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I Am a Virgin

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    jamesb22 jamesb22 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I don't mind losing it.

    There is one time that I almost lost it to my ex in 10th grade.
    whatupdoc54 whatupdoc54 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Why do people get so shocked

    when you say you're a virgin? I haven't had sex, I'm not a nun or eunuch, I just am waiting for the right person.
    Lovelife090994 Lovelife090994 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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      And I plan on staying

    that way till marriage
    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Sort of. Haha. I mean,

    I love making out but not that thing.
    NadineIsBi NadineIsBi 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 12 Responses May 18, 2014

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 21 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 32 Responses Jan 9

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 140 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Yesterday I had this girl talking to me.

    She said her age is 14 and I replied saying, "oh? Wow you are young :)" Then she told me she is young but experienced. She flat out replied back again saying, "I'm not a virgin." Lol and as if I am so amazed that a 14 year old girl can have sex with a man? I got a bit...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 45 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    he I'm saving my self

    for my true love so I'm so happy that I'm still a virgiin.
    jacobnipper jacobnipper 13-15 1 Response Jan 19

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 15 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    My first girlfriend told me she had a bad habit

    of quickly sleeping with men and regretting it. To her the act of sex changed everything. So I always convinced her we should wait, I wanted to put it off until I felt confident we could overcome any awkwardness it might cause for her. However after three years we never reached...
    EtherealNomad EtherealNomad 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    I'm a virgin because I'm a Christian.

    And also because losing your virginity is not only physical, Its emotional also. I would rather not have to deal with losing it and be used like a doorknob; Versus keeping it and spending it on someone who will love and cherish me.
    Jesus177 Jesus177 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 19

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I'm 29 years old and I not afraid to say

    that I'm still a virgin but by choice because I just recently had met someone who I thought would be the one but he like very other guy ended up disappointing me, I guess it was God's way of saving me for someone better and worthy that will love me unconditionally for who I am...
    Marlenyfl83 Marlenyfl83 26-30, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend is 5 years older

    than me but he is extremely handsome and every time I see him I want to make love. I know I wouldn't be happy and neither would others in my life, how do I prevent something beautiful from turning into something I'll regret?
    JayHarr JayHarr 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 3

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    benzbahaa benzbahaa 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Well I'm 16 and still a virgin.

    Never even kissed a guy. There are times when I wonder if I'm honestly so ugly that guys don't want to get near me. But I'm still happy that I didn't just give it away to anyone.
    WrittingLetters WrittingLetters 16-17, F 22 Responses 5 days ago

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    TheDesireToDance TheDesireToDance 22-25, F 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    Not that i act like it

    but i am haha
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 37 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yep I'm a 20 year old virgin.

    Not uncommon, I never found anyone it felt right with Hell I've only been with one person in my life, anyone else like me?
    LukeShaggyJones LukeShaggyJones 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    yes I am one, yes I want to lose it

    but marriage isn't really my goal...based on my luck I don't think it will happen for me...so if I find someone special to lose it to then awesome :P
    Eli7563 Eli7563 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I'm 16, and usually to some people it's the age

    where most people lose their virginity. Wrong, well mostly. I know people my age or who were my age that lost their virginity, and I use to worry about being the last one. But honestly I'm glad I haven't had sex yet, I'm still very indifferent about relationships and being with...
    glomilk glomilk 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 23 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 36 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Being a Virgin is a bit like being Marmite you

    either like it or hate it. People often view items in shop windows that they would like to own but know they will never be able to afford and this is one reason I am a virgin. Coming to terms with my virginity has made me realize I will never be the owner of that expensive item...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 1 Response a week ago

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 19 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I know that most people in my age-group aren't

    virgins, and have had at least a couple of relationships at least verging on serious, but I just haven't found anyone important enough for anything like a serious relationship, let alone marriage! For me, I want to wait. I would like the man I love enough to marry to be the...
    YuEvans YuEvans 18-21, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 41 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I am a virgin. I've never had any sexual

    contact whatsoever apart from self pleasuring. I just believe in waiting for the right person. The right person does not necessarily mean the person I will marry and spend forever with. Life is more complicated and the elusive "one" does not exist. I am simply waiting for...
    nelby710 nelby710 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    And glad. I just.....

    .. do stuff with my hands.
    SwagIsForLosers SwagIsForLosers 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm waiting till marriage.

    That is a door I don't want to open before marriage. It comes with waaaaaaaaay too many issues, demons and problems. -Not waiting on God to send you someone special ( I'm a Christian ) -STD's -Unplanned Pregnancy -Hurt and Pain i.e. You give your virginity to someone and they...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    When people ask me how many girls I've been with

    and I tell them none. The look on their faces is priceless. They be like, "you're kidding! no way!" lol
    citysquare citysquare 22-25, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I got called a virgin.

    . Uh oh, my feelings are officially hurt. On a Serious note, don't know how people to expect that to be offensive.. Why would I be offended by something I have a choice of?
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    i'm virgin and i will be untill get married

    and i will be only for one girl in my life and forever
    samson1990 samson1990 22-25, M 5 days ago