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I Am A Strict Mom

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    Ideas Or Advice On How To Be Fair?

    I am the proud mother of two ten year twin girls - each with their own unique personality. Juliette (the more quiet and reserved twin) has ADHD, which has led her to have some organization issues which sometimes interferes with her school work - she applies herself and works hard...
    mackenziew216 mackenziew216 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Hi my name is kellie i'm 32,

    married & have 3 kids aged 6, 5 & 4. Being so close in age i have to be strict.My husband works away during the week so its oly me at home,we have rules & boundaries & when either are broken my kids get a smacked bottom. We don't have time outs or naughty steps they don't work...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue 31-35, F 11 Responses Mar 11

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    I have four grown children

    and one granddaughter (15) who lives with me. I signed up here because my granddaughter had an account and I don't allow her on social media unless I'm also on it and I know what she's up to. Looking forward to meeting other strict moms.
    alicecj alicecj 51-55, F 8 Responses Jun 5

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    I have two girls 6 and 8 years old know.

    I am a single mum so I really can't stand them disobeying or being rude. I do not have the time and energy for dealing with that for hours. They know that they better do what I tell them the first time.
    strictsinglemom strictsinglemom 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 9

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    My mother was a very strict mom.

    Instead of letting me go or encouraging me to be independent and experience the world as it is, which we all know is pretty rough, my mother whom she believed she was doing the right thing, she shielded me from the world,and that was perhaps the worst thing she could ever do...
    TheBrooklynKid TheBrooklynKid 46-50, M 2 Responses May 6

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    Sass Back

    I went into my daughters kims room with a garbage bag I've asked her three times to clean her room well as I was picking things up she was saying iam mean **** you your not fair any suggestions did I do the right thing please tell me
    jetmom jetmom 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    I Am, A Strict Mom.

    Last evening, my son Howie confessed he did not go where he said. The good part is, ... he told me before I had dicover this. I said, to him just how grateful I was for him being honest. Howie, age 11, I wouldn't thought he would tell me that he has lied to me. I really felt...
    carlajames carlajames 36-40, F 22 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    I do not think there should be an age limit to

    strictness in the home. I believe that if a child lives at home, whatever age he or she is, that child should obey the rules of the house. I had a confrontation with my 20 year old daughter this morning and I reminded her of that fact. She was not pleased with my attitude, and I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 30 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    So yesterday was not a very good day

    for the kids at all, I am watching 3 kids for a friend, their parents are out of town for a week, so my house is very crazy right now, I do have permission to spank the girls and the boy if they need to be, I have been friends with sam since we was little, so I know her very...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Today

    I have a 10 year old daughter, a 9yo daughter and a 7yo son. Today, they were pretty sassy and disrespectful but I calmed myself down, talked to them and disciplined them without spanning. But at lunch, it all happened. My eldest refused to eat the food, despite knowing what we...
    Josemaria Josemaria 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    My Daughter

    I wouldn t say I m a super strict mum but Lauren knows if she deserves it I wont hesitate to pull her pants down bend her over the sofa arm and give her the brush or belt.She doesnt like it so you think she woulsd try and behave but I guess at 13 we all pushed our parents to see...
    laurensmum70 laurensmum70 41-45, F 77 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Safe Spanking Implements

    Some months ago I came across an article "A Handbook of CP" by Maria Dolores.  Her discussion goes around the safety or danger of various spanking implements and positions.  To make her long discussion short the only kind of safe implements is one that inflicts pain only at the...
    kimistill kimistill 41-45, F 34 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    Not As Strict As I Am Fair,

    As a single mother and professional, my daughter knows that teamwork is important to keep our little home running. She understands responsibility and on most days she does her part to help out. We have an open and honest relationship and many things are negotiable. But , there...
    MommaAlice MommaAlice 46-50, F 17 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Strict Indeed

    I'm a single mother of 3 beautiful girls. They are 17 14 and 12. I spanked them when they were toddlers. Then I moved to other methods like grounding, taking away privileges and extra chores. Nothing has been effective like a red bottom. That's why I administer spanking on all my...
    strictsinglemum strictsinglemum 51-55, F 10 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    Yep. I Am Very Strict. And I Have Never Spanked.

    I am called mum by four children, and am also the main carer of one step child, who lives with us full time and considers me her mum. I am VERY strict. I have smacked about three times in my life- and regretted each and every one. Does that mean I don't discipline them? NO...
    ChooChooPlane ChooChooPlane 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    I'm 19 and just moved back in with my mom

    after I got into some trouble. She's not happy with me and we've agreed that I am going to continue getting spanked as needed while I live with her. She wants me to decide how its done, so i want some advice. I used to get spanked across her lap, underwear rolled down, with a...
    rockonrockers68 rockonrockers68 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I Discipline My Children My stepdaughter,

    In a recently blended family, there can be hiccups and struggles. One can be rules and discipline. My new husband has two girls who have been raised in... lets call it a permissive household. Their mother passed away when the younger was still an infant, and their father never...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    hello, I am a mom of son 7

    and daughter 10, I use spanking, if you would like to talk, would be happy to :) send me a message if you wish
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 11 Responses Feb 10

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    A young lady who's red bottom is covered with a

    thick diaper before she says goodnight to everyone is rarely going to cause a problem.
    SarahTTG SarahTTG 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    Hello New Friends

    My name is Lisa I have two daughters Megan is 12 Kate is 8. My husband is a pastor and private school principal he's not a big fan of the Internet I had to beg him to let me join. I am a strict but loving mom. Yes I believe in spanking if parents choose other discipline I have...
    Lisa1971 Lisa1971 41-45, F 27 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    Hi all. I'm new to ep

    and looking to talk to other strict parents who are on here
    Proudmama11 Proudmama11 36-40, F 6 Responses May 6

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    Children do their best

    when they have discipline -- self-disipline is of course best but generally they need to be taught how to steer themselves and not waste precious years of life learning on the their the fundamental routines of behavior that will lead them to achieve what they want. As a parent...
    Angel1950 Angel1950 61-65, F 7 Responses Feb 28

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    Hello, I'm Lena I've been married

    for 17 beautiful years, to a loving, playful, and wonderful man. As stated in Chemistry texts books: Opposites attract. We are an excellent example of that. I'm the strict minded parent; my husband is just the opposite. We procreated two offsprings. Catlin now age 10, and...
    lenaknowslairs lenaknowslairs 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 20

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    What Has Worked For My Kiddos

    My husband and I have 2 kids and we adopted the 5-4-3-2-1-0 Now you get a spanking! method for disciplining our kids. It just as it's sounds. If 1 or both kids are doing something that we don't approve of and want them to stop we tell them to do so. If they don't then the...
    amc92 amc92 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    Yeah

    I have a 6yo and a 5yo (and a 4mnth old- but she's a baby and I'm not sure how exactly you'd be strict- or why you'd even want to be strict-'with a baby, or a toddler) and I am a strict mum. I am proud of that. Both are well behaved children, never in trouble at school, well...
    AlfieJorj AlfieJorj 31-35, F Aug 18, 2013

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    In my own opinion I believe the younger you

    start spanking the better it will work, I know there is a lot of oh what is that word I am thinking of, like mix feelings with it I guess, I do use a lot of different tools with my 3 girls and even with my own spankings, my ex and my ex husband use on me, so I know just how some...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'm very first time mom to wonderful year

    and half old boy born with heart defect his like any other energetic boy loves the outdoors, his heart just runs a little different than a normal heart.. Some might think I'm little to strict when I'm simply trying to rise my boy I'm trying to teach him manors his slowly getting...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 15

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    So as you guys all know last sunday was easter,

    so bella and mindie their friends from the gym wanted them to go to their school, the school was having a easter party, I thought why not they would get to see their new school next year, and they will have a fun time with their friends, I heard about it from some of the gym...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 22

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    I Am, A Pro Spanking Mom.

    Hello, I am, Carla James. I would love to exchange ideas with other moms whom spank. I have four kids,three boys Tyler 6, Tommy 8, Howie 11, and one girl Sarha 14. All my kids, I have spank many times with my hand or paddle on their bare butts. I spank each one on my lap. Tommy...
    carlajames carlajames 36-40, F 24 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Intro To Me

    Im new here and happy to see there are other "spanker's" on here. My kids almost had me believing I was the last one on the planet. I see that isn't true. It isn't too popular where I live. They all love the "time outs". I just don't see that as a punishment. The only time out my...
    MaryM1026 MaryM1026 36-40, F 30 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    So yesterday we had a doctor appointment

    for the girls, they needed a few shots, and I wanted to get back on birth control, this is our family doctor, she is just amazing, but she came to our home so we didn't even have to go to her office, that saved a lot of time, but omg samantha and bella acted terrible with the...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Bless This House

    I am the mother of four children, Brianna, who is four, Ian, who just turned eight, Kylie who is 13 going on 14, and Evan, who is 18 and is about to move out of the house!! I am so extremely blessed to be mothering such a bunch of kids. But I can't take all of the credit. I am a...
    spankingmom4 spankingmom4 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    Empty Nest

    I am a 46 year old mother suffering from empty nest syndrome. Are there any young ladies (18 years old and up) who feel they still need a little maternal guidance from time to time?
    LizMom123 LizMom123 46-50, F 13 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    Mom Of Rob 12 Who Needs Discipline

    My son Rob is 12. He needs regular discipline, normally 1-2 times a week. When he gets punished he gets it with the belt or if he did something very bad the cane. After the spanking he gets corner time kneeling on a cheese grater or dry rice or corn. He takes the punshments well...
    lindafrimaul lindafrimaul 46-50, F 20 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Hi

    Hi. I'm a strict mum in many ways, I guess. I can also be very laid back, but that's because I know I can trust my children. I have kids aged 14, 11 and 6 (and am expecting our fourth child, but still got about 22wks to go!) who I love more than anything. I am a pro-spanking...
    Etna10 Etna10 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    My Question

    I have a question to how you would handle this scenario in their home. Last school year there was a mom at our moms group you had a daughter in public school. Her daughter was 12 she asked her every night is your homework done and shed say yes mom. One night mom got a call from...
    Lisa1971 Lisa1971 41-45, F 35 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    I see a lot of people use CP

    and although I agree that it is sometimes a necessity, its always the last resort in my house for most punishments. However, when it comes to lying, being disrespectful, cheating, or stealing, there's absolutely no room for discussion. The child(ren) will be spanked/paddled as...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 18

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    This post is my personal opinion.

    I became a mother due to a bet with my husband: Daniel. If I lost the bet, we had to adopt two children, but one this year and the other next year. I lost. We adopted a daughter: Kim, as a newborn. She was born on October 2, 2002. We adopted a son: Jay, as a newborn. He...
    neworleanslady neworleanslady 46-50, F 5 Responses May 14

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    Strict Mom

    Hi, I'm new here. My name is Lena and I have two girls 12 and 14. I'm a strong believer in disciplining my kids and spanking as a consequence is a big part of this. Most spankings are given in the kitchen, I don't know why but it's always been that way. Start out giving a...
    StrictMomLena StrictMomLena 41-45, F 31 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I think we need to be a little more strict with

    our kids today, I did start spanking my girls at a younger age then most on here, but I think the younger you start they can't start bad behavior, because they all ready know what could happen, I do believe in grounding a child, I don't use it as much as I should, but I did...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 7 Responses May 27

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    Hi Everybody This is the first time I have

    written here so I will make it short and maybe just an introduction. I am, or I was, a strict Mum. I have brought up three children and still have one living at home, from time to time, when she is not at University. I am not sure how much to admit here, but I will say that I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 23 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    What would you do if your child was underaged drinking... I kind of did that last night with my friend... Not too much though... FYI I only add experiences for stories
    BigDreamer26 BigDreamer26 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Yesterday when i working on the kitchen I found my son who is 12 and my daughter who is 10 quarrelling themselves for a TV remote I told them to stop ,after some time I heard a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jul 6

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    Like I said before I'm not a parent if you want to find out how I going to punish and spank my child message or respond to me but I know it's going to contain a fiery butt
    flowerpie flowerpie 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    She would spank us anywhere, I've been spanked poolside, in the middle of the street, in the car, at school etc Basically anywhere you can think of me and my brother have been...
    mummyof8 mummyof8 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    My parents are very strict I am 16 and I have curfew and still get spanked and corner time!! The first spanking of the summer was friggen today by mom!!!! Man she wore my butt out...
    brandonpatrick brandonpatrick 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Having strict parents isn't always easy and we don't always agree or get along but having strict parents has taught me to be respectful not to lie. I don't cuss anymore me and my...
    daddysprincess2233 daddysprincess2233 13-15, F Jun 24

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    Having strict parents isn't always easy and we don't always agree or get along but having strict parents has taught me to be respectful not to lie. I don't cuss anymore me and my...
    daddysprincess2233 daddysprincess2233 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    my mom always imagines that everybody around her, including me treats her so bad and she is always so dramatic and treats herself as a sensitive and precious princess. her blood...
    iamgettingcrazy iamgettingcrazy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I have a strict mother. Both my parents are strict, bible believing Christians but my mother is the one who lays down the lay, as they say. She usually is the one who disciplines...
    GabbyGabbers GabbyGabbers 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    If YOU deserve a spanking... Strictly Fair But Fairly Strict North Los Angeles county, Cali male, very experienced spanker looking for females interested in disciplinary spanking...
    nickir nickir 56-60, M Jul 2

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    I am looking for a nice online mommy that will give me rules that I will have to follow. I want a strict one. I will do anything he ask me to do. She need to be older then me...
    newfieboy97 newfieboy97 16-17, M Jun 26