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I Am a Submissive Woman

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    Weekend Assignment – Dec 7-8 On top of the

    regular weekend routine I have started to embrace, which includes daily recaps, photos of what I am wearing, and reciting my new prayer, My Sir planned some additional tasks for me to complete this weekend: 1. ****-worshipping blog – my Sir came across a ****-worshipping...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F Dec 8, 2013

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    New To It All. Need Information Please. Any Helps.

    I've just recently figured out I'm a submissive. I didn't understand why the boyfriends I've had irritated me by being passive. I figured out that I wanted them to be in control, to tell me what to do ect... And looking into my overall personality I've found that I'm always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 17, 2012

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    An Unexpected, Suprising Submissive

    I am only submissive in relationships, but men dont realize this until they are in relationships with me; before we are intimate they think I'm headstrong and stubborn, which is never the case in relationships and certainly won't be the case in any lasting relationships, eg...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 1, 2012

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    Question # 18 And Learning To Be Submissive

    "18. your Master calls you. It is 9 AM on a Saturday morning. He explains to you that he would like to take you on a picnic, you explain that you just gotten up and still would want to take a shower. your Master understands, and says:” OK, but then come right down after you...
    mellowcathy mellowcathy 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    New lady subs - have questions,

    feel free to msg me
    guyhere4u guyhere4u 41-45, M Jun 4

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    Dominant Slave

    Well, many complained I wanted to guide, lead, rule...but it is not true. It nerves me when people do stupidities, sometimes U have to stand up and show them they are simply ...stupid... Unfortunately, the result is people in most cases- listen. Or, I adapt to them. But, I lie...
    silentwater1 silentwater1 31-35 Jul 21, 2013

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    Looking 4 A Female Sub/Wife Over 18 In The USA.

    Looking 4 a Female sub/wife over 18 in the USA.
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112 41-45, M Oct 22, 2013

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    Follow-up to my Weekend Assignments - Dec 7-8

    Story: My Sir approved my story on Why I Love Sucking ****. I have submitted it to the **** Worshipping Society in hopes to become a member. The story is posted on a few groups here but can also be found at: http://fornicaria14.blogspot.ca/ Look forward to your feedback :)
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F Dec 9, 2013

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    I find pleasure, joy,

    and fulfillment from being submissive to another in a loving relationship. I am not weak, or stupid. I am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what I want out of my life. I do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength. I look to my...
    ScarletKnight ScarletKnight 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 23

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    Looking Forward To My Training

    For the past 23 years I have focused my entire life on my career. During that timeframe, I managed to give birth to two beautiful daughters, who I love very much, but my career was always the priority, more so when I had them as I was in a ****** marriage where I had no support...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    Proud To Be Submissive

    After a full week back studying- after hols, a change was inevitable but we are doing so well! Friday Husband came home at lunch and was so Dominant I melted. A crazy weekend has resulted in me submitting even more. My latest way to let it all go is to go braless at home. I...
    Ang14 Ang14 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    Liberating Submissiveness

    Being submissive is one thing, but for the past several years of our marriage I had lived our life in some sort of secret shell. I made my husband promise me that no one in my family will ever know that lifestyle we were starting. There were a lot of things I could not explain...
    mellowcathy mellowcathy 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    Type A+ Woman Learning To Dominate Myself

    The most shattering experience of my life to date has been Vegan's abandonment of me. I wish he'd used our safeword when he needed to. He didn't. He simply allowed everything to build to his breaking point and then abandoned me. I don't take well to anyone speaking ill of him, no...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F Jan 12, 2013

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    I've Always Wanted To Be Dominated!

    For as long as I can remember, well since puberty, I've always enjoyed things a little more rough than usual. I' ve had plenty of boyfriends and sexual partners. Just none that quite live up to my sexual fantasy. Always having to say, "harder" or "smack my ***" or "choke me...
    arose38 arose38 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    BDSM Online Training

    Greetings, I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training slots open, if you are seriously looking for training in the...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Oct 22, 2013

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    Male Dom Looking For A Female Sub Over 18 For An Online Or Telephone Relationship

    I would be interested in an online or telephone domestic discipline relationship with a woman over 18. No camming or Skype is necessary. Also, the biggest sexual organ in the body is the brain, so this can be fun. My philosophy of the dominant submissive relationship is that the...
    peterblack82 peterblack82 51-55, M Mar 30, 2013

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    **** on her Knees -- An Evening At The Theater

    [This is actually part 3 of -- & a different perspective on -- 'wsgc Goes to the Theater' , posted elsewhere on EP.] One of my favorite things is to break a *****. Get past her defenses & demean & humiliate her until she gets to the point where I can make her admit – out loud...
    itsfunwhentheybeg3 itsfunwhentheybeg3 56-60, M Jun 13, 2013

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    "baby Steps Ginger"

    My Sir often says to me when I am eager to jump forward at lightning speed. It is how My Sir reassures me. So I am a newbie and quite accidentally. I wasnt necessarily looking for a D/s relationship but when my Sir crossed my path and quite directly approached me about the...
    SirsGinger SirsGinger 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 17, 2011

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    "*** Up - Head Down" -- the words come out of

    me - not a request -- not a bark -- but a quite dictate -- something you are needing - direction -- you know what comes - but you need to be lead there - and you have given me control to lead you - you have given me your trust -- - I feel your resistance slip away - as your...
    bijohn4both bijohn4both 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    I Was Bitchy

    I was super. Bitchy today. Couldn't make up my mind about anything hated everything and everybody. And I mean right up until the last phone call asking if I was close. Yeah. Yeah turning around now. Then I saw my DOM step out of his car and I got out of mine. Suddendly. I was...
    Iamonaquest Iamonaquest 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    Learning To Submit And Obey

    I really don't know, why the thought of total obedience and submission was attractive to me. It also was the most difficult and challenging part in the development of my relationship with Brad. There was someone who had introduced us to each other. At first it was a bit awkward...
    mellowcathy mellowcathy 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2011

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    Feeling More Secure

    Kevin and I sat down this morning and went over a set of rules and protocol for our relationship. It really helps me understand my place in our marriage. 1. Punishment for not listening or obeying = spanking across the knee. 2. Punishment for arguing with Kevin about decisions...
    shadowsgrrl shadowsgrrl 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Seeking Advice From Experienced Submissive Women

    I am new to explicit sexual submission. I have probably (really) always been sexually submissive, but only recently have I really "embraced" it. I want to submit to a dominant man (sometimes I imagine a woman) and to serve his every whim. It makes me wet and satisfies me. I want...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 29, 2013

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    Total Submission To My Husband.

    I am just starting out in the submissive role. I have to say that I have wanted it for a long time. My Husband is very pleased that I have consented to obey him properly. For the most part it is easy because he is a very good Master. But sometimes I am a little worried that I...
    Lucia33 Lucia33 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    Weekend Assignments

    As I have minimal communication with my Sir on weekends, on Fridays He has started assigning weekend projects for me. A couple of weekends ago, I was allowed to *** as many times as I wanted and email my Sir each time I did. I was also instructed to make a video or two for my...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F Dec 3, 2013

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    I Submit His breath at my ear

    and the words “You are mine Little One…tonight I will do with you as I see fit. Do you understand.” I could hardly disagree. My beating heart made my answer come out in a breathy swoosh as I whispered “Yes Sir”.
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    To My Fiance

    Posted May 3rd, 2011 at 10:25PM I have not always been submissive. In fact, I used to be completely the opposite. I was never dominant nesecarily, but I would get rebellious when I was asked to do even the simplest of things. I have been with my fiance for 4 years. And he has...
    LeatherLacey LeatherLacey 22-25, F May 3, 2011

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    The Submissive (Author Unknown)

    I came across this beautiful written piece in my online travels on the weekend. I don't know where I found it & haven't been able to find it again to give it the proper credit. If you have seen this before and know who the author was, please let me know so that I may give proper...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F Nov 25, 2013

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    Can I Call You Daddy?

    I'm starting to realize that I want to submit to every man I have sex with. I beg them and plead with them (can I call you daddy?), because it pleases me to have to request a man's passion. His permission to worship him. I love to show him my face and my body yearning for him. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    Beyond The Epiphany - A Submissive Woman's Journey

    The moment I walked through the epiphany is the moment I became the submissive woman I've always known myself to be. I felt my body for the very first time. The curves, the breasts, the clitoris....and a flood of moisture rushed to my ***** in a way that it never had before. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    A Sub's Role

    You should be sure before you become sub to a 24/7 APE/TPE Master. A Master's duty to his sub is to care for her 24/7, it is a great responsibility, as she has handed to him complete control of her life. She has to rely on him making the decisions which he formerly had control...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 12, 2012

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    I Am A Sub Woman in the bedroom, but a Dom in the streets!

    I'm the kind of woman that's educated, career minded, and am willing and ready to tackle anything and anyone that gets in my way. I'm aggressive and assertive, but in the bedroom, my preference is to be the submissive partner, and be dominated by my lover. The feeling of freedom...
    Lana28 Lana28 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    What Women Are Good For

    Human ******* are good for four things & four things only: breeding, sex, servitude, and suffering. Not necessarily in that order. All females should be trained to accept this truth from an early age. In a perfect world this would be pursued openly & publicly. Human...
    itsfunwhentheybeg3 itsfunwhentheybeg3 56-60, M 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    A Submissive's Prayer to Her Sir.

    .. Yesterday, My Sir instructed me to create a prayer that I can recite three times a day - kneeling by the bed in the morning and in the evening and once during lunch. I am to work on memorizing it so that when we are together, I can kneel before Him and recite it for Him. I am...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F Dec 4, 2013

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    I am submissive by choice.

    I live to please people, I have always had that about me. Its something that is like set in stone deep down in my bones. I am happy when I am making others happy, and when I make others feel good. Nothing makes me happier, than knowing i'm the reason behind someone's happiness...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17

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    Does Your Dominant Partner

    Get upset with you as a sub initiate sex?
    PrincessJAF PrincessJAF 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    Punishment - Dec 13th Well,

    I've learned not to be such a smart *** when speaking with my Sir.... Last Thursday, I was speaking with my Sir about a house party I was going to be attending on Friday evening. I had asked permission to go, which my Sir graciously granted. He had asked if my daughter was...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    It Is My Need

    It is my need to be submissive and to surrender control of myself to my husband. He understands me so very well and meets my need by being so masterful and dominant. It is the perfect marriage. The utter blissful freedom that a woman finds in total submission is the path to her...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F May 30, 2012

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    I love being tied up wearing only pantyhose

    and men looking at me as I struggle.
    Silkylegs74 Silkylegs74 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    My Training Has Begun

    Last week, my Sir blessed me with his presence for an early morning visit :) I was waiting patiently, anxiously, at the front door, in my usual greeting position, on my knees, head down, hands clasped behind my back. He walked in, locked the door, touched me softly and told me...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F Nov 30, 2013

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Aug 1, 2013

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    It's 11 am and I'm already exhausted,

    but in a really great way :) My Sir ordered me to do some things this morning while I am at work that involves me using my lipstick vibe :) Releasing for him once in my office while on the phone with him had me panting like a female dog in heat. Releasing for him twice while...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F Feb 24

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    I Am Trying To Understand

    I am trying to figure out why right now. I have been strong all my life but I find myself with a longing that seems to fit into submission. Everything feels off center. I don't know where to begin or what to think. It all stated with reading a book and I found myself feeling...
    Aroura0 Aroura0 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 17, 2011

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 2)

    I wrote before in Pt. 1 about how I first learned that surrendering to my SO was the beginning of a beautiful relationship, more fulfilling than I can possibly imagine. I soon wanted to please him so much. When I made him happy, I was happy. I started to feel a level of...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F May 15, 2013

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    Seeking The Sub's POV

    As a Dom, people often ask about the relationship between the Dom and the sub. Some are wannabe Doms, others are wannabe subs. Some are neither, but curious. Many wrongly assume that is entirely about sex, with the Dom as some sort of Sheik, the sub or subs some obsequious...
    niplover6969 niplover6969 51-55, M Sep 15, 2013

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    I Want To Surrender

    I want to surrender, I want him to tell me exactly what I can do to please him. I want to feel him in me as it pleases him. I want to give him everything. I want him to make me feel and help me through things that challenge me. I want him to love me and give me part of him. I...
    Aroura0 Aroura0 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 5, 2012

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    Balancing Two Worlds

    Being a submissive woman, and specifically, a submissive feminist is a weird place to be. I'm independent but want my lover to be the power-wielder in our relationship. I resent being told what to do...unless it is by him. Then I'm weak in the knees and incredibly aroused...
    secondschance secondschance 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 1)

    By way of introduction, I am a strong independent professional. I was raised by my bitter divorced mother to believe that a woman never "needs" a man for anything, that I should be equal to any man and that I can do everything as well, if not better, than any man. Looking back...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F 1 Response May 9, 2013

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    Submitting To Myself

    I must be a submissive by my very nature. Most of that is more a sexual turn on than anything else, I think. I don't remember the name of the movie, but it had Charles Bronson in it. I was 12 or so, when I saw it. He had this girl ***** in front of some guys in a parking garage...
    slave82782 slave82782 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am new to a submissive/dominate dynamic looking to talk with other subs about their experiences. Are there any submissive women (preferably) willing to talk?
    Messica83 Messica83 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Submissive girl here who loves a dominant daddy 18-35.
    CatalinaPetrova CatalinaPetrova 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I am a 19 year old dom looking for a 18-27 year old male submissive, please message me if interested.
    anushkadave123 anushkadave123 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I am extremely submissive to my dom
    stephMahar stephMahar 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago