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I Am A Very Sexual Yet Shy Person

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    I'm not sure how to put this without

    potentially coming across like a massive creep, so take on faith for just a second that the anonymous dude with no profile picture posting in this particular corner of the internet is, against all odds, on the level. Anyway, something I have recently found out about myself is...
    normandy87 normandy87
    26-30, M
    Mar 16, 2016

    I've Always Been Shy...

    For as long as I can remember. But since I became sexually active, sex is something I've craved tremendously. Sometimes, in sexual settings I find that I am still somewhat reserved, even submissive sometimes, but I adore all things sexual.
    Nipplegirl422 Nipplegirl422
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jun 17, 2012

    I believe when you join hundreds of adult

    groups you have no business criticizing others who get naughty with you and send you photos of their <~~~~ Otherwise don't join. It's false advertising You go on a picnic you have to tolerate the ants and mosquitoes
    1490wayb 1490wayb
    51-55, M
    Jan 10, 2014

    Shy And Sexual

    I love to have sex, the dirtier the better. I also don't like to be the center of attention.  I don't like being looked at, I don't like being around a lot of people, especially ones I don't know.  My man I'm with now always asks how did I get around to being with all the men I...
    Mylee Mylee
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Apr 12, 2011

    I guess most people would be shocked to realize

    how sexual I really am.. I am very shy in real life, I don't like to talk about myself, and I have a hard time talking to other people, even when I know them.. I blush easily and it embarasses me.. So I guess, my friends think I am a very nice and shy and sensitive person and...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Mar 31, 2014


    I have always been shy, when I was younger people would think I was outgoing due to how I dressed which was goth including black make up. Most of my my mates were goths or punks. What most people dont realize is that the more outrageous a person is dressed the more shy they...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 7, 2013

    A Day To Remember

    I'm not really that "shy" it depends on who i'm around when it comes to sexual stuff. but today i kinda broke out the shell. I had a friend over today (even though we planed to meet on friday) and he owed me some stuff. he needed money really and i gave it to him and he said he'd...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 24, 2012

    I know there are others here

    that feel the same as I do. Being pulled in various directions by emotions, needs, desires, and even morals. it can be torture for me. everyone agrees I am both a gentleman and cool. kind to a flaw and always willing to offer a compliment or lend a hand. never be disagreeable or...
    1490wayb 1490wayb
    51-55, M
    Jan 6, 2014

    I Want MUCH More . . .

    I would LOVE to just tell it all, but i'm afraid . . . I'm going to try. I would love to connect with others who experience the same sexual urges at all times of the day- inappropriate and appropriate. I would be mortified if someone I work with, etc. figured out who i am, IF i...
    jlecat jlecat
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Sep 5, 2013

    so true.. im craving it.

    i want to do everything but at the same time i dont want people see my true face. because of that no one know how the real me looks like.
    Millikki Millikki
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

    I'm not as shy as I used to be,

    but it's still there. I love sex & feel that I'm a sexual person, but I'm also overweight, which makes me insecure about the whole my boyfriend isn't that into that makes me feel even more insecure and shy about it. It's not easy being both...sexual AND...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Feb 4, 2014

    My husband tells me I am too shy.

    he suggested I join EP to talk to people about sex without knowing them knowing they will never meet me. I don't know if I can. He wants me to be more open to flirt with guys I don't understand
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Jan 23, 2016
    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2014

    I Am Adventerous In The Bedroom

    I love sex and everything to do with It, so it seems completely normal to me to want to try everything at least once but my husband isn't as adventurous so when I asked my husband to tie me up and spank me for the first time he thought I was weird but he did it anyway and to his...
    AlauraDawn AlauraDawn
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Dec 31, 2012

    Yes I'm very shy. It takes awhile

    for me to open up. Don't let my shyness fool you. I can be very romantic and sexual. I'm a pleaser by nature.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 23, 2015

    I have somehow been allowed to enter thru a

    door into a new world. One where I feel completely overwhelmed. Like a 3rd string quarterback put in the Super Bowl for his 1st career start. They believe me to be next superstar. I feel more like a wet noodle haha. Having begun to rebuild the staff locally I am part of a new...
    1490wayb 1490wayb
    51-55, M
    Dec 23, 2013

    Thats just me. I would love to have s e x all

    the time. I love the pleasure it gives. And i just love being dominated sometimes. But sometimes, when im about to do it, especially with someone i hardly know, i become really shy.. Arrgghh this feeling. I just want to let it out!!!
    happykinks happykinks
    26-30, F
    5 Responses May 30, 2014
    deleted deleted
    Nov 3, 2015

    I Miss Out Because I Don't Ask For What I Want

    I have always loved sex, sexual touching, and *******. I am very open to trying new things and I enjoy virtually every sexual activity that I have tried. Yes, I even enjoy anal sex. I often hesitate to initiate sex with other people, even my husband. When we are having sex, too...
    CarolH66 CarolH66
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2012


    Every since I was young, I have always found myself fascinated with sex and sexuality, but it wasn't until age 19 that I had my very first sexual experience. I have always been the type of person who was very discreet and shy about my feelings, desires and all of my wants...
    Princess1211 Princess1211
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jun 22, 2011

    I am shy. i don't particulary like

    that part of me but it is what it is... it takes awhile for me to be comfortable enough around someone to let my true self come through.. i have lots of male friends. they work hard to draw me out of my shell. they will do anything to make me laugh and gain my trust. I have been...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    I am a very sexual, yet shy person.

    .. It puts me in a bit of a pickle, really. I don't like having to hide who I am. As instinctual beings, we are all born with a subliminal awareness of sex. Our very nature is sexual, so why wouldn't we? In my case, this 'awareness' came at a very young age. Leaving me with...
    Lullacus Lullacus
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 17, 2014


    I look at the people around me, and I see how they see me- quiet, small, almost asexual in my shyness. You don't see what's really there...and you don't ask. You assume because I'm not loud, aggressive, because I don't broadcast my sexuality across the room, so it must not be...
    shysheila shysheila
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 24, 2012

    Leading Me

    Few intimate experiences which left a deep impression both to me and my partner, during the first encounters in bed. Often times I'd find myself being on the aggressive side, though not much as the dominating type. As much as I can attempt to admit, I feel nervous and shy. That...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Feb 13, 2012

    Hi are there any fun busty ladies reading this

    thread wanna chat? if so Pm me back......
    teddyboylovesboobs teddyboylovesboobs
    41-45, M
    Jan 29, 2016


    I'm extremely sexed. I love everything to do with it, from foreplay to finish. I prefer to be submissive to my man in every aspect, not just in bed, but it certainly does have its place there as well. Giving pleasure is my number one enjoyment, and if I had the fortitude, I could...
    AmericanLeanings AmericanLeanings
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 23, 2011

    I wake up each morning with something warm

    and soft beside or under me. It hasn't lips to kiss or hair I can run my fingers thru. It hasn't breasts I can fondle. There are no sexy curves to caress. It has no hands to reach out for me. It doesn't moan with desire. Just an extra pillow... Dammit
    1490wayb 1490wayb
    51-55, M
    Jan 19, 2014

    im very shy in person.

    . BUT online the hidden sexual side of me comes out
    guyhere4u guyhere4u
    46-50, M
    Nov 8, 2014

    It's hard for me to open up,

    and let my sexual side out at first, I'm a shy guy, but once I get to know you... And we both are on the same page... The flood gates come open, and the fun begins :)
    PanTex PanTex
    41-45, M
    Jun 28, 2014

    The Quiet Ones Are The Worst!

    I am fairly shy and quiet until you get to know me. Most people who do not know me (intimately) think that I am actually quite prudish and that maybe I don't like sex all that much. Occassionally I choose to shock them and I'll get a comment like "I can't believe you just said...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jun 14, 2011

    Would you be upset if your partner discussed

    your sex life in great detail with his co worker? I'm in a new relationship (yay) and it is going amazingly well except for one thing... It takes me a long time to build a level of trust with someone to the point where I feel completely comfortable with them and willing to...
    Benassi Benassi
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Apr 15, 2014

    Ladies feeling naughty

    or horny message me for a surprise
    borew933 borew933
    22-25, M
    Aug 8, 2015

    I'm very shy and very quoted person in real

    life in my fantasy I'm very sexual ye shy person I can't stop thinking about sex lot because it turns me on and ever guy walks me by all I'm looking for there dicks I lot it so much ;)
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    Shyness Leaves

    Most of all my friends would say i am a shy person at first and then after someone gets to know me i really open up and talk. I am the same way with Sex...I am shy at first and then after you get to know me i am very very sexual person.... :)
    bettsforsure bettsforsure
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 14, 2013

    This Group...

    is the most perfect one i've joined so far. During the day, I'm the perfect friend, co-worker, neighbor, etc. I say please, and thank you, and ma'am and sir... and I think if if my... no... i KNOW that if my friends and family found out how sexual i am behind closed doors they...
    elliecow elliecow
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2012
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    there so much ive missed out an

    so much need to be explored if only i wasnt so nervous ...
    angelfallen80 angelfallen80
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Jan 29, 2016

    I'm shy mostly because of my body build,

    but I have been trying to become more confident. When I go to the gym I would usually hide in a corner and change quickly, but lately I have been trying to spend more time in a towel and become more comfortable with people seeing my body. If you have messaged me and asked for...
    Underoo4 Underoo4
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2016
    frie936 frie936
    22-25, M
    Mar 16, 2015

    Ladies feeling naughty

    or horny message me for a surprise
    imp93 imp93
    22-25, M
    Apr 19, 2015

    Coming Out Of My Shell

    One of the things EP has helped me with is coming to terms with my sexuality. I still don't like to talk about it in this public of a forum but I have talked to a few people about my thoughts and aspirations. I feel infinitely better about myself and my private thoughts and...
    SillyBobbi SillyBobbi
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Feb 14, 2012

    Yep. I'm going to be honest.

    When I finally do turn that corner, and I lose my virginity...I think I'm going to be so bad. But in a good kind of way - the way that reads like the best issue of Penthouse Forum ever.
    9Fan 9Fan
    31-35, M
    Sep 27, 2014
    ramcor90 ramcor90
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Dec 4, 2013

    Some One Asked Me &quot;you Are Soo Good Looking.... Yet You Are Here....!

    Most of the time, here on Ep, with the people I talk, ask me why am I here to talk about sexual things if I can have a beautiful girl near my side in real? I totally agree,  So just writing this because I can not keep on speaking the same thing again and again.... Right...
    burningdesire burningdesire
    26-30, M
    21 Responses May 24, 2010

    I Want A Boy To Make The First Move

    I'm a shy girl, but I'm a very sexual person! ;-) I love to **********! I love to make myself ***. But I want a man to make me ***, I'm so tired of just ************! Lol I want a man to **** me hard! I want to be a sex slave for a weekend! ;-) I want a sexy *** man to tie me up...
    NaughtyVirginPrincess NaughtyVirginPrincess
    22-25, F
    6 Responses May 11, 2013

    I have social anxiety

    and it prevents me from opening up, relaxing and being the sexual person I know I am. Instead my shyness makes me single for eternity, or so it seems. Wish I could make if go away. I have been with women. But those are the ones I cannot have. Friends with benefits. Women who...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2014


    I am shy at first but when i get aroused i say and do things that shock the hell out of myself! After i really get to know you and feel more comfortable the shyness leaves and there is no holding back.
    Katiehasaitch Katiehasaitch
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 27, 2013

    I've never been good at the whole "getting to

    know you" part of a relationship. I'm awkward and shy and I think I focus too much on trying to say the right thing and make her laugh, and it comes across as a little frantic at times. But once we get to the between-the-sheets part of a relationship is when the fun starts. We...
    drrtymind drrtymind
    31-35, M
    Mar 27, 2016

    My shyness has always been a part of my life.

    I never made many friends as a young man and dating was difficult unless the woman made the first moves. As a kid the teachers thought I was simple since I never said two words when one would do. Work has always been something I did alone with little or no socializing. I was an...
    StrongProud StrongProud
    66-70, M
    Jan 25, 2014

    I'm very sexual but I am shy by general nature,

    so sometimes I'll be one way with being totally in the mood and then other times It'll take me a bit to get myself opening up on my sexual side. I'm confident with sexual topics and I like talking about it in a respective, intelligent manner. I know some just like the casual...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Nov 17, 2014
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