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I Am a Stalker

This Is a place for stalkers, or those who have an obsession for another person. This place is to get support and help if need be. Not a place of humour, power, or victory, but defeat. 579 People

    I realize that I don't fall in love with people,

    but I fall in love with concepts. I will obsess over a person and almost stalk them not because I am close to them, but because i am utterly obsessed with the idea of them. Something that makes them Stand out. I will idealize them to an unhealthy point, and then I will almost...
    Mercurylucidity Mercurylucidity 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Like someone is REALLY going to ADMIT this?

    ?? 😏 Steering clear from here!
    W4W2 W4W2 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 2

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    I Cyberstalk Because I'm Frustrated.

    My life has always been a mess. And then I found her profile on the internet. On the outside, she was a lot like me... Nicknames, birthplace, age, sign, birthday, hobbies, tastes, personality. Except she had everything I wish I had. Everything that made me look for someone who...
    wherethetruthlies wherethetruthlies 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2012

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    Not Really But Hope To Find One Here

    yes i know i might be stupid but i want to be stalked constantly
    wonderingaboutmylife wonderingaboutmylife 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Why is everyone obsessed with someone in a

    sexual/loving/want to be with way? Why is nobody obsessed with a girl/boy they want to BE LIKE rather than BE WITH. Now that's a proper, creepy obsession. Stalking somebody because you're so interested in their seeminly perfect lives/bodies/habits/personalities that you begin to...
    ivyrosie ivyrosie 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I Stalk My Boyfriends Ex.

    I even made a fake twitter and facebook and added her to make sure her and my boyfriend don't flirt around or keep in contact anymore. I've saw a few things with her and him in the past while snooping so now I'm hooked. I have trust issues so thats where it stems from. I look at...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 22 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    I love someone but he will never love me.

    His Facebook is set on private and I simply can't add him as a friend. His cover photos are public so I looked at those. Three people were tagged and I was able to (after an hour of digging) looked through his friends' photos for glimpses of my love. Whenever I did, I took a...
    GQftw GQftw 22-25, T 1 Response Apr 6

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    Would u think looking someone's backround up

    because u know them so u want to feel secure knowing them like knowing them u know what I mean. We talk and they know me so I want to know them
    twistedwords twistedwords 22-25, F Apr 18

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    I Just Became An First Ex-bf Stalker (first Bf)

    I just became an Ex-BF stocker, i made a fake facebook page and added him.:/ today is 05/19/2013. I broke up with him 5 days ago he treated me like i was nothing didn't care about my feelings ignored me and i ended it, then for two days he apologized and texted me, i ignored him...
    Soups Soups 18-21, F 3 Responses May 19, 2013

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    Obsessive, Non-romantic Attachment To Role-model Female Elders

    Hello there.I am a teenage female who suffers from a problem which, I believe, is as yet unnamed as a psychological disorder. My feelings and behaviours would be classified as mild stalking. When people think of stalkers, they think of menacing men standing around street corners...
    ratherstrange ratherstrange 16-17, F 20 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    I'm still obsessed. :'( even

    after deleting the pictures. How do you get someone out of your mind that shouldn't be there in the first place? Who has no interest back in you?!
    CatsCantHoldLimes CatsCantHoldLimes 22-25, T 2 Responses Apr 20

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    I used to watch my crush play basketball

    for hours and his eyesight is really bad so he never noticed how long I was out there if he knew it was me but I also love basketball so this might not e completely weird, not counting the times I watched through my window
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    A year and a half ago I met my sisters friend

    my mom bribed them to take me with them to the theater since I have never been one to leave the house much while walking there he turns music on his phone on and starts singing he grabs sister a's shoulder and sings a bit to her then proceeds to sister b my heart starting...
    junosa junosa 13-15, F Jul 18

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    justanotherandom justanotherandom 18-21, F 8 Responses May 12

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    I'm keeping at a healthy level,

    & by healthy I mean I won't be incarcerated for what I'm doing. I want more than anything to face **** this kid with 14 inched *****.
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    People I Like, People I Hate

    I hate not knowing stuff about certain people weither i hate or like them, I'm a great stalker though :) people see me but they don't really know what i'm planing.. which is nothing unless i wanna date them and i'm tryign to see if they have a girlfriend already. If they do i...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    I'm currently living with the guy of my dreams

    and we've been dating for over a year now but I can't stop stalking his ex girlfriend. This is the first time I've come out with saying this, but I think I need help. She is a trouble-making person, and loves to stir attention, and is known for doing that. The guys I've dated in...
    ParisTatt ParisTatt 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

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    Not Me But Know Of People Who Are And Just Interested In The Stories Here And How People Think

    I have an ex who somehow found where I lived and let the air out of my tires weird huh?I guess he didnt slash the tires because he wanted to buy it lol.He also has gotten into my email and my voicemail.I confronted him on it and it hasnt happened since.He wouldnt admit to it of...
    quietone81 quietone81 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    Stalker Death

    My soulmate that I stalked and fell in love with and he, I , passed away.This is not real, just a dream, I cannot accept this. I cannot live without him. How ironic that we would stalk each other and fall in love and now he has left me and he promised me he wouldn't; you see I...
    ginger1952 ginger1952 56-60, F Sep 13, 2012

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    High School Obsession :(

    Ugh, this is just terrible. It all started last year, in Freshman year, when I met this boy. I was instantly attracted to him, and would often sneak peeks at him in class and admire him. He was, and still is, perfect. I am jealous of him, every waking second of my life is spent...
    DeepRimor DeepRimor 16-17, M 4 Responses Feb 11, 2010

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    So I miss you. I check on you.

    I look. I stalk. Sometimes what I see hurts. Sometimes it numbs me. Rt now numb. I still check. I promised my friends I would not check but I checked anyway. Do you ever think about me? I got angry a couple if times and wanted to tell you what I know. Mean. My...
    Nurse68 Nurse68 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 15

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    The Stalker'S Stalker.

    I collect every bit of data about you and store it in my short term memory. Looking forward to the day that I might use it somehow (It could be fun if it's against you). I'm not yet a pro but I do the analyses of the consequences. But because I'm busy stalking you old hags. I...
    PurpleGalaxyPenguin PurpleGalaxyPenguin 70+, F 1 Response Mar 27, 2013

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    I Want A Stalker.

    I seriously would love to have a female stalker. Don't know why, but the idea just really appeals to me. As long as they don't kill me, I would find it endearing. Anyone from the UK want to stalk me?
    supertom supertom 26-30, M 7 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    Stalking Destroyed My Life

    Stalking can be really destructive. At least for me. The story in short - I met a girl ten years ago and we were friends for a couple of months. Then she had to get back to her country as she was an exchange student. I liked her but she had a boyfriend at the time and I also...
    binboy binboy 31-35, M 8 Responses Apr 19, 2010

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    I am always checking up on my boyfriend

    and what he's doing and who he's talking to. He knows and I trust him but it's fun to just look into what he's up to every now and then.
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I Dont Want to Be!

    but i am...ive been fighting it and will go months without checking up on my ex. but when i get lonely or weak ill check her myspace/facebook, ill call our mutual friends to see how shes doing, and ill fight myself from contacting her at all. i even know her phone number she...
    serik serik 18-21 13 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    Hello fellow stalkers,

    Thanks for making this site. its nice to have a place to talk about this. I have allowed myself to be in a position of being an Internet stalker, and I feel if I lived closer to the person, I would be sitting outside of his supposed residence. Many years ago, I met and fell in...
    celerystalker celerystalker 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    hesmycrush43 hesmycrush43 46-50, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I Stalk My Boyfriend's Ex-Girlfriend

    I've only been with my boyfriend for a few months but recently I can't stop looking at his ex-girlfriend's facebook. I'm not sure how long they were together - at least 8 months. But this girl is SO beautiful and she can sing. She has one of the most beautiful smiles I have ever...
    mac2217 mac2217 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2013

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    Not To Many, Just To This One Guy

    I met this guy at efy He enchanted me, and so you see I got online, and went to find His fb site, I stayed up all night His picture shown, and face aglown With eyes so blue, and a face so true It was a dream, I did deem I didn't stop, I started to stalk Status a few, is what I...
    Naliruns Naliruns 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2011

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    I love him more than before.

    Unrequited. He can never return it. I'm heartbroken.
    CatsCantHoldLimes CatsCantHoldLimes 22-25, T May 29

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    I was able to delete the photos of the person I

    am infatuated with! I'm getting better. My friend helped talk me through it. It was very anxiety-producing but I did it! I did it because I respect the person. Keeping the downloaded pictures is disrespectful. I'm proud of myself.
    CatsCantHoldLimes CatsCantHoldLimes 22-25, T 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I Cant Help It

    I know it sounds crazy but I think it would be so hott if a man wanted me all to his self so bad that he stalked me and harrassed me all the time, Not giving up and being really in control of things....Idk y tho. { Especialy if he was latino or a martial arts fighter. }
    Sleepyone89 Sleepyone89 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    I internet stalk everyone I meet

    for a few days. Longer if I'm interested in them.
    deadfast deadfast 26-30, F Feb 6

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    I'm doing better now.

    I'm not thinking about him as much.
    CatsCantHoldLimes CatsCantHoldLimes 22-25, T 2 Responses Jun 22

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    It started off 7 months ago with just liking

    him. Whenever I would see him my face would light up and my day would be brighter. Time passed and I saw him again. This time it was a deeper feeling. I really felt something now. I knew that I had to talk to him. I just didnt know him. So I wrote him a letter and gave it to a...
    anony1123 anony1123 18-21, F Jun 2

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    Just A Little Off-kilter.

    Hm, I don't really know where to start with this, but I feel like I need to get it off my chest. I am a sixteen-year-old girl, a sophomore in High School, and I am madly in love with a sixteen-year-old Junior girl I met just ten months ago. I met her thanks to some mutual...
    MonochromaticBlues MonochromaticBlues 16-17, F 2 Responses May 7, 2010

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    My Disease, My Teacher

    I know I have a problem I guess its like a disease. No matter what I do I just cant get enough of her, everyday i wake thinking of her, at 7.15 every morning I can picture her arriving at school and I have her number plate and car model memorised and recorded in my notebook. When...
    myLamia myLamia 18-21, F 21 Responses Mar 8, 2009

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    I have been stalking my boyfriends EX's (3)

    for almost 2 years. I don't know how to stop.
    beinghumanbeing beinghumanbeing 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    Ive been dating this guy

    for few months and one day we stopped talking to each other. He was goofy but cute and funny. I dont really know what happened between us, maybe no chemistry. Anyhow ever since i stopped talking to him I cant help myself but stalking his Facebook like religiously everyday. I...
    lostmind055 lostmind055 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    Dear Bittersweet Obsession.

    If I could I would think your thoughts, breathe your air, live your life. I think about you 24/7. Whatever I do I always keep wondering what you would think about it. I just can't let go. My obsession over you is all consuming and unhealthy. Yet I can not stop. Please leave me...
    livingalieforsolong livingalieforsolong 31-35 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    SERIOUSLY!

    Ok let me explain something. This is not a subject to joke around about. Stalking is a felony, its taken just as serious at murder. Its not romantic, its not always a phase, and it sure the hell isnt some ******* joke. Because I stalked someone, I ruined my life and lost of...
    DefineHumanity DefineHumanity 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2009

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    :( Sadly

    I am such an effing stalkerNo joke >.>I would discuss my stalking tendencies, but that would reveal too much information*creeps on all of you* :/Sorry.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 25 Responses Jun 17, 2011

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    I Can't Stop.

    I have been technically stalking someone since I was fifteen. She was fourteen. I met her in a GSA (gay straight alliance) meeting durning lunch at school. After that day all I could think about most days was her. At the time, all I did was try to be her friend, to try and...
    DefineHumanity DefineHumanity 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Strelokkk Strelokkk 31-35, M Mar 26

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    Help!!!! I Am A Stalker And I Want To Stop

    I guess I finally will admit I am a stalker. Ironically, most "relationships" start off with me not even liking the man. I like an agressive man who will put in work to get my attention. See when I'm alone, I am perfectly sane. However, when someone gets my attention, it is no...
    makeithappen55555 makeithappen55555 26-30 4 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I'm not a stalker stalker,

    but I like to look up people and their background. I don't like go up to them and sneak and spy on them. I just look them up and that's really it and forget about it and move on. I just like to know people and like to see what I can find about them online.
    Meyrinfields Meyrinfields 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    I love someone that will never love me.

    Facebook makes it so easy to find him. I wish he loved me. He'd make me feel so protected and warm. I know it. But he has a fiancé. He's already happy with someone. It hurts me so badly. I wish we were together but I just have I accept it it's not meant to be.
    CatsCantHoldLimes CatsCantHoldLimes 22-25, T 1 Response Apr 7

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    NICKI MINAJ!!!!!!!!!!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Samcoyou Samcoyou 13-15, M Mar 9

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    Yep I know almost every single thing about him.

    His favorite food, his game,his "partner" ,his history, and his pain. But I got lost every time he use his laptop. He very protective and smart so it hard to stalk him . anybody have a advice to stalk him online?
    earlywoman earlywoman 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    hidingunderwater hidingunderwater 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    I Was Obsessed With My School Teacher

    I've always been ashamed to admit this, but I feel I need to. It was in year 9, I was about 14 & I started to fall in love with my Spanish teacher (lets call her Mrs J). She was really lovely to me before she found out I liked her. I remember once my friend and I both forgot our...
    witcheslair witcheslair 16-17, F 35 Responses May 14, 2011

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    My Love

    I'm stalking this girl, I'm right outside her house looking at her right now. She's so perfect, a goddess, and she's mine! I'm only about two years older than her, I would drop out of school to see her more but she likes intelligent people. I hate that she doesn't believe that...
    MartyrWarrior MartyrWarrior 16-17, M 5 Responses May 26, 2013

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