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I Am a Virgin

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    I hate it! But it's true

    and I can't settle for just anyone so I have to wait . I hate waiting >.< -_-.
    moko212 moko212 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I'm a virgin and I'm dont care what anyone says,

    I will never willingly lose it to someone who I don't believe deserves it. Sure at times I think it would be easier to just get it over and done with, out of the way. But I know I could never forgive myself for losing it to someone who doesn't care and is only in it for the sex...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 12 Responses Jun 25

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I feel like being 18

    and a virgin is so rare nowadays. Like I feel like weird but then again y'all are weird I'm not old school I just don't want to be a used up walking down the aisle and that's just my preference. 🎀
    angelicahcah angelicahcah 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 11

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    My friend called me a 'unicorn'

    because I'm still a virgin, and apparently being a virgin makes me some type of rare mythological creature
    rottenroses rottenroses 16-17, F 10 Responses Aug 11

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    I plan to stay a virgin till marriage.

    I don't understand why everyone is in such a rush to lose it..
    majdaaaa majdaaaa 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 11

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    I'm a virgin but last night I had a dream

    really close to sex for the first time and it was sooo good. Is the real thing better?
    tiki18 tiki18 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 19 and still a virgin.

    I like it that way so far. Sex would probably be another added expense in my life that I cant afford
    LadyRubenesque LadyRubenesque 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 19 and still a virgin.

    I do want to try having sex though. But I'm not dating anyone and I don't want to regret it. I want to have my first time with a special person, at least. So I'm a virgin and okay with it actually. I don't rush because I want it to happen spontaneously and naturally.
    pnsrstw pnsrstw 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    I used to think am I the only one?

    Then I start to think is it weird, am I unattractive. But now I see it! There's a positive side in this I have zero chances of getting STD. So if you're gonna show-off about your love life then I don't give a ****! Just get out of my sight :P
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    Wow I didn't expect these many people to be in

    this group but, I'm a buffing to. Don't get pregnant yet young ladies...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I'm a virgin at 20. I was made fun of by a

    former co-worker for it after it somehow came up in conversation. Why is it a bad thing for me to be a virgin at 20? Is it because I'm a guy? Maybe people like my former co-worker consider me "less of a man" for being a virgin at this age, but I want to find the right person...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 7 Responses Aug 12

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    18 and still a virgin!

    Its not like I haven't been tempted but after seeing what my friends went through. I want my first time to be with someone I love. And also the fact that im scared lol
    Gabbysthename Gabbysthename 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Never really understood what the big rush was

    to lose it. Sometimes depresses me but I think that some people put too much into getting rid of it as fast as possible. Which then causes everyone else to think they have to lose it so they 'fit in'.
    Acitar Acitar 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 11

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    emjagrace emjagrace 13-15, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    am proud to say am a virgin

    and not muther fu ck er is gonna push me into having sex i have a promise ring also :) virgins out there stand strong and has any body been watching virgin teritory spelling- but its a good show :) its on vh1 or mtv . cant remember but yea stand strong!
    meme1123 meme1123 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 1

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    I am 22 year old Virgin

    and I been made fun of and been betting up for it but at the end of the day I want to wait till am with some one I feel like I will spend my life with and am not doing the no sex be for marriage just want to feel like I be with this girl my hole life
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I want to wait until marriage.

    I also believe that it will be more special and have more importance to experience it with someone you love. Some of the other people that are my age are worried about things that they should not rush. I have a purity ring that I wear. It's always wierd explaining it to people...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 23

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    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    miz0217 miz0217 18-21, M 7 Responses Aug 12

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 18-21, F 42 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 151 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 16-17, F 13 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well I'm 18 and still a virgin

    and definitely not ready yet to lose my virginity, though I enjoy getting turned on but still
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm a virgin and I'm proud of it.

    My virginity is reserved for the one person I will give my all to when I get married. Until then I will do whatever it takes to preserve it.
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 30

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    I hate being a virgin.

    Its the biggest turn off to girls chicks don't date the non badboy virgin.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 9 Responses Aug 12

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    i just found out that my little baby boy is

    still a virgin *** boy. never been touch, never been kiss but totally damaged.
    sexymommy2014 sexymommy2014 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I new I have to do this

    because I now in my heart I am a virgin I have had a lot of girls only using me as a cash cow I don't want sex and I have been hurt so much girls some real crazy ones but I never had that love feeling from them so I am vary happy because I am a rare breed of man that cares a lot...
    pod911 pod911 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    People keep telling me to save it

    for that special girl but i don't see the point. Why should i save for a girl when she will more than likely have had sex with 10+ guys.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin.

    I've never kissed anyone. I've not even hugged a member of the opposite sex (not including family members). Don't get me wrong. I'm not prude, nor do I plan on waiting until I'm married. I just don't want to have physical contact with anyone unless I consider them very special...
    bornand4gotten bornand4gotten 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 10

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 53 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I'm waiting till marriage to share my

    once in a lifetime gift with the man I love. Virgins are becoming rarer everyday. I'm proud and unashamed to be a virgin. I think of it like this: If the supply of sex decreases and the demand remains unchanged, then virginity becomes higher in worth and low in quantity. I value...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 17

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    Call me traditional, old-fashioned,

    or whatever; I am a virgin of choice. Don't get me wrong here. I'm not the type of girl to wait until marriage, I am just waiting for the right person to lose my virginity to. First experiences should be good experiences, right? And why not do it with someone you truly have...
    huoqiu huoqiu 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 25

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 21 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 31 Responses Mar 16

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    I'm 18, and I have only wanted to **** one

    person in my life. I have a sex drive, but I'm not attracted to the people I know. The one person I did want to sleep with said he couldn't because he lives far away and doesn't want to hurt me. We've known each other since we were twelve, we've always had a slight interest in...
    godvvave godvvave 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 46 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Nobody dies a virgin

    because in the end life ***** us all.
    Krystal666 Krystal666 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm old fashioned, I want to be with someone

    who is passionate, loyal, committed and faithful and the relationship to be strong and have a lot of trust and no secrets and maybe wait until marriage??
    MusicIsMyTherapy101 MusicIsMyTherapy101 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 20

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    I'm 16, in my class over half of them are not

    virgins, I can think of 13 people that still own their virginity, me included, I've also never had my first kiss anything, but I don't understand what the rush is for everyone, like , I get it , a lot if guys won't even talk to you if they know that they aren't going to get any...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 1

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 11 Responses May 18

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 195 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 49 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Most of the time I am proud to be a virgin

    but for the other part of the time I seem to feel very down about it. I feel like no one truly understands how it is to be a virgin in your 20s. I don't have anybody in my life that I can talk to that is a virgin. The older I get the harder it is for me to be a virgin. I'm...
    Bitterrsweet Bitterrsweet 18-21, F 10 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I'm a virgin by choice

    and I don't feel impatient to do it. Hell, the most intimate thing I have done is hug.
    Bl0ndie234 Bl0ndie234 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    What's the hurry guys?

    ! Keep your innocence and enjoy it while you can!
    lailase lailase 16-17, F 10 Responses May 20

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    colombiankim colombiankim 18-21, F 10 Responses May 8

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 16 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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