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    Thought we might get through the weekend

    but it didn't happen. Caught my eldest on the internet last night after she was supposed to be asleep. I might have just told her off but she is on 'zero tolerance' as she was paddled at school in the week. So I took her down to the basement so she wouldn't wake her sister or...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    Children do their best

    when they have discipline -- self-disipline is of course best but generally they need to be taught how to steer themselves and not waste precious years of life learning on the their the fundamental routines of behavior that will lead them to achieve what they want. As a parent...
    Angel1950 Angel1950 61-65, F 7 Responses Feb 28

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    I think we need to be a little more strict with

    our kids today, I did start spanking my girls at a younger age then most on here, but I think the younger you start they can't start bad behavior, because they all ready know what could happen, I do believe in grounding a child, I don't use it as much as I should, but I did...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 7 Responses May 27

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    I have been spanking my girls

    since they were 11 and did not realize till recently that I have been spanking our girls in their bedroom with the window shaded up when I spanked them bare. Sence I could not see anything outside my window, I assume no one could see in. I realized that our older next door...
    Momof2spankedstill Momof2spankedstill 41-45, F 14 Responses Sep 1

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    So this morning I got another phone call from

    mindie's teacher, she was mouthing off really bad in class, so she sent her to the principle off with another pink slip, I really don't know what to do now, I mean this is her 3rd pink slip and she has only been in school for all most 7 weeks, so what do you guys think I should...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    So as you guys all know last sunday was easter,

    so bella and mindie their friends from the gym wanted them to go to their school, the school was having a easter party, I thought why not they would get to see their new school next year, and they will have a fun time with their friends, I heard about it from some of the gym...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 22

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    Hi all. I'm new to ep

    and looking to talk to other strict parents who are on here
    Proudmama11 Proudmama11 36-40, F 6 Responses May 6

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    What Has Worked For My Kiddos

    My husband and I have 2 kids and we adopted the 5-4-3-2-1-0 Now you get a spanking! method for disciplining our kids. It just as it's sounds. If 1 or both kids are doing something that we don't approve of and want them to stop we tell them to do so. If they don't then the...
    amc92 amc92 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    Hi Everybody This is the first time I have

    written here so I will make it short and maybe just an introduction. I am, or I was, a strict Mum. I have brought up three children and still have one living at home, from time to time, when she is not at University. I am not sure how much to admit here, but I will say that I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 23 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I'm very first time mom to wonderful year

    and half old boy born with heart defect his like any other energetic boy loves the outdoors, his heart just runs a little different than a normal heart.. Some might think I'm little to strict when I'm simply trying to rise my boy I'm trying to teach him manors his slowly getting...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 15

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    probably should calm down a bit

    but it works so why fix something that's not broken haha, my son now knows to do whatever I tell him or he'll be punished, simple and effective haha;)
    SarahMom1978 SarahMom1978 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 5

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    So , these are just stories of my daughter

    getting in trouble and what punishment I gave her. My daughter when home after curfew one day and I asked her what happened. She then replied "None of your business" . I scolded her that that was really rude and demanded her to apologize but she then exclaimed " Why are you...
    PleaseRandom PleaseRandom 46-50, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I give my children an order,

    I expect it to be followed. No questions asked. If not, consequences will follow. Depending on the circumstances, could be a time out, grounding, or spanking.
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 9 Responses Sep 6

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    So yesterday we had a doctor appointment

    for the girls, they needed a few shots, and I wanted to get back on birth control, this is our family doctor, she is just amazing, but she came to our home so we didn't even have to go to her office, that saved a lot of time, but omg samantha and bella acted terrible with the...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Strict Mom

    Hi, I'm new here. My name is Lena and I have two girls 12 and 14. I'm a strong believer in disciplining my kids and spanking as a consequence is a big part of this. Most spankings are given in the kitchen, I don't know why but it's always been that way. Start out giving a...
    StrictMomLena StrictMomLena 41-45, F 36 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Intro To Me

    Im new here and happy to see there are other "spanker's" on here. My kids almost had me believing I was the last one on the planet. I see that isn't true. It isn't too popular where I live. They all love the "time outs". I just don't see that as a punishment. The only time out my...
    MaryM1026 MaryM1026 36-40, F 31 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Empty Nest

    I am a 46 year old mother suffering from empty nest syndrome. Are there any young ladies (18 years old and up) who feel they still need a little maternal guidance from time to time?
    LizMom123 LizMom123 46-50, F 12 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    I Discipline My Children My stepdaughter,

    In a recently blended family, there can be hiccups and struggles. One can be rules and discipline. My new husband has two girls who have been raised in... lets call it a permissive household. Their mother passed away when the younger was still an infant, and their father never...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 21

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    I see a lot of people use CP

    and although I agree that it is sometimes a necessity, its always the last resort in my house for most punishments. However, when it comes to lying, being disrespectful, cheating, or stealing, there's absolutely no room for discussion. The child(ren) will be spanked/paddled as...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 18

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    I'm 19 and just moved back in with my mom

    after I got into some trouble. She's not happy with me and we've agreed that I am going to continue getting spanked as needed while I live with her. She wants me to decide how its done, so i want some advice. I used to get spanked across her lap, underwear rolled down, with a...
    rockonrockers68 rockonrockers68 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I discipline my daughter by different methods

    depending on situation When she was 3 , I told her every time she saw us, she must stand and greet us. Before coming into our room, she must knocked and she must saw what she needed us to do. We look at her marks and if it is over 95, I will add a star to the star chart. If...
    PleaseRandom PleaseRandom 46-50, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Mom Of Rob 12 Who Needs Discipline

    My son Rob is 12. He needs regular discipline, normally 1-2 times a week. When he gets punished he gets it with the belt or if he did something very bad the cane. After the spanking he gets corner time kneeling on a cheese grater or dry rice or corn. He takes the punshments well...
    lindafrimaul lindafrimaul 46-50, F 25 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    So this has not been Mindie's day at all

    so fare. I told mindie last night at dinner to finish up her home work for school in the morning, she did say yes mommy I will, well this morning at breakfast I ask her if I could check her home work, she was a bit nervous giving me it, I knew something was up with her home work...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I have four grown children

    and one granddaughter (15) who lives with me. I signed up here because my granddaughter had an account and I don't allow her on social media unless I'm also on it and I know what she's up to. Looking forward to meeting other strict moms.
    alicecj alicecj 51-55, F 10 Responses Jun 5

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    I have two girls 6 and 8 years old know.

    I am a single mum so I really can't stand them disobeying or being rude. I do not have the time and energy for dealing with that for hours. They know that they better do what I tell them the first time.
    strictsinglemom strictsinglemom 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 9

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    A young lady who's red bottom is covered with a

    thick diaper before she says goodnight to everyone is rarely going to cause a problem.
    SarahTTG SarahTTG 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    I do not think there should be an age limit to

    strictness in the home. I believe that if a child lives at home, whatever age he or she is, that child should obey the rules of the house. I had a confrontation with my 20 year old daughter this morning and I reminded her of that fact. She was not pleased with my attitude, and I...
    helen01041957 helen01041957 56-60, F 32 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 30

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    My mother was a very strict mom.

    Instead of letting me go or encouraging me to be independent and experience the world as it is, which we all know is pretty rough, my mother whom she believed she was doing the right thing, she shielded me from the world,and that was perhaps the worst thing she could ever do...
    TheBrooklynKid TheBrooklynKid 46-50, M 2 Responses May 6

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    Safe Spanking Implements

    Some months ago I came across an article "A Handbook of CP" by Maria Dolores.  Her discussion goes around the safety or danger of various spanking implements and positions.  To make her long discussion short the only kind of safe implements is one that inflicts pain only at the...
    kimistill kimistill 41-45, F 36 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    I Am, A Strict Mom.

    Last evening, my son Howie confessed he did not go where he said. The good part is, ... he told me before I had dicover this. I said, to him just how grateful I was for him being honest. Howie, age 11, I wouldn't thought he would tell me that he has lied to me. I really felt...
    carlajames carlajames 36-40, F 24 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Hello New Friends

    My name is Lisa I have two daughters Megan is 12 Kate is 8. My husband is a pastor and private school principal he's not a big fan of the Internet I had to beg him to let me join. I am a strict but loving mom. Yes I believe in spanking if parents choose other discipline I have...
    Lisa1971 Lisa1971 41-45, F 28 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    Strict Indeed

    I'm a single mother of 3 beautiful girls. They are 17 14 and 12. I spanked them when they were toddlers. Then I moved to other methods like grounding, taking away privileges and extra chores. Nothing has been effective like a red bottom. That's why I administer spanking on all my...
    strictsinglemum strictsinglemum 51-55, F 11 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    Bless This House

    I am the mother of four children, Brianna, who is four, Ian, who just turned eight, Kylie who is 13 going on 14, and Evan, who is 18 and is about to move out of the house!! I am so extremely blessed to be mothering such a bunch of kids. But I can't take all of the credit. I am a...
    spankingmom4 spankingmom4 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    i am a pro spanking mom

    and don t hesitate to give pretty hard spankings to my teenagers...but since a few moths a made an disturbing experience...i got arroused during spankings...during my last spanking i got soaking wet...how shamefull and strange...is their any other mom, who made the same...
    ruthmom ruthmom 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 17

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    My Daughter

    I wouldn t say I m a super strict mum but Lauren knows if she deserves it I wont hesitate to pull her pants down bend her over the sofa arm and give her the brush or belt.She doesnt like it so you think she woulsd try and behave but I guess at 13 we all pushed our parents to see...
    laurensmum70 laurensmum70 41-45, F 78 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    hello, I am a mom of son 7

    and daughter 10, I use spanking, if you would like to talk, would be happy to :) send me a message if you wish
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 12 Responses Feb 10

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    I Am, A Pro Spanking Mom.

    Hello, I am, Carla James. I would love to exchange ideas with other moms whom spank. I have four kids,three boys Tyler 6, Tommy 8, Howie 11, and one girl Sarha 14. All my kids, I have spank many times with my hand or paddle on their bare butts. I spank each one on my lap. Tommy...
    carlajames carlajames 36-40, F 24 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Hi my name is kellie i'm 32,

    married & have 3 kids aged 6, 5 & 4. Being so close in age i have to be strict.My husband works away during the week so its oly me at home,we have rules & boundaries & when either are broken my kids get a smacked bottom. We don't have time outs or naughty steps they don't work...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 11

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    This post is my personal opinion.

    I became a mother due to a bet with my husband: Daniel. If I lost the bet, we had to adopt two children, but one this year and the other next year. I lost. We adopted a daughter: Kim, as a newborn. She was born on October 2, 2002. We adopted a son: Jay, as a newborn. He...
    neworleanslady neworleanslady 46-50, F 4 Responses May 14

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    So yesterday was not a very good day

    for the kids at all, I am watching 3 kids for a friend, their parents are out of town for a week, so my house is very crazy right now, I do have permission to spank the girls and the boy if they need to be, I have been friends with sam since we was little, so I know her very...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Not As Strict As I Am Fair,

    As a single mother and professional, my daughter knows that teamwork is important to keep our little home running. She understands responsibility and on most days she does her part to help out. We have an open and honest relationship and many things are negotiable. But , there...
    MommaAlice MommaAlice 46-50, F 18 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Hello, I'm Lena I've been married

    for 17 beautiful years, to a loving, playful, and wonderful man. As stated in Chemistry texts books: Opposites attract. We are an excellent example of that. I'm the strict minded parent; my husband is just the opposite. We procreated two offsprings. Catlin now age 10, and...
    lenaknowslairs lenaknowslairs 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 20

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    Mad with my lovely daughter today.

    Came home from school having been paddled again. I thought she's learned her lesson having got one last year. Anyway the school let me know that she'd been paddled for texting with her phone in class which is strictly against the rules. The thing is she'd had one warning from...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    In my own opinion I believe the younger you

    start spanking the better it will work, I know there is a lot of oh what is that word I am thinking of, like mix feelings with it I guess, I do use a lot of different tools with my 3 girls and even with my own spankings, my ex and my ex husband use on me, so I know just how some...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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