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I Am A Strict Mom

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    Not As Strict As I Am Fair,

    As a single mother and professional, my daughter knows that teamwork is important to keep our little home running. She understands responsibility and on most days she does her part to help out. We have an open and honest relationship and many things are negotiable. But , there...
    MommaAlice MommaAlice 46-50, F 16 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    This morning eldest was in a mood.

    First she wouldn't get up then didn't want any of the cereals or toast for breakfast. She moped around wouldn't get ready for school trying to make everyone else late. After a trip over my knee she soon changed her attitude and went off to school with her bottom and thighs...
    26karen 26karen 26-30, F 19 Responses Nov 19

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    I do not think there should be an age limit to

    strictness in the home. I believe that if a child lives at home, whatever age he or she is, that child should obey the rules of the house. I had a confrontation with my 20 year old daughter this morning and I reminded her of that fact. She was not pleased with my attitude, and I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 29 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I have been spanking my girls

    since they were 11 and did not realize till recently that I have been spanking our girls in their bedroom with the window shaded up when I spanked them bare. Sence I could not see anything outside my window, I assume no one could see in. I realized that our older next door...
    Momof2spankedstill Momof2spankedstill 41-45, F 13 Responses Sep 1

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    What Has Worked For My Kiddos

    My husband and I have 2 kids and we adopted the 5-4-3-2-1-0 Now you get a spanking! method for disciplining our kids. It just as it's sounds. If 1 or both kids are doing something that we don't approve of and want them to stop we tell them to do so. If they don't then the...
    amc92 amc92 41-45, F 7 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I found arguing with mum only got her back up

    more. Of course, we all did and so did my girls to me when they were growing up. But we found when mum had decided on a spanking the best thing to do was just to climb over her knee and get it over with. Prolonged argument increased the number of whacks with the slipper...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 61-65, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Saw a bit of history repeated the other day.

    My daughters came in late on Saturday night and so they both went over my knee for a spanking for coming in after curfew. They were on a final warning I should add so they both got a good spanking from mom! They had to do there corner time the next morning as it was late while I...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    Hello, I'm Lena I've been married

    for 17 beautiful years, to a loving, playful, and wonderful man. As stated in Chemistry texts books: Opposites attract. We are an excellent example of that. I'm the strict minded parent; my husband is just the opposite. We procreated two offsprings. Catlin now age 10, and...
    lenaknowslairs lenaknowslairs 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 20

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    My mother was a very strict mom.

    Instead of letting me go or encouraging me to be independent and experience the world as it is, which we all know is pretty rough, my mother whom she believed she was doing the right thing, she shielded me from the world,and that was perhaps the worst thing she could ever do...
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife 46-50, M 2 Responses May 6

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    I wouldn't so much say I'm strict,

    but I do have rules and consequences will apply for not following those rules. We don't spank often, very rarely in fact. Generally "the look" and/or a time out takes care of a naughty child. And now with school out til after the beginning of the year, And 2 more to come...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Yesterday the eldest 2 were at it like cats

    and dogs. Every time I told them to stop they'd quieten for a couple of minutes then start again. Eventually I sent them to their rooms then when husband got home I had him take the belt to them. There were 2 sore and sorry young ladies last hight
    26karen 26karen 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 5

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    I have two girls 6 and 8 years old know.

    I am a single mum so I really can't stand them disobeying or being rude. I do not have the time and energy for dealing with that for hours. They know that they better do what I tell them the first time.
    strictsinglemom strictsinglemom 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 9

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    I discipline my daughter by different methods

    depending on situation When she was 3 , I told her every time she saw us, she must stand and greet us. Before coming into our room, she must knocked and she must saw what she needed us to do. We look at her marks and if it is over 95, I will add a star to the star chart. If...
    PleaseRandom PleaseRandom 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 27

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    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I saw one of my daughters the other day

    and we were having a laugh about something that occurred when she and her sister were in their mid-teens. We can laugh about these things from the distance of time. My husband, Rick, was a really good dad but because he was the main breadwinner of the house and worked very hard...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 61-65, F 4 Responses Nov 7

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    Unfortunately it seems my step daughter thought

    it was ok to sort through her step sister's halloween candy and take the pieces that she wanted. I think she assumed she wouldn't get caught as both girls have quite a mountain from trick or treating. I have discussed with her why it's not ok to take other people's things...
    SarahTTG SarahTTG 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 4

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    I like to think I'm a strict mom,

    because I do not allow my children to act out without facing consequences. They are generally well behaved, but when they are not, they know what to expect. I do use spankings occasionally, but generally a quick talking to, and a few swats to get their attention does the trick...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 26

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    Safe Spanking Implements

    Some months ago I came across an article "A Handbook of CP" by Maria Dolores.  Her discussion goes around the safety or danger of various spanking implements and positions.  To make her long discussion short the only kind of safe implements is one that inflicts pain only at the...
    kimistill kimistill 41-45, F 35 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    This post is my personal opinion.

    I became a mother due to a bet with my husband: Daniel. If I lost the bet, we had to adopt two children, but one this year and the other next year. I lost. We adopted a daughter: Kim, as a newborn. She was born on October 2, 2002. We adopted a son: Jay, as a newborn. He...
    neworleanslady neworleanslady 46-50, F 5 Responses May 14

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    Hi my name is kellie i'm 32,

    married & have 3 kids aged 6, 5 & 4. Being so close in age i have to be strict.My husband works away during the week so its oly me at home,we have rules & boundaries & when either are broken my kids get a smacked bottom. We don't have time outs or naughty steps they don't work...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue 31-35, F 11 Responses Mar 11

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    A young lady who's red bottom is covered with a

    thick diaper before she says goodnight to everyone is rarely going to cause a problem.
    SarahTTG SarahTTG 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Hi Everybody This is the first time I have

    written here so I will make it short and maybe just an introduction. I am, or I was, a strict Mum. I have brought up three children and still have one living at home, from time to time, when she is not at University. I am not sure how much to admit here, but I will say that I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 22 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Thought we might get through the weekend

    but it didn't happen. Caught my eldest on the internet last night after she was supposed to be asleep. I might have just told her off but she is on 'zero tolerance' as she was paddled at school in the week. So I took her down to the basement so she wouldn't wake her sister or...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I do believe in Time Out (Well sort of) Time

    out to me is after I gave a spanking you go to the corner and put your nose against the wall and put your hands on your head. You are now in Time Out for 20 minutes.
    Sternmom111 Sternmom111 36-40, F 15 Responses Nov 23

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    Children do their best

    when they have discipline -- self-disipline is of course best but generally they need to be taught how to steer themselves and not waste precious years of life learning on the their the fundamental routines of behavior that will lead them to achieve what they want. As a parent...
    Angel1950 Angel1950 61-65, F 6 Responses Feb 28

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    Intro To Me

    Im new here and happy to see there are other "spanker's" on here. My kids almost had me believing I was the last one on the planet. I see that isn't true. It isn't too popular where I live. They all love the "time outs". I just don't see that as a punishment. The only time out my...
    MaryM1026 MaryM1026 36-40, F 29 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Strict Indeed

    I'm a single mother of 3 beautiful girls. They are 17 14 and 12. I spanked them when they were toddlers. Then I moved to other methods like grounding, taking away privileges and extra chores. Nothing has been effective like a red bottom. That's why I administer spanking on all my...
    strictsinglemum strictsinglemum 51-55, F 12 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    Ella4eva Ella4eva 41-45, F 6 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    So , these are just stories of my daughter

    getting in trouble and what punishment I gave her. My daughter when home after curfew one day and I asked her what happened. She then replied "None of your business" . I scolded her that that was really rude and demanded her to apologize but she then exclaimed " Why are you...
    PleaseRandom PleaseRandom 46-50, F 14 Responses Sep 27

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    Why is going to bed at a decent time

    so hard for children? The older kids do not have a set bedtime but it has to be reasonable time when they go to bed. My 12 year old has a 10 pm bedtime 7 days a week and the 9 year old and 6 year old have a 9 pm bedtime Sunday thru Thursday and 10 pm on Friday and Saturday. lat...
    Sternmom111 Sternmom111 36-40, F 19 Responses Dec 7

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    I Am, A Pro Spanking Mom.

    Hello, I am, Carla James. I would love to exchange ideas with other moms whom spank. I have four kids,three boys Tyler 6, Tommy 8, Howie 11, and one girl Sarha 14. All my kids, I have spank many times with my hand or paddle on their bare butts. I spank each one on my lap. Tommy...
    carlajames carlajames 36-40, F 23 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Although I love my family ,

    I'm a strict mom . Ask me any questions in the comments!!!! I will try to answer all of them
    VannessaWilliam VannessaWilliam 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 17

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    Hi all. I'm new to ep

    and looking to talk to other strict parents who are on here
    Proudmama11 Proudmama11 36-40, F 4 Responses May 6

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    I Am, A Strict Mom.

    Last evening, my son Howie confessed he did not go where he said. The good part is, ... he told me before I had dicover this. I said, to him just how grateful I was for him being honest. Howie, age 11, I wouldn't thought he would tell me that he has lied to me. I really felt...
    carlajames carlajames 36-40, F 25 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Get out of jail! As a mum you don't always get

    everything right. I remember when my girls were in their early teens, I came home and noticed a couple of cakes were missing from the cupboard. I’d given the girls strict instructions they were for tea and they were not to be touched. As Beth was not at home I assumed Becky...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 61-65, F 8 Responses Oct 14

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    probably should calm down a bit

    but it works so why fix something that's not broken haha, my son now knows to do whatever I tell him or he'll be punished, simple and effective haha;)
    SarahMom1978 SarahMom1978 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 5

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    I'm very first time mom to wonderful year

    and half old boy born with heart defect his like any other energetic boy loves the outdoors, his heart just runs a little different than a normal heart.. Some might think I'm little to strict when I'm simply trying to rise my boy I'm trying to teach him manors his slowly getting...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    When I give my children an order,

    I expect it to be followed. No questions asked. If not, consequences will follow. Depending on the circumstances, could be a time out, grounding, or spanking.
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 9 Responses Sep 6

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    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 5

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    Mom Of Rob 12 Who Needs Discipline

    My son Rob is 12. He needs regular discipline, normally 1-2 times a week. When he gets punished he gets it with the belt or if he did something very bad the cane. After the spanking he gets corner time kneeling on a cheese grater or dry rice or corn. He takes the punshments well...
    lindafrimaul lindafrimaul 46-50, F 23 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    hello, I am a mom of son 7

    and daughter 10, I use spanking, if you would like to talk, would be happy to :) send me a message if you wish
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 13 Responses Feb 10

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    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 30

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    My Daughter

    I wouldn t say I m a super strict mum but Lauren knows if she deserves it I wont hesitate to pull her pants down bend her over the sofa arm and give her the brush or belt.She doesnt like it so you think she woulsd try and behave but I guess at 13 we all pushed our parents to see...
    laurensmum70 laurensmum70 41-45, F 74 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Hello New Friends

    My name is Lisa I have two daughters Megan is 12 Kate is 8. My husband is a pastor and private school principal he's not a big fan of the Internet I had to beg him to let me join. I am a strict but loving mom. Yes I believe in spanking if parents choose other discipline I have...
    Lisa1971 Lisa1971 41-45, F 33 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    Mad with my lovely daughter today.

    Came home from school having been paddled again. I thought she's learned her lesson having got one last year. Anyway the school let me know that she'd been paddled for texting with her phone in class which is strictly against the rules. The thing is she'd had one warning from...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    I always tried and wanted to be.

    My former husband and father of my two children always opposed a strict parenting style. After we divorced and he abruptly left our live. I tried to be strict but somehow I could not. Now I am married again and we four live together. John does agree that children need strict...
    marriedagain marriedagain 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 28

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    I see a lot of people use CP

    and although I agree that it is sometimes a necessity, its always the last resort in my house for most punishments. However, when it comes to lying, being disrespectful, cheating, or stealing, there's absolutely no room for discussion. The child(ren) will be spanked/paddled as...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 18

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    Related Experiences

    I know many out their don't believe in spanking. That is fine for them. In my family you don't follow the rules or are rude you will get spanked.
    Sternmom111 Sternmom111 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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    I'm looking for a strict mommy
    cowgirl122 cowgirl122 26-30, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    My mom is from Germany and she is super strict about rules and everything. It is like "Rebecca your room is untidy, Rebecca don't be home late for dinner, Rebecca finish your...
    ohbecca ohbecca 13-15, F 6 Responses Nov 27

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