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I Am A Strict Mom

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    When I give my children an order,

    I expect it to be followed. No questions asked. If not, consequences will follow. Depending on the circumstances, could be a time out, grounding, or spanking.
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    Yesterday the eldest 2 were at it like cats

    and dogs. Every time I told them to stop they'd quieten for a couple of minutes then start again. Eventually I sent them to their rooms then when husband got home I had him take the belt to them. There were 2 sore and sorry young ladies last hight
    26karen 26karen 26-30, F 15 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I really need a strict mom

    who will take care of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 19

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    hello, I am a mom of son 7

    and daughter 10, I use spanking, if you would like to talk, would be happy to :) send me a message if you wish
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 11 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    Being a strict mom is better

    than being a good role model. My mom did everything bad. She smoked, drank, went out to bars, wore revealing clothes, and slept around (after she divorced my dad, maybe before as well). Yet when it came to raising me she was strict and domineering. She didn't talk to me as a...
    Cleancut Cleancut 41-45 1 Response May 23

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    when it's needed of course I am,

    sometimes you just need to put your child back in their place. I think i might be too lenient on my daughter sometimes but not my son
    LauraRiley LauraRiley 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    So a lot of you guys been asking me how do I

    discipline my girls, well today has been one of those bad days for mindie, see she is all most 8 years old, see I guess she just woke up on the wrong side of the bed, she been in one of those moods, the girls been excited about this pool party, I told them if their chores was...
    jennylovesroses jennylovesroses 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 6

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    pinyna124 pinyna124 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So , these are just stories of my daughter

    getting in trouble and what punishment I gave her. My daughter when home after curfew one day and I asked her what happened. She then replied "None of your business" . I scolded her that that was really rude and demanded her to apologize but she then exclaimed " Why are you...
    PleaseRandom PleaseRandom 46-50, F 14 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Hello. I just discovered this website by

    accident. I hope to meet a lot of people like me. I have a husband and 3 daughter. Madison (17), Meagan (16), and Myranda (15). All three of them are spanked regularly. They each get spanked about once a week. My husband and I use a wooden spoon most of the time, but for...
    Momof3sweeties Momof3sweeties 46-50, F 3 Responses May 13

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    Hello New Friends

    My name is Lisa I have two daughters Megan is 12 Kate is 8. My husband is a pastor and private school principal he's not a big fan of the Internet I had to beg him to let me join. I am a strict but loving mom. Yes I believe in spanking if parents choose other discipline I have...
    Lisa1971 Lisa1971 41-45, F 41 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    And I don't regret being one.

    My son is a kind hearted caring boy but he gets into trouble and talks back and acts out so being strict has been good.
    Marywhite1605 Marywhite1605 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    I see a lot of people use CP

    and although I agree that it is sometimes a necessity, its always the last resort in my house for most punishments. However, when it comes to lying, being disrespectful, cheating, or stealing, there's absolutely no room for discussion. The child(ren) will be spanked/paddled as...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2014

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    I Am, A Strict Mom.

    Last evening, my son Howie confessed he did not go where he said. The good part is, ... he told me before I had dicover this. I said, to him just how grateful I was for him being honest. Howie, age 11, I wouldn't thought he would tell me that he has lied to me. I really felt...
    carlajames carlajames 36-40, F 25 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Hey ladies my mom walked out on my family

    when I was 6 and never spoke to us again and my step father did some not so good things to me while "raising me" and I've always wanted a mother figure if anyone is interested please feel free to message me
    SoCalAssasin SoCalAssasin 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    What a terrible thing!

    Spanking children! Don´t you think? Children who are spanked grow up to become violent as adults, right? That is the politically correct view these days, isn´t it? I can only imagine how many children will have grown up to become violent adults over all the centuries when...
    Helle31 Helle31 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I had very strict rules about school work,

    poor grades were not tolerated. Both my girls were blessed with good minds, but could be lazy at times. They knew that a b or c would be rewarded with a trip over my knees. My oldest tried to change a grade on a report card in middle school. It was a poor effort. I called...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 13

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    Hello, I am a strict mom of two girls,

    I do use spankings, they are mostly good girls, but sometimes forget their manners, and end up feeling mommy's hairbrush.
    kalliethomasnfam kalliethomasnfam 36-40, F 22 Responses Mar 1

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    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Hi my name is kellie i'm 32,

    married & have 3 kids aged 6, 5 & 4. Being so close in age i have to be strict.My husband works away during the week so its oly me at home,we have rules & boundaries & when either are broken my kids get a smacked bottom. We don't have time outs or naughty steps they don't work...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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    i have to be vary strict haveing two kids they

    get out of hand if i was not strict and have tons of rules
    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    Safe Spanking Implements

    Some months ago I came across an article "A Handbook of CP" by Maria Dolores.  Her discussion goes around the safety or danger of various spanking implements and positions.  To make her long discussion short the only kind of safe implements is one that inflicts pain only at the...
    kimistill kimistill 41-45, F 39 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    This morning eldest was in a mood.

    First she wouldn't get up then didn't want any of the cereals or toast for breakfast. She moped around wouldn't get ready for school trying to make everyone else late. After a trip over my knee she soon changed her attitude and went off to school with her bottom and thighs...
    26karen 26karen 26-30, F 42 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    I am new to the group mom to 3 girls 8.

    10, and 5 spank when it need it with the belt each get about 2 times a week maybe more or less depending on their behavior the only the 10 yrs get the belt often my 8 started with the belt when she turn 8 last fall but my 5 yrs can get it too if she does something really serious...
    mommy2015 mommy2015 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 7

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    I Am, A Pro Spanking Mom.

    Hello, I am, Carla James. I would love to exchange ideas with other moms whom spank. I have four kids,three boys Tyler 6, Tommy 8, Howie 11, and one girl Sarha 14. All my kids, I have spank many times with my hand or paddle on their bare butts. I spank each one on my lap. Tommy...
    carlajames carlajames 36-40, F 24 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    My Daughter

    I wouldn t say I m a super strict mum but Lauren knows if she deserves it I wont hesitate to pull her pants down bend her over the sofa arm and give her the brush or belt.She doesnt like it so you think she woulsd try and behave but I guess at 13 we all pushed our parents to see...
    laurensmum70 laurensmum70 41-45, F 72 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    I know it's not exactly politically correct

    these days...but it is what I believe in.
    NHMom NHMom 31-35, F 2 Responses May 26

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    best way to be to prepare my kids

    for life especialy my daughters.
    southernlady32 southernlady32 31-35, F Jun 8

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    Intro To Me

    Im new here and happy to see there are other "spanker's" on here. My kids almost had me believing I was the last one on the planet. I see that isn't true. It isn't too popular where I live. They all love the "time outs". I just don't see that as a punishment. The only time out my...
    MaryM1026 MaryM1026 36-40, F 39 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Took my 2 and 3 year old out to get my car

    washed yesterday. As we got home my 2 year old decided to throw a tantrum because he didn't want to come home so soon. I told him to cut it out and he wouldn't listen, he decided to climb onto this tiny shoe rack we have outside our front door and just lie flat on it face down...
    AthenaJones AthenaJones 36-40, F 12 Responses Feb 19

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    I do not think there should be an age limit to

    strictness in the home. I believe that if a child lives at home, whatever age he or she is, that child should obey the rules of the house. I had a confrontation with my 20 year old daughter this morning and I reminded her of that fact. She was not pleased with my attitude, and I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 28 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I have 4 children - oldest is 7

    and my boys are almost 5, 3 and 1. We are a strict, but easy going family --- if that makes sense. The kids know the rules, know the consequences (spanking) - therefore they are just good kids and we just have fun!! If they misbehave (with my daughter it's usually backtalk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 11

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    I have been spanking my girls

    since they were 11 and did not realize till recently that I have been spanking our girls in their bedroom with the window shaded up when I spanked them bare. Sence I could not see anything outside my window, I assume no one could see in. I realized that our older next door...
    Momof2spankedstill Momof2spankedstill 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I am a man, 45 years old.

    I have through the years got some experience in spanking. I have had contacts with several moms, needing help with spanking from time to time. Most of these has been about girls in different ages. I believe in being very strict. In the beginning, it can feels hard, but after...
    Michaelme Michaelme 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 8

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    I am a very strict mom.

    I have created numerous rules which my children are obliged to follow, if they fail follow the rules they get punishments. How do u discipline your children?
    Kimberley811 Kimberley811 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 22

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    Hi Everybody This is the first time I have

    written here so I will make it short and maybe just an introduction. I am, or I was, a strict Mum. I have brought up three children and still have one living at home, from time to time, when she is not at University. I am not sure how much to admit here, but I will say that I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 21 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    emily129 emily129 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I was a strict Mom would be more accurate

    as my girls are now grown up. I find it annoying how many parents seem to put up with poor behavior in public theses days. There are simple basic rules. Praise them frequently when they are good. Initially patiently point out bad behavior and ask them to stop. If that doesn't...
    Barb1960 Barb1960 51-55, F 19 Responses Mar 3

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    I have two girls 6 and 8 years old know.

    I am a single mum so I really can't stand them disobeying or being rude. I do not have the time and energy for dealing with that for hours. They know that they better do what I tell them the first time.
    strictsinglemom strictsinglemom 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 9, 2014

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    Not As Strict As I Am Fair,

    As a single mother and professional, my daughter knows that teamwork is important to keep our little home running. She understands responsibility and on most days she does her part to help out. We have an open and honest relationship and many things are negotiable. But , there...
    MommaAlice MommaAlice 46-50, F 15 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Even though I have run into quite a few fakes

    and perverts during my nine months on EP, I have still not given up the hope of getting in touch with real spanking parents here! I have met a few believable ones, but sadly, they have been forming a minority! I still hope to meet more real parents, though, preferably mothers...
    Susanna3 Susanna3 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3

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    My Question

    I have a question to how you would handle this scenario in their home. Last school year there was a mom at our moms group you had a daughter in public school. Her daughter was 12 she asked her every night is your homework done and shed say yes mom. One night mom got a call from...
    Lisa1971 Lisa1971 41-45, F 44 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    mother27 mother27 31-35, F 20 Responses Jan 20

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