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I Am A Taken In Hand Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 176 People

    How It All Started

    Not long after we married, I found we were drifting apart. The love and compatibility wasn't there anymore and sex was not happening very often either. I was a control freak in an unhappy marriage.  Out of curiousity I was flicking through the self help books in WHSmith and I...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 37 Responses May 6, 2011

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    Im Doing It Now Lol... I Dont Want To Forget

    So my wonderful hub decided he has a task for me to write on ep what a submissive wife means to me and what I expect form a dominant husband…. Great were to begin…… Well….. For me being a submissive wife means, that I submit too my husband and give him the greats gift I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    I am not writing to tell you about a spanking

    or discipline I have received. I am writing to tell you how wonderful my marriage has been since we started TIH/DD. We do not agree all the time, we have our arguments and even fights. He makes me so mad that I have even thrown things (not at him though). What makes our...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 13

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    All My Life

    I have been submissive all my life.  I was punished by only my father.  All five of us were punished in front of the whole family.  Boy and girls together.  All bent over a big wooden saw horse with leather straps to restrain the disobedient child.  Wrists and ankles then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    A Solution To The Problem

    My husband has grown increasingly frustrated with our relationship as he says I haven't been submissive to him, and I believe he is correct. I am the one who brought up the TiH relationship to him. He is not a control freak, he is smart, logical and very caring. I got two swats...
    TakenbyDan TakenbyDan 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    Punishment..

    This happened last night and this morning... Yesterday was a day to work on the check book. I hate paying bills and math involved stuff. It makes me so angry. Yesterday was a ticked off day too! I was running though the numbers and come to find out we had 100 dollars missing...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 8 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Taken In Hand Is The Best!

    Discovering Taken in Hand is the best thing that has ever happened in my marriage. My husband is pretty easy on me, but firm and no nonsense when it comes to punishment. His spankings are very painful and scary. They are also very effective. I deeply appreciate his loving...
    avalonblythe avalonblythe 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2011

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    TiHs - What small acts help you view your HoH

    as the dominant figure in the relationship? Are there tendencies aside from disciplines that make you sense his place?
    MediPhil MediPhil 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 4

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    Self Disrespect

    Yesterday, I lost it. I was so down by the end of the day that it ruined all the good I should have been feeling.  I actually had a TON GOOD that happened and 1 minor set-back.  but that set-back brought my whole day crashing down and all the good I experienced faded away...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    Our Begining

    Well my husband and I have a game plan, kinda. He is leaning more towards a TiH system sans the discipline aspect of a full DD relationship. Until he's home from this road trip it will be more modest but he has started giving me daily task lists to complete  which include...
    MrsRMac MrsRMac 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    My New Life

    When I grew up with my twin brother Dusty I was the Dom while he was the sub. This was although college till the age of 25. It was then that I got attacked by three men as I came home from work. After hearing that I was in the hospital Dusty quite his job in the Middle East and...
    CookDusty CookDusty 31-35 Jan 27, 2012

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    In 2005, whilst I was busy working my *** off in the office starting a new business to come back from a financial catastrophe, I returned home unexpectedly one afternoon to catch...
    TrentT TrentT 41-45, M 6 Responses Oct 9

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    Whilst I was busy working my *** off in the office starting a new business to come back from a financial catastrophe in 2005, I returned home unexpectedly one afternoon to catch my...
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    I am a wife, and I have cheated. Don't get me wrong I LOVE my husband, and never want to be with anyone else, but I still really enjoy getting attention from other males, and if an...
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    Decused to wear my wifes pants to today for the first. What a turn on it is. I'm hArd and can feel the panties stretching againSt me. Wonderful feeling
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    Watched a stranger feel up my wife's skirt in the night club tonight. Very exciting.
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    While it’s been like FOREVER since I last wrote on here – it’s insane actually!! I’m assuming there’s a ton of people I haven’t met and come to think of it I’m...
    Storm25 Storm25 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I love it :D! it feels so intimate...and it feels amazing that someone trusts you to hold their hand ^^. And not necessarily with a partner, but with anyone you want to feel bonded...
    dan341 dan341 22-25 7 hrs ago

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    Just some advice, there are guys out there who might try and steal your wife from you. Sometime in early July we were walking through the hospital, we are there a lot for...
    Garraway Garraway 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 4

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    I just want to use this platform to vent out my inner thoughts.  I lived an excellent life with my wife and kids.  I was the only person in my family who was well settled...
    smarty75 smarty75 31-35, M Oct 7

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    Texting the wife about sex. She gets so hot when I come up with stories that she's laying on her back with blindfold on and I have sexy lady sneak in and help me rub her down. she...
    fun546blue fun546blue 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    This is comepleting venting, but I can't get over the anger at my ex-wife. We were together for eleven years, until I caught in lesiban affair in our bedroom. After that, she...
    Robthedude Robthedude 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Letter To My Wife Nazim Hikmat.. 11-11-1933 Bursa Prison My one and only! Your last letter says: "My head is throbbing, my heart is stunned!" You say: "If they hang you, if I...
    Pheroswife Pheroswife 41-45, F Sep 25

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    This is for all the people who're never appreciated or loved, no matter how hard they try or what they put in... Love What do you know? What do you say? Never give up On what...
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    arcana016 arcana016 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    f0rtywinks f0rtywinks 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 12

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    Cold morning. Wood stove burning. Wife wearing her baggy 'comfy' sweats while cooking pancakes and eggs. Don't know what did it. Her smile? Her eyes? Just knowing she was naked...
    Cautiouslyr3ckless Cautiouslyr3ckless 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I act like I don't care and I can handle anything but I actually break down a lot
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    Like you're carrying the world atop your shoulders. That's how I always felt, with friends, family, work. I somehow always blame myself when something goes wrong. I act all...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F Sep 27

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    Yes, a 32 year old man likes to hold hands with his wife. The great things never fade
    iamokaynow iamokaynow 31-35, M 6 Responses Oct 3

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    Well i am a girl 27 years old Have a small physical handicap , i am very positive funny life-lover person , but no matter what i do their is no one interested in me as girlfriend...
    Somebodywina Somebodywina 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    The Dog The other day my wife was off work for a change and later that day my 20 year old step son (her natural son) was coming back from China where he spent his summer vacation...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 4 Responses Sep 26

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    Me and my wife have considered another man for some time now last week she met some one at her school She seams to get a long with him vary well so one nite she tolled me he...
    Ny147 Ny147 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    As I sit here right now while my wife has gone grocery shopping for the family I think about how blessed I am to have the best wife in the world. We met under somewhat strange...
    handytim59 handytim59 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    ok heres the story my sister just recently decided to pursue exhibitionism. so she has been recently exposing her naked body in Public in a way that looks like it was an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I haven't been on here for a while. My best friend, my lover, my other half, has asked for my hand in marriage! I said I do! He has graduated basic at Lackland AFB. He was at...
    kelseyyyk kelseyyyk 18-21, F Sep 24

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    He's in boot camp and our 4 year anniversary is Wednesday. I want to send him a card but I can't find any good ones... Maybe I'll hand make it. Quote ideas anyone?
    Kendykay Kendykay 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    Sorry peeps ;) I'm taken by the love of my life
    Harrley Harrley 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I would love to be taken by U xoxo
    LilLexi16 LilLexi16 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I have always been a good person who went though the actions to make my life better no mater how bad from everything from dying being brought back and learning how to do most...
    mylast mylast 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I'm taken by the best guy ever that's him ^^^👆👆👆☝☝☝and I love him
    BlackBoyHaha BlackBoyHaha 13-15, M Sep 29

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    I don't think I have ever felt as lonely as I do right now. Yes, I'm sitting in a lecture hall full of people yet I feel like I'm all alone in the world. And it's all because my...
    hotstreak426 hotstreak426 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    Since I was about 12, I have dreamed about being a wife, things I would do for my husband, and things he would do for me, wearing sexy lingerie for him, and doing other things...
    ashliemarie01 ashliemarie01 31-35, T Oct 5

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