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I Am A Survivor Of Workplace Bullying

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    For twenty years I had been supported

    and appreciated at work and received the highest evaluations. A new central administration then came in whose supervisors faulted my work at every turn, while praising and extolling the virtues of their new hires right off the street. Other long-term employees got similar...
    Fyrefox Fyrefox 56-60, M Mar 6

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    Workplace Bullying

    In my experience, WorkSafeBC provides little comfort when investigating Workplace Bullying claims. One of the investigator stated that, "If we can't control bullying in our workplace how do you think we can do anything about your wife's?" Needless to say I asked him to be removed...
    ali770 ali770 31-35 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    Surviving The Aftermath

    I've work at a university in N.Y and have been a victim of a verbal and emotionally abusive boss. Typically, she controlled me to the point that I feared disappointing her. She prevented me from socializing with my co-workers and overtly barred me from participating In any...
    SurvivorsGuilt SurvivorsGuilt 46-50 2 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    19 Months Of Intense Bullying & She Finally Got Fired!

    I worked for a national organization in one of their 100+ branch offices for about a year and a half. My manager was an incompetent, immature, cruel and vindictive bully. No one was exempt from her unique form of overt harassment, but some got it worse than others, I was only in...
    LaneyAnderson LaneyAnderson 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2013

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    Sociopath

    Well since I created this group I may as well write just a little of what happened in my former workplace. Just warning never work for a charitable organisation, they will just chew you up and spit you out, they are often relying on that brand to excuse them of appalling...
    hhue hhue 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    Federal Dinosaurs Make Work He77....

    I worked at OPM for 6 yrs, I felt so blessed to get that job. Unfortunately there were 2 women there who thought it was their agency and they made my life a living he'll. They had been there since before the buildings dirt had been broken to start building and if they didn't like...
    LadyHawke68 LadyHawke68 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Really? What A Shock My Supervisor Doesn'T Care

    Her Consistent Answer... "I Don't Care" Bullying in the Workplace 
At work as a leader over the years, I worked hard to help the supervisors I lead learn how to show their staff that each is important and that we care as humans about their well being and growth first, and...
    Luvistheword Luvistheword 46-50, F May 8, 2013

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    Jealousy Is Dangerous

    I have two colleagues who are very jealous of me. The have been after me for he past couple of months trying to figure out my vulnerabilities. Despite their efforts, I remain my friendly, happy self. So they were being friendly with me and I have been with them. Keep your...
    GuavaberryKisses GuavaberryKisses 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    I Was "chest Butted" By My 72 Year Old Co-worker - Wtf?!

    SO HOW MANY PEOPLE CAN SAY THEY WERE "CHEST BUTTED" BY A 72 YR OLD GRANDMOTHER = I CAN! HAHA Quick backgound - started new job working for a fire and water restoration company - needed two people in office to handle work load. The Office Manager was a 72 year old lady...
    bout2break bout2break 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    I don't like some people in my workplace.

    But I keep on telling myself, I m here for money, nothing else is important. Then I can ignore the rest.
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    I like to bully people

    for fun. XD #shewantstheD
    SHAQUAREEE SHAQUAREEE 22-25 May 20

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    Under A Tyrannical Boss For Ten Years And Glad My Job Was Outsourced.

    Each morning I wake up the very first thought to pop into my head is Thank God, I no longer have to go to GB today. No more hateful boss. No more back stabbing peers - they were all nice people but management, managed their people by pitting everyone below them against each...
    Jan 11, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I find it absolutely disgusting to say the least! I find bullying in kids utterly cruel and despicable, bullying in teenagers completely unacceptable, but when you get to a full...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    My family bullied me all my life. My mother is a former bully. She started bullying me as i was 9. She bullied me till i was adult. Then as my sister grew into teenage years she...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Im going to do a series on what it is like to work in the real world aka the private sector. We will start by discussing how your behaviour is handled. The company I work for is...
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F Aug 8

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    richard is better than you. Richard is smarter than you. He sees himself as your overlord. He makes up bullshite and you beleive it without question. You wait for hours down at...
    RichardTouchesUpLittleBoys RichardTouchesUpLittleBoys 41-45 Aug 24

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    Survivor means I lived to tell the story. I will tell the story even though the ones who hurt me made me sure that no-one would ever believe me. I will tell the story even though...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    This are different types of bullying. I was bullied by other kids before I even started school. Mostly after I started school. I never knew why. I assumed they just "saw" something...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Aug 2

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    As a teenager i experienced ALOT of bullying and it still affects me today i just couldnt understand and had no idea how to make people like me. Now im a mother and i want to...
    thebestjess thebestjess 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I like to ask people what they think of when they hear the word "bullying". Most of the time the answer is the same. Teasing, a rather inconsistent, incomplete answer, if I do say...
    Aram8361 Aram8361 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Victim"...I hate that word. We are not "victims". We are some of the strongest, bravest women to walk the earth. We are survivors.  We are not stray helpless animals, we are the...
    TriciaFL TriciaFL 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    One of the things they did was tamper with my cell phone, mostly remotely but sometimes close up if I ever made calls anywhere near the workplace. Up until recently my phone was...
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    Why me? This was the question I often asked myself. I even asked others why they picked on me... I was just that I was me! That's all I can figure out. I assumed I was odd/weird...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Aug 2

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    In elementary school I was tall and skinny and people tried to be mean to me but I have a mouth on me. I made every single person who picked on me cry . I shoot to kill . I don't...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    i'm sorry but that will never happen. Coz most people just makes me laugh everytime they bully me. I am really happy why? because they spent a lot of time bullying me. It makes me...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F Aug 20

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    One time i was asked the question, Do u believe in fate? My answer was, no. The fact that i can control bullying just fine, no matter how big it is, in my opinion, is good enough...
    Aram8361 Aram8361 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    beautiful video bought a tear to my eye! Its to do with bullying and depression so yeah watch it... Amazing https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ltun92DfnPY
    lovemusicnicole lovemusicnicole 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I was 15 I was sent to a treatment center for teens. It was I Maine, a place called Ironwood I was there for many reasons. First I had been raped the year before. It was very...
    jujubee16 jujubee16 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    So I'm 13 and this guy I was with at the time was 18 I wasn't dating him just hanging out and I wasn't high or anything but we were chilling and he asked me a lot if times before...
    ryry009 ryry009 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    It has been a while since I have posted here. I've restarted the videos on Survivors of Child Abuse and Maladaptive daydreaming. My latest video is about flashbacks and tips on how...
    Ishtaria Ishtaria 41-45, F Aug 7

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    I went back around the same time it's brought the side back the awful angry nasty side why for what? That place holds what scares me the most my nightmare It holds what should of...
    cailowe cailowe 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    2 years ago I was raped by a stranger while backpacking in Europe--I was alone at the time because I was en route to meet up my cousin that night. After a terrible night of doctors...
    imasurvivor411 imasurvivor411 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    If anyone out there is survivor or going through domestic abuse and would like to talk or be listened to by some one who understands. Looking for understanding people who have had...
    tazygirl tazygirl 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    so let me get this straight. You have a delusional fantasy that explains my behaviour. Right? And it works by making my behaviour the complete opposite of what it is. In turn it...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 1 hr ago

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    Every day Constant They called me names Turned against me All for a mistake I was small Lonely I was angry Mad at them all Lives I wish I'd take I bit her She bled It wasn't bad...
    Angekinz Angekinz 22-25, F Aug 9

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    School started today and I'm scared i'll get bullied this year again...
    Naginion Naginion 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Today was the first day of school and i was really scared that the bullies would start today as they do every year. And my friend that lives far away told me it was going to be...
    Naginion Naginion 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    how long did you wait down at coles for me today? I saw something that reminded me of you and your bizarre theatrics and behaviour in general. Thats not a weirdo from the public...
    BetterThanYouAtEverything BetterThanYouAtEverything 41-45, F Aug 2

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    How long will you be waiting down at coles tomorrow? Sorry to disappoint but I have bigger fish to fry. Project deadlines. These projects have clauses written into the contract...
    BetterThanYouAtEverything BetterThanYouAtEverything 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I should also point out that when I make posts about how richard was brutally bullied (and likely soddomised) in high school its because he was. Something drives his behaviour...
    BetterThanYouAtEverything BetterThanYouAtEverything 41-45, F Aug 2

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    I should also point out that when I make posts about how richard was brutally bullied (and likely soddomised) in high school its because he was. Something drives his behaviour and...
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F Aug 2

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    you are semi skilled monkeys did you know that?
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F Aug 3

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    you are gutless cowardly pvssys. The only thing I respond well to are direct threats made to my face out in the carpark. Why cant you do that? Its not hard to get into a fight if...
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Hi richard i thought i told you to go and suck a dog dickkk. Why are you still here?
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F Aug 3

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    When you puff yourselves up in your heads is that the same as saying something to my face? Or stepping up in the carpark? Im trying to understand how pvssys think. Your behaviour...
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F Aug 3

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    Fvck you people are weird. Why are you incapable of acting like men?
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F Aug 3

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    One of them was a fat small old man. What drugs are you people on?
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F Aug 3

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    In delusional fantasy land whats going to happen? In reality im going to keep making these posts. You are weak powerless pvssys and cowards who are incapable of doing anything...
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F Aug 3

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