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I Am a Victim of Domestic Violence

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    Ordinary Woman is an honest and emotional coming-of-age story that proves everything in life happens for a reason. It follows the author from a fearless little girl, to an insecure teenager, to a confident woman who truly knows her worth in this world. The story begins with the...
    JennSadai JennSadai 36-40 Aug 10, 2015

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    I was kicked from our house today.

    Not without a scretch of course. He wants a divorce and the custody of our daughter. I just don't know what to do...
    alinediniz alinediniz 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2015

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    I have been with my abusive husband

    for 21years from the age of 16 (he was then 18). For a long time he was so charming and he wanted to see me everyday, he told me i was his world, i made his life wonderful. I had finished my final year at school and one day he got up from watching tv with me on the sofa at my...
    KirstyF KirstyF 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Im having a hard time dealing with this maybe

    because its the first time ive ever had to. My fiance punched me three times today. im froze in shock i cant believe it. idk what to do or what it means. is this really only gonna get worse .... im heartbroken
    wishingforbetterdaysx wishingforbetterdaysx 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    Am I The Only Male

    I read quite a few of your stories and I find it interesting, but not surprising that I have not read one story by a male.  This sort of goes with my experience as a victim of domestic violence.  I was married very young to my high school sweetheart.  Everything...
    Aether71 Aether71 36-40, M 46 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    My story is similar to those on here

    but it's not as bad. He hasn't assaulted me yet. And that's why I got out. When we met it was amazing, we both have the same sick sense of humor an would laugh for hours. Being in different states made us spend hours talking over the phone, but which also meant I didn't get to...
    jesselizabethjw jesselizabethjw 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2014

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    Wow. Every day is worse He is being

    so mean I don't wanna live.
    gidget9204 gidget9204 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 9, 2015

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    Stop the Hate!

    This is a blog i wrote on March 3 on my myspace. I was so tired of hearing beaten women bashed!! I am a huge DV activist in my hometown and hope that by informing the masses beaten women can avoid further humiliation. STOP CALLING WOMEN WHO  ARE BEING BEATEN AND ABUSED...
    amyjo3 amyjo3 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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    It truly is a vicious cycle,

    it started from when I was a toddler. I had to have surgery at the age of 2 years old for nearly being beaten to death. After that it all went down hill. From being raped and molested by many men. To being in abusive relationships as an adult. Sometimes I am afraid, I will never...
    TheQuirkyOne TheQuirkyOne 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2015

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    I Am No Longer a Victim

     "I'm sorry, you just make me so mad". How many times I've heard that, I thought as I rubbed my swollen cheek.   It started out perfect, I met a man that was handsome, smart, and could make anyone laugh. He was the life of the party. Everyone thought he was...
    vanilla vanilla 26-30, F 15 Responses Jul 8, 2007

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    Yelling and screaming,

    that's all that ever happened for 18 years, yelling and screaming until that Sunday afternoon after church on March 2nd. Our anniversary actually. He totally melted down. He hit me in the chest and it knocked me off balance and I fell backwards hitting my shoulder on the cat...
    Scottishgirl65 Scottishgirl65 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2015

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    I'm feeling very hopeless

    and overwhelmed. I've been married for almost 17 years to an emotionally abusive narcissistic alcoholic. It wasn't until about four years ago that I realized there was something wrong. That it wasn't all my fault and me not being enough. Everyone else loves him. He's very good...
    kmn789 kmn789 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    I got to know this really sweet gentle boy of

    22 years old when he first came to Singapore. He was cheerful, joyous and full of life. Now that he is back in France, things changed. I went to visit him in December 2015 and I was beaten there by him. Beaten, manhandled and almost dragged out of the apartment a few times when...
    VicMarie VicMarie 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I see a ton of people have shared their stories,

    some similar some different, but all terrible, because having to go through this is an extremely horrible experience. Even after it's over your're left with mental and physical scars and marks. I want to tell my story, but I know reading another one will only upset people more...
    MauraAl MauraAl 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2015

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    I dont even know where to start

    while writing this i cant even begin to explain the pain thats been afflicted on me by a man that claims he loves me for FOUR WHOLE YEARS he decided what i wear if o meet with friends and where i would be spending my holidays the only time i began to feel any normality in my...
    DutchLove DutchLove 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2015

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    Hello my wife yells over the smallest things.

    It is really stressing me out. I had 2 heart attacks last year and the stress is not good for me. She also grabs me in the genitals and she knows i don't like it. Im afraid to press charges because her son from a former marriage lives with us and he's hot headed too, And is...
    AbusedHusband AbusedHusband 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2015

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    My boyfriend, I guess ex now,

    is verbally and emotionally abusive. Last week he not only verbally attacked me, but he called our daughter horrible names. He's called me a bit*h, c*nt ... And I've stayed. But after he called my daughters those names too... I said enough is enough. I left with our children...
    MariaBella2015 MariaBella2015 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    Multiple15 Multiple15 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2015

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    My Dad hit my Mom. I never thought things would

    come to that. I'm lost in all my feelings and I don't feel as though I have a home. Just a broken family..
    AE762 AE762 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2015

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    Well, I left my abuser,

    yet again, for about the hundredth time. I am struggling. He had choked me, kicked me, slapped me , threw me, restrained me, over the past few years. He also held his fists in my face, saying hes gonna bash my skull in . He also said he wants to lock me in a basement. He also...
    amtired amtired 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2015

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    Survivor

    That's what my social worker tells me when we visit and talk. Your not a victim your a survivor.    I see women who are TRUE survivors.  The ones who survive horrors.  I don't see myself as that.  I know women wear it like a proud badge of strength in some cases.  A...
    flodials flodials 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    I Did It.

    I called the police. He's in a cell right now. Court in 4 hours. I'll never let this happen again.
    AlexSparky AlexSparky 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    Still Alive

    It has been 3 years now since I left my abusive husband of 16 years and my life is completely different. It was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life to just take our child and run, but I did it. I can honestly say that my daughter and I are both happy, healthy and...
    KaseyBee KaseyBee 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I recently left my ex,

    again. This is the last. In past few years, he choked me..slapped me.... Threw me... Kicked me... And other things too. The Last Time I saw him he said he's gonna bash my brains in. He threw me across his living room . I went flying. He kept calling me a dog. He held his fists...
    amtired amtired 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 16, 2015

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    I just want to make one comment on this subject.

    I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years and through four of those years I was abused almost on a daily basis. If it wasn't mental, it was physical. If it wasn't physical, it was mental. It's hard talking about it right now even after all these years because the mental and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 9, 2015

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    Well, Not Anymore

    My ex husband was abusive, physically, mentally and emotionally. I spent 5 years getting my *** beat, being put down, being forced to do things i didnt want to. Being raped on a regular basis. Yes ladies, your husband CAN rape you. It was pure hell. I ran when I had the right...
    kittylove30 kittylove30 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    I was with my x for 12 years

    and I wasn't even a human in those days you could feel the air blowing through me I was hollow and I have been away from him for the past two years I love it and my only regret is not leaving sooner I often wonder if I'll ever be able to love again but I'm still learning how to...
    Pammiii Pammiii 51-55 4 Responses Mar 28, 2015

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    It Came Out In Clumps

    The next day I washed my hair. It came out in clumps, some with skin still attached. I saved one and gave it to him. He looked at it squeamishly, like I had handed him a dead rat. He dropped it on the floor in disgust. “What?” I asked, “You tore it out, I thought you...
    lulabelle138 lulabelle138 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    mylifesucks25 mylifesucks25 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2015

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    I Didn't See It Coming . . .

    When I met my husband, he couldn't do enough for me.  He was wonderful.  But as soon as the vows were taken he changed, slowly and subtly at first, then it sped up and became more obvious.  He isolated me from my friends and my family.  He constantly...
    LCLM LCLM 41-45, F 10 Responses Feb 19, 2008

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    i was in a relationship

    for a year with a guy who beat me when i didn't do as he said would drag me across the floor by my hair because i was being a smart ***.. and would beat me some more if he found out i was trying to leave him... between the emotional and physical abuse i felt like i was losing it...
    Laneicea1 Laneicea1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2015

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    I'm both saddened and greatful to know

    that I'm not alone. I left my abuser of 5 years, just a few months ago. I left with my child and nothing but the clothes on our backs, went into hiding for 3 weeks, got an order for protection and emergency custody. I still have nightmares some nights, and I still get anxious...
    lindseyy11 lindseyy11 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bettyccaa bettyccaa 26-30, F Sep 6, 2015

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    Today I finally got out!

    I know this is just the beginning of a brand new start. my ex boyfriend abused me for almost 11 months. - controlling my where abouts. - how I dressed and even when I could bath . - couldn't have friends, go anywhere I just felt so isolated and we'd get in physical fights. he...
    jazzyphay2 jazzyphay2 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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    It's been a little over a week

    since I got out. I was able to tell him I was done and ready to move on w my life w out him. 2 nights ago he showed up at my job w the girl he cheated on me with and had been cheating on me with for two years. Last night I was home w our daughter and he was drinking came in and...
    lis924 lis924 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2015

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    A Year Has Passed

    A Year has Passed Like Socrates said, “Wonder brings wisdom.” If you do not wonder about something how will you ever learn?My abuser did not want me to have knowledge, because knowledge is powerful, and that is what he took away from me, because he wanted power and control...
    awarren98 awarren98 36-40, F 15 Responses Jun 3, 2011

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    I was married to a drug addict

    who beat me and cheated on me and robbed me and stole my car so i couldn't go to work. It was awful. It was a long time ago, but I still have problems with things. Like, when you are married to someone whojust shows up in the middle of the night and beats you up while you are...
    mom4ce mom4ce 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2015

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    I just filed a protection order.

    I'm finally going to be free of him. I'm empowered, yet terrified.
    findinghome90 findinghome90 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    In Love With An Abuser, Trying to Lose the Love

    I thought it was love, an over the top tenderness, a magnetic sensuality that kept me waiting for the next time we were alone.... At first it wasn't abusive, just angry sometimes, what's a little insult with a bit of a slap or hair pulling???  But it got worse...
    dancingonthehill dancingonthehill 51-55, F 57 Responses Apr 3, 2009

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    Hey my name is Shay-ellen osborne

    and when i was younger i saw my mum get bashed by her partner in the street. This was 10 years ago but now im still feeling the effects i am currently doing research project and based it on domestic violence and the effect it had on children. I was wondering if anyone could...
    shaybaylittlebay shaybaylittlebay 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

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    It started nearly a year ago,

    I lied to my mom to pick up my long distance boyfriend from Missouri, about 17 hours away from where I live. I was in love and naive, yes, i didn't care about the consequences as long as I was with him. 3 months into living at my moms house with him we would argue and he would...
    renilani renilani 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2015

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    Caroline Nosal, killed February 2,

    2016. http://fox6now.com/2016/02/10/christopher-okroley-to-stand-trial-in-fatal-shooting-of-metro-market-co-worker-in-madison/ When I left my ex, I had no idea what he'd do, so I quit my job. One less place he'd know where to find me. I want to point out in the article where...
    Elspet Elspet 26-30, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I have just started trying to get help

    for the situation with my abusive husband. Because we have kids, it is complicated for me. I am afraid that if I leave, which is what I want to do, that he will retaliate against me by hurting the children. Maybe he won't, but I just don't know and these things happen. I...
    ch1970 ch1970 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 23

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    Still Terrified....

    it is hard to talk about but I want help... When I was 14 years old I met this guy who I instantly fell for. He was 16 at the time. I was a virgin, he wasn't. He cheated on me because I wouldn't have sex with him. But about five months in I gave in. A week later he went to jail...
    babymama16 babymama16 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    During the first few days

    after I left my abuser, I felt so free, so happy. It's been less then a month and I feel like I'm spinning out of control. It hurts all the time. I feel like I'm just doing any thing and everything just to stop the pain.
    PoohRules PoohRules 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2015

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