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I Am a Stalking Victim

Anyone who is a victim of the same thing or another kind of crime 125 People

    It Runs In the Family..

     My mother has been stalked multiple times and so have my sisters, it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. It was my ex boyfriend. I had broken up with him and told him I wanted nothing to do with him after he hit me. Then he came to my house begging to see...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08 18-21, F Sep 17, 2009

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    I am a stalking victim.

    ..but when i saw what she looked like...nuff said. :D
    totsy50 totsy50 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2013

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    Sometimes words aren't enough to describe the

    chill that goes down my spine when I think of you. Because of you, I look behind my back just as often as I'm looking forward. My heart skips a beat sometimes when I'm working because a car will drive up and it looks like it could be you. These are the things I would say...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 21

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    The Cover Of This Experience As Well As My Experience

    So i just realized the cover to this experience is this book im reading called the Night Stalker:The Life and Crimes of Richard Ramirez. This man is nuts!!!!! the crimes he committed were just wrong. I wouldn't say exactly he stalked his victims though cus he picked them by...
    rosha8 rosha8 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    I am a cyberstalking researcher at the

    University of East London. If you have been affected by stalking and would like to share your experience I would love to hear from you. You can find details of my research at www.scribd.com/doc/210318665/Cyberstalking-Research
    stalkingresearcher stalkingresearcher 31-35, F Mar 13

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    Harrassment And Stalking And Hate Crime A Magnet For Them All.

    For the past 7mths or so if you have read other things i have wrote you will be aware of the problems i am having with strangers telling me how to live my life and to singel me out due to the fact of my problems with drugs along with the fact they hate any thing to do with me so...
    nuttyrocker nuttyrocker 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2010

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    Crazy And Obsessed Woman

    My husband receieved a xmas card with scratchies in it. It was sent to his mothers address and she passed it on to us. The card was from a woman whom he has never met. The writting in the card was completely crazy. This woman said that she is not a prostitute or a ***** or a...
    MsBruseker MsBruseker 26-30 3 Responses Jan 2, 2013

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    I Want You Forever: My Experience Of Being Stalked For Almost A Year

    For certain reasons (like the court process), I will be addressing the man who stalked me as Mr. Stalker. He had known me off and on (as an acquaintance) for the past several years since I first met him in 2003. In 2009, I was first harassed by his younger brother (who I was also...
    littlefirefly444 littlefirefly444 26-30 2 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Worried

    I was working in my yard and notice a familiar truck watching in my neighborhood of someone I used to know. Two days later a roommate ran after some men who stole our trash around 2am. This gentlemen, whenever I'm around would either call out my name or call me a...
    afraid41 afraid41 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    Stalker Moved In Next Door

    Im a burly chap who can handle himself, but I have had mental healh issues for over ten years, add to that the fact that my etesight is now about 40% Ive ended up strugling to go out. About 5 years ago a bod who I hadnt seen for over 15 years suddeny started sending me weird...
    blagmanuk blagmanuk 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2013

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    Need A Former Victim Of Stalking For Research

    Hi, I'm a 3rd year university student doing my dissertation on 'Stalking and the New Law in the UK', I'm looking for one individual who could answer a set of questions. Preferably someone who has been a former victim of stalking by letters, who went to the police and what the...
    researchfordiss researchfordiss 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    I Am A Stalking Survivor

    My Husband and I have been through a battle that has lasted pretty much the duration of our Marriage and on and off throughout my childhood years. The reason that we were "Punished" by Stalkers, was one simple reason - we made too many very Human Mistakes. We have come through 7...
    mysteryoutlaw mysteryoutlaw 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    totsy50 totsy50 46-50, F Jan 19

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    You Mess With Me Now, You'll Be Sorry!

    Yes, I WAS a victim in real life for about 15 years. I didn't know how to handle it. I tried being nice and politely asking him to leave me alone - that NEVER worked. I tried meeting him (of course I went with someone) - he was afraid and wouldn't contact me unless I was alone. I...
    4vrUnique 4vrUnique 46-50 5 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    I'm Trapped In His Crystal Ball

    So, I'm no different than anyone else. I've got my story. Had some really amazing accomplishments in life and struggled with the obstacles that are uniquely my own. The last three years of my life have been consumed by a man so obsessed with destroying me, that he's blinded to...
    hiscrystleball hiscrystleball 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    My Ex-Husbands, Ex-Girlfriends Stalker Killed Him.

    October 16, 2012, my ex husband comitted suicide, and left a lengthy suicide note, along with print outs of text messages and e-mails. Also attached, was a zip drive. In 1999, my husband met, we'll call her "X", online. They corresponded daily, as they lived 1400 miles apart...
    BCruzer BCruzer 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    The Ex And That Internet Guy

    Now, I know that there are really bad types of stalkers out there. My two experiences have never required the acts of a restraining order or jail time or anything, but they were just kind of weird and annoying. My first story is about an ex. Oh yes, some of you are already...
    itsmesally itsmesally 22-25, F Apr 9, 2010

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    Strangers Who Listen In.

    I am staying at my next of kins who is the closet person to me who has parkinsons and is in his 60s and i have been with for 12 years he has been in my life standing by me through all the dramas life throws at you,i have had alot of problems regrading my drug abusie and he has...
    nuttyrocker nuttyrocker 26-30, F May 11, 2010

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    It Never Ends!

    Hello. I'm going to start off my saying this is going to be long, confusing, and downright sad. This isn't even half of the story nor is it in detail... That would take months to describe and let out the entire story.. Who I am: Just a humble photographer from a small town. A...
    SummerFaith SummerFaith 18-21 1 Response Mar 23, 2013

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    Stalking Victims

    I am making a TV documentary and would be interested to hear from people who are victims of stalking.
    triplevision triplevision 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    Permanent Damage.

    I've been living in hell in my own home for the past two years. I don't know what I've done to deserve this. Do you know how awful it is, to live your life knowing that he can hear every word you say? You can hear him, across the yard, laughing like a maniac. And you're scared...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 56-60, M 4 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    I was married to my stalker

    for 16 long years. He was an abusive alcoholic for most of our marriage. After he assaulted me my son contacted the police and he was arrested and charged with domestic violence. I moved out of the house and tried to put my life together alone with our 4 children. After he was...
    strykermom strykermom 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Hanging By A Moment

    Hello, my name is Ruslana. My story starts with me, an Autistic teenager. I never could socialise, only unless I was speaking Russian or French. All my socialisations took place on the Internet. That's where I met Mitchell... I thought I had struck the jackpot, had been in love...
    WhiteAngelofLove WhiteAngelofLove 22-25, T Jul 28, 2013

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    totsy50 totsy50 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Title: Online Stalker My story is not

    as intense or gruesome as others, but yes, I have been stalked online. It happened a long time ago, when America Online was new and online chat rooms were 'trendy'. I was new to the online world and was so excited because we had just gotten a computer with internet. At the...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F Jan 3

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    It Happened In 1994

    When a friend gave my phone number out without asking me to this guy I saw at a picnic we were at. My friend apologized for giving out my number by mistake when he found out this guy would not leave me alone. The guy kept calling me and leaving long messages on my voice mail...
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 9 Responses Sep 16, 2009

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    Stalked By A Group Of People For The Last 7 Years

    I have been stalked by my ex's friends and sometimes my ex for the last 7 years now. I was followed to book stores, fast food restaurants....you name it! 3 years ago, I moved 750 miles away from the group of stalkers. They continue to stalk me today. They throw things at my house...
    JLea40 JLea40 36-40 1 Response Sep 23, 2012

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    Am Being Gang Stalked, Mobbed And Harassed At Oradea Faculty Of Medicine/ Romania Class Of 2009-2010

    Hello, this is only a small part of my sad story with GSandEH. I am french originally african. I was a medical student in Romania. I was forced to stop my studies due to a serious problem that i am trying to understand because untill now all seems to be a nightmare. I started...
    beingstalkedmobbed beingstalkedmobbed 61-65 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    I was stalked viciously for over 20 years since 1989 after witnessing an event I knew was very wrong.

    I was viciously stalked since 1989 after witnessing an event with another eye witness, taxi dispatcher and family who owned the taxi cab company I drove only nine days for. On the last day in February 1989 I dropped off a passenger in front of the same cabin Nancy and Philip...
    filemaker filemaker 51-55, M Dec 9, 2013

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    Victim Of Corruption Group Stalking

    It started over twenty years ago, when I moved to S. Lake Tahoe, I was injured severely with multiple fractures to my back and neck while working for the CA Dept of Forestry. I found the motels were very cheap and cabins were pretty nice but inexpensive. I rented a cabin with my...
    culturefirst culturefirst 51-55 Aug 8, 2012

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    Avoid The Men Of Miami...

    When I was 27, I had just returned from dropping out of my MA Programme in The UK and decided to make a move to a sunny beach where I thought there would be fun, frolic, surf, music, and cute guys. What I ended up with is a 7 year story of harassment that has seen me live into 6...
    helenamonique helenamonique 31-35, F Jun 14, 2012

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    Group Stalking Discovery

    My husband and I began to notice the same people following us to and from stores, on walks and almost every place we went. We did not know it, but we had become victims of a stalking group. Due to the group stalkers taking turns doing the stalking and slandering, we had...
    bdtinc bdtinc 51-55 5 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Join The Club.

    Where do i start the place where i am staying is a flat and because of me being a addict i seem to have all eyes on me and ears all i say and do is being heard and used against me in ordear,to drive to break down and give to the demans this group of people want,things like they...
    nuttyrocker nuttyrocker 26-30, F Apr 9, 2010

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    The Dark One

    her name means "dark" in another language. i wouldnt find this out until months later. i met her on a tori amos forum and she seemed pretty cool. she agreed with me on everything so naturally i liked her. i remember one day out of the blue i got a private message from her saying...
    pinkmonroe pinkmonroe 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 12, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I've had my fair share of stalking, no harassment though. I too think that there should be something to prevent this. EP was a really fun place when it first started out and now it...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    There is a secret and sinister activity occurring in many neighborhoods and throughout numerous cities. This heinous crime remains hidden, and the majority of the public are...
    FlysoFree FlysoFree 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    If you want to have some context as to where I am coming from with this post, please read my last entry here: EP Link … I can’t take it anymore. I really can’t. I think...
    UsernameEntered UsernameEntered 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    7 Years. Of those 7 years I was only happy for about 3 years. 7 years with a man who gave me so much joy in the beginning. Now it's like he lives to tear me down. To humiliate me...
    bmichelleb bmichelleb 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 10

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    Why did he take it all? I was not smart. I knew I was not smart because I was told that every day. Sometimes with words and sometimes it was said with a look or a certain shrug...
    NoDavid NoDavid 46-50 1 Response a week ago

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    Unfortunately, the act of "emailing" him was further participation of the abusive cycle. Part 1 Destroying Healthy Communication My emails came about very early in the game, I...
    authenticexistence authenticexistence 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Amen. I am a victim of it from BOTH ends. I was abused as a child and THEN abused my multiple partners. I survived though. And I live to tell about it so, Gods good.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Since I turned nine years old, I feel as if my parents started to get a lot angrier and more aggressive towards life, people, and at just about everything. I was one of those kids...
    ImagineA ImagineA 16-17 1 Response Mar 22

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    I am I victim of physical, emotional, and sexual abuse.
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I don't like to go back to this era & I chose to forget it all. I am 31 now but when I was 12-13 my older sister moved back into the house I grew up in & brought her boyfriend to...
    BlueEyes3182 BlueEyes3182 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm joining this group, not to take on a 'victim mentality' as the psychology folk would call it, but to share with others who have similar experiences. This is all for the sake...
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I grew up with a mother who had a hatred for men. I was her only son out of 4 kids and I was the recipient of her anguish. I now suffer from PTSD and struggle with it every single...
    kpax81 kpax81 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Today, such like others in the past, I mentally prepared myself for my stepfather to attempt to murder my mother and I. She won't leave him, because he provides for us financially...
    work4better work4better 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    Today, such like others in the past, I mentally prepared myself for my stepfather to attempt to murder my mother and I. She won't leave him, because he provides for us financially...
    work4better work4better 18-21, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I just recently had someone make nasty comments to and about me, blocking me, only to unblock me, leave another nasty comment then block me again. That's pretty cowardly and it's...
    BigMtnMnds BigMtnMnds 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't like talking about it...I try forgetting but that never works. All those memories come back in my dreams. I was raped when I was five. This is the only time I've ever said...
    McLovin0000 McLovin0000 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I am a survivor, after being in a relationship for 10 years with it turning violent after almost 3 years, I can say that I'm finally leaving. It's scary and I know its going to be...
    lavendershade lavendershade 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    His family helped me get on my feet, and I love them. But we fight constantly. I hate him. I can't tell whose the bad guy in this situation anymore. I hate him.
    caitlinisnifty caitlinisnifty 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    When I was little, my parents physically fought. And one day my dad beat me with a red plastic chair. I've had black eyes and bruises bc of him
    raykay1998 raykay1998 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    My mom calls me names and always say I never do anything right and that it is better if I was born a dog, is that verbal abuse or? I don't know I try not to let it et to me but I...
    lilay98 lilay98 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23