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I Am A Submissive, Not An Idiot

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 761 People

    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle for discipline...not only my boys need it from time to behaviour is sometimes ugly, too. Anyone can help me?
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jan 4, 2016

    Confused, Sort-of Submissive?

    I am confused as all hell. This is acutally something that has confused me for about two years and now I have finally found somewhere to ask people for advice! So here it goes.... I want to be submissive, sort of. In regular every day life I am a huge people person with a...
    Marpessa Marpessa
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Oct 13, 2012

    I Have To Wonder...

    ...Why it is that on so many sites, so many Dominant men and women see that I have a very large submissive streak and somehow use this information to reach the conclusion that I am stupid. I really hate it when people assume I have a single-digit IQ just because of what I like in...
    BlissfullyBruised BlissfullyBruised
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2011

    How She Looks At Me

    Ever since we were little my sister and I have been very different people. She may be 21 months younger than me but everyone believes she is the older sister when they first meet us. I can not tell you how many times my mom has asked us which direction she should turn while...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2012

    Degrees Of Submission.....

    I think every submissive woman and or man has very different levels of submission. The degrees of submission we all choose are varied, and hence I don’t believe that all women/men that have a submissive nature, should just be label ‘submissive’. The name of this group 'I...
    gypsysub gypsysub
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2013

    Not An Idiot

    In my marriage i knew i wa personally submissive, he told me if i could go somewhere, he gave me my spending allowance (even though i put my entire check in his account) but a "submissive I was not" so we divorced. Three years later i met my "Master" who showed me that with my...
    13kitten13 13kitten13
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2013

    Diary Of A Submissive

    Master B has asked me to meet him at the playroom.My instructions are.My heighest heels black panties and hair down. Its 6.30pm.I knock on the door bow my head and wait.The door opens and sir takes my hand.Good evening Katie.Good evening sir.Sir walk me 8 steps in and pushes me...
    deleted deleted
    29 Responses Feb 6, 2013


    The notion that the submissive people of the world are stupid, ignorant, weak, easily manipulated or controlled, of a certain race, gender, sexual orientation or other stereotype is an uninformed, ignorant notion that can hurt those it refers to. If you are of the belief that...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Jun 30, 2012

    Submissives Annonymous

    My name is Cathy and I am a submissive. My husband does not see himself just as a average "Dom". He is the dominant half of our relationship. He is the 90% of the 50%. He is the dominant partner. He does not come home drunk and beats the **** out of me. He does not come home...
    mellowcathy mellowcathy
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 1, 2012

    Something To Share

    My master loves me with all his heart. He cannot live without me nor can I without him. The lesson he is teaching is a hard one for me to learn. This lesson is for me to love myself, mind body and soul. We are apart right now and I bid his will thru Skype, phone and laptop. I am...
    unwantedlies unwantedlies
    26-30, F
    Jul 17, 2012

    Just A Quiz

    Switch 93% Submissive 93% Experimental 93% Bondage 82% Masochist 79% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 75% Sadist 64% Dominant 61% Degradation 57% Vanilla 21%
    deleted deleted
    Mar 9, 2013

    Don't Wrongly Assume

    I've found that there are too many false assumptions made about submissive women. Being a submissive woman in a relationship should not be equated with being "less than" the dominant partner. To simplify, the Sub and the Dom are 2 very different roles that work together...
    Likkmee Likkmee
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Mar 31, 2012

    I believe that while there are varying degrees

    of submission, as with any lifestyle, a true submissive is that way to their core. I have always had a submissive heart I was just unaware of how to classify it. My adult life I sought out dominant men- what I ended up with was domineering men who believed they were dominant...
    sucksswallows87 sucksswallows87
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    The requirement of any submissive woman to say

    this is due to feminists who look down on us, submissives can be intellectual equals with men but still follow their lead.
    sweetangel20 sweetangel20
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    I believe that while there are varying degrees

    of submission, as with any lifestyle, a true submissive is that way to their core. I have always had a submissive heart I was just unaware of how to classify it. My adult life I sought out dominant men- what I ended up with was domineering men who believed they were dominant...
    subeao subeao
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Aug 11, 2014

    So Deserved

    The other day I lost my wedding ring. This made my daddy husband very upset. He has told me numerous times not to remove my wedding band ever but I take it off at night anyway. He has given me many warnings that he would spank me if I did not obey him on this but always gave me a...
    JosesBabyGirl JosesBabyGirl
    41-45, F
    Nov 18, 2012

    Some of the stuff I read on here actually hurts

    my brain lol. Like......seriously.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 12, 2016

    Goddess Adores You

    This story is written by a Goddess. There is no beauty greater than the submissive's gift, and no greater strength than the trust freely laid at my feet. For those who think a submissive is weak (and I have read those who think this), take a reality check and recognize that it...
    GoddessXyren GoddessXyren
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Oct 13, 2012

    It's Been Said Million Times But I'm No Different.

    Hi Everyone!!! Thank you in advance for your comments! My name is Nicollette. I'm 23 y/o (just turned :D yay me!!). I was first introduced to this possible lifestyle a few days ago when my friend recommended that I read this book. I know what your thinking a lot of people read...
    NicolletteChloe NicolletteChloe
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2012

    Selections taken from http://heldbyher. Submissive men crave some really basic things in a relationship. To a person that is not submissive these cravings may appear strange or off base. In the mind of the submissive man they are not strange at all, quite the...
    rickie53 rickie53
    46-50, M
    Jan 26, 2014

    Glad Your Home Darling

    Today I wanted to be creative when my husband got home from a stressful day at work. I fixed a nice dinner and desided to dance for him. I was in the color guard though high school and did dance in college. So I have experience. My husband works as a SWAT team member so his job...
    JennStone JennStone
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2013

    Treat me like an idiot,

    and I'll lose respect for you. Once I lose respect for you, you needn't expect me to act like a submissive, I can be just as aggressive and bitchy as everyone else ;) This is NOT aimed at any particular person, it's just a general comment in my never-ending quest for points ;)
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    51-55, F
    May 14, 2014

    The Real Truth!

    I am an owned, registered slave to an amazing man. With that being said, I was writing a story in another group, that ended up bringing me into this to write a story. Submissives & slaves may be different & have different roles in the lifestyle, but they are similar in the fact...
    candyi candyi
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2013

    Being a natural submissive,

    the feelings are not my choice, but submitting to any one individual is completely my choice. If I don't want or like something, I say so. In fact he demands that of me. So much blind ignorance about this lifestyle, it really is ridiculous! Consent. Look it up, dudes, lol...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2016

    Submissive Musings

    I like to discuss submission with other submissive women and men. I also enjoy talking with Dominant persons. A discussion has nothing to do with my wanting to be dominated on a website. I would only allow a man to dominate me if I trusted him and felt that the right chemistry...
    sharonsub sharonsub
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 23, 2013

    My DOMME recently ask me what is about being a

    submissive that I love. And up until a few minutes ago I couldn't put my finger on it. Then it hit me, it's not so much being a sub, I could submit to most anyone, but it's who I submit to that makes me love being a submissive. Despite my age I'm very new to this D/s...
    Cupcakestoy Cupcakestoy
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Feb 21, 2016

    I'm a submissive female.

    ..but that doesn't mean I don't have a brain in my head. I'm a strong, educated woman... I like giving up my control to my Dom. He treats me with respect... I expect the same from others. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman
    46-50, F
    Jan 27, 2015

    Need Advice ...

    Just started exploring the my submissive side on line. I am not a submissive personality per se.But do want it as part of my romantic/sexual life. May be online is the worst place to start! Any way for those who have more experience on this I had a question. I was chatting online...
    skatingonthinice skatingonthinice
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Sep 1, 2012

    I know what I want and i’m not afraid to let

    people know. I can also be a bit of a ***** to friends. This does not mean I am not submissive. In my relationship I submit to my man and only my man. This also does not mean I am not submissive. I will not roll over for just any self proclamed dom. Like any relationship it has...
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    Completely Submissive

    i am a submissive wife. My Husband is my Dom, i wouldn't have it any other way. He treats me with complete respect and care. Yes, i follow his orders but its for my good.
    sawilke sawilke
    1 Response Sep 30, 2012

    Submissive Training?

    I don't consider myself to be an experienced submissive, as I have only ever had one master, and he was also an inexperienced Dom. So I worry that if I wanted to enter another D/s relationship, (which I do since i cannot ever imagine myself in a "normal" relationship), I would be...
    Itisreal Itisreal
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 18, 2012
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