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I Am a Submissive Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 831 People

    An Unexpected, Suprising Submissive

    I am only submissive in relationships, but men dont realize this until they are in relationships with me; before we are intimate they think I'm headstrong and stubborn, which is never the case in relationships and certainly won't be the case in any lasting relationships, eg...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2012

    Indeed I am - although I've never had the

    chance to put it into practice properly because too many men are boring vanillas and not enough men are DOMINANT!!!! =O
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    I love being tied up wearing only pantyhose

    and men looking at me as I struggle.
    Silkylegs74 Silkylegs74
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2014

    I find pleasure, joy,

    and fulfillment from being submissive to another in a loving relationship. I am not weak, or stupid. I am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what I want out of my life. I do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength. I look to my...
    ScarletKnight ScarletKnight
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 23, 2014
    insanityrunsinthefamily insanityrunsinthefamily
    51-55, F
    Dec 31, 2015

    A submissives work is never done.

    If you’re not working at a job so that you might give your earnings to the Man above you, you’re scrubbing His toilets. If you’re not scrubbing His toilets, you’re sucking His c.o.c.k If you’re not sucking His c.o.c.k, you’re cooking His dinner. If you’re not...
    ShesAWildFlower ShesAWildFlower
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2015

    "baby Steps Ginger"

    My Sir often says to me when I am eager to jump forward at lightning speed. It is how My Sir reassures me. So I am a newbie and quite accidentally. I wasnt necessarily looking for a D/s relationship but when my Sir crossed my path and quite directly approached me about the...
    SirsGinger SirsGinger
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2011

    Liberating Submissiveness

    Being submissive is one thing, but for the past several years of our marriage I had lived our life in some sort of secret shell. I made my husband promise me that no one in my family will ever know that lifestyle we were starting. There were a lot of things I could not explain...
    mellowcathy mellowcathy
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2011

    To My Fiance

    Posted May 3rd, 2011 at 10:25PM I have not always been submissive. In fact, I used to be completely the opposite. I was never dominant nesecarily, but I would get rebellious when I was asked to do even the simplest of things. I have been with my fiance for 4 years. And he has...
    LeatherLacey LeatherLacey
    22-25, F
    May 3, 2011

    Total Submission To My Husband.

    I am just starting out in the submissive role. I have to say that I have wanted it for a long time. My Husband is very pleased that I have consented to obey him properly. For the most part it is easy because he is a very good Master. But sometimes I am a little worried that I...
    Lucia33 Lucia33
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2012

    Kinda taking a dabble into new things

    and I have to say I quite like being dominated..... currently kinda being taught. Please do not hmu with pervy questions though, I'm not interested in hookups.
    kelsey1426 kelsey1426
    18-21, F
    Nov 14, 2015

    - my submissive self .

    ..is the part of me that is the deepest of me. The part that wants to please and obey. The part that believes in male superiority. The part that feels needy to be guided and controlled. My submissive self is a pure, genuine, vast space that has no bottom, no walls, no ceiling...
    sunroses1 sunroses1
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    A Sub's Role

    You should be sure before you become sub to a 24/7 APE/TPE Master. A Master's duty to his sub is to care for her 24/7, it is a great responsibility, as she has handed to him complete control of her life. She has to rely on him making the decisions which he formerly had control...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 12, 2012

    I Want To Surrender

    I want to surrender, I want him to tell me exactly what I can do to please him. I want to feel him in me as it pleases him. I want to give him everything. I want him to make me feel and help me through things that challenge me. I want him to love me and give me part of him. I...
    Aroura0 Aroura0
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 5, 2012

    I am looking for totally submissive females

    who truly want to submit to an Owner! I want those who feel as if this is what they are meant to be. Do not waste my time otherwise! Message me and tell me what you want.
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe
    51-55, M
    Mar 11, 2015

    Seeking Advice From Experienced Submissive Women

    I am new to explicit sexual submission. I have probably (really) always been sexually submissive, but only recently have I really "embraced" it. I want to submit to a dominant man (sometimes I imagine a woman) and to serve his every whim. It makes me wet and satisfies me. I want...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 29, 2013

    Submitting To Myself

    I must be a submissive by my very nature. Most of that is more a sexual turn on than anything else, I think. I don't remember the name of the movie, but it had Charles Bronson in it. I was 12 or so, when I saw it. He had this girl ***** in front of some guys in a parking garage...
    slave82782 slave82782
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 3, 2012

    Well, it hurts to admit this here,

    but I have not heard from my daddy in a week. Might not sound a long time, but in our relationship its an eternity. No explanation, no reason. Nothing. I had done nothing wrong. We spoke briefly on the phone friday night as he was due to come to me but never showed. He was...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 27

    "*** Up - Head Down" -- the words come out of

    me - not a request -- not a bark -- but a quite dictate -- something you are needing - direction -- you know what comes - but you need to be lead there - and you have given me control to lead you - you have given me your trust -- - I feel your resistance slip away - as your...
    bijohn4both bijohn4both
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 9, 2013

    Life is busy. We are constantly running in

    every direction. I commute to work (1 hour each way), we have kids, the gym, and commitments within our community. By the end of the day we are tired and need to just zone out for a bit. Nothing wrong with all of this....its a familiar story to many. The problem is, that its...
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility
    36-40, F
    Jan 24, 2015

    Heya ladies, I'm getting pretty tired of being

    told, “You can't write this or that.” I've decided that's ok though because I've found a new website. I've only been here for 2 weeks but it's 100% FREE with thousands of active open minded people like us. It's called Secret Erotica . Com. I hope you guys don't read this as...
    DevilishTongue DevilishTongue
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    Flower from Filth I am the child posed

    submissive. A lotus flower of infinite petals under your heavy heeled touch. Let me see your incensed love burn hot against my skin while the tremble in my breath sings like the sparrow in her silver cage. Alight this rose married anguish from my body and let me, in time, be the...
    GypsyHeartedPoet GypsyHeartedPoet
    41-45, F
    Jan 23, 2015

    Can I Call You Daddy?

    I'm starting to realize that I want to submit to every man I have sex with. I beg them and plead with them (can I call you daddy?), because it pleases me to have to request a man's passion. His permission to worship him. I love to show him my face and my body yearning for him. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

    I am submissive by choice.

    I live to please people, I have always had that about me. Its something that is like set in stone deep down in my bones. I am happy when I am making others happy, and when I make others feel good. Nothing makes me happier, than knowing i'm the reason behind someone's happiness...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 17, 2014

    Dominant Slave

    Well, many complained I wanted to guide, lead, rule...but it is not true. It nerves me when people do stupidities, sometimes U have to stand up and show them they are simply ...stupid... Unfortunately, the result is people in most cases- listen. Or, I adapt to them. But, I lie...
    silentwater1 silentwater1
    36-40
    Jul 21, 2013

    I Am Looking For An Online Female Dom

    I am looking for an online female dom I am married so it must be discrete Let me know if you are interested.
    TToy22 TToy22
    22-25, F
    Feb 23, 2013

    I am looking for a long term female slave 18+

    yrs of age to take the place of one I recently released. I am an older experienced owner.
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe
    51-55, M
    Jan 9

    Balancing Two Worlds

    Being a submissive woman, and specifically, a submissive feminist is a weird place to be. I'm independent but want my lover to be the power-wielder in our relationship. I resent being told what to do...unless it is by him. Then I'm weak in the knees and incredibly aroused...
    secondschance secondschance
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2009

    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 2)

    I wrote before in Pt. 1 about how I first learned that surrendering to my SO was the beginning of a beautiful relationship, more fulfilling than I can possibly imagine. I soon wanted to please him so much. When I made him happy, I was happy. I started to feel a level of...
    star4425 star4425
    51-55, F
    May 15, 2013

    Well, it hurts to admit this here,

    but I have not heard from my daddy in a week. Might not sound a long time, but in our relationship its an eternity. No explanation, no reason. Nothing. I had done nothing wrong. We spoke briefly on the phone friday night as he was due to come to me but never showed. He was...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 27

    Feeling More Secure

    Kevin and I sat down this morning and went over a set of rules and protocol for our relationship. It really helps me understand my place in our marriage. 1. Punishment for not listening or obeying = spanking across the knee. 2. Punishment for arguing with Kevin about decisions...
    shadowsgrrl shadowsgrrl
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Sep 30, 2008

    I Am A Sub Woman in the bedroom, but a Dom in the streets!

    I'm the kind of woman that's educated, career minded, and am willing and ready to tackle anything and anyone that gets in my way. I'm aggressive and assertive, but in the bedroom, my preference is to be the submissive partner, and be dominated by my lover. The feeling of freedom...
    Lana28 Lana28
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    Beyond The Epiphany - A Submissive Woman's Journey

    The moment I walked through the epiphany is the moment I became the submissive woman I've always known myself to be. I felt my body for the very first time. The curves, the breasts, the clitoris....and a flood of moisture rushed to my ***** in a way that it never had before. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 2, 2012

    I Submit His breath at my ear

    and the words “You are mine Little One…tonight I will do with you as I see fit. Do you understand.” I could hardly disagree. My beating heart made my answer come out in a breathy swoosh as I whispered “Yes Sir”.
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    Looking 4 A Female Sub/Wife Over 18 In The USA.

    Looking 4 a Female sub/wife over 18 in the USA.
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112
    41-45, M
    Oct 22, 2013

    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 1)

    By way of introduction, I am a strong independent professional. I was raised by my bitter divorced mother to believe that a woman never "needs" a man for anything, that I should be equal to any man and that I can do everything as well, if not better, than any man. Looking back...
    star4425 star4425
    51-55, F
    1 Response May 9, 2013

    Learning To Submit And Obey

    I really don't know, why the thought of total obedience and submission was attractive to me. It also was the most difficult and challenging part in the development of my relationship with Brad. There was someone who had introduced us to each other. At first it was a bit awkward...
    mellowcathy mellowcathy
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2011
    Daddysdaughters Daddysdaughters
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2015

    I've Always Wanted To Be Dominated!

    For as long as I can remember, well since puberty, I've always enjoyed things a little more rough than usual. I' ve had plenty of boyfriends and sexual partners. Just none that quite live up to my sexual fantasy. Always having to say, "harder" or "smack my ***" or "choke me...
    arose38 arose38
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 18, 2013

    I Am Trying To Understand

    I am trying to figure out why right now. I have been strong all my life but I find myself with a longing that seems to fit into submission. Everything feels off center. I don't know where to begin or what to think. It all stated with reading a book and I found myself feeling...
    Aroura0 Aroura0
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Dec 17, 2011

    I Was Bitchy

    I was super. Bitchy today. Couldn't make up my mind about anything hated everything and everybody. And I mean right up until the last phone call asking if I was close. Yeah. Yeah turning around now. Then I saw my DOM step out of his car and I got out of mine. Suddendly. I was...
    Iamonaquest Iamonaquest
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2013

    Male Dom Looking For A Female Sub Over 18 For An Online Or Telephone Relationship

    I would be interested in an online or telephone domestic discipline relationship with a woman over 18. No camming or Skype is necessary. Also, the biggest sexual organ in the body is the brain, so this can be fun. My philosophy of the dominant submissive relationship is that the...
    peterblack82 peterblack82
    51-55, M
    Mar 30, 2013

    And am happy to talk to anyone

    who might be genuinely interested in this kind of lifestyle. Only with those that respect my relationship though. I will only talk to people who are not trying to engage in any kind of intimate chat. I could not be less interested. I am monogamous and loyal to him on every...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 1

    The Club

    My Master took me to a very special club. It was indeed a very sexy one, i felt so sensual and liberated. my Master was very proud of me and that makes me very happy. i was wearing a very, very revealing Mrs. Claus outfit, which a lot of people complimented on it. my boobs...
    HisMastersproperty HisMastersproperty
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 8, 2013
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