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I Am a Very Jealous Person

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    I Hate the Way I Am

    Whenever I date a guy, the monster comes out. I have learned to control it and not act on it or show it but it still runs free inside. it makes me think that every girl he looks/talks to/is friends with is better to him than me and is indefinitely more funny/beautiful/smart...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    YRamirez YRamirez 18-21, F Jan 5

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    I find myself constantly surrounded by people

    who have everything I want. And I hate them all for it.
    MahouShoujo MahouShoujo 16-17, F Jun 18

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    Something I Really Don't Like About Me...

    I find myself on blogs reading other people's conversations and getting all huffy.  Like "why are they talking to that person?".  How can I become more secure in my relationships?!
    mschatelaine mschatelaine 31-35, F 24 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    I Understand It But Its Hard Ot Explain.

    My jealuosy comes from people, my friends and family, contently telling me how short I am and of course that gave into self consious issues. Then I have society telling me I need to look a certain way, and my doctors telling me that I have no fat on me, meaning im really skinny...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2009

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    Jealous Freak Right Here, Honey.

    I've done the dumbest things when I get jealous, like it's rediculous. And the feelin? Omg, disgusting. Like I feel a knot in my stomach and stuff, its very weird.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2010

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    I am a jealous and possessive woman.

    I'm not ashamed. This is who I am. If a man wants to be with me, I point that out up front, as he has a right to know what he's about to get into. They think it's cute at first but then after it gets serious, they see how serious I am. You with me? Then you are mine! (And I am...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Jealousy Eats Up a Lot of My Time and Energy

    I've always felt insecure about myself. I don't like the way I look, the way I talk, the way I sound, the way I am. I could blame my mum for growing up like this because she always told me I'm ugly, that she wishes she never had me, that I'm useless, I'm timid, I'm...
    rachelv rachelv 26-30 2 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    It has gone so far, that I almost resent women

    because my boyfriend has looked at sex blogs in the past. any girl he talks to... I am instantly jealous and disappointed in him. anytime I even think about him, my mind wanders to him liking other girls or looking at other girls and again, I get instantly jealous, sad and...
    ecress ecress 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Best Friends?

    My best friend in the entire world is the thing that I get most jealous over.  I don't get jealous of her I get jealous of the people that she spends time with.  I love her so much, and sometimes it seems like she likes other people more than me.  I know I'm being...
    ArbitraryInsanity ArbitraryInsanity 18-21, F May 29, 2009

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    But I Handle It

    I am a VERY jealous boyfriend lol. Luckily, I know that :P and I know better. I figured it out a few years ago, and since then I always watch what I say when Im feeling jealous, because I can feel that way for the dumbest reasons. Im the type of boyfriend where if a good looking...
    Sasuke276 Sasuke276 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    Outwardly Quiet Or Mopey Yet Inside Ripping Myself To Bits

    I don't mind when ppl talk to my friends or when ppl are close to them.. but I do want to always be everyone's closest n most trusted n wanted n loved friend. I wanna be #1 all the time... n the more I like someone, the closer to #1 best friend they are to me, the more I wanna be...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 9 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    UNFORTUNATELY This Is a Flaw...

    IF TRUST IS BROKEN IN THE RELATIONSHIP THEN IT MIGHT AS WELL BE OVER BECAUSE I CAN NEVER SEEM TO GET OVER IT. I CAN NEVER SEEM TO TRUST AGAIN.. MAYBE IT'S JUST A SUBCONSCIOUS DEFENSE MECHANISM KICKING IN... I DON'T KNOW. I DO KNOW THAT YOU CAN'T MOVE FORWARD LOOKING BACK.
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    Not Anymore

    There is a very easy and very quick way to not jealous again! Not your boyfriend,not your husband not a friend and even a family.You will complitely forget about jealouse crasy sickness about only a few minute.You'll start being normal happy till end o'your life.Absolutely free...
    kich kich 22-25, F Sep 29, 2009

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    Not gonna lie.... If ur pretty,

    im jealous of u, if ur like me but u have a good personality, i envy you, its horrible that i do this but i mean i guess thats the way i am
    YouAreAllPesants YouAreAllPesants 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    Jealous Of Everything. Is That Possible?

    I have a boyfriend of 4 months. I get jealous several times a day; when he texts or talks or looks at other girls. I get jealous when I THINK of him conversing with girls. I get jealous when I THINK about the girls he converses with. By "get jealous", I mean my heartbeat rises...
    ForeverApril2011 ForeverApril2011 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I get jealous very easily.

    .especially at women who are in a relationship. I've always been that way! It's very irritating!
    naddo630 naddo630 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Random People I'm Jealous Of

    Here's "some" people i'm jealous of.. or things idk.- Bella Thorne because of she's so thin, pretty, rich, and famous. she's my idol! I WISH I WAS HER!!! 5'0" and 70 lbs- Kaitlyn becuase she goes to my school and she is super tall and skinny! she's 5'5" and 100 lbs! lucky...
    Punchinginadream Punchinginadream 18-21, F Aug 22, 2011

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    I'm an extremely jealous person.

    Though I've only learned this very recently. I can't stand it when my boyfriend's with other girls, talks to them, laughs with them, etc. It's pretty bad, in my opinion. But I try my best to keep as much of it in as possible. Though, it gets harder every day.
    ForgottenCelestria ForgottenCelestria 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    I've always been jealous of gorgeous girls .

    Friendships and relationships
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    It doesn't seem it, but I am.

    I didn't even realize it until recently. Whenever I see somebody I'm friends with hanging out with somebody else besides me I get so jealous for some reason. Not sure why. Like I feel like I'm not good enough, when in reality I know that I'm just being a jealous little brat...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    I am a VERRY jealous person ,

    I feel like if you start showing more attention to someone else , it makes me feel like I'm not as good enough as that other person, & the worst part? I compare myself to other people .
    araselys araselys 13-15, F May 24

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    My View On Jealousy

    I am a real jealous person. It's been a problem I've dealt with almost all of my life. When I was a young kid I always wanted friends, friends that I finally received in fifth grade when I turned ten. By the time I was eleven I had six really close friends who stuck with me...
    ophiedabest ophiedabest 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2011

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    MadameMM MadameMM 26-30, F 5 Responses May 15

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    I am such a jealous person it almost hurts.

    Every time I see someone who can do something better than me, even just a little bit, I get jealous and fume off. Or when I see someone who's better than me at anything. It's not me being competitive, It's me because jealous for no reason- and I hate that about myself.
    Nessuray Nessuray 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Green Eyed Monster (jealous)

    I'm so jealous that I hate myself.I don't know how to handle it. I can't seem to believe any thing.My boyfriend loves me. I know that.But thats not enough for me.I call myself the green eyed monster.I don't like being this way.I work on it all the time.I'm a little better now...
    1Carolina 1Carolina 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2007

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    Logically, I'm Over It, In My Heart, Not So Much

    Me, my lover and his ex-girlfriend. He was 'with' her for 10 years. 'With' because their relationship pattern went thusly: friends for a while, partners for years, then 5 years of him being her default when she wasn't hooked up with someone else. He is devoted to her. She moved...
    greenheaded greenheaded 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2012

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    I'm extremely jealous actually.

    I constantly seethe with envy. Seeing other people happier than me makes me feel worse.
    CompassionateCoffee CompassionateCoffee 13-15 1 Response May 23

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    I really can't do anything about it.

    . My jealousy comes from knowing so many men look and fantasize about other women while having a great one that loves them.. It just kills me and I would never accept anything like that from my husband. I know it's not healthy but I'm just venting.. I hate If he looks at a girl...
    lamisspink lamisspink 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    Never Used To Be Jealous Until He Cheated On Me

    I'm stupid because I always trust men who I should keep a watchful eye on.  I trusted my then boyfiend Dave when we first started dating, becase my ex NEVER cheated on me.  I never had someone cheat on me.  I don't have much experience with men except for quickies...
    IntuitiveOne IntuitiveOne 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    Envy/Jealousy

     I hate myself all the time for the way i act. I know my boyfriend wouldnt ever cheat on me, yet i cant help but get jealous whenever he hangs with his best friend who happens to be his ex. I envy that they are so close. i always feel as if it came between choosing me or...
    ashkrusell ashkrusell 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2008

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    What's Wrong With Me?

    I am a friendly, sweet girl who is extremely kind to everyone. When it came to my last boyfriend, I started to experience jealousy like never before. I have never been so unhappy with myself and other in my entire life. He would always keep little things away from me (and I am a...
    cutiepiee13 cutiepiee13 16-17, F Dec 7, 2010

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    Is It Really Love?

    I got divorced 2 and  a half years ago. I met the most fun caring guy . I will describe him as a free spirit of sorts.My heart has always been with him. Last summer  his ex called late one night. The phone woke me not him. I was with him at his home which is 1000 miles...
    kpsmiling kpsmiling 51-55, F 8 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    Related Experiences

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    bR0k3nWings bR0k3nWings 18-21, F 5 Responses 31 mins ago

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    There will always be those questions when still looking for an answer Whether time is really slipping or if it's running faster. I question, "Should there really be this word...
    OdeSlinger OdeSlinger 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    I don't know how love tastes like without any Jealousy. I don't know how lovers can possibly love with no jealousy, it exceeds my imagination. I'm pretty confident of who I am...
    lwelo lwelo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Feeling like this doesn't upset, annoy or anger me. I just get embarrassed admitting it. I've never been the jealous type and in the past I've never really cared about this type...
    Shiningstar26 Shiningstar26 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Recently I talked to someone that I only talked to during the school term. She questioned how I ever became friends with her, because I can't easily make friends both online and...
    natetiox natetiox 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    So, a few days ago I was at work, and I met a girl who I instantly became friends with. Work was so slow, we talked for hours. She's a really nice person. And then, I see on her...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F Sep 6

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    I'm the worst person ever, I feel jealous of my sister. I mean, I know she's she's studying enginery (which is such a difficult career!) but oh my! Since she began to study she's...
    HadaraNight HadaraNight 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I don't get jealous of people like if they have something that I don't or if they have a better body than me I actually tend to be happier for them what I do have a problem with...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Hi, I am new on EP, and I got here because I wanted to talk about this. Sorry if some things aren't clear, English isn't my mother tongue. I didn't went to any therapy or...
    SemperFilthy SemperFilthy 16-17, F a week ago

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    So, I came to Malaysia a year ago for studying, my cousin whom I met recently came with me, we were both new, we needed each other all the time, we were afraid to stay away from...
    leenalatallah leenalatallah 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I have come to the conclusion that things are simply patterns. All of it, every word a person makes. "I can talk to anyone" "I'm honest" "I'm kind" "I've got tons of experience in...
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    I get jealous. I can't help it. Call it insecurities or whatever but of course I want you all to myself. I get jealous when someone else has a piece of you I'll never have. I'm...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    They are just mad because they have insecurities of their own that they try to project on you because they don't want to deal with it. Jealousy is so stupid. They try to persuade...
    rayray87 rayray87 26-30, F Sep 2

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    Looking for advice... I'm 33 and have been with my husband since I was 17 (married for the last 10 yrs). I've changed a lot in this time, from a very shy & passive young girl to a...
    mi33sardonic mi33sardonic 31-35, F 10 Responses Sep 3

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    Just to let you know that I trust you with all my heart, Everything you do, I want to know All I want you to know is, I like you Like you a lot that I am jealous Otherwise, I...
    sensualromantic sensualromantic 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Jealousy, like hate, will eat you like termites in a log. Bitterness? Examine yourself and your life. Does your life suck? Honestly everyone's does. Examine your life and make...
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    Of course im jealous i am very fuking jealous and if he tells me some like he told me and i remember that before he said he would rather be at work than at the house, what am i...
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F Sep 12

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