Post

I Am a Single Lesbian

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 744 People

    Looking for like minded girls to share

    experiences and make friends with.
    subirene subirene 22-25, F Mar 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I date a few guys but I didnt feel something

    for them .. Then I realize maybe I like girls but I have never date a girl , I hope I can find the right girl here :)
    montsesofia montsesofia 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    justine98xxx justine98xxx 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And honestly I'm not completely enjoying it

    but at the same time it's so refreshing. I'm not looking for a relationship anytime soon. I'm totally down for talks and mayb making some new friends so totally feel free to message me :)
    Lalah21 Lalah21 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm a closet lesbian looking

    for someone to talk to. I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, just someone to talk to. I don't know any lesbians around my area and would love to have some friends that are like me and maybe pick up some advice along the way from lesbians who have already come out. If...
    biologynerd91 biologynerd91 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    who wants to believe in lesbian soul mates,

    true romance, Lesbian commitment and bravery to come completely out on my attire which I can only see from within. I feel less and less like a woman everyday and the battle to stay hidden is causing harsh depression...
    hopelessly45 hopelessly45 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am 19 almost 20 in march.

    I am looking for a mature woman, A woman who I just have that spark with our conversation never-ending, I want a woman who loves poetry and the simple things in life and every once in a while like the finer things like jewelry and a nice restaurant... I want a beautiful woman...
    DarkLoveKing DarkLoveKing 18-21, F Feb 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have never had a girlfriend,

    but have dated guys. I didn't figure out who I really was till about a year ago when I started to fall for a teacher who was in her mid 20s. I just want to find that one right person :) May take a while and I am perfectly fine with that!
    Krc5 Krc5 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yes Iam single. I have been single

    for 2 months. I was with my x girlfriend for 2 years and then one day I came home and she was gone with no explanation. Iam single and wanting to make friends
    Bbwbrandy Bbwbrandy 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And i'm in love with my best friend of over 10

    years. It is really hard to be in love with someone who don't have the liberty of loving you back:(
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 27

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Perfect Girl!!!!!

    Everyone on here is so vulgar when they talk about girls. It's such a turn off to me when people talk about how hot girls are and how they just want to f*** them so bad. I love treating women like women. Opening the doors for them, making sure they go first, carrying things for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Oct 28, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Instead of me enjoying myself with my family,

    im locked up in my room drinking...thinking to myself "what did i do wrong? What made you lie to me in my face for so long? What made you cheat on me?" Im guessing i didnt treat you good enough. I wasnt good enough. You were just so fucken damaged that you felt like you had to...
    rescueme27 rescueme27 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Single And Tired Of It

    I am single and yes I am tired of it. I want a woman to call my own so bad I can just picture her. Someone who loves me for me no matter how stupid I act or how I look. I want a woman I can wake up next to and know she is mine and she’ll never leave me. I want to be able to...
    midnightwave midnightwave 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And I know that my other half are out there.

    You, who are so strong through all that you've been through or all that you haven't. You, with your beautiful smile that is rare or perhaps that which does not shine as brightly as it should. You who deserves all the happiness in the world. I know you're out there waiting for...
    LadyOfLorien LadyOfLorien 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want a relationship

    but am to self conscious to do anything face to face so I hope to find someone on here but I also would like tips on coming out if anyone has one
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't really fall for boys.

    When they fall for me I just like..sorry, I can't go any further, I can just be your friend. But the problem is...are there any girls who will fall for me? :') Not many people wanna be with a lesbian in the closet like me.
    itsjennyjaa itsjennyjaa 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    First Gay Relationship

    i have only just came out and i am looking for my first girlfriend so if anyone wants me please add and message me
    gemmababe gemmababe 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 18, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am on the hunt for a gf.

    Preferably under 21 :3
    idontreallyknowanything idontreallyknowanything 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Any single ladies out there.

    .. Hi there..i'm not looking for any pervert girl who send nude pic of their self. I don't mind having a long distance relationship. All i'm looking for is a girl who is caring, down to earth, spontaneous. To that future girl of mine, I don't care if you weird, about your past or...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Single mother lesbian.

    Looking to find the one and settle down and start my life with someone. :)
    chauntiamorris chauntiamorris 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I really want to meet someone.

    I'm 18/19 on Saturday. I'm a little bit damaged and recovering from a mental illness but I'm putting all that behind me. Distance doesn't matter to me. If you want to get to know me more kik me - rubymaygaughan or message me on here :)
    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F Jan 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Single experienced lesbian here looking

    for love n places that I would totally be against looking for love
    THABLESSEDCHILD THABLESSEDCHILD 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yes I'm here to meet people

    but I'm not sure if I really want to date ppl. I like to just hold hands and talk like in the movies. I'm afraid to go any further and plus I don't know many lesbians.
    baebaeboo baebaeboo 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And Finally Okay With That

    It took me six months after losing a woman I had been with for two years, to feel like I was okay. The pain has since subsided and I'm no longer suffering or wishing terrible things. In fact, I feel like I can take on the world and no one will stop me. It's actually quite an...
    LadyOfLorien LadyOfLorien 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 23, almost 24. I got out of a relationship

    over a year ago and now I'm ready to meet someone special. Someone who will treat me right, because I plan to treat her right. I like headstrong, adventurous girls, who also love to cuddle. I don't ask for much, but trying to find girls where I'm from is pretty difficult. I...
    bribabyy bribabyy 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Single.lesbian<3

    So I'm currently 16, and single. I've been through abusive relationships and now i'm just looking for the one. I want a girl who will be happy just because we are talking. I want to be loved, and love. In my opinion age is just a number. So message me and maybe we can text.<3
    FaithLovesWomen FaithLovesWomen 16-17, F May 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To all the single ladies out there,

    this is for you :) If you're mine: I'm gonna tell you, you beautiful every single day. Saying good morning to you after waking up from bed, so that you know I been thinking of you every morning. Who won't get bored talking to you on the phone the whole day. Who love...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just when i thought i found the one,

    she left me making me realize i was way too much into that relationship,and that i gave more than i get. Then i'm single again,well i guess it's not that bad sometimes,you're free to do whatever you like,but then you feel like something is missing... Hoping for a lasting...
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Single lesbian fem in SoCal looking to converse

    with other lesbians. Prefer 27+ studs , stems and fems. I'm 25 Latina who is looking for friends, dating and maybe more .
    ricandoll ricandoll 22-25, F Feb 2

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've Got To Change

     She needs her time and her space.  She needs to find herself, make some changes.  I had to let her go.  I had no other choice.  I never wanted her to compromise herself in order to be with me.  I didn't realize that my presence was so...
    concreteardrop concreteardrop 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 27, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I recently ended things with my boyfriend of

    three years, and am looking to get to know some other girls because I have a feeling I may be a lesbian, but have never had the chance to explore those feelings. I'm not looking for any kind of relationship other than friendship at the moment, but I wouldn't mind getting to know...
    annacole annacole 22-25, F Mar 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am a single lesbian me

    and my gf broke up so looking for a new gf in Texas .
    sillygirl008 sillygirl008 16-17, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The first time I asked a girl out it was on

    valentines day I gave her a rose and gave her a note. She said she wanted to be friends and since then I still haven't had much luck with girls
    Jaysunflower Jaysunflower 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    On a completely random note.

    .. Why is it I put a pair of socks in the washing machine yet only 1 sock comes out? Lol
    iloveaparty iloveaparty 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    itsdasiavu itsdasiavu 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Recently re-joined the site

    after about a couple years or so away from it. i first came on here a few years back initially trying my hardest to accept my sexuality to be brave enough to leave my ex husband. Well thanks to the amazing friends i met on here at the time and people that supported me, i plucked...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 21

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Told My (Ex) Bf

    I am now single I'm still in the closet sorta but that felt great I don't see me being in the closet long
    AshleysExperience AshleysExperience 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have 2 small kids. I am 39 years old

    and feel that I will never find a woman who will love me and my kids and respect our relationship.
    zeejohn zeejohn 36-40, F Mar 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I miss having so much to talk about,

    acting silly, & talking about the most random stuff! If you like conversing as much as I do, feel free to message me on here 😊please no perverts, just can't deal😑
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Firstly I'd just like to say hello!

    I have just joined today! :D I'm a 29 year old chick from the UK. I've just come out of a long term relationship & I'm looking to meet new friends. I love to just talk about anything so if you fancy a chat message me :)
    iloveaparty iloveaparty 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Single And Not So Sure I'm Ready To Mingle

    I want to be someone's rock and I want someone to be my rock. I would love to have someone to come home to at night go out on the town with or stay in and just relax. Someone who is goofy intelligent and supportive. There is a problem though I'm not always home I have a...
    Hurricanh Hurricanh 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm officially a single woman now.

    Time to eat,sleep,rave and repeat.Hah,just kidding.I'm finally move on from my previous relationship.But I aint looking for a relationship.Why?Because like Annabelle said " woman suck".Again,kidding.Don't be that SERIOUS.:p.If you need a long distance friend then hit me up...
    miztagarfield19 miztagarfield19 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I recently discovered that I am a lesbian I am always up for meeting others out there like me as if I told anyone at my school I was a lesbian then everyone would know. I would...
    gurlygurls gurlygurls 18-21, F Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am 14 years-old, unfortunately closeted lesbian. I really need someone to talk to.
    daftie101 daftie101 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 17, if anybody wants to talk you can always message me :)
    LisaDanae LisaDanae 16-17, F Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi I am 16 in May from uk just wondering if anyone wanna chat
    justine98xxx justine98xxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 16 and live in the UK, I really want someone with whom I feel like I belong to, someone who loves me for me. I'm tired of being 'in the closet' and I'm ready to learn to love.
    KeiraRhiann KeiraRhiann 16-17, F Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Being a single parent means double the stress, double the pain n double the tears. But it also means double the hugs, double the love n double the PRIDE. Proud to be a single...
    orangeblossom7 orangeblossom7 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Any lesbians wanna chat? PM me
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    While at uni I was at a party and one of the lecturers was there. She was about 35 and I was 19, and we had a wonderful time at the party, and ended up kissing while we were...
    PinkyPinks PinkyPinks 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People were surprised when I told them I don't have a bf, they wouldn't believe it. They would think that I probably have too many guys chasing me so I'm taking my own time to pick...
    Iamlouis Iamlouis 22-25, F 1 Response 42 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I WILL BE SINGLE NOT BECAUSE I WANT TO , BUT BECAUSE MEN ARE JERKS NO MAN DESERVE TO BE WITH ME, I CAME OUT TO THIS WORLD ALONE AND I SHELL DIE ALONE
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 18-21, F 5 Responses 24 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was sitting near the river side, perfectly evening breeze touched my naked skin on my face. It was a peaceful evening. In a moment I lost myself in a world of romance with nature...
    kattee12 kattee12 26-30, F Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    These are various reactions I get from people when I tell them I have never had a boyfriend: 1.Tia: “ Santos cielos, nunca has tenido un novio?!!” Internal response: Is it...
    life14 life14 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I never thou