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I Am A Single Woman Seeking Interracial Christian Polygamy

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    Interracial Friendly Black Couple Seeking Second Wife For Heterosexual Christian Polygamy

    Hello, my name is Neka. Hopefully if you are viewing this, we have similar interest! A little bit about myself- I'm an all natural, 20 year old, passionate, happily married African American woman. This blog is not only to introduce myself but also to let people who are interested...
    divinepolycouple divinepolycouple 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 9, 2011

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