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I Am a Virgin

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 40 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Who wants to help change that?

    Message me please
    1John1990 1John1990 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I'm actually pretty proud to say I'm a virgin.

    To me, this means I didn't do anything wild or crazy, but I'm willing to wait for the one I can be happy being wild and crazy with. Plus, I've avoided STDs all around.
    halfblind79 halfblind79 31-35, M Mar 3

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 21 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Getting sexually frustrated

    when you're a virgin and too scared to have sex is the worst
    tattedariel tattedariel 18-21, F 7 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 12 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    Am a Virgin and a big guy

    but is it bad I want to only sleep with a girl that hardly hand sex or a virgin girl ?
    thebigscottishguy thebigscottishguy 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 4

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    I'm so tight. I've tried fingering myself

    but it won't fit two or more fingers. I've tried different object as I don't have a ***** or vibrator. But nothing seems to work :( I'm just so hot and bothered I don't know what to do :(
    yoursonlyx yoursonlyx 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Back in high school, a girl I knew would always

    tell me I needed to get laid. I once asked her if she was offering. She said she had a boyfriend. I told her that if she's not offering, it shouldn't concern her. I don't understand why she was so worried about it. If I want to wait, that's my business...
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I am a virgin but have had multiple

    opportunities with guys. I am just waiting for the right one. I don't want it to be with the wrong guy and then I feel bad about it later in life. I want it to be with someone special that've have been dating for some time.
    Damien92 Damien92 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 14

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    Nothing wrong with waiting.

    Even though for some reason that's an insult in this day and age.
    masterjai masterjai 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 27 Responses Feb 9

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    Really wanting to wait

    until marriage!
    Foreverme16 Foreverme16 16-17, F 9 Responses Mar 7

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 141 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 36 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 65 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    I would let myself do anything

    that enjoyable. If I did I would have to seriously hurt myself afterwards.
    persononinternet persononinternet 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    21 and I still have my v card.

    I get made fun of when I go to parties or tell people but that's fine by me I'm wait to find the special someone to give it too and have it mean something rather than nothing
    Crackermiller21 Crackermiller21 18-21, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    1John1990 1John1990 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 14

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    I want to give my virginity to a cute girl

    but i live in a small town so i cant find one. i am so lonley
    Amy02 Amy02 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Not ashamed either. :) I've met guys

    who just wanted to date me just to take my V-Card away but I said no and I'm glad I did. I don't think a woman should ever settle for someone who just wants to rack up cards to their deck. I also don't see the rush in wanting to lose it so badly. It will happen when it's...
    XxWolverinaxX XxWolverinaxX 18-21 9 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 22 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 3

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    muse4246 muse4246 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 31 Responses Jan 24

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    FearTheWorl FearTheWorl 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I am a virgin but my boyfriend isn't.

    My boyfriend and I started dating March 7th. He recently just dropped the biggest bomb on me. So he tells me he's not a Virgin and he's had sex not once but twice. I'm a virgin and I don't know how to take this. I'm pretty upset. He sees it as a no big deal but I don't know I...
    Anon2721 Anon2721 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 31 Responses Jan 9

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 44 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    I am a virgin because I want to be a virgin

    and enjoy being a virgin. I am open about my virginity because that is what I am. Women have said as far as sex is concerned I would not know what to do which is true because I am a virgin. My virginity is apparent and people have often known I am a virgin. Is it normal to be a...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 6

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    I was on Facebook when I saw people talking

    about virgins being losers. While I'm not surprised anymore, I still wonder how being a virgin makes someone a loser. I also wonder why people are so worried about other people having sex, and why it's considered prudish to wait.
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Hahaha sooo my friends invited me to play this

    game called have you ever... to make things interesting, all seven of us put in $20 lolz.. They overlooked one tiny little simple detail that would've made a world of difference.. I'm a virgin soooooo you cant keep asking me if i've done sexual things hahahahaha.. their facial...
    Tripp93 Tripp93 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 13