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I Am A Spanked Wife

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    Hubby sent me a text.

    Get yourself prepared for you "Monday Night spanking"... Lol what the heck does that mean? I sent him back a Yes, Sir! He replied...don't worry, I will go easy on you. I have to say, this whole set up makes me more nervous than if he had just said I am going to spank you...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    Happily waiting to be spanked

    for my behavior last Saturday. The guilt is overwhelming. I need, deserve to be spanked. Grateful he has offered to 'help' me with my guilt and discuss my behavior.
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2015

    When asked to go get the implement

    that I wanted to be spanked with tonight, I ignored his request. I will not do that again!! I hate being spanked with his belt and that is exactly what happened. I came back into the room without a paddle, flogger or ??? He directed me to the spanking bench after the panties...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2014

    Hubby said he thought about how to handle the

    fact that I needed to be spanked AND his desire to watch the Seahawks game last night on his way home from work. While eating dinner he said " you know you need to be spanked tonight and that WILL happen. What you do not know yet is how many swats you will receive". He said...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    1 Response Oct 7, 2014

    Who in your relationship initiated DD

    and was the idea readily accepted by your partner. I am the one who brought it up in our relationship. Hubby was unsure about it until we had been trying it for awhile. He thought that the first time he decided to spank me when I was already really super mad would turn into...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Sep 2, 2014

    I love spanking my girlfriend,

    I've loved spanking the women I've been with. Lately however I've had a fantasy where I watch someone else spank her. I love the idea. But she's rather reserved and I don't know how to bring the idea up. Any help would be appreciated.
    CuriousGuy20 CuriousGuy20
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015

    Hubby sent me a text.

    He told me what he is for sure aware of that I have done this past 11 days. He asked me if there was anything I would like to confess before he gets home!!!
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    5 Responses Jan 22, 2014

    I spank my wife frequently during sex ,

    she likes a few hard swats during sex and will ask me to spank her while having sex sometimes. However , for discipline a couple of times I have put her over my knee and given her a nice hard spanking , both times when her spanking was finished her ***sy was soaking wet but she...
    Discreetman1972 Discreetman1972
    41-45, M
    May 17, 2015

    My husband & I have been together

    for 9 years. I have a craving for spankings. He indulges me some but never for very long & not very hard. He's not interested in domestic discipline & truthfully, I'd be in over my head there most likely. How can I encourage more frequent harsher spankings?
    DABSCHEEKS DABSCHEEKS
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2015

    I thought it would be

    so easy to stop swearing. I was so wrong! We had an amazing two days away. The only downside was my frustration level and anger got the best of me at the casino. I spent a 'bit' of time bent over the bed while hubby administered a little 'help' to control my cursing with a phone...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 6, 2015

    My husband has spanked me

    since the start of our marriage. We both agreed to this lifestyle, and I believe it has worked wonders on our relationship. My husband (H, as I'll refer to him), is a fair man and his spankings have never been abusive. It is his job to guide me in life, and I will follow him no...
    IAmLovingLife1234 IAmLovingLife1234
    41-45
    5 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    I live a Domestic Discipline life

    and my husband spanks me.
    SpankingNetwork SpankingNetwork
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    I live a Domestic Discipline Lifestyle with my

    husband and I have been into the lifestyle 20 years.
    DDLife DDLife
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Apr 12, 2015

    I will no longer carry on any conversation with

    any men without permission of my hubby. The men I have conversed with that he approves of are still on my list. Others have been deleted and no more will be added until he approves. Thanks!! ;-)
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    Hubby and I had an absolutely amazing day

    yesterday. We both worked on our projects to get ready for company early in the day. About mid day he came in and said let's go for a ride. He had his 1929 Mercedes kit car out in front all ready to go. It was beautiful out so just a light sweater was perfect for the ride!! When...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    Hubby informed me on the way home from poker

    that I was going to be spanked when we got home. He felt that I had been mouthy and even a little defiant in the previous few days. He told me to go in, get ready to be spanked and lay across the bed and wait. I did not have to wait long as I heard him come into the room, open...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Apr 1, 2014

    Hubby had had about enough of my attitude.

    I was short tempered and pouty. When asked why I was acting this way and if there was something wrong, I just shrugged my shoulders. I guess he wanted more than that for an answer. I found myself in position for a spanking very quickly. He thinks it is funny that the eye...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2015

    Absolutely amazing day with daughters,

    mother, mother in law, father and hubby. 3 of my grand kids too!!! Life is good!! Home, plants planted....then, hubby says..Go get your favorite thing to be spanked with and come back and meet me on the patio. I asked if I could have time to think about that and he said he would...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    4 Responses May 11, 2014

    Hubby and I had a very special dinner planned

    last night. I was so excited! I fixed my hair, dressed in a beautiful, sexy dress, high heels and sexy stockings. When I was all ready with just minutes to spare before time to leave, I walked into the kitchen to show him the finished me. ;-) He looked up at me, grinned and said...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Apr 27, 2014

    Ok, another New Year's Eve,

    another spanking! It had been a while since I received a punishment from my husband, and this was definitely for punishment! I had been very b****y and just completely out of sorts for about 2 weeks and truthfully I should have been spanked sooner. So last night after making...
    ohiomom2 ohiomom2
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2014

    This has been a crazy few weeks.

    I am agitated, then happy, then agitated!! We have a three day weekend coming up to finally get some much needed down time!! I have the trailer packed and ready to go. I plan to take some beads, some wine and a magazine or two. 3 day music festival here we come!!!
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

    Should I spank my wife

    for loosing here wedding ring ? We are on vacation and my wife left here wedding ring in hotel , called back but of course no body has seen it . I have spanked her in the past but mostly for being disrespectful and being unsafe about something. I know she feels really bad...
    Discreetman1972 Discreetman1972
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    Saying this out loud helps me to remember to be

    submissive and obedient to my hoh. For me spankings are not fun. They hurt and I cry. But they help me learn to be a better wife. We live a traditional biblical life where he is in charge and I submit. I wouldn't want it any other way!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    Groundhog'S Day Spanking

    What is it with holidays and my hubby thinking I need a spanking? I have really been hard to live with lately with work, school and life and it came to a head last Wed. night. I came home from school and just ranted and raved about every little thing, I was definitely a crazy...
    ohiomom2 ohiomom2
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Feb 7, 2013

    FINALLY!!! I have had weeks of roller coaster

    emotions that caused me to be a bit cranky, short tempered, lazy!!! A few times I was ready to BEG for a spanking. I did not do it of course. I DO remember that it hurts like crazy. Lol I would feel better for a few days and then fall back into my funk. Well, I am here to...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Aug 28, 2014

    Last night was maintenance

    and I was spanked with the hairbrush for the first time. I have to say it was the harshest maintenance I have received yet (we just started doing maintenance). I have had worse punishments then this maintenance but found it hard to accept it gracefully. I tried to focus and put...
    JenDac JenDac
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    thanks for letting me join.

    I've spanked all 3 of my X wife's and looking to date a pro spanking mom or single female into spanking in or around the lower Michigan area or willing to meet or relocate. add me and message me anytime.
    spankyouhard spankyouhard
    56-60, M
    May 4, 2015

    Last night after we got home from poker my

    hubby informed me that he was going to give me an unplanned but much needed maintenance spanking. He told me to go to the bedroom, get undressed and wait for him. I did as I was told. He came in and got out the riding crop. He said I could choose my position. I could either lay...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    7 Responses Jan 26, 2014

    As hubby got ready to head to the airport today

    he grinned and said and how is your backside dear?? I assured him he had done his job quite effectively. I will not forget the rules. I will not make irrational decisions. I will self report any infractions. Thank you for my 'reminder' ......
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    Hubby and I went to Vegas

    for several days. I have a gambling problem so that was a bit nerve racking. I however did very well on that front. We walked a lot, took in the sights, had amazing food and saw a show. My issue came from cursing. I had recently asked for a bit of assistance in breaking a bad...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2015

    I Am A Spanked Wife Too...

    I have been married for 25 years, and have been a spanked wife for 20 of them. He has always been the "boss", even in our dating relationship, and I had always loved it. Our marriage was a military marriage, and I got used to running things on my own while he was on various...
    trulove trulove
    46-50, F
    17 Responses Feb 4, 2011

    So so in love with my sweet sir.

    So thankful for him keeping me accountable. I was sooo stressed with an event we have going on today. I was trying to keep it together but was anxious and started to get snippy. He told the kids to stay downstairs until he told them they were allowed back up. He then took me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 2, 2015

    Hubby wonders why women are

    such good listeners when over a mans knee. I was behind in all of my jewelry orders, I was getting very agitated and was so overwhelmed that I was doing nothing to fix the problem. He tried talking to me about making a list, prioritizing, and calming down. As usual, I did a lot...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

    Tossing and turning I couldn't sleep.

    We had spent time in the hot tub during the night, but it felt like something was just missing. I have been pretty good lately so I was starting to wonder what a girl has to do to get a spanking. I went for a tiny walk into the kitchen towards his "man cave". I secretly hoped...
    dolphin328 dolphin328
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 6, 2014

    Never Giggle During A Spanking!!!

    Hi all, Well lets just say that last night was NOT one of my prouder (or smarter) moves!!! Let me preface this by saying that we are new to this DD and I plead temporary insanity! Well, we were at a really nice dinner and I got a steak rare. I cut into it as he was eating saw the...
    wesgirl wesgirl
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Aug 10, 2013

    Wish me and my SEAHAWKS luck!

    !! Hubby says one swat per cheek for every point the Redskins score tonight.
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    1 Response Oct 6, 2014

    Well, I self reported.

    I was not able to do so within the time frame I should have. We were both very busy, very stressed trying to unload a 1,200 lb safe from the trailer. We finally got that done and had dinner. He was wound up about how we had finally gotten that done without anyone getting hurt...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Mar 6, 2015

    I spank my wife frequently during sex ,

    she likes a few hard swats during sex and will ask me to spank her while having sex sometimes. However , for discipline a couple of times I have put her over my knee and given her a nice hard spanking , both times when her spanking was finished her ***sy was soaking wet but she...
    Discreetman1972 Discreetman1972
    41-45, M
    2 Responses May 17, 2015

    I had totally forgotten about the loopy Johnny

    hubby made many many months ago. He brought it out of retirement last night. I have a very healthy fear of that darned thing. I am not great at staying still and last night it was even worse. It hurts so much and I came up out of position at least 3 times. ;-( I was finally able...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 12, 2015

    Do any if the wives feel like children

    when they are spanked? If so how do you reconcile this in your adult mind? Do the husbands feel like they are disciplining children?
    sindyloub sindyloub
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Asking For It

    I absolutely HATE asking for it. I know when I need it. It's not just a matter of disciplining me for some poor behavior. It's not that I don't respect him as my leader, authority, boss, and loving husband, 'cuz I do. It's just that my days seem to fade in energy, I feel...
    kayemkay kayemkay
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Oct 30, 2013

    I left the garage lights on again.

    Not a big deal I am sure other than I have been asked time and time again to turn them off. A definate source of irritation to hubby. ;-( he told me a few weeks ago that he was done talking to me about it. He said next time will result in discipline. I said ok as I was sure I...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Mar 21, 2015

    FYI, when you keep telling people

    that you need to get off this site and get your work done, you might want to listen to yourself! You would more than likely save yourself from having to go get the paddle. (Long walk down the hall and back) You probably would not need to explain why you did not get done with...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Jun 5, 2014

    Hubby and I found a leather foot stool/hassock

    at a garage sale this past weekend. Of course he saw it as the perfect innocent looking spanking bench. Surprise surprise. ;-) No one who stops by to visit will ever suspect what he intends to use it for. He of course thought we should try it out right away for size, fit...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2014

    I just went through a week of maintenance,

    and it really helped. The past week involved 4 days of training at my job, preparing for my bf to fly in from NC and my college graduation. In addition, I am trying to plan my parents 50th wedding anniversary and my sister is getting a divorce. Stress city! So my hubby...
    ohiomom2 ohiomom2
    41-45, F
    May 3, 2014

    My first time of being spanked with a belt by

    my husband was for gambling. Believe me, I did not gamble without him and without following his set limits for a VERY long time. I have spent too much a couple times since then. The results were the same... Go get me the belt and ask me to spank you and tell me why you deserve...
    hismissjones hismissjones
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2015

    It is my ex-wife after deploying with the Army

    and gone for over a year, she had run off with a guy who I found out later was her drug supplier. Didn't blame her because I was deployed a lot but she emptied my bank accounts and sold everything I owned. A year or two after the divorce. I was woken by a loud knock on the door...
    spankmaster1906 spankmaster1906
    41-45, M
    Dec 28, 2014
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