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I Am a Virgin

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I've been seeing this guy

    for a while now and I really like him but he has been asking about sex and I'm still a virgin. I told him I wanted to wait until we were in a relationship because we aren't official yet.. And it's causing a lot of tension between the two of us and its making me feel very...
    emilyj22 emilyj22 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 42 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a true virgin. No hand holding,

    kiss, or any sexual contact with a guy ever at the age of 18. I am a college freshman that is going to a big party school, and I don't drink (never have), or smoke. I basically have all of the traits of a nun. Am I proud of it? Maybe, but sometimes I wonder if its really...
    ils11 ils11 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 18 Responses Oct 29

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    I don't know if Im still a virgin

    because of being raped
    cattie1283 cattie1283 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 10

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    Asexual. I would prefer getting intimate with a

    lot of people, but never having intercourse.
    TheFarmerAsACorpse TheFarmerAsACorpse 18-21, T 3 Responses Dec 11

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    Pretty confused, excited though.

    I don't know how to react on this, my Brain says its not a big deal, while my heart says it is!
    teenboyAddy teenboyAddy 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 12 Responses May 18

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    And have been told I can't have children

    because my disablity is so bad.
    Rebelscorpio Rebelscorpio 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    1492Savagery 1492Savagery 13-15, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 8 Responses Nov 2

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Joeysbigdick34556 Joeysbigdick34556 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'm 18 and a virgin. I feel accomplished

    because I graduated HS without falling into the temptation of being sexually active. It was hard sometimes but my fear of getting pregnant at a young age was stronger. Plus I know my parents expect more out of me so it would make me feel horrible to know I let them down.
    aquikay aquikay 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 46 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    itsjustwhoiam itsjustwhoiam 16-17, F 19 Responses Dec 7

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    I just turned 24 yesterday.

    I am not ashamed to say I am still a virgin. I will admit the last couple or three years I have felt it was definitely time for me to take that step in my life and be sexually active but looking back on it it was probably for the best I haven't yet. I have dated and been in a...
    ChristianKekoa90 ChristianKekoa90 22-25, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm almost 18 and a virgin

    and actually I'm like 100 percent ok with it. but u knu the thingie is I don't like how being a virgin automatically makes u "pure" or anything!! I dot like stereotypes and by tht I also mean positive stereotypes becuz of they r positive 4 u they r negative 4 someone else and I...
    mynameisismyname mynameisismyname 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5

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    Joeysbigfeet34577 Joeysbigfeet34577 16-17, M Dec 9

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 53 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I'm surprised when people tell me

    that they are surprised I am. With the side of me they have seen, they expected me to have had sex already.
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I am 19 and plan to stay a virgin

    until I get married. I don't plan to get married until I'm finished with my studies, have a great steady career, and I'm fully ready to start a family. If I do my calculations, I'll most likely be 24/25. I do not currently have a boyfriend, but if I am going to meet the right...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Yesterday I had this girl talking to me.

    She said her age is 14 and I replied saying, "oh? Wow you are young :)" Then she told me she is young but experienced. She flat out replied back again saying, "I'm not a virgin." Lol and as if I am so amazed that a 14 year old girl can have sex with a man? I got a bit...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 9

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 141 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Sex.. Sex.. Sex.. What am I missing out on?

    Is it overrated or is it really that good?
    Adam352 Adam352 18-21, M 7 Responses Dec 9

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    ExpendablesWarrior ExpendablesWarrior 22-25, M 13 Responses Nov 8

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26

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    I'm innocent and pure.

    I'm 20, but if I'm going to do it with someone it will be someone I love.
    TransmutedHeart TransmutedHeart 18-21, F Dec 9

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Wow you lost your virginity *consensually* at

    14? That's quite an achievement, please continue to brag like I give a ****. Rant complete.
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 9

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 18-21, F 41 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    ColombianKimberly ColombianKimberly 18-21, F 16 Responses May 8

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 25 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Hi everyone i'm new to this

    so im a 23 yrs old virgin not by choice but by not finding the right person.I guess its because I never ve anyone the chance to get that close tbecause I was waiting for mr right. But I grew up now and know their is nothing as a perfect guy.I know i'm beautiful but sometimes I...
    narrissa23 narrissa23 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 11

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 19

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    If it ever comes up in conversation like the

    other day with my friend ray. I'm always upfront about it. And then comes the shock face and the judgement. " how old are you again?" Yes, I'm 23. I think it's sad that virgins and non-virgins get shamed. You really can't win. And the saddest part, are girls who think being a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Sep 11

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 191 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Joeysbigdick34556 Joeysbigdick34556 16-17, M Dec 7

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    Joeysexyass34566 Joeysexyass34566 16-17, M Dec 10

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Well I been with my girlfriend

    and it felt like forever but the thing is that, she think it's about time to have a intercourse. I mean there's one part saying "Be a virgin forever" and the other "You only live once just do it" I mean I love her and she understands but I'm in a situation that I'm sexual...
    TheDesireToDance TheDesireToDance 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 11

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 8

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 18 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    Being a girl with a lot of trust issues is

    really hard. Particularly harder when it comes to love, sex and partners (is there really a difference between them?). I'm a 20 year old girl... Been on a fair amount of dates, made a few connections, but I can't seem to get past that! I guess from witnessing friends/family...
    ALittleBadAssey ALittleBadAssey 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 26 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23

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    I am 20, and i am Virgin

    and very proud to be so
    spankeegirl1 spankeegirl1 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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