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I Am a Virgin

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 139 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 27 Responses Jan 9

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    I want to give my virginty to someone

    who loves me and cares for me but for now im gonna stay a virgin ..clean and fresh is the name of the game here ladies lol but yea ..I made a joke saying I don't wanna get all stretched out just yet lol jk I won't have sex that much tho
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 12 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I'm a virgin and proud of it.

    While most girls my age are raising kids,I'm studying so I can get a good job.
    kristykums kristykums 18-21, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a virgin but my boyfriend isn't.

    I assumed he was a virgin so I never asked until he told me the other day. I'm kinda disappointed in way because I thought that we would both be each other's first if we had sex in the future (I want to wait at least a year).
    alicebelle alicebelle 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 21

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    i just don't know what's happening

    but sexual forces , thoughts are becoming almost not possible to handle ...I feel so ashamed about it ...23 & still virgin ..Never even kissed any girl ..Girls are so strong & i admire them for how they control themselves ...
    Eshan29 Eshan29 22-25 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    what does sex feel like?

    does it get worse or better after you do it a lot?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I've done everything,

    except for sex. I'm scared.
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 13-15, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I'm not going to lie to you guys.

    I'm not the girl that says "Well, I'm a virgin, because I'm saving myself for marriage". I said that in the past because I was ashamed and wanted an excuse. Not saying that it's a bad thing, but for my case, it was a lie. I'm 23 and have yet to be kissed. I've never had one of...
    RoxannaM RoxannaM 22-25, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    A 25 yrs old male from Egypt .

    still virgin as usual . because Im not married yet ... Im obsessed with plus size girls . Big breasts make me crazy .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 23

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 43 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 26 Responses Jan 24

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    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jun 21

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 28 Responses Jan 3

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    I am a virgin. I don't have any sexual

    experience. It makes some people laughed at me. They thought what kind of girl am i. Sometimes i wonder what is like to have sex, but i am going to wait until i find the right man to marry me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 22

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    What happened to people treasuring their

    virginity for THE one ?? I don't know if people just lack patience or love ?.... ur virginity was supposed to be something very important, now even 15 year olds are having sex! what's up with that!? I'm even scared that my even my 7yrs old sister is going to grow up thinking...
    Lihlya Lihlya 16-17, F 34 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 14

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I am 19, male, and a virgin.

    I used to mind being a virgin back in high school, but now that I'm a little older I'm glad I still have it. I think I'm going to wait until I find someone I really care about. I still jerk it of course since it's only natural, and of course I want to screw everything that moves...
    owf684 owf684 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 22

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    user869543 user869543 13-15, F 18 Responses Jun 11

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    I can't afford to be sexually reckless.

    There are sexually transmitted diseases for one, then there's the emotional impact sex can have on you and I'm already an emotional person. Then there's the possibility of conceiving. Some people even believe that sex binds you to the person you were intimate with. Basically you...
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 19

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    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage 22-25, F 18 Responses Apr 1

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    Someone actually told me that

    if I don't push for sex in a relationship, I'm not a real man. Seriously?
    Thalassophobic Thalassophobic 18-21, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a virgin I have no sexual experience

    and have never kissed or dated, although I am 55 which is rare to be a virgin and unheard of in some quarters I am public about my virginity and if people wish to know I more than happy to tell them I am a virgin. Women have said as far as sex is concerned I wouldn't know what...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 64 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    And I am saving myself

    for marriage for that special person who will cherish me, love me unconditionally, and stay by my side. I'm nervous and yet looking really forward to when that special day comes between me and my husband. He will be very lucky since We'll probably be like rabbits since I would...
    UsagiSnow UsagiSnow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    I always had passing thoughts of embarrassment

    but I've never felt ashamed that I'm a virgin. I'm not exactly waiting for marriage but I am waiting for a guy who is worthy. It is what it is! I do wonder what it will be like though and want it to happen.
    chel93 chel93 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    GrayDipper GrayDipper 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    junglegirl72 junglegirl72 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 40 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 24 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    So yeah, I'm 26 and still have my v card.

    Reasons? As a really hugely introspective person, I had to work on myself first. I had to also get rid of friends what were manipulative and actually cared about my well being. I needed to have actual healthy human relationships. I also had to work through my parents' divorce...
    sassyannabanana sassyannabanana 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 21 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 35 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    dragonrider11 dragonrider11 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Has anyone ever told you "you don't look like a

    virgin!" Being. sexually active doesn't have a look sillies!
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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