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I Am A Submissive, Not An Idiot

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    <3 Love Letter To Sir <3

    Breathe .... No fear,,,. Total openness.... I belong to you, I am yours to assist you in pleasure. I will kiss your body and lick your feet as I suck passion marks over you.... Ill kneel before you and offer myself to you completely and open my mouth and enjoy your growing...
    LbQueen961 LbQueen961 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Selections taken from http://heldbyher.

    blogspot.com/2012/04/what-submissive-men-crave.html: Submissive men crave some really basic things in a relationship. To a person that is not submissive these cravings may appear strange or off base. In the mind of the submissive man they are not strange at all, quite the...
    rickie53 rickie53 41-45, M Jan 26

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Jun 29, 2013

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    The Real Truth!

    I am an owned, registered slave to an amazing man. With that being said, I was writing a story in another group, that ended up bringing me into this to write a story. Submissives & slaves may be different & have different roles in the lifestyle, but they are similar in the fact...
    candyi candyi 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2013

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    Just A Quiz

    Switch 93% Submissive 93% Experimental 93% Bondage 82% Masochist 79% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 75% Sadist 64% Dominant 61% Degradation 57% Vanilla 21%
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 9, 2013

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    I Have To Wonder...

    ...Why it is that on so many sites, so many Dominant men and women see that I have a very large submissive streak and somehow use this information to reach the conclusion that I am stupid. I really hate it when people assume I have a single-digit IQ just because of what I like in...
    BlissfullyBruised BlissfullyBruised 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    Glad Your Home Darling

    Today I wanted to be creative when my husband got home from a stressful day at work. I fixed a nice dinner and desided to dance for him. I was in the color guard though high school and did dance in college. So I have experience. My husband works as a SWAT team member so his job...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 2 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Confused, Sort-of Submissive?

    I am confused as all hell. This is acutally something that has confused me for about two years and now I have finally found somewhere to ask people for advice! So here it goes.... I want to be submissive, sort of. In regular every day life I am a huge people person with a...
    Marpessa Marpessa 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    Something To Share

    My master loves me with all his heart. He cannot live without me nor can I without him. The lesson he is teaching is a hard one for me to learn. This lesson is for me to love myself, mind body and soul. We are apart right now and I bid his will thru Skype, phone and laptop. I am...
    unwantedlies unwantedlies 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    Not An Idiot

    In my marriage i knew i wa personally submissive, he told me if i could go somewhere, he gave me my spending allowance (even though i put my entire check in his account) but a "submissive I was not" so we divorced. Three years later i met my "Master" who showed me that with my...
    13kitten13 13kitten13 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

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    It's Been Said Million Times But I'm No Different.

    Hi Everyone!!! Thank you in advance for your comments! My name is Nicollette. I'm 23 y/o (just turned :D yay me!!). I was first introduced to this possible lifestyle a few days ago when my friend recommended that I read this book. I know what your thinking a lot of people read...
    NicolletteChloe NicolletteChloe 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    Diary Of A Submissive

    Master B has asked me to meet him at the playroom.My instructions are.My heighest heels black panties and hair down. Its 6.30pm.I knock on the door bow my head and wait.The door opens and sir takes my hand.Good evening Katie.Good evening sir.Sir walk me 8 steps in and pushes me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 43 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    Need Advice ...

    Just started exploring the my submissive side on line. I am not a submissive personality per se.But do want it as part of my romantic/sexual life. May be online is the worst place to start! Any way for those who have more experience on this I had a question. I was chatting online...
    skatingonthinice skatingonthinice 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    Degrees Of Submission.....

    I think every submissive woman and or man has very different levels of submission. The degrees of submission we all choose are varied, and hence I don’t believe that all women/men that have a submissive nature, should just be label ‘submissive’. The name of this group 'I...
    gypsysub gypsysub 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    Completely Submissive

    i am a submissive wife. My Husband is my Dom, i wouldn't have it any other way. He treats me with complete respect and care. Yes, i follow his orders but its for my good.
    sawilke sawilke 31-35 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    Feeling Lost

    After living a version of a lifestyle for a few months, I have been ill. Nothing too serious but after 3 years of full time study, my body just collapsed. Anyway the end result was I did not have enough energy to serve in any way for my wonderful Husband or indeed myself. I just...
    Ang14 Ang14 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    So Deserved

    The other day I lost my wedding ring. This made my daddy husband very upset. He has told me numerous times not to remove my wedding band ever but I take it off at night anyway. He has given me many warnings that he would spank me if I did not obey him on this but always gave me a...
    JosesBabyGirl JosesBabyGirl 41-45, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Don't Wrongly Assume

    I've found that there are too many false assumptions made about submissive women. Being a submissive woman in a relationship should not be equated with being "less than" the dominant partner. To simplify, the Sub and the Dom are 2 very different roles that work together...
    Likkmee Likkmee 46-50, F 13 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    Submissive Musings

    I like to discuss submission with other submissive women and men. I also enjoy talking with Dominant persons. A discussion has nothing to do with my wanting to be dominated on a website. I would only allow a man to dominate me if I trusted him and felt that the right chemistry...
    sharonsub sharonsub 26-30, F 1 Response May 23, 2013

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    Treat me like an idiot,

    and I'll lose respect for you. Once I lose respect for you, you needn't expect me to act like a submissive, I can be just as aggressive and bitchy as everyone else ;) This is NOT aimed at any particular person, it's just a general comment in my never-ending quest for points ;)
    BSTisapain BSTisapain 70+, F 2 Responses May 14

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    Submissive Training?

    I don't consider myself to be an experienced submissive, as I have only ever had one master, and he was also an inexperienced Dom. So I worry that if I wanted to enter another D/s relationship, (which I do since i cannot ever imagine myself in a "normal" relationship), I would be...
    Itisreal Itisreal 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    Goddess Adores You

    This story is written by a Goddess. There is no beauty greater than the submissive's gift, and no greater strength than the trust freely laid at my feet. For those who think a submissive is weak (and I have read those who think this), take a reality check and recognize that it...
    GoddessXyren GoddessXyren 46-50, F 9 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    A Tough Weekend

    After an amazing Friday- where Husband came home for lunch and totally showed me he was the boss, we have had a fairly flat weekend. I was out with a friend on Sat then we went out together with friends on sat eve, and ended up with late night. Sunday was a study day for me and...
    Ang14 Ang14 46-50, F Oct 20, 2013

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    Stereotypes

    The notion that the submissive people of the world are stupid, ignorant, weak, easily manipulated or controlled, of a certain race, gender, sexual orientation or other stereotype is an uninformed, ignorant notion that can hurt those it refers to. If you are of the belief that...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    Submissives Annonymous

    My name is Cathy and I am a submissive. My husband does not see himself just as a average "Dom". He is the dominant half of our relationship. He is the 90% of the 50%. He is the dominant partner. He does not come home drunk and beats the **** out of me. He does not come home...
    mellowcathy mellowcathy 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 1, 2012

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    How She Looks At Me

    Ever since we were little my sister and I have been very different people. She may be 21 months younger than me but everyone believes she is the older sister when they first meet us. I can not tell you how many times my mom has asked us which direction she should turn while...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    You want to know what's wrong? I'll tell you.... The guys here want to know what's wrong with us, Ladies. They want to know why we won't do what they say or why we won't worship...
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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