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I Am a Very Jealous Person

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    That's how it is, and i would like to hear some

    advice, sometimes I cant control myself and I end up getting super mad over things that are mostly in my head and If they are not in my head, they are really stupid, but I realize after all my anger is gone, sometimes it is killing me to be this way, i wish I was not this...
    mrog09 mrog09 18-21, F Oct 2, 2014

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    I absolutely hate how I am always in denial of

    what is going on in my life. As I know I always lock myself away from what I think is going on between him and her..and then there's a moment where I stop and all of this rage and sadness suddenly explodes outta me and I can't take it. I am a prisoner in my own head and I can't...
    Galatziaa Galatziaa 18-21, F May 3, 2015

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    I really can't do anything about it.

    . My jealousy comes from knowing so many men look and fantasize about other women while having a great one that loves them.. It just kills me and I would never accept anything like that from my husband. I know it's not healthy but I'm just venting.. I hate If he looks at a girl...
    lamisspink lamisspink 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2014

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    I'm extremely jealous actually.

    I constantly seethe with envy. Seeing other people happier than me makes me feel worse.
    CompassionateCoffee CompassionateCoffee 16-17 1 Response May 23, 2014

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    Yeah, I DO get super jealous,

    but I'm still the one he's with every night.
    TomorrowIsOkay TomorrowIsOkay 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    I'm extremely jealous of

    even female "Facebook friends" of my bf's, we originally met there since we had a mutual "friend", began talking, a lot of times for hours, he'd always compliment and "like" my pics and never noticed him doing that w/ other girls in the beginning. He'd told me he did those...
    justme2151981 justme2151981 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2015

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    I find myself constantly surrounded by people

    who have everything I want. And I hate them all for it.
    MahouShoujo MahouShoujo 16-17, F Jun 18, 2014

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    Only when it comes to a girl I'm into.

    Don't touch her, look at her, or even think about her.
    akaShaun akaShaun 18-21, M Nov 26, 2014

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    Jealousy Eats Up a Lot of My Time and Energy

    I've always felt insecure about myself. I don't like the way I look, the way I talk, the way I sound, the way I am. I could blame my mum for growing up like this because she always told me I'm ugly, that she wishes she never had me, that I'm useless, I'm timid, I'm...
    rachelv rachelv 26-30 2 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    If a girl and my boyfriend had any kind of

    sexual interaction, no contact allowed. If he held hands with you in 9th grade, no contact. If he had a crush on you in 5th grade, no contact. Oh well, what are you gonna do.
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Feb 5, 2015

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    When I am dating someone she is not allowed to

    have guy friends unless they are gay lol
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M Nov 26, 2014

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    But I Handle It

    I am a VERY jealous boyfriend lol. Luckily, I know that :P and I know better. I figured it out a few years ago, and since then I always watch what I say when Im feeling jealous, because I can feel that way for the dumbest reasons. Im the type of boyfriend where if a good looking...
    Sasuke276 Sasuke276 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    I am a VERRY jealous person ,

    I feel like if you start showing more attention to someone else , it makes me feel like I'm not as good enough as that other person, & the worst part? I compare myself to other people .
    araselys araselys 13-15, F May 24, 2014

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    Jealous Freak Right Here, Honey.

    I've done the dumbest things when I get jealous, like it's rediculous. And the feelin? Omg, disgusting. Like I feel a knot in my stomach and stuff, its very weird.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2010

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    People don't realise that

    if I'm in a relationship with you and if I get mad over the smallest of things ,and jealous it's because I care about you so much but you just don't seem to understand </3.
    Rachel282 Rachel282 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2015

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    truly am. but on denial.

    if the person I'm talking to doesn't respond bck right away and I see his status as online.. I loose it right away. my mood just change immediately and my brain goes to different channels that are not so good. but at the same time, when I get a reply bck, I feel terrible and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 29, 2015

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    My View On Jealousy

    I am a real jealous person. It's been a problem I've dealt with almost all of my life. When I was a young kid I always wanted friends, friends that I finally received in fifth grade when I turned ten. By the time I was eleven I had six really close friends who stuck with me...
    ophiedabest ophiedabest 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2011

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    I am a jealous and possessive woman.

    I'm not ashamed. This is who I am. If a man wants to be with me, I point that out up front, as he has a right to know what he's about to get into. They think it's cute at first but then after it gets serious, they see how serious I am. You with me? Then you are mine! (And I am...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    I am jealous of every girl

    that has ever hugged him because for that short second,she hugged my whole entire world.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F Oct 7, 2014

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    Green Eyed Monster (jealous)

    I'm so jealous that I hate myself.I don't know how to handle it. I can't seem to believe any thing.My boyfriend loves me. I know that.But thats not enough for me.I call myself the green eyed monster.I don't like being this way.I work on it all the time.I'm a little better now...
    1Carolina 1Carolina 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2007

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    Never Used To Be Jealous Until He Cheated On Me

    I'm stupid because I always trust men who I should keep a watchful eye on.  I trusted my then boyfiend Dave when we first started dating, becase my ex NEVER cheated on me.  I never had someone cheat on me.  I don't have much experience with men except for quickies...
    IntuitiveOne IntuitiveOne 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2010

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    Outwardly Quiet Or Mopey Yet Inside Ripping Myself To Bits

    I don't mind when ppl talk to my friends or when ppl are close to them.. but I do want to always be everyone's closest n most trusted n wanted n loved friend. I wanna be #1 all the time... n the more I like someone, the closer to #1 best friend they are to me, the more I wanna be...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 9 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    Not gonna lie.... If ur pretty,

    im jealous of u, if ur like me but u have a good personality, i envy you, its horrible that i do this but i mean i guess thats the way i am
    YouAreAllPesants YouAreAllPesants 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2014

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    I'm an extremely jealous person.

    Though I've only learned this very recently. I can't stand it when my boyfriend's with other girls, talks to them, laughs with them, etc. It's pretty bad, in my opinion. But I try my best to keep as much of it in as possible. Though, it gets harder every day.
    DarkCelestriaRose DarkCelestriaRose 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2014

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    So should I be upset right now

    because my boyfriend calls other girls beautiful and other names. Like, I got so jealous because for one, what's mine is mine. Secondly, why is he calling other females the same things he calls me. This probably isn't a complete reason to be jealous but does anyone see where I...
    SincerelyLorissa SincerelyLorissa 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    It doesn't seem it, but I am.

    I didn't even realize it until recently. Whenever I see somebody I'm friends with hanging out with somebody else besides me I get so jealous for some reason. Not sure why. Like I feel like I'm not good enough, when in reality I know that I'm just being a jealous little brat...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 11, 2014

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    If I cannot have you.

    Nobody will.
    hounslow hounslow 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2015

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    I am such a jealous person it almost hurts.

    Every time I see someone who can do something better than me, even just a little bit, I get jealous and fume off. Or when I see someone who's better than me at anything. It's not me being competitive, It's me because jealous for no reason- and I hate that about myself.
    Nessuray Nessuray 18-21, F Jul 23, 2014

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    It has gone so far, that I almost resent women

    because my boyfriend has looked at sex blogs in the past. any girl he talks to... I am instantly jealous and disappointed in him. anytime I even think about him, my mind wanders to him liking other girls or looking at other girls and again, I get instantly jealous, sad and...
    ecress ecress 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27, 2014

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    So, it's a good thing to discover yourself more

    by time. I am dicovering myself, my interests, my flaws, my parmenant flaws unfortunately! There's my cousin, my role model, my best friend, who came with me to Malaysia for study purpose. First year was HELL!! for me, full of nervousness, culture shock, love & hate, missing...
    leenalatallah leenalatallah 18-21, F Jun 22, 2015

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    I've always been jealous of gorgeous girls .

    Friendships and relationships
    alyssabay alyssabay 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2014

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    I get jealous very easily.

    .especially at women who are in a relationship. I've always been that way! It's very irritating!
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2014

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    Bayzar Bayzar 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2014

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    Something I Really Don't Like About Me...

    I find myself on blogs reading other people's conversations and getting all huffy.  Like "why are they talking to that person?".  How can I become more secure in my relationships?!
    mschatelaine mschatelaine 31-35, F 24 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    KaskadingKoquette KaskadingKoquette 26-30, F 2 Responses May 15, 2014

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    Wanting to kill every girl

    that talks to my boyfriend is something I need to work on -.-
    prxprprincess prxprprincess 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2014

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    I'm very jealous One day

    when I sow my gf with some guys I was about to fight with them but my friend stopped me It was so stupid of me I think I need to learn controlling myselve
    Stevejons Stevejons 22-25, M Nov 29, 2014

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    That Girl on EP has a boyfriend

    and she is whining or joying about that. She is blocked. That Boy on EP says he loves his girlfriend or is tellng things about her. He is blocked. In moe question, a girl and a boy became friends. Both are blocked. A questioner is asking or talking about his or her crush on EP...
    zemli zemli 22-25, M Jul 12, 2015

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    What's Wrong With Me?

    I am a friendly, sweet girl who is extremely kind to everyone. When it came to my last boyfriend, I started to experience jealousy like never before. I have never been so unhappy with myself and other in my entire life. He would always keep little things away from me (and I am a...
    cutiepiee13 cutiepiee13 16-17, F Dec 7, 2010

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