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I Am a Virgin

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    I'm a virgin and I'm dont care what anyone says,

    I will never willingly lose it to someone who I don't believe deserves it. Sure at times I think it would be easier to just get it over and done with, out of the way. But I know I could never forgive myself for losing it to someone who doesn't care and is only in it for the sex...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 12 Responses Jun 25

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    Like if your a virgin.

    You the real MVP:)
    successhasnoface successhasnoface 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    colombiankim colombiankim 18-21, F 12 Responses May 8

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 18-21, F 42 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 11 Responses May 18

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 191 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 22-25, F 20 Responses Mar 16

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    I don't think it's a bad thing,

    but lately I can't even date guys anymore. It's like I get to know them and and I see that even if I get along with some of them, they're not the one I see my future with, so then I lose interest...Guess I'm just waiting for the right guy. What I don't understand is why my...
    FlorescentBeauty FlorescentBeauty 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Hell yeah i'm a virgin.

    Well i watch a lot of ****, like everyone i have the urge well i think its a little too much for me. But still yeah, i try to flirt it doesn't work out. Either way i haven't had the chance to make a move too! I'm 21 year old virgin! i hope i don't hit it till 40 :P
    Abi936 Abi936 18-21, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 16-17, F 12 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    As i got older, it is

    so hard to preserve my virginity. The thing is although i probably would enjoy sex, i am not ready to have sex yet. I am not ready to think i am losing it to just a guy who come around and would leave me anytime, i felt like he needs to show me that he is worth the pain of the...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 20

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    Call me traditional, old-fashioned,

    or whatever; I am a virgin of choice. Don't get me wrong here. I'm not the type of girl to wait until marriage, I am just waiting for the right person to lose my virginity to. First experiences should be good experiences, right? And why not do it with someone you truly have...
    huoqiu huoqiu 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 25

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    Good afternoon, everyone!

    I was so happy that my original post's reception was very high. So much so that I have decided to create a new post. Please, sit back and read what I have to say. Nothing has really changed over the last few months. I am still the peach that has yet to be plucked; the candle...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    Maybe I'm just old-fashioned

    but I'll be waiting until the right person comes into my life, and so I am a virgin
    LadyMarie123 LadyMarie123 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 20

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    I am going bald and I am

    so young .......my fiancé says maybe that's why I never got a girlfriend
    Phalguni9 Phalguni9 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Why does everybody make a big deal out of it

    and give you a hard time if your a virgin?
    captaindexter captaindexter 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm 16, in my class over half of them are not

    virgins, I can think of 13 people that still own their virginity, me included, I've also never had my first kiss anything, but I don't understand what the rush is for everyone, like , I get it , a lot if guys won't even talk to you if they know that they aren't going to get any...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm a virgin by choice

    and I don't feel impatient to do it. Hell, the most intimate thing I have done is hug.
    Bl0ndie234 Bl0ndie234 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I find the idea of virginity very strange.

    I am 19, and a virgin. For some reason that's a big deal, and I'm treated differently. The idea that society has put into our heads that our sexual experiences are to be counted, compared, and shared is upsetting. I'm all for everyone experiencing sexual pleasure, it's a part of...
    nannknowles nannknowles 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 14

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    I have managed to retain it despite all of the

    persistence of idiots. Thank the LORD. Amen
    schemily03 schemily03 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    What's the hurry guys?

    ! Keep your innocence and enjoy it while you can!
    lailase lailase 16-17, F 10 Responses May 20

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    My body is not a game,

    my body is a treasure !
    Sorayaa Sorayaa 13-15, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 49 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I'm old fashioned, I want to be with someone

    who is passionate, loyal, committed and faithful and the relationship to be strong and have a lot of trust and no secrets and maybe wait until marriage??
    georgiecrouch georgiecrouch 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    I am a virgin at 31 and I don't think it's

    weird at all. Yeah people put a lot of stress on getting rid of your virginity earlier than later, but I don't think it makes me socially awkward or any less cool of a person. I guess it's all about your view of yourself. To me it's not about what people expect me to do. I am...
    simplycomplex82 simplycomplex82 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I feel as though in high school it's hard to

    keep your virginity because you're around so many people who just think its not a big thing. I used to be like that, but I'm glad I changed my mind and am now waiting for someone special to come along. Some of my family and friends don't agree with me, but it's my choice so I'll...
    Gogeta1101 Gogeta1101 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I've seen more nude bodies

    than prostitutes, but Im still a virgin! Im a 23 y.o female Nurse who really just haven't found anyone to chat or talk to in a intimate way. I have a pretty boring life outside of my work environment.
    8Smile8 8Smile8 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    My friends give me beef bc I'm still a virgin .

    They've all lost theirs to guys who aren't in the picture anymore . They act like its a competition and bc they've lost theirs, they're immediately more mature . I don't know , I may be old fashioned, but I want to wait until I find someone I love and who's committed to me...
    jhastme jhastme 18-21, F 18 Responses Jul 11

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 150 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I’m making this post

    because of a discussion that I had with someone on past days… So we were talking about “Losing the Gift”, in other words, losing the virginity… I’m V! He/she is not virgin. That person asked me if I have planned on losing it soon. My answer was “No”. Then that...
    girlwiththecake girlwiththecake 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I am 19 and I am virgin.

    one half of me wants to go loose my virginity to a hooker. the other half pleads with me to wait till I get married. I just don't know what to do anymore. I want to share my gift to the woman I will love one day. any advice?
    DracovNasser DracovNasser 18-21, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 55 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I'm a virgin, but not

    for religious reasons or anything. I just think sex isn't something that you should casually do with a stranger you met at a bar 5 minutes ago. I think it's something you should do with someone you have some emotional attachment to and know well enough that you feel like you can...
    annoyedagnostic annoyedagnostic 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Why is it considered a bad thing

    for a guy to be a virgin? Am I not allowed to wait until I find the right person? Should I have already found the right person by now? Is virginity going to kill me?
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't think that being a virgin means you're

    pure. I can't buy in to that mentality. I don't think having sexual thoughts or having slept with someone makes you impure (assuming those sexual thoughts aren't heinous or illegal or anything). It's great that people wait until they're old enough and ready and everything, but I...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F Jul 17

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 21 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm 21 years old an still a virgin,

    I'm saving myself for marriage, and usually whenever I tell someone that, they think I'm crazy. Also when I was in high school, my friends would always try to get me with a girl, but I kept turning them down.
    Elijahx Elijahx 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 28 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    So yep I'm a 17 year old virgin.

    The farthest I've ever gone had been making out. The only time I ever kissed guys was when we were together except for one time when I had just met this guy and we landed up like hardcore making out lol. So yeah I'm pretty innocent and have no plans to lose it soon. Not...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm a virgin and I'm not to proud about it

    really :( I just wanna get the deed over and done with
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    Now and days it's weird to still be a virgin.

    . What happened to class? It's a shame that ******* a stranger is just another normal thing..
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    Well I'm 18 and still a virgin

    and definitely not ready yet to lose my virginity, though I enjoy getting turned on but still
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 21

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    LittleMiss97 LittleMiss97 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 17

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    I plan to keep it this way till marriage

    and that's a pic of my purity ring
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Phalguni9 Phalguni9 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 47 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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