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I Am a Step Mom

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    Step Mothers Deserve Equality! - I am a step mother to a beautiful five and a half year old little girl. I have no children of my own. (I lost my own in 2006) Me and my husband...
    StepMomBlues StepMomBlues 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    Just Call Me The Bonus Parent. - I started dating my fiance when his son was about 5 months old.  He's ten now. *grin*   For most of his life, his dad and I ...
    Ashirin Ashirin 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    I Am A Step Mom No Matter What People Say! - I am 26 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for three years. I love him but after two failed marriages he doesn't take love to...
    Cridihalgh Cridihalgh 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    It's Tough Being A Stepmother! - I'm a step mom of a 6 year old. She's been living with my fiancé since he and her mom separated.... She was 2 years old. They've been living at...
    Stepmom2 Stepmom2 22-25, F Apr 6, 2012

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    Child Caught In the Middle - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We live together and have his two daughters part time. His daughters are 11 and 8 and are from 2...
    lyndsayp lyndsayp 22-25 3 Responses Nov 8, 2008

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    6 Year Old Step Daughter Won't Sleep Alone - My 6 year old step daughter sleeps with her mom when she's @ home and with my husbands mom when she's @ her house, the only time she's...
    lmh1632 lmh1632 26-30 2 Responses May 22, 2011

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    Being A Step Mom Is Difficult. - Ok… This is my story. I'm a step mom every other week… or more. My husband has two kids… a boy 7 and a girl 8. It's not all that bad most the...
    JustMyExperience JustMyExperience 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    Too Much to Handle... - I am with my husband now for 13 years.  He works away from home, (6 weeks at a time) and then home for 2 weeks.  He's got two daughters from his...
    Stepzilla Stepzilla 31-35 Jun 22, 2009

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    In Every Way But the Legal One - My boyfriend (now, fiance) has a five year old little girl. She was 18 months when we first started dating, so I've been a "step-mom" for...
    purified purified 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    It Comes With The Territory... - I am engaged and recently turned 21. I have been with my fiancee for two years, and in that time I've watched his daughter go from crawling and...
    breathethestars breathethestars 18-21, F Apr 25, 2012

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    Struggling. - Well, everyone here seems to have such a positive view, about their role as a step mom. Im not sure, then, if iam posting this in the correct spot. I would like to be...
    temptedlikeve temptedlikeve 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    In Need For Help! - Ok so here it goes. I met a man almost 6 years ago at work. He was married however seperated. Him and I continued to see each other, and he has 2 children...
    awaide01 awaide01 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Ok. I am not a step-mom YET. However it is in the plans of my boyfriend and I. We plan to get married and build our life together and have a child together. Unfortunately his ex...
    YoungStrongSassy YoungStrongSassy 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    I'm Not the Wicked Step-mother! - I am fortunate enough to have a lovely fifteen-year-old step daughter whom I adore.  She recently moved nearby and I am enjoying having her...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    I Know a Two Sided Story of the Step Mom... - I'm a step Mom of 3 young ladies. One 14, one 17 and the oldest is 21.There is a whole lot a irony to my story, I had my experience of...
    chuckieyt chuckieyt 36-40 1 Response Dec 31, 2008

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    Stepmother of 6 and Then Some. -      Hi I am new here. You can find out a great deal more about me by looking at my other stories. I will try not to make this...
    75Angels 75Angels 36-40, F Sep 26, 2008

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    I Love This Guy And The Kids - I love this guy and his kids so much that I'm breaking out of my depression and selfishness. I'm working on getting a good job with benefits so that...
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    I have tried reading about step-parenting but nothing seems to fit my family dynamics. I'm hoping people on this site can help us, or me understand, or do thing differently. My...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 3 Responses Feb 7

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    Never Thought I Would Be - Last year if someone was to tell me that I would get married and be a step mom I would've laughed in their face. But I'm married now and a step mom to...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Jan 10, 2013

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    Love/hate Step Mom Experience... - While being a step mom for me is going ... o.k ... and there are no problems in my relationship with my husband there are small things that...
    VirgoMom87 VirgoMom87 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2012

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    Not traditionally speaking... - My guy and I are not married, we live together. As I've said many times before, he and I have an age-difference of 21 years. He being the older...
    TopazSkye TopazSkye 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2009

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    I Hate The Step Mom Title. Sad And Hard To Admit To Otherz Who Don't Understand My Heart Itz True. - HEY, I KNOW ..... YOU CAN'T BELIEVE THIS IS MY HEADING RIGHT? BUT ITZ TRUE I...
    mrsrose mrsrose 22-25, F Jul 30, 2010

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    Step Mother With Baby Momma Drama... - I am 19 turning 20 this october. I have a fiance who is 25 and he has 2 daughters by two different moms. The catch? THEY ARE 2 MONTHS APART...
    stressedoutstep stressedoutstep 18-21, F Jul 13, 2012

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    Failing At Step Momhood - I married 3 years ago a man with 2 daughters.  I also have 2 daughters.  I have sole custody of mine, we have his most weekends and...
    jonescathj jonescathj 36-40 2 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    My Money Tree - I am glad I found this site because possibly others here may understand.I have 2 step children, and 3 of my own. They are all adults.My Step son was in prison for 7...
    kimb24 kimb24 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    Frustration...... - i am what you might call a crunchy mom. im not like completely nuts with it, but i buy local foods, dont eat fast food, recycle, all that fun stuff. I care alot...
    serenity94 serenity94 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Step Monster! My -  Hi!  I am new to this site.  I have 5 step children.  All of them grown according to their age.  I am 34 and their father is 42.  ...
    bacosta bacosta 31-35 Jan 11, 2009

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    My Step Mom Experience - I am 25 years old who happens to be a step mother, my boyfriends daughter. I had gotten her about a month or two after her dad and I were more involved...
    Spinderella Spinderella 22-25 Feb 23, 2009

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    Am I Wrong - I have two children from my first marriage they are 13 and 11 I also have a 10 year old step son. All three children live with us full time. The two oldest see their...
    mdepoortere mdepoortere 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    My Boss And My Sd - My boss is facebook friends with my 18 year old SD. They met through my boss's daughter who went to high school with my SD. My SD has hated me for the entire...
    StepMom2003 StepMom2003 41-45, F Jul 4, 2012

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    The Outsider Looking In - I met her at the age of 9 still into playing with dolls and barbies and riding her bike playing outside and climbing in trees...Thinking how lucky of a...
    K31278 K31278 26-30 1 Response Nov 11, 2008

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    Ok so, My step mom is so hot, nice hour glass shape with good *** and rack. She is 40 this year. I really want to have sex with her but I don't know how to say it. She has caught...
    jordan199819 jordan199819 18-21, M Apr 7

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    I long for the day I don't have to come on here to vent. I just found out my SD has been drinking. Like, she's 13! I wasn't of age when I first drank but I sure wasn't drinking...
    Countrychicky Countrychicky 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm a single mom of an 11th grader. I met the most wonderful guy who happens to be a father of 3. He has a 19, 15, & 12 year old. The 19 year old lives on her own. This guy...
    stepmominpgh stepmominpgh 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 16

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    Is it just me or are loads of (young) people just signing up to attack what you wrote just for the fun of it?? Some haven't even read through the whole story and based their...
    makingimpossiblepossible makingimpossiblepossible 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    It was one of the most weirdest thing ever. She's actually my step mom , my dad married her 4 years back . I noticed she always paid extra attention to me and one day when nobody...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 27

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    I was inspired to share this by a message a was sent in ep. You know who you are :) I could probably see my mom naked any time I want, but it's only happened once before though. I...
    justme2912 justme2912 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    Eight years ago, I met my husband. I already had two children from a previous marriage and we had one more together. He has three children from a previous marriage. Up until...
    mmcpherson mmcpherson 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I don't feel bad about this at all. I have 2 SD's. I have known them since they were 3 and 5. They are now 13 and 15. I have a close relationship with the 15 year old, let's...
    skidmom skidmom 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I've scanned through several stories, most of which I can relate to. I too, hate being a "stepmom". I'm more of a glorified babysitter every other weekend/holiday. Ya know, the...
    JustMe2209 JustMe2209 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I never knew my real dad, he left my mom when I was born, 4 yrs later my mom married my stepdad. My mom did her best to support the two of us, I spent more time at day care than I...
    IgobyMandy IgobyMandy 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 24

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    I have a step-father four years ago, and I don't like my step-father. First, I thought I don't like him because he's the one that my mom had affaire with and he's the one that...
    Fearlessheart13 Fearlessheart13 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My mom is cheating on my step dad with his friend. My stepdad apparently is emotional abusing her, and her lover doesn't. I know her lover, he is also married and has two kids. I...
    highschoolsweetie highschoolsweetie 18-21 Mar 26

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    My mom is cheating on my step dad with his friend. My stepdad apparently is emotional abusing her, and her lover doesn't. I know her lover, he is also married and has two kids. I...
    highschoolsweetie highschoolsweetie 18-21 Mar 26

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    Another outlet of why I don't trust easily anymore. He was nice before, but before he came my stepdad, he beat me. He promised that he'll be a good father figure after the wedding...
    HottRoddTX HottRoddTX 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    My mom just said something very hurtful to me I broke down in tear I'm grateful for having a mom but .. It's like I don't even have one idk she hates much I wish my daddy was alive...
    keishay keishay 13-15, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Of course everything is subject to change, the universe is in constant movement and change. That's why I only worry about today and enjoy today. For I only have today to enjoy...
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 10 hrs ago

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    I'm tired of my 12 year old stepson. He is rude and stubborn. I asked him to take off his shoes at the door because of all the mud, my 8 year old son said okay Momma and did as I...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    im really in a very happy mood.. after all these years.. yes.. :-) to be frank.. i have read a lot of stupid experiences related "nak__d moms" .. but ya.. probably true.. i know im...
    newlife142 newlife142 13-15, M 3 Responses Mar 20

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    Tonight I realized I hate my stepdad he is an alcoholic and nearly hit me today, my mom wasn't there she was working, he started getting mad at me about everything swearing at me...
    soccerchik soccerchik 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Visitation Prequel: Why I should have known she's still a brat. My stepdaughter's godmothers decided that as a result of her behaviors on her last two trips with them, this...
    maemaddy maemaddy 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1

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