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I Am a Virgin

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 8,284 People

    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 27 Responses Jan 3

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    JamesB20 JamesB20 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Well I think that I will be a virgin forever,

    I feel like ************ is just as good. I'm perfectly fine with doing that all my life! I also have a part of my brain that wants to walk up to a girl I like but then another part tells me not to and that I'm not good enough for them. It's something that I honestly can't...
    MilitaryHistoryNerd94 MilitaryHistoryNerd94 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    It's very difficult being a virgin in today's

    world. Most things you see in social medias always have sexual innuendos attached to them. I used to be so ashamed of my virginity which pressured me to open an account on a dating website so that i could lose it. I had a couple of dates with weirdos that only saw me as a sex...
    ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique 22-25, F 29 Responses Aug 20

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    Im A Horny Virgin! :(

    I'm a virgin by choice not due to religious reasons or anything mosly do to trust issues And fear.I really truly just want to trust and love the person I have sex with for the first time.I'm ok with being a virgin but one big problem that I Have is that I'm ALWAYS HORNY! LOL it...
    kat511 kat511 22-25, F 26 Responses Jun 27, 2013

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 42 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 26 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Being A Virgin - Why Sex Before Marriage Is Wrong

    I’m 25 and live in London, Friends tell me I’m pretty. I value my femininity and usually wear skirts rather than trousers. But I’m not really religious, although I go to church occasionally. But I’m totally convinced that sex before marriage is wrong, especially for girls...
    carolyn25 carolyn25 22-25, F 26 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I've been a nudist for almost a year now.

    I've even had a nudist boyfriend. This baffles some people when I say that I'm a virgin.
    Newlifeouttashell Newlifeouttashell 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 51 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 26 Responses Feb 9

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 39 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 139 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Despite people's surprise I'm actually very

    proud to be a virgin. I've nearly been with my boyfriend for two years, and I'm genuinely excited to have such an amazing and memorable night with him in our future. There is no nervousness on my behalf, because it's him I'll be with. I can hardly wait to share everything. :)
    Bobbiin Bobbiin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage 22-25, F 15 Responses Apr 1

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    I'm happy but unhappy about it at the same time.

    CONFLICTED. I think I'm saving myself for someone special, but I'm only 19 so I can wait longer.
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    franchisleo franchisleo 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm 21 years old still a virgin.

    . But lately the urges to have sex Have been strong Af !!! But I told myself I would wait until I got married of found that right one not just for me but for God as well and if You don't believe please no rude comments thanks
    NicoleLovex20 NicoleLovex20 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Well...I'm gonna have to leave this group now.

    Boyfriend and I lazed around in bed all day watching movies. At one point we took a shower together. After the shower, as we dried off in front of the mirror he stood behind me & kept kissing my neck. His hands met my chest with a gentle grip and I felt his excitement against...
    Newlifeouttashell Newlifeouttashell 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    I wanna lose my virginity

    as soon as possible with a more experimented person who would teach me everything about sex.
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Jul 27

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 26 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    EvoKinevil EvoKinevil 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 26

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    Sometimes I feel embarrassed

    that I am still a virgin at 23. But then I think, "that's okay, I want it to be with the right person, not some random person".
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91 22-25, F 19 Responses Aug 2

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    I am a virgin I am 55

    which is rare and have never dated kissed and have no sexual experience which is probably unique. I am now enjoying my virginity more than ever and find it empowering giving me total freedom, as for sex no thanks.
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 35 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    I'm still a virgin.. But I have gotten my boobs

    sucked on and gotten eaten out before... No I don't think I'm ready to give it up yet.... Oh yeah and also suck a ****
    Lovethat207 Lovethat207 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I am a virgin and I'm proud of it.

    virginity is the best gift for your partner.. husband and wife to be exact. Materialistic people will argue about this. lol. I am and will be until I get married. I'll follow what God said. Call me cheesy or something, but I'm saving myself for someone worthy. My own forever...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    Okay Definetly not a virgin

    but was when I got married back in 1999 with my first husband so I can relate. Anyway I want to give all of you's kudos. It's an awesome thing to wait. Don't let anyone pressure. It'll be worth it when you find your true love. God bless
    NotperfectEver NotperfectEver 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I am a virgin and believe in waiting

    until I'm married. That being said, I'm getting married in April to the man of my dreams who was well worth the wait. It's not like I didn't have opportunities in the past. It's just that it didn't feel right. I think waiting is worth it. Here's why. -Sex becomes more than...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    First off, I would like to present the fact

    that I've been to this website time and time again and each time I come back, I tell of being a virgin but the story of the reason changes. I feel like sex with others is overrated. I don't NEED a man in my life to make me feel complete. There are ways to be satisfied doing...
    jboddika jboddika 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I've seen some really great

    and comforting stories in this experience. It's really nice to see other people feeling the same way as I do: proud to be a virgin, or in the least, just comfortable with it. Everyone in the world is so eager, it seems, to get rid of their virginity--some at APPALLINGLY young...
    lollibrat lollibrat 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 12

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    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 2

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    jackryan1 jackryan1 18-21, M 10 Responses Aug 2

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 41 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    The idea that I'm still a virgin is strange to

    me. I don't know why that is, sometimes I feel like I went wrong somewhere. As I get older, (Im 23) I realize that it's okay for me to be at a different place in my life. There's nothing wrong with me still being a virgin and never having a relationship. But it seems as though...
    creaturefromanothertime creaturefromanothertime 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    I am a virgin and proud of it.

    And I can't understand some who easily give their virginity for one night stand.I will give my life to only whom I really love because something that can't get easily is precious and i wanna give it to the right one :)
    TakeAwayThePain TakeAwayThePain 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 63 Responses Aug 11, 2007