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I Am A Taken In Hand Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 161 People

    How It All Started

    Not long after we married, I found we were drifting apart. The love and compatibility wasn't there anymore and sex was not happening very often either. I was a control freak in an unhappy marriage.  Out of curiousity I was flicking through the self help books in WHSmith and I...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 38 Responses May 6, 2011

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    All My Life

    I have been submissive all my life.  I was punished by only my father.  All five of us were punished in front of the whole family.  Boy and girls together.  All bent over a big wooden saw horse with leather straps to restrain the disobedient child.  Wrists and ankles then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    My New Life

    When I grew up with my twin brother Dusty I was the Dom while he was the sub. This was although college till the age of 25. It was then that I got attacked by three men as I came home from work. After hearing that I was in the hospital Dusty quite his job in the Middle East and...
    CookDusty CookDusty 31-35 Jan 27, 2012

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    I am not writing to tell you about a spanking

    or discipline I have received. I am writing to tell you how wonderful my marriage has been since we started TIH/DD. We do not agree all the time, we have our arguments and even fights. He makes me so mad that I have even thrown things (not at him though). What makes our...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 13

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    Punishment..

    This happened last night and this morning... Yesterday was a day to work on the check book. I hate paying bills and math involved stuff. It makes me so angry. Yesterday was a ticked off day too! I was running though the numbers and come to find out we had 100 dollars missing...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 7 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Im Doing It Now Lol... I Dont Want To Forget

    So my wonderful hub decided he has a task for me to write on ep what a submissive wife means to me and what I expect form a dominant husband…. Great were to begin…… Well….. For me being a submissive wife means, that I submit too my husband and give him the greats gift I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    A Solution To The Problem

    My husband has grown increasingly frustrated with our relationship as he says I haven't been submissive to him, and I believe he is correct. I am the one who brought up the TiH relationship to him. He is not a control freak, he is smart, logical and very caring. I got two swats...
    TakenbyDan TakenbyDan 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    Self Disrespect

    Yesterday, I lost it. I was so down by the end of the day that it ruined all the good I should have been feeling.  I actually had a TON GOOD that happened and 1 minor set-back.  but that set-back brought my whole day crashing down and all the good I experienced faded away...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    Our Begining

    Well my husband and I have a game plan, kinda. He is leaning more towards a TiH system sans the discipline aspect of a full DD relationship. Until he's home from this road trip it will be more modest but he has started giving me daily task lists to complete  which include...
    MrsRMac MrsRMac 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    Taken In Hand Is The Best!

    Discovering Taken in Hand is the best thing that has ever happened in my marriage. My husband is pretty easy on me, but firm and no nonsense when it comes to punishment. His spankings are very painful and scary. They are also very effective. I deeply appreciate his loving...
    avalonblythe avalonblythe 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2011

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    Ask about my wife? Or we can talk about her. Or whomever.
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    So, I married one of my former teachers. He is twenty years older than I am. Of course this means he has had sex with more people than I have. I am his third former student, but...
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    Well, a lot of people are probably curious about my life. Well, I have been through a lot in the past, but this one was the worst I've ever went through. Though I was only down for...
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    I fantasize about my wife being taken in front of me. Her watching me while being used by another man or women.
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    Life is getting complicated. So last night by the time I got home from work, I pretty much didn't care if or how much trouble I was in. I know I am in so much trouble anyways...
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    My wife done some new boudoir photo with her latest Victoria secret bra , they turn out awesome .
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    I've taken up biting my cheeks to stop the pain. Actually it's more like clenching my teeth while trying to bite through my cheek. Oh well, at least no one can see the scars this...
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    I always dreamed that I would be kidnapped taken to a a castle of some kind and taken as a tickle slave where there are all kinds of bondages and tickle tools and I am tickled...
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    My wife and I are hardly talking because of her relationship with a boyfriend she used to have 20 years ago. This boyfriend was her very first in all regards and I know is very...
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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
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    1. Faith - A Virtuous Woman serves God with all of her heart, mind, and soul. She seeks His will for her life and follows His ways. (Proverbs 31: 26, Proverbs 31: 29 – 31...
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    Kind of a long story- so here is the first part: Unbelievable, but great coincidence of timing! She and I were in the livingroom. There are two medium-sized windows on two...
    thenextdoorwife thenextdoorwife 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    At the age of 48 I met and marry the love of my life . It has come at a huge price ,having to leave my two daughters (my best friends ) and a gorgeous ,mischievious two and half...
    moomin13 moomin13 46-50 Jun 26

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    my boyfriend left for basic a few days ago. I wish he could call so i can here his voice. I feel sad when i think about him being go for so long. I miss coming home to him from...
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    My boyfriend's now a marine and I'm just more than proud of him for that. He just graduated to become a marine mid late june, he was home for 10 days and he just left back to san...
    jannette7 jannette7 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    She thought I had an illicit affair when I was on travel. I travel a lot, but she got the wrong impression when I described one of my trips. She decided to try her own hand at...
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    It has been said that we are social animals. I think that's true. Even introverts like me value connections, we just value fewer and deeper connections than what the social media...
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    Osiris5694 Osiris5694 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    We meet on the Internet but not on a dating site, got on well a when out a few time then I was staying at hers for the first time. we just got up but no dressed when the door bell...
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    I enjoy Hjs from my wife while wearing my satin panties.
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    I've been described as stubborn, strong willed and determined. In other words extremely hardheaded to the point of stupidity at some times. This goes along with my outright refusal...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F Jun 26

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    So it's been 15 days since we had protected sex (we used condom and he didn't come either). We just did it for 2 mins or less. I have taken 6 HPT's already just to find out if i...
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    I still get my temperature taken rectally
    lexie119 lexie119 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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