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I Am A Very Sexual Yet Shy Person

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    I believe when you join hundreds of adult groups you have no business criticizing others who get naughty with you and send you photos of their <~~~~ Otherwise don't join. It's...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Jan 10

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    Ok ladies lets tell a story together...I start and you finish. See who gets most hearts. It is a hot muggy summer morning. While I am doing yard work early as sun rises you are...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Dec 20, 2013

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    The Quest: Why haven't I found her...is she near or far?? is she someone I haven't seen in a dozen years yet remembers everything about me?? is she the smiling server who is so...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Dec 21, 2013

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    I'm not as shy as I used to be, but it's still there. I love sex & feel that I'm a sexual person, but I'm also overweight, which makes me insecure about the whole thing...plus my...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 4

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    Turned On By The Idea - I hope that this makes sense to others. I am shy about meeting guys. I get so horny sometimes and i just am unable to approach men. If I am interested in...
    tootrustingtwo tootrustingtwo 22-25, F 54 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    I've Always Been Shy... - For as long as I can remember. But since I became sexually active, sex is something I've craved tremendously. Sometimes, in sexual settings I find that I...
    Nipplegirl422 Nipplegirl422 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    Shyness Leaves - Most of all my friends would say i am a shy person at first and then after someone gets to know me i really open up and talk. I am the same way with Sex...I am shy...
    bettsforsure bettsforsure 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2013

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    Shy Around Strangers - I view a woman that I find sexy even one's that others might not find sexy but she possesses a look that I find attractive at the grocery store, ball game...
    doublep doublep 51-55, M Jul 23, 2013

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    Coming Out Of My Shell - One of the things EP has helped me with is coming to terms with my sexuality. I still don't like to talk about it in this public of a forum but I have...
    SillyBobbi SillyBobbi 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    I guess most people would be shocked to realize how sexual I really am.. I am very shy in real life, I don't like to talk about myself, and I have a hard time talking to other...
    Ortolan Ortolan 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 31

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    I have somehow been allowed to enter thru a door into a new world. One where I feel completely overwhelmed. Like a 3rd string quarterback put in the Super Bowl for his 1st career...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Dec 23, 2013

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    I Really Am.. - Just because I post amateur pics of myself nude doesn't mean I am not shy...I love sex..I love to be kissed on the back of the neck...love having my ear lobes...
    txwoman2 txwoman2 36-40, F 22 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    My shyness has always been a part of my life. I never made many friends as a young man and dating was difficult unless the woman made the first moves. As a kid the teachers thought...
    StrongProud StrongProud 61-65, M Jan 25

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    I Want MUCH More . . . - I would LOVE to just tell it all, but i'm afraid . . . I'm going to try. I would love to connect with others who experience the same sexual urges at all...
    jlecat jlecat 31-35, F 13 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    Some One Asked Me &quot;you Are Soo Good Looking.... Yet You Are Here....! - Most of the time, here on Ep, with the people I talk, ask me why am I here to talk about sexual...
    burningdesire burningdesire 26-30, M 22 Responses May 24, 2010

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    If You Only Knew Me...the Real Me. - Friends who know me would never say I'm shy. I'm bubbly, fun and sometimes hyper especially when I'm excited about something. But around new...
    juicyme juicyme 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    Would you be upset if your partner discussed your sex life in great detail with his co worker? I'm in a new relationship (yay) and it is going amazingly well except for one thing...
    Benassi Benassi 22-25, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Shy And Sexual - I love to have sex, the dirtier the better. I also don't like to be the center of attention.  I don't like being looked at, I don't like being around a lot of...
    Mylee Mylee 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 12, 2011

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    yes this is so me haha. I am shy in person like I struggle to talk to people or find stuff to do. Took me ages to muster the courage to go the gym even though I needed ti because I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 4, 2013

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    Parking Lot Blow Job - Ever tried it? I have a few times and I still remember every detail. I'm thinking of one time in particular. We were sitting in his truck in the car pool...
    candy001 candy001 46-50 16 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    If I Could.. - I have friends that are incredibly talented in small talk with a girl they are interested in, and they score 9 out of 10. I have never been like that. So I am often...
    kant801 kant801 31-35, M Nov 29, 2013

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    I Love Ep Because... - Well yes, I'm a very sexual yet shy human being. I've experienced sex at an indecent young age, and that's not my fault as I wrote in a story already already...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 11, 2011

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    The Inner And Outer Me - If I was to meet you I would be reserved, quiet, almost shy. Then when I get to know and trust you I start slowly coming out of my shell. Then when I...
    poppyv poppyv 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    so true.. im craving it. i want to do everything but at the same time i dont want people see my true face. because of that no one know how the real me looks like.
    Millikki Millikki 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Sometimes .. - Pretty much all of my friends would say I am a shy person at first but get to know me and have a little patience I open up. I am the same way with sex ...I am shy at...
    18Rachiii 18Rachiii 18-21, F 26 Responses May 25, 2013

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    I wake up each morning with something warm and soft beside or under me. It hasn't lips to kiss or hair I can run my fingers thru. It hasn't breasts I can fondle. There are no sexy...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M Jan 19

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    Shy But Love Sex - I am really a shy person. My bf is the one that turned me into a closet freak. If you were to meet me, you would think that I would not be that way. I crave...
    lovemyself33 lovemyself33 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    Sexual & Shy How Common Is It - I was thinking today.... thats dangerous all by itself... about how Ive been this shy innocent type my whole life but on the inside I have all...
    good2go2001 good2go2001 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    Sexually Conservative? - I have always been a quiet person. Once I get to know a person or if I am comfortable I am a very open, fun, sarcastic, carefree person. I consider myself...
    charliegee83 charliegee83 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    Shy - Every since I was young, I have always found myself fascinated with sex and sexuality, but it wasn't until age 19 that I had my very first sexual experience. I have...
    Princess1211 Princess1211 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 22, 2011

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    I am shy. i don't particulary like that part of me but it is what it is... it takes awhile for me to be comfortable enough around someone to let my true self come through.. i have...
    sweetpea6200 sweetpea6200 31-35, F 12 Responses Jan 5

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    Shy... - I look at the people around me, and I see how they see me- quiet, small, almost asexual in my shyness. You don't see what's really there...and you don't ask. You assume...
    shysheila shysheila 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Letting Go And Making The Most Of My Desires - For ages now for some strange reason i have been avoiding my sexuality and trying to hide the fact that im a really sexual person. I...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    I know there are others here that feel the same as I do. Being pulled in various directions by emotions, needs, desires, and even morals. it can be torture for me. everyone agrees...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    I Miss Out Because I Don't Ask For What I Want - I have always loved sex, sexual touching, and *******. I am very open to trying new things and I enjoy virtually every sexual...
    CarolH66 CarolH66 36-40, F Dec 9, 2012

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    If Only... - Thank goodness people aren't able to read my thoughts. Some of the things that go through my mind during one of my "dry spells", are so raw and dirty. I think to...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Kinda Quiet - Due to my shyness, I tend to be quiet during sex. I'll gasp or moan softly, but don't get much louder than that. To force myself to be louder feels unnatural and like...
    randomdork11 randomdork11 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    Most People Freak Out. - I have confessed to maybe 3 exs about myself and even though its nothing that harms others they freaked out called me weird , a freak and just down right...
    keepinanopenmind keepinanopenmind 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Shy - I am shy at first but when i get aroused i say and do things that shock the hell out of myself! After i really get to know you and feel more comfortable the shyness leaves...
    Katiehasaitch Katiehasaitch 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    ... As we are lying down on the bed I feel your hand touching my hip as you very gently circle it around and down onto my bottom.... I feel you move yourself closer to me, almost...
    Epin Epin 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    Shy - i am very shy also but very sexual. how do i get over this. i cant get women because i am very shy to talk to them and get nervous around women. i want a milf but don't know...
    vtech069 vtech069 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    A number of people are shy about sexual secrets, I think that a significant number of EP ers are people who in their normal lives you would never know they had the interests they...
    subsumedpat subsumedpat 36-40, M Feb 14

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    Ask - I have always been shy, when I was younger people would think I was outgoing due to how I dressed which was goth including black make up. Most of my my mates were goths or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    I Am A Very Exual Shy Person Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr In An Adult Nursing Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl. - I am looking for a female for a loving anr in an adult...
    thisthatcurious thisthatcurious 56-60 Nov 18, 2013

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    A Day To Remember - I'm not really that "shy" it depends on who i'm around when it comes to sexual stuff. but today i kinda broke out the shell. I had a friend over today (even...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 16-17, F 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    That describes me perfectly :)
    ramcor90 ramcor90 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I've read many stories and questions on sex, ******* and making love. One question I can recall was 'Which one is better'? For me it's the loving sex, the cuddles, the light...
    Epin Epin 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Tired Of ************---quick Confession - Over time I've become really hateful towards ************. I want to feel the warmth of another person but I can't bring myself to just...
    crazykinky88 crazykinky88 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    I Am Adventerous In The Bedroom - I love sex and everything to do with It, so it seems completely normal to me to want to try everything at least once but my husband isn't as...
    AlauraDawn AlauraDawn 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    I know what I want but sometimes I don't know how to ask for it. ~C
    E4CandC4E E4CandC4E 31-35 Dec 29, 2013

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