I Am a Virgin

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    virgin is pure, healthy

    and happy. coitus is easy to cause infection and collapse. poor girl don't hurt self. true love is without desire without sex.
    veganmeditates veganmeditates
    41-45, M
    Mar 17, 2016

    I want to lose my Virignity Do any girls want

    to meet in Old Greenwich Norwalk or Stamford Connecticut?
    JoeyVampire JoeyVampire
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 17, 2016

    virgin is a state of being .

    . Some are saving it for that special someone while some are embarrassed of it , but guys its just a ' state ' .. We are either virgin or are not , but that should not affect our self image/ acceptance
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 24, 2016

    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer
    22-25, F
    61 Responses Aug 11, 2007

    I am over 30 and still a virgin

    and I hate it. I am ridiculed by friends. My life sucks. I'm starting to think that there is no one for me.
    LonelyMan4 LonelyMan4
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    Me: *sitting silently in class* Couple of my

    classmates: *talking 'bout loosing their virginity* Girl: It was a horrible mistake... I wish I hadn't... Me: *slowly puts on MLG sunglasses cuz bro, I still got mine*
    EridianaAndErin EridianaAndErin
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2016
    FreshAirLover FreshAirLover
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2016

    It's very difficult being a virgin in today's

    world. Most things you see in social medias always have sexual innuendos attached to them. I used to be so ashamed of my virginity which pressured me to open an account on a dating website so that i could lose it. I had a couple of dates with weirdos that only saw me as a sex...
    ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique
    22-25, F
    20 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    Being a virgin...I don't know,

    I don't feel proud or anything related about reward. It's not about religion, I'm Agnostic. I was always asexual aromantic, and I'm a free spirit, I usually try my best to do whatever I want in life. I want no sex, so I don't have it.
    Nonotu Nonotu
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 17, 2016

    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage
    22-25, F
    16 Responses Apr 1, 2015

    I'm still a virgin, when I met my girlfriend

    from here in person, we didn't have sex for a number of reason, I didn't feel cool doing it the first time we met, she didn't realize I had condoms so she didn't try and make any push for it (My friend gave them to me, like just in case) also we didn't really have a place to do...
    WhirlwindR WhirlwindR
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2016

    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl
    26-30, F
    33 Responses Jun 16, 2012

    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2
    22-25, F
    38 Responses Jul 21, 2013

    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother
    41-45, F
    35 Responses Jun 15, 2007

    There are so many misconceptions about adult

    virgins in today's society. Like they're all losers or that they're totally inexperienced. I would love some help on an article I'm writing on adult virgins. Message me or post a comment!
    CatisFat CatisFat
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 13, 2016

    Honestly I'm so sick of being a virgin I get

    jealous when I hear people talk about how good is s*x the I more think the more I want it
    deleted deleted
    30 Responses Feb 8, 2016

    Never been F*cked before.

    That's all it means. Don't assume I'm innocent, however. That's a mistake.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 6, 2016
    SwedishDoll SwedishDoll
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe
    18-21, F
    129 Responses Nov 11, 2012

    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92
    22-25, F
    18 Responses Feb 9, 2015
    OldSoulRedux OldSoulRedux
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512
    22-25, F
    39 Responses Oct 8, 2012

    is it weird that I as a 20 year old am still a

    virgin? I've never had a boyfriend in my life, I haven't even kissed someone before. And it's not like it was by choice I've just never been asked out before or anything like that. I'm starting to think more and more that there's just something wrong with me. But then again it's...
    SR1312 SR1312
    22-25, F
    21 Responses Mar 24, 2016

    I was always sort of taught

    that sex was a bad thing. Obviously, I know here are virgins in the world but at 21 I feel like I'm the only one at my age. It doesn't usually bother me but my friends sometimes get uncomfortable like they feel strange talking around me. Eh. Whatever. I think I need to get...
    deleted deleted
    36 Responses Jan 1, 2016

    I have zero shame being one.

    I've had offers since I was like, 12, but I remain a virgin for my own reasons. I've dated other virgins. I've dated non-virgins. I couldn't care less about your state of virginity. It's a personal choice, one I'm perfectly happy with.
    DarkAngel24 DarkAngel24
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Apr 19, 2016

    I am currently a virgin,

    in many senses of the word. I've had a number of boyfriends over the years, and more than one is an ex because of my refusal to become intimate with them. I find it tragic and strange that it's such a big thing for people. Anyway, I'm currently engaged (not long now - 12 days...
    NearlyMrs NearlyMrs
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 23, 2016

    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123
    18-21, M
    23 Responses Sep 4, 2013
    TheMindBlower TheMindBlower
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2016
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2016

    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink
    22-25, F
    25 Responses Nov 5, 2013
    tayylah tayylah
    22-25, F
    35 Responses Dec 15, 2014

    Sometimes I feel embarrassed

    that I am still a virgin at 23. But then I think, "that's okay, I want it to be with the right person, not some random person".
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91
    26-30, F
    16 Responses Aug 2, 2015
    sholdier7 sholdier7
    26-30, M
    Mar 11, 2016

    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Apr 18, 2013

    im a 32 year old virgin myself.

    just very very bad luck finding anyone. just scammers or spam people. I'm in Albuquerque New Mexico at SE height's.
    sweetman9174 sweetman9174
    31-35, M
    Mar 28, 2016

    I'm 18 and a virgin. I know

    if I really wanted to I could easily lose it but I want to save it and it sounds cheesy but I do want it to be with someone I love. I really wanna only have sex with 1 person my entire life. The thing is I expect the same from my partner and with the way things are it seems like...
    KioGenesis KioGenesis
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Mar 24, 2016

    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    deleted deleted
    19 Responses Dec 27, 2014

    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy
    22-25, M
    12 Responses Nov 8, 2014

    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90
    22-25, M
    21 Responses Oct 10, 2012

    Would a guy date a virgin?

    I have no problem being a virgin but some people have mixed feelings about it
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    18 Responses Apr 14, 2016

    Everyone always tells me

    that I should lose my virginity soon... I'm 14 Why would I do that, I'm still so young. A girl told me, "if u don't lose your virginity by sophomore year then you'll be a virgin for life" I know that's not true. People these days are losing their virginity at age 12...
    deleted deleted
    53 Responses Feb 20, 2016
    makemeamommynow makemeamommynow
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2016

    When people think it's weird

    that I'm 17 and still a virgin -_-
    absorbingalpacas absorbingalpacas
    18-21, F
    47 Responses Feb 26, 2016

    When you are a virgin

    and your friends ask you why and you tell them that studies come first and boys are immature till a decent age and they suddenly think you're lesbian.............. SMH!!!!!! Society and its norms! Always have to explain myself... Ughhhh
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    As EPs gonna freeze..

    i thnk gonna die virgin..
    thebluemoon16 thebluemoon16
    18-21, M
    Mar 31, 2016

    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21
    22-25, F
    23 Responses Jan 9, 2015

    It's difficult to talk about this

    but I would like to share as it's important to me. In a previous chapter of my life, I had been dating a girl for over a year and we were both definitely on the precipice of having sex. We thought we in love though, in reality, we were both young and overly idealistic. Anyhow...
    violincaster violincaster
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Mar 19, 2016

    I am a virgin. I have bad anxiety anytime I

    need to perform.. My heart races every time I get close to another player because I don't know what their intentions are. I know there are a lot of other players on the pitch and because of this I don't know if I will ever score. I just don't know if I will ever slot a goal...
    No19virgin No19virgin
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 31, 2016
    sholdier7 sholdier7
    26-30, M
    Mar 17, 2016

    I'm a virgin and proud of it.

    While most girls my age are raising kids,I'm studying so I can get a good job.
    deleted deleted
    11 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage
    22-25, F
    23 Responses Jan 3, 2015

    Yes I am, and I quite like it

    that way. So many people in school are constantly saying "you'll be a virgin for life" or "you're Never going to lose it if you don't go for it soon" but the thing is, there are a number of people in my school who have fallen pregnant and given birth by age 12. That can't be...
    Randompi Randompi
    16-17, F
    8 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    I hope one day to lose my virginity to the man

    who will one day father my children. I know it's old school but that's how I feel.
    OnlyDaughterOf4 OnlyDaughterOf4
    16-17, F
    13 Responses Mar 21, 2016

    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    I am about ready to pop it

    and get it over with ;)
    deleted deleted
    14 Responses Jan 14, 2016

    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer
    41-45, F
    50 Responses Sep 24, 2007

    27 years old and I'm still here!

    Bizarrely, I seem to be less and less bothered by this the older I get... I yearn for the intimacy of a relationship more than anything else.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 20, 2016

    I honestly feel like I've been left behind.

    Because everyone else has lost it.
    Chickennuggets3005 Chickennuggets3005
    22-25, F
    20 Responses Aug 1, 2015

    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    28 Responses Mar 16, 2014

    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Dec 6, 2014
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