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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    yeah, till now I've never been on a actual

    relationship! I've never been on a date, never kissed someone, of course no s3x!( and I'm not interested to do something like that!) wen I was young, many girls fell for me! but I wasn't matured enough to understand and be in a relationship but now, I want a relationship, but I...
    priyadharshan0 priyadharshan0 13-15, M a week ago

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I'm one of those people

    who will graduate high school as a virgin. Is it wrong? No. I just don't feel the need to risk becoming pregnant and inheriting many diseases over popularity. If rather live a happy life, but I don't necessarily mean becoming the next 40 year old virgin.
    DepressedTeensRus DepressedTeensRus 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 15

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    They say virgins are one of a kind,

    hard to find and generally pure. I will admit I am a virgin but pure? I have been having these urges and believe me when I say; it is not pure. I've always been in control of these urges but it sometimes can be too much. Can anyone out there relate? Have you been having urges...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 13

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    I'm a virgin because I'm way too scared about

    how painful my first time is gonna be.......
    boredasfuck666 boredasfuck666 16-17, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 9 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Why do people get so shocked

    when you say you're a virgin? I haven't had sex, I'm not a nun or eunuch, I just am waiting for the right person.
    Lovelife090994 Lovelife090994 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I'm a virgin because I'm a Christian.

    And also because losing your virginity is not only physical, Its emotional also. I would rather not have to deal with losing it and be used like a doorknob; Versus keeping it and spending it on someone who will love and cherish me.
    Jesus177 Jesus177 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 39 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Yesterday I had this girl talking to me.

    She said her age is 14 and I replied saying, "oh? Wow you are young :)" Then she told me she is young but experienced. She flat out replied back again saying, "I'm not a virgin." Lol and as if I am so amazed that a 14 year old girl can have sex with a man? I got a bit...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    priyadharshan0 priyadharshan0 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    my mom is yelling at me bc i ate all the

    cherries................i was just trying to get back my virginity.
    uhkenz uhkenz 13-15, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 15 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Going to be 22 soon and still a virgin.

    ..iam an indian so its no biggie here,,,its considered a taboo here to loose virginity before getting married.Majority of them loose it only after getting married. After watching lots of american and european movies sometimes do i wish i was born in the us or some european...
    Camouflage Camouflage 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know that most people in my age-group aren't

    virgins, and have had at least a couple of relationships at least verging on serious, but I just haven't found anyone important enough for anything like a serious relationship, let alone marriage! For me, I want to wait. I would like the man I love enough to marry to be the...
    YuEvans YuEvans 18-21, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    he I'm saving my self

    for my true love so I'm so happy that I'm still a virgiin.
    jacobnipper jacobnipper 13-15 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 38 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    i'm virgin and i will be untill get married

    and i will be only for one girl in my life and forever
    samson1990 samson1990 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    furdayz furdayz 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    ForeverAnnoyed ForeverAnnoyed 18-21, F 19 Responses May 8, 2014

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 18 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I am a virgin. I've never had any sexual

    contact whatsoever apart from self pleasuring. I just believe in waiting for the right person. The right person does not necessarily mean the person I will marry and spend forever with. Life is more complicated and the elusive "one" does not exist. I am simply waiting for...
    nelby710 nelby710 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    Well I'm 16 and still a virgin.

    Never even kissed a guy. There are times when I wonder if I'm honestly so ugly that guys don't want to get near me. But I'm still happy that I didn't just give it away to anyone.
    WrittingLetters WrittingLetters 16-17, F 21 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    I am a secondary virgin

    and I am proud to be one. I wouldn't change a single thing about my life. Not for anyone other than myself. I'm just perfect. Perfectly me. :)
    AlphaBloodMoon AlphaBloodMoon 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 45 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 23 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I tried to give my virginity to someone I love.

    But it was so terrifying and long-awaited that I couldn't do it. Not only was it physically unbearable and excruciatingly painful, but it also felt like my heart was exploding and it brought me to tears. I didn't do it. I am almost 20 years old and have been in several long term...
    Dreamerrrrrrr Dreamerrrrrrr 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 14

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    yes I am one, yes I want to lose it

    but marriage isn't really my goal...based on my luck I don't think it will happen for me...so if I find someone special to lose it to then awesome :P
    Eli7563 Eli7563 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well i didnt mean to be lol.

    I planned on giving up my v-card initially at the start of highschool. But one thing lead to another and i ended up with no one to be passionate with. Once i found that person, they wanted to wait til marriage. I have a little over a year of highschool left and i think i can...
    Xychorite Xychorite 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 12 Responses May 18, 2014

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    When people ask me how many girls I've been with

    and I tell them none. The look on their faces is priceless. They be like, "you're kidding! no way!" lol
    citysquare citysquare 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 32 Responses Jan 9

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    Ever since I was 14 I knew I was gay.

    Being where I am from gay people were always seen in a negative light. So therefore I began a journey of self hatred. I hated myself for being different and began to use food in a way for comfort and punishment. I would eat to comfort myself and sometimes gorge so much I would...
    tormentedinternally tormentedinternally 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    My first girlfriend told me she had a bad habit

    of quickly sleeping with men and regretting it. To her the act of sex changed everything. So I always convinced her we should wait, I wanted to put it off until I felt confident we could overcome any awkwardness it might cause for her. However after three years we never reached...
    EtherealNomad EtherealNomad 22-25, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    It's not that I couldn't have sex.

    I was a captain on the football team sheesh. It's just I wanted it to be with the right person. And truthfully while I was at homecoming and prom with the "popular" group, I wasn't looking at the girls I was with. I was looking at their moms. Is it just me or are older women...
    tylerlawson20 tylerlawson20 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I'm proud to be one just means I'm saving it

    for someone worth my while.
    sonicthefathog11 sonicthefathog11 18-21, M a week ago

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    I'm waiting till marriage.

    That is a door I don't want to open before marriage. It comes with waaaaaaaaay too many issues, demons and problems. -Not waiting on God to send you someone special ( I'm a Christian ) -STD's -Unplanned Pregnancy -Hurt and Pain i.e. You give your virginity to someone and they...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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      And I plan on staying

    that way till marriage
    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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