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I Am a Very Jealous Person

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    Something I Really Don't Like About Me...

    I find myself on blogs reading other people's conversations and getting all huffy.  Like "why are they talking to that person?".  How can I become more secure in my relationships?!
    mschatelaine mschatelaine 31-35, F 24 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    ..... It"S Not A Good Look..I Know

    its not a good look but take a picture because thats what i am ,,a jealous girl ..i sometimes ,note i said sometimes i try not to be but how can you stop a tornado..to be honest my fiance has never gave me reason to be .but hes just so sweet and handsome and smart ,,i could...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F Nov 8, 2013

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    The Churning I Feel

    I am a very jealous person, and I hate it, I am jealous of any woman that takes even an ounce of my lovers attention Im quite sick, I admit it.. its why Im single, I have been known to read emails, text messages and boil and churn at the thought of another woman, stealing my...
    parvathi3 parvathi3 22-25, F Aug 5, 2013

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    I really can't do anything about it.

    . My jealousy comes from knowing so many men look and fantasize about other women while having a great one that loves them.. It just kills me and I would never accept anything like that from my husband. I know it's not healthy but I'm just venting.. I hate If he looks at a girl...
    lamisspink lamisspink 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2012

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    Random People I'm Jealous Of

    Here's "some" people i'm jealous of.. or things idk.- Bella Thorne because of she's so thin, pretty, rich, and famous. she's my idol! I WISH I WAS HER!!! 5'0" and 70 lbs- Kaitlyn becuase she goes to my school and she is super tall and skinny! she's 5'5" and 100 lbs! lucky...
    Punchinginadream Punchinginadream 18-21, F Aug 22, 2011

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    Envy/Jealousy

     I hate myself all the time for the way i act. I know my boyfriend wouldnt ever cheat on me, yet i cant help but get jealous whenever he hangs with his best friend who happens to be his ex. I envy that they are so close. i always feel as if it came between choosing me or...
    ashkrusell ashkrusell 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2008

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    What's Wrong With Me?

    I am a friendly, sweet girl who is extremely kind to everyone. When it came to my last boyfriend, I started to experience jealousy like never before. I have never been so unhappy with myself and other in my entire life. He would always keep little things away from me (and I am a...
    cutiepiee13 cutiepiee13 16-17, F Dec 7, 2010

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    Green Eyed Monster (jealous)

    I'm so jealous that I hate myself.I don't know how to handle it. I can't seem to believe any thing.My boyfriend loves me. I know that.But thats not enough for me.I call myself the green eyed monster.I don't like being this way.I work on it all the time.I'm a little better now...
    1Carolina 1Carolina 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2007

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    Jealous Of Everything. Is That Possible?

    I have a boyfriend of 4 months. I get jealous several times a day; when he texts or talks or looks at other girls. I get jealous when I THINK of him conversing with girls. I get jealous when I THINK about the girls he converses with. By "get jealous", I mean my heartbeat rises...
    ForeverApril2011 ForeverApril2011 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    But I Handle It

    I am a VERY jealous boyfriend lol. Luckily, I know that :P and I know better. I figured it out a few years ago, and since then I always watch what I say when Im feeling jealous, because I can feel that way for the dumbest reasons. Im the type of boyfriend where if a good looking...
    Sasuke276 Sasuke276 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    Jealousy Eats Up a Lot of My Time and Energy

    I've always felt insecure about myself. I don't like the way I look, the way I talk, the way I sound, the way I am. I could blame my mum for growing up like this because she always told me I'm ugly, that she wishes she never had me, that I'm useless, I'm timid, I'm...
    rachelv rachelv 26-30 2 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    Jealous Freak Right Here, Honey.

    I've done the dumbest things when I get jealous, like it's rediculous. And the feelin? Omg, disgusting. Like I feel a knot in my stomach and stuff, its very weird.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2010

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    Outwardly Quiet Or Mopey Yet Inside Ripping Myself To Bits

    I don't mind when ppl talk to my friends or when ppl are close to them.. but I do want to always be everyone's closest n most trusted n wanted n loved friend. I wanna be #1 all the time... n the more I like someone, the closer to #1 best friend they are to me, the more I wanna be...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 9 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    I Understand It But Its Hard Ot Explain.

    My jealuosy comes from people, my friends and family, contently telling me how short I am and of course that gave into self consious issues. Then I have society telling me I need to look a certain way, and my doctors telling me that I have no fat on me, meaning im really skinny...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2009

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    It doesn't seem it, but I am.

    I didn't even realize it until recently. Whenever I see somebody I'm friends with hanging out with somebody else besides me I get so jealous for some reason. Not sure why. Like I feel like I'm not good enough, when in reality I know that I'm just being a jealous little brat...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    It has gone so far, that I almost resent women

    because my boyfriend has looked at sex blogs in the past. any girl he talks to... I am instantly jealous and disappointed in him. anytime I even think about him, my mind wanders to him liking other girls or looking at other girls and again, I get instantly jealous, sad and...
    ecress ecress 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Logically, I'm Over It, In My Heart, Not So Much

    Me, my lover and his ex-girlfriend. He was 'with' her for 10 years. 'With' because their relationship pattern went thusly: friends for a while, partners for years, then 5 years of him being her default when she wasn't hooked up with someone else. He is devoted to her. She moved...
    greenheaded greenheaded 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    Is It Really Love?

    I got divorced 2 and  a half years ago. I met the most fun caring guy . I will describe him as a free spirit of sorts.My heart has always been with him. Last summer  his ex called late one night. The phone woke me not him. I was with him at his home which is 1000 miles...
    kpsmiling kpsmiling 51-55, F 8 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    I Hate the Way I Am

    Whenever I date a guy, the monster comes out. I have learned to control it and not act on it or show it but it still runs free inside. it makes me think that every girl he looks/talks to/is friends with is better to him than me and is indefinitely more funny/beautiful/smart...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    YRamirez YRamirez 18-21, F Jan 5

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    I am jealous of my so pregnant friend.

    She is married to a guy who is so tall and now she is going to have a baby.I am so jealous I cannot help but want to be pregnant.I really like kids but men will not give me a chance.
    uzuri84 uzuri84 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    UNFORTUNATELY This Is a Flaw...

    IF TRUST IS BROKEN IN THE RELATIONSHIP THEN IT MIGHT AS WELL BE OVER BECAUSE I CAN NEVER SEEM TO GET OVER IT. I CAN NEVER SEEM TO TRUST AGAIN.. MAYBE IT'S JUST A SUBCONSCIOUS DEFENSE MECHANISM KICKING IN... I DON'T KNOW. I DO KNOW THAT YOU CAN'T MOVE FORWARD LOOKING BACK.
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    My View On Jealousy

    I am a real jealous person. It's been a problem I've dealt with almost all of my life. When I was a young kid I always wanted friends, friends that I finally received in fifth grade when I turned ten. By the time I was eleven I had six really close friends who stuck with me...
    ophiedabest ophiedabest 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2011

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    Never Used To Be Jealous Until He Cheated On Me

    I'm stupid because I always trust men who I should keep a watchful eye on.  I trusted my then boyfiend Dave when we first started dating, becase my ex NEVER cheated on me.  I never had someone cheat on me.  I don't have much experience with men except for quickies...
    IntuitiveOne IntuitiveOne 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    Not Anymore

    There is a very easy and very quick way to not jealous again! Not your boyfriend,not your husband not a friend and even a family.You will complitely forget about jealouse crasy sickness about only a few minute.You'll start being normal happy till end o'your life.Absolutely free...
    kich kich 22-25, F Sep 29, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I know I shouldnt be this way but...I have known him for a long time and we got close. Then she walks in and bam they are close! I guess I am just scared to lose him...I am...
    NefelibataAggression NefelibataAggression 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    All my life I have dealt with jealous people. People who smile in my face but wish me harm when i'm not looking. People who constantly compare their lives with mine. I've learned...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Apr 7

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    My ex boyfriend was so jealous of everything I would do. If I didn't text him back in a what he thought was time appropriate he'd ask me all sorts of questions. He was nice and...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Oh smart one.....you call me jealous do you? Let me tell you the facts, since you are incapable of truth! You are jealous because he blocked you. Well FYI, I was not about to...
    OneEPGirl OneEPGirl 70+, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    My boyfriends best friend is a guy and he knows the sides of him that I could never know. Their both Hispanic and when they talk I know how happy my man gets because the humor is...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F Mar 23

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    This 60 yr old lady yells at me for wearing provocative clothing, it's not like I'm trying to impress her nor anybody. Besides belly button and cleavage, I only show legs during...
    AprilBurden23 AprilBurden23 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I can admit I do get jealous at times. Sometimes it motivates me and other times I let it go to my head and beat myself up about it. I'm not the type of person to hate just...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am a mean person sometimes because when someone hurts me and my loved ones I tend to be mean and have a hard time forgiving and forgetting. Actually, I was only referring to my...
    Pinkdiamond9 Pinkdiamond9 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    " She looks way better than i do..." "She looks gorgeous and smart." "She's tall..." " She's the best friend of my boyfriend..." "How can they be so close until the extent they are...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    This has come as a shock to me since, I have never had this "jealousy" problem before. I have been married and divorced twice, cheated on, beaten and made fun of and anything else...
    Calibabe84 Calibabe84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm very jealous I have a bad temper and I take it out on the person I love the most I try to apoligize but it will never make up for the things I say to her... I think she's...
    daltondane99 daltondane99 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm not sure why it is that I get jealous when I suspect that the person I'm taking to Is talking to someone else.
    fgarci04 fgarci04 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I'm sorry but I can't help but be the jealous type because once you are mine, you're mine. I don't like sharing what's mine I'm selfish when it comes to people I love and care for...
    HazelEyedWolf HazelEyedWolf 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I really do suffer from major mass jealousy. It's bad because I somehow always relate situations to me personally in my mind or get defensive over small things. For example, I...
    escapingnow escapingnow 16-17, F Apr 13

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    I loved my husband blindly for 3 years before marriage at the last year I start to feel like we can't live with each other we are totally different from each other. I told him...
    desertflower1 desertflower1 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I believe that everyone comes into your life for a reason and that one person can indeed turn your entire life around. I have encountered problems in my life that shattered my...
    MINIONPOP MINIONPOP 16-17 1 Response Mar 28

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    Psychology says: The narcissist needs money to maintain the false image and keep them on the pedestal they put their selves on. Money is the enabler that allows them to surround...
    rcp10 rcp10 31-35, F Apr 8

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    TREATING EVERYBODY THE SAME! I treat everybody the same so that there's no jealousy or arguments! On EP I don't have a best friend because I treat people the same and that way...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for going on three years and recently my jealously is getting out of hand. He has been with more girls then I have, which doesn't bother me...
    Gucci1990 Gucci1990 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I am get very jealous when my fiance talks to women. He's such a great guy and he's a chick magnet I guess. Its so bad that I cant even watch a movie with him anymore if there's a...
    fb715 fb715 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So I've been texting to a guy for 3 months now, all day, every day on a purely friendly basis & a bit if flirting but I'm finding myself being jealous when he mentions his ex has...
    SlightlySparkles SlightlySparkles 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I believe that people come into your life for a reason. Whether it's to be a friend, to lift you up, to teach you something, to be someone that you look back on and remember fondly...
    InquisitiveFascination InquisitiveFascination 41-45, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My husband is a PA, it's devastating! I just found out about this. So, it's nice to know that it's not all me that is our prob but at the same time idk what to do either. I am a...
    mtrevis mtrevis 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    This is something I am ashamed of, a quality I hate. I'm not a malicious person, but I find myself constantly wishing I had another person's life or something. I'm kind of selfish...
    Realitea Realitea 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I'm so jealous of my cousin, she only weighs 130lbs and my Gma keeps telling her no don't lose anymore weight while I'm over here like a fat **** D: I seriously hate myself ....
    picKLe47 picKLe47 18-21, F Apr 2

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    I have a very low self esteem and i get incredibly jealous of other girls 😔
    nashybee nashybee 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    It's not how I want to be but I honestly can't control it. Like when I am in a group with Girls and guys I want all the guys attention on me. If they start talking to the other...
    Girlinthefloweredskirt Girlinthefloweredskirt 16-17, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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