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I Am A Terrible Girlfriend

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    Doubt That?

    I tell to every guy I know, but they don't believe it. That's because they haven't even dated me. Every guy expects the girl to be perfect and capable of showing love, but I can't, atleast not in the first weeks. I don't know if it's lack of trust or shyness but I just can't...
    AngelsReflection AngelsReflection 16-17, F 8 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    He Deserves Better

    I've just put him through the worst week of his life and I can not stand the fact that I've burdened him with all this stupid depressive insecure old me crap. I actually hate what I've done and what's worse, I knew exactly what I was doing at the time and how it would affect...
    sezziy sezziy 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    I Realized I Was A Terrible Girlfriend Too Late.

    I ruined what could have possibly been a good relationship.  I worried over the wrong things when really, I shouldn't have worried at all.  I was worried about him not being able to keep a job.  I was worried about him still living with his parents and still...
    daretodream414 daretodream414 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    I'm a terrible girlfriend and I'm f*cking proud of it!!! Guys are stupid and should be treated accordingly.
    stmingiux stmingiux 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    Not ashamed of it, really,

    but I find it weird that I don't want the same things most women want and enjoy.. I've got like a whole list For example, the whole "I have to be with you always" thing drives me nuts. It's like "Dude I just saw you yesterday. Give me some breathing room." I hate when I decide...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 29

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    In Love With The Man Who I'M Not Dating

    I'm dating someone... Well they're my boyfriend. Cool, right? I'm super lucky, I know it. He's amazing and funny, everything a girl could want, yet I don't - can't - love him. Why? When so many would like to be where I am, with a nice and caring boyfriend, why am I feeling like...
    YouWouldntExpect YouWouldntExpect 18-21, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Ashabella Ashabella 18-21, F 17 mins ago

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    what an awesome way to end my terrible week. I GOT ANOTHER LETTER.
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    i sucks when something terrible happens and your boyfriends literally 2,000 miles away; my dog, who I've been spending a lot of time with since my boyfriend left was killed this...
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    WaitingOnASoldier2013 WaitingOnASoldier2013 18-21, F Oct 11

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    When your boyfriend has been battling depression for a majority of your relationship, you start to question your own worth. You wonder if he really loves you. You wonder why am I...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 11

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    So I went to work today and instead of getting out at 9:30 I got out at 11 because I had to close. After I left work I looked at my phone to 10 missed calls and 10 texts from my...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Oct 19

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    LextheIntrovert LextheIntrovert 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 23

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    my best friend and I had sex. he has a girlfriend and he refused to tell her about it so I guess I need to tell her. she doesn't deserve to be with someone lying to her.
    Youresocreepy Youresocreepy 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend just got his orders, he will be stationed in Hawaii, I was planning on transferring schools but since that is so far I don't see it being possible. I can't help but...
    SailorsGirl16 SailorsGirl16 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend left for Basic in the 27th and since then I have felt terrible. I can sleep well, I barely eat and all I do is think about how he's doing or if he is doing okay...
    maeranay maeranay 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    many of the two year olds i know are adorable, and sweethearts! you're still half-baby at age two, and can't even use full sentences, so i don't find it fair that people assume...
    hans13 hans13 51-55, F Oct 12

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    I don't mean to sound like a b**** but I just hate her, my mother passed away 13 years ago, I was just about to turn 2 years old; I have three older brothers who were ages 12, 9...
    Secret179688 Secret179688 18-21 Oct 10

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    Well what to say about my childhood, it was a terrible one. My brother used to beat me up on a regular basis cause he was on crack most of his teenage years and he used to take his...
    yuna86 yuna86 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    went out with a friend who wanted me to meet her new boyfriend. I loved this girl madly, but had no chance. he excused himself from the bar to go to the john. I settled the bill...
    DavidMetis DavidMetis 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now, and from pretty early on we both discussed out sexuality. The fact that we were both bi curious, her more so than me, and we...
    redstar22 redstar22 22-25 Oct 12

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    One thing that absolutely drives me insane about some military wives, fiancées, and girlfriends is the ones that claim their mans title. I get that you're so proud of your man...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 14

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    Well, I may be just 16, but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 10

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    A year had passed since ive posten on experience project and my relationship with my father is becoming much better now. But there has alway been that one person that I resent...
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3 13-15 Oct 15

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    I never had any girlfriends up until my 30s. I always got rejected by girls all my life and still do. The few girlfriends and sex I had was all by luck. Nothing else !When I go...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M Oct 4

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    So, I met this wonderful guy. We've been together for 6 months now and he just recently became a truck driver. It is his dream job and he loves it. I'm so proud of him and try to...
    iammorgs iammorgs 22-25, F Oct 5

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    It started my senior year of high school. We were just friends at the time and he had a girlfriend. Around April my prom date and I got in to a huge fight and so I asked .. lets...
    thinkingoutloudx thinkingoutloudx 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    hi everyone I just woke up at midnight and thought I'll post my experience here because I feel so much emptiness inside for the fact I've never had a girlfriend, not even a...
    despair1 despair1 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    First of all..I am straight..I don't need or want a girlfriend lol. Second of all..I'm writing this for any guy who thinks they need one and I am a girl that is a friend add them...
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F Oct 1

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    This is going to be long, We are together since 4 years ago and she is the only girlfriend I ever had. She is wonderful, her smile is beautiful, her brown eyes and red hair, she...
    lawrenalds lawrenalds 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    Mine isn't really about seeking any advice because no matter how much advice you give someone, it doesn't ease the worry you have until your man comes walking through the door. My...
    missmorgan3400 missmorgan3400 18-21, F Oct 5

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    My ex husband and I were married 7 years and have two small children. As soon as we broke up, we started sleeping with each other again. I had feelings of how that we would get...
    Blondenycblonde75 Blondenycblonde75 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    So 2 month ago, i saw that girl at the bus stop and I thought "wow, she's really pretty and she looks cool... I should talk to her" then a few minutes later she gots up and gave le...
    jardougall jardougall 18-21, F Oct 6

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    I have been a Military Girlfriend for over a year now, things have been great. Found out couple weeks later after we started dating that he was in the Air Force, he's been in for...
    HisPrincess4813 HisPrincess4813 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    Went to the library and picked up the book "Married to the Military" even though marriage is a little ways down the road for my boyfriend and I it's for girlfriends too! I'm only a...
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10

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    Hello to the people reading this! I am a 14 year old boy from England and I wanted to see what it is like to have an online girlfriend. I have never had a girlfriend in real life...
    ChickenBob009 ChickenBob009 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I guess I have come here to find other women, who are also a military girlfriend/wife. Just because, I feel lonely most days and it's hard to keep busy when my love is always on my...
    Assylakralc Assylakralc 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    Yeah i want a girlfriend but i feel like no girl would ever like me. It doesn't stop me from being friends with some girls, but if i really like a girl i always have this automatic...
    Theguy0298 Theguy0298 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 16

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    I want to experience having a girlfriend. I'm attracted to them so much, I can't control these urges. Maybe if I get a girlfriend, the will stop...?
    rockyboo rockyboo 18-21, F Oct 21

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    I need a girlfriend, I can't be by myself, it's not good for humans to be alone or anything for that matter, I just can't be alone my whole life, I just don't find myself that...
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 23

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    Chaco1 Chaco1 13-15, M Oct 23

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    curvydavi curvydavi 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I honestly don't even see how i attacked anyone because I clearly stated in the beginning that I respect her opinion. Now I'm sorry if she took it the wrong way. I did not think...
    aiahlove aiahlove 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want a girlfriend but I'm not allowed to have one. I'm friends with a lot of girls...but it's not like girlfriends! My mommy and big sister are really strict and I never allowed...
    littlebobby6 littlebobby6 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I got my senior pictures done the other day and got creative with the American Flag! I can't wait to send them in the mail to show him. I hope he likes them. So happy to be a proud...
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 2

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    So we've been together for 9 years and we have a little girl, who he sees less and less as days go by. After only 7 months he's got a new girlfriend. He posted pictures of them on...
    bettyajz bettyajz 36-40, F Oct 2

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    I'm a guy aged 18 and I am looking for a girlfriend. Someone to chat to and have fun with. I live in the south of the uk so would have to be someone where near there. Get in touch...
    NCFCfoote NCFCfoote 18-21, M Oct 3

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