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I Am A Terrible Girlfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 20 People

    In Love With The Man Who I'M Not Dating

    I'm dating someone... Well they're my boyfriend. Cool, right? I'm super lucky, I know it. He's amazing and funny, everything a girl could want, yet I don't - can't - love him. Why? When so many would like to be where I am, with a nice and caring boyfriend, why am I feeling like...
    YouWouldntExpect YouWouldntExpect 18-21, F Aug 22, 2013

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    I Realized I Was A Terrible Girlfriend Too Late.

    I ruined what could have possibly been a good relationship.  I worried over the wrong things when really, I shouldn't have worried at all.  I was worried about him not being able to keep a job.  I was worried about him still living with his parents and still...
    daretodream414 daretodream414 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Doubt That?

    I tell to every guy I know, but they don't believe it. That's because they haven't even dated me. Every guy expects the girl to be perfect and capable of showing love, but I can't, atleast not in the first weeks. I don't know if it's lack of trust or shyness but I just can't...
    AngelsReflection AngelsReflection 16-17, F 8 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    I'm a terrible girlfriend and I'm f*cking proud of it!!! Guys are stupid and should be treated accordingly.
    stmingiux stmingiux 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    He Deserves Better

    I've just put him through the worst week of his life and I can not stand the fact that I've burdened him with all this stupid depressive insecure old me crap. I actually hate what I've done and what's worse, I knew exactly what I was doing at the time and how it would affect...
    sezziy sezziy 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    Not ashamed of it, really,

    but I find it weird that I don't want the same things most women want and enjoy.. I've got like a whole list For example, the whole "I have to be with you always" thing drives me nuts. It's like "Dude I just saw you yesterday. Give me some breathing room." I hate when I decide...
    JustDevynn JustDevynn 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    well, actually I am an air force ex-girlfriend since yesterday.. it hurts to say that out loud. since almost three weeks we had a break from each other because my ex-boyfriend...
    resero resero 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    what an awesome way to end my terrible week. I GOT ANOTHER LETTER.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    i sucks when something terrible happens and your boyfriends literally 2,000 miles away; my dog, who I've been spending a lot of time with since my boyfriend left was killed this...
    Damondsgirl Damondsgirl 16-17, F 8 Responses Oct 9

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    So best thing has happened! I got his first phone call!!!!! We were able to talk for almost 10 minutes!!!!! I'm so thankful and happy and am terrible lucky to have this man in my...
    WaitingOnASoldier2013 WaitingOnASoldier2013 18-21, F Oct 11

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    When your boyfriend has been battling depression for a majority of your relationship, you start to question your own worth. You wonder if he really loves you. You wonder why am I...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 11

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    So I went to work today and instead of getting out at 9:30 I got out at 11 because I had to close. After I left work I looked at my phone to 10 missed calls and 10 texts from my...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Is it terrible? Am I terrible? For having someone I love and still wanting something else/ someone else To have made a promise to another and be with one and want both to still...
    ChiyoAi ChiyoAi 16-17, F Sep 23

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    many of the two year olds i know are adorable, and sweethearts! you're still half-baby at age two, and can't even use full sentences, so i don't find it fair that people assume...
    hans13 hans13 51-55, F Oct 12

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    I don't mean to sound like a b**** but I just hate her, my mother passed away 13 years ago, I was just about to turn 2 years old; I have three older brothers who were ages 12, 9...
    Secret179688 Secret179688 18-21 Oct 10

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    Well what to say about my childhood, it was a terrible one. My brother used to beat me up on a regular basis cause he was on crack most of his teenage years and he used to take his...
    yuna86 yuna86 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now, and from pretty early on we both discussed out sexuality. The fact that we were both bi curious, her more so than me, and we...
    redstar22 redstar22 22-25 Oct 12

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    One thing that absolutely drives me insane about some military wives, fiancées, and girlfriends is the ones that claim their mans title. I get that you're so proud of your man...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well, I may be just 16, but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 10

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    A year had passed since ive posten on experience project and my relationship with my father is becoming much better now. But there has alway been that one person that I resent...
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3 13-15 5 days ago

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    I want a very good girlfriend. I need her to love me as much as I will love her. I have some things I want for a girlfriend: -I want her to be Caucasian (I love white girls, they...
    YoungSwagTheRapper YoungSwagTheRapper 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 26

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    I never had any girlfriends up until my 30s. I always got rejected by girls all my life and still do. The few girlfriends and sex I had was all by luck. Nothing else !When I go...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M Oct 4

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    So, I met this wonderful guy. We've been together for 6 months now and he just recently became a truck driver. It is his dream job and he loves it. I'm so proud of him and try to...
    iammorgs iammorgs 22-25, F Oct 5

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    I am 21 and haven't had a girlfriend my whole life. I don't know what to do. There is nothing I want more than a girlfriend. I listen to sad music because I feel lonely.
    kevin1080123 kevin1080123 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 24

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    Me becoming a Military girlfriend. I may be new to it but Im willing to be there for another Military girlfriend ❤️ or wife because we all in the same boat missing our soilder...
    1stLady2yu 1stLady2yu 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I was too superstitious to get anything Navy until he graduated, but now I have my Girlfriend T-shirt and a giant Navy blanket. Anything else that is a must have for a Navy...
    FMP08 FMP08 18-21, F Sep 30

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    First of all..I am straight..I don't need or want a girlfriend lol. Second of all..I'm writing this for any guy who thinks they need one and I am a girl that is a friend add them...
    Aepeth Aepeth 16-17, F Oct 1

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    This is going to be long, We are together since 4 years ago and she is the only girlfriend I ever had. She is wonderful, her smile is beautiful, her brown eyes and red hair, she...
    lawrenalds lawrenalds 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    Mine isn't really about seeking any advice because no matter how much advice you give someone, it doesn't ease the worry you have until your man comes walking through the door. My...
    missmorgan3400 missmorgan3400 18-21, F Oct 5

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    My ex husband and I were married 7 years and have two small children. As soon as we broke up, we started sleeping with each other again. I had feelings of how that we would get...
    Blondenycblonde75 Blondenycblonde75 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    So 2 month ago, i saw that girl at the bus stop and I thought "wow, she's really pretty and she looks cool... I should talk to her" then a few minutes later she gots up and gave le...
    jardougall jardougall 18-21, F Oct 6

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    I have been a Military Girlfriend for over a year now, things have been great. Found out couple weeks later after we started dating that he was in the Air Force, he's been in for...
    HisPrincess4813 HisPrincess4813 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    Went to the library and picked up the book "Married to the Military" even though marriage is a little ways down the road for my boyfriend and I it's for girlfriends too! I'm only a...
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    Hello to the people reading this! I am a 14 year old boy from England and I wanted to see what it is like to have an online girlfriend. I have never had a girlfriend in real life...
    ChickenBob009 ChickenBob009 13-15, M 4 Responses Oct 12

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    I guess I have come here to find other women, who are also a military girlfriend/wife. Just because, I feel lonely most days and it's hard to keep busy when my love is always on my...
    Assylakralc Assylakralc 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yeah i want a girlfriend but i feel like no girl would ever like me. It doesn't stop me from being friends with some girls, but if i really like a girl i always have this automatic...
    Theguy0298 Theguy0298 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know it hasn't been a while since he left, but I really start missing him more than i thought i would. He won't be home until 2 weeks still. I admire all the military girlfriend...
    SimpleGirl17 SimpleGirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend will be leaving for Qatar for six months in January. Luckily, he'll be deployed with his best friend. I try to talk with his best friend's wife and my best friend (her...
    ieatboysz ieatboysz 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 21

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    I abuse my girlfriend and she still loves me. I can't control my anger. She's always out with her friends. Like I want to spend time with my girl.but I can't because, she's always...
    KMGF KMGF 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I want to know how to fatten my girlfriend plz help
    storyteller135 storyteller135 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 21

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    Just found out few days ago that they were envolved and having sex that started about 3 months ago in my back.. she was my girlfriend for an year and he was my best friend for 9...
    Cristiano331 Cristiano331 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    I want a fat girlfriend or boyfriend :)!
    PlusSizeLover12 PlusSizeLover12 18-21, M Sep 22

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    I'm looking for a girlfriend, message me so we can get to know eachother.:)
    catscatcatscatscats catscatcatscatscats 16-17, F Sep 22

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    I am new to this, so I thought I would introduce myself. I am currently in a LDR with my navy boyfriend. He is going to powerschool in SC and I am on the west coast. So there is a...
    oregonlove oregonlove 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I love my girlfriend dearly. I coudn't get through my hardship without having her in my daily. She is caring and funny. She is always be there for me, even without Im asking her to...
    some1callmeJoy some1callmeJoy 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    Are there any Air Force girlfriends on here?
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 23

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    Man, been thinking about this alot. Really want a girlfriend that's fat and maybe wouldn't mind getting bigger. None around me though :(
    SpecialU SpecialU 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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