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    I am a young stay at home mom.

    My husband and I have been married a little over a year and together a little over three years. Our daughter is nine months old tomorrow. I love being a mommy but it is so hard to be alone so much. We have no family or friends here and my husband works a lot. I had post partum...
    Allaboutaddi Allaboutaddi 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I worked up until the day

    before I had my daughter. Then choose to do whatever I could do make it work; lots of budgeting and couponing. I'm glad that I was able to stay at home with her these last 3 years, although I did work for 4 months last year part-time. But I think that getting a job again will...
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F Dec 3

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    I am a stay at home mom.

    I own my own business at home. I have three kids and expecting a fourth soon. As a SAHM, I do chores around the house, run my part-time business, make deliveries, do errands, go shopping, eat out with other girlfriends, and go swimming and sunbathing at home or at the beach...
    computerbusinessmom computerbusinessmom 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 24

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    Young Mum Down Under

    Wasn't sure if I had posted in this group so here goes. I'm a young stay at home mum with two boys aged four and seven down here in New Zealand. My partner has a successful business so that allows me a relaxing carefree lifestyle of shopping, drinking rum and coke and smoking...
    solemum solemum 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Currently swallowing my pride.

    It's a hard thing to chew. We have been blessed so far but could us a tad more help http://www.gofundme.com/dt7it0
    LostinSpace35 LostinSpace35 31-35, F Sep 3

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    I am not a mom yet! But I met a sweet

    and caring woman that I will NEVER forget. Mom... :) I went on an English exchange. I had to spend 5 weeks in Victoria BC to improve my English and I had to stay in a host family. The sweet woman was around her 50's. She is full of energy and smiles. I remember when she...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I have been a stay at home Mom

    for most of my children's lives. Their lives are my focus. Now that they are almost all out of the home, I wonder what my new path will be...
    bunnigirl bunnigirl 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I am a stay at home mom

    and I feel like I am always behind on house work and everything else. Does anyone have any advice? My baby is 9 mos
    Punky409 Punky409 26-30 4 Responses Sep 17

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    I gave up working thirteen years ago to raise

    my children... I don't regret it... I was there for all their first... I'm lucky some moms miss out on their children's stepping stones... One day I will go back to work but for now I'm content taking care of my kids... Their dad and me have been divorced six years ago... But I...
    Lilsassywoman Lilsassywoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    Cooking, cleaning, laundry everyday.

    I also homeschool my 6th grader. My day starts at 5:30 when I go to the gym then it's breakfast time and shortly after school begins. We are in school several hours during which I prepare his lunch and get dinner started. We finish up school and I work on laundry and the house...
    looking4luv70 looking4luv70 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I Wouldnt Want to Be Anywhere Else. Not....

    I like being at home for my nine year old daughter in the mornings, after school and in the weekends. I like going to her school camps and school to help out. But....... I get so bored. You can only pray, read, garden, clean so much. I think this year I am going to volunteer to...
    imogene imogene 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    I Want Friends

    So, I don't go out much (obviously if I'm on here). I go to online school, I stay home with the kids, and go out for errands or for play-time at the park. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE my kids, but I am sooooo alone. Women I know either have no kids or are older than me and just...
    stayathomemom01 stayathomemom01 26-30 9 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    I'm a sahm and we recently made the worst

    decision of our lives. We bought a home with our in laws to have some extra cash. I always got along with my mil so I figured it would be great, we'd go shopping and have coffee together boy was I wrong. She took the sale of her home hard and became a very vindictive person. The...
    millerb79 millerb79 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    My kids are aged 7, 6,

    4, 2 and 5 months. I love them very much, but they are hard work. I have almost no time to myself everyday. I'm tired all the time and I've never lost the baby weight from any of my pregnancies.
    Ftyi Ftyi 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 6

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    I Wish the Peanut Gallery Would Just Shut Up

    It's frustrating sometimes, my family is always hounding me about when I'm going to get a job.  People make jokes that I'm hanging around doing nothing.  I get lectures all the time about how we cant really "afford" for me not to be working. Now what is up...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 16 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    which can be very busy at times

    but also very boring
    ksfarris7189 ksfarris7189 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I have been a SAHM for almost 5 years now,

    and I feel as though I've lost myself already. I only have one child, and my pregnancy was not planned. In fact I found out I was pregnant just as I was planning on going back to school to improve my life, and become more Independance. My husband does ok, but doesn't make a...
    LonelyRiss LonelyRiss 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    I'm a stay at home mom

    once again. I worked briefly when my youngest was like 2-3, but found that I was just basically working to pay for daycare. So my husband at the time & I decided that I would wait until he was in Kindergarten before I went back to work again. That year...my now ex, left me...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    My oldest just started elm school

    and she is more aggressive, harsh and having a not-so-nice tone. And let me add disrespectful to me. We are thinking of Christian private school as a major sacrifice. I'm noticing all these behaviors only since she started public school. What do you all do to keep your kids...
    Cotton1234567890 Cotton1234567890 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 17

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    Yes, there are still some of us still out there.

    I homeschool my sixth grade son, cook, clean, do the laundry, the whole nine yards. Yes, it can be monotonous, but I think about the type of life that I am providing for my son and am happy to be such a huge part of his life .
    sweetandspicy1 sweetandspicy1 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    I am currently using a wrap to loose weight!

    In 45 min!! Contact me if this sounds good to u!!
    Shan0513 Shan0513 31-35, F Sep 30

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    Stay At Home Mommy

    Hi there! I am a stay at home mommy to my two twin boys Caiyo and Maiyo! They are 7 weeks old today! I love taking care of them. I am also pregnant again. I am excited and scared.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    4 Children And A Small Home

    We live in a very small guesthouse on my in-laws estate. I believe it was made for only 1 or 2 people but his family claims it was the original home for his family many years ago and that it was a larger family than we have now.  Amazing to me!  There are 6 of us and it feels...
    sailnude sailnude 41-45, F 7 Responses Oct 6, 2013

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    I Homeschool My Autistic Son.

    My sweet husband is a fantastic provider and, since I have a BS in Elementary/Special Education, I homeschool our darling son who is borderline autistic. Being a stay at home mom is the best, hardest, most unappreciated job in the world.
    Epiphany68 Epiphany68 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    I am a mommy of two girls.

    I am struggling with my youngest who is 6. She is one of the neediest people I have ever met. She drives the rest of completely insane with her constant need for someone else to keep her entertained. She is 6 and since she learned to crawl as long as she is home I can't even...
    warden2000 warden2000 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I Finally Found The Way To Earn Money Without Having To Sacrifice Time With My Son. And I Am Proud!!!

    I am a stay at home mom who was tired of being broke. we could cover our bills and groceries but there was just never enough left over in the end... It was exhausting to not be able to go out for a fancy dinner or buy new shoes. So i decided to change that. I searched for 2 years...
    mollymeunier mollymeunier 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2012

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    Well, it's a sad day.

    I just finished the last Reese's from my son's Halloween candy. Don't worry, he won't be devastated by mom eating his candy. He's only 2, and he couldn't have all that anyway.
    Alisha32 Alisha32 31-35, F 15 Responses Nov 7

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    The Legandary Mrs. H.

    I stayed at home to raise my children for 20 years.  I chose this path after I thought I could have my career, and my family at the same time.  It was not true ... I was lied to.  So when I finally got to take home a child from the hospital, that was still alive, I just held...
    Waterlily24 Waterlily24 56-60 2 Responses Apr 25, 2012

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    This overly tired mom is going to bed

    and going to sleep! Hoping the two year old sleeps in her own bed all night again!!
    rosesheart rosesheart 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    Hello 39 dad home today,

    any moms feel like chatting? MSG me :-)
    Captjohn99 Captjohn99 36-40, M Dec 9

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    momofthree921 momofthree921 18-21, F Nov 26

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    I am a 19 year old mom of 2 soon to be three I

    am 38 weeks pregnant :) I love being a stay at home mom it is just alot of work Lol!!
    momofthree921 momofthree921 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    I am an older wife and a stay at home mom.

    I have five kids now and love carrying for them. My youngest ones are 2 months old and my other 3 kids are teenagers.
    momfromvirginia momfromvirginia 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    I am a married female

    and a stay at home mom. I have three kids and I am there for them; two boys and a girl. We are a close family.
    familyatresort familyatresort 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 22

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    I love being a mom, best job ever!

    Although exhausting sometimes
    fitmama21 fitmama21 18-21, F Nov 18

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    I am a sahm of 4. Two girls (ages 14 & 12)

    and two boys (ages 19 months and 4 months). Being a stay at home mom is cool. I wasn't able to do this when my girls were young. But I hate it when people assume that you sit at home and don't do anything all day! It's really frustrating, especially when those people are...
    PaisleyParks PaisleyParks 31-35, F Dec 8

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    I am a stay at home mom.

    I have three kids in college and one in high school. I pass my keeping busy cleaning my home gardening, laying out and skinny dipping and having guests over.
    momatpool momatpool 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 14

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    I am a SAHM and really do enjoy it.

    Child care is too expensive and I'm glad that I get to raise my children myself. Sometimes, days get very stressful, but you take the bad with the good. Ironically, when I feel down, sometimes it's actually my kids that cheer me up with the silly things they say or silly things...
    RandFMom RandFMom 26-30, F Jan 17

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    I am a stay at home mum

    and have never worked in my life...well except be a mum that is. I got married soon after I graduated from college. At that time I thought I'll enjoy just staying home before I go out looking for work. Plus my husbands income was enough to take care of things for the both of...
    helensave helensave 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 25

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    I need a job! Staying home with kids all day

    everyday is just not good for me mentally.
    HCaine HCaine 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 26

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    Hate It And Love It (the Former Way More Than The Latter)

    Having run away from home with a guy, he then ended up becoming far more religious than my parents. So now I'm stuck married with two kids (oldest is 2, younger one is 9 months old), and stay at home. I don't have any education (anything I know is self taught), only just recently...
    mommyart mommyart 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    lately i have been having

    such a hard time being a mom. i have a hard keeping my temper when it comes to my kids. they are so sweet and perfect in my eyes yet i don't treat them that way. i don't hit my kids but im not always the easiest mommy to live with. i have tried working outside the home but that...
    warden2000 warden2000 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Hey, I've been reading posts

    and I'm getting some enjoyments. Thanks to social media, I think I have a life-lol it seems I live vicariously through the experiences posted. It's my enjoyment as a SAHM. I do imagine how my life would've been. So after having kids and they are still young, I've lost all of...
    Cotton1234567890 Cotton1234567890 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 11

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    Lonely, Possibly Depressed, SAHM

    I have no friends, no support from family, and I feel completely alone. I love my kids to death, more than anything, and I do NOT want to go back to work. I just wish I had a friend or two. I wish I had someone that understood what it's like to be home with three kids all day...
    caitg caitg 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    When I'm Frustrated, I Try to Remember This ....

    From my blog, "Beyond Blue," at www.beliefnet.com/beyondblue: Two boys went to bed with fevers last night. One is dead. The other is my David. I have to wonder if the guardian angels are vacationing in Florida this month, because too many little guys have fallen asleep for good...
    BeyondBlue BeyondBlue 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2007

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