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I Am a Virgin

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 19

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    Virgins unite, body pillows

    and left hands ftw. Dont lie lmfao
    CURRYXBLAZE CURRYXBLAZE 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I'm a virgin by choice

    and I don't feel impatient to do it. Hell, the most intimate thing I have done is hug.
    Bl0ndie234 Bl0ndie234 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    Thirty five and still no sex !

    !! But I got pizza. Oooooooo
    biguglyswampmonster biguglyswampmonster 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 3

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    From a young age, I liked girls

    and wanted a girlfriend, not necessarily for sex, but to be emotionally connected to someone and to be there for them as much as they were there for me. For the first 16 years of my life, it seemed to me that almost no girls found me attractive, and if they did, they obviously...
    FD2014 FD2014 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    What's the hurry guys?

    ! Keep your innocence and enjoy it while you can!
    lailase lailase 16-17, F 10 Responses May 20

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    I'm a Virgin, but when im ready ,

    I want to lose it to a guy who knows what he's doing . But I don't want to lose it to just any random guy who can give it to me , I want to lose it to a guy who loves and cares for me and who I love . <3
    Haii6130 Haii6130 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a virgin. I've never had any sexual

    contact whatsoever apart from self pleasuring. I just believe in waiting for the right person. The right person does not necessarily mean the person I will marry and spend forever with. Life is more complicated and the elusive "one" does not exist. I am simply waiting for...
    nelby710 nelby710 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 26 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 34 Responses Mar 16

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    i feel so attached to my date

    when i know that shes a virgin
    wheniwasurman wheniwasurman 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    Live in asian country

    where sex is prohibited and not so open . Parents are very strict and do not tolerate any underage sex. Asian tiger mum that make me so shelled like a tortoise
    asianahyang96 asianahyang96 16-17, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 16-17, F 13 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I believe you can have sex

    when your in love. I'm a virgin because I haven't found that perfect guy to love. I thought I did once, sometimes I can't stop thinking about him, but it's clearly insanity from my past. I dream he understood, but like I said insanity from the past.
    KWsuperstar KWsuperstar 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    It's by choice. Not because I can't get anybody,

    but because giving myself to someone means more then just ******* them for pleasure. It means love, sex means getting lost into someone so lost into them you know their feelings and thoughts without even having to ask them.
    Viccigee Viccigee 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm waiting till marriage to share my

    once in a lifetime gift with the man I love. Virgins are becoming rarer everyday. I'm proud and unashamed to be a virgin. I think of it like this: If the supply of sex decreases and the demand remains unchanged, then virginity becomes higher in worth and low in quantity. I value...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 17

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    i don't understand why people are in

    such a rush to have sex.
    pricilagudi pricilagudi 16-17, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    I thought someday I'm gonna marry the girl I

    love and experience sex with her... Now that I lost her... I guess I'm not even going to experience sex..
    FullTimeAloneBoy FullTimeAloneBoy 18-21, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm giving myself until the age of 30 to manage

    to have my first (romantic) kiss and lose my virginity. A little less than 6 years seems like a while but it's very nearly 6 years since I was actually hugged by a girl. That makes me feel that I'm being ambitious. Nothing like a challenge, though!
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 4 Responses Sep 5

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    I have NEVER colored my hair!

    !! Therefore I have virgin hair= I'm a virgin!!!
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 28

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    I am 19 and a virgin.

    I don't see a real big deal in losing my virginity, and I just choose not to have sex. I may have had a few female encounters but I really haven't ever done anything with a guy besides the childhood kindergarden kiss stage. Other than that I have never had any sexual contact...
    AriosaRuby AriosaRuby 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm 16, in my class over half of them are not

    virgins, I can think of 13 people that still own their virginity, me included, I've also never had my first kiss anything, but I don't understand what the rush is for everyone, like , I get it , a lot if guys won't even talk to you if they know that they aren't going to get any...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 8 Responses Jul 1

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    Remember: no one dies a virgin.

    Life ***** us all.
    thinkofonelater thinkofonelater 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    colombiankim colombiankim 18-21, F 12 Responses May 8

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    I'm not a conservative person

    and I did tried,but I'm still a virgin. There were opportunities,but each time I failed
    Allyanqi Allyanqi 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I am 27 and live in Michigan

    and am still a virgin, yes I am but willing to lose it soon and with a smart and funny woman
    Gunnera87 Gunnera87 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 53 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I am virgin but want a sweet sexy girlfriend in

    my bed to do lots of forplay and love
    Kamranrauf69 Kamranrauf69 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 147 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I am 17 female no real religious ties

    but it just haven't happened yet. I'm really curious though. I haven't even ***********. I've always been interested and curious. Watched ****, gone on chat sites. Heck I even role played but I haven't brought my self to an ******. Anyone wanna talk
    alohacruz alohacruz 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 3

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    I don't know what's up with my generation

    but losing your virginity , to me atleast, isn't really anything to flaunt. I turn 17 soon and I really don't give a **** that I'm a virgin. Now don't get me wrong, I lust and get horny but I don't see losing it as a prize. If I lose it, I lose it. Nothing more nothing less.
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've found out I have learned to m*sturbate the

    "Prone" way, which is the wrong way. As a result, I don't enjoy sex. there's no physical joy in it so I can't even get hard long enough to fake it. It's a chain reaction. I've had plenty of chances to score. I have no problems getting opportunities - but it's pointless. Getting...
    Lacruzel Lacruzel 26-30, M 1 Response 7 mins ago

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 11 Responses May 18

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 201 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin boy,

    I'm not bothered but sometimes I think that I'm part of a species that will soon become extinct!
    Swilletts11 Swilletts11 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    It's not a big deal. But people assume I've had

    sex. It's not that I'm against sex or anything just haven't had the right guy or chance.
    CeeAirAHH CeeAirAHH 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 28

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Well I'm 18 and still a virgin

    and definitely not ready yet to lose my virginity, though I enjoy getting turned on but still
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 21

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 23

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 46 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    painisbeautyispain painisbeautyispain 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm a virgin and I'm dont care what anyone says,

    I will never willingly lose it to someone who I don't believe deserves it. Sure at times I think it would be easier to just get it over and done with, out of the way. But I know I could never forgive myself for losing it to someone who doesn't care and is only in it for the sex...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 12 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm a virgin, not a nun,

    talking about sex won't corrupt me lol. I don't know why so many people see a problem with being a virgin. We were all virgins once.
    Lovelife090994 Lovelife090994 18-21, M Aug 28

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 21 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 16 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    FattyAndLovingMyself FattyAndLovingMyself 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    If it ever comes up in conversation like the

    other day with my friend ray. I'm always upfront about it. And then comes the shock face and the judgement. " how old are you again?" Yes, I'm 23. I think it's sad that virgins and non-virgins get shamed. You really can't win. And the saddest part, are girls who think being a...
    23starinthesky 23starinthesky 22-25, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am 18 and have never had sex with a guy.

    I am not sure why, I am not really waiting for that "Special someone". I have just never really felt "I wanna sleep with him :P" Except Liam Neeson Haha. Is it weird that I am a virgin at 18? And my friends dont really agree with what I should do, some say I should have it and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Aug 29

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    I don't think people are educated enough about

    sex. that causes people to get curious making them experiment and want sex more. there are some people who know a good amount and still wait and they are the ones that were raised right and taught things the right way. I was interested in sex when I was very very young and...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm old fashioned, I want to be with someone

    who is passionate, loyal, committed and faithful and the relationship to be strong and have a lot of trust and no secrets and maybe wait until marriage??
    MusicIsMyTherapy101 MusicIsMyTherapy101 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 20

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    Just yesterday, I was walking to school with

    two girls. I wasn't really "with" them, so much as a tag along just because I can't bring myself to say I would rather walk on my own. Anyway, they started talking about séx. I said nothing, just walked. They mentioned their first times and said all sorts about it, things I...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 21 Responses