I Am a Strong and Independant Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 328 People

    About Me

    Choleric Oasis Behold her, single in the field Choleric by nature, 'tis her shield Dynamic and active, moves quickly to action Impulsive and decisive, makes rash decisions. Wide-eyed and innocent, too independent, Unemotional - so they say I am sorry, it is hard to say Enjoys...
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    Sep 17, 2012

    Don't be a women that needs a man.

    .. Be a women a man needs!!
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2014

    The problem with keeping our emotions to

    ourselves.. Being that strong, stoic type is that peeps assume we are cold, heartless. That we don't struggle just like everyone else. Just because we say we are fine, doesn't mean we are. Just because we aren't able to express our empathy in the same ways doesn't mean we don't...
    CovertInk CovertInk
    31-35, F
    Jul 17, 2015

    I'm a Sucker For Rosie

    Everytime I see that poster/pic, it just makes me feel good. Its almost like an instant pep talk. Am I alone here? 
    DuskBeforeDawn DuskBeforeDawn
    26-30, F
    Sep 7, 2009


    A brief history. I divorced a few years ago now, my husband was an alcoholic gambler. We had two beautiful daughters who are now 18 and 21. The eldest went off to university and returned 3 years later with an honours degree. The youngest (being most like her father) hated me for...
    deleted deleted
    63 Responses Jan 7, 2011

    Marilyn Monroe said her proudest achievement

    was being able to say she was never a "kept woman"... I think I feel the same way.
    marladurden13 marladurden13
    41-45, F
    Dec 28, 2014

    I've Got The Ovaries To Do This! :d

    Contrary to what people might think, I'm actually not a man hater (well, I do hate some machos I personally know but that is a tiny minority).I respect them.I was raised to respect people:"You don't have to love me, but you will respect me", was my parent's motto.I've even been...
    Thepinkcoconut Thepinkcoconut
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2012
    girlfaith girlfaith
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2013

    Why Do Men Think They Can Tame The Beast

    Now I know I don't have everything all figured out, but I've come to some conclusions during a recent conversation with my 18 year old daughter.  She is a cute little thing with a envious body (bigger breasts than me) and super smart in school.  She was telling me that...
    randomthoughts randomthoughts
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Oct 15, 2009

    This song pretty much says it all.

    . No one can own me. You don't own me - Grace (feat G-Easy) http://youtu.be/8SeRU_ZPDkE
    CovertInk CovertInk
    31-35, F
    Aug 29, 2015

    Life Goes On. :)

    Life goes on. As long the stars light up the sky, the moon comes up at night, &the sun rises in the morning, I'm going to live each day like it's my last. I'm going to be happy, I'm going to do the things that make me happy. There's no time for tears, no time for regrets. I'm a...
    jlynn24 jlynn24
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2013

    Wonder Woman

    Here I am 28yo.. I have been through everything happen in my life. Yes.. I did.. by myself. I knew that I'm strong.. I'm strong enough to fight my comfort zone... you know.. everything you've ever wanted is right outside your comfort zone.. Wonder woman is not enough if I'm doing...
    flyingfish19 flyingfish19
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2013
    prettyprude prettyprude
    31-35, F
    Dec 10, 2015
    sexydivide sexydivide
    36-40, F
    Mar 25, 2015

    Was Raised to Be

    My mother is a very strong and independent woman... so she raised her daughters to be so too. We had no choice or say in the matter. =p My mother asks a lot a questions in her lifetime, so it was of a small wonder that I was born very quizzical myself. Though, I drove my parents...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 5, 2009

    My Story

    My first EP story. :) Here goes.. I am only 24 years old, but I have been through a lot and I can proudly say I am a strong and independant woman. :) In my childhood, I was physically abused by my father, lived in shelters and was even homeless at the age of 16, developed a drug...
    seriona seriona
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2012
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2014

    You feel so strong and self sufficient

    that it's hard for you to need/want a man. If you need/want one,your standard will be very high and you don't want to just settle.
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 24, 2015

    Can't Afford Not To Be

    I'm the only girl in my house, and I have to be strong for me. I don't have much of a choice. I can't let myself be swept away. Living in a house of guys, I'm expected to be just as strong as they are, if not physically, at least mentally. And I've always been independent. My mom...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180
    18-21, F
    Jan 16, 2012

    When you lose something good,

    don’t think of it as a loss, but as an experience that gets you back on the path you were meant to travel...:-)
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 19, 2015

    I got here by myself.

    I did it by myself. My achievements I owe only to God and my mentor, my Mother. My parents raised a strong, independant woman. I don't cry. I have been told I intimidate people (unintentionally, of course). I have no time for weakness. But sometimes, I feel envious of all those...
    OrangeApple85 OrangeApple85
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 10, 2014

    I Am Who I Am

    I am a strong, independent woman. Not because that is what I originally choose, but it was forced upon me. My father’s psychological abuse of my mother, forced her to leave him; so she could fulfill her duties as a mother to me. In my early twenties, I had a choice, I could...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Nov 9, 2010

    Hi, I was wondering if anyone women could take

    just five minutes out of their day to complete this survey. There are only 10 questions. It is about feminism, strong and brave women, heroines and role models. It is for an important assignment so it would be so much help if you could do this for me. Thank you so much! http...
    gracielynn1 gracielynn1
    22-25, F
    Apr 4, 2015

    Throughout my life I'm

    so glad to get through my struggles and try help my problems and throughout the years I'm glad to become strong and independent girl who focus on her life, school, and her future and most of all I ignore the people who are going to bring me down or who going to try ruining my...
    vivienhuang13 vivienhuang13
    16-17, F
    Aug 31, 2014

    Sitting On a Crown of Thorns...

    Throughout my life I have become a strong and independant woman. It was not a lifestyle choice but a situation thrust upon me in a desperate attempt to survive. Like gasping for air, I crawled my way up from an unhappy previous life and adapted like a chameleon to it's new...
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    3 Responses Jul 3, 2009

    I've been through a lot in life

    but I stayed strong, lively and happy. Pains and hurts are my neighbors but LOVE, KINDNESS and HAPPINESS are my best friends, residing at home...:-))
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09
    46-50, F
    Mar 26, 2015

    I Seek To Worship A Strong And Independent Woman

    i wish to do that because i think She, and all females, are of the Superior Gender. i only hope to be worthy of their affection in return.
    biker2bfemmed biker2bfemmed
    51-55, M
    Apr 2, 2012

    I turned 25 in February

    and decided to take some time to look back on my life and where I am now. And while I'm not exactly where I thought I would be at a quarter of a century old, I can say that I'm proud of what I've achieved. I can afford to live in my own place with no roommates, I take care of my...
    SolitarySummer SolitarySummer
    26-30, F
    May 1, 2014

    Meant To Be

    I have been searching all my life to find my place in the world. I'm still searching. Its such a long journey. I wonder will I ever reach my destiny. The process has been a struggle. In my quest I have found along the way how tough and naturally independent I am. Things that have...
    4vrUnique 4vrUnique
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

    Maybe Someday

    I would like to be a more dependable person. Someone who knows what she is doing at what is going on around her. At the moment, I'm lucky if I survive the day without tripping on my on feet. It feels like I lack the basic skills in everyday living. Cooking and cleaning, that...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2010

    Someday all the pieces will come together.

    Unimaginably good things will transpire in your life, even if everything doesn’t turn out exactly the way you had anticipated. And you will look back at the times that have passed, smile, and ask yourself, “How did I get through all of that?”
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 11, 2015

    ... Because I know my worth

    and what I deserve in life
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2015

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