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I Am a Victim of Verbal Abuse

Discussion groups for women who are verbally and emotionally abused by their spouse 1,352 People

    I Let A Monster Sink Its Fangs In Me,i Left Him But He Still Abuses Me - They say f you are in abusive relationship you should leave if there is no way of making things better.I...
    Flolin Flolin 36-40 6 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Verbally Abused And Not Liking It! - Right now I am at my wits end about my husband's abusive behaviour. He was like this ever since I met him. When he asked me to marry him, I...
    klegall klegall 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2011

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    SHHHHH!!! - If you speak when you are ANGERY you will make the greatest speech you will ever REGRET.
    dranbear dranbear 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    I think I am. I would like to know what you think. Here's my story... For as long as I can remember me and my dad have fought. He has a very bad temper. These are some of the...
    Seekingknowledgeforlater Seekingknowledgeforlater 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    Verbal Abuse - i am sick and tired of the verbal abuse. i cant think, laugh, enjoy life. i know that i have to leave this person. i feel that this person is the devil himself. i...
    ire66 ire66 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    Hi I am a new member and being verbally abused by my husband. I am locked up (not literally) in a foreign country, controlled in every way and my self-esteem is minus 10000. I am...
    Smartina Smartina 36-40, F Mar 15

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    If you are question why you feel the way you do and feel you're also a victim of verbal abuse maybe this link will help http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/verbal-abuse...
    calllmecoco calllmecoco 16-17, F Mar 7

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    My Parents Don't Love Me. - The title says it all. They verbally fight me and eachother. I have never heard them say I love you to me.
    Ami73 Ami73 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    For years now my stepdad has been rude to me. He calls me stupid every chance he gets and I have a 90% average. He says I'm even though I weigh 120 pounds. he calls me ugly and...
    lilypod68 lilypod68 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    My dad and I had an argument again.. nothing new. I wouldn't even consider it abuse anymore because now I fight back but the fact that after more than 15 years I still have to deal...
    korilakkuma korilakkuma 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    My mom calls me names and always say I never do anything right and that it is better if I was born a dog, is that verbal abuse or? I don't know I try not to let it et to me but I...
    lilay98 lilay98 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I Don't Know, But.. - I don't really "belong" in this group....but I can share my own story, a little bit...I have never been married, that is a whole story in itself...
    stigmafree stigmafree 31-35 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Is A Monster. - We met at the tattoo shop he worked at 2 years ago. He is 9 years older than me, which at first i thought was great because he was mature but that didn...
    swimorsink swimorsink 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    My dad Verbally abuses my mom, sisters and I. He calls me names. And makes me feel like i'm going insane. I used to self harm and he would make fun of me for it. He hurts me...
    LillyBailey LillyBailey 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I Am A Man And A Victim Of Verbal Abuse - When i was a teen - 1963 to 1970 approximately - my father and mother ( both immigrants, like myself ) would taunt me verbally, cause they...
    Elieli Elieli 56-60, M Jan 7, 2010

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    Women - all,y life i have been put down by women..women are complete savages.when i was in school they called me names for no reason and then again when i "thought" all of them was...
    irongrenadier irongrenadier 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    My relationship with my husband started off on a bad note. I was a 21 year old virgin who held tight to ideals of falling in love and living happily ever after. My spouse, a drug...
    endlessdreamer09 endlessdreamer09 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Over Eater - i try live up to the expectations of a lot of people i always fail for atleast one including myself i am seventeen and 275 pounds i am bigger than my mom and my dad...
    ittalianbaby2013 ittalianbaby2013 16-17 1 Response Jan 15, 2012

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    I can't yell back.- One of the perks of being voiceless is I can scream in your face when you yell at me. I can never get through to people. The only way I can is by sign language...
    VoicelessAngel VoicelessAngel 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    I work as a promo model. (Live Image for several brands) My boyfriend has said that getting paid to show my looks is not right. Literally call me a slu* when I told him i was going...
    Lorenasanlo Lorenasanlo 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    Men In My Life - when i lived in south africa my grandmother came to visit from england.  she came twice before she died, once when i was about 9 and once when i was about 15...
    TheFunHasGone TheFunHasGone 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    18 Years.... - I am free now, its been just over a year since i left. Best feeling ever to be without him, but it sure hurts to look back. The hardest part of looking back is...
    marleyjayne marleyjayne 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    My Husband Verbally Abuses Me But Makes Me Feel That Its All My Imagination. - i dont kno what to do.
    amzaa amzaa 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2011

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    My Day Starts Here - Tuesday June 19, 2012 Today I went to my first womens support group for abused women and I came home feeling really good about committing myself to this group...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    I'm verbally abused by my own father ever since I was at the age of 10. Abused by him, his girlfriend and his girlfriends daughter. I am screamed at constantly, told I'm worthless...
    TrichKid TrichKid 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2013

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    I have been once verbera abuse is just as worse as physical
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    Each day I analyze my situation and ask myself, what is going on in my marriage? Is this abuse? Do I stay or do I go? I am 33 years old and now a mother of three. I feel like...
    Meriposa1980 Meriposa1980 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 8

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    Si - My mom had a boyfriend, whom which moved in with us, and lived with us for years.. I was abused verbally, mentally, and physically. He molested my sister, I saw it happening...
    xScreamOfTheButterflyx xScreamOfTheButterflyx 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 22, 2009

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    Just Now Recognizing Verbal And Emotional Abuse In Our Marriage Of 15 Years - I hardly know where to start. I am in my forties, and married almost 15 years. Shortly after my DH...
    teacherlymom teacherlymom 41-45 2 Responses May 17, 2012

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    Is This Abuse? - Normally i wouldnt do anything like this but I feel like i need to ask and share this. On a regular day me and my partner of only 9 months or fine but ever since i...
    AJW1995 AJW1995 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    I met my fiance when i was 17, im 21 now. We got engaged 3 years ago. I got pregnant 3-4 months after we got together. Had our son when i was just about to turn 18. For as long as...
    lace000 lace000 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    So Sad - I am 45 and have been verbally abused from child hood from my father till toda from my husbad of20 years. I have been physically abused off and on for the 20 yearswith...
    hopeliss hopeliss 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    Like He Doesn't Even Care Or Remember!!! - I can't even begin to remember how or why! I use to smile all of the time but now it is gone!! I don't even know which way to go and...
    far0down far0down 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    Mom - My mom has always been verbally abusive. It never ends. I know it could be worse, and she could be physically abusive. Honestly, I'd rather be beaten.. In my opinion...
    JustCammy JustCammy 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    It Just Never Was Enough! -   It was never enough, I had been in circle with the same man for over 4 years. I was the bread winner of the partnership  and I could...
    Blessedtobetostressed Blessedtobetostressed 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 19, 2010

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    Where can i start ? A person whom i always was inspired by and looked up to degraded me in the worst way possible . That person is my mother , constantly picking fights and...
    jezebelx jezebelx 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    Want Out! - I've been married 10 years to a verbally abusive man. It sucks. I have 2 kids and don't want this for them. I am scared to leave for so mnay reasons, all of them...
    chadanna chadanna 41-45, F 12 Responses Jun 2, 2009

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    The Scars You Can't See - I think that verbal and emotional abuse is the worst kind. If someone beat you up, you will heal, your wounds will dissapair, but when someone says...
    NotAllScarsCanBeSeen NotAllScarsCanBeSeen 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Another Day Another Rampage - So today, my husband was getting ready for hockey and asked when i was planning to take the drapes to hem. We've had them for a while but we have had...
    trixie21 trixie21 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    I HATE MY MOTHER - It is only fair to let you all know that I dropped out of college after one year and started abusing drugs at the age of 19 and continued to do so until...
    Resentfulgirl Resentfulgirl 31-35 2 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    Verbal Abuse Vs. Normal Marital Conflict? - I have only been married to my husband for 1.5 years and together almost 3 years. I don't know if my husband is emotionally abusive but...
    toddlermommy toddlermommy 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    After my engagement, she showed her true character and face, She got so rude and vent her anger that i had tears in my eyes on my birthday. She pushed me back and got out of the...
    ionezation ionezation 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Am Confused - I ve been in a rocky relationship for two years now. On n off again Ot started of great. I felt i met the love of my Life ..then things begsn to change I have a lot...
    gurlnexdoor11 gurlnexdoor11 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Destructive - My father is a very destructive man. Anything he sees that does not go the way he likes, he destroys it. He destroyed my childhood, for one. He would always yell at...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    Black Or White? - does complexion really matter? i do not know. . . school life has been a nightmare for me. taunts, comments, jokes on my color got on my nerves... i am glad that...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    I Would Like To Immigrate To Australia - I would like to immigrate to Australia , I am not happy where I live. I would like more personal information cause the web site doesn't...
    Caridad17 Caridad17 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    My husband's family lives overseas. He has just returned from visiting them it's been a week. Everyday of this week has been like living in a minefield. Never knowing what will set...
    beckybex beckybex 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    my mom and stepdad hurt me with there words all the time
    popstardiva popstardiva 13-15 Mar 15

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    As a closeted teenage boy I often have trouble communicating with my parents. I was raised by my mother because my father was the bread winner of the house. When I was 8 they...
    Megamac2000 Megamac2000 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    Abuse - I share those feelings of not ever being good enough. When I was little I was abused and now I just got out of an abusive relationship with a man who abused and...
    lucky26 lucky26 26-30, F 9 Responses May 18, 2009

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    Trying To Keep Strong To Ensure I Don't Let My Emotionally And Verbally Abusive Husband Wheedle Back In - I have been living with my husband for almost 11 years and Ive recently...
    Fluffie63 Fluffie63 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2013

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    When I Was a Kid........ - ~ It was REALLY bad. I'm an adult now, so it isn't as nasty. I'm still called names, & picked on, but it's mostly myself doing it. =[ I kept...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Mar 21, 2009