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I Am a Stepmom to Be

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    To Be Or Not to Be (again) That Is the Question? - I need to have this off my chest. I just came from Miami, with my hopes all gone to get along with my boyfriend's (husband to be...
    mistela mistela 36-40 1 Response Apr 8, 2008

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    A Place In My Heart - Things have been getting better. When I first posted my story it was nearly 8 months ago when I had just moved in with my fiance and his twin daughters. They...
    chantb3535 chantb3535 22-25 2 Responses Aug 2, 2011

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    Is It Normal To Feel Competitive For His Attention?? - I feel like a complete brat and awful for even asking this but, this would be the only place I could even feel comfortable...
    earlymomjess earlymomjess 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2012

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    Stepmom Support! :) - MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2009

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    This Weekend - We have the child again this weekend. I'm very nervous, anxious, resentful, worried but happy. I'm glad to see him bc I do love him but sometimes I resent his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2007

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    My Stepson Has Adhd! - I am getting married to my fiance on August 15th, 2009.  We have been together for a little over a year now.  This past year has been a huge change...
    Jkstock Jkstock 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    It's Hard & Complicated & Confusing... - my boyfriend's son is here this weekend. he's 12 but he's sooooo immature.  when i was 12 i was doing chores, staying at home by...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 3, 2007

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    I Have to Bite My Tongue, and It Hurts - I am a stepmom to be and I'm worried about my reactions to my fiance's daughter's temper tantrums.  She is now 7 and she and I have...
    Ellymae Ellymae 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2009

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    This Weekend - we had the child this weekend.  i was just short w/ him all weekend. i fought w/ my boyfriend all weekend. for no good reason. i just get so ******* resentful...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 16, 2007

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    Not-so-evil Stepmom -   I am a soon to be step-mother to two beautiful identical twin 5 year old girls. They are spunky, sociable and best of all, they like me! My fiance and...
    chantb3535 chantb3535 22-25 3 Responses Jan 30, 2011

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    I Want - I want to tell my boyfriend's child that I love him. It slammed into me the other day. I was just driving along...all of a sudden I'm like, "Holy hell, I love The Kid...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 18, 2007

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    I Don't Know If This Is For Me! - I left my town to come to Argentina to study. I had to come back home for a year because I ran out of money and during that year off I met a...
    samanthav72 samanthav72 22-25, F Nov 12, 2012

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    Teenage Girls...and All That Entails - I find myself in an interesting position - an almost step-mom to two young teenage girls, and I'm not even a decade out of the...
    LittleBirdie LittleBirdie 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    New To Being A Stepmom - Ok So My soon to be husband has this 2 year old son that I just love. He is soo smart for being just 2. His mother died last year it was really hard for...
    CherryChan CherryChan 22-25, F Aug 11, 2013

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    Soon To Be A Stepmom - My bestfriend and I are in love. We have been a great together we laugh, joke, tell each other things when things are on our minds, sometimes we can make a...
    ShocKed91 ShocKed91 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    Kid Weekend - It's only Wed and I am already dreading Friday. She will walk in the door. Throw her bag down (she doesnt like the clothes we bought for her that are here). Wants...
    Secondmrs Secondmrs 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    A Young Step Mom! - Hey im Rachal im 17 and my fiance is 22 his name is Bradley.. he has two kids one is 3 his name is Thomas and the other Karlee she is 6. An i am deff new to the...
    RachalKristine RachalKristine 16-17, F Jan 1, 2013

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    The Idea Of Becoming A Stepmom Is Frightening... - ...but I guess I'm already there... My family has always been close.  My parents were one of the few that stayed...
    unahermosamujer unahermosamujer 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Two Beautiful Little Girls - i am soon to be the step mom of two beautiful little girls, i didn't know that it was possible to feel a love this strong.  I see them as my...
    zeeham zeeham 19-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25, 2008

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    Someone Told Me I'm Not a Mother Today - I'm getting married in 7 weeks but I have lived with my fiance and his oldest son for almost a year. Things are going well but today a girl...
    babydollkkg babydollkkg 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2008

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    I Am Terrified - Aside from our 14 year age gap, I am definately in love with my boyfriend, AND his two kids. They are still very young, 4 years and 18 months. I just don't want to...
    aknarab aknarab 19-21, F 4 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    New Step-mom - I am a new step mom. I love my step son and I want to get along with his bio mom because it is what is best for him. The little boy is two years old and my husband...
    whovian21 whovian21 22-25, F 3 Responses May 8, 2011

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    What Do They Call You? - Another post brought up an interesting question. What do your stepkids (to be) call you? Will that change when you get married? I do not want mine to...
    Secondmrs Secondmrs 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    I've scanned through several stories, most of which I can relate to. I too, hate being a "stepmom". I'm more of a glorified babysitter every other weekend/holiday. Ya know, the...
    JustMe2209 JustMe2209 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I have been with my husband for ten years. We got full custody of his sons (then 10,12 &14) from first marriage about three months after having our first son together. I have sat...
    stepmom76 stepmom76 36-40, F Mar 17

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    Eight years ago, I met my husband. I already had two children from a previous marriage and we had one more together. He has three children from a previous marriage. Up until...
    mmcpherson mmcpherson 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So this might be long. I do feel like a pretty lucky guy with a lot of blessings.. But I do have a lot of worries about my family which I will express here.. Ok so my family is...
    PhindingPhronesis PhindingPhronesis 16-17, M Mar 30

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    He did drugs when I was 10 and I didn't hear from him for a very long time. Here's the story. My Dad, Stepmom, Half brother and sister cam back from Disney world and I went to...
    CutiePieJillian CutiePieJillian 13-15, F Mar 17

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    When I was in 4th grade, my dad and stepmom adopted a girl my age. It was honestly a horrible experience in the beginning. But as time went on, it got better and she looked up to...
    wizardofwhack wizardofwhack 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I was raped several times by my stepmom's bf. But it was a bleassing in disguise of sorts. I don't like what happened to me, but it did get me out of that house and I was adopted...
    sadsarahg sadsarahg 18-21, F Mar 27

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    My biological mother died when I was about nine years old. But since then, my father remarried, to a woman named Kari. Now, Kari was an absolutely horrid person. She had some sort...
    bluemetalchick9 bluemetalchick9 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 30

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    Hey ladies! So I'm a fairly new Marine girlfriend. I met my Marine through my stepmom.... ironically her boss is his mother. :) She knew about me from talks with my stepmom and...
    JELarson3514 JELarson3514 26-30, F Apr 4

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    Hey ladies! So I'm a fairly new Marine girlfriend. I met my Marine through my stepmom.... ironically her boss is his mother. :) She knew about me from talks with my stepmom and...
    JELarson3514 JELarson3514 26-30, F Apr 4

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    Hey ladies! So I'm a fairly new Marine girlfriend. I met my Marine through my stepmom.... ironically her boss is his mother. :) She knew about me from talks with my stepmom and...
    JELarson3514 JELarson3514 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Being a Stepmom hurts. I am trying to completely forgive SD for her hateful and hurtful comments and actions. So, I am putting my feelings on the line to possibly be hurt again. SD...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    My dad and my stepmom are getting divorced... Only she doesn't want it. And as we speak they are arguing. She is crying he is raising his voice. And... I would do homework...
    TubaAtheist TubaAtheist 18-21, F Mar 24

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    I long for the day I don't have to come on here to vent. I just found out my SD has been drinking. Like, she's 13! I wasn't of age when I first drank but I sure wasn't drinking...
    Countrychicky Countrychicky 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I do it alone. No friends to help me. Please allow me to define what a friend is in my book: someone who knows the real you, and is willing to support you through everything...
    PhindingPhronesis PhindingPhronesis 16-17, M Mar 30

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    Well, wouldn't say we go out yet lol. But today was hung out after school and had some fun. Chilled inside mostly. She complimented my beard lol :3 But when she had to go home...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 13-15, M Apr 1

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    My girlfriend always tells me to take her stepmom's dirty panties and wear them over top of hers. Does anybody else's girlfriend make you wear more then one pair?
    tellmesomething1 tellmesomething1 22-25, M Apr 7

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    My name is Skye Baynes and right now I am 13 years old. I started cutting at the age of 11, but I was self-harming long before. I would bang my head against the wall and would pull...
    SkyeBaynes SkyeBaynes 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My parents do NOT understand me and that hurts me inside. They think that just because they bought the house, that they can order me and my brother around. My brother stopped...
    LucyGirlAkita2 LucyGirlAkita2 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was in a happy long distance relationship you know Islands apart only.Last Saturday, a usual typical evening where I usually talk with my boyfriend asking how was his day and...
    katypurrry katypurrry 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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