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I Am A Survivor Of Workplace Bullying

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    I like to bully people

    for fun. XD #shewantstheD
    SHAQUAREEE SHAQUAREEE 22-25 May 20

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    19 Months Of Intense Bullying & She Finally Got Fired!

    I worked for a national organization in one of their 100+ branch offices for about a year and a half. My manager was an incompetent, immature, cruel and vindictive bully. No one was exempt from her unique form of overt harassment, but some got it worse than others, I was only in...
    LaneyAnderson LaneyAnderson 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2013

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    Federal Dinosaurs Make Work He77....

    I worked at OPM for 6 yrs, I felt so blessed to get that job. Unfortunately there were 2 women there who thought it was their agency and they made my life a living he'll. They had been there since before the buildings dirt had been broken to start building and if they didn't like...
    LadyHawke68 LadyHawke68 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    My supervisor was a ****.

    I was part-time at a busy retail store based near my college. I was doing minimal hours - occasionally 16 hours a week. The pay was poor, but it got me by. My supervisor, let's call him Shaun, would occasionally call me useless, criticise my work and would give me the most...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I don't like some people in my workplace.

    But I keep on telling myself, I m here for money, nothing else is important. Then I can ignore the rest.
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    Really? What A Shock My Supervisor Doesn'T Care

    Her Consistent Answer... "I Don't Care" Bullying in the Workplace 
At work as a leader over the years, I worked hard to help the supervisors I lead learn how to show their staff that each is important and that we care as humans about their well being and growth first, and...
    Luvistheword Luvistheword 46-50, F May 8, 2013

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    Surviving The Aftermath

    I've work at a university in N.Y and have been a victim of a verbal and emotionally abusive boss. Typically, she controlled me to the point that I feared disappointing her. She prevented me from socializing with my co-workers and overtly barred me from participating In any...
    SurvivorsGuilt SurvivorsGuilt 46-50 2 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    Sociopath

    Well since I created this group I may as well write just a little of what happened in my former workplace. Just warning never work for a charitable organisation, they will just chew you up and spit you out, they are often relying on that brand to excuse them of appalling...
    hhue hhue 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    I Was "chest Butted" By My 72 Year Old Co-worker - Wtf?!

    SO HOW MANY PEOPLE CAN SAY THEY WERE "CHEST BUTTED" BY A 72 YR OLD GRANDMOTHER = I CAN! HAHA Quick backgound - started new job working for a fire and water restoration company - needed two people in office to handle work load. The Office Manager was a 72 year old lady...
    bout2break bout2break 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    Under A Tyrannical Boss For Ten Years And Glad My Job Was Outsourced.

    Each morning I wake up the very first thought to pop into my head is Thank God, I no longer have to go to GB today. No more hateful boss. No more back stabbing peers - they were all nice people but management, managed their people by pitting everyone below them against each...
    Jan 11, 2013

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    Workplace Bullying

    In my experience, WorkSafeBC provides little comfort when investigating Workplace Bullying claims. One of the investigator stated that, "If we can't control bullying in our workplace how do you think we can do anything about your wife's?" Needless to say I asked him to be removed...
    ali770 ali770 31-35 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    For twenty years I had been supported

    and appreciated at work and received the highest evaluations. A new central administration then came in whose supervisors faulted my work at every turn, while praising and extolling the virtues of their new hires right off the street. Other long-term employees got similar...
    Fyrefox Fyrefox 56-60, M Mar 6

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    Jealousy Is Dangerous

    I have two colleagues who are very jealous of me. The have been after me for he past couple of months trying to figure out my vulnerabilities. Despite their efforts, I remain my friendly, happy self. So they were being friendly with me and I have been with them. Keep your...
    GuavaberryKisses GuavaberryKisses 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    It is evident that workplace bullying is a real

    practice in the United States. In free-work states like Arizona or Florida, employers exploit employees and keep them under constant pressure and mental stress making them resign. As a bullied ex-employee I can surrender testimony of such dishonest practice that attempts against...
    augmart2 augmart2 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My boss tells me what to do all of the time

    and threatens not to pay me if I don't comply. I hate that guy so much.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    For a year I was bullied by somebody I thought was my best friend. And by bullied I don't mean she just talked behind my back and yelled at me. I mean she did that and it wasn't...
    Noel138 Noel138 13-15, F Aug 29

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    More and more talk about bullying is spreading. Weather it be cyber bullying or just your average run of the miller in-your-face teasing and torture it's out there and it's very...
    MNI1982 MNI1982 26-30, F Sep 10

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    I like to ask people what they think of when they hear the word "bullying". Most of the time the answer is the same. Teasing, a rather inconsistent, incomplete answer, if I do say...
    Aram8361 Aram8361 18-21, M Aug 27

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    Victim"...I hate that word. We are not "victims". We are some of the strongest, bravest women to walk the earth. We are survivors.  We are not stray helpless animals, we are the...
    TriciaFL TriciaFL 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    One of the things they did was tamper with my cell phone, mostly remotely but sometimes close up if I ever made calls anywhere near the workplace. Up until recently my phone was...
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup 36-40, F Aug 28

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    I lost 2 members of my family while we r struggling to get out of our burning house , it was horrible .. It hurts that they didn't make it .. It's true we took them out of the...
    farnoush farnoush 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    One time i was asked the question, Do u believe in fate? My answer was, no. The fact that i can control bullying just fine, no matter how big it is, in my opinion, is good enough...
    Aram8361 Aram8361 18-21, M Aug 30

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    beautiful video bought a tear to my eye! Its to do with bullying and depression so yeah watch it... Amazing https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ltun92DfnPY
    lovemusicnicole lovemusicnicole 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Okay. Hate bullies? Heck yeah! All the victims of being bullied... I'm here for you. -_- Got called names at a "There's no bullying in this school!" School where my vball match...
    Dawb183 Dawb183 13-15, F Sep 7

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    I absolutely hate people who bully others. Since when is it funny to laugh at others just because they might be different than you? It seriously is something that gets me so angry...
    lookingtovent lookingtovent 16-17, F Sep 8

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    I hate bullying. I'm currently being bullied. It's my last year of school at my school. My class has bullied me for seven years. They have no respect for me at all. The class has...
    AndrewFlewTheTardis AndrewFlewTheTardis 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 9

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    Now keep in mind that this goes back a few years, to the nine-teen sixties to be exact so a lot of wind has blown through my sails and life has brought me to many places that I...
    mike52ad mike52ad 56-60, M Sep 13

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    People really need to stop bullying. It kills thousands every year & if not physically, then deffinitly mentally. You dont know what a persons been through untill you walk in their...
    macibabyy macibabyy 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I know I joke a lot, but one thing that's not a joke to me is bullying. I just heard on the news another child killed himself because he was being bullied. I believe if the law...
    IZZYNUDIST IZZYNUDIST 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I went back around the same time it's brought the side back the awful angry nasty side why for what? That place holds what scares me the most my nightmare It holds what should of...
    cailowe cailowe 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    2 years ago I was raped by a stranger while backpacking in Europe--I was alone at the time because I was en route to meet up my cousin that night. After a terrible night of doctors...
    imasurvivor411 imasurvivor411 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    If anyone out there is survivor or going through domestic abuse and would like to talk or be listened to by some one who understands. Looking for understanding people who have had...
    tazygirl tazygirl 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    If you are reading this message, you too are a survivor. If you are not reading it, then you may or may not be dead.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    I am a survivor of rape. I was a victim of an ex-boyfriend and he raped me in January of 2014. I need some support and all of that to get through this. It would be nice if someone...
    momoshep142 momoshep142 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    By the time I was 24 years old, I long ago passed that line between social drinking and alcoholism and, in that nebulous alcoholic fog and exaggerated egoism, smirked at relatives...
    cmmacneil cmmacneil 51-55, M 4 days ago

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    I had cancer 12 years ago and am glad as it made me a happier person.
    Cragig Cragig 41-45, M 4 hrs ago

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    Today was the first day of school and i was really scared that the bullies would start today as they do every year. And my friend that lives far away told me it was going to be...
    Naginion Naginion 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    you know I cant stop thinking about how wonderful its going to be when we become close friends. We all make bad choices its part of life but its also a learning opportunity. When...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 12 hrs ago

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    I think that the fact you monitor this forum. Means you are forward thinking and also optimistic. What are the chance someones going to post? Now. None. This forum is a giant hole...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    what was the point of this reply richard? Youre richard. Im not. You cant just keep ignoring what Im saying to you. Ignoring it and continuing on in fantasy land with...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    you do understand that Im a fairly serious dude right? I have a grown ups job. I have to worry about things like schedules and budgets. I use industry standard engineering...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 8 hrs ago

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    hey richard. Still losing it I see. Youre richard and Im not. Which Im thankful for. You are such a waste of my time.
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 8 hrs ago

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    are you making up bullshite that I think Im you now? Why would I think that? You are a loser. I know exactly who I am. You dopey fvck. Call me.
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    hi richard that just erased the last 3 and a half years of you being a coward.
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F Aug 21

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    ARE you going to get me by behaving like children? You are some weird freaks. Yep that is really going to effect me. Its obvious to everyone. While you are stuck in the past life...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F Aug 21

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    "Who are only capable of having a go at people form hiding. It was always going to be just a matter of time." You have no understanding of what you are involved in do you.
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F Aug 21

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    I am fvcking sick of you freaks. You are stupid people. I have spent over 3 and a half years pointing out you behave like children and are a bunch of pvssys. Backed with your own...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F Aug 21

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    Why does the same person have every experience in this group
    Based4ever Based4ever 13-15, M Aug 21

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