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I Am a Switch

It means you're able to be dominant or submissive, depending on the situation or maybe just your mood. We're a rare lot and it can be tough at times. 317 People

    I Used To Think I Was More Submissive

    But just about every girl I’ve ever been with has forced the issue to me being the dominant one.  Plus pretty much everyone has commented it's hard to believe I’m submissive when I’m so confident I could tell a complete stranger my life story. I'm used to having to take...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 25, 2011

    You Have To Beat Me, Dammit

    I am forceful person. I am not good at giving over. If you want the upper hand, you have to win it. You want me to roll over? Make me. I dare you. Prove you're strong enough to make me beg. Please. Again and again I am frustrated. I am forced lash out, to shove you off, to show...
    PMurinus PMurinus
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2012

    I Like The Trade Off.

     I like to play both rolls. I love being a sub more often but I love to top as well. My ideal relationship would be one where we would take turns being dom for a week or month at a time and make it by chance like a dice roll so one may be dom or sub for a while but there is...
    skankboy skankboy
    22-25, M
    Jan 3, 2010

    I Like To Trade Off.

    I don't like to force people to do anthing. However, I have always been open to experimentation and with some effort have come to appreciate getting reactions out of my lover by dominating. I have been a sex slave victim and ever since have felt need to be dominated by someone...
    insanicus insanicus
    31-35, M
    Jul 21, 2010

    Yes I Am.

    I am a switch, I am extremely submissive like 60% of the time, and the other 40% I'm dominate. I have discovered that when I have been in relationship with woman, that I am much more dominate when it comes to woman. I Love to be submissive with men, although from time to time, I...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 30, 2012

    Confused Goddess Seeking Wholeness

    Greetings, I was recently guided to fetlife and from there to this enlightening community of fellow seekers. I as so new to the world of kinksters that I have to look up every abbreviation and wikipedia is constantly open and active. I am a switch (now I know there's a word for...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2010
    greenbouy greenbouy
    51-55, M
    Jul 30, 2015

    Morning Glory

    I feel you stir beside me still sleeping your body warm and relaxed You look so beautiful content and serene Happiness overwhelms me followed by a longing so strong I can't help but reach out and stroke your sexy, soft skin Watching your body respond your mind still in a dream...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    Nov 14, 2011


    I am a bit of an ego maniac. I am opinionated and I don't suffer fools well. I am comfortable being the one calling the shots. But, instinctively, I feel like equal play is needed, especially with those who are close to me. I'm extending the metaphor a bit here because...
    NoLongerHere NoLongerHere
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Sep 20, 2012

    I think masters and mistresses should be

    worshipped daily or weekly or hourly or monthly by there slaves and subs
    Aireagoir94 Aireagoir94
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2015

    Being a switch is sometimes a curse You need

    to be someone's b I t c h sometimes and other times you want one.
    simpletwisted simpletwisted
    56-60, M
    Sep 23, 2015

    I'm a switch, and sometimes I just want to be

    someone's B I T C H a few weeks ago, I got my opertunaty to be someones lil B I T C H boy. It was a wonderful experience
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 2, 2015

    I've been mostly submissive

    for most of my life, and only started getting a bit domme during my mid-teens. I had a boyfriend who liked being humiliated and I liked humiliating him. He was a little clingy though so I broke up with him, but I continued looking into it and explored being switch and what it...
    purrfectrosie purrfectrosie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 20, 2014

    A Full Circle.

    The dynamic and subtle unspoken language between people is a very powerful force. Some women just need to be told to what to do and enjoy being commanded. This is a dynamic I have explored the most. However, I have with the right persuasion and women allowed them to direct me...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 28, 2013

    Last Night...

    ...after my boy got out of the bath I towelled him down, then noticed the frilly apron on the dresser and smiled, I tied it around his waist and commented on how cute he looked, lifting it occasionally to tease his hardening ****. I knew it was 'my turn' and threw him onto the...
    Slapnir Slapnir
    31-35, F
    Sep 15, 2011

    Mostly Dom

    But I cant seriously consider a guy for a long term if he cant be dom to me.
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 18, 2009

    I'm Cold...

    Stroking my body my boobs are cold my heart is lonely I feel an ache a restriction in my chest Why am I feeling so miserable? I'm alone lonely acutely feeling that something is missing a sense of suffering of hope diminishing will my Man not show???
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    Nov 17, 2011
    DancingFox DancingFox
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2012

    Switchy Girl

    For a lot of years i was submissive but something changed about 6 years ago and my mistressy side started to come out. I love being in control and telling my partner what to do to me. I love also watching their body react as i whisper to them and torture them with pleasure...
    katied38 katied38
    36-40, F
    Jan 16, 2013

    Flick The Switch

    Not an electrical switch, a dominant/submissive switch who likes role play and can play different roles to suit myself and the person or people who i am with at the time.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2010

    What Do I Desire?

    How can I define This yearning that never lets up This need to call out, To express and be committed to Something and Someone This inner drive to Expose myself To pure abandonment Release myself From misconceived inhibitions To being me To know that The love is there Strong and...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2011

    Top To Bottom

    That is the way I roll. It works for me and my wife and that's the only people it has to work for.
    KingofSwords KingofSwords
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2012

    What I Like

    I am a Dominatrix to wimps and sissy boys. Get on your knees Mistress Maryjane. For studs I am a hottie. For Dominators and Dominatrix's I am a *****. For lesbians I am a girly girl. Basically I play the role of the moment. I have a regular Dominatrix I serve. Also a few...
    WeedGirl WeedGirl
    70+, F
    3 Responses Aug 27, 2012

    Words Of Waiting...

    Wondering if words will bring you to me expressing the yearning the longing the certainty of knowing that you are out there waiting for me Yearning for your touch, your presence, your present Longing for you, longing to be fully me Knowing that you will know instantly that I am...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    2 Responses May 14, 2011

    Turning Him On While Keeping Him In The Dark

    He's been running a bit amuck lately, S has.  Going after all sorts of women on BDSM websites and MILFs in his local community.  He looks like a perfectly respectable fifty-something husband and father, but underneath that facade lurks the biggest horndog I know.  Well, one of...
    milkynips milkynips
    46-50, F
    Jun 18, 2012

    I Need Advice ,I Am A Very Confident Dominant Female ,I Like To Be In Control Of My Life The Things I Do The People I Meet ,But Have Discovered That In The Bedroom I Have Very Submissive Needs As Well As A Need To Control? I Am Confused Anybody Help?.

    My problem is i have met a dom on line,he is alpha male without a doubt his looks make me go week at the knees the attraction is overwhelming,i have gone through countless emotions since i started talking to him .But i have become so confused the beginning my confidence...
    satedpleasure satedpleasure
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2013

    I'm a switch meaning I like domination

    and submission I have the best of both as someone on here said to me once and I agree I'm also polite and try to have a good conversation normal or otherwise I do hope I don't get in trouble with EP since their app doesn't have a filter for posting 18 plus content even though...
    Aireagoir94 Aireagoir94
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 4, 2014

    Milky's Personae

    Well, this is number one, And our fun has just begun, Roll me over in the clover, do it again. Roll me over in the clover, Roll me over, lay me down, and do it again. ~ Roll Me Over In The Clover, origins unknown When I think about my sexual personae, I remember the song...
    milkynips milkynips
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Feb 5, 2013


    I wrote a story on how I'm always dominant in my life and in the bedroom. I can't believe I'm saying this but I'm willing to be submissive to a man if he is totally worth my time but I won't be submissive to everyone. I never listen to a person's commands and I don't think men...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Dec 18, 2012

    My Old Online Sir

    Recently i had an online Sir, we were very good friends prior to becoming D/s , we even spoke about how online D/s would work, we didn't think it could, and it didn't for us to be truthful, We were only D/s for a little short while a week at that, Things were really good but i...
    AnnahSubmissivecumslut212 AnnahSubmissivecumslut212
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 28, 2012

    Oh If Only....

    Oh if only I could feel your fingers brushing ever so lightly over my nipples feeling how they respond as if a light breeze has gently kissed each one under a bright blue sky transforming them into deliciously tempting dark red cherries Oh if only I could feel your sweet lips...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    Nov 12, 2011

    New Found Dom

    Hi I am mostly dominate but for the right person I will be submissive. I guess I'm very new to this concept (growing up in a christian household you don't learn about this stuff). Anyone wanna help teach/help/mentor me? I've read a bit of online stuff but you can't always trust...
    drakneko drakneko
    22-25, T
    Jan 14, 2013

    Today I'm Dom

    I'm Safe, Sane and Consensual or all my peers may tan my hide I know the rules of safety must at all times be kept in my sight Your safeword means I stop!!! Just yell it when you have a fright. I can be subtle or obscene, it all just depends on my mood I punish wrong behavior...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 12, 2013

    Both Roles Are Fine With Me.

    But I'd rather be the submissive one. But I can still step up to the plate when I have to dominate ;P
    deleted deleted
    May 6, 2011

    I wish I was just a pure dominant.

    but in essence I am a bit of a switch. Oh well, live and let live. Likely more will come out of a relationship being that there can be time for one and then the other to be dominant.
    Devilscar Devilscar
    22-25, M
    Apr 26, 2015

    Hard-core Switch

    I am a Switch. My preferences are generally extremes, but this makes the quieter times for cuddling and communication even more important. Growing up, I knew that I had both tendencies, but my dominant side is what my dates/girl friends expected and seemingly insisted upon...
    whitewimp59 whitewimp59
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jan 8, 2011

    Oh I'm Capable Of Either But I Am Having Troulbe Finding Submissives Sexy

    I just can'tall this music.... all the songs she sent me to express her desire for age play and make natural the idea of regression and safety and fun she was having with the gun playing her master...just playing video gamesI just can't do it anymore. Book after book after book...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    Apr 8, 2013

    Recently I Found Out That I Am....

    Recently I have figured out, that even though, most the time, I am submissive, there are a few rare ocassions, that I do like to dominate. Hey being a switch can be a good thing :)
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 27, 2010

    Bring Me Back Baby...

    My ***** is throbbing with desire my heart needs to feel loved my breasts want to feel appreciated my arms yearn to feel the warmth of your body my body should lean into yours relaxing while a new wave of sexually charged energy revitalizes every cell bringing me back from...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    Nov 15, 2011
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