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I Am a Submissive Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,139 People

    Looking For Advice From Submissive Wives

    I am a younge wife and mom of a 7 mo old and also two months pregnant. I have thought about being a submissice wife but sometimes it seems like it wouldnt be fir me, maybe im too hard headed im not sure but when i read about submissive wives it gets my heart pumping and i feel...
    dollface43 dollface43
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 18, 2013

    Always Being Available

    When I dated my future husband I knew the type of marriage I was marrying into. Its a marriage I feel very secure and loved, controlled in a nice way and very protected. It is a very traditional marriage with my husband as the head who guides, leads and protects us all. The...
    jopearsonuk jopearsonuk
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jan 3, 2013

    Love Coupons

    I wanted to make some "Love Coupons" for my Husband as a gift. I thought for a while and could not come up with any ideas. After all as a Submissive Wife I already am trying to do what I can to please him and obey him. So I turned to everyone's favorite help when stumped...Google...
    JennaR JennaR
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Aug 6, 2013

    So, I did it. I believe

    that I am closer to being submissive to my husband, and most important he is closer to becoming completely dominant than we have ever been. I've been interested in, sharing with him, and getting him to participate in being dominate in the bedroom since we were married almost...
    Nuvo0810 Nuvo0810
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 22, 2015

    I Prefer To Submit

    "A real man" wrote: Your position somewhat invalidates the Dom's position as Controller of the relationship. I would not tolerate a sub telling me what to do. I give a woman two choices: to obey or to leave. If she wants subjection she won't get it from ME. I like my subs...
    debasree debasree
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 27, 2012

    My husband and I met 6 years ago we knew

    that we were right for one another from the start. We were church goers and he adored my son. He adored me always telling me how much he loved me and how much I meant to him. So 3 months later we took our vows. He has never laid a hand on me out side of a picking way. I came...
    vanessa201 vanessa201
    1 Response Aug 27, 2014

    Please always remember there is a difference

    between aggressive and dominant. Aggressive men have no business in the position of being dominant. A dominant man wants to lift you up and make you a better person through discipline. An aggressive man wants to fight and dominate you for personal gain. Always look closely at a...
    flowinghoney100 flowinghoney100
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    What Do I Say ...

    I'm new to the EP and to this group. Brand new. I'm hoping some can help with my question. I believe you can as I've read so many supportive and uplifting posts/comments. I've recently determined that I have a great, burning desire to be a submissive wife. This was a...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 22, 2013

    What Makes Me Happy

    I have always been submissive to my husband. I can't explain the need I have to please him. Since the first time I met him I knew we were made for each other. Something inside of me clicked and I knew I would move mountains to make him happy. I got out of the military for him so...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Aug 8, 2012

    I follow my husband's rules

    and do whatever he tells me to do. I'm nude at home by his rules. He wants me topless at certain people's houses and nude at others. I'm always ready to serve him and his friends in any way.
    jharg jharg
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Aug 7, 2014


    I earned my first discipline this past Tuesday night.  I was upset with our daughters and lost track of time.  In my chaos and upset I forgot his rules.   I was to be on his bed in the master bedroom awaiting him when he returned home from work.  But I was not...
    ForestFaery ForestFaery
    41-45, F
    20 Responses Jun 4, 2010

    I am a submissive wife.

    My husband is allowed to spank me when I misbehave and have sex with me whenever he wants because it is his choice not mine. When we got married my body became his. If I don't want sex but he does oh well it's his decision not mine. We are happily married and being submissive...
    Jillian525 Jillian525
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 1)

    By way of introduction, I am a strong independent professional. I was raised by my bitter divorced mother to believe that a woman never "needs" a man for anything, that I should be equal to any man and that I can do everything as well, if not better, than any man. Looking back...
    star4425 star4425
    51-55, F
    3 Responses May 9, 2013

    Perfect Wife

    1- I have a delicious meal prepared for when he returns from work, especially his favorite dish. Offer to take off his shoes. 2- I speak in a low tone, relaxed and enjoyable. Their hard work day may need a little encouragement, some of my duties is to provide it. 3- I Greet him...
    SweetMary87 SweetMary87
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2012

    My Story

    Hello, this is a new experience for me I usually don’t revile the embarrassing things that occur in my life; this is the power of anonymity. I feel confident enough to tell you my first name is Shelly and I am twenty four years old, my incident started here actually, my...
    tatsumaki tatsumaki
    3 Responses Mar 26, 2012

    My Natural Submission to My Husband I am 28

    years old, married for over two years…My husband’s job involves lots of transfers…it means transfer every two/ three years anywhere in the country. So I’d willingly preferred to be his stay at home wife to live together with him always ...and I’d love him so much...
    Rishita26 Rishita26
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 2, 2015

    There is no greater joy

    than being my husbands help meet. I understand how hard my husbands job is and how stressful it can be so as a good wife help as I can. I do all the cooking and cleaning, and home school all our children. A submissive wife is the best wife. My husband makes all the big decisions...
    Jillianlwt Jillianlwt
    Dec 13, 2014

    My daddy's birthday Yesterday was my daddy's

    birthday. It was very important to us, I began that morning by preparing his blue and green cupcakes for him to enjoy as we drove around. When I first saw him it was as if our eyes have not met for weeks. Our planned day consisted of us watching a movie and getting prepared to...
    forevercherishim forevercherishim
    22-25, F
    Jan 4, 2015

    Biblically Speaking!

    But that does not mean that I'm a doormat! Or that he is my master!
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2013

    Submitting To Submission

    I’m a 46 year old, former career girl, now stay-at-home Mom with two young children whom I adore. My hubby and I just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary . . . and it changed my life forever! I’m from a family of dominant women, therefore, I thought that I was supposed...
    arielpacifica arielpacifica
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Mar 30, 2011

    It'S A New Decision For Me

    Yesterday was my husband and my anniversary. We went out for dinner, which is something that we haven't done for a long time because we have two little girls and they demand a lot of time and attention so it can get difficult. Anyway, we were chatting and he mentioned that he...
    syengel syengel
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 31, 2013

    I Am Truly Submissive

    I am truly submissive to my husband. This has always been the case even when I was married to my ex-husband. He was rather inmature and had some anger issues, and unfortunately liked to take it out on me; physically, emotionally and verbally. After 9 years of marriage I left him...
    Yellowbird88 Yellowbird88
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2013

    One More Of Us - One Less Of Them

    i have been lurking around here for some weeks now, and so i really should contribute, although i'm not sure i have anything worthwhile to add. My story is not unusual. i'm startled to realise, in my late 40s, that i find happiness and contentment in my obedient submission to...
    newjaninev2 newjaninev2
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Jun 11, 2012

    What I Wish I Had.

    I wisH my husband wanted me to be more submissive. Especially in the bedroom. I want to be his submissive during the day and almost a slave at night. I don't want the humiliation a slave goes thru during sessiOns, I just want for him to tell me what to do at the exact moment he...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie
    31-35, F
    22 Responses Jan 10, 2011

    Still Just Curious

    Im a wanna be submissive wife. Havnt rrally told my husband yet.... but im wondering if he is attracted to my independence and thebfact that i take charge. So im kinda worried that if i try and flip the roles will he be less attracted to my personality? So is it possible to be...
    dollface43 dollface43
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2013

    Just Need A Soapbox Moment

    i'm sorry if this offends anyone but I am so aggravated by the absolutist idea that all women are inferior to men and need to be controlled. it's one thing for an individual woman to understand herself enough to know that she should be submissive to her own husband and then to...
    shadowplayTH shadowplayTH
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Oct 8, 2013

    Saving Me...

         18 Years I was married to a man with a constant war between us going on.  Growing up in a home where the women ruled and knowing that inside I wanted a man to take me in his hands and guide me caused quite an imbalance in our lives to the point of...
    Happy2serve Happy2serve
    41-45, F
    19 Responses Dec 9, 2009

    Hi I'm new here. I'd like to be a good

    girlfriend and a good wife. Although I am young I'd like to have a relationship based on the traditional values of the family. My inspiration has always been 50's housewife. The priority always was their husbands and the harmony of the home. The submission of the wife brings...
    LadySurrender LadySurrender
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    My Husband, My Best Friend

    Married. 13 years. Dated 7 prior. Spent every waking hour with him before and after marriage- as much as time allowed. Cried every day. Every night. The first year was so hard. He misunderstood. He didn't know I was having trouble being love unconditionally. He didn't...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2012

    Fallen Off The Wagon...

    Hi everyone. I've been absent from here for a few months as I have been very slack and managed to slip back into my bad old ways. In some ways I blame my husband for not being dominant enough with me. He just does not feel comfortable with spanking me or any form of corporal...
    Hav1 Hav1
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2013

    Hi all, I'm new to this

    and am struggling in the early stages of being a submissive fiancé, soon to be wife in August :-) I have read so much on submission and I really want to make it work but I'm a very strong mouthy character in general and I find it hard holding my tongue or keeping an attitude...
    becks16 becks16
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2016

    Wives And Husbands : What Bible Says

    Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands...
    debasree debasree
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2013

    I am fully submissive to my husband.

    When we got married my body became his property. I will have as many kids as he wants, he can spank me, if can have sex with me anytime he wants to, my body belongs to him and he chooses what happens to it.
    Obedientsubmissivewife Obedientsubmissivewife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2015

    I am an obedient submissive wife

    for my husband. some time ago I was placed here as punishment for not pleasing my husband, I had to display my rather curvy and large breasted body for viewing and answer all and any comments, questions or remarks no matter what. Whilst at first I willingly carried out the...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 22, 2015

    I have my condition spanking tonight,

    butterflies in my stomach :/ wish me luck!
    EllieBlueEyes EllieBlueEyes
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    My Relationship With My Dominant Husband

    i recently answered a question about how i first met the man who in time would become my Husband, Lord and Master. This was my answer of how our relationship developed and blossomed which my Master has asked me to share here. i hope you find it interesting and insightful and feel...
    katieslave katieslave
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 13, 2010

    For submissive WOMEN only.

    my group
    Sweetnlow1979 Sweetnlow1979
    31-35, F
    Apr 18, 2016

    I Want To Be Someday.

    Someday i want to be a submissive wife, fill the needs of the man i love. Be open to him, my light and dark sides. Let him help me through my rough spots and allow him to devour me. I want to surrender my body mind and soul to him. Completely. I just want to feel cherished, loved...
    Caitlinsmith1636 Caitlinsmith1636
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Mar 12, 2013

    Advice For Submissive Wives With beta Husbands

    I found this on the internet and loved what the author writes about this so thought I would share with you. :o) If your husband is supporting you and your children on his own, he is not a “beta” male, no matter how much in manner or domestic decision-making you may feel he...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Jul 3, 2011

    On Being Submissive

    Do not adhere to the worlds standards of being submissive but to Gods standards. Being submissive bionically doesn't mean you let someone mistreat you or run all over you. It means that you are faithful and a help meet to your husband!
    debasree debasree
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2013

    Consequences For Disobedience

    This week I was assigned to spend a half hour with my daughter each day, just one on one. I was to report to my hunny nightly of our activities. He quit asking Tuesday and I quit sharing. Thursday and Friday I did not do it. This morning my guilty conscious had me confess. Some...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Dec 1, 2012

    Not Just For The Bedroom.

    I don't consider my relationship that of a lifestyle. My HOH and I don't have "sessions" where we enact sexual things and go about our day acting like the average "vanilla" couple otherwise. Our relationship is free-flowing, unstrained, and absolutely natural. I am a natural...
    AmericanLeanings AmericanLeanings
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 28, 2011

    I Am A New Submissive Wife

    I am just starting out on my new life as being submissive to my husband. I have bickered and argued with my husband for all 8 years of our marriage. On numerous times I have been ready to quit the marriage. Our problem has been that we are both head strong, independent people...
    Hav1 Hav1
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Jan 22, 2013

    okay.. So I'm very confused on how to know the

    difference between punishment and taking it too far.. My boyfriend has spanked me for a while now, maybe 3 or 4 months, and its getting to the point where i have a very high pain tolerance again. He's been getting upset about that and it has resulted to him being even more...
    ControlledLife ControlledLife
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    Mom Taught Me How

    I am submissive to my husband; he rules over our household and I try to live up to my marriage oath of obedience. To me, this is what marriage should be and what the wife's role is and is what I have wanted since I don't know how young. My parents have a very similar relationship...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle
    22-25, F
    18 Responses Jul 17, 2010

    Gaining and meaning of a collar.

    ... Lately my man and I have been discussing the significance of me gaining a collar. It is something truly special and meaningful for our future and moving forward together . We love each other very much and gaining a collar will symbolize that we are apart of each other. I am...
    forevercherishim forevercherishim
    22-25, F
    Dec 15, 2014

    Finding Peace And A New Life

    For over 18 years I was married to a man that I didn't truly love....loved as the father of my children...loved because we were together for so many years... but not truly loved. I was married to a man that had his religious beliefs but was not active in following through with...
    jlccac jlccac
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

    Comfort Zone

    I feel my very best when I am doing things for him. I have truly given my whole being to him. when he gets home I am there with an ice cold drink and I hot plate of food. I love to know I please him in every way that I can. I feel safe...
    HisLady HisLady
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 11, 2009

    The Journey Begins ... (aka ... Who Put That Freaking Boulder On Our Path?)

    Ha! What a journey this has been the past few days. I cannot imagine a time when I was more frustrated, more confused ... or laughed so much, felt so much strength, so much love, or made better love ... than anytime in our over 26 years together. First, I have been unrelenting...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 27, 2013

    It was right after class

    and i knew i was in trouble. I was supposed to have done my homework the night before, and because I didn't I was not going to get an "C" in the class. My dom/ boyfriend was already waiting for me. "Hi sweetie.." I said as I walked in the door to my dorm. My dom is one year...
    ControlledLife ControlledLife
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    Tonight Is The Night

    Tonight is the night. Tonight I'm set to receive my first consequence. I'm a mix of giddy anticipation and a bit of dread. The week since I made my completely vulnerable and transparent plea to my husband has been a wild roller coaster of a ride. I have never been so sure of...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 31, 2013
    dolphin328 dolphin328
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2014
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