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I Am a Submissive Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,081 People

    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 2)

    I wrote before in Pt. 1 about how I first learned that surrendering to my SO was the beginning of a beautiful relationship, more fulfilling than I can possibly imagine. I soon wanted to please him so much. When I made him happy, I was happy. I started to feel a level of...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F 2 Responses May 15, 2013

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    Always Being Available

    When I dated my future husband I knew the type of marriage I was marrying into. Its a marriage I feel very secure and loved, controlled in a nice way and very protected. It is a very traditional marriage with my husband as the head who guides, leads and protects us all. The...
    jopearsonuk jopearsonuk 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Advice For Submissive Wives With beta Husbands

    I found this on the internet and loved what the author writes about this so thought I would share with you. :o) If your husband is supporting you and your children on his own, he is not a “beta” male, no matter how much in manner or domestic decision-making you may feel he...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 3, 2011

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    I am trying to be submissive

    and failing. I keep running my mouth and trying to be in control. My man treats me so good and I keep failing. How can I maintain submission to him?
    wanivacred wanivacred 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    I Want To Be Someday.

    Someday i want to be a submissive wife, fill the needs of the man i love. Be open to him, my light and dark sides. Let him help me through my rough spots and allow him to devour me. I want to surrender my body mind and soul to him. Completely. I just want to feel cherished, loved...
    Caitlinsmith1636 Caitlinsmith1636 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    I Couldn'T Wait To Share

    I am almost at a loss for words right now ... not really, I'll think of something ;-) ... I'm really never at a loss for words ... LOL After writing my husband a 9 page letter about my desire to be a submissive wife, leaving it on his bed tied in a pretty red bow, waiting for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Comfort Zone

    I feel my very best when I am doing things for him. I have truly given my whole being to him. when he gets home I am there with an ice cold drink and I hot plate of food. I love to know I please him in every way that I can. I feel safe...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Biblically Speaking!

    But that does not mean that I'm a doormat! Or that he is my master!
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    My Relationship With My Dominant Husband

    i recently answered a question about how i first met the man who in time would become my Husband, Lord and Master. This was my answer of how our relationship developed and blossomed which my Master has asked me to share here. i hope you find it interesting and insightful and feel...
    katieslave katieslave 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2010

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    It was right after class

    and i knew i was in trouble. I was supposed to have done my homework the night before, and because I didn't I was not going to get an "C" in the class. My dom/ boyfriend was already waiting for me. "Hi sweetie.." I said as I walked in the door to my dorm. My dom is one year...
    ControlledLife ControlledLife 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    Finding Peace And A New Life

    For over 18 years I was married to a man that I didn't truly love....loved as the father of my children...loved because we were together for so many years... but not truly loved. I was married to a man that had his religious beliefs but was not active in following through with...
    jlccac jlccac 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    What Do I Say ...

    I'm new to the EP and to this group. Brand new. I'm hoping some can help with my question. I believe you can as I've read so many supportive and uplifting posts/comments. I've recently determined that I have a great, burning desire to be a submissive wife. This was a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Submissive Fiancee

    I have been with my dominant boyfriend for 5 years and we plan to be married sometime within next two years. he is the dominant one of our relationship I strive to make him happy and loved not saying I have not fallen short at times and when I do something wrong I do get...
    Crys98 Crys98 31-35 4 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Looking For Advice From Submissive Wives

    I am a younge wife and mom of a 7 mo old and also two months pregnant. I have thought about being a submissice wife but sometimes it seems like it wouldnt be fir me, maybe im too hard headed im not sure but when i read about submissive wives it gets my heart pumping and i feel...
    dollface43 dollface43 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    A New Paddle

    This past Christmas Master said he was wanting a firm loofa he could use on his lower legs and feet. He gets really bad dry skin, especially on his lower legs and feet. In his stocking I gave him a long handled loofa skin brush. Before he pulled it out he seemed really excited...
    HubbysBaby HubbysBaby 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Submitting To Submission

    I’m a 46 year old, former career girl, now stay-at-home Mom with two young children whom I adore. My hubby and I just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary . . . and it changed my life forever! I’m from a family of dominant women, therefore, I thought that I was supposed...
    arielpacifica arielpacifica 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    My husband and I met 6 years ago we knew

    that we were right for one another from the start. We were church goers and he adored my son. He adored me always telling me how much he loved me and how much I meant to him. So 3 months later we took our vows. He has never laid a hand on me out side of a picking way. I came...
    vanessa201 vanessa201 31-35 1 Response Aug 27

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    Tonight Is The Night

    Tonight is the night. Tonight I'm set to receive my first consequence. I'm a mix of giddy anticipation and a bit of dread. The week since I made my completely vulnerable and transparent plea to my husband has been a wild roller coaster of a ride. I have never been so sure of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 31, 2013

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    I follow my husband's rules

    and do whatever he tells me to do. I'm nude at home by his rules. He wants me topless at certain people's houses and nude at others. I'm always ready to serve him and his friends in any way.
    jharg jharg 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 7

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    okay.. So I'm very confused on how to know the

    difference between punishment and taking it too far.. My boyfriend has spanked me for a while now, maybe 3 or 4 months, and its getting to the point where i have a very high pain tolerance again. He's been getting upset about that and it has resulted to him being even more...
    ControlledLife ControlledLife 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 23

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    It'S A New Decision For Me

    Yesterday was my husband and my anniversary. We went out for dinner, which is something that we haven't done for a long time because we have two little girls and they demand a lot of time and attention so it can get difficult. Anyway, we were chatting and he mentioned that he...
    syengel syengel 26-30, F 3 Responses May 31, 2013

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    Just Need A Soapbox Moment

    i'm sorry if this offends anyone but I am so aggravated by the absolutist idea that all women are inferior to men and need to be controlled. it's one thing for an individual woman to understand herself enough to know that she should be submissive to her own husband and then to...
    shadowplayTH shadowplayTH 26-30, F 8 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    The Journey Begins ... (aka ... Who Put That Freaking Boulder On Our Path?)

    Ha! What a journey this has been the past few days. I cannot imagine a time when I was more frustrated, more confused ... or laughed so much, felt so much strength, so much love, or made better love ... than anytime in our over 26 years together. First, I have been unrelenting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    Feeling Complete

    My life has completely changed for the better since meeting my Husband. I always felt the need to submit and he helps me with that everyday. I devote my life to him, he is my Master.  From the moment I wake up I want to please him from the way I smell, dress, walk, I do it all...
    hishelper hishelper 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    What Makes Me Happy

    I have always been submissive to my husband. I can't explain the need I have to please him. Since the first time I met him I knew we were made for each other. Something inside of me clicked and I knew I would move mountains to make him happy. I got out of the military for him so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    My Mouth Is His To Use

    We are kissing passionately, and I feel your hands on my shoulders pressing down, pushing me down to my knees. I gladly sink to my knees and pop your **** out of your pants.  I begin to lick it and suck it gently, savoring it just a bit before I gulp it all in my hungry mouth...
    nipply nipply 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Newly Submissive Wife

    We have started this journey about 6 months ago, I love being a submissive wife. I love when I get my spankings, it really turns me on.
    malllady malllady 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    One More Of Us - One Less Of Them

    i have been lurking around here for some weeks now, and so i really should contribute, although i'm not sure i have anything worthwhile to add. My story is not unusual. i'm startled to realise, in my late 40s, that i find happiness and contentment in my obedient submission to...
    newjaninev2 newjaninev2 46-50, F 12 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 1)

    By way of introduction, I am a strong independent professional. I was raised by my bitter divorced mother to believe that a woman never "needs" a man for anything, that I should be equal to any man and that I can do everything as well, if not better, than any man. Looking back...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F 3 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Not Just For The Bedroom.

    I don't consider my relationship that of a lifestyle. My HOH and I don't have "sessions" where we enact sexual things and go about our day acting like the average "vanilla" couple otherwise. Our relationship is free-flowing, unstrained, and absolutely natural. I am a natural...
    AmericanLeanings AmericanLeanings 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    My Masters Gift

    Something amazing happened at the weekend, my Master gave my obedience to my husband. My husband had asked me if I could serve him as I serve my Master, when I asked my Master he said yes. My husband was so surprised but also extremely pleased. I have always been submissive to...
    ncss ncss 36-40, F Mar 3, 2013

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    Saving Me...

         18 Years I was married to a man with a constant war between us going on.  Growing up in a home where the women ruled and knowing that inside I wanted a man to take me in his hands and guide me caused quite an imbalance in our lives to the point of...
    Happy2serve Happy2serve 41-45, F 21 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Just Do It ... (honey)

    Man... what a wonderful retreat. I was off with my husband to a sunny, warm, ocean location. Dinners, strolls on the beach, even shuffleboard with a few older folks. It was just terrific, always is. He has been so successful and I feel so happy to be a lifelong partner to him...
    laserx laserx 46-50, F 12 Responses Apr 2, 2011

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    Just Do It! (Honey...Updated)

    So, once again we found ourselves on a vacation retreat in the American South. Though I had some behavioral issues last time we were to the warmer climate (See the original "Just Do it! (Honey) story), there was none of that this go-round.  In every way possible I remained...
    laserx laserx 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    What Do You Think Of This Poem Found In The Book "when Fathers Ruled"?

    Men to rule our wives with understanding Not by harassment and crude tyranny Because wives are the weaker sex. Therefore, punish your wife Only with kind and understanding words Spoken together in private Say to her "My dear wife, this you should not do. It is not fitting for...
    cwred523 cwred523 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 20, 2011

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    Discipline

    I earned my first discipline this past Tuesday night.  I was upset with our daughters and lost track of time.  In my chaos and upset I forgot his rules.   I was to be on his bed in the master bedroom awaiting him when he returned home from work.  But I was not...
    ForestFaery ForestFaery 41-45, F 21 Responses Jun 4, 2010

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    My Husband, My Best Friend

    Married. 13 years. Dated 7 prior. Spent every waking hour with him before and after marriage- as much as time allowed. Cried every day. Every night. The first year was so hard. He misunderstood. He didn't know I was having trouble being love unconditionally. He didn't...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    On Being Submissive

    Do not adhere to the worlds standards of being submissive but to Gods standards. Being submissive bionically doesn't mean you let someone mistreat you or run all over you. It means that you are faithful and a help meet to your husband!
    debasree debasree 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    Still Just Curious

    Im a wanna be submissive wife. Havnt rrally told my husband yet.... but im wondering if he is attracted to my independence and thebfact that i take charge. So im kinda worried that if i try and flip the roles will he be less attracted to my personality? So is it possible to be...
    dollface43 dollface43 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    Wives And Husbands : What Bible Says

    Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands...
    debasree debasree 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    My Story

    Hello, this is a new experience for me I usually don’t revile the embarrassing things that occur in my life; this is the power of anonymity. I feel confident enough to tell you my first name is Shelly and I am twenty four years old, my incident started here actually, my...
    tatsumaki tatsumaki 22-25 3 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    dolphin328 dolphin328 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    Fallen Off The Wagon...

    Hi everyone. I've been absent from here for a few months as I have been very slack and managed to slip back into my bad old ways. In some ways I blame my husband for not being dominant enough with me. He just does not feel comfortable with spanking me or any form of corporal...
    Hav1 Hav1 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 9, 2013

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    Consequences For Disobedience

    This week I was assigned to spend a half hour with my daughter each day, just one on one. I was to report to my hunny nightly of our activities. He quit asking Tuesday and I quit sharing. Thursday and Friday I did not do it. This morning my guilty conscious had me confess. Some...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    What I Wish I Had.

    I wisH my husband wanted me to be more submissive. Especially in the bedroom. I want to be his submissive during the day and almost a slave at night. I don't want the humiliation a slave goes thru during sessiOns, I just want for him to tell me what to do at the exact moment he...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie 31-35, F 23 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Mom Taught Me How

    I am submissive to my husband; he rules over our household and I try to live up to my marriage oath of obedience. To me, this is what marriage should be and what the wife's role is and is what I have wanted since I don't know how young. My parents have a very similar relationship...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle 22-25, F 19 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    Love Coupons

    I wanted to make some "Love Coupons" for my Husband as a gift. I thought for a while and could not come up with any ideas. After all as a Submissive Wife I already am trying to do what I can to please him and obey him. So I turned to everyone's favorite help when stumped...Google...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    Perfect Wife

    1- I have a delicious meal prepared for when he returns from work, especially his favorite dish. Offer to take off his shoes. 2- I speak in a low tone, relaxed and enjoyable. Their hard work day may need a little encouragement, some of my duties is to provide it. 3- I Greet him...
    SweetMary87 SweetMary87 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    Support and respect his decisions.

    So, even though it seems a times like the right thing to do would be to become a shrew and complain about the time my husband is spending away from his family and other obligations to tend to the needs of a life-long friend in life transition…I don't. I don;t because I am...
    laserx laserx 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 21

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    I Am A New Submissive Wife

    I am just starting out on my new life as being submissive to my husband. I have bickered and argued with my husband for all 8 years of our marriage. On numerous times I have been ready to quit the marriage. Our problem has been that we are both head strong, independent people...
    Hav1 Hav1 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    I Am Truly Submissive

    I am truly submissive to my husband. This has always been the case even when I was married to my ex-husband. He was rather inmature and had some anger issues, and unfortunately liked to take it out on me; physically, emotionally and verbally. After 9 years of marriage I left him...
    Yellowbird88 Yellowbird88 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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