/lesbian. I am in the US and seek someone that is sane, stable and serious. Please get back to me...
    krishere1982 krishere1982
    31-35
    Apr 3
    So I remember posting here back in June 2015 about having my first lesbian experience and thought I never would. But just this January 2016 had my first experience with a girl and...
    rnbwgrl rnbwgrl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 3
    Okay so I've always wanted to have kids b4 I got herpes recently , but I would love to have at least one kid of my own blood and adopt a boy. The reason why I say this is bc I'm...
    Theworst280 Theworst280
    18-21, F
    Apr 1
    I'm a gay from China, live in US, looking for a moc. I'm 26, well educated, looking for a lesbian also in US. Please massage me if u r interested, thank you!
    Monkeyartist Monkeyartist
    26-30, M
    Apr 1
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