I Am a Translesbian Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 161 People

    I will be so glad once this week is over.

    I can stop presenting myself as a male I have just started living as a female than here come the holidays. For the sake of family I put my new life on pause. I don't mind really it's for the kids but the weight of oppession is driving me insaine. It's like giving a bird freedom...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife
    26-30, T
    1 Response Dec 24, 2015

    This is who I am. Right

    now the outside causes me daily discomfort but in time that will change. With time and money I can be as pretty as I feel. I am learning to not hate myself but rather to know myself. I know I was assigned male at birth but it was hormonal mishap. Had things work out my body...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife
    26-30, T
    3 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    I Have a Crush On a Friend

    She knows I like her but I don't think she knows I am a lesbian hiding in a male body, I think she would freak out if I told her
    deleted767 deleted767
    5 Responses Nov 11, 2008

    Three months ago I started my new life.

    I've found a increase in motivation, temper, and just over all love of life. Transtioning with out medical aid is no walk in the park. The cost of gender therapy, doctor visits, and HRT is simply out of my reach. However this is me the girl who spent 26 years being a man. I find...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife
    26-30, T
    1 Response Mar 2

    I Love the Term "Translesbian"!

    Hi everybody, I do honestly love the term "Translesbian" bacause it certainly rolls off the tongue easier than saying I'm a male to female Transexual Lesbian. WOW! Well I am also a Translesbian and have considered myself one ever since I can remember. I've just now...
    Birkita Birkita
    36-40, T
    10 Responses Jul 27, 2008

    Mtf Transgender Lesbian

    I always have wanted to be a bisexual/lesbian girl. They are the hottest things on earth as far as present day society is occurred. I look like a girl so now I'm in the clear of only attracting bisexual girls, as well as coming off as a lesbian/bisexual girl myself. Since my...
    Crossdressingprincess Crossdressingprincess
    18-21, T
    2 Responses May 15, 2011

    I Was Buried, Now I'm Climbing Out...

    I was thirteen when the light bulb went on in my head and accepted that I was different from all the other boys in the neighborhood. I didn't know or understood what I was feeling. I was raised in a Catholic family. The friends I grew up with only allowed "normal" boy-girl...
    barbwire1960 barbwire1960
    66-70, T
    1 Response Oct 5, 2013

    I'm Not A Transbian But My Cyber Girlfriend Is

    I have had a very interesting experience recently.  I am a 37 year-old life-long lesbian.  I became single and I got on to a lesbian chat site to try to connect with other lesbians.  To my surprise, I found (what i presumed to be) a very hot, sexy, sexually compatible lesbian...
    lezb lezb
    36-40, F
    5 Responses May 12, 2011

    Going to try to talk with my dad about my GID.

    I've waited long enough it is better I do it now before he stops in for a random visit or someone outs me after seeing me about town. Once my nerves let the words come out of my mouth. Than no more stealth mode around certain people, if my dad can accept me along with my sister...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife
    26-30, T
    1 Response Jan 27

    I love that I came out to my wife in June.

    It is amazing to not have that big dark secret she now understands when I'm in a dark mood. She helps me with make up and clothing. She offers encouragement when I need it and allows me to live as a woman. The roles of the house are pretty much the same but we never had...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife
    26-30, T
    Dec 12, 2015

    Trying out the new wig.

    My son loves it. I uploaded a pic of him trying to help fix my hair lol it's a great day. From time to time somthing happens that reminds us, we don't have to be what ever the rest of the world wants us to be. We only have to be happy and make those who love us happy. Always...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife
    26-30, T
    2 Responses Jan 6

    Why is it difficult to be out

    as trans lesbian so? I'm a translesbian and proudly so. It's trauma enough when trans sisters dis you for admitting this. In the end self definition trumps all. Hey Lori, you are not alone. There are gorgeous, striking translesbians everywhere. Let's chat!!!
    luvmi4mi luvmi4mi
    46-50, F
    Aug 31, 2014

    Update on my social transition finaly got up

    the courage to be in this really pretty dress. So I got up early shaved did my make up and fixed my wig. I was looking as passable as ever and fell in love with the black dress and it's pink stripes. Than I walked out and relized its 46 degrees outside. Tough it out i thought...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife
    26-30, T
    Feb 12

    On Being The New Kid In School

    So, here I am, writing graffiti on a wall in cyberspace under an assumed name.  What if I inscribe the wrong words?   Please pardon my bashfulness.  I am new to Facebook and such like.  I only enrolled after it occurred to me that a great deal of cyberspace...
    annamoli annamoli
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2010

    Who dose not want SRS.

    This make me any less of a woman? No gender identity and sexual orientation are two separate monsters. I chose not to have SRS, because of bedroom reasons. I'm happly married to the most wonderful woman in the world. Sometimes she is the giver somtimes I am. This is what makes...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife
    26-30, T
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015

    Prejudice Amongst Us?

    I recently responded to a plea for companionship by a bio-lesbian of color...hoping to find the someone special that I have been looking for, so desparately. Rather than hope, my ad was met with prejudice; that I would probably be a cheater in a relationship. The fact is that I...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 16, 2013
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