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I Am A Very Sexual Yet Shy Person

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 5,743 People

    It's hard for me to open up,

    and let my sexual side out at first, I'm a shy guy, but once I get to know you... And we both are on the same page... The flood gates come open, and the fun begins :)
    PanTex PanTex 41-45, M Jun 28

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    I am shy. i don't particulary like

    that part of me but it is what it is... it takes awhile for me to be comfortable enough around someone to let my true self come through.. i have lots of male friends. they work hard to draw me out of my shell. they will do anything to make me laugh and gain my trust. I have been...
    sweetpea6200 sweetpea6200 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 5

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    Shy And Sexual

    I love to have sex, the dirtier the better. I also don't like to be the center of attention.  I don't like being looked at, I don't like being around a lot of people, especially ones I don't know.  My man I'm with now always asks how did I get around to being with all the men I...
    Mylee Mylee 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 12, 2011

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    Insecure. Uncertain.

    Worried. Loud shy. Nervous shy. Angry shy.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    I am a very sexual, yet shy person.

    .. It puts me in a bit of a pickle, really. I don't like having to hide who I am. As instinctual beings, we are all born with a subliminal awareness of sex. Our very nature is sexual, so why wouldn't we? In my case, this 'awareness' came at a very young age. Leaving me with...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 17

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    I have always been shy, when I was younger people would think I was outgoing due to how I dressed which was goth including black make up. Most of my my mates were goths or punks. What most people dont realize is that the more outrageous a person is dressed the more shy they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    I've read many stories

    and questions on sex, ******* and making love. One question I can recall was 'Which one is better'? For me it's the loving sex, the cuddles, the light kisses, the touching........but ******* is great with it. Sex is sex but without feelings for that person, it just wouldn't...
    Epin Epin 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Submissive.

    I'm extremely sexed. I love everything to do with it, from foreplay to finish. I prefer to be submissive to my man in every aspect, not just in bed, but it certainly does have its place there as well. Giving pleasure is my number one enjoyment, and if I had the fortitude, I could...
    AmericanLeanings AmericanLeanings 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    I have social anxiety

    and it prevents me from opening up, relaxing and being the sexual person I know I am. Instead my shyness makes me single for eternity, or so it seems. Wish I could make if go away. I have been with women. But those are the ones I cannot have. Friends with benefits. Women who...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Ok ladies lets tell a story together.

    ..I start and you finish. See who gets most hearts. It is a hot muggy summer morning. While I am doing yard work early as sun rises you are out for daily stroll. We just nod and say hello until today. I am washing the car as you pass by. We talk about the weather as usual and...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Dec 20, 2013

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    Would you be upset if your partner discussed

    your sex life in great detail with his co worker? I'm in a new relationship (yay) and it is going amazingly well except for one thing... It takes me a long time to build a level of trust with someone to the point where I feel completely comfortable with them and willing to...
    Benassi Benassi 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 15

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    I Really Am..

    Just because I post amateur pics of myself nude doesn't mean I am not shy...I love sex..I love to be kissed on the back of the neck...love having my ear lobes nibbled...love being on my knees for my man..either in front of him or him behind me..and I can talk about that freely on...
    txwoman2 txwoman2 36-40, F 21 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    This Group...

    is the most perfect one i've joined so far. During the day, I'm the perfect friend, co-worker, neighbor, etc. I say please, and thank you, and ma'am and sir... and I think if if my... no... i KNOW that if my friends and family found out how sexual i am behind closed doors they...
    elliecow elliecow 36-40, F 5 Responses May 21, 2012

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    so true.. im craving it.

    i want to do everything but at the same time i dont want people see my true face. because of that no one know how the real me looks like.
    Millikki Millikki 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    Some One Asked Me "you Are Soo Good Looking.... Yet You Are Here....!

    Most of the time, here on Ep, with the people I talk, ask me why am I here to talk about sexual things if I can have a beautiful girl near my side in real? I totally agree,  So just writing this because I can not keep on speaking the same thing again and again.... Right...
    burningdesire burningdesire 26-30, M 22 Responses May 24, 2010

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    My shyness has always been a part of my life.

    I never made many friends as a young man and dating was difficult unless the woman made the first moves. As a kid the teachers thought I was simple since I never said two words when one would do. Work has always been something I did alone with little or no socializing. I was an...
    StrongProud StrongProud 61-65, M Jan 25

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    I've Always Been Shy...

    For as long as I can remember. But since I became sexually active, sex is something I've craved tremendously. Sometimes, in sexual settings I find that I am still somewhat reserved, even submissive sometimes, but I adore all things sexual.
    Nipplegirl422 Nipplegirl422 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    The Quest: Why haven't I found her.

    ..is she near or far?? is she someone I haven't seen in a dozen years yet remembers everything about me?? is she the smiling server who is so enchanting?? is she next door married to an out of shape barrel of a man?? is she someone I met only once, yet left me a note?? am I...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Dec 21, 2013

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    I'm not as shy as I used to be,

    but it's still there. I love sex & feel that I'm a sexual person, but I'm also overweight, which makes me insecure about the whole thing...plus my boyfriend isn't that into sex...so that makes me feel even more insecure and shy about it. It's not easy being both...sexual AND...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 13 Responses Feb 4

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    Parking Lot Blow Job

    Ever tried it? I have a few times and I still remember every detail. I'm thinking of one time in particular. We were sitting in his truck in the car pool parking lot on a Sunday afternoon. When he moved toward me to kiss me, my purse fell out of my lap and I jumped. He asked me...
    candy001 candy001 46-50 16 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    Thats just me. I would love to have s e x all

    the time. I love the pleasure it gives. And i just love being dominated sometimes. But sometimes, when im about to do it, especially with someone i hardly know, i become really shy.. Arrgghh this feeling. I just want to let it out!!!
    happykinks happykinks 22-25, F 9 Responses May 30

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    Shy

    Every since I was young, I have always found myself fascinated with sex and sexuality, but it wasn't until age 19 that I had my very first sexual experience. I have always been the type of person who was very discreet and shy about my feelings, desires and all of my wants...
    Princess1211 Princess1211 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 22, 2011

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    I Miss Out Because I Don't Ask For What I Want

    I have always loved sex, sexual touching, and *******. I am very open to trying new things and I enjoy virtually every sexual activity that I have tried. Yes, I even enjoy anal sex. I often hesitate to initiate sex with other people, even my husband. When we are having sex, too...
    CarolH66 CarolH66 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    Shy

    I am shy at first but when i get aroused i say and do things that shock the hell out of myself! After i really get to know you and feel more comfortable the shyness leaves and there is no holding back.
    Katiehasaitch Katiehasaitch 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Yep. I'm going to be honest.

    When I finally do turn that corner, and I lose my virginity...I think I'm going to be so bad. But in a good kind of way - the way that reads like the best issue of Penthouse Forum ever.
    9Fan 9Fan 26-30, M Sep 27

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    I Want A Boy To Make The First Move

    I'm a shy girl, but I'm a very sexual person! ;-) I love to **********! I love to make myself ***. But I want a man to make me ***, I'm so tired of just ************! Lol I want a man to **** me hard! I want to be a sex slave for a weekend! ;-) I want a sexy *** man to tie me up...
    NaughtyVirginPrincess NaughtyVirginPrincess 18-21, F 6 Responses May 11, 2013

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    ramcor90 ramcor90 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    im very shy in person.

    . BUT online the hidden sexual side of me comes out
    guyhere4u guyhere4u 46-50, M Nov 8

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    I guess most people would be shocked to realize

    how sexual I really am.. I am very shy in real life, I don't like to talk about myself, and I have a hard time talking to other people, even when I know them.. I blush easily and it embarasses me.. So I guess, my friends think I am a very nice and shy and sensitive person and...
    Ortolan Ortolan 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 31

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    ... As we are lying down on the bed I feel your

    hand touching my hip as you very gently circle it around and down onto my bottom.... I feel you move yourself closer to me, almost spooning as I push my bum out ... Your lips move to my ear and you kiss it before licking it up and down....I groan in delight ... The pleasure is...
    Epin Epin 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I Want MUCH More . . .

    I would LOVE to just tell it all, but i'm afraid . . . I'm going to try. I would love to connect with others who experience the same sexual urges at all times of the day- inappropriate and appropriate. I would be mortified if someone I work with, etc. figured out who i am, IF i...
    jlecat jlecat 31-35, F 10 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    Coming Out Of My Shell

    One of the things EP has helped me with is coming to terms with my sexuality. I still don't like to talk about it in this public of a forum but I have talked to a few people about my thoughts and aspirations. I feel infinitely better about myself and my private thoughts and...
    SillyBobbi SillyBobbi 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    I know there are others here

    that feel the same as I do. Being pulled in various directions by emotions, needs, desires, and even morals. it can be torture for me. everyone agrees I am both a gentleman and cool. kind to a flaw and always willing to offer a compliment or lend a hand. never be disagreeable or...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    Shy...

    I look at the people around me, and I see how they see me- quiet, small, almost asexual in my shyness. You don't see what's really there...and you don't ask. You assume because I'm not loud, aggressive, because I don't broadcast my sexuality across the room, so it must not be...
    shysheila shysheila 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    If You Only Knew Me...the Real Me.

    Friends who know me would never say I'm shy. I'm bubbly, fun and sometimes hyper especially when I'm excited about something. But around new people, especially new guys AND ESPECIALLY a new guy I'm attracted to - I get painfully shy. Once I warm up and feel relaxed, it gets...
    juicyme juicyme 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    Sexual & Shy How Common Is It

    I was thinking today.... thats dangerous all by itself... about how Ive been this shy innocent type my whole life but on the inside I have all these sexual naughty things that are the real me. I think a lot of it is due to what extend family norms and the community I grew up in...
    good2go2001 good2go2001 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    I'm very sexual but I am shy by general nature,

    so sometimes I'll be one way with being totally in the mood and then other times It'll take me a bit to get myself opening up on my sexual side. I'm confident with sexual topics and I like talking about it in a respective, intelligent manner. I know some just like the casual...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 17

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    I Am A Very Exual Shy Person Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr In An Adult Nursing Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am looking for a female for a loving anr in an adult nursing relationship in tampa bay, fl. I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . I am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in tampa bay, florida. if you are out...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 18, 2013

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    If I Could..

    I have friends that are incredibly talented in small talk with a girl they are interested in, and they score 9 out of 10. I have never been like that. So I am often left thinking about what I would do with this girl, how would I please her, where would I touch her, where would I...
    kant801 kant801 31-35, M Nov 29, 2013

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    I have somehow been allowed to enter thru a

    door into a new world. One where I feel completely overwhelmed. Like a 3rd string quarterback put in the Super Bowl for his 1st career start. They believe me to be next superstar. I feel more like a wet noodle haha. Having begun to rebuild the staff locally I am part of a new...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Dec 23, 2013

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    If Only...

    Thank goodness people aren't able to read my thoughts. Some of the things that go through my mind during one of my "dry spells", are so raw and dirty. I think to myself "Does everyone have these thoughts, or just me?". It's not as though I would act on every little thing I...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    I believe when you join hundreds of adult

    groups you have no business criticizing others who get naughty with you and send you photos of their <~~~~ Otherwise don't join. It's false advertising You go on a picnic you have to tolerate the ants and mosquitoes
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Jan 10

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    I wake up each morning with something warm

    and soft beside or under me. It hasn't lips to kiss or hair I can run my fingers thru. It hasn't breasts I can fondle. There are no sexy curves to caress. It has no hands to reach out for me. It doesn't moan with desire. Just an extra pillow... Dammit
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Jan 19

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    BSTisapain BSTisapain 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 21

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    Shyness Leaves

    Most of all my friends would say i am a shy person at first and then after someone gets to know me i really open up and talk. I am the same way with Sex...I am shy at first and then after you get to know me i am very very sexual person.... :)
    bettsforsure bettsforsure 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2013

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    yes this is so me haha.

    I am shy in person like I struggle to talk to people or find stuff to do. Took me ages to muster the courage to go the gym even though I needed ti because I was scared about people seeing me exercise. Yet sexually I'm such a deviant haha. I am always poisng and showing off...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 4, 2013

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