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I Am A Strict Mom

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    I always tried and wanted to be.

    My former husband and father of my two children always opposed a strict parenting style. After we divorced and he abruptly left our live. I tried to be strict but somehow I could not. Now I am married again and we four live together. John does agree that children need strict...
    marriedagain marriedagain 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Hello, I'm Lena I've been married

    for 17 beautiful years, to a loving, playful, and wonderful man. As stated in Chemistry texts books: Opposites attract. We are an excellent example of that. I'm the strict minded parent; my husband is just the opposite. We procreated two offsprings. Catlin now age 10, and...
    lenaknowslairs lenaknowslairs 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Family Spanking Part 3

    When I went out of the study to the living room, Ian and Brianna were sitting bare bottomed on the sofa, sniffling and squirming. Kylie was in the kitchen with Dan serving her corner time, and it was positioned so Dan could see all three of them at once. After 10 minutes, we...
    spankingmom4 spankingmom4 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    I see a lot of people use CP

    and although I agree that it is sometimes a necessity, its always the last resort in my house for most punishments. However, when it comes to lying, being disrespectful, cheating, or stealing, there's absolutely no room for discussion. The child(ren) will be spanked/paddled as...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2014

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    I Am, A Pro Spanking Mom.

    Hello, I am, Carla James. I would love to exchange ideas with other moms whom spank. I have four kids,three boys Tyler 6, Tommy 8, Howie 11, and one girl Sarha 14. All my kids, I have spank many times with my hand or paddle on their bare butts. I spank each one on my lap. Tommy...
    carlajames carlajames 36-40, F 24 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    My Daughter

    I wouldn t say I m a super strict mum but Lauren knows if she deserves it I wont hesitate to pull her pants down bend her over the sofa arm and give her the brush or belt.She doesnt like it so you think she woulsd try and behave but I guess at 13 we all pushed our parents to see...
    laurensmum70 laurensmum70 41-45, F 74 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    hello, I am a mom of son 7

    and daughter 10, I use spanking, if you would like to talk, would be happy to :) send me a message if you wish
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 11 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    When I give my children an order,

    I expect it to be followed. No questions asked. If not, consequences will follow. Depending on the circumstances, could be a time out, grounding, or spanking.
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    Hi my name is kellie i'm 32,

    married & have 3 kids aged 6, 5 & 4. Being so close in age i have to be strict.My husband works away during the week so its oly me at home,we have rules & boundaries & when either are broken my kids get a smacked bottom. We don't have time outs or naughty steps they don't work...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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    I do not think there should be an age limit to

    strictness in the home. I believe that if a child lives at home, whatever age he or she is, that child should obey the rules of the house. I had a confrontation with my 20 year old daughter this morning and I reminded her of that fact. She was not pleased with my attitude, and I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 30 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    im vary strict with my kids they have tons of

    rules and chores no video gameing in this house my kids aint lazy like most kids in usa
    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I like to think I'm a strict mom,

    because I do not allow my children to act out without facing consequences. They are generally well behaved, but when they are not, they know what to expect. I do use spankings occasionally, but generally a quick talking to, and a few swats to get their attention does the trick...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Yesterday the eldest 2 were at it like cats

    and dogs. Every time I told them to stop they'd quieten for a couple of minutes then start again. Eventually I sent them to their rooms then when husband got home I had him take the belt to them. There were 2 sore and sorry young ladies last hight
    26karen 26karen 26-30, F 14 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Hi Everybody This is the first time I have

    written here so I will make it short and maybe just an introduction. I am, or I was, a strict Mum. I have brought up three children and still have one living at home, from time to time, when she is not at University. I am not sure how much to admit here, but I will say that I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 22 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I have two girls 6 and 8 years old know.

    I am a single mum so I really can't stand them disobeying or being rude. I do not have the time and energy for dealing with that for hours. They know that they better do what I tell them the first time.
    strictsinglemom strictsinglemom 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 9, 2014

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    I do have some rules

    that I am very strict on, that other parents have told me I should lighten up with. One of these is when my girls wear skirts , or dresses, they must wear shorts or leggings underneath. For one, weather is unpredictable, one gush of wind, and things are showing that should...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    Hello, I am a strict mom of two girls,

    I do use spankings, they are mostly good girls, but sometimes forget their manners, and end up feeling mommy's hairbrush.
    kalliethomasnfam kalliethomasnfam 36-40, F 17 Responses Mar 1

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    Hello New Friends

    My name is Lisa I have two daughters Megan is 12 Kate is 8. My husband is a pastor and private school principal he's not a big fan of the Internet I had to beg him to let me join. I am a strict but loving mom. Yes I believe in spanking if parents choose other discipline I have...
    Lisa1971 Lisa1971 41-45, F 42 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    I was a strict Mom would be more accurate

    as my girls are now grown up. I find it annoying how many parents seem to put up with poor behavior in public theses days. There are simple basic rules. Praise them frequently when they are good. Initially patiently point out bad behavior and ask them to stop. If that doesn't...
    Barb1960 Barb1960 51-55, F 16 Responses Mar 3

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    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Intro To Me

    Im new here and happy to see there are other "spanker's" on here. My kids almost had me believing I was the last one on the planet. I see that isn't true. It isn't too popular where I live. They all love the "time outs". I just don't see that as a punishment. The only time out my...
    MaryM1026 MaryM1026 36-40, F 35 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Although I love my family ,

    I'm a strict mom . Ask me any questions in the comments!!!! I will try to answer all of them
    VannessaWilliam VannessaWilliam 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    Me and my husband are very strict parents,

    we spank if needed,we only do it with our hand or a wooden spoon.
    prospanking prospanking 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    Took my 2 and 3 year old out to get my car

    washed yesterday. As we got home my 2 year old decided to throw a tantrum because he didn't want to come home so soon. I told him to cut it out and he wouldn't listen, he decided to climb onto this tiny shoe rack we have outside our front door and just lie flat on it face down...
    AthenaJones AthenaJones 36-40, F 13 Responses Feb 19

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    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    Not As Strict As I Am Fair,

    As a single mother and professional, my daughter knows that teamwork is important to keep our little home running. She understands responsibility and on most days she does her part to help out. We have an open and honest relationship and many things are negotiable. But , there...
    MommaAlice MommaAlice 46-50, F 15 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    I had very strict rules about school work,

    poor grades were not tolerated. Both my girls were blessed with good minds, but could be lazy at times. They knew that a b or c would be rewarded with a trip over my knees. My oldest tried to change a grade on a report card in middle school. It was a poor effort. I called...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 13

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    Hey ladies my mom walked out on my family

    when I was 6 and never spoke to us again and my step father did some not so good things to me while "raising me" and I've always wanted a mother figure if anyone is interested please feel free to message me
    SoCalAssasin SoCalAssasin 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    This morning eldest was in a mood.

    First she wouldn't get up then didn't want any of the cereals or toast for breakfast. She moped around wouldn't get ready for school trying to make everyone else late. After a trip over my knee she soon changed her attitude and went off to school with her bottom and thighs...
    26karen 26karen 26-30, F 37 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    There is nothing wrong with being a strict mom.

    Nothing wrong with holding folks accountable for their actions, either, and if that means a blazing butt then so be it.
    javlin4 javlin4 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    Hi are any ladies interested in being a online

    mom/mother figure to a 20 year old gay male
    bbcwhore0016 bbcwhore0016 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    Do you have rules for kids in the bath?

    Do you wash them if they can't seem to wash themselves properly? Bath or shower? One child at a time or more than one at once?
    Annie1899 Annie1899 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 25

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    Safe Spanking Implements

    Some months ago I came across an article "A Handbook of CP" by Maria Dolores.  Her discussion goes around the safety or danger of various spanking implements and positions.  To make her long discussion short the only kind of safe implements is one that inflicts pain only at the...
    kimistill kimistill 41-45, F 39 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    lezmummy lezmummy 31-35, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Strict Indeed

    I'm a single mother of 3 beautiful girls. They are 17 14 and 12. I spanked them when they were toddlers. Then I moved to other methods like grounding, taking away privileges and extra chores. Nothing has been effective like a red bottom. That's why I administer spanking on all my...
    strictsinglemum strictsinglemum 51-55, F 13 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    when it's needed of course I am,

    sometimes you just need to put your child back in their place. I think i might be too lenient on my daughter sometimes but not my son
    LauraRiley LauraRiley 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    i have to be vary strict haveing two kids they

    get out of hand if i was not strict and have tons of rules
    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    emily129 emily129 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I wouldn't so much say I'm strict,

    but I do have rules and consequences will apply for not following those rules. We don't spank often, very rarely in fact. Generally "the look" and/or a time out takes care of a naughty child. And now with school out til after the beginning of the year, And 2 more to come...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    My Question

    I have a question to how you would handle this scenario in their home. Last school year there was a mom at our moms group you had a daughter in public school. Her daughter was 12 she asked her every night is your homework done and shed say yes mom. One night mom got a call from...
    Lisa1971 Lisa1971 41-45, F 45 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    I have 4 children - oldest is 7

    and my boys are almost 5, 3 and 1. We are a strict, but easy going family --- if that makes sense. The kids know the rules, know the consequences (spanking) - therefore they are just good kids and we just have fun!! If they misbehave (with my daughter it's usually backtalk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 11

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    So , these are just stories of my daughter

    getting in trouble and what punishment I gave her. My daughter when home after curfew one day and I asked her what happened. She then replied "None of your business" . I scolded her that that was really rude and demanded her to apologize but she then exclaimed " Why are you...
    PleaseRandom PleaseRandom 46-50, F 14 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    mother27 mother27 26-30, F 22 Responses Jan 20

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