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I Am a Surrendered Wife

For Wifes who Challenge Feminist Propaganda and Respect their Husbands in Support of Happy, Healthy and Loving Marriages. 374 People

    The First Day! - I had the book in my bookshelf for about a year now. I've been listening to Dr. Laura for a while and just slowly applying her advice as well. Now I finally opened...
    squeakee squeakee 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2012

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    My Lists. - Morning: I will not nag. I will not control. I will give him my attention. I will listen when he talks to me. I am on his side. I will assist him. I will back him. I...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    I Surrender To His Will - I love and adore my husband, giving him worshipful respect and admiration. I treat all men with respect and honor but above all men is my husband. He is...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    How Do You Care For Yourself? - I've noticed lately that my hubby has been a little annoyed with me. To his credit, I've been nagging and complaining a lot of the time. I've been...
    squeakee squeakee 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Newly Surrendered Wife - I'm very strong willed and like my own way, always thinking I know the answer. My mother brought me up immersed in the principles of feminism so I ...
    tashminda tashminda 31-35 8 Responses Dec 2, 2008

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    I Am Learning To Surrender - First day reading the book, I love it...Anything that can help me in my marriage is all worth it.I have read alot of stories and it all seems like my...
    ladyof4 ladyof4 36-40 Dec 19, 2012

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    My Journey to Being a Surrendered Wife. - When I first married, I was, I'm ashamed to admit, too controlling over my Husband. I wanted to know every detail about what he was doing...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 35 Responses Apr 17, 2008

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    Hello - I am sooooooooooooooooooo happy to have found you. I have read the surrendered wife many times. I struggle in this area and am so glad to have found you and I look forward...
    SiTed SiTed 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Tribute - To all wives, girlfriends and those seeking their HOH: As a HOH myself I want to say to all who have the Courage to stand up for what you believe: You are fighting a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    Excited! - I have just started reading this book and I love it! It amazes me how much control you get by letting a man be a man. Because of attitude changes on my part, he will...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 15, 2010

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    I Have Surrendered - i am so glad i have found this site, i surrendered 3 months ago, things cant be better i cant tell people how happy i am, this change is the best thing that...
    mel321 mel321 36-40 Oct 3, 2012

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    Surrendering. - I have never read the book (where the term "surrendered" comes from), but it doesn't take rocket science to realize when one has found a kindred spirit, or that I...
    AmericanLeanings AmericanLeanings 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2011

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    Am I The Only One Struggling? - I have been with my husband now for 15 years. I would say that for most of the time we are happy. I started trying to surrender after seeing a...
    laila95 laila95 36-40 4 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    A Day In The Life Of A Surrendered Wife. - i am 36 being a surrendered wife myself i would just like to ask how you spend your day??? it would be nice to hear from other people how...
    mel321 mel321 36-40 1 Response Oct 4, 2012

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    What a Man Wants and Needs In Marriage. - This is a list of basic points supporting the concept of a surrendered wife and what she does for her husband:   1) A Man needs to...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 99 Responses Apr 19, 2008

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    Surrendering Myself - Though I've never read this book, I am in the process of becoming a surrendered wife. For the past 3 years since we've been married I've very much been bossy...
    girvingtree girvingtree 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    Basic Principles... - A  surrendered Wife: Relinquishes inappropriate control of her husband. Respects her husbands thinking. Receives his gifts thankfully...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 36 Responses Apr 17, 2008

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    Two Steps Forward, One Step Back... - I am cringing at my stupidity! What a lousy set back! Just when I thought, I had my behavior completely under control and had become the prime...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun 51-55, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    It's Transpiring To The Outside World - People suddenly seem to notice: My husband and I are touching and embracing each other in front of others. We kiss before we separate or...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun 51-55, F 4 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    So Wish I Would Have Obeyed - I am usually a very good submissive wife. I get my fair share of beatings (usually deserved) but I learn from them and try harder. Obedience is...
    JosesBabyGirl JosesBabyGirl 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Successful Businesswoman, Yet Surrendered Wife. Never Been So Happy! - People see me as an independent, successful international female business owner and most would be shocked to...
    sandra007 sandra007 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    Probably Similar To So Many. - Facing nearly 27 years married, I wanted to find a way to strengthen our relationship. We've certainly been through it: Met on blind date, married...
    goingon27 goingon27 46-50, F Apr 8, 2013

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    Loving Life As A New Surrendered Wife - I was raised to believe men and women were equal in every way. No man should ever tell me what to do, Every decision about my life was mine...
    thatmandygrl thatmandygrl 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 15, 2011

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    I Need To Step It Up - I 100% agree with the surrendered wife book. But, at the moment I am home with a 1 year old and am just feeling lonely and want to feel more satisfied with...
    Kristabelle Kristabelle 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 25, 2011

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    He Makes The Money, He Makes The Decisions - I've completely surrendered myself to my hubby since he's the one making the money and putting food on our table. My hubby not only...
    Jennyxoxo Jennyxoxo 26-30, F 4 Responses May 15, 2012

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    Unlikely Surrendering Success: a Feminist Perspective - After years of trying to "fix" my husband and our marriage, I stumbled upon this book, misshelved in the...
    Shamaal Shamaal 41-45 4 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    Obedience And Apology... - Posted this in a couple other submissive experiences too... Apologizing stems from a realization of wrong-doing. This has not always been obvious to me...
    laserx laserx 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 20, 2011

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    I Am Trying To Be A Surrendered Girlfriend,,,,anyone Else Out There? - I have been seeing a gentleman for over a year now.  His goal is to marry a "pious, beautiful, and obedient...
    javangela javangela 41-45 4 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    Surrendering Is Saving My Marriage - I've been "surrendering" for about six weeks. I accidentally stumbled across The Surrendered Wife in the "comments" section of a submissive's...
    frogflowers03 frogflowers03 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2013

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    I'm A Feminist And So Is The Author Of The Surrendered Wife :-) - And I wrote a great long story about that but lost it... so I'll settle for saying that keeping of our husbands...
    dakinijones dakinijones 46-50, F Aug 15, 2010

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    What We Don'T Talk About. To You Wives And Girlfriends Who Need To Know. - I have been reading some things from a few gals that worry me. So I wanted to put this out there for...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 12 Responses May 25, 2013

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    My Husband Is The Boss - I have always wanted a dominate husband. I met my husband two years ago and we instantly connected. He is 16 years older than me, and he is my world. We...
    subwife88 subwife88 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    New - Learning To Surrender But Having Trouble With One Lil Thing...advice? - Hi everyone, I have been reading this marvelous book and am learning that I am certainly the...
    toohard2handle toohard2handle 31-35 2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    Almost Finished Reading The Book For The Second Time - My Second Marriage. - I love this book. I am trying really hard to implement it in my marriage. I was married for 21 years...
    sewfurlong sewfurlong 41-45 2 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    Evening Routine - *Greet at the door. *Take jacket/briefcase etc. *Dinner ready on the table. *Serve him his meal. *Talk when spoken to. *Anything he needs, get up and get it...
    cwred523 cwred523 31-35, F 16 Responses Sep 18, 2011

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    More Than 50 Shades... But Still One Basic Lifestyle Choice! - I owe a lot of happiness to the book 'A surrendered wife', it also gave me a lot of insight into my shortcomings as a...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    I Surrendered ... For Better Or Worse - Had a relationship where I surrendered, it didn't end as happily or as fairy takes as it could be, but i dun now why, i enjoyed it. Guess...
    clargal clargal 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2011

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    Open Letter To A Friend - Dear Marie-France,we have known each other for more than twenty years, we come from completely opposite ends of the globe, our skin is of different color...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 6, 2012

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    1 Week In.... - Today I was catching my closest childhood friend up on our weekend and I mentioned to her a conversation that my hubby and I had.....It was spurred by the topic of...
    PHelen PHelen 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Newly Surrendered - I reluctantly picked up the book "The Surrendered Wife" at the library and honestly didn't even think I would open it up, let alone find it to be the best...
    PHelen PHelen 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    Trying To Surrender - Advice Needed - Sorry for the length of this post. Appreciate anyone who can read and give me suggestions. I have been married for 5 years. We have 2 young...
    Katielsummer Katielsummer 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 10, 2012

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    6 Months... And Still Not Perfect! - I realized a few days ago that it's now exactly half a year since I changed my lifestyle to become a respectful and devoted wife, who doesn't...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun 51-55, F 6 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    "It Works", Said the Control Freak - My husband and I have been married for 4 years (together for 8, total) and we have 2 children together.  Oddly (or maybe not so much so...
    AlleyOOPsies AlleyOOPsies 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    Surrendering One Step At A Time - I am a 29yr old mother of 2 toddlers who just moved to a new city with my awesome, supportive and loving (most of the time) husband. I've always...
    DesWP DesWP 26-30, F 2 Responses May 31, 2012

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    Never Left Me!- My wife and me married for the wrong reason...because she was pregnant with my 1st child and my ultra religious Catholic grandmother(who raised me) would disown me...
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    Hi, Im a married man 41 year old, Im happily married and Im in deep love with my wife. But recently I discovered that I enjoy her relationship with other men. I even want to see...
    rimpi1972 rimpi1972 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 8

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    Its been a rough few months but I guess some things are easier to see with hindsight. HEres my story... Have never argued with wife much and to outward appearances we are always...
    MJ7770 MJ7770 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Well for the last 10 years I have been married and over the last 3 years I now fear my wife emotionally. Since we had our first child life has slowly gone to ****. After our first...
    cyborg333 cyborg333 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I met my girlfriend in 1994 (True Love - 6 hours apart - highest long distance bills ever paid in my life). In the summer of '95, I drove to see her again. We hit it off again...
    daveredding daveredding 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago