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I Am a Very Lonely Wife

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    I have known my husband

    for 18yrs in a relationship with him for 8yrs and married for just over a yr we have four children but none together he works full time I do housework and run round after our kids and him 2mounths after we married I found he was talking to another woman about us and she wanted...
    lotuslj lotuslj 36-40, F 5 Responses May 29, 2014

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    It seems he is more interested in his games

    than in us... We have two children together and I have twins from a previous relationship. I am unemployed right now but looking for work, but because he is working and I'm not he expects me to do everything. Cook, clean, take care of our family and pets. He comes home and jumps...
    Trisha071113 Trisha071113 26-30, F 11 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I moved to Italy for the man I married only to

    find out I married the wrong one. He's not as loyal as he made me believed and all that lies he said he was. I didn't care if he is a poor guy as Im not after material things and money, I believed i can trust him, i only want a loyal and honest man. I offered separation but...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    My husband has problem getting it up

    for me and he blames me for our fights. That's his reason why, I don't want to be intimate with someone who desires me less so I lost my interest on sex with him as well. I don't believe in a marriage without intimacy, I am already trying to end my marriage because I don't want...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    katie1123 katie1123 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 14

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    I've been married to an Alpha-type male

    for 2 years, together for 7. I love him very much, and we have great sex! But the dynamic of our day-to-day relationship has changed. I don't feel that we are partners in life, or that he wants to share emotional intimacy. All of the personality traits that attract me to him...
    laletson laletson 31-35, F 7 Responses May 11, 2014

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    His Job Has Made Me Feel Diconected

    he's 31, and the best at making sure we are well taken care of financially,  (even though I work full time as well).  His job is 7 days a week,  3rd shift.sometimes weekends for 12 hr shifts.  he is allowed one weekend off a month, but he's such a work alcholic that he...
    krpenning krpenning 31-35 6 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    a very lonely wife married to a workaholic

     I am in my mid 30s. I been married for 9 yrs now and have 3 small children all under the age of 10.  Ever since we relocated to a different state to be together, I haven't adjusted, not even to this day.  Neither he or myself have any family out here and I, for...
    spring73 spring73 36-40 59 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    My husband and I were in a somewhat arranged

    marriage. I am an American, as American as one can get. And he was born and raised in the Arab world. We talk about nothing. There is nothing shared. My greatest fear is that when I express myself he either mocks it, acts unconcerned, or grows angry. And when he grows angry he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 2

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    I'm unloved, ignored,

    and so very lonely. I'm going crazy! i know what i need to do but i'm so scared. He does not sleep on my bed. He told me he doesn't love me anymore that he hates me. I think i deserve to be loved again, but I'm so ugly and old. Can I ever be happy again? I'm in so much pain...
    lornamar lornamar 46-50 3 Responses Jan 2

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    Been married for 8 yrs,

    with no kids. Husband loves to play poker, sometimes he doesn't come home until 6am. He usually doesn't answer my calls or text when hes playing poker. We argued alot over this. He told me it's a hobby... what a joke. I know he's not cheating or anything. I love him so...
    LonelySeattle LonelySeattle 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I Am A Lonely And Depressed Wife

    My husband hates me, I suppose that is what makes me so miserable. For the first time ever he told me to go kill myself. That broke my heart, just like a thousand other things he's said to me in the past. Why, why does he hate me so much? I crave love from my husband and it kills...
    hurtwife13 hurtwife13 22-25 7 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Just Too Lonely

    I been married for the past 8 yrs now. I am 27 yrs old and hubby treats me well at times. We not sexually active and we dnt always c eye to eye just like any other relationship. He has cheated on me many time and I forgive him cause I dnt thing I want out of my marriage for what...
    CandyLoveable CandyLoveable 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    My husband is a very nice man.

    I know I am lucky in that respect. But he does not treat me like a wife. He wants sex, but he doesn't do much to make me feel like he wants to have sex with ME (if that makes any sense). He is a great dad to our two young kids. He has a decent job that he works a lot of...
    1976meme 1976meme 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2014

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    I Need Friends

      I am a 36 year old mother of 4 with my fifth child on the way,I have put my families need before my own as I have always believed it should be,but in recent times I have found myself feeling so lonely and my husband seems to have none or very little time to spend with...
    Cutetyl Cutetyl 36-40, F 20 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    I have been married for 20 years with2

    beautiful kids. Our oldest is now an adult and moved out and the youngest is in grade 10. My husband is asleep on the couch EVERY NIGHT by 8pm. I hear his snores all of the time and it just reminds me of how lonely I am and how very alone I will be once our youngest leaves...
    grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    i very confused, my husband is not taking care

    of my x needs properly. my nighbour's son is showing son interest in me,but he is only 20. what should i do now?
    rose3245 rose3245 36-40, F 55 Responses Jul 13

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    Give Me What I Need Man!!!

    Where do I began? Just as much effort we put into a person to get them, why can't that same effort be put into effect to keep them? It's only been four years since I had gotten married, but it feels like forty years and the spice in our marriage has long since vanishred. I try to...
    chanty76 chanty76 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    Lonely Wife Of Workaholic

    I am married to a wonderful man, however he feels he has to work all the time. He owns his own buisness and works from daylight 5am- 8pm 6 days a week and on sunday he does things his sister needs done. He spends more time with his sisters than me and his son.
    heehawemt heehawemt 26-30 5 Responses Oct 30, 2010

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    A Difficult Place

    It is after midnight and I can't sleep. Once again I have gotten no recognition, no acknowledgement of my value, from the one I married. My husband has told me that he has no interest in anything I do. There is no emotional connection, no physical connection anymore. I am...
    kwanyin kwanyin 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    I'm Not Here

    I've been married for 2 1/2 years. I can no longer work so I am home alone all day. When my husband comes home from work he always goes and lays down I guess to get away from the day. So I continue to be alone until dinner. He then goes to ned at 7:00pm. I have no friends and am...
    cawilliams962 cawilliams962 51-55, F 4 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    Wife In Hell

    Verbal abuse. Or not spoken too really sucks. I'm almost 41 , female. But my friends have all moved or don't come around. I left him. He moved near me. I believe in open marriages if all parties agree. It's called communication.
    goddessofthesouth goddessofthesouth 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    Not married but I feel like it!

    Fuckkk sit in this place alone everyday. Not a ****** life at all.
    YupThatsMee YupThatsMee 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    I Love My Husband But...

    We are in nearing our 50s and for the past few years my husband, who I love very much, has had difficulties keeping an erection since he has started taken blood pressure pills. At first it was not so bad as we both enjoyed foreplay which led to a climax but recently I have just...
    sandrax2 sandrax2 46-50, F 16 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    Do they ever change or will they always be like

    that alway?? I want him too change but if not I think might have to take out woman balls and try to leave before it's to late. I might as well be single and Lonely than to be married and lonely doesn't make senses to me why else would you get married, to have someone there for...
    Missmeloveme Missmeloveme 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I've been in a relationship

    for 3years have a 1 1/2 yr daughter. My boyfriend finally tells me he's not happy. He has love for me and wants a future because we "have a"system" but he's not head over heals for me. He's tired of things but doesn't want to lose what we have. He wants me to file for child...
    AlexMarie0515 AlexMarie0515 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Join The Club...another Lonely Wife

    I've been married for almost 5 years. I am 30 years old. My husband and I had been dating for only a few months when I became pregnant. I never wanted a serious relationship with him, but he felt very strongly the opposite. We moved in together and became engaged during my...
    metooitappears metooitappears 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Lonley Wife

    I have been married for two years but been together for 10 years, my husband is very mean and does not listen to any of my concerns in our marriage he always says I have a problem that im messed up in the head for the things I believe and feel, he feels we should not have to...
    fallentears78 fallentears78 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Lonely And Married

    Just because you are married does not mean you are happy. In the beginning I was happy but now I am so miserable I feel as though I have lost myself. I know every relationship has ups and downs but my marriage is diving very fast. I do not feel intimacy we never cuddle or do...
    Confused2014 Confused2014 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    I've been married for 3 years

    and I've known him for 5. I've done a lot and gave up quite a lot for our relationship already. He's not a bad husband but I'm growing dissatisfied each day. Here's why: He doesn't believe in my goals and dreams and doesn't hide it. He's disrespectful of other people, including...
    amelycae amelycae 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2014

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    Help From Anyone Please

    Hi my name is Dianna and I have only been married for 6 months, I've been with my husband for 6 years tho. I feel our relationship has changed drastically for the worse and I feel like I'm the only one that sees it . My husband is ill and has been since I've known him, only the...
    HelloPrincessDianna HelloPrincessDianna 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I'm in love with an @sshole!

    ! I am so lonely but I keep putting up with the same old crap. I am very attractive, intelligent, fun and outgoing. I fell in love with someone that has a GED and likes to smoke weed and lie to me. I accepted a baby born 2 days before we were married, I have done everything I...
    JustWannaBLuvd JustWannaBLuvd 36-40 5 Responses Jan 2, 2014

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    Honeymoon Phase, Puh-Lease.

    Well, I've been married for a little over half a year but with my husband for 4 years in total. When we first got married i guess you can say we were pretty happy. Our whole relationship was happy, until recently. I don't know, i guess maybe i'm just not seeing something or maybe...
    Cemily Cemily 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Really in need of a friend male

    or female need someone with a head on there shoulders to talk to someone who really know
    kkjojo6 kkjojo6 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    When Does a Lonely Wife Call It Quits?

      I feel like my husband and I are two single parents who just happen to live together.  I have been contemplating divorce for awhile now.  He works evenings and weekends and I work day shift Monday-Friday so our time together is limited and then he always has...
    lonelyinwv lonelyinwv 31-35, F 18 Responses Mar 28, 2009

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    Feel Like Family Is Not A Priority. .

    Hello, reading some of your stories helped me understand I'm not the only one with issues and needs, etc and I'm not crazy for the feelings and thoughts I developed. I don't know where to begin. I guess I can start by saying that I love my partner but I've been questioning how...
    familycomesfirst familycomesfirst 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    Lost! Feel Like I Can't Say Anything

    I've been married for 11, together 13 years. We can't have children, so we have dogs. I think my husband is happier that way, he can remain the kid. I feel like such a fool. When me and my husband first got together it was amazing, he lived in a different city than me and...
    DeeDee2013 DeeDee2013 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    Loveless Lonley Husband Needs To Talk To Lonley Wives To Help Each Other

    HI, I have been married for 33 years 21 years ago my wife came home from work and said she would not have sex of any kind any more. She does not hug me, kiss me, or even let me see her naked. I am a 6'2 195 male with sexual needs, am disabled in my leg but my sexual appite and...
    lonleyman9999 lonleyman9999 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Young, Married, Yet Alone

    I have been with my husband for many years. He can be an amazing man. We just recently had a child. And there were complications with her birthing so we almost lost her. She was born with no heart beat or breath but they revived her and in that time my husband and I become one...
    MommaOf3Girls MommaOf3Girls 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 8, 2013

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    I'm a Very Lonely Wife No More!!

    I am NO LONGER a lonely wife ,we have started the divorce it's the best decision ever made,i'm living now and that says alot,i'm seeing a new man that truely loves to love,I did however forget just what love making felt like(boy what a shocker) yea know to all of use that have...
    bjlange bjlange 41-45, F 18 Responses Feb 12, 2008

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    Sometimes I Don'T Know If I Exist?

    My husband has cheated on me with drugs, lies and now, video games. I say cheated because I always come second, as if I am the mistress and he is married to one or the other. He is a recovering addict of severe drug abuse, has only been clean a little over half a year, and has...
    MzAmphetamineSpeed MzAmphetamineSpeed 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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