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I Am a Submissive In Bed

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 673 People

    I am new to the submissive lifestyle.

    Any one with advice I will accep!
    cjjb55 cjjb55
    41-45, F
    Nov 22, 2014

    I love being submissive.

    It's the best feeling ever.
    halfpace halfpace
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    Are you a Daddy?? This is how I feel on the

    name Daddy for my SO. But he doesn't like that. Funny thing is I have called him daddy for years. But when we started DD it caught on and he said nope. But I mainly said it as "daddys home!" Hi daddy" but with the kids around. I dint know about saying it all the time, but I...
    silencedshy silencedshy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2015

    But if you try bossing me around out of bed,

    I assure you things will not go as planned.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2014

    I am submissive in bed howeverrrrrr it doesnt

    mean i like to be humiliated NO !! I want to be treated with respect but aggressive love and if i am awfully attracted to my man i might be on his discretion totally but respect and wild love is the condition !!!!
    anasteel2 anasteel2
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2014

    I like it when a guy says,

    "Let's see.... what position do I want you in..." then he puts me in that position.
    Therealjason Therealjason
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2015

    I don't mind participating during sex

    but I LOVE being bent over and being in missionary and doggy style positions. Having a man over me or holding me down is such a huge turn on for me.
    chubbyblkgirl chubbyblkgirl
    22-25, F
    6 Responses May 24, 2015

    I am looking for a dom.

    I am new to this and need someone that is a excellent teacher as I am willing to learn. Please message me if you are interested I am young, blonde and a size 8. 😀
    vanilla12344 vanilla12344
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 9, 2014

    I'm completely submissive in bed!

    My husband chooses when & where we have sex,what position we have sex in & what we do.Its a wonderful feeling being told what to & for how long,as long as I'm pleasing my man,I'm happy.
    Shelley79 Shelley79
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2015

    In bed, I'm yours. In life,

    you tell me what to do, there's a good chance I'll punch you or do the opposite. Or both.
    NekoAnya NekoAnya
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    Being Submissive,

    For me, so much of my life I was in control. When it came to my family, I was the one always having to make the phone calls, I was the one always having to do the inviting, "care if I come over, care if we do this." At work, I became a manager, and I was calling all the shots...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Aug 9, 2010

    My boyfriend only wants to spank me

    when I've been 'naughty' and I was wondering what I could do that would count as being 'naughty' to get spanked?
    PunkAndDisorderly PunkAndDisorderly
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2014

    I admit to having long term curiosity about the

    Dom/Sub sexual relationship and in particular the masochistic woman. Is there a MATURE WOMAN hare who can explain to me what she enjoys about being spanked? If you are aged 13 - 15 years then go outside and play. This game is not for you.
    will999 will999
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2014

    We decided we would "play" the other night.

    So I came to him with the toy box. Inside we have sensitivity creams, lubes (which I never need) vibrators etc. You name it we have it, almost. He tells me to lay back and he spreads my legs. My head rested on a pillow and my legs wide open with him in between. He takes the...
    silencedshy silencedshy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2014
    cjjb55 cjjb55
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2014

    I'm more introverted

    so in bed I would prefer if my partner was more dominant and forceful.
    pixiestar100 pixiestar100
    22-25, F
    Aug 11, 2014

    submission just seems

    so pleasuring for some reason. And I love Dominant makes, I can't stand submissive people because I like the feeling of being controlled sexually.
    torrest1031 torrest1031
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    I'm submissive in general

    so in bed absolutely
    briannarenee briannarenee
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 8, 2014
    NekoAnya NekoAnya
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    Taking Orders

    In bed, there is nothing that turns me on more than being submissive. To have a guy pull my hair or slap my *** gives me about half of the stimulation I need to ***. I love feeling like a "good girl" and I love making them feel like a man.
    melancolleen melancolleen
    18-21, F
    Dec 16, 2009

    I will do as you wish sir.

    I am yours, to please you. Only you.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 24, 2014
    Suhanihotty Suhanihotty
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jan 31, 2016

    So I've been talking with a guy about dom/sub

    relationships for awhile, and about potentially being his sub. We met up last night and we had some fun and he is thinking about collaring me! Depending on how tonight goes I may have a master by morning 😊 I'll probably post more tomorrow, I am super pleased with how well we...
    NeedingSomeone247 NeedingSomeone247
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2014

    I realized to be submissive

    before marriage accepting a little play with my future husband and another guy. After marriage we had other experience and I had been the centre of attention by a dominant mature couple.
    Homemakermom Homemakermom
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jul 26, 2014

    I like having a man in control of me,

    there's something comforting about it, and it makes me feel like he can protect me. So it's alll good <3
    LuciLeft LuciLeft
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 4, 2014

    In Bed

    In bed, I like to be submissive.  In all other areas of my life I am the dominant one making constant decisions throughout my life whether at work, at home, or with family.  SO when it comes to the bedroom, I like to take a backseat and have my partner take control...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2009

    I am very submissive in bed.

    Only has a brief experience beige my ex left. Has always been a long time fantasy of mine. Would love to be able to explore this more. Have never been spanked, submitted to a alpha male, or tried any type of anal, with myself on the receiving end. How maybe someday, I'll be able...
    Subbie4You Subbie4You
    41-45, M
    1 Response Aug 18, 2014

    I am submissive in the bedroom

    but all other aspects I control I very much love being choked don't know why but omg
    unknown272014 unknown272014
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    I am a submissive in bed

    when I am dressed and letting my feminine inner self show
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2014
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