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I Am a Submissive Wife

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    What Makes Me Happy - I have always been submissive to my husband. I can't explain the need I have to please him. Since the first time I met him I knew we were made for each other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    My Husband, My Best Friend - Married. 13 years. Dated 7 prior. Spent every waking hour with him before and after marriage- as much as time allowed. Cried every day. Every...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2012

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    Perfect Wife - 1- I have a delicious meal prepared for when he returns from work, especially his favorite dish. Offer to take off his shoes. 2- I speak in a low tone, relaxed and...
    SweetMary87 SweetMary87 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    My Story - Hello, this is a new experience for me I usually don’t revile the embarrassing things that occur in my life; this is the power of anonymity. I feel confident enough...
    tatsumaki tatsumaki 22-25 3 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    For The Attention Of The HOH - I am hoping that any HOH out there may be kind enough to help me on a little query I have ? As some of you may know already, me and my hubby are...
    Hav1 Hav1 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    I Am A New Submissive Wife - I am just starting out on my new life as being submissive to my husband. I have bickered and argued with my husband for all 8 years of our marriage. On...
    Hav1 Hav1 41-45, F 8 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Living My Dreams - I married young, and I was awfully sure of myself. I knew the best way to eat, parent, you name it. I was bossy and opinionated. But inside, I had a deep...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Submitting To Submission - I’m a 46 year old, former career girl, now stay-at-home Mom with two young children whom I adore. My hubby and I just celebrated our 20th wedding...
    arielpacifica arielpacifica 46-50, F 8 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    It'S A New Decision For Me - Yesterday was my husband and my anniversary. We went out for dinner, which is something that we haven't done for a long time because we have two little...
    syengel syengel 26-30, F 3 Responses May 31, 2013

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    Just Do It ... (honey) - Man... what a wonderful retreat. I was off with my husband to a sunny, warm, ocean location. Dinners, strolls on the beach, even shuffleboard with a few...
    laserx laserx 46-50, F 13 Responses Apr 2, 2011

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    Saving Me... -      18 Years I was married to a man with a constant war between us going on.  Growing up in a home where the women ruled and knowing that...
    Happy2serve Happy2serve 41-45, F 22 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    My Mouth Is His To Use - We are kissing passionately, and I feel your hands on my shoulders pressing down, pushing me down to my knees. I gladly sink to my knees and pop your...
    nipply nipply 41-45, F Nov 17, 2013

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    Mom Taught Me How - I am submissive to my husband; he rules over our household and I try to live up to my marriage oath of obedience. To me, this is what marriage should be and...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle 22-25, F 22 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    Still Just Curious - Im a wanna be submissive wife. Havnt rrally told my husband yet.... but im wondering if he is attracted to my independence and thebfact that i take charge. So...
    dollface43 dollface43 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    Finding Peace And A New Life - For over 18 years I was married to a man that I didn't truly love....loved as the father of my children...loved because we were together for so many...
    jlccac jlccac 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    My Relationship With My Dominant Husband - i recently answered a question about how i first met the man who in time would become my Husband, Lord and Master. This was my answer of...
    katieslave katieslave 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 13, 2010

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    okay.. So I'm very confused on how to know the difference between punishment and taking it too far.. My boyfriend has spanked me for a while now, maybe 3 or 4 months, and its...
    ControlledLife ControlledLife 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    On Being Submissive - Do not adhere to the worlds standards of being submissive but to Gods standards. Being submissive bionically doesn't mean you let someone mistreat you or run...
    debasree debasree 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    The Journey Begins ... (aka ... Who Put That Freaking Boulder On Our Path?) - Ha! What a journey this has been the past few days. I cannot imagine a time when I was more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    My Husband Won'T Spank Me - So...my hubby and I had a big talk today about the taken in hand lifestyle that I want. It was really good to at last be able to discuss it face to face...
    Hav1 Hav1 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    It was right after class and i knew i was in trouble. I was supposed to have done my homework the night before, and because I didn't I was not going to get an "C" in the class. My...
    ControlledLife ControlledLife 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    I Couldn'T Wait To Share - I am almost at a loss for words right now ... not really, I'll think of something ;-) ... I'm really never at a loss for words ... LOL After writing my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Tonight Is The Night - Tonight is the night. Tonight I'm set to receive my first consequence. I'm a mix of giddy anticipation and a bit of dread. The week since I made my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 31, 2013

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 1) - By way of introduction, I am a strong independent professional. I was raised by my bitter divorced mother to believe that a woman never "needs" a...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F 3 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Do not speak unless spoken to, Sounds pretty harsh? Well that's what I thought at first. To sit back and reep the rewards from my Hoh is amazing, I honestly thought there would be...
    Flick86 Flick86 26-30, F 8 Responses Feb 25

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    Just Do It! (Honey...Updated) - So, once again we found ourselves on a vacation retreat in the American South. Though I had some behavioral issues last time we were to the warmer...
    laserx laserx 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Advice For Submissive Wives With beta Husbands - I found this on the internet and loved what the author writes about this so thought I would share with you. :o) If your husband is...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 3, 2011

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 2) - I wrote before in Pt. 1 about how I first learned that surrendering to my SO was the beginning of a beautiful relationship, more fulfilling than...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F 2 Responses May 15, 2013

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    Love Coupons - I wanted to make some "Love Coupons" for my Husband as a gift. I thought for a while and could not come up with any ideas. After all as a Submissive Wife I already...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 8 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    Feeling Complete - My life has completely changed for the better since meeting my Husband. I always felt the need to submit and he helps me with that everyday. I devote my life to...
    hishelper hishelper 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Looking For Advice From Submissive Wives - I am a younge wife and mom of a 7 mo old and also two months pregnant. I have thought about being a submissice wife but sometimes it...
    dollface43 dollface43 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    I Want To Be Someday. - Someday i want to be a submissive wife, fill the needs of the man i love. Be open to him, my light and dark sides. Let him help me through my rough spots...
    Caitlinsmith1636 Caitlinsmith1636 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    Submissive Fiancee - I have been with my dominant boyfriend for 5 years and we plan to be married sometime within next two years. he is the dominant one of our relationship I...
    Crys98 Crys98 31-35 4 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    How We Started - I guess he knew right from the start of our relationship that I had submissive tendencies. He started spanking me almost as soon as we started dating. I had never...
    HisToy HisToy 51-55 7 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    One More Of Us - One Less Of Them - i have been lurking around here for some weeks now, and so i really should contribute, although i'm not sure i have anything worthwhile to add...
    newjaninev2 newjaninev2 46-50, F 12 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    What I Wish I Had. - I wisH my husband wanted me to be more submissive. Especially in the bedroom. I want to be his submissive during the day and almost a slave at night. I don't...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie 31-35, F 23 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    My Masters Gift - Something amazing happened at the weekend, my Master gave my obedience to my husband. My husband had asked me if I could serve him as I serve my Master, when I...
    ncss ncss 36-40, F Mar 3, 2013

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    Newly Submissive Wife - We have started this journey about 6 months ago, I love being a submissive wife. I love when I get my spankings, it really turns me on.
    malllady malllady 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    I Am Truly Submissive - I am truly submissive to my husband. This has always been the case even when I was married to my ex-husband. He was rather inmature and had some anger...
    Yellowbird88 Yellowbird88 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    I Love - Reading all your experiences in this group and dominant men have always done it for me ;) But I really can never see myself becoming submissive. I love rough sex and...
    ShyBiButterfly ShyBiButterfly 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    Discipline - I earned my first discipline this past Tuesday night.  I was upset with our daughters and lost track of time.  In my chaos and upset I forgot his rules...
    ForestFaery ForestFaery 41-45, F 19 Responses Jun 4, 2010

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    What Do You Think Of This Poem Found In The Book "when Fathers Ruled"? - Men to rule our wives with understanding Not by harassment and crude tyranny Because wives are...
    cwred523 cwred523 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 20, 2011

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    Not Just For The Bedroom. - I don't consider my relationship that of a lifestyle. My HOH and I don't have "sessions" where we enact sexual things and go about our day acting like...
    AmericanLeanings AmericanLeanings 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    Comfort Zone - I feel my very best when I am doing things for him. I have truly given my whole being to him. when he gets home I am there with an ice cold drink and...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    What Do I Say ... - I'm new to the EP and to this group. Brand new. I'm hoping some can help with my question. I believe you can as I've read so many supportive and uplifting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Fallen Off The Wagon... - Hi everyone. I've been absent from here for a few months as I have been very slack and managed to slip back into my bad old ways. In some ways I blame my...
    Hav1 Hav1 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2013

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    A New Paddle - This past Christmas Master said he was wanting a firm loofa he could use on his lower legs and feet. He gets really bad dry skin, especially on his lower legs and...
    HubbysBaby HubbysBaby 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Is This Being Dominant? - Good morning! So yesterday I confirmed with my hubby that we are both up for and agreed to a DS marriage. I made him aware that I am also agreed to him...
    Hav1 Hav1 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    Just Need A Soapbox Moment - i'm sorry if this offends anyone but I am so aggravated by the absolutist idea that all women are inferior to men and need to be controlled. it's one...
    shadowplayTH shadowplayTH 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    Wives And Husbands : What Bible Says - Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his...
    debasree debasree 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    Consequences For Disobedience - This week I was assigned to spend a half hour with my daughter each day, just one on one. I was to report to my hunny nightly of our activities. He...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 1, 2012