I Am a Victim of Obsessive Ex-syndrome

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    He's Obsessive

    I dated my ex for one year. On several occasions i wanted to end the relationship with him because his behavior was not normal during different situations. He would continuously beg me to take him back. So i stayed because he would talk and cry to my mother and sister, to make...
    Todayisanewday Todayisanewday
    3 Responses May 4, 2009

    Will My Life Ever Be Mine Again?

    I left my husband for the last time on January 17, 2010 after 7 years together. Five of which were filled with verbal and physical abuse that is still really hard for me to talk about. Why I kept going back to him I'll never understand. The entire last year has been filled with...
    Mollygrilli Mollygrilli
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2011

    Victim Of Obsessive Ex Syndrom- Fighting Back!

    I Married this guy over 14 years ago.  He was the son a a pastor, I thought he was a good person.  It took getting back from our honeymoon to find he was lying to me about different things.  Then it got worse.  He lost his job due to drugs and took a...
    alsoabused alsoabused
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2010

    Do It Ever Ends Obsessive Ex

    My ex repeatedly stalks me when we broke up 3 months ago form being in 18 year verbal abuse relationship. I just wanted OUT! no more abuse. His behavior included watching me,stalking me,criminal damage to my car ,verbal threats.When i tries to ignore him things just get worst.I...
    michellejones0197 michellejones0197
    May 21, 2012

    Only Now Seeing The Light

    i left my ex 2 years ago ...  i knew when i was with him for 10 years that something was not right ...i was not allowed to work .. go out and had lists of chores to do daily!! he would go mad if i did not complete them . behind his back i got a job ... this opened my eyes...
    michix michix
    Nov 17, 2010

    Seems As Though It Will Never End

    I married my EX in 2001 and we were pregnant with our son within a few months. He was very charming then, but by the time I was a few months pregnant he was starting to show his true colors, screaming and calling me names. General talking down to me. I had problems with my...
    zeronyn zeronyn
    36-40, F
    Aug 17, 2011

    My Personal Hell Is Never Ending..

    I am dealing with what I believe to be someone with OES. I have known this man since I was 13 years old, he was 14 at the time and everything was good at that age, we were young so no worries. He started showing signs of this at 15 where if I tried to leave him he would threaten...
    xHisFlawl3ssNightmare xHisFlawl3ssNightmare
    Jan 6, 2012

    Anh Nguyen Has Obsessive Ex Syndrome

    Anh Nguyen was from Boston and recently moved to CA. She refuses to accept the end of the relationship years ago. She is one of those control freaks, hightly sensitive, acting crazily. Track your everything, emails, phone calls, friends. Making up stories, lies. Extremely...
    AnhNguyenBitch AnhNguyenBitch
    Sep 26, 2012

    I Am A Victim Of Obsessive Ex-syndrome

       I am a twenty-nine year old woman with three very beautiful children. A year ago, I met a man on myspace. I guess that was my first mistake. I moved in with him after only knowing him for 3 short weeks. He told me he needed to be closer to me. He began telling me I...
    dahlsha dahlsha
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

    I Fear That He Won't Let Me Go

    I'm feeling hopeless and traumatized. I've been married for 5 years, but separated for 3 years. I asked for a separation because I felt that my husband wasn't contributing to the marriage financially & had been verbally & sometimes phycially abusive (would damage my things...
    JasmineMarie10 JasmineMarie10
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2011

    Obsessive Ex Has Not Ended Yet

    He wouldn't stop and wouldn't let me go. He has an obsession that he ignore other people's instructions or does not follow instructions.He has series of charges or trials ahead, however, one day I want to lobby on the hill to emphasize obsessive ex syndrome should be recognized...
    koopman koopman
    1 Response Feb 22, 2011

    Being Stalked...still...after 10 Years

     Even though it may have been selfish and wrong on my part, I married my ex husband when I was 18 to get away from my overcontrolling dominating mother. It didn't take me long to realize I made a mistake on whom I chose to marry. He was 30 and I was 18. Right away he didn't...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98
    31-35, F
    Oct 21, 2009

    4 Kids That I Can't Even See

    I got married at the age of 19 because I was pregnant.  The father of my child was only 17.  Within 2 years, I was pregnant with our second child, two years later, #3 and #4 came four years after that.  My husband was always yelling at me, accusing me of...
    Blonette Blonette
    36-40, F
    Sep 9, 2009
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