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I Am a Virgin

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    I am a virgin. I've never had any sexual

    contact whatsoever apart from self pleasuring. I just believe in waiting for the right person. The right person does not necessarily mean the person I will marry and spend forever with. Life is more complicated and the elusive "one" does not exist. I am simply waiting for...
    nelby710 nelby710 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 39 Responses Mar 16

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 145 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    kashif112 kashif112 22-25, M Oct 5

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    It's by choice. Not because I can't get anybody,

    but because giving myself to someone means more then just ******* them for pleasure. It means love, sex means getting lost into someone so lost into them you know their feelings and thoughts without even having to ask them.
    Viccigee Viccigee 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 10

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    I'm a virgin and I'm dont care what anyone says,

    I will never willingly lose it to someone who I don't believe deserves it. Sure at times I think it would be easier to just get it over and done with, out of the way. But I know I could never forgive myself for losing it to someone who doesn't care and is only in it for the sex...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 11 Responses Jun 25

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    My body is a temple ,

    so I wait till I am married I have more respect for myself
    Beautybosom33 Beautybosom33 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm a virgin and I'm proud of it.

    My virginity is reserved for the one person I will give my all to when I get married. Until then I will do whatever it takes to preserve it.
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 30

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    am proud to say am a virgin

    and not muther fu ck er is gonna push me into having sex i have a promise ring also :) virgins out there stand strong and has any body been watching virgin teritory spelling- but its a good show :) its on vh1 or mtv . cant remember but yea stand strong!
    meme1123 meme1123 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 1

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    ColombianKimberly ColombianKimberly 18-21, F 14 Responses May 8

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I'm almost 28 and I feel embarrassed some how.

    There's this guy that is interested in me and he is older and I feel that being a virgin at my age will be a turn off some how. Especially since I'm not a virgin for religious reasons nor am I saving myself for marriage. I just want to be with a decent man my first time. I...
    LaCannon LaCannon 26-30, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 16-17, F 13 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I'm glad that I decided to wait

    and not throw myself away. I'm just so grateful to some of the girls on EP who are still virgins in their 20s because they want to wait...thanks for being inspiring role models for someone like me
    justmavis justmavis 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 5

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    slipperyseaserpent slipperyseaserpent 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 5

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    I dunno, I'm not afraid to tell I'm a virgin

    :3 I think nothing is wrong with that. I know lots of people who lost their virginity without marriage espcially those victims of rape and i truly respect you tho i dont tolerate the sexual imorality tho i still respect you. I can wait for the man who is willing to love and...
    etude etude 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    22 single, never dated

    or kissed... Sometimes I feel like an anomaly.
    SkyThunderstorms SkyThunderstorms 22-25, F 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am still a virgin. It is my choice

    and I am not ashamed to admit it. Basically I believe that it is better if I avoid intercourse if I'm not ready to become a parent. Contraception doesn't work 100% of the time. I just don't want to take the risk. It is my choice.
    Mafrici Mafrici 22-25, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 18-21, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    One of the few I know,

    and it sucks.
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 15

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    I'm waiting till marriage to share my

    once in a lifetime gift with the man I love. Virgins are becoming rarer everyday. I'm proud and unashamed to be a virgin. I think of it like this: If the supply of sex decreases and the demand remains unchanged, then virginity becomes higher in worth and low in quantity. I value...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 17

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 200 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I don't see why everyone makes

    such a big deal about it, is it really that bad I don't want sex so young?
    Disqualify Disqualify 13-15, M 4 Responses Oct 15

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 49 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm 16, in my class over half of them are not

    virgins, I can think of 13 people that still own their virginity, me included, I've also never had my first kiss anything, but I don't understand what the rush is for everyone, like , I get it , a lot if guys won't even talk to you if they know that they aren't going to get any...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm 22. A Virgin. Never been kissed

    or dated, so I can't say if I would've ever been tempted to have sex. But I'm waiting to marry before I have it. It's God given and meant for a couple who are married. I hope if I am ever to be in a relationship (I doubt it), I won't be tempted and lose it and regret it...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 23

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    Since when did being a virgin become an insult?

    ? There's nothing wrong with waiting til you're ready
    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17 9 Responses Oct 8

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18

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    If it ever comes up in conversation like the

    other day with my friend ray. I'm always upfront about it. And then comes the shock face and the judgement. " how old are you again?" Yes, I'm 23. I think it's sad that virgins and non-virgins get shamed. You really can't win. And the saddest part, are girls who think being a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Sep 11

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 53 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    Any female into that?

    And I think the main reason is because I have a small penis
    Darkness323 Darkness323 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 16 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    please someone send me a message ,

    I'm in desperate need of answers :'(
    pv6789 pv6789 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 10

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    And I don't care. It's not

    because I love my religion, it's also not because my parents are strict. I just like leaving it that way until such time.
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    It's strange to be a virgin

    for 14 years. I feel special. But I also feel as if I am late if I lose it now
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M 8 Responses Oct 6

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    Tbh, my younger cousins have lost there

    virginity but i've still got mine. I'm 16 for F$#ks sake.
    OHSNAP33 OHSNAP33 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I never knew how virginity seem

    so precious to men. I am a virgin. Kris, my friend, was talking to me about séx. It was just a friendly advice conversation because he's going to an event where there's going to be a lot of "hórny" females for this club. I told him to be safe and not get laid by them because...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 26 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    And I am proud of it.

    I only have one first time and I want it to be with my future husband, who ever that may be.
    EllieMarieM EllieMarieM 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have always loved rejecting guys.

    So yes I"M A VIRGIN. No matter if some people say I'm boring for being a virgin, no matter if they say I'm missing out, no matter if they say I'm asexual, no matter if they say I'm old fashioned, I will always be proud of loving my body and loving myself. I'm a one guy girl. I...
    lilitjust lilitjust 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 20 Responses Jul 5

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    I am a virgin and tick every virgin box .

    I qualify as a virgin in every respect and value my total innocence. I am proud of my unblemished record and intend to retain it. My virginity is transparent and self evident. I enjoy my virgin status and everything it represents. I intend to remain a virgin which shouldn't be...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I really want to meet a nice guy

    and have him come into my be only to find out he's incredible rough
    FrigidApes FrigidApes 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 9

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 20 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Hi guys. It's one of those days again.

    I feel down for still being a virgin. I know it's something special that I still am but I feel so out of place. I don't know anyone that is still a virgin so I have no one I can relate too. Everyone I know lost their virginity at a young age. I don't know how people have sex so...
    Bitterrsweet Bitterrsweet 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Well I'm 18 and still a virgin

    and definitely not ready yet to lose my virginity, though I enjoy getting turned on but still
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 21

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    I guess that in not in a rush ,

    or trying to keep it , I want someone who is going to make a big romantic gesture for me and only me, I don't know what age, but just something that totally blows my mind and makes the whole thing just feel right, like all the planets at aligned and like our hearts are keeping...
    Shlynn17 Shlynn17 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    lovely story from 26 year old - we're not alone

    girls!!!!!! http://www.salon.com/2014/10/06/when_guys_find_out_im_a_virgin/
    romaine1993 romaine1993 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Is it a bad thing that I'm proud to be a virgin?

    lol, I'm 15 and a girl. I really can wait till I find that perfect guy.
    LittleMissLana LittleMissLana 13-15, F 15 Responses Oct 10

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