I Am A Truck Driver's Girlfriend

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    I am dating a truck driver

    and have been on and off for 5 1/2 years. We have been back together this last time for 1 1/2 yrs. We moved in together this time and have been through so much. When we first got back together I was prepared for the life of a org driver's gf as my dad was a truck driver and I...
    jackie327 jackie327
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2014

    {{Trucking Widow}}

    I am not a wife, but I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man who transports horses for a living. When we first met, he expressed this as a potential roadblock to our relationship as no one he had dated before had been able to handle it. He expressed he was usually...
    KrazySkyz KrazySkyz
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2013

    My Baby

    (written around Spring 2012)Dear PhuzeBare....You make me so happy! I have been with you almost a year and the time has flown by.When we are together, I feel like I can be myself. It is so easy to put my hands all over you.The passion is so exciting, because I feel like I am...
    deleted deleted
    May 25, 2013

    Looking For Some Friends And Support

    Hi everyone. I am a truckers gf. We have been together a little over a year. When I met him he was doing long haul as an o/o. About 6 months into our relationship I moved an hour away from my hometown with allmy friends and family also quit my job to move into his home. I love...
    princessunderpalms princessunderpalms
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

    It's hard when you miss them

    so much and you are going thru a lonely time yourself. My truck driver is a good, decent man, with a lot of love and caring for me. He's attentive to me when he's on the road, we talk everyday like most of the ladies on here do with their boyfriends. He is fully committed to...
    WiltedRose00 WiltedRose00
    36-40, F
    Oct 30, 2015

    I am also a truck driver's daughter.

    .. My dad has been driving truck for 40+ years. He's 68 years old and still driving. I think the statement is true. It's in their blood! My dad is a workaholic and growing up, it was not uncommon for him to be gone for 8 weeks at a time. I do remember hard times - like him...
    sls84 sls84
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2015

    My boyfriend and I have been together going on

    11 years. He has been a truck driver before when we first met but it didn't work out and he came back home. Over the course of our relationship he has left me at least 6 times and has come back to me. This alone I know makes me either a crazy person, in love or just plain...
    Duv012 Duv012
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2014

    My gentle giant and I have officially been

    together since Christmas. He was a local driver at the time, so we spent a lot of time together. He decided to go back otr a couple of weeks ago. He said once otr trucking is in your system, it's hard to ignore. I was fully supportive of his endeavor, though I had no real...
    rogerthat1218 rogerthat1218
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 2, 2015

    How To Deal The Time Apart

    I'm dating a man who is a trucker & we been together for about 4 months its pretty serious but my thing is I never dated someone who stays OTR all the time like now last time I seen him was Oct. 1-5 then i wont see him ago till thanksgiving!!!! MY QUESTION IS HOW DO DEAL WITH ALL...
    7 Responses Nov 14, 2010

    I Fell In Love With A Trucker

    How could I have ever possibly imagined that after all the crappy relationships I've been in through out my life that I would find the most amazing man ever? Let me start at the beginning..... I met this guy on a dating site about 2-3 weeks ago and we messaged each other a few...
    LouisianaRaceGirl LouisianaRaceGirl
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 23, 2012

    Back Otr

    Today my boyfriend goes back OTR after being out of work for 6 months. When we met he was running Monday-Friday but 75% of the time he was able to run through where I live so we could see each other. We met online and I knew from the first time we talked that he was the one. We...
    snmorange snmorange
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2013

    I Thought It Would Never Happen...

    Hey guys. this is my story.I meet my boyfriend about 2 years ago online and i come from a family of truck drivers so when i meet him i thought wow i thought i would never date a truck driver. but these past 2 years have been the most trying times of my life. he was gone 28 days...
    colorguardlove colorguardlove
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jan 26, 2012

    I am dating a trucker,

    relatively new to it. We only had 1 day together because of conflicting life schedules, it was the hardest most gut wretching experience to make him get in the truck and go because we had talked about our future together and everything.. I'm 100% in love with him. I love him...
    DBrooksGirl DBrooksGirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    Virtual Dance

    My bf and I are online together. He's on the road. I have been listening to my mp3. When some good lyrics come on, I type them so he can hear them too.We started having a virtual dance....picturing what we would do, him nibbling my ear, etc.Then he said something really poetic...
    deleted deleted
    May 25, 2013

    I'm Leaving This Group, But For A Good Reason!!

    Hi. Bye. I'm going to leave this group and go join "I am a truck driver's wife." We got married September 29.
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    Sep 12, 2013


    Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for about 2 years. We recently decided to give our relationship another shot and its been incredible. Back in May of this year (2013) he decided to become a truck driver. We weren't together then, but had been still in contact while I was...
    TaeTae04 TaeTae04
    22-25, F
    Jul 31, 2013

    Sometimes Fairy Tales Can Be Real...

    My story about my boyfriend starts about 5 yrears or so ago. We actually started out as just friends. I was in a realtionship at the time and so was he. Over the course of the 5 years we grew closer and became the best of friends. Each of us having stronger and stronger feelings...
    pixiemom41204 pixiemom41204
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 23, 2010

    So Many Emotions And No One I Know Understands

    Nine months ago I met A. He is a truck driver that delivered to my place of work. I would unload his trailer every day and talk casually. As time went on it turned into more in depth conversations...eventually flirting. I resisted his flirting for I figured he was "just another...
    christinewhite92 christinewhite92
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2012

    Someone Who Knows

    I know that if you are a truckers girlfriend or wife you already know what I am going through. Our men have the other drivers out there to help them get through their days, I am just looking for other girlfriends/wives to get me through mine and help you get through yours. Lets...
    swatson87 swatson87
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 8, 2011

    I'm A Truck Driver's Girlfriend...

    I'm dating a truck driver. This is not something I ever, in a million years, thought that I would do. Several years ago, I was married. The man I chose to marry turned out to be a loser, a user, and a cheater. He left me with massive trust issues, and therefore the idea of...
    dbsgirl dbsgirl
    31-35, F
    28 Responses Feb 21, 2010

    Five Hundred Miles Til The Next Rest Stop

    I have been dating a long haul trucker driver for about four years now. It's very tough to be apart and not know what's going on with him. People tend to judge our relationship based on what they have heard about truckers. And the age difference between us doesn't help matters. I...
    martymay martymay
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2012

    One lesson I've learned is

    that when my boyfriend is passing through and I spend the night with him in his truck, It's not a good idea to go for a walk to the nearest bathroom at 4 a.m. by myself to go pee. Headlights start flashing everywhere because they think you are for sale.
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    Truck Driving Life Is Now My Life...

    I have FINALLY found my Mr. Right! :) I have a 7 yr old son, I work full time and I enjoy being independent at times...so dating a truck driver I thought would be perfect for me. We get to spend time together when he is home and i get my alone time and mom and son time while hes...
    JoesGirl03 JoesGirl03
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2012

    Could any veteran girlfriend/wife of a truck

    driver give me some advice? How do you get through it? How do you manage to stay positive while he's out on the road and not feel like your relationship is becoming distant or falling apart? My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months and I've only seen him 4 days in...
    kaytothep93 kaytothep93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2014

    Me and my Boyfriend been together going on 5

    years. When we first got together he was a local driver and I was able to see him at least every other day. When he left that job he went with a job that put a strain on our relationship because he was not getting the rest he needed and his pay suffered. When he finally left...
    Jessiejoe90 Jessiejoe90
    26-30, F
    Feb 9, 2014

    I'm With A Carny Truck Driver

    I've been on these roads as a carny for about a decade. Usually no one ever really seriously catches my eye. When I got to Stockton, Kansas, we met up with the other unit of the show that I am working for. I knew he had to be with the other unit cause I'd never seen him before...
    purplecarnychicken8403 purplecarnychicken8403
    31-35, F
    Aug 19, 2013

    How many of you ride with your significant

    other? And when you are on the road with them, how to you spend your time?
    ladyjenova ladyjenova
    26-30, F
    Nov 3, 2014

    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for over a year and a half. When I met him he was going to school to be a civil engineer. That didn't work out. We have had a lot of ups and down in our relationship due to his parents not liking that I am older than him. But we have been stronger than ever. He went into...
    verito760 verito760
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2013

    Fears And Loneliness Of A Truckers Girlfriend

     I am in love with a long haul trucker that is gone for 3 to 4 weeks at a time and only home 3 to 5 days a month if that! I have been around trucks and trucking for a very long time and always thought I knew what it would be like to be involved with a long haul trucker...
    mzmanatee mzmanatee
    46-50, F
    10 Responses Mar 24, 2010

    Some days I truly worry about my boyfriend

    being gone on the road. I completely support him doing what he feels he need to do to support our small family. But I do worry everyday if he will come back and still be mine. I worry if he will still find me attractive when he walks through that door. Will he still walk up be...
    Pixell2020 Pixell2020
    22-25, F
    Jun 17, 2014

    My Trucker And I

    I have been dating my trucker since 6-6-10.  In November of last year I moved in with him.  I knew him for about a year before we started officially dating, and thought I was prepared for what was to come, but it's hard sleeping by myself at night sometimes.  I recently...
    chrissy0305 chrissy0305
    26-30, F
    Mar 21, 2011

    I Love This Guy

    I've heard all the songs but I didn't understand.Now light begins to dawn when you smile and take my hand.I've seen the sweethearts staring into each other's eyesBut now I know the feeling of your passion undisguised.I watched them hold each other, the overpowering need for touch...
    deleted deleted
    May 25, 2013

    My bf has just gone on the road

    for the first time. I love and support him so I try not to let my feelings get in the way of what he wants to do. I'm wondering if it ever gets better? I have to admit I feel a little lonely without my best friend. We've talked about marriage but I feel like a life with him...
    Edensangel Edensangel
    Jun 19, 2014

    I started seeing my boyfriend 2 months ago,

    and we started officially dating a little over a month ago the first day he got to Indiana to begin his training to be a truck driver. He's been on the road since then and told me he would be home about the 3rd week of August. He called me to tell me they're sending him to...
    kaytothep93 kaytothep93
    22-25, F
    Aug 4, 2014

    Weekends ~

    My guy started driving in December 2009. The past few months have been the longest and most cruel months I think that I have experienced. We are not kids, He is 51 I am 46.. We each have been married the past and we each have children from...
    GirlNPink GirlNPink
    2 Responses Apr 10, 2010

    U-turn Of Love

    I’m a Trucker Driver’s Girlfriend…. I’m glad I’d found this site to see if I’m the only one feeling frustrated at times. LOL Glad to know I’m not alone….My Boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for 2 years now. I met him online and when we met we clicked on...
    Max64 Max64
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

    I am dating a truck driver

    for a year now he's home mostly every night but lately I have snooped on his phone and seen some messages I didn't want to see and when I confronted him about them he said nothing happened they were just friends he ended up hooking up with one of my friends and having another...
    farmgirl2014 farmgirl2014
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 29, 2014

    One Big Step.

    My boyfriend is a truck driver. We've only been together a month but have already fallen in love with each other. We talk every single day and he had recently asked me to come out on the road with him. At first I told him no. I was scared to change my life so quickly and we...
    justbrittany justbrittany
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2013

    My Truck Driver

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. When I met him, he was working local jobs. The first year we were together was the first year he went to work as a truck driver. It was hard. We had our issues, because we had only been together for a year. Well, he came home from...
    truckersgirl0108 truckersgirl0108
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2010

    I Am In Love With My Soul Mate And He Is A Long Haul Trucker

    I have known my trucker boyfriend since we were both 14 and now we are both 30. We dated when we were teenagers and then broke up and did not talk or see each other for about 11 years. Then after we both got out of horrible long term relationships, we reconnected as friends again...
    rebeccamk80 rebeccamk80
    1 Response Jun 8, 2011

    I Love A Long Haul Trucker

    I met my current bf while he was in the army at ft hood he was close with my exes roommate. I left texas and we kept in contact though facebook and then eventually he asked me to move in with him i said yes. Two weeks after we moved in together he took a job for england to...
    Blueeyedgoddess7 Blueeyedgoddess7
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 5, 2011

    I Love Being A Truck Driver's Girlfriend

    I have been with my boyfriend for 8mnths now and we are closer than we have ever been. I recently told him that I was in love with him and to my surprise he told me that he loved me back. When we met he had been already driving trucks for almost 3yrs. I knew what I was getting...
    SuperWoman24 SuperWoman24
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 24, 2011

    Lorry Driver

    Hello. I took early retirement at 52 and have been arranging reunions for my old work mates which have been really good fun. I have also been tracing people and have found loads. However there was one guy Iknew and I wanted to find him. After 2 years I did find him and there have...
    jennabelle38 jennabelle38
    46-50, F
    Sep 7, 2013

    Is This Normal?

    Hello ladies.  I have been a truckers girlfriend for 9 months now.  Not very long and still getting use to things but long enough to know that I do want to be with him and I love him very much.  When he is out on the road, I worry about him a lot.  I...
    ashleypaige ashleypaige
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 27, 2010

    I Am A Truck Driver'S Girlfriend

    I have been dating my boyfriend (A truck driver) for over 2 1/2 years. We met on a dating site and texted and called eachother for a couple weeks before we actually met. He was and still is driving long-haul all over the lower 48 states, and is gone for 4 weeks (28 days give or...
    1awesomewoman 1awesomewoman
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2013

    I just started dating my guy.

    When he left, we weren't really together, but have grown closer and are at the point of dating, just not officially until he comes home in 2 weeks. We've been friends for a long while. Anyway, getting used to this life is very hard. Each day brings new challenges in learning how...
    imabee89 imabee89
    26-30, F
    Aug 15, 2015

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for over 2 years now and he is my soulmate. He recently got his cdl and is now doing his training on the road and will be gone for awhile. I'm missing him so much it is crazy. Does anyone have any tips to keep the love alive while he's gone
    ashleylynn14 ashleylynn14
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2015
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