I Am a Stay At Home Mom

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    Young Mum Down Under

    Wasn't sure if I had posted in this group so here goes. I'm a young stay at home mum with two boys aged four and seven down here in New Zealand. My partner has a successful business so that allows me a relaxing carefree lifestyle of shopping, drinking rum and coke and smoking...
    solemum solemum
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

    and it's time to bath the grub grubs,

    lol, plus I really need to push that last post down a bit before someone has a stroke!
    deleted deleted
    Jul 22, 2015

    Adult baby on on tell me a adult

    that wears diapers and you take care of him as a baby
    JackieKehoe JackieKehoe
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Sep 19, 2015

    My name is Amber and I'm 20 years old.

    I had my son at 16. I got pregant again and had a baby girl at 18, a month after I graduated. Now I have two beautiful kids, Connor and Caitlyn.
    mommyamber mommyamber
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 17, 2015

    I think cleaning up puke at 3 am,

    should be an Olympic event. I would totally kick my husband's butt. My son is the only kid I know who giggles after throwing up..mind you, watching Daddy dry heaving is pretty funny. lmao
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 10, 2015

    im looking for single moms

    who want to chat with a single disciplinarian in or around lower michigan. feel free to look at my profile and add me if interested.
    spankyouhard9 spankyouhard9
    56-60, M
    Feb 9
    soldieroflove23 soldieroflove23
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jan 21

    Last night, I felt like I was losing my mind.

    I have 4 kids. 14, 12, 2, and 6 months. We're all sick. My two year old has pneumonia and the baby is now coughing and I feel like crap. I don't remember it being this hard when I had my first two. Although, I had help from my parents. Now, we moved away and I have no one. Maybe...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 20, 2015

    This overly tired mom is going to bed

    and going to sleep! Hoping the two year old sleeps in her own bed all night again!!
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2014

    I absolutely love being a stay at home mother.

    I have five kids to raise during the daytime hours when my husband is at work. My husband and i are discussing the possibility of having more kids now. We now have 3 boys and 2 girls.
    momfromusa2 momfromusa2
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    Hi everyone, I've been a stay-at-home-mom ever

    since my son was born close to 2 years ago. At that time, my husband and I were barely making ends meet and we couldn't afford child care so I had to make the tough decision to take care of our son full time at home. Last year, my husband got offered a very decent job that...
    CGA1982 CGA1982
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2015

    ...for the first time ever!

    !! I'm 45 and have been an RN for 23 years. I thought being a nurse was hard but maintaining a household and raising kids is a whole new kind of challenge!
    1112susi 1112susi
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 28

    I have insomnia so I go on my phone.

    but it makes it worse :(
    Minima Minima
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 2

    Pleeeeeease go to sleeeeeep.

    Anyone else feel like this sometimes?
    Bluebell83 Bluebell83
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    I as a stay at home mom wake up every morning

    have the only me time I get over a cup of coffee while I wait 1 1/2-2 hours for Charles to get out of the bathroom so I can use it. I then wake up the kids n get em ready for school. As the child I watch showed up. Soon as school kids are off it's time to juggle house work and...
    C112075 C112075
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    I am a stay at home mum

    and have never worked in my life...well except be a mum that is. I got married soon after I graduated from college. At that time I thought I'll enjoy just staying home before I go out looking for work. Plus my husbands income was enough to take care of things for the both of...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 25, 2014

    Its only 9 am and I ave already broken up 3

    fights between my 2 monsters (adorable monsters), are you kidding me? Not even 3 minutes apart...I might need a timeout...with chocolate.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 4, 2015

    I am a stay at home mom

    while my husband is the bread winner for our family. I do have a medium size home business for me to work on and contributes my salary to our family likewise. My husband is gone a lot of the time, for his job, so I have to pick up mom and dad responsibilities in raising our...
    femaleinbackyard femaleinbackyard
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Apr 30, 2015

    My kids are aged 7, 6,

    4, 2 and 5 months. I love them very much, but they are hard work. I have almost no time to myself everyday. I'm tired all the time and I've never lost the baby weight from any of my pregnancies.
    Ftyi Ftyi
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    I'm currently masturb8ing with my mothers

    panties..although this is extremely wrong..it turns me on and I can't stop doing it! Is there something wrong with me or is this normal? The smell is what does it to me..any moms weigh in on this?
    deleted deleted
    Jan 12, 2015

    Hi Folks I am new to this place

    and basically I like conversations. I am from India and would be looking forward to interact in a chat and meet online a homely mom who happen to match the wavelengths which we would discover in the course of our talks. Do write in and let us see how it goes further. Regards...
    ubiquity ubiquity
    Dec 13, 2015

    I Homeschool My Autistic Son.

    My sweet husband is a fantastic provider and, since I have a BS in Elementary/Special Education, I homeschool our darling son who is borderline autistic. Being a stay at home mom is the best, hardest, most unappreciated job in the world.
    Epiphany68 Epiphany68
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jun 12, 2012

    Dinner is prepped, kitchen is clean,

    laundry is going, vacuuming is done and my two year old (going on twenty) is napping. Time for a little me time!!
    Bluebell83 Bluebell83
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015

    I hate when people assume stay at home moms

    just sit around watching tv all day. Up at 5:30, wake my husband, make coffee, take out the dog, wake up step daughter, make breakfast, pack lunches, make sure they eat breakfast, get hubby out the door to work, make sure dau hasn't forgotten anything, get her to school... all...
    gjessica gjessica
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Jan 27, 2015

    Well, it's a sad day.

    I just finished the last Reese's from my son's Halloween candy. Don't worry, he won't be devastated by mom eating his candy. He's only 2, and he couldn't have all that anyway.
    PraiseBeToYevon PraiseBeToYevon
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    I love my 7 year old daughter,

    Holly, to pieces, and yet I long for my work - i am an artist and a singer. I do as much as I can while Holly is at school, I just wish my husband was more supportive of my professions. he won't let me work outside the home, and i miss being out in the world and having...
    goddessshelle goddessshelle
    36-40, F
    Mar 4

    Only 6 months into the gig

    and already failing at my SAHM Pinterest board haha.
    asell15 asell15
    26-30, F
    Aug 26, 2015

    Stay At Home Mommy

    Hi there! I am a stay at home mommy to my two twin boys Caiyo and Maiyo! They are 7 weeks old today! I love taking care of them. I am also pregnant again. I am excited and scared.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

    i think i was just crushed!

    !!! i am a stay at home mom plus a care giver to 2 little ones. i love what i do. love my family. my h always thinks that i do nothing all day even tho my day starts at 530 am and goes well into the night, i found the way to deal with that concentrating on my kids and my work...
    lesenokb lesenokb
    26-30, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    And I love being able to do that,

    but I feel like all I do is clean after these little people. Never ending laundry. Never ending dishes. Never ending toys I have to remind myself to focus on the good and enjoy my time with them for one day they will leave.
    sp7799 sp7799
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 13, 2015

    I am stay at home mum

    for 6 and half years now. I was studying my degree part time the first six years. And last half year I am taking it easy. Lots of other mums and family are asking me when I will start to work and that they would be bored sitting at home all day. Well, I am not sitting all day...
    DankaS DankaS
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 11

    I think stay at home moms are the best.

    :) My mom was a stay at home mom and I believe her constant presence during my childhood had a positive impact. She used to study and work but realised that she didn't want to miss her kids' milestones so she quit everything and raised us while dad worked. Not matter what...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 4

    I'm a stay at home mom

    that doesn't dry the world was stuck in the house my fiance his dad does it take us anywhere besides Walmart I'm looking for moms on here to talk to and if anyone lives in Virginia and let me know maybe we can have play dates with our kids my son is 4 years old now
    JackieKehoe JackieKehoe
    26-30, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    I love being a stay at home mom,

    with 3 kids the fights can be unbearable but child care/nanny is not in the price range. I'm happy I'm able to stay at home
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 1

    I am not a mom yet! But I met a sweet

    and caring woman that I will NEVER forget. Mom... :) I went on an English exchange. I had to spend 5 weeks in Victoria BC to improve my English and I had to stay in a host family. The sweet woman was around her 50's. She is full of energy and smiles. I remember when she...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2014

    I need to start being creative.

    .. it's been too long.
    tattooedgirl77 tattooedgirl77
    36-40, F
    Mar 25

    4 Children And A Small Home

    We live in a very small guesthouse on my in-laws estate. I believe it was made for only 1 or 2 people but his family claims it was the original home for his family many years ago and that it was a larger family than we have now.  Amazing to me!  There are 6 of us and it feels...
    sailnude sailnude
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2013

    I am a stay at home mom

    after years of being a 2nd grade teacher. I miss teaching but feel being home is the best of both worlds as I still AM a teacher to my own kids! I now live on coffee. And sometimes wine ;) Being a SAHM of 3 young girls sure has it's moments but I would not trade it for...
    myhousemyrules myhousemyrules
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2015

    I have a question. For those of you

    who have to take care of 2 toddlers, how do you keep up your basic daily cleaning? Like dishes, sweeping, cooking, laundry, etc?
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    6 Responses Jan 5
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 12

    I was a stay at home Dad

    for 5yrs. I had a 3yr ol daughter and two sons 7 and 10. Id do it again. I was also caring for my wife. Does that count.
    Andrew47 Andrew47
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    It is truly amazing how far behind you can get

    in laundry, dishes, and all other housework, when you take ONE sick day while you're family is at home. Yes please, use a different cup for each drink... :/
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2015

    Needing to vent - Trying to teach my kids to be

    thankful for what they have, plus being patient with things. My 6 year old son keeps complaining about every little things. Last night, I went to feed all my kids dinner and as always, my son didn't want it because he didn't like the food I make. i got frustrated and told him if...
    brknsilence79 brknsilence79
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2015

    i work 8-15 hours a week.

    when my boyfriend doesnt have to go to work then i take a shift. other than that i stay at home. i stayed home a whole year without working at all.
    kpl2014 kpl2014
    26-30, F
    Jan 2

    I hung out with some moms from my multiples

    group (I have twins) and all they wanted to talk about were their babies and mommy life. Is that what moms do? Is it odd I wished we could talk about something else? I mean I love taking about my girls but I'm not just a mom. Plus isn't us hanging out away from our children more...
    CallMeFriday CallMeFriday
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 13

    I spent the entire afternoon vacuuming the

    house, the curtains, the couches, and beds. Husband comes home, says nothing about how spotless the house is, but asks if I vacuumed the washer and dryer out, when I say no, I hadn't thought of that, he got upset.....What?!?! Does anyone else vacuum their washer and dryer?
    deleted deleted
    16 Responses Feb 7, 2015

    and my boy has blocked up the toilet,

    badly and his dad just "keeps forgetting" to fix it. oh the joy......
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    I am a stay at home mom.

    I have three kids in college and one in high school. I pass my keeping busy cleaning my home gardening, laying out and skinny dipping and having guests over.
    momatpool momatpool
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2014

    Prior to having my daughter,

    I had a very fast paced medical career. So as you can imagine, when my husband and I made the decision that I would be staying home with our daughter until she entered kindergarten, I was excited and thought it was going to be a nice breather. After a few months of my new role...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 11, 2015

    I meant I'm a stay at home mom

    and I don't drive so me and my son are always stuck in that his daddy my fiance whose what was not happy haven't been happy since we've been together for 5 years has a short fuse long story short he take us anywhere besides Walmart I'm looking for more moms to be friends with...
    JackieKehoe JackieKehoe
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2015

    What will I find in the laundry today(after its

    been washed of course)... plastic fruit and vegetables, courtesy of my 2 y/o. :)
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2015

    Are their any stay at home moms

    that would like to work from home and generate income for your family? And help others be healthier and wealthier
    VanessaIaso VanessaIaso
    46-50, F
    Jul 23, 2015

    For the most part. Five days out of seven.

    I think that qualifies. What do you ladies think?
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    I gave up working thirteen years ago to raise

    my children... I don't regret it... I was there for all their first... I'm lucky some moms miss out on their children's stepping stones... One day I will go back to work but for now I'm content taking care of my kids... Their dad and me have been divorced six years ago... But I...
    Lilsassywoman Lilsassywoman
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2014
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