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I Am a Submissive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 4,784 People

    So here's a questions I get asked quite

    frequently. Why are you a submissive and what is a submissive. There is no specific reason why I am a submissive. I didn't wake up one day and say here's why I wanna let a man dominate me. I am a submissive because it's the only part of me that makes me truly happy with myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 26

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    My first date with my former partner was

    amazing. We had been talking on the phone for a couple of months and finally had a chance to meet. He took me out to dinner. I was wearing a halter top black and white polka dot dress and polka dot heels. I love 50's fashion. He told me how amazing I looked. He always made me...
    AmberDawn78 AmberDawn78 36-40, F 6 Responses May 29, 2014

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    Master says I must have my story by 1am.

    . So here goes.. Something I've always wanted to tell you but I never have.. You're the only dominant and man who's ever has this effect on me. Who stops my breathing with just 1 word.. Who makes my heart speed up and makes me smile like an idiot. You give me this sense...
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    Lizzyjo123 Lizzyjo123 18-21, F 14 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    Intelligence & Submissives

    An intelligent submissive appreciates the beauty of the dance on the fringe. She is a strong, independent, talented, capable woman in her own right, yet she hungers for a Dominant who can **** her mind long before he touches her body. She needs a man who can respect her as an...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 40 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    looking for a female dominant

    for fun n games, iow or near please, any nasty or unjust messages will be removed and blocked xx
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001 36-40, F Sep 25, 2015

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    Djmeowmix1 Djmeowmix1 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    33 years old single dom looking

    for sub to own message me
    sexydom33 sexydom33 31-35, M Jan 22

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    I have a medical issue

    that is not life threatning or even affects my health.This problem is called Gynecomastia it is caused from so many different things doctors are not sure of the cause and effects as many as 15 to 25 percent of all males.The effects are a male developes female breast.Mine started...
    rline51 rline51 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 5, 2015

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    I found myself day dreaming today.

    . You were there again.. You walked in our room and gave me that oh so sexy, but very demanding look.. I knew what to do. I took my position in the middle of our floor. You walked up to me wearing those jeans that fit you oh so well, hugging your hips making you look delicious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I am a submissive. I enjoy the views of life I

    hold dear. I know its not for everyone and I know not all submissives are the same. for me I thrive on in the environment of having rules and boundaries and answering for my actions. I like asking for permission and guidance. I enjoy knowing that my man is stronger and smarter...
    giggles78758 giggles78758 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 8, 2015

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    I am a very submissive bottom guy.

    Love dominant guys to explore my body any way they want, order me to please them how ever they wish!!
    cumster43 cumster43 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 28, 2015

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    My Journey - Sir found me about 5 months ago

    from a story I wrote here on EP. When He first found me, I was untrained and knew next to nothing about what it really meant to be in a D/S relationship. I was highly undisciplined and couldn't manage to follow the simplest of rules. Sir has been exceedingly patient with me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 4, 2014

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    I never really did anything of this kind (there.

    .. it's off my chest) but I think I would like it.
    horse89 horse89 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2015

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    I Crave...

    total loss of control. When I have sex I want to be tied up with minimal movement. I need to be completely ravaged, every inch of my body caressed, slapped, pinched, kissed & licked. All orafices filled completely and totally used. Talk to me - call me your ***** and your...
    loralei3000 loralei3000 46-50, F 12 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    This site sucks sometimes.

    We should be able to post whatever comes to mind.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Nothing Else...

    ...need be said. As I stand, presented, he claims what is his.  [few minutes back]  Each night, every night, as I think about retiring to bed, I take care to place my clothes and such back in order, sorted for cleaning.  Next, I cleanse my face and body...made ready for...
    laserx laserx 46-50, F 9 Responses May 6, 2013

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    there are lots of different dominants out there.

    my Dom is looking for some new ideas, so I would live to hear what some of the dominants would suggest.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2015

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    THE TIME I MADE MASTER CALL RED… A week.

    A whole week of punishment. Every time I did something he didn’t like he would simply make me suck him again. He wouldn’t touch me. Not even hit me. Because that wouldn’t be punishment, I would enjoy it too much. He said ‘the only way to get through to you is to do...
    ohmylovelygosh ohmylovelygosh 22-25, F 3 Responses May 21, 2015

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    Deeper Thoughts About A Letter.

    I got a letter this morning. It made me stop dead in my tracks and really think.  I've thought about this before but never allowed myself  to dwell on it.  Why?  Cause it's darn scary.  But I sort of did dwell on it a little today.  The person who wrote me said it was ok...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 25 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    Im so ready for christmas!

    It will be my first christmas while living with my sir =) I love this christmas themed collar I just made. KinkyCustomCollars.etsy.com
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2015

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    1. A sub's duty does not include sending nude

    pics to anyone he/she meets online, or anywhere for that matter. 2. Respect is earned, not handed over. Simply because you claim to be a Dom doesn't mean any sub should worship the ground you walk upon. 3. If the only way you earn respect is by violent training tactics, you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    In my job I'm in charge.

    Big decisions daily. That's why when it comes to sex I like to just let go and enjoy.
    NaughtyMegan NaughtyMegan 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 12, 2015

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    I want to be a good submissive wife to my

    fiancée. Can anyone suggest any good readings to be the best one I can be?
    takemeaway1969 takemeaway1969 46-50, F May 17, 2015

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    A Transformation

    I am a submissive and a slave in training. Growing up I had no idea this is where life would take me. I had always planned to be the career woman: strong independent, self reliant and the bread winner who didn't need a man even if having one would be really nice. However, as I...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    The Real Me

    I enjoy being submissive but beyond that and within that “title” I am a woman that truly enjoys sex, f*cking, making love, or whatever you want to call it- I am totally in for some of it. I enjoy all facets of sex, not just submitting to a man. I like being on top, teasing...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 19, 2015

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    I have been a 24/7 slave

    for 11 months now and the amount of progress I have made is impressive to me. When I first started I was pretty clueless and while I freely admit I still have a great deal to learn I feel more confident than I did before. I have gain some skills I didn't have before: am more...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2014

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    I'm not sure if I'm submissive.

    I don't like serious pain or anything. I just like being a little F toy for older men. I like fulfilling their nastiest of fantasies.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 21, 2015

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    As long as you make sure

    that I can't fight back, you can force me to do whatever pleases you
    WillingKarina WillingKarina 22-25, F 9 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I was in a Dominant/submissive relationship

    as the sub, but we haven't seen each other in 6 months, agreement on both of our parts. Planning to reconnect tomorrow and I really don't know what to expect. I'm nervous, apprehensive, yet have definitely missed that part of my life. I was an excellent sub, he said that...
    44curious 44curious 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 10, 2015

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    subboy17 subboy17 18-21, M Oct 3, 2015

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    My inner masochist got the better of me.

    I'm watching the evil movie... You know the one. I'll probably be shunned by the entire BDSM community. :
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub 31-35, F 9 Responses May 12, 2015

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    I love making big old fake wannabe D-types

    uncomfortable. I'm a submissive, not a doormat. And Master fully supports me being myself. We had a nice laugh today over coffee about today's run-in with an "internet Dom".
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub 31-35, F May 1, 2015

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    Wanting to Give

    I am super submissive and am going to see my matser this weekend. My hubby will be home while my military man does all the things he desires to me. I am counting the minutes till I can feel him grab me by my collar or hair & make me be his dirty slave. I love it when he binds...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 31, 2007

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    Im really a switch, but

    when you make me sub i do it all including forced bi. But if I am made to I will
    funguyct funguyct 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 27, 2015

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    Spankee30 Spankee30 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2015

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    alexiswcd alexiswcd 56-60, T 1 Response Jan 3

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    Misunderstood Submissives

    A spin off of Mr.Crimsonx3's " Misunderstood Doms" I wanted to shed light on the stereotypes a submissive receives.I cannot single out any one factor that leads to such revolting and horrifically misinterpreted view points derive from, but here are a few.1. A sub's duty does not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jun 1, 2012

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    Another interesting night with my Master.

    I felt that it deserved writing down. I’m a well behaved sub. I don’t argue or fight back. I do as I’m told. Usually anyway… I have body issues. I don’t like being naked, it just makes me uncomfortable. Because of this I’m not much into getting naughty in a public...
    ohmylovelygosh ohmylovelygosh 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    Yes, raregem is a submissive.

    It amuses her Sir when she tries to act like she can turn it on and off.... raregem talks a good game, but her Sir knows her inside and out... raregem IS a submissive and she'll never change! When raregem does good, she feels that welling up of emotion that comes when her Sir...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13, 2015

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    Here's a word of advice to all of my fellow

    submissive, NEVER, and I do mean NEVER, deny yourself of who you really are. Don't tell yourself, oh, I can handle it.. I can suppress it.. I can go with out it.. Because you CANT. It'll make you depressed. It'll make you angry. You'll go everyday longing for this.. You'll...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 30

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    Scissors

    I had a wonderful surprise from my Sir yesterday. I was in a ratty pair of pjs that I have to admit were not very flattering but they were warm and very very comfortable. These pjs are ones that are flannel and thread bare. First pick out of the drawer when you really do not feel...
    beautifulsubmissive beautifulsubmissive 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I Want Freedom. I Want Sin....

    “It’s not the strength of the chains that bind you that really matters. It’s the strength of the hands that put them on.”
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 30 Responses Mar 9, 2013

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