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I Am a Submissive

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 10

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    Goodness, he's delicious.

    Sir allowed me to take him in my mouth and bring him to completion. The first time I have... And all I crave is more, more, more. Bottom smarting from his hand, and the spoon, and the cane. But sir reminds me of how this is for my good - to learn my place. "Which is where...
    Reader15a Reader15a 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    1. A sub's duty does not include sending nude

    pics to anyone he/she meets online, or anywhere for that matter. 2. Respect is earned, not handed over. Simply because you claim to be a Dom doesn't mean any sub should worship the ground you walk upon. 3. If the only way you earn respect is by violent training tactics, you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    http://www.experienceproject.

    com/stories/Adore-The-Psychology-Of-BDSM/5581144 Aloha, enjoy! We sure do!
    Ownedbysir Ownedbysir 31-35, F Mar 8

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    I am an intelligent, strong,

    passionate, independent chick. But two weekends ago, the husband of a dear girlfriend of mine took me over his knee, spanked me, got me to open my mouth for him, and told me precisely who was boss. I didn't even think to protest. I didn't even want to protest. Turns out I'm a...
    Reader15a Reader15a 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Im looking for a girl to be my submissive

    or slave. The main qualities im looking for are loyalty, obedience, and willing to learn. what i am not looking for is for some one who just wants to be punished for a good time. I want someone serious who actually sticks to their words anyone who wants more information can...
    omega1821 omega1821 18-21, M Apr 4

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    A Gift With Strings? Maybe So.

    I came across this on FetLife and it resonated: A gift 1.something given voluntarily without payment in return, as to show favor toward someone, honor an occasion, or make a gesture of assistance; present. 2.the act of giving. 3.something bestowed or acquired without any...
    msdamgoode msdamgoode 41-45, F 12 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    I am seeking a submissive woman to join me

    exploring the art of domination/ submission. Age or experience is not important, only the desire to broaden your experiences is needed. Must be able to handle rural life and be willing to make a commitment.Interested in a quiet country life, drop me a line.
    Jsecoy Jsecoy 56-60, M Jun 29

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    Misunderstood Submissives

    A spin off of Mr.Crimsonx3's " Misunderstood Doms" I wanted to shed light on the stereotypes a submissive receives.I cannot single out any one factor that leads to such revolting and horrifically misinterpreted view points derive from, but here are a few.1. A sub's duty does not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jun 1, 2012

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    My first date with my former partner was

    amazing. We had been talking on the phone for a couple of months and finally had a chance to meet. He took me out to dinner. I was wearing a halter top black and white polka dot dress and polka dot heels. I love 50's fashion. He told me how amazing I looked. He always made me...
    AmberDawn78 AmberDawn78 36-40, F 6 Responses May 29, 2014

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    The turning point for me to understand

    and come to grasp with my submissiveness was when my Mistress instructed me to shave my body all over, including my chest, armpits, and groin area, especially my balls. She told me that she intended to control me by my balls and the hair would just be in the way. Well, if you...
    DonnaSue10 DonnaSue10 66-70, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Another interesting night with my Master.

    I felt that it deserved writing down. I’m a well behaved sub. I don’t argue or fight back. I do as I’m told. Usually anyway… I have body issues. I don’t like being naked, it just makes me uncomfortable. Because of this I’m not much into getting naughty in a public...
    ohmylovelygosh ohmylovelygosh 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    As long as you make sure

    that I can't fight back, you can force me to do whatever pleases you
    WillingKarina WillingKarina 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I love making big old fake wannabe D-types

    uncomfortable. I'm a submissive, not a doormat. And Master fully supports me being myself. We had a nice laugh today over coffee about today's run-in with an "internet Dom".
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub 31-35, F 1 Response May 1

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    The Real Me

    I enjoy being submissive but beyond that and within that “title” I am a woman that truly enjoys sex, f*cking, making love, or whatever you want to call it- I am totally in for some of it. I enjoy all facets of sex, not just submitting to a man. I like being on top, teasing...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 19

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    Intelligence & Submissives

    An intelligent submissive appreciates the beauty of the dance on the fringe. She is a strong, independent, talented, capable woman in her own right, yet she hungers for a Dominant who can **** her mind long before he touches her body. She needs a man who can respect her as an...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 40 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    He nearly broke me last night.

    .. I'm not sure if id be able to handle it again. I passed an exam yesterday, so of course I had to go out and celebrate. I had 'one' too many and kissed a guy who is not my master...in front of my master. Looking back now I realise what a stupid choice that was... He didn't...
    ohmylovelygosh ohmylovelygosh 22-25, F 7 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Close to the end of the day yesterday,

    I received a message from my Sir ordering me to immediately bend over my desk, pull my skirt up, move my undies down to my ankles, take out my lipstick (my vibe that has a silicone sleeve shaped like a lipstick) and c*m within the next 15 minutes... As always, I obey his command...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    Yes, raregem is a submissive.

    It amuses her Sir when she tries to act like she can turn it on and off.... raregem talks a good game, but her Sir knows her inside and out... raregem IS a submissive and she'll never change! When raregem does good, she feels that welling up of emotion that comes when her Sir...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13

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    Deeper Thoughts About A Letter.

    I got a letter this morning. It made me stop dead in my tracks and really think.  I've thought about this before but never allowed myself  to dwell on it.  Why?  Cause it's darn scary.  But I sort of did dwell on it a little today.  The person who wrote me said it was ok...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 25 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I am and forever will be submissive to men,

    and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I lacked rules and discipline growing up so I craved it and found it in sexual relationships I would have with older men. I love being their s*x slave, doing whatever they want just to please them and make them happy. I'm ready...
    LilPrincessPia LilPrincessPia 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I Crave...

    total loss of control. When I have sex I want to be tied up with minimal movement. I need to be completely ravaged, every inch of my body caressed, slapped, pinched, kissed & licked. All orafices filled completely and totally used. Talk to me - call me your ***** and your...
    loralei3000 loralei3000 46-50, F 12 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Lizzyjo123 Lizzyjo123 18-21, F 15 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    ''Write a 2-3 page essay on

    why a submissive should please her Dom. In what ways? What if she doesn't like his instructions or punishments (opposes his thinking). What should her mindset be and why. Should she approach her Dom?'' --- given by Sir ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ raregem doesn’t...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 15

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    Wanting to Give

    I am super submissive and am going to see my matser this weekend. My hubby will be home while my military man does all the things he desires to me. I am counting the minutes till I can feel him grab me by my collar or hair & make me be his dirty slave. I love it when he binds...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 31, 2007

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    He's Proud Of Me!

    Yesterday I had a good conversation with my Hunny. I told him I needed more direction from him and that I was feeling lost.  He gave me so much to do that I was working from 8 until 3:30 today.  I never stopped, I never complained.  I just enjoyed that I had direction.  I...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    I Want Freedom. I Want Sin....

    “It’s not the strength of the chains that bind you that really matters. It’s the strength of the hands that put them on.”
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 30 Responses Mar 9, 2013

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    I don't like being in control at all.

    I do however like being controlled. It's so much easier. No decisions to make. I like being spanked, being tied, all that stuff and more.
    GirlLookingForFun GirlLookingForFun 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    Despite lots of text talking,

    and a drunken Skype experience of mutual fun, my Sir hasn't managed to see me in person again. I'm disappointed. I dint know know whether he wants to, and just can't (one of the most stupidly busy people I know ... And has been that way for the 5 years I've known him). Or...
    Reader15a Reader15a 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    there are lots of different dominants out there.

    my Dom is looking for some new ideas, so I would live to hear what some of the dominants would suggest.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19

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    My Christmas gift finally arrived.

    .. It was a little over a year ago when a friend on ep introduced me to a website... and to a wonderful sensual chair. Ever since than, I've brought it up many times to my husband... often times showing him the video... Well...my hard work has finally paid off... it was...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    A lot has been happening in our world,

    I'm sure you can relate.. Daily family life, coupled with work stresses, and then relationship dynamics, and yes our D/s 24/7 and poly aspects! You can now start to imagine how complex our lives truly are. And we don't live together yet. To say it has been tough is an...
    Ownedbysir Ownedbysir 31-35, F Mar 26

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    My husband is wanting to take the next step

    and get a spreader bar. Up until now I've just been handcuffed. But he says when we do it "doggy style", that when I start to climax I squirm away from him. He claims a spreader bar will solve this problem. Anyone have experience using these? Will I be totally at his mercy?
    NaughtyMegan NaughtyMegan 36-40, F 20 Responses Jul 16

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    I think "training" is BS.

    Learning to be a dom's sub is a constant process on going through the whole relationship. People are just more complicated than that and always changing so a "training" period is not practical when what the dom's likes / wants could change at any time. If you insist subs need...
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl 26-30, F 3 Responses May 3

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    I came up with this tie on myself yesterday =)

    Who else loves rope? [Photos Attatched]fetlife.com/users/3572618
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl 26-30, F 3 Responses May 9

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    Today raregem would like to discuss….

    . S U L K I N G Some Doms may have differing opinions upon this subject. raregem is sure that sulking for most Doms is a big No No and against the rules. raregem’s Sir likes to correct her, punish her and forgive her quick… he isn’t one to let it fester for a long...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 13

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    Love this quote: "When a woman submits to a

    man, it’s the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honor that gift above all else. Even if he respects nothing else in the world, he must respect the woman in his care. It’s his sworn duty to protect, honor and cherish his...
    cesalie123 cesalie123 36-40, F 12 Responses Feb 26, 2014

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    I Desire................

    I desire a feeling of being "owned" I desire a feeling of being "powerless." I desire a feeling of being physically overpowered. i desire a feeling of being Helpless i desire a feeling of being punished i desire a feeling of pleasing someone i desire a feeling of being guided I...
    MissBellaB MissBellaB 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    Finally, a chance to see Sir.

    But I am actually shaking with fear / anticipation / outrage that I want this so much. Why am I, a strong, independent woman turned on by this? Delicious, terrifying, utterly confronting. Wish me luck and fun, EP readers.
    Reader15a Reader15a 36-40, F Mar 24

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    I have a medical issue

    that is not life threatning or even affects my health.This problem is called Gynecomastia it is caused from so many different things doctors are not sure of the cause and effects as many as 15 to 25 percent of all males.The effects are a male developes female breast.Mine started...
    rline51 rline51 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 5

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    I was in a Dominant/submissive relationship

    as the sub, but we haven't seen each other in 6 months, agreement on both of our parts. Planning to reconnect tomorrow and I really don't know what to expect. I'm nervous, apprehensive, yet have definitely missed that part of my life. I was an excellent sub, he said that...
    44curious 44curious 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I want to be a good submissive wife to my

    fiancée. Can anyone suggest any good readings to be the best one I can be?
    takemeaway1969 takemeaway1969 41-45, F 1 Response May 17

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    Yep, that's me and I also believe

    that a sub must expect to submit to anyone.
    bilnic bilnic 70+, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I'm not sure if I'm submissive.

    I don't like serious pain or anything. I just like being a little F toy for older men. I like fulfilling their nastiest of fantasies.
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 21

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    Being Submissive Is Who I Am

    Being a submissive is who I am. It is not something I try to be, it isn't something that can be taught. You either are submissive or your not. It is not something you pretend to do to earn someone's love. You feel it inside... It oozes out of you, you have no control of it...
    Curiouscee Curiouscee 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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