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I Am a Submissive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 4,508 People

    My Christmas gift finally arrived.

    .. It was a little over a year ago when a friend on ep introduced me to a website... and to a wonderful sensual chair. Ever since than, I've brought it up many times to my husband... often times showing him the video... Well...my hard work has finally paid off... it was...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Deeper Thoughts About A Letter.

    I got a letter this morning. It made me stop dead in my tracks and really think.  I've thought about this before but never allowed myself  to dwell on it.  Why?  Cause it's darn scary.  But I sort of did dwell on it a little today.  The person who wrote me said it was ok...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 24 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I Crave...

    total loss of control. When I have sex I want to be tied up with minimal movement. I need to be completely ravaged, every inch of my body caressed, slapped, pinched, kissed & licked. All orafices filled completely and totally used. Talk to me - call me your ***** and your...
    loralei3000 loralei3000 46-50, F 12 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    I don't like being in control at all.

    I do however like being controlled. It's so much easier. No decisions to make. I like being spanked, being tied, all that stuff and more.
    GirlLookingForFun GirlLookingForFun 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    Yep, that's me and I also believe

    that a sub must expect to submit to anyone.
    bilnic bilnic 70+, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    Which means i am willing do obey

    and do whatever men want of me or my body ..... to abuse me call me names make me do anything i simply do as I'm told , i obey
    playful5cumslut playful5cumslut 18-21, F 15 Responses Feb 12

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    A Transformation

    I am a submissive and a slave in training. Growing up I had no idea this is where life would take me. I had always planned to be the career woman: strong independent, self reliant and the bread winner who didn't need a man even if having one would be really nice. However, as I...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I think "training" is BS.

    Learning to be a dom's sub is a constant process on going through the whole relationship. People are just more complicated than that and always changing so a "training" period is not practical when what the dom's likes / wants could change at any time. If you insist subs need...
    YesMasterE YesMasterE 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Oh to be one with another human being.

    To share souls and hearts and minds. To give yourself body, mind and soul, and be known. Truly known, in the deepest and most intimate sense of the word. To be able to trust fully. To feel supported, encouraged, loved. To know that you are with someone who will face the world...
    Hissweetgirl Hissweetgirl 26-30, F Jan 30

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    I'm not sure if I'm submissive.

    I don't like serious pain or anything. I just like being a little F toy for older men. I like fulfilling their nastiest of fantasies.
    BoyToyBritney BoyToyBritney 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    I am an intelligent, strong,

    passionate, independent chick. But two weekends ago, the husband of a dear girlfriend of mine took me over his knee, spanked me, got me to open my mouth for him, and told me precisely who was boss. I didn't even think to protest. I didn't even want to protest. Turns out I'm a...
    Reader15a Reader15a 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    i wouldn't say Im fully submissive

    but never really thought of it, I don't mind being my hubby's sex toy and would never say no to him, he can use me ask he pleases and so can his mates but its only the sexual things, I love being told what to do, when and where
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    I Am His Sub

    i sit by the door naked back straight hands lay gently on my thighs head down... eyes on the floor. He enters the room my body reacts i feel my juices flow...anticipating what is in store for me. He moves around the room preparing what he needs He stands before me says my name...
    deleted deleted 26-30 33 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    The Real Me

    I enjoy being submissive but beyond that and within that “title” I am a woman that truly enjoys sex, f*cking, making love, or whatever you want to call it- I am totally in for some of it. I enjoy all facets of sex, not just submitting to a man. I like being on top, teasing...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    I love making big old fake wannabe D-types

    uncomfortable. I'm a submissive, not a doormat. And Master fully supports me being myself. We had a nice laugh today over coffee about today's run-in with an "internet Dom".
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Close to the end of the day yesterday,

    I received a message from my Sir ordering me to immediately bend over my desk, pull my skirt up, move my undies down to my ankles, take out my lipstick (my vibe that has a silicone sleeve shaped like a lipstick) and c*m within the next 15 minutes... As always, I obey his command...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    raregem wanted to share another essay

    that her Sir assigned. This one Sir titled, as he likes to give her things to think about and wants to know where her mind is..... ''Knowing, Trusting, Respecting, and Loving her Dom… AND How her Obedience and Submission Relates to Each Aspect''…………Titled by Sir...
    raregem44 raregem44 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I am and forever will be submissive to men,

    and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I lacked rules and discipline growing up so I craved it and found it in sexual relationships I would have with older men. I love being their s*x slave, doing whatever they want just to please them and make them happy. I'm ready...
    LilPrincessPia LilPrincessPia 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I've always had strong fantasies

    and desires that go along with being sexually submissive but have never had the opportunity to explore those feelings. I have a very dear friend that has come back into my life, although we have never met in person we have been friends for 15 years. The last several months we...
    unfixablegirl unfixablegirl 36-40, F Jan 10

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    Yes I am submissive in nature.

    Unknown why. Really don't care why I prefer to be submissive to woman. It's in my heart and mind. Just don't abuse them.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M Jan 12

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    Misunderstood Submissives

    A spin off of Mr.Crimsonx3's " Misunderstood Doms" I wanted to shed light on the stereotypes a submissive receives.I cannot single out any one factor that leads to such revolting and horrifically misinterpreted view points derive from, but here are a few.1. A sub's duty does not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jun 1, 2012

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    ''Write a 2-3 page essay on

    why a submissive should please her Dom. In what ways? What if she doesn't like his instructions or punishments (opposes his thinking). What should her mindset be and why. Should she approach her Dom?'' --- given by Sir ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ raregem doesn’t...
    raregem44 raregem44 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    A serious dom looking

    for a willing sub. Message me here for more details if interested Or you can also message me on ki'k 1785702
    piyush93 piyush93 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    Lizzyjo123 Lizzyjo123 18-21, F 14 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    http://www.experienceproject.

    com/stories/Adore-The-Psychology-Of-BDSM/5581144 Aloha, enjoy! We sure do!
    Ownedbysir Ownedbysir 31-35, F Mar 8

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    I Want Freedom. I Want Sin....

    “It’s not the strength of the chains that bind you that really matters. It’s the strength of the hands that put them on.”
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 30 Responses Mar 9, 2013

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    I am looking for an online Master.

    It's only for a month or so until my soon to be real life Master moves in with me. No he can't just do it himself or he would. I have to report and share the details and pictures with him but other than that I'm freely available. I can't do video chat. I am a plus sized lady so...
    unfixablegirl unfixablegirl 36-40, F Apr 17

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    My first date with my former partner was

    amazing. We had been talking on the phone for a couple of months and finally had a chance to meet. He took me out to dinner. I was wearing a halter top black and white polka dot dress and polka dot heels. I love 50's fashion. He told me how amazing I looked. He always made me...
    AmberDawn78 AmberDawn78 36-40, F 7 Responses May 29, 2014

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    Today raregem would like to discuss….

    . S U L K I N G Some Doms may have differing opinions upon this subject. raregem is sure that sulking for most Doms is a big No No and against the rules. raregem’s Sir likes to correct her, punish her and forgive her quick… he isn’t one to let it fester for a long...
    raregem44 raregem44 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    Nothing Else...

    ...need be said. As I stand, presented, he claims what is his.  [few minutes back]  Each night, every night, as I think about retiring to bed, I take care to place my clothes and such back in order, sorted for cleaning.  Next, I cleanse my face and body...made ready for...
    laserx laserx 46-50, F 9 Responses May 6, 2013

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    A lot has been happening in our world,

    I'm sure you can relate.. Daily family life, coupled with work stresses, and then relationship dynamics, and yes our D/s 24/7 and poly aspects! You can now start to imagine how complex our lives truly are. And we don't live together yet. To say it has been tough is an...
    Ownedbysir Ownedbysir 31-35, F Mar 26

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    Wanting to Give

    I am super submissive and am going to see my matser this weekend. My hubby will be home while my military man does all the things he desires to me. I am counting the minutes till I can feel him grab me by my collar or hair & make me be his dirty slave. I love it when he binds...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 31, 2007

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    As I reminisce about the good old days

    when I had a Dom, I find it more than a little sad how badly I crave submitting to him... The same way in which a person with perfect vision can never truly appreciate what it's like to require eyeglasses or contact lenses to function on a daily basis, anyone who is not a sub...
    girlofsimpleneeds girlofsimpleneeds 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    My Journey - Sir found me about 5 months ago

    from a story I wrote here on EP. When He first found me, I was untrained and knew next to nothing about what it really meant to be in a D/S relationship. I was highly undisciplined and couldn't manage to follow the simplest of rules. Sir has been exceedingly patient with me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 4, 2014

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    He nearly broke me last night.

    .. I'm not sure if id be able to handle it again. I passed an exam yesterday, so of course I had to go out and celebrate. I had 'one' too many and kissed a guy who is not my master...in front of my master. Looking back now I realise what a stupid choice that was... He didn't...
    ohmylovelygosh ohmylovelygosh 22-25, F 7 Responses May 23, 2014

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    My master and I had an interesting chat last

    night... If you've read some of my other stories, You will know that my master and I work on boats for the same company, but on different boats, going opposite ways round the UK. So the only opportunity for us to meet was at the half way mark, which was last week. We had one...
    ohmylovelygosh ohmylovelygosh 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    1. A sub's duty does not include sending nude

    pics to anyone he/she meets online, or anywhere for that matter. 2. Respect is earned, not handed over. Simply because you claim to be a Dom doesn't mean any sub should worship the ground you walk upon. 3. If the only way you earn respect is by violent training tactics, you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I have been a 24/7 slave

    for 11 months now and the amount of progress I have made is impressive to me. When I first started I was pretty clueless and while I freely admit I still have a great deal to learn I feel more confident than I did before. I have gain some skills I didn't have before: am more...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2014

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    Intelligence & Submissives

    An intelligent submissive appreciates the beauty of the dance on the fringe. She is a strong, independent, talented, capable woman in her own right, yet she hungers for a Dominant who can **** her mind long before he touches her body. She needs a man who can respect her as an...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 40 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    Being Submissive Is Who I Am

    Being a submissive is who I am. It is not something I try to be, it isn't something that can be taught. You either are submissive or your not. It is not something you pretend to do to earn someone's love. You feel it inside... It oozes out of you, you have no control of it...
    Curiouscee Curiouscee 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Finally, a chance to see Sir.

    But I am actually shaking with fear / anticipation / outrage that I want this so much. Why am I, a strong, independent woman turned on by this? Delicious, terrifying, utterly confronting. Wish me luck and fun, EP readers.
    Reader15a Reader15a 36-40, F Mar 24

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    So I'm about to meet my dom

    for the first time next week and I couldn't be more nervous. I don't know what to refer to him as on here because so far we don't use any titles and I'm not sure if we will. I have never had a dom/sub relationship or encounter but I've been fantasizing about it my whole adult...
    unfixablegirl unfixablegirl 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 15

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    Scissors

    I had a wonderful surprise from my Sir yesterday. I was in a ratty pair of pjs that I have to admit were not very flattering but they were warm and very very comfortable. These pjs are ones that are flannel and thread bare. First pick out of the drawer when you really do not feel...
    beautifulsubmissive beautifulsubmissive 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    A Gift With Strings? Maybe So.

    I came across this on FetLife and it resonated: A gift 1.something given voluntarily without payment in return, as to show favor toward someone, honor an occasion, or make a gesture of assistance; present. 2.the act of giving. 3.something bestowed or acquired without any...
    msdamgoode msdamgoode 41-45, F 12 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    As long as you make sure

    that I can't fight back, you can force me to do whatever pleases you
    WillingKarina WillingKarina 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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