I Am A Validating, Patient, Non Judgmental Person

I use patient, nonjudgemental validation to accept and process my emotions. 185 People

    Don't Judge

    Why do people judge other people on how they live I try not to judge anyone I meet I have no time for abusive people I've had my fair share of that crap with my family. I don't care if your White black gay stright I don't judge theres only one who can judge me and that's god
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2011

    The Secret Behind The Poll

    Our first attachments lie at the root of who we become and our feelings about ourselves, others and the world. The poll:  "What happens when my loved one leaves for awhile..." might tell us about what style of attachment we have.  Founded by Bowlby this is called attachment...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    Mar 4, 2011

    Invisible Woman

    solia 1-17 my needs were thin, I was the invisible girl fitting somewhere between being an adoring younger sister to a protective older sister. I was the canvas on which the drama of my family was played. They allowed no room for me. What I wanted was for a parent to tune into...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    May 10, 2011

    Questions That Unlock

    How do I feel? (Interest, sad, mad, afraid, Love, surprise, disgust, guilt, Happy) Why do I feel this way? What is it that I really want? Why am I so upset by this? What have I gained in empathy in understanding why this person would or would not...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 27, 2011

    Validation: The Most Important Skill In Relationships

    Be non-judgemental, out loud. Validate the other persons; feelings, needs, difficulties & opinions about the situation. Find the grain of truth in it and why it makes sense. Try to figure out what problems the other person might be having with the request, then acknowledge...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 25, 2011

    Shame At The Intersection Of Intellect And Feeling

    There are things we know we should feel or should not feel, sometimes though we just can't get our emotions to cooperate in it LOL! For example, when parents have problems children often believe that it is their own  fault their parents have problems. And there is good reason a...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 3, 2011

    TREATING EVERYBODY THE SAME!

    I treat everybody the same so that there's no jealousy or arguments! On EP I don't have a best friend because I treat people the same and that way everybody is happy! How you treat me is how I treat you so that’s what you get back! If you don't talk to me then I won't talk to...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee
    22-25, F
    Apr 9, 2014

    The Risk Of Loss

    Fears have made people do things that were against their self-interest. Fears have made people not do thngs that were in their best self-interest. We can dismiss a fear before we even realize what we are doing. In order to challenge our fears we have to acknowledge that they...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2011

    We Go Where We Look (affirmations)

    I am writing to you from my home. It is beautiful here, taken care of and still ringing with the happiness of the weekend my husband and I spent together. It is also the place I stay in to feel safe. If you've ever been harrassed by a person (or by a group as in my case) then...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    Mar 7, 2011

    Patience

    Patience may not be peaceful. It may be a practice of peace though. And eventually with validation and non-judgemental acceptance it may bring peace to the soul and life. Even when we are in the grips of intense emotions, in patience we can ride it out in appropriate ways. I...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    May 7, 2011

    My Life As an Ascethic

    I wake up at 5:00 in the morning. Sitting in my meditation chair, I eat one banana, contemplating my day. Then I clean, I study Hindi, typing and Math. I meditate and do affirmations. I pay bills and push papers. I play on the computer. Quiet music in the background, like from...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

    Happy Hubby

    In American media, everything is so overstated. If a person is in love, then there is only one true love. People get boob jobs, lip jobs, clothes are sinking to lower andlower depths, to exagerate what is there. If a person is angry in show then they do somethign totally...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    Jun 9, 2011

    This Is So Me

    I have always been this way. Its who I am. I seem to be the most patient person in my family. I also seem to understand stuff. Unlike other people. I guess it a good thing that I do. Or I wouldn't have Jack in my life at all.
    acjf acjf
    22-25, F
    Mar 6, 2011

    I Am Not Judgemental

    i am not judgemental type of person . i do need to work on patience . it is my week point . long grocery lines ***** with me . sitting in the ER for the longest time fuce . doctors visits and sitting in the waiting room ***** with me . i have NO patience what so ******* ever .
    dylanxmichael dylanxmichael
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 25, 2012

    Assertiveness In Being Nonjudgmental, Validating And Patient.

    Assertiveness in Being Nonjudgmental, Validating and Patient is about having integrity and respect for ourselves first, and for everyone else as well. Self Esteem is at the heart of Assertiveness; Below is information from Texas U. What is being assertive? Standing up for...
    akasolia akasolia
    41-45, F
    Mar 6, 2011
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