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I Am a Straight Male Crossdresser

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    I Found Someone Who Loves Me Despite My Cross Dressing

    I am a recovering crackhead, and cross-addicted alcoholic, and so I am a member of Alcoholics Anonymous. After 3 years of coming to meetings as "Joe" (not my real name), I chose Halloween as my day to come out, at a noon meeting, and told my story of drinking and drugging with...
    joseygurl23 joseygurl23 56-60 19 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    I’m not sure how to say this; it’s kind of

    strange to me! I’m a married, heterosexual, and long time cross dresser. I never had homosexual sex, never wanted it, and never will participate in the act. That being said, my problem is, I sometimes feel like I want to be, should have been, and/or would “love” to be a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jan 23

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    I Am A Straight Crossdresser That Enjoys Lingerie

    I am a married straight crossdresser. I have no interest in being with another guy, I only love women (my wife). I have only been with women and have not even had the desire to be with another guy all my life. I do not go out in public dressed as a woman. I wear lingerie only. I...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy 51-55, M 10 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    My wife and I were able to get out

    for a couple of weekends of Holiday fun recently, and had some very interesting experiences while I was dressed as Sarah. The first one was at a Holiday comedy play that was produced by an amateur theater company in a small town about an hour north of our house. The facility...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 5 Responses Jan 4

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    I would love to talk about crossdressing with

    someone. Preferably under 25!
    Autoxer Autoxer 18-21, M Jan 17

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    I'm actually the guy in my profile picture not

    the girl.....that's my girlfriend actually.....she accepts my crossdressing stuff which is very nice :)
    ChristianCrossdresser ChristianCrossdresser 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    I once wore a condom filled with a topical

    numbing ointment until I could no longer feel my penis.
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 4 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    Going to try going to local shops dressed

    but don't know if I have enough courage to go in the shops, will have to se how it feels Would be nice to go with some one but not going put anyone on the spot like That I believe that you should be allowed to dress how you like without fear of ridicule x
    Tony58 Tony58 56-60, M 4 Responses Sep 18, 2014

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    I only wear panties and skirts etc just

    when I'm in the mood I'm not a full body cd
    Str8MaleCD Str8MaleCD 26-30, M 6 Responses Apr 17

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    I have wanted to come out.

    ..my close family knows some of my frends(not many)I just feel like I'm hiding part of myself and lieing to them and I don't like that please give my you thoughts... thank you:)
    buggy6395 buggy6395 36-40 3 Responses May 29

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    I am a strait male who likes to crossdress

    and I like to see other males crossdressed . Is that considered being bi, because I definitely don't consider myself being bi in any way.
    LexyCD LexyCD 18-21 8 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    i am a straight male crossdresser.

    i have always been attracted to women and and am very comfortable with my cross dressing desires. Oddly though, i've always had this "desire" to be a woman. i like being a man and find it impossible to see myself (permanently) any other way. yet when i cross dress i enjoy the...
    quirkysquirt9 quirkysquirt9 18-21, M 7 Responses May 11

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    Has anyone ever taken

    that SAGE test or know much about it ? I took it and it says I'm way more into this gender issue than I thought I was. It's freaking me out a little. I scored a 330 ? It says I'm likely a full-on transexual and a good candidate for gender reasignment ? Any known validity ?
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 2 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    And Am Finding Blogs For People Like Me...

    ...who are not out of control with their cross dressing. Where there is balance in the lives they lead. Loving, devoted husbands, who don't want to share their wives, who are caring fathers, and who do not focus on sexual pleasure at every turn, and who practice discretion. Who...
    joseygurl23 joseygurl23 56-60 10 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    I dated my boyfriend

    for 8 months, then he broke up with me and few weeks we got back together for another 3 or 4 months and I ended things with him that time. We tried to remain friends but his new girlfriend was so threated by me that she wrote me a letter that told me some interesting things...
    MissyKy MissyKy 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    Well I thought I was getting somewhere with my

    wife.. told her my legs were cold at work.. she said long John's I wasn't going pay the price of them then she said leggings thr past 2 weeks I been wearing leggings been loving it... came home the night from work my wife got me long John's.. got them on now they are not the...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, T 1 Response Dec 8, 2014

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    Interesting Times

    For as long as I can remember, I have always had the deire to dress myself in women's clothes. My earliest memory of this was a time when I was probably only 5 years old. My female cousin was staying over our house for a few days, and her bag of clothes was left in my room. When...
    AndreaLynn AndreaLynn 36-40 2 Responses Oct 13, 2008

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    I am a strait male crossdresser,

    and I enjoy thinking about myself as a pole dancer. I would like to feel that energy of femininity. It all started in my puberty during stressful period. I am not tall men and I can wear almost anything. I think that it is related with my social anxiety disorder. When I feel...
    levalo levalo 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 7

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    DianaHighHeelsMcKay My story I was 3 months

    premature, born a twin, with lack of oxygen. It was said I wouldn’t survive. I had open heart surgery. Because of this, I lost my eye sight when I was born, and I thank God for it, and I wouldn’t change it for the world. As I grew up, I matured into a kind, sensitive person...
    DianaHighHeelsMckay DianaHighHeelsMckay 26-30 2 Responses Jun 21

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    The proverbial "rabbit hole" is beginning to

    look more like a "black hole" and I can see the event horizon in the distance. ...and yes, I know that that you cannot actually "see" an event horizon in a black hole (just in case there are any cross dressing astrophysicists waiting to call me out on that).
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 Sep 25, 2014

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    I love getting into a pair of silky panties

    and silky smooth bra it makes me feel so good I have been doing it for meany years my wife loves to see me in panties and a bra she even buys me bras and panties just so she can see me in them
    panties51 panties51 61-65, M 9 Responses Jun 2, 2014

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    I love the feel of satin underwear Love

    dressing in light satin nightdresses So relaxing
    Tony58 Tony58 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 18, 2014

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    Cross Dressing With My Wife

    Tuesday was a very hard day at work so when I got off I need something to made me feel better. I went to a department store to look at dresses. I had seen a dress there I liked in my size on the discount rack but I had put a limit on myself of no more then $25 for the dress and...
    mat2Robin43 mat2Robin43 51-55, M 5 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    66 Years Old And Still Crossdressing

    It all began when I was about 12-13 years old.  My parents would play cards one night a week and that was my night to put on some of Mom's lingerie and to play.  I found that I loved the feeling of slinky panties and, for some reason, having a bra on has always been the real...
    DonS11 DonS11 66-70, M 8 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    Wearing my leggings at work.

    ...... to day had 2 b the best day at work and the scariest. .. working with anna I was saying 2 her that I've got a secret and how scared I was 2 tell people about how they judge me the last time and stopes speaking 2 me 4 about a hour or longer but I told her I was wearing...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, T 10 Responses Jun 6, 2014

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    I went to my therapy appointment today wearing

    a really cute pair of women's sandals with my toe nails painted to match my Seahawks football jersey. She, my therapist, complimented me on them and asked where I got them. Apparently i have good fashion sense? I felt so good that I left there and drove straight to a wig store...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 3 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    I am an artists I am a cross dresser I am a

    man I am the artist I am the canvas I am the model Only a few will ever know my work Even fewer will ever know the "truth" Cross dressing is an artful form of expression I am an artist I am a cross dresser I am a man
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 12 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Wearing my wife's Calvin Klein bra

    and my new cheekini from GAP.
    AdrianaIndigo AdrianaIndigo 31-35 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Last night I finally got up enough courage to

    start to offer my wife some definition/explanation of my goal ((s) as they relate to acknowledging my cross dressing needs. It did not go smoothly. I just wish that she could at least participate in the journey to wherever I'm going, rather than saying "do whatever you need...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 8 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    Love sexy Saturday's.

    Getting dressed up and doing stuff around the house. I have my purple hair, silky black floral dress, cute purple Lacey panties and stockings. Feeling very sexy!
    SissyJazmin SissyJazmin 36-40, M 1 Response May 9

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    I'm Straght Too Am I The Only One????

    Ok here it goes, I like to dressup... been doing it for years.It feels good and calms me down.It releaves my stress and at the same time causes stress because its tabo to society.Ill explain, I can never tell a girl because she will leave me.Women do not accept this so I must...
    lisaree13 lisaree13 46-50, T 67 Responses Sep 4, 2012

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    Well, many people would call me "crossdresser".

    I don't think of myself that way, because I've never tried to present myself as female or make anyone think I was. But, I like to wear clothes that many consider to be "women's clothes". I've searched every skirt I own for a piece or a part called "gender"... I went to a fabric...
    steve66oh steve66oh 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    Yes, I am a straight cross dresser.

    I want to change this. I daydream every day about meeting a cross dresser like myself. We meet and we dress each other in lingerie and dresses, and we prance around doing girly things.. I learn what it's like to touch another cross dresser, and what's it's like to be touched by...
    sissyrachel48 sissyrachel48 61-65, M 3 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    hey gals...to night was a good night I got all

    dressed up white and black dress way short but that's the way I like it I got home and me and the girlfriend whent out shopping for some new outfits for her..so I was running around getting different things I was feeling so comfortable in my dress I'm still wereing it I...
    buggy6395 buggy6395 36-40 1 Response May 29

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    I think I've made a break-through with my wife !

    ! SO HAPPY I feel compelled to share and hope that it helps others in a similar situation. If you've seen my other posts, you know that I've been trying stop hiding my needs from my wife, without a great deal of success. I think I've found something that worked. Be patient with...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 11 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I have been dressing

    since I was 8 and no one knows it! I do it around the house only. I've wanted to come out but just feel like I can't pull the look off!
    coreykrame coreykrame 22-25 5 Responses Jun 26

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    mat2Robin43 mat2Robin43 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 11

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    UPDATE: I contacted somebody at "the club" to

    get more info on meeting for dinner and was informed that the dinners are for "members only", and that I had not yet been to a meeting or submitted an application. I'm a little disappointed, but mostly relieved. Now that the blind date is out of the equation, going to therapy...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 4 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I got this cute little number the other day.

    I love how floaty it feels and how comfy it is to wear.
    shadowhero92 shadowhero92 22-25, M Apr 5

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    I'd love to know how to tell

    if my EP friends are online while I am using the app. Anyone know ?
    LibbyLee LibbyLee 56-60, T 4 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    My relationship with the girl in me continues

    to mature. This has been a pretty quiet week for "Jessiica" and it's been kind of a relief. Things have been happening so quickly lately that slowing it down is not so bad. Dialogue with my wife continues to improve, as does my ability to help manage the anxieties that surround...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I had this beautiful girlfriend

    who had no idea about how much I love to dress up. It killed me a little inside to keep that part of myself from her. It almost felt like not showing that part of myself was sort of like lying to her. Finally, I thought that if she really liked me, she wouldn't care. So I...
    kins101 kins101 26-30, M 5 Responses May 11

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    Can't wait till the 17th stag do

    and am wearing leggings
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, T Oct 5, 2014

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    I recently found myself in marriage counseling

    with my wife confronting me about what I do when she and the family are away. I've always felt the shame of being deceitful and was actually quite relieved when we were finally acknowledging that I am, and have always been, compelled to wear women's clothing. I am now seeing...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 8 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    hey98 hey98 16-17, M 5 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    I hey guy this is my frist story.

    .I began crossdressing when I was 16 I was just cerus of what it would feel like to were women's nylons and bra turns out I liked it then it lead to more..pantys and got to say bodysuits and body slimmers I love to were them then I got a girlfriend and I hid it from her for years...
    buggy6395 buggy6395 36-40 5 Responses May 27

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