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I Am A Terrible Girlfriend

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    I Realized I Was A Terrible Girlfriend Too Late.

    I ruined what could have possibly been a good relationship.  I worried over the wrong things when really, I shouldn't have worried at all.  I was worried about him not being able to keep a job.  I was worried about him still living with his parents and still...
    daretodream414 daretodream414 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    He Deserves Better

    I've just put him through the worst week of his life and I can not stand the fact that I've burdened him with all this stupid depressive insecure old me crap. I actually hate what I've done and what's worse, I knew exactly what I was doing at the time and how it would affect...
    sezziy sezziy 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    In Love With The Man Who I'M Not Dating

    I'm dating someone... Well they're my boyfriend. Cool, right? I'm super lucky, I know it. He's amazing and funny, everything a girl could want, yet I don't - can't - love him. Why? When so many would like to be where I am, with a nice and caring boyfriend, why am I feeling like...
    YouWouldntExpect YouWouldntExpect 18-21, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Not ashamed of it, really,

    but I find it weird that I don't want the same things most women want and enjoy.. I've got like a whole list For example, the whole "I have to be with you always" thing drives me nuts. It's like "Dude I just saw you yesterday. Give me some breathing room." I hate when I decide...
    JustDevynn JustDevynn 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Doubt That?

    I tell to every guy I know, but they don't believe it. That's because they haven't even dated me. Every guy expects the girl to be perfect and capable of showing love, but I can't, atleast not in the first weeks. I don't know if it's lack of trust or shyness but I just can't...
    AngelsReflection AngelsReflection 16-17, F 8 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    I'm a terrible girlfriend and I'm f*cking proud of it!!! Guys are stupid and should be treated accordingly.
    stmingiux stmingiux 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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