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I Am a Submissive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 4,653 People

    Im so ready for christmas!

    It will be my first christmas while living with my sir =) I love this christmas themed collar I just made. KinkyCustomCollars.etsy.com
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl
    26-30, F
    Oct 27, 2015

    This site sucks sometimes.

    We should be able to post whatever comes to mind.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 24

    Wanting to Give

    I am super submissive and am going to see my matser this weekend. My hubby will be home while my military man does all the things he desires to me. I am counting the minutes till I can feel him grab me by my collar or hair & make me be his dirty slave. I love it when he binds...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Aug 31, 2007

    I Want Freedom. I Want Sin....

    “It’s not the strength of the chains that bind you that really matters. It’s the strength of the hands that put them on.”
    RedRubies RedRubies
    36-40, F
    28 Responses Mar 9, 2013

    Intelligence & Submissives

    An intelligent submissive appreciates the beauty of the dance on the fringe. She is a strong, independent, talented, capable woman in her own right, yet she hungers for a Dominant who can **** her mind long before he touches her body. She needs a man who can respect her as an...
    RedRubies RedRubies
    36-40, F
    37 Responses Dec 24, 2012

    I Am His Sub

    i sit by the door naked back straight hands lay gently on my thighs head down... eyes on the floor. He enters the room my body reacts i feel my juices flow...anticipating what is in store for me. He moves around the room preparing what he needs He stands before me says my name...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    32 Responses Oct 15, 2012

    I was in a Dominant/submissive relationship

    as the sub, but we haven't seen each other in 6 months, agreement on both of our parts. Planning to reconnect tomorrow and I really don't know what to expect. I'm nervous, apprehensive, yet have definitely missed that part of my life. I was an excellent sub, he said that...
    44curious 44curious
    46-50, F
    Jun 19, 2015

    looking for a female dominant

    for fun n games, iow or near please, any nasty or unjust messages will be removed and blocked xx
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001
    36-40, F
    Sep 25, 2015

    Deeper Thoughts About A Letter.

    I got a letter this morning. It made me stop dead in my tracks and really think.  I've thought about this before but never allowed myself  to dwell on it.  Why?  Cause it's darn scary.  But I sort of did dwell on it a little today.  The person who wrote me said it was ok...
    sierra33 sierra33
    31-35, F
    25 Responses Sep 26, 2012

    My husband is wanting to take the next step

    and get a spreader bar. Up until now I've just been handcuffed. But he says when we do it "doggy style", that when I start to climax I squirm away from him. He claims a spreader bar will solve this problem. Anyone have experience using these? Will I be totally at his mercy?
    NaughtyMegan NaughtyMegan
    36-40, F
    14 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    So here's a questions I get asked quite

    frequently. Why are you a submissive and what is a submissive. There is no specific reason why I am a submissive. I didn't wake up one day and say here's why I wanna let a man dominate me. I am a submissive because it's the only part of me that makes me truly happy with myself...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 26

    I have a medical issue

    that is not life threatning or even affects my health.This problem is called Gynecomastia it is caused from so many different things doctors are not sure of the cause and effects as many as 15 to 25 percent of all males.The effects are a male developes female breast.Mine started...
    rline51 rline51
    51-55, M
    Jun 5, 2015

    Another interesting night with my Master.

    I felt that it deserved writing down. I’m a well behaved sub. I don’t argue or fight back. I do as I’m told. Usually anyway… I have body issues. I don’t like being naked, it just makes me uncomfortable. Because of this I’m not much into getting naughty in a public...
    ohmylovelygosh ohmylovelygosh
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    My first date with my former partner was

    amazing. We had been talking on the phone for a couple of months and finally had a chance to meet. He took me out to dinner. I was wearing a halter top black and white polka dot dress and polka dot heels. I love 50's fashion. He told me how amazing I looked. He always made me...
    AmberDawn78 AmberDawn78
    36-40, F
    6 Responses May 29, 2014

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    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl
    26-30, F
    Oct 8, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses May 10, 2015

    I am submissive and the thought of being

    dominated in the bedroom turns me on. I'm not completely submissive though. There are some things that I won't do. I do enjoy pleasing a man and being controlled sexually. I have my limits. I'm looking for a man in my area to play with. I'm in Georgia south of Atlanta.
    sexyalyssagurl sexyalyssagurl
    36-40, T
    Feb 26

    1. A sub's duty does not include sending nude

    pics to anyone he/she meets online, or anywhere for that matter. 2. Respect is earned, not handed over. Simply because you claim to be a Dom doesn't mean any sub should worship the ground you walk upon. 3. If the only way you earn respect is by violent training tactics, you...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

    He nearly broke me last night.

    .. I'm not sure if id be able to handle it again. I passed an exam yesterday, so of course I had to go out and celebrate. I had 'one' too many and kissed a guy who is not my master...in front of my master. Looking back now I realise what a stupid choice that was... He didn't...
    ohmylovelygosh ohmylovelygosh
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 23, 2014

    Master says I must have my story by 1am.

    . So here goes.. Something I've always wanted to tell you but I never have.. You're the only dominant and man who's ever has this effect on me. Who stops my breathing with just 1 word.. Who makes my heart speed up and makes me smile like an idiot. You give me this sense...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 25

    The Real Me

    I enjoy being submissive but beyond that and within that “title” I am a woman that truly enjoys sex, f*cking, making love, or whatever you want to call it- I am totally in for some of it. I enjoy all facets of sex, not just submitting to a man. I like being on top, teasing...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

    THE TIME I MADE MASTER CALL RED… A week.

    A whole week of punishment. Every time I did something he didn’t like he would simply make me suck him again. He wouldn’t touch me. Not even hit me. Because that wouldn’t be punishment, I would enjoy it too much. He said ‘the only way to get through to you is to do...
    ohmylovelygosh ohmylovelygosh
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2015

    I am seeking a submissive woman to join me

    exploring the art of domination/ submission. Age or experience is not important, only the desire to broaden your experiences is needed. Must be able to handle rural life and be willing to make a commitment.Interested in a quiet country life, drop me a line.
    Jsecoy Jsecoy
    56-60, M
    Jun 29, 2015

    I am a submissive. I enjoy the views of life I

    hold dear. I know its not for everyone and I know not all submissives are the same. for me I thrive on in the environment of having rules and boundaries and answering for my actions. I like asking for permission and guidance. I enjoy knowing that my man is stronger and smarter...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    Im really a switch, but

    when you make me sub i do it all including forced bi. But if I am made to I will
    funguyct funguyct
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 27, 2015

    In my job I'm in charge.

    Big decisions daily. That's why when it comes to sex I like to just let go and enjoy.
    NaughtyMegan NaughtyMegan
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    Hey everyone. If anyone wants to keep in touch

    after EP shuts down, send me an IM, and I'll tell you how to find me on Fetlife.
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 24
    Djmeowmix1 Djmeowmix1
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jan 24

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    Spankee30 Spankee30
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2015

    I'm not sure if I'm submissive.

    I don't like serious pain or anything. I just like being a little F toy for older men. I like fulfilling their nastiest of fantasies.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 21, 2015

    I love making big old fake wannabe D-types

    uncomfortable. I'm a submissive, not a doormat. And Master fully supports me being myself. We had a nice laugh today over coffee about today's run-in with an "internet Dom".
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub
    31-35, F
    May 1, 2015

    I want to be a good submissive wife to my

    fiancée. Can anyone suggest any good readings to be the best one I can be?
    takemeaway1969 takemeaway1969
    46-50, F
    May 17, 2015
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    Jan 3

    My inner masochist got the better of me.

    I'm watching the evil movie... You know the one. I'll probably be shunned by the entire BDSM community. :
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub
    31-35, F
    8 Responses May 12, 2015

    Who here really loves being a submissive?

    Because I know I sure do! I love when he gives me his look.. I love when he tells me he loves me.. I love when he uses "that voice" and you ladies know what I'm talking about! Lol. Ugh! I just can't keep these thoughts away!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 24
    Lizzyjo123 Lizzyjo123
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Sep 2, 2014

    As long as you make sure

    that I can't fight back, you can force me to do whatever pleases you
    WillingKarina WillingKarina
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    Here's a word of advice to all of my fellow

    submissive, NEVER, and I do mean NEVER, deny yourself of who you really are. Don't tell yourself, oh, I can handle it.. I can suppress it.. I can go with out it.. Because you CANT. It'll make you depressed. It'll make you angry. You'll go everyday longing for this.. You'll...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 30

    33 years old single dom looking

    for sub to own message me
    sexydom33 sexydom33
    31-35, M
    Jan 22

    for submissive WOMEN only.

    ... my group https://www.facebook.com/groups/196935000647778/
    Sweetnlow1979 Sweetnlow1979
    31-35, F
    Apr 17

    So I had a dream last night.

    You were there. I came home and walked in the door and you were looking at me like what have you gotten into? You asked me what I had been up to today, and what was in my bag. I was afraid to tell you. I knew you'd be upset. In my bag was bread and a bottle of anti depressants I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 23

    Scissors

    I had a wonderful surprise from my Sir yesterday. I was in a ratty pair of pjs that I have to admit were not very flattering but they were warm and very very comfortable. These pjs are ones that are flannel and thread bare. First pick out of the drawer when you really do not feel...
    beautifulsubmissive beautifulsubmissive
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

    there are lots of different dominants out there.

    my Dom is looking for some new ideas, so I would live to hear what some of the dominants would suggest.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    I Desire................

    I desire a feeling of being "owned" I desire a feeling of being "powerless." I desire a feeling of being physically overpowered. i desire a feeling of being Helpless i desire a feeling of being punished i desire a feeling of pleasing someone i desire a feeling of being guided I...
    MissBellaB MissBellaB
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    My Journey - Sir found me about 5 months ago

    from a story I wrote here on EP. When He first found me, I was untrained and knew next to nothing about what it really meant to be in a D/S relationship. I was highly undisciplined and couldn't manage to follow the simplest of rules. Sir has been exceedingly patient with me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    I found myself day dreaming today.

    . You were there again.. You walked in our room and gave me that oh so sexy, but very demanding look.. I knew what to do. I took my position in the middle of our floor. You walked up to me wearing those jeans that fit you oh so well, hugging your hips making you look delicious...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 24

    A Transformation

    I am a submissive and a slave in training. Growing up I had no idea this is where life would take me. I had always planned to be the career woman: strong independent, self reliant and the bread winner who didn't need a man even if having one would be really nice. However, as I...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

    I have been a 24/7 slave

    for 11 months now and the amount of progress I have made is impressive to me. When I first started I was pretty clueless and while I freely admit I still have a great deal to learn I feel more confident than I did before. I have gain some skills I didn't have before: am more...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2014

    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 19, 2015

    I never really did anything of this kind (there.

    .. it's off my chest) but I think I would like it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    Love this quote: "When a woman submits to a

    man, it’s the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honor that gift above all else. Even if he respects nothing else in the world, he must respect the woman in his care. It’s his sworn duty to protect, honor and cherish his...
    cesalie123 cesalie123
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Feb 26, 2014

    Misunderstood Submissives

    A spin off of Mr.Crimsonx3's " Misunderstood Doms" I wanted to shed light on the stereotypes a submissive receives.I cannot single out any one factor that leads to such revolting and horrifically misinterpreted view points derive from, but here are a few.1. A sub's duty does not...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Jun 1, 2012

    I Crave...

    total loss of control. When I have sex I want to be tied up with minimal movement. I need to be completely ravaged, every inch of my body caressed, slapped, pinched, kissed & licked. All orafices filled completely and totally used. Talk to me - call me your ***** and your...
    loralei3000 loralei3000
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Jun 19, 2009

    A Gift With Strings? Maybe So.

    I came across this on FetLife and it resonated: A gift 1.something given voluntarily without payment in return, as to show favor toward someone, honor an occasion, or make a gesture of assistance; present. 2.the act of giving. 3.something bestowed or acquired without any...
    msdamgoode msdamgoode
    41-45, F
    11 Responses Aug 7, 2012

    I am and forever will be submissive to men,

    and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I lacked rules and discipline growing up so I craved it and found it in sexual relationships I would have with older men. I love being their s*x slave, doing whatever they want just to please them and make them happy. I'm ready...
    LilPrincessPia LilPrincessPia
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Sep 1, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 3, 2015
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