I Am A United States Air Force Girlfriend, Fiance Or Wife

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    I sent off my first care package yesterday

    for my baby. If you're a creative person it's definitely a fun or crafty project. He's such a fattie at heart, so of course I sent him a lot of snacks. I sent him some other things that he needed. I wrapped everything individually in cute baggies with ribbon. I also left him a...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    Oct 9, 2015

    Love Jo's blog! This entry- things you say to a

    military spouse/girlfriend other than "you knew what you were getting into." Encourage :) http://jomygosh.com/2016/02/things-to-say-to-a-milspouse-instead-of-you-knew-what-you-were-getting-into/
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 9

    I never have a dream wedding like everyone else

    .We having a courthouse wedding but he don't understand why it kills me .
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Mar 4

    ***update Well graduation was everything

    and more! I was just so happy to finally see him and kiss him. I wanted to jump on him and attack him every second but I knew that I couldn't. Learning to swallow my pride and follow their rules I guess. But when we were alone, he definitely snuck in some kisses. Is snuck even a...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    my boyfriends parents told me I could go to his

    graduation and all I had to worry about was my plane ticket. he told me tonight that his mom is buying my ticket for me. I don't even know how to thank her.
    hnicoleoxox hnicoleoxox
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2015

    Hey y'all! So my boyfriend whom I've been dating

    for almost a year now left for BMT Sept 8th. We have both practically grown up around each other since we were in 6th grade. I didn't want a boyfriend my senior year of high school, but the kid screwed that up, and I'm so glad he did. He is the LOVE of my life and we were...
    natalienparker natalienparker
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    It's finally here. My boyfriend is leaving

    tomorrow morning to go to fort Sam Houston! He gets his phone back tonight && on top of all of this, I start my new job tomorrow morning. This day couldn't get any better. Well unless I get another phone call. This week went by really slow intentionally but it's over now. Thank...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    Sep 27, 2015

    AgeMeet.com is promoting the concept of age gap

    dating where older men can date younger women. The trend of older men younger women dating of getting popular day by day and the website will prove helpful in bringing men and women together to help build a successful and loving relationship. For many people, loneliness can be...
    lenecc11 lenecc11
    26-30, F
    Nov 4, 2015

    4 days left!!! I was hoping to get a call

    tonight but I didn't. He had his wisdom teeth removed yesterday so I imagine he was probably in a lot of pain. But he did sneak in a little text message telling me he loved me! It's the little things that count, I swear. I also received my last letter today. He sounded so good...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    Sep 13, 2015

    Life can be funny sometimes.

    One moment you are single as single comes the next minute you find your best friend and love of your life and soon after you realize he will be gone for 21.5 weeks. I never thought I would end up in this situation but I am extremely happy I did! Can't sleep just up thinking of...
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    Sep 22, 2015

    I hate the look and voice I get

    when I say my boyfriend will be serving. The 'you two wount make it'. It's so discouraging, as well as agrivating.
    poreoticz poreoticz
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 29, 2015

    Glad to have found an outlet to finally vent to

    a crowd related to me in more ways than one. Becoming a United States Air Force girlfriend has been one of the biggest changes in my life recently. I love the change though, I've met so many nice and caring people.. It has been hard, I must admit. My boyfriend left for bmt at...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    "So far you have survived 100% of your worst

    days. Keep going. You're doing great."
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 18

    it was an amazing weekend well spent with my

    airman now the countdown begins until he comes home for Christmas. :)
    ArtishaW ArtishaW
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2015

    April 21 is fast approaching.

    This group has moved to Facebook, join us for support, encouragement, and advice! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 21

    Well these two weeks have been the best ever

    with him. Big changes ahead of us, but it's what we're all built for, right ladies? Or at least we have to keep telling ourselves that until we finally start believing it. Because I know I often make it seem like I'm just fine when nine times out of ten I probably just cried my...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    Dec 4, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

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    kerenccaa kerenccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 15, 2015

    This Sunday I start driving down to go to my

    boyfriend's graduation!!! 6 days till we leave!!! 9 till I see him!!! I'm so excited!!!!!!
    krroethle krroethle
    18-21
    1 Response Dec 14, 2015

    So, my boyfriend left to go to meps today

    and he had to gain 5 lbs. before tomorrow when he will be weighed. If he didn't gain the weight they won't let him go and while i'm supportive of him I feel so guilty that underneath my support I don't want him to make weight. He know's the way I feel and that I support all the...
    krroethle krroethle
    18-21
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

    What a great morning!

    I simply cannot stop smiling. Had an amazing conversation last night with my Airman before I went to sleep. I slept like a rock and had wonderful dreams of our future life together. 😊 Woke up to a "Good Morning Gorgeous" and a short conversation full of I Love You's! I still...
    AllForHerLove AllForHerLove
    31-35, F
    Feb 27, 2014

    Hey everybody! I just have a few questions of

    how you're planning or planned your wedding. My guy is applying for officer school in June. We should know around August if he's accepted. If he's accepted we're wanting to get married before he goes to ots. If he's not accepted then we'll probably get married next year. Anyway...
    Pris1014 Pris1014
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 9

    One day left! We'll be heading out tomorrow

    night! I'm so ready to see him. Everyone keeps asking me if I think he's going to propose to me. Honestly im not suspecting anything. But it would be nice if he finally did. We've talked about it numerous times and he always says he wants to wait until next year. I mean I have...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2015

    Soooo my boyfriend surprised me yesterday &&

    came home. He's been gone almost 4 months. For the first time ever I was so shocked i couldn't even cry. I watched him sleep last night. I couldn't take my eyes off of him. I've missed him so much. He'll be home for 2-3 weeks. I'm not concerned with the time, I'm just happy as...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    Nov 20, 2015

    Stay Strong <3

    Hey ladies! Its so crazy that over a year ago I was here venting because I was having a bad day or bragging that I got a letter. We have come so far since then! In one year He went through BMT, two tech schools, we got married, I graduated High school, I moved 1200 miles away...
    AFWife318 AFWife318
    18-21, F
    Nov 25, 2012

    Soooo I decided to send a little care package

    to my boyfriend for Christmas. He's currently stationed in Alaska. I just put a couple of his favorite things in. Hot chocolate with marshmallows, a mug, rice Krispy treats, candy canes, a decorated stocking, a big chocolate chip cookie, multiple packs of hand warmers and a...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2015

    Hello I'm new to experience project.

    .. I made an account specifically for this group. I feel that it will help me cope. My boyfriend arrived at Sheppard AFB on Monday. Today is Saturday and I haven't gotten much contact from him... I thought they got more freedom after duty hours and on the weekend? Are the first...
    Mizunami Mizunami
    18-21, F
    Apr 2

    Bad start to the week.

    really not looking forward to the rest or it. really missing my man right now to count on.
    poreoticz poreoticz
    18-21, F
    Sep 8, 2015

    I got my first letter today!

    I started crying as soon as I saw it in the mail box. I miss him so much and reading them made it feel like I was with him again. Getting the letter was completely worth the wait!!
    lilybeth622 lilybeth622
    18-21, F
    Jun 2, 2014

    I need Air Force girlfriend friend .

    Girls that can relate to how I'm feeling !
    Laurxo417 Laurxo417
    18-21, F
    Apr 26, 2015

    My boyfriend left for basic training yesterday

    and so far its been hard on me. Having to transitioning from being with him all day every day to going months until i see him again. He called me This morning before he left and i broke down crying,watching videos of how basic training is and what he's going to be going through...
    tiffylexi tiffylexi
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 19

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    julieccaa11 julieccaa11
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    Any new comers here, hello I'm Anna!

    I'm married to a wonderful man who is in the Air Force! I'd love to connect, if you have any questions about BMT , BMT graduation, letter writing, Tech School, military marriage, and base housing. I will answer them to the best of my abilities.
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 18

    Things Not To Say To A Military Significant Other

    1. "Aren't you afraid that he'll be killed?" This one comes in at number one on the "duh" list for every military wife. Of course we're afraid. We're terrified. The thought always lingers in the backs of our minds -- but thanks, brilliant, you just brought it back to the front...
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Apr 14, 2011

    I finally got an address

    for my man 😀😀😀😀Knowing I have a way of communicating with him is an amazing feeling. This is the first time I've had joy since he left. I hope he has time to read all 12 letters I am about to send him 😊😊
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2015

    UGH I am not handling this deployment well.

    .. My husband and I have been together for 4 years. When he went to basic training we had only been together 5 months so since we are married now being apart is COMPLETELY different ... Like and he is 15 hours ahead of me time wise and today is only day 6 and I'm losing it.
    carealot96 carealot96
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 17

    Reminder : this group has moved to Facebook.

    Link below, stay in contact with everyone! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 28

    My boyfriend has been gone

    for almost a week, and this is the longest time we've ever been apart. Everyone keeps telling me I shouldnt be upset because" its not like we broke up" but they just don't understand. There is so much negativity surrounding him leaving, from people telling me we aren't going...
    cassiemarie19 cassiemarie19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    Would anyone know in how much communication to

    expect during a deployment. My boyfriend and I before would communicate on skype and video chat everyday, and now he normally will go two days without messaging me. This is my first deployment and I understand that some days he cannot always talk to me.
    eguerrette eguerrette
    22-25, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    Well he's all settled in at fort Sam.

    Finally got to talk to him after a long day at work. There's nothing better than hearing him say I love you. I'm so happy that he has his phone back. Nothing has changed, and I'm forever grateful for that. He was really tired so it was a short call. Just glad to hear his voice...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    Sep 28, 2015

    Graduation

    My fiancé is leaving for basic Nov. 5 and I am kind of freaking out. My question is, what happens for graduation. Do I have to do anything, what are the procedures, will I get any one on one time with him, etc. For those of you that have already gone through this please leave...
    mykes mykes
    18-21, F
    Oct 28, 2013

    This group has moved to Facebook ,

    join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 19

    Tech school seems like it's going by

    so slow..:/ my Airman is a month and a half in and it's so much easier than basic only in the sense that I get to talk to him every day. But sometimes that makes it harder because I can talk to him but I can't go see him. I miss him so much that it hurts, we talk about how when...
    Tiffanyj52 Tiffanyj52
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2015

    Both of my husbands were military servicemen.

    Let me qualify that statement. My first husband was a Major in the USAF. He died on September 11, 2001 when the plane he was on hit the Pentagon in Washington D.C. My second husband retired as a Lt. Colonel in the USAF.
    olderblondemom olderblondemom
    51-55, F
    Dec 22, 2013

    Although I'm frustrated with my bf right now,

    June couldn't come fast enough. I'll have my bf for 3weeks before he's deployed again. Very excited. He makes me angry but I still love him to death.
    A1Csladiie A1Csladiie
    22-25, F
    Jan 8

    I got my first letter today!

    Words cannot express my excitement and happiness. It's so good to know that he's doing well, and his letter was so very sweet! Only 42 more days left until I'm in his arms again!
    lilgompas lilgompas
    18-21, F
    Aug 13, 2014

    * IMPORTANT* Since the EP is closing- Hey

    ladies the Facebook group and Instagram account is up and running. Please be patient as we navigate our way through the kinks! Facebook : https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram : EPMILSOS If there is any problems message me!
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 23

    Me and my boyfriend are about thre months into

    the long distance relationship while he is now in tech school. I am feeling extremely sad about him being gone more and more. It seems impossible to do this till i graduate college. (I just started this year) i feel alone and that everyone gets married and doesn't have to deal...
    poreoticz poreoticz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    Hitting happy hour tonight

    for one more date night, he TDY tomorrow! It will be a while until we have another date night !
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 3

    I GOY MY LETTER! I have never been

    so happy about mail! I read it over like 10 times slowly going from excited, happy tears, missing him, and back to happy haha if you haven't gotten letters yet trust me they will come and the wait is so worth it!
    Nichole15 Nichole15
    18-21, F
    Nov 19, 2015

    Got a call tonight around 7.

    I was so glad to hear his voice even though I just left him Saturday. I'm beyond ready for him to get his phone back next Monday. Surely this week would go by slow on purpose right?! lol but hopefully I should be getting another call this week. Every call makes it just a little...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    Sep 20, 2015

    My Advice To The Young Ladies Thinking About Getting Married To There Military Man (:

    This is advice that I gave to some of the girls that I'd like to share with everyone incase ya'll need it (: The thought of getting married & sttleing down is nice, but it's not for everyone, & sometimes it just doesn't work out in the end AS MUCH AS YOU TRY, but heres something...
    krisalyss krisalyss
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 21, 2011
    ebonynicole ebonynicole
    18-21, F
    Dec 13, 2015

    My boyfriend left for basic about 2 weeks ago.

    I have only received graduation information. No letters :(
    Atleemarie Atleemarie
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    Meeting The Love Of My Life

    Couple of my girlfriends and I decided to go out for some Saturday night dancing and drinking. Meeting a guy was the last thing on my mind that night. We got to the club and immediately started taking shots and after the shots went straight to the dance floor. About an hour...
    Import86 Import86
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 19, 2013

    It's a new week! May your days be productive

    and your nights calm! Is anyone doing anything exciting? Keep on keeping on gals!
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 20

    Well, the first week of my freshman year of

    College is over, and my boyfriend is doing great in basic:) only 34 days until I get to see him! I knew he was going to join the Air Force when I started dating him but I didn't know how much of a change it really was. I'm so thankful to this website for introducing me to people...
    Tiffanyj52 Tiffanyj52
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2015

    My boyfriend had to wait longer

    for a contract than everyone expected but has now been at basic for week. I am okay. Life still goes on and it has been hard mostly for me and his mom. His dad has been great and checks on me every day or two. He showed me videos of what they do at basic and showed me where...
    Nichole15 Nichole15
    18-21, F
    Nov 10, 2015
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