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I Am a Swinger

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    How We Met

    I am writing this story from true life events. Irena and I are married and have been since a year after these events took place. I love my “Celtic Goddess” and know that her heart is just as much given to me. I make no apologies to anyone about our lifestyle. It is not...
    cobaltblu cobaltblu 61-65 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    Going Further

    My girlfriend and I are both very open minded have enjoyed an open relationship for a while. We started because I had to move away for work and neither of us wanted to break up, but we both knew we would want to have sex with other people if we had the chance. We are both young...
    jdawse85 jdawse85 26-30, M Jul 6, 2012

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    Another Game Bet.....

    .... Part 1This isn't a story. It's what took place while Barb was home from her job on a break recently. It was a first for us. We bent the rules of our relationship, in this case for the better. It was a rather long experience so I broke it up into four parts. I had the chance...
    rlvitt rlvitt 56-60, M Feb 22

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    Looking Again!

    Been out of the lifestyle for a bit, not that we would have turned down the right opportunity, but once again, we're actively looking for our next adventure. Got to be the right adventure, not just anything. My wife is especially looking for a willing bisexual female she can...
    stu73 stu73 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    Just curious, but serious: Can older swingers

    or cuckold couples tell me at about what age does one begin to lose interest in sex with others?
    Wendy753 Wendy753 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    No Drama, please!

    We meet couples and men for sex. A couple of years ago we placed an ad with pics on CL in the mw4mw section and one of the responses looked interesting for we started emailing them back and forth to see if we were a good match. The lady was about our age and the guy was maybe 5-6...
    hotwifecouple214 hotwifecouple214 46-50 9 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    Memories, Ahh Sweet Memories.

    One never knows exactly were to place a story of a first time experience, so I will place it here with the option to move it later. ;-) The SouthWest US is known for conservative politics and conservative religions. I was both a Republican and Southern Baptist at the time but...
    JayCP JayCP 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 29, 2011

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    It's Official!!

    We are now Swingers!! We have met a couple, twice now! They are really nice people and we hope our friendship continues and strengthens!
    Lavender29 Lavender29 36-40, F 10 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Another Game Bet.....

    .. Part 4 …..Trying A Rule ChangeThis isn't a story. It's what took place while Barb was home from her job on a break recently. It was a first for us. We bent the rules of our relationship in this case for the better. It was a rather long experience so I broke it up into...
    rlvitt rlvitt 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 25

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    I enjoy the swinging scene.

    Does anyone share thus! Or find it an odd lifestyle choice?
    PinkyPinks PinkyPinks 31-35, F 5 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    NYE Swinger's Party 2013/2014 (with photo) The

    New Year’s Eve party I went to in Pittsburgh hosted by Secret Sinsations was rather interesting. It was interesting before I ever got there. The evening of December 30, 2013, I stopped at a store in a small town in the sticks of Ohio the night before. There was a blonde in...
    HikerDancerGuy HikerDancerGuy 41-45, M Jan 3

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    The First Time We Went To A Swingers Club.

    After about a year of discussing it me and my wife decided it was time to live out our fantasy..there's a swingers club we learned about on the internet.so we decided to go..my wife wore a fitted sexy black dress so when we got there u check in we get to the mingling area and...
    paswinger69 paswinger69 46-50 24 Responses Jul 5, 2011

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    :-) Fun!!!!!

    You're never too old for childish fun!!!!!  What did you think I meant???????  hehehehe!!!!!  *wink*
    pixelita pixelita 36-40, F 29 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    Nooner

    The wife and I are kind of high profile, professional people in a very small community outside of Pittsburgh. I'm not saying that to brag, but rather to explain why we very seldom play in our town or with people from our community. While, we are very open minded and love the...
    Wjwiii1967 Wjwiii1967 36-40 Jul 16, 2011

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    Swinger And Proud

    I am always says, i will try anything once, why not...life is too short not to. well this is one thing i am glad i have done it. There are rules and Swingers sets those rules. it was awesome and blast experience i would advice every on on earth to try it once. and i am sure...
    DXBHunter DXBHunter 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Our Date 5/28/2010

    As many of you know we had a date planned for Friday night.  First you should know that this is the first time we ever met this couple in person, although we had talked online for a couple of weeks.  We met the couple about 30 miles from our house at a neutral location...
    KSaunders1954 KSaunders1954 51-55, M 3 Responses May 30, 2010

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    Looking For Decent Couple From UAE

    we are couple 32 M and 35 F looking for decent couple for great fun any taker?
    DXBHunter DXBHunter 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Swinging Fun

    My ex-wife and I used to go swinging a lot. I loved seeing her get ****** by other guys. She was so insatiable that we once organised a ******** at our house. Six guys turned up, ready to **** her. I told them all to use her body as they wished, and she encouraged them to do it...
    acm8888 acm8888 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2013

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    Birthday Party!

    I met a nice couple on the dating/ hook-up site that seemed really great. They are all that we were looking for in a couple’s swap, plus more! They are geeky like us, intelligent, and love theatre. It seemed too good to be true. We finally had the opportunity to meet Rory and...
    Cretefreedom Cretefreedom 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    We're a Bit Picky Too Tinkerbelly...

    ...I mean, is it really shallow/wrong to want to be with someone you find physically attractive... especially when it's just for fun/sex? Conversely, we've met really good looking people who kinda ruined it due to their overinflated egos... We believe in a happy medium... nice...
    KinkyKasia KinkyKasia 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 17, 2009

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    Our First Time

    Hey everyone thought i would share of our experience as well. we have been married 10 years at the time, both involved in church activities etc One time when travelling for work and chatting at night on msn, we loved chatting this way was more open. we started to chat about...
    axolotlsman axolotlsman 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    A Noobie's First Party

    I thought this group might like to read about a recent experience that my girlfriend Trina and I enjoyed.  About a month ago we went to house party in Long Island, NY.  It was a belated Halloween party and the theme was all things witchy. My better half and I...
    PoppinBi PoppinBi 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 13, 2008

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    My First ****

    When aged just 18,with a 25 year old boyfriend I was experienced way beyond my years,having lost my virginity at 14,so when he told me he wanted to go to a pool party that involved partner swapping,that weekend I was all for it.I knew he thought he would get to have sex with...
    tallpowerhouseblonde tallpowerhouseblonde 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    My First Time: A Lesson On Timing

    Me and my boyfriend were really close with another couple, it was almost like we were all dating each other. We shared everything with each other and there were no secrets (this could be annoying at times). Tom and Sharon (the couple) and me and Steve (my bf) were basically all...
    JessicaXoX003 JessicaXoX003 22-25, F 11 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Where To Start

    Some of you have heard but to those that haven't please read and I'd love your serious (and sexy) comments. OK, where to start...let me give you some idea of who I am and why I am on here... Yes, I am real married wife, we are swingers-role play/enjoy cuckolding, etc.. I love...
    karynkn1 karynkn1 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    Finally!!!

    As background, it took me several years to get my wife to warm up to the idea of swinging. I didn't twist her arm at all, just talked about it, used talk during sex to make it fresh, and explained how much I would enjoy seeing her with another man (she couldn't understand this...
    irishhal65 irishhal65 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 22, 2012

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    Early Days As A Swinger

    My wife and I became swingers in 1970. Our first wife swap was with an older couple. He [Hal} was 46 and his wife [Jane] was 44. My wife and I were 30 and 28. The first time we swung was at their beautiful home in Connecticut not far from New York City. My wife had been working...
    Jimmurph Jimmurph 70+, M Dec 28, 2012

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    Swing Party Photo Shoot

    From Swing Party to Photo Shoot Well here we are a few days after our most recent Hotel swingers party and I must say this one had some great variations over our past few parties in that it had some wilder escapades that will make for great memories. We had more people attend...
    badandy2ca badandy2ca 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 30, 2011

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    Another Game Bet.....

    .. Part 2....The Payoff.This isn't a story. It's what took place while Barb was home from her job on a break recently. It was a first for us. We bent the rules of our relationship in this case for the better. It was a rather long experience so I broke it up into four parts. I had...
    rlvitt rlvitt 56-60, M Feb 22

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    Another Game Bet.....

    .... Part 3....Todd and Jean heat things up.This isn't a story. It's what took place while Barb was home from her job on a break recently. It was a first for us. We bent the rules of our relationship in this case for the better. It was a rather long experience so I broke it up...
    rlvitt rlvitt 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Her Swing Club Fantasy

    It was eight o clock, the time we had arranged to meet at the house, but there was no Jon just yet, I watched the comings and goings of everyone just hoping Jon was still going to show. There he was just getting out of a taxi, a big smile appeared on my face, he looked so sexy...
    joncam joncam 56-60, M Jul 23, 2011

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    Yes, I am a swinging wife

    and mom. My open marriage husband allows me to have sexual relations with black men. I have five biracial babies by five different black men. Nothing better than being in bed with a black man and a growing BBC in my hands and in my holes too.
    birthdaypartyforme birthdaypartyforme 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 3

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    Not Really

    So much in to men, but I wouldn't say no to any chick that wanted to **** me and my man.... He's amazing. We both love to lick ***** and I love to watch him ****
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 3 Responses May 22, 2008

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    My Wife's Adventure At The Swing Club

    We decided to check out a new swingers club about 65 miles away from our house.  My wife was a little reluctant, because even though we are seasoned swingers we had never been to one before.  I told her that we have met some of the best people at parties we had attended...
    KSaunders1954 KSaunders1954 51-55, M 5 Responses May 30, 2010

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    My wife and I are pretty big swingers.

    We have to be pretty careful, so we really only go to one kink and queer friendly club, and even then it can be difficult to find someone willing to hook up with a married trans girl. But some of my favourite sex is with other couples.
    jojokarel jojokarel 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Not Officially

    I am finding it difficult to find relations...I am looking to explore and my husband is open to the idea!!! WOOHOO!! So how do ya get started...seriously looking for advice...or more ;)
    Lavender29 Lavender29 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    Our First Time Was More Than I Expected!

    My Husband and I met our sophomore year of college and we were married shortly after graduating from the University of Florida. My husband Mike is about five foot nine and 175 lbs, dark brown hair and stocky with a great sense of humor. I’m a little taller than Mike and I have...
    aquacpl aquacpl 41-45 3 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    My Question

    Ok, so for the record this has not happened to us yet. Trying to avoid this one from happening. But because it did happen to a couple i was talking to at a party i am looking for an answer or at least an opinion. What do you do if you are getting into it with a couple on a "date...
    monkey473 monkey473 26-30, F Jun 20, 2011

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    Unswung

    so my husband & I entered the world of swinging - WOW. wild really has been good for an eye opener but he is so picky, I don't think we will ever actually SWING.   Getting 2 people compatable is one thing getting 4 is pretty impossible.  any advice  ...
    tinkerbelly tinkerbelly 41-45, F 14 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    All these "rules" are swirling around my mind. All the ones I was taught by Christians when I was a kid, the ones they would tell me now if they knew about my asking to open my...
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    I love the fact that we have a open marriage. We have been married for 19 years and open for about 5 years if you count some 3somes we had it is a lot longer then 5 more like 12. I...
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    birthdaypartyforme birthdaypartyforme 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    heymunoz heymunoz 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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