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I Am A Taken In Hand Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 196 People


    This happened last night and this morning... Yesterday was a day to work on the check book. I hate paying bills and math involved stuff. It makes me so angry. Yesterday was a ticked off day too! I was running though the numbers and come to find out we had 100 dollars missing...
    JennStone JennStone
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 4, 2013

    My New Life

    When I grew up with my twin brother Dusty I was the Dom while he was the sub. This was although college till the age of 25. It was then that I got attacked by three men as I came home from work. After hearing that I was in the hospital Dusty quite his job in the Middle East and...
    CookDusty CookDusty
    Jan 27, 2012

    How It All Started

    Not long after we married, I found we were drifting apart. The love and compatibility wasn't there anymore and sex was not happening very often either. I was a control freak in an unhappy marriage.  Out of curiousity I was flicking through the self help books in WHSmith and I...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    41 Responses May 6, 2011

    A Solution To The Problem

    My husband has grown increasingly frustrated with our relationship as he says I haven't been submissive to him, and I believe he is correct. I am the one who brought up the TiH relationship to him. He is not a control freak, he is smart, logical and very caring. I got two swats...
    TakenbyDan TakenbyDan
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 28, 2012

    TiHs - What small acts help you view your HoH

    as the dominant figure in the relationship? Are there tendencies aside from disciplines that make you sense his place?
    MediPhil MediPhil
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 4, 2014

    I am not writing to tell you about a spanking

    or discipline I have received. I am writing to tell you how wonderful my marriage has been since we started TIH/DD. We do not agree all the time, we have our arguments and even fights. He makes me so mad that I have even thrown things (not at him though). What makes our...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jan 13, 2014

    Taken In Hand Is The Best!

    Discovering Taken in Hand is the best thing that has ever happened in my marriage. My husband is pretty easy on me, but firm and no nonsense when it comes to punishment. His spankings are very painful and scary. They are also very effective. I deeply appreciate his loving...
    avalonblythe avalonblythe
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Nov 20, 2011

    Self Disrespect

    Yesterday, I lost it. I was so down by the end of the day that it ruined all the good I should have been feeling.  I actually had a TON GOOD that happened and 1 minor set-back.  but that set-back brought my whole day crashing down and all the good I experienced faded away...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2013

    Our Begining

    Well my husband and I have a game plan, kinda. He is leaning more towards a TiH system sans the discipline aspect of a full DD relationship. Until he's home from this road trip it will be more modest but he has started giving me daily task lists to complete  which include...
    MrsRMac MrsRMac
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2012

    Im Doing It Now Lol... I Dont Want To Forget

    So my wonderful hub decided he has a task for me to write on ep what a submissive wife means to me and what I expect form a dominant husband…. Great were to begin…… Well….. For me being a submissive wife means, that I submit too my husband and give him the greats gift I...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 11, 2011

    All My Life

    I have been submissive all my life.  I was punished by only my father.  All five of us were punished in front of the whole family.  Boy and girls together.  All bent over a big wooden saw horse with leather straps to restrain the disobedient child.  Wrists and ankles then...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 23, 2011
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