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I Am A Truck Driver's Girlfriend

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    Someone Who Knows

    I know that if you are a truckers girlfriend or wife you already know what I am going through. Our men have the other drivers out there to help them get through their days, I am just looking for other girlfriends/wives to get me through mine and help you get through yours. Lets...
    swatson87 swatson87 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    Five Hundred Miles Til The Next Rest Stop

    I have been dating a long haul trucker driver for about four years now. It's very tough to be apart and not know what's going on with him. People tend to judge our relationship based on what they have heard about truckers. And the age difference between us doesn't help matters. I...
    martymay martymay 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    I met my boyfriend Kevin on a dating site

    called meetme I didn't want to talk to him because of his profile picture but I added him any ways I thought he would be a real a**hole but we talked all night and into the next day(comes to find out he was amazing)I talked to him on the phone for a couple of days as well he...
    missyhoneybee missyhoneybee 18-21, F May 2

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    I'm Leaving This Group, But For A Good Reason!!

    Hi. Bye. I'm going to leave this group and go join "I am a truck driver's wife." We got married September 29.
    catlover47 catlover47 46-50, F Sep 12, 2013

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    My Truck Driver

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. When I met him, he was working local jobs. The first year we were together was the first year he went to work as a truck driver. It was hard. We had our issues, because we had only been together for a year. Well, he came home from...
    truckersgirl0108 truckersgirl0108 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2010

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    I Thought It Would Never Happen...

    Hey guys. this is my story.I meet my boyfriend about 2 years ago online and i come from a family of truck drivers so when i meet him i thought wow i thought i would never date a truck driver. but these past 2 years have been the most trying times of my life. he was gone 28 days...
    colorguardlove colorguardlove 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    How To Deal The Time Apart

    I'm dating a man who is a trucker & we been together for about 4 months its pretty serious but my thing is I never dated someone who stays OTR all the time like now last time I seen him was Oct. 1-5 then i wont see him ago till thanksgiving!!!! MY QUESTION IS HOW DO DEAL WITH ALL...
    THICKMIA THICKMIA 31-35 5 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    I Fell In Love With A Trucker

    How could I have ever possibly imagined that after all the crappy relationships I've been in through out my life that I would find the most amazing man ever? Let me start at the beginning..... I met this guy on a dating site about 2-3 weeks ago and we messaged each other a few...
    LouisianaRaceGirl LouisianaRaceGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2012

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    Lorry Driver

    Hello. I took early retirement at 52 and have been arranging reunions for my old work mates which have been really good fun. I have also been tracing people and have found loads. However there was one guy Iknew and I wanted to find him. After 2 years I did find him and there have...
    jennabelle38 jennabelle38 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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    U-turn Of Love

    I’m a Trucker Driver’s Girlfriend…. I’m glad I’d found this site to see if I’m the only one feeling frustrated at times. LOL Glad to know I’m not alone….My Boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for 2 years now. I met him online and when we met we clicked on...
    Max64 Max64 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2013

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for over a year and a half. When I met him he was going to school to be a civil engineer. That didn't work out. We have had a lot of ups and down in our relationship due to his parents not liking that I am older than him. But we have been stronger than ever. He went into...
    verito760 verito760 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    My bf has just gone on the road

    for the first time. I love and support him so I try not to let my feelings get in the way of what he wants to do. I'm wondering if it ever gets better? I have to admit I feel a little lonely without my best friend. We've talked about marriage but I feel like a life with him...
    Edensangel Edensangel 18-21 Jun 19

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    Looking For Some Friends And Support

    Hi everyone. I am a truckers gf. We have been together a little over a year. When I met him he was doing long haul as an o/o. About 6 months into our relationship I moved an hour away from my hometown with allmy friends and family also quit my job to move into his home. I love...
    princessunderpalms princessunderpalms 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    {{Trucking Widow}}

    I am not a wife, but I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man who transports horses for a living. When we first met, he expressed this as a potential roadblock to our relationship as no one he had dated before had been able to handle it. He expressed he was usually...
    KrazySkyz KrazySkyz 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2013

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    I am dating a truck driver

    and have been on and off for 5 1/2 years. We have been back together this last time for 1 1/2 yrs. We moved in together this time and have been through so much. When we first got back together I was prepared for the life of a org driver's gf as my dad was a truck driver and I...
    jackie327 jackie327 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Back Otr

    Today my boyfriend goes back OTR after being out of work for 6 months. When we met he was running Monday-Friday but 75% of the time he was able to run through where I live so we could see each other. We met online and I knew from the first time we talked that he was the one. We...
    snmorange snmorange 18-21 1 Response Jan 15, 2013

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    I Love Being A Truck Driver's Girlfriend

    I have been with my boyfriend for 8mnths now and we are closer than we have ever been. I recently told him that I was in love with him and to my surprise he told me that he loved me back. When we met he had been already driving trucks for almost 3yrs. I knew what I was getting...
    SuperWoman24 SuperWoman24 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    Sometimes Fairy Tales Can Be Real...

    My story about my boyfriend starts about 5 yrears or so ago. We actually started out as just friends. I was in a realtionship at the time and so was he. Over the course of the 5 years we grew closer and became the best of friends. Each of us having stronger and stronger feelings...
    pixiemom41204 pixiemom41204 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2010

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    Some days I truly worry about my boyfriend

    being gone on the road. I completely support him doing what he feels he need to do to support our small family. But I do worry everyday if he will come back and still be mine. I worry if he will still find me attractive when he walks through that door. Will he still walk up be...
    Pixell2020 Pixell2020 18-21, F Jun 17

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    So Many Emotions And No One I Know Understands

    Nine months ago I met A. He is a truck driver that delivered to my place of work. I would unload his trailer every day and talk casually. As time went on it turned into more in depth conversations...eventually flirting. I resisted his flirting for I figured he was "just another...
    christinewhite92 christinewhite92 36-40 4 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    I Love A Long Haul Trucker

    I met my current bf while he was in the army at ft hood he was close with my exes roommate. I left texas and we kept in contact though facebook and then eventually he asked me to move in with him i said yes. Two weeks after we moved in together he took a job for england to...
    Blueeyedgoddess7 Blueeyedgoddess7 18-21, F 1 Response May 5, 2011

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    I'm With A Carny Truck Driver

    I've been on these roads as a carny for about a decade. Usually no one ever really seriously catches my eye. When I got to Stockton, Kansas, we met up with the other unit of the show that I am working for. I knew he had to be with the other unit cause I'd never seen him before...
    purplecarnychicken8403 purplecarnychicken8403 26-30, F Aug 19, 2013

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    I am dating a truck driver

    for a year now he's home mostly every night but lately I have snooped on his phone and seen some messages I didn't want to see and when I confronted him about them he said nothing happened they were just friends he ended up hooking up with one of my friends and having another...
    farmgirl2014 farmgirl2014 18-21, F 1 Response May 29

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    Truck Driving Life Is Now My Life...

    I have FINALLY found my Mr. Right! :) I have a 7 yr old son, I work full time and I enjoy being independent at times...so dating a truck driver I thought would be perfect for me. We get to spend time together when he is home and i get my alone time and mom and son time while hes...
    JoesGirl03 JoesGirl03 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    Weekends ~

    My guy started driving in December 2009. The past few months have been the longest and most cruel months I think that I have experienced. We are not kids, He is 51 I am 46.. We each have been married the past and we each have children from...
    GirlNPink GirlNPink 41-45 2 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Me and my Boyfriend been together going on 5

    years. When we first got together he was a local driver and I was able to see him at least every other day. When he left that job he went with a job that put a strain on our relationship because he was not getting the rest he needed and his pay suffered. When he finally left...
    Jessiejoe90 Jessiejoe90 22-25, F Feb 9

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    I Love This Guy

    I've heard all the songs but I didn't understand.Now light begins to dawn when you smile and take my hand.I've seen the sweethearts staring into each other's eyesBut now I know the feeling of your passion undisguised.I watched them hold each other, the overpowering need for touch...
    catlover47 catlover47 46-50, F 1 Response May 25, 2013

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    It Gets Hard!

    I met Ramon  2 months ago and it was love at first sight. But recently I have been having my doubts about my man , he had a chance to get a load close to home and then he said he turned it down. then just today he posted on facebook that he was having lunch with another woman.
    rylanda rylanda 36-40 1 Response May 7, 2011

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    I Am A Truck Driver'S Girlfriend

    I have been dating my boyfriend (A truck driver) for over 2 1/2 years. We met on a dating site and texted and called eachother for a couple weeks before we actually met. He was and still is driving long-haul all over the lower 48 states, and is gone for 4 weeks (28 days give or...
    1awesomewoman 1awesomewoman 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16, 2013

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    Is This Normal?

    Hello ladies.  I have been a truckers girlfriend for 9 months now.  Not very long and still getting use to things but long enough to know that I do want to be with him and I love him very much.  When he is out on the road, I worry about him a lot.  I...
    ashleypaige ashleypaige 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    Trying To Be Strong

    My boyfriend is a truck driver. He just now got his CDL. I met him 9 months ago and we have been together ever since. about a month ago he decided he wanted to do truck driving because he has terrible luck like me and had been laid off. He needed money and he thought that over...
    VioletAmeria VioletAmeria 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    It Is So Hard, And Nobody Seems To Understand...

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. He drives truck and is gone all week, he is supposed to get home friday night (sometimes, most of the time saturday morning) and I know that I am fortunate to see him that much. He used to be gone 3 weeks at a time. But I...
    samantha0015 samantha0015 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2012

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    One Big Step.

    My boyfriend is a truck driver. We've only been together a month but have already fallen in love with each other. We talk every single day and he had recently asked me to come out on the road with him. At first I told him no. I was scared to change my life so quickly and we...
    justbrittany justbrittany 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2013

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    Roll On Highway, Roll On Along...

    The worst experience I have come to know is reuniting with my trucker [we'll call him Fireplug] and then as soon as I am used to having him in my arms, I have to say goodbye again. To establish some back-story and brag on my baby a little... We met online through OkCupid in...
    addysaurus addysaurus 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    I Am In Love With My Soul Mate And He Is A Long Haul Trucker

    I have known my trucker boyfriend since we were both 14 and now we are both 30. We dated when we were teenagers and then broke up and did not talk or see each other for about 11 years. Then after we both got out of horrible long term relationships, we reconnected as friends again...
    rebeccamk80 rebeccamk80 26-30 1 Response Jun 8, 2011

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    My Trucker And I

    I have been dating my trucker since 6-6-10.  In November of last year I moved in with him.  I knew him for about a year before we started officially dating, and thought I was prepared for what was to come, but it's hard sleeping by myself at night sometimes.  I recently...
    chrissy0305 chrissy0305 26-30, F Mar 21, 2011

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    Newbie

    I literally met my boyfriend 1 day before he got his CDL and then 4 days later he left to start his new job. We are both new to this and have been together almost 1 month now. At first it seemed ok and thought I could do this, now it is getting harder and harder. We are literally...
    katyraye katyraye 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    Newbie

    Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for about 2 years. We recently decided to give our relationship another shot and its been incredible. Back in May of this year (2013) he decided to become a truck driver. We weren't together then, but had been still in contact while I was...
    TaeTae04 TaeTae04 22-25, F Jul 31, 2013

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    Roll on highway, roll on along Roll on daddy

    till ya get back home Roll on family, roll on crew Roll on momma like I asked you to do And roll on eighteen-wheeler roll on
    missyhoneybee missyhoneybee 18-21, F May 11

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    Fears And Loneliness Of A Truckers Girlfriend

     I am in love with a long haul trucker that is gone for 3 to 4 weeks at a time and only home 3 to 5 days a month if that! I have been around trucks and trucking for a very long time and always thought I knew what it would be like to be involved with a long haul trucker...
    mzmanatee mzmanatee 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    Venting...

    So the stupid company my boyfriend works for will not let him come up here where i live because its a "dead zone" for freight. He comes home on weekends and we live 2 hours apart. Usually he splits his time between here and his home with his family. And it just so happens this is...
    colorguardlove colorguardlove 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    A Newbie Too...

    I met E and am his girlfriend, and absolutely adore this man. I definitely miss the hell out of him while he's on the road. Thank god for the cell phone, we talk everyday. I wish I knew what to say to him at times, I know the pressure of his job is daughting.
    LovingMyTrucker LovingMyTrucker 36-40, F Nov 27, 2012

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    I'm A Truck Driver's Girlfriend...

    I'm dating a truck driver. This is not something I ever, in a million years, thought that I would do. Several years ago, I was married. The man I chose to marry turned out to be a loser, a user, and a cheater. He left me with massive trust issues, and therefore the idea of...
    dbsgirl dbsgirl 31-35, F 26 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    My Baby

    (written around Spring 2012)Dear PhuzeBare....You make me so happy! I have been with you almost a year and the time has flown by.When we are together, I feel like I can be myself. It is so easy to put my hands all over you.The passion is so exciting, because I feel like I am...
    catlover47 catlover47 46-50, F 1 Response May 25, 2013

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    Virtual Dance

    My bf and I are online together. He's on the road. I have been listening to my mp3. When some good lyrics come on, I type them so he can hear them too.We started having a virtual dance....picturing what we would do, him nibbling my ear, etc.Then he said something really poetic...
    catlover47 catlover47 46-50, F 1 Response May 25, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    So this was my last day of driving with my instructor. I've improved quite a lot. For the past three days, students were taking me home with the instructor. I would expect to have...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F Jul 3

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    I like to drive. I love driving a truck. Especially between the hours of 9pm to 5am. But here's what I hate about the job... I hate truck stops, because 90% of male truck drivers...
    ForeverChanged81 ForeverChanged81 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    New trucker's wife, and mom of 13 yr old. Not sure how I feel about it yet. Hubby had to take the job. Midlife career change I guess.
    rabidsgirl rabidsgirl 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yo momma is so fat that when she applied to be a bus driver she found out she was qualified to be the bus.
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Last Monday, 30 June, at 0630, I ran head on into a dump truck going 55 mph. I was trapped in my car and had to be cut out. I was air lifted to a trauma center. They did x-rays and...
    neattoolman neattoolman 61-65, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    My husband is having a bad day again I feel like I am the problem he is telling me he needs shoes so I told him I have a hold ring we can sale to get money for them but he just got...
    leaf90McC leaf90McC 22-25, F Jul 17

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    Today I unloaded 5 tractor trailers. They contained the parts to my new roof. The 1st arrived at midnight. The pallet loads were staggering (for me). There were massive 2,700 lb...
    MaskedRascal MaskedRascal 36-40, M 2 days ago