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I Am a Submissive Female

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 827 People

    Sweet Memories...

    So i'm sitting here, daydreaming about some of the good times i have had as a sub, and decide i want to write some down and share them... There was the time when my Dom told me to go out to the parking lot where we both had left our cars (we worked at the same place) on a cold...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2013

    A male dom looking for a female submissive to

    own I will make you my slave, use you , you will do as I please with you and in return you will get the satisfaction of pleasing me with your body. If you are interested message me here or on ki,k , it's 1785702
    deleted deleted
    Jan 21, 2015

    The Dom Acid Test

    So i came across this and thought it would be good to share... take from it what you like, feel free to comment as you choose... The term 'Acid Test' is an old prospecting term. A powerful acid can dissolve most base metals in a matter of minutes. However, gold will stand up to...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2013

    A While Ago.....

    I while ago I met someone who changed my world. I don't have much for regrets in my life, for the most part i don't regret anything from my past, but I do regret him. I regret rejecting him. I had the chance to be happy and I passed it up out of fear. I regret rejecting him...
    dureek101 dureek101
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 21, 2013

    Thoughts Of You...

    i sit here, trying to focus on work, but thoughts of you keep distracting me... i prepare dinner, and thoughts of you coming up behind me, bending me over the counter, and just taking me keep distracting me... i drive to work, and thoughts of you telling me to pull over so...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2013

    Im not a woman or submissive

    but love chatting to them.. Newbies if you have questions feel free to ask..
    guyhere4u guyhere4u
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 8, 2014

    I Am Slave

    I have this recurring fantasy in which I am the submissive pet of a Master who is showing me off to all my former co-workers, acquaintances, and friends. It is always the same theme, though it does vary from time to time in the actual events that happen. But it always starts me...
    PrincessAshmira PrincessAshmira
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 18, 2012

    I Want...

    i want you to claim me... i want you to own me... i want you to put your collar around my neck... i want you to command me... i want you to control me... i want you to determine what i need to do to serve you best... i want you to have power over me, and thus make me safe... i...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2013

    Real Life 50 Shades

    I'm a submissive/dominant female, I can play both roles depending on the day, and I enjoy taking both roles at various times. In fact I live a very "fifty shades" type life, only I'm the one who frightens at being touched (I was sexually assaulted at 13) however I've learned to...
    hiddenbabe hiddenbabe
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

    I would love to find a strict,

    strong-willed, Mistress to control me and push my limits, (slowly).
    Kikisweetpea Kikisweetpea
    22-25, F
    Mar 8, 2015
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 11, 2015

    Once A *****, Always A ***** Chapter 2

    My womb was crying out for another baby long before I recovered from giving birth for the first time, and I couldn't wait to experience all the wonderful sensations of pregnancy once again. I had popped out my darling boys a few short months before my 19th birthday, and my...
    irishdude3881 irishdude3881
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Mar 27, 2012

    Auction Fantasy - Hot Submission Experience

    What do you think of this fantasy - You are a female sub and your master brings you to an auction where you are to be sold. You could later find out that your master set this auction up since he wanted you to have the experience of being sold like an object. He wanted you to...
    irishdude3881 irishdude3881
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

    DIY Kink: Large dog's choke chain + locks make

    a nice adjustable cuff that can be used on feet or hands. [Photo] 
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 11, 2015

    Curious About My Online Sir's Rights...

    So I have been on EP for about a month and boy oh boy, have I had my eyes opened... I have been "approached" several times by guys (as far as I know, they are guys! haha), offering to be my Dom, my Master, my Sir, or my Daddy... Essentially, I have turned them all down because...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2013

    The "Story Of O" Changed My Life

    I remember when I first began to realize that I was sexually submissive. My ex-husband and I hadn't lived in Florida long and the only swingers' club in town had recently burned down. This was before we had a computer and, with no swing club in town and our ad in a ...
    SingleNicole SingleNicole
    46-50, F
    4 Responses May 30, 2010

    Think Im Being Used By Best Friend

    So my best friend of many years is starting to **** me off and I don't know how to approach it. We've always been super close. Even to the point of being lovers. But lately she only seems to want to hang out if she has something to gain by it. A ride ( since she doesn't drive...
    EmeraldGypsy EmeraldGypsy
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2013
    imslavetrainer imslavetrainer
    22-25, M
    Jun 30, 2015

    i am a submissive, but i am not

    submissive Some may think this is a contradiction, but i assure you, it is not. Ah the difference between a noun and an adjective. Please bear with me, i promise i won’t make this grammar lesson too long, confusing or even boring! If you can just keep reading, i think i can...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds
    46-50, F
    Jan 27, 2014

    Vanilla Is Only Good For Ice Cream!

    Let's say I'm your sub. It's Sat night, and you're feeling like you want to go out, hit some bars, have a few drinks. You ask me, Do I feel like doing that, or do I want to stay in for the night? I, as always, respond honestly: I really would rather stay in, thanks, but I will...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2013

    The 2 Don't Always Go Together

    I understand that a lot of Dominates and submissives are into S and m but I hate that the two always seem to be synonymous to people. I am as submissive as they come and I have no desire to feel pain or be disgraced. I will accept it if that is what makes My Love happy, but I in...
    mperry104 mperry104
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2013

    I'm a Dom looking for his sub If you are

    interested and 18 or older female My name is Kris and you can contact me on here
    kdefreitas kdefreitas
    22-25, M
    Jun 16, 2015

    I Am A Submissive Female And Nobody Knows It

    I long to be controlled sexually. I want to have him see that I am always wet and ready to be used. Bend me over to **** me. Make me suck you hard. Maybe open to group play. Talk dirty to me and make me want it.
    yourbaldheadslut yourbaldheadslut
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2013

    I Have Never Had A Master

    I have always been submissive and have always played the submissive role in bed, but I have never had an actual "Dom" or "Master" I love to please and I love to be punished. Message me if you wanna control me! ;)
    SammiBee23 SammiBee23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2013

    I Am Writing This Very Detailed To Remember It. Sorry...

    I was sitting at the bar, in white strapless dress, my hair blonde caressing my upper thighs and ***.I was drinking a glass of wine, thinking about going back to the room. I was paying my tab, when you walked up to me, you gently brushed your fingers through my hair as you walked...
    DesertSage DesertSage
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Nov 30, 2013

    I'm looking for a sub ,

    preferably long term, who is willing to be obedient. In return you will be taken care of and kept safe. I understand submission comes after respect and that Dosent happen in a day , but I'm patient. If you are interested, pm me or ki-k me at 1785702
    deleted deleted
    Jun 2, 2015

    There is not a more precious gift

    than a woman who gives her submission to a man. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jun 30, 2014

    Only To One Man

    I am a submissive female But only to one man alone I am only accountable to one Master The rest of the men are not to be treated the same. My Husband encourages me to be a strong female outside of the bedroom chamber He teaches me how to mirror his masculinity when it comes to...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    Jul 30, 2012

    Thankfully Yours

    Four days in shame and He has now taken mercy on me. i lay here spent after His firm punishment followed by His firm generosity ;). i have never felt better, nor more sure of who i am or where i want to be. i revel in His warmth and strength. i thrive in His lessons and at His...
    BellealaViolet BellealaViolet
    26-30, F
    Jan 14, 2013

    Submissive But Life Does Not Allow It

    I am a Submissive woman and yet I find myself alone, raising a boy and in order to maintain a life for my son, I am forced in a dominate role. Not speaking in relationship to parenting but simply within the corporate arena. I love to give, love it when a man controls, love it...
    SDM12 SDM12
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Nov 19, 2012

    But only to HIM. I cannot tolerate 'men'

    who see I identify as submissive, and believe that to mean I will submit to anyone that demands it. Yeah, good luck with that buddy, lol. He tells me I am naturally submissive, which to him is a wonderful thing. I am not playing a part, or putting on an act to get what I want...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 31, 2015

    Once A *****, Always A *****

    I guess I always had a high sex drive. Adopted into a devout Catholic family, I was constantly deluged with propaganda that ran contrary to my throbbing sexual desires. My stepfather was a stern authority figure. It seemed as if he never let me out of the house long enough to...
    irishdude3881 irishdude3881
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 27, 2012


    He speaks to me in a way I feel. His strength comes through his voice. His eyes show me the expectations. I quickly comply, Yes Mister, anything you say. I have never realized my potential through his guidance.
    BandagedBabe BandagedBabe
    31-35, F
    Nov 17, 2013

    The Hotel Manager

    On a business trip to Zambia last week, I was greeted by an enthusiastic young Dutch lady, who was managing the hotel I was staying in. She had been on the job only a few weeks, and she was all smiles and laughs, and very friendly and polite. Even though she had taken up a...
    drfessee drfessee
    36-40, M
    Nov 15, 2013

    looking for a submissive female,

    who will do exactly as i say, this would be ONLINE, not in person. PM me if interested.
    Pm3311 Pm3311
    18-21, M
    Dec 21, 2015


    I've always considered myself a strong willed person that doesn't bend to anyones will, maybe more like an alpha female, and I've been told that I'm a true alpha female. The other day reminded me just how submissive I am though. I was showing a co-worker my tattoo, he's about 12...
    dureek101 dureek101
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2013

    I am submissive by choice.

    I live to please people, I have always had that about me. Its something that is like set in stone deep down in my bones. I am happy when I am making others happy, and when I make others feel good. Nothing makes me happier, than knowing i'm the reason behind someone's happiness...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 17, 2014

    Heya ladies, I'm getting pretty tired of being

    told, “You can't write this or that.” I've decided that's ok though because I've found a new website. I've only been here for 2 weeks but it's 100% FREE with thousands of active open minded people like us. It's called Secret Erotica . Com. I hope you guys don't read this as...
    DevilishTongue DevilishTongue
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    It Was Meant To Be This Way

    I think women should be humble and submissive because that is how nature wanted us. All I want in the future is to be a good obedient wife to a strong dominant husband. I think we should provide our men with all they need to be happy and i think that it is our duty to give them...
    mara2586 mara2586
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Sep 28, 2013

    Not In the 'Traditional' Sense, But..... imagination yearns for a fantasy such as this. At times, I long to be directed, controlled, objectified and taken by a strong, handsome gentleman, of my choice. To have him revel in whatever lush and sensual play that pleases him, would set my pulse and sexuality racing...
    sassyshadowme sassyshadowme
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2013

    Sex Is Great, But Submission Is Sublime...

    i have a bf, sure, he's vanilla, but i get as much sex as i want... one can go out, meet people, hook up, and the sex is exciting because it's probably just a one-nighter, no strings... i have toys and my fingers know exactly what to do to make me *** - hard! - and are always...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    I am a very submissive person.

    I've always been in a relationship where the man is in full control. But now I'm with my soon to be husband and he is completely different from the guys I've been with before! I love him and love how sweet he is but I can't help but miss being completely submissive like I use to...
    Foreveryoung90 Foreveryoung90
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2014

    For submissive WOMEN only.

    my group
    Sweetnlow1979 Sweetnlow1979
    31-35, F
    Apr 18

    I don't like copy-pasting my stories -

    but I might just do it in a minute! There's another similar one coming up next!!! =O Anyway, yes - I am submissive - and I'm a female! Yippee - I joined the right experience ;D Thank god I didn't accidentally join the experience about being a hairy, octogenarian, German...
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    46-50, F
    Oct 21, 2014

    The difference between playing

    and living... Recently i posted a few stories, pieces of erotic fiction, that used the taboo kinks of lactation and ****** as the spark. While i admit to finding both topics "hot," the truth is that i only write those stories to titillate myself and others, not because i am...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds
    46-50, F
    Jan 4, 2014

    I need a woman dom to make me lose weight.

    The only way I improve is to be torn down and built back up so I need a woman who is tough on me and not afraid to shame me for what I look like now and when I mess up and motivate me with what I can be. It's ok to hurt my feelings because I need the truth. I am not a fast...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 14


    am looking 4 a submissive female to answer to only me and do every thing to please me!!!
    pugdog5150 pugdog5150
    41-45, M
    Aug 7, 2012
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