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    my mom is yelling at me bc i ate all the

    cherries................i was just trying to get back my virginity.
    uhkenz uhkenz 13-15, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    When people ask me how many girls I've been with

    and I tell them none. The look on their faces is priceless. They be like, "you're kidding! no way!" lol
    citysquare citysquare 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    ForeverAnnoyed ForeverAnnoyed 18-21, F 19 Responses May 8, 2014

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    Being a Virgin is a bit like being Marmite you

    either like it or hate it. People often view items in shop windows that they would like to own but know they will never be able to afford and this is one reason I am a virgin. Coming to terms with my virginity has made me realize I will never be the owner of that expensive item...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am a virgin. I've never had any sexual

    contact whatsoever apart from self pleasuring. I just believe in waiting for the right person. The right person does not necessarily mean the person I will marry and spend forever with. Life is more complicated and the elusive "one" does not exist. I am simply waiting for...
    nelby710 nelby710 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    I am a secondary virgin

    and I am proud to be one. I wouldn't change a single thing about my life. Not for anyone other than myself. I'm just perfect. Perfectly me. :)
    AlphaBloodMoon AlphaBloodMoon 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 31 Responses Jan 3

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    I know that most people in my age-group aren't

    virgins, and have had at least a couple of relationships at least verging on serious, but I just haven't found anyone important enough for anything like a serious relationship, let alone marriage! For me, I want to wait. I would like the man I love enough to marry to be the...
    YuEvans YuEvans 18-21, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    yes I am one, yes I want to lose it

    but marriage isn't really my goal...based on my luck I don't think it will happen for me...so if I find someone special to lose it to then awesome :P
    Eli7563 Eli7563 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm a virgin because I'm way too scared about

    how painful my first time is gonna be.......
    boredasfuck666 boredasfuck666 16-17, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    yeah, till now I've never been on a actual

    relationship! I've never been on a date, never kissed someone, of course no s3x!( and I'm not interested to do something like that!) wen I was young, many girls fell for me! but I wasn't matured enough to understand and be in a relationship but now, I want a relationship, but I...
    priyadharshan0 priyadharshan0 13-15, M a week ago

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    Not that i act like it

    but i am haha
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Why do people get so shocked

    when you say you're a virgin? I haven't had sex, I'm not a nun or eunuch, I just am waiting for the right person.
    Lovelife090994 Lovelife090994 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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      And I plan on staying

    that way till marriage
    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well I'm 16 and still a virgin.

    Never even kissed a guy. There are times when I wonder if I'm honestly so ugly that guys don't want to get near me. But I'm still happy that I didn't just give it away to anyone.
    WrittingLetters WrittingLetters 16-17, F 22 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yesterday I had this girl talking to me.

    She said her age is 14 and I replied saying, "oh? Wow you are young :)" Then she told me she is young but experienced. She flat out replied back again saying, "I'm not a virgin." Lol and as if I am so amazed that a 14 year old girl can have sex with a man? I got a bit...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    mollypopp mollypopp 13-15, F 1 Response 39 mins ago

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    he I'm saving my self

    for my true love so I'm so happy that I'm still a virgiin.
    jacobnipper jacobnipper 13-15 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's not that I couldn't have sex.

    I was a captain on the football team sheesh. It's just I wanted it to be with the right person. And truthfully while I was at homecoming and prom with the "popular" group, I wasn't looking at the girls I was with. I was looking at their moms. Is it just me or are older women...
    tylerlawson20 tylerlawson20 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I'm a virgin because I'm a Christian.

    And also because losing your virginity is not only physical, Its emotional also. I would rather not have to deal with losing it and be used like a doorknob; Versus keeping it and spending it on someone who will love and cherish me.
    Jesus177 Jesus177 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 39 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm waiting till marriage.

    That is a door I don't want to open before marriage. It comes with waaaaaaaaay too many issues, demons and problems. -Not waiting on God to send you someone special ( I'm a Christian ) -STD's -Unplanned Pregnancy -Hurt and Pain i.e. You give your virginity to someone and they...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 15 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    They say virgins are one of a kind,

    hard to find and generally pure. I will admit I am a virgin but pure? I have been having these urges and believe me when I say; it is not pure. I've always been in control of these urges but it sometimes can be too much. Can anyone out there relate? Have you been having urges...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 13

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 140 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    furdayz furdayz 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 39 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 21 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Going to be 22 soon and still a virgin.

    ..iam an indian so its no biggie here,,,its considered a taboo here to loose virginity before getting married.Majority of them loose it only after getting married. After watching lots of american and european movies sometimes do i wish i was born in the us or some european...
    Camouflage Camouflage 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 41 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    I'm proud to be one just means I'm saving it

    for someone worth my while.
    sonicthefathog11 sonicthefathog11 18-21, M a week ago

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 12 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I am a virgin who's attracted to

    both males and females. I honestly think I've been a virgin for this long because I couldn't figure out my sexuality. Also, for myself, I want my first time to be with someone that I actually love. As I get older I realize that I can't love until I start loving myself. Virginity...
    SkyStormClouds SkyStormClouds 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 9 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 32 Responses Jan 9

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    i'm virgin and i will be untill get married

    and i will be only for one girl in my life and forever
    samson1990 samson1990 22-25, M 15 hrs ago

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 18 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I tried to give my virginity to someone I love.

    But it was so terrifying and long-awaited that I couldn't do it. Not only was it physically unbearable and excruciatingly painful, but it also felt like my heart was exploding and it brought me to tears. I didn't do it. I am almost 20 years old and have been in several long term...
    Dreamerrrrrrr Dreamerrrrrrr 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 14

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    I'm one of those people

    who will graduate high school as a virgin. Is it wrong? No. I just don't feel the need to risk becoming pregnant and inheriting many diseases over popularity. If rather live a happy life, but I don't necessarily mean becoming the next 40 year old virgin.
    DepressedTeensRus DepressedTeensRus 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 15

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 45 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    priyadharshan0 priyadharshan0 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    And glad. I just.....

    .. do stuff with my hands.
    SwagIsForLosers SwagIsForLosers 13-15, M 1 Response