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I Am a United States Air Force Girlfriend

For all of the US Air Force girlfriends 3,148 People

    Hey I talked to my boyfriend today

    which was amazing, he sounds so good I miss him so much only 3 more weeks thank god. I was wondering how long does someone have to be in a job before they can try to change it? My boyfriend was a for his job but he has recently learned how time consuming his job will be and how...
    Starrgurl92 Starrgurl92 18-21 1 Response Mar 29

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    What Not To Say To A Military Wife Or Girlfriend

    Found this on another site and thought it was a perfect fit, so just had to share with ya'll.... What NOT to say to a military Wife/Girlfriend! : 1. "Aren't you afraid that he'll be killed?" (This one ranks in at number one on the "duh" list. Of course we're afraid. We're...
    babysquid babysquid 18-21, F 14 Responses Feb 21, 2011

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    Good evening everyone!

    I got my first call today and it was everything I was hoping for, he had 25 minutes and we talked about everything, I had so many questions but forgot everything the minute I heard his voice. He gets base liberty tomorrow so he may be able to call again which would be great. He...
    Starrgurl92 Starrgurl92 18-21 Mar 28

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    Married My Best Friend, Love Of My Life, My Hero, My Future, My Everything.

    I am now on my way home from seeing my HUSBAND graduate tech school. We got marrrrrrrrrrrried! :) But the night before the wedding we were not on good terms. He still hadnt gotten me a ring AND he didnt switch his bank acount so his mom would stop taking his money. I went to bed...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    A Surprise Engagement.

    My Airman is ending his week seven of BMT this week. I got a final letter in the mail on our 2 1/2 year annivarsary from him saying that it is his last one because he will see me soon. But that wasn't the biggest part of the letter. Cody decided to not talk about how he's doing...
    maddifaye maddifaye 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    Hey girls! I was just thinking

    that music is healing and can be great company when our men are away. I was hoping we could all respond to this with songs about long distance love so we can all make our own LDR playlist. How does that sound?
    Sloan13 Sloan13 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I Mean Really...

    Can we all just agree that there is nothing more attractive than your man in dress blues.
    AFgirlfriend20 AFgirlfriend20 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    Does anyone know what the job title of airborne

    operations does? My boyfriend has that job and is now I'm bmt and I have no way to ask him questions. I'm worried about deployments and how often he will be gone. Is this a job that they are home often? Any information will help!
    Starrgurl92 Starrgurl92 18-21 3 Responses Mar 19

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    So my boyfriend has been stationed in Guam

    for two years. He was suppose to be coming home at the end of this month, but we just found out his home coming got pushed back to July. I know its only a few more months, which seems like nothing after being apart for two years, but I'm still so bummed! I was so excited to see...
    MoSeleV MoSeleV 22-25 1 Response Mar 26

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    He leaves for BMT on May 20th.

    I was sour about it at first, however, I have started to excepted it and be somewhat happy about this experience for him. But now reading things and seeing how others are affected by their guys leaving, I am terrified.
    lilybeth622 lilybeth622 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    How do you girls on here feel about weddings.

    I just need a few seconds to vent, my boyfriend has been telling people at basic we are engaged which is fine since we talked about it but I'm bummed because I guess that means no proposal :( I already had to give up my idea of a wedding due to the fact we have less then 3...
    Starrgurl92 Starrgurl92 18-21 3 Responses Apr 2

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    10 Things I Have Learned So Far From Deployment.

    I think when I look at some of the ladies' posts on here and I've noticed that a lot of women on here are just now going through BMT. Now, I remember when my boyfriend went to BMT, but he wasn't my boyfriend then. I started dating him right before he got deployed to Afghanistan...
    angelaamor22 angelaamor22 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    I am super excited! I ran into my neighbor

    and got to talking to her and turns out she's the fiancé of a Navy Seal. She was super excited when I told her my guy just joined the Air Force. It's going to be great to hang out with her and have someone who understands. Her guy is coming home for a bit before getting...
    Sloan13 Sloan13 22-25, F Mar 22

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    A Girlfriend's Guide To Surviving Her Airman's Tech School

    So finally, finally, finally BMT is over! You can communicate finally without the restraints of letters or MTI’s. It’s a wonderful time, right? Well, yes, it is. The daily communication makes Tech School so much easier than BMT, but that doesn’t mean it won’t have its own...
    Heismyrightwingman Heismyrightwingman 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    Hello! So my boyfriend starts WOT 6 on Sunday.

    Very happy it's almost over! Anyways he has the job of security forces and I've been really curious on tech school/deployments/days off/jobs/ literally anything that comes with this job lol. So if any of you ladies have boyfriends/fiancés/husbands who have gone through any of...
    kseiler1 kseiler1 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I am strong. I am willing.

    I am able. But some days are just so hard. All I can do is sit alone and cry the pain out. I keep telling myself that it will all be alright. Telling myself that I will see him soon enough, even though there is no such thing as soon enough. I'm so proud of my airman, and all I...
    Stefanisgirl Stefanisgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Today is my boyfriends

    and I's 4 years. FOUR YEARS! I got a call last night from him down in Basic!! He graduates in a few days and I'm so excited to fly down to see him.
    kelseyyyk kelseyyyk 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Hey ladies! So I'm just days away from flying

    out to Texas to see my boyfriend graduate :) so very excited! But I'm thinking about getting him a little graduation gift. Kinda running out of time- haha. But I figured I could come up with something real quick with the help of you all! So have any of you gotten BMT graduation...
    kseiler1 kseiler1 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He Is Where I Want To Be

    So my boyfriend is stationed in England and I'm here in Texas. people ask me all the time "How did y'all meet?" and I love telling the story, it's one that never gets old to me. My boyfriend was my absolute biggest crush in high school and I thought I never even exsisted to him...
    Linzylooh Linzylooh 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    One more week!!!! Can't wait he's gonna be home

    from leave back east next Friday and I'm picking him up. I've missed him so much, we hardly got time together from the time he got back from deployment to when he left on leave and I'm the first person he wants to see when he gets home! He means so much to me and I'm completely...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F Mar 22

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    I just got off the phone with my boyfriend

    who is in tech school. I found out that his first duty station is in Turkey. I think I actually felt my heart break. I want to be there for him but this is hard. I had so much hope he would be just a little bit closer to home...
    kellykelly95 kellykelly95 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Stay Strong <3

    Hey ladies! Its so crazy that over a year ago I was here venting because I was having a bad day or bragging that I got a letter. We have come so far since then! In one year He went through BMT, two tech schools, we got married, I graduated High school, I moved 1200 miles away...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    When He Has A Hard Day...

    Hey ladies!As I'm sure most of you realize, being the one at home means you have to do more than miss him. When your airman is gone, obviously he has a hard life, and needs to have a backup! WE are their backup!  WE'RE the ones that have to breathe life and love  into them...
    IMissYouMySweet IMissYouMySweet 18-21, F 20 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    We Are Awesome

    I was perusing the internet and found this definition of a military significant other. It is pretty awesome so I had to share it with all the lovely ladies in the group. Definition of Military SO: A Military SO is the girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband of an individual in any...
    DarleneN DarleneN 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    I'm just gonna admit this right now

    and say that I'm an Air Force boyfriend but the guys section is empty so I figure if they're calling my girlfriend an airman one day then I suppose I'll be an air force girlfriend if it means actual support. She's just getting into week two, I've written her every day and I got...
    ckochmann ckochmann 18-21, M 5 Responses Jan 15

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    Good morning everyone,

    I start week 4 tomorrow and I'm so excited about that call! I'm just trying to get an idea from other people around what time and day did you get that call, I'm so impatient I just want to hear his voice again!!
    Starrgurl92 Starrgurl92 18-21 Mar 24

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    Don't Forget About Us...

    I Am a Military Girlfriend..... I am a military girlfriend. I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card; I am not a "dependent" or parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of...
    MissHimEveryday MissHimEveryday 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 4, 2011

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    Good morning, My boyfriend has just started

    week 3 of bmt today. I went online to check the plane tickets, and they have gone up almost 50 dollars. I was just wondering what is the appropriate time to buy a ticket for graduation? I know things can happen like him getting sick or hurt and my ticket won't be refundable so I...
    Starrgurl92 Starrgurl92 18-21 4 Responses Mar 18

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    To All Of You..

    We may or may not know each other, but we are all on the same flight. We may or may not have been through this before, but we all feel the pain. We may or may not know when our Airman will return, but we will never lose hope. We may or may not get to talk to them on a regular...
    MrsAirmanGonzalez MrsAirmanGonzalez 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    My boyfriend is currently in BT,

    and I got the 4 week call about a week or so ago. It was about 30 secs long and he managed to tell me that he loved me in all the craziness. It was so weird seeing his name pop up on my phone. When we hung up... I cried, happy and sad tears. Does this get any easier? I sent him...
    cartersantos cartersantos 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Hello Everyone! So my boyfriend is currently

    at BMT right now and it will be week 4 on Sunday and I know that they get a call that week. But I'm wondering when exactly the call will come in. I know they can call at any time and any day. But if any of you who have gone through BMT or are at least past week four could tell...
    kseiler1 kseiler1 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 20

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    seeairuhh seeairuhh 18-21, F Apr 1

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    So made it through BMT,

    it was touch but glad it's over. Now my Airman is in Monterey at the DLIFLC linguist school, he got Persian Farsi which is about 64 weeks long since they are requiring him to take another dialect. Any advice? I thought tech school would be a lot better because he would have more...
    taybarnes taybarnes 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    Sleepless and Anxious

    Hi everyone. I'm new to this site but I'm at a place where I really need people who are going through/went through what I currently am & who actually understand it. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months but we've known each other our whole lives. He left for basic...
    airricka airricka 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Dear Civilian Girl...

    Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    miisskrisssy miisskrisssy 18-21, F 35 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    My boyfriend gradated from basic training this

    morning! I am so proud of him each and everyday 😍😍😍😂✈️
    kelseyyyk kelseyyyk 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    For Cryin' Out Loud People

    Sometimes I see couples in public and I just get so upset. Like my first thought is "why aren't they holding hands?" or "they are together...but they are both looking at their phones and not paying attention to each other!?" Put those things down and hug or something! It's just...
    AFgirlfriend20 AFgirlfriend20 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Time to reintroduce myself!

    I joined EP back in 2011 when a psychology professor suggested it to me. We had an assignment to talk to him about anything we wanted, and I told him about my long distance relationship with Michael, my airman. When he asked me who I talked to about my problems, I told him...
    chipmunkalice chipmunkalice 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Ahhh <3

    I was upstairs doing my hair when I hear the doorbell and I didn't think anything of it until I hear my brother yell oh ****!! Than I run downstairs and there's Geoff standing outside!!! I screamed so loud :) so glad to have him home <3
    ILoveAirmanPiechowski2011 ILoveAirmanPiechowski2011 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2012

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    My Adaptation Of The Airman's Creed

    I am an Airman's woman. I am a Warrior. I have answered my heart's call. I am an Airman's woman. My mission is to honor and protect our hearts. I am faithful to a strong Warrior, a man of honor, and a legacy of kindness. I am an Airman's woman. Guardian of his heart and mine...
    lbell789 lbell789 18-21 7 Responses Feb 20, 2011

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    Best weekend ever!!! I got a text from him

    yesterday and found out his date of return from deployment. I'm so excited!!!!! The countdown begins!!! Now I need a dress
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F Jan 12

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    I'm so excited I can hardly sleep!

    !!! After six months I get to see him. He's home from deployment and I get to see him tomorrow. I can't wait. I'm a mix of emotions, I'm excited and happy, and I'm super nervous. I just can't wait to hug him and kiss him!!! He will probably have to pry me off him cause my Kung fu...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I been with my hero for 6 years,

    and when he came back from basic training he proposed to me! I'm only 20 years old but I know him and I are meant to be together for ever! 💙
    Airforcewife90 Airforcewife90 22-25, F Mar 28

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    I used to be an U.S. Air Force Girlfriend.

    However, I am now married to an Air Force officer. Also, I now serve in the Air Force as well. We are currently stationed at Luke AFB. l love the desert heat for swimming in my pool with my family and others.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    So I got my first letter a couple of weeks ago.

    It wasn't long but at least I got one. It was so good to hear from him. He graduates on January 17th if he doesn't get recycled. I'm just ready to be in his arms. This is harder than I thought it would be but I can pull through. I can do it if he can❤
    Makalia Makalia 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    Sloan13 Sloan13 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    He Called

    I got a call from him today. A 45 second call. These are the only things a heard from him: "GOOD" when i asked how he was and "i sent you two letters today, i got to go get off the phone." CLICK. No I love you, no I miss you. No baby or the sweet things he used to call me. He...
    uncertainandworried uncertainandworried 18-21, F 19 Responses Jun 6, 2010

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    Convalescent leave in usaf?

    Hi everyone my boyfriend is in BMT for the usaf. He was in week 6 of basic training and hurt himself. He has 4 stress fractures and is now in med hold, he has been talking about getting something called con leave for 30 days. His father is very against this and wants him to stay...
    Starrgurl92 Starrgurl92 18-21 1 Response a week ago

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    Got my 4th week call tonight!

    It was so great to get to actually talk to my boyfriend after a month! It was so weird seeing his name pop up on my phone but man was I thrilled! The wait was definitely worth it but I wish the call could have lasted all night <3 oh well only 29 more days to go till I get to...
    kseiler1 kseiler1 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Hey everyone quick question.

    How do job changes work? What I mean by that is my boyfriend got his job in airborne operations this job requires quite a bit of deployments and tdy's he is looking into getting a job that is more stationed. How would he go about transferring his job? How long would he need to...
    Starrgurl92 Starrgurl92 18-21 1 Response Apr 2

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    Most Romantic Thing Ever!

    So...my boyfriend left officially on tuesday night (Nov. 6) The next day he called around 4 with his address. Before he left we both gave eachother goodbye letters & he read mine on the airplane. I waited to read his until I really needed to hear him tell me "I love you"...so...
    Jess4537 Jess4537 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 9, 2012

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    Yesterday morning I found out he had to go to

    the hospital. He's been in Medhold since March 13th, 2014 and now he's in the hospital. When I thought he was getting better, he was actually getting worse. I had no idea. I hate not knowing. I hate not being able to talk to him and now I can't even write to him. He can call me...
    lexixlack lexixlack 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Best Day Of My Life

    I woke up this morning and my dad was in my living room. He never comes over unless I forgot to do something or he just wants to talk. I knew it was my anniversary with my boyfriend but i didnt know why my dad was there. He informed me that we had to go to the airport because a...
    airmansgirl11 airmansgirl11 18-21 12 Responses Sep 7, 2011

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    Signs Of You Missing Your Airman

    First off, I just wanted to mention that this group has almost a thousand members! The marines has over two thousand but ehh I love this group :) I found this and wanted to share it with my fellow military girlfriends! Missing your airman: 1. You wear his old sweatpants and...
    Airforce9000 Airforce9000 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    Yesterday was not the best of days to begin

    with. When J left in Dec I'd planned on having the 'what do you see for our future' conversation when I went to visit him in April because 1) we hadn't been together long enough for that conversation and 2) I wanted to make sure we could deal with the distance first. Well...
    Mandyf83 Mandyf83 31-35, F Feb 2

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    Perfect timing - My J always has the most

    perfect timing. When he flew out to Missouri, didn't contact me to let me know he arrived and I was going out of my mind with worry a big bunch of roses turned up at my door from him. Today I had the worst shift at work, the nurse I had to work 14hrs with had such an attitude...
    Mandyf83 Mandyf83 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    My Favorite Military/love Quotes :)

    "I sit up at night, alone in my bed Constant images run through my head Happy times, sad times - the memories are there Happy tears, sad tears - the tears that I fear. I hold his sweatshirt, so close to my heart- Breathe in; breathe out - not much, but a start. I sleep with his...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2011