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I Am a Virgin

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    And I don't plan on losing it

    for some time. I'm to young to even consider it! There's really no rush.
    TheNameIAlwaysWanted TheNameIAlwaysWanted 16-17, T 6 hrs ago

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    I'm actually pretty proud to say I'm a virgin.

    To me, this means I didn't do anything wild or crazy, but I'm willing to wait for the one I can be happy being wild and crazy with. Plus, I've avoided STDs all around.
    halfblind79 halfblind79 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 21 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 65 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    Yes. Not needed to tell

    but whatever... I'm 27 years old, by the way.
    Starinthedeath Starinthedeath 26-30, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am still a virgin, never had any intimacy.

    I get turned on easily and I'm shy. Sometimes I have these vivid dreams about kissing a girl on the lips and licking her _____ and a wake up with a painful realization that it has never happened before. It tears me up sometimes just thinking about all the years I wasted, all...
    PawPrint07 PawPrint07 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Yes, I admit it! I'm a virgin!

    But I still won't tolerate perverts!
    alphawolfiecub alphawolfiecub 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    So, I just turned 25

    and I'm still a virgin. I want to wait until marriage. I'm starting to wonder if I'll be alone forever, maybe I'm too picky? Is a good christian girl too much to ask for? I've had many chances to lose it, now I'm starting to wonder if I'm doing the right thing.....
    zeroIkaruga zeroIkaruga 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 17

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 44 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Honestly... I'm terrified.

    What if It's not good?? What if my body disgusts him??? What if something goes wrong??? What if....what if... what if?!? What if he hates it?? What if... whatever possible bad thing that could happen??? I just keep thinking about my body. What if my body is just...horrible?? I...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 14 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I found a new web forum

    for people who are waiting till marriage: waitingtillmarriage.org. WTM.org is a community for people who have decided to wait until marriage to have sex.
    creativegal82 creativegal82 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Some lady told me "I'm 49 years old.

    Virgin men are undesirable to me." That's funny. I don't think I ever asked her age, or if she found virgin men desirable. In fact, I never said anything to her.
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 36 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Yes, I'm virgin and I don't mind it

    because I'm so young and I don't need to have sex right now. But I feel like my not going to wait till marriage to have sex but till I find someone who I think I could have sex with I not going to worry about this and I do wonder but how my first time you be. Hopefully it will...
    cutekittycat cutekittycat 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I will never in my life understand

    why people use it as a flaw of sorts. It's pathetic that today's definition of "cool" is sculpted around the perfect Barbie size bodies and being out with different guys every night.
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    I'm 39 and still a virgin,

    I never really cared for intercorse, it disgusts me, I don't want it, I don't get it,I don't need it. I have 3 kids that were artificial insemanation, and I'm happy that way, I hate how people are so rapped up in love making, and all that jazz. Im happy with being a Virgin, and...
    wellsure wellsure 36-40, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 22 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 12 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 14 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    So sick of people acting like it's a bad thing.

    I don't get picked on about anything other then the fact that I'm a virgin. Well guess what people I'm damn proud to be a virgin! It's not that I haven't had the chance it's that I haven't found anyone I really felt I wanted to take that big of a step with. At this point being a...
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 9 Responses Feb 14

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    Paul998 Paul998 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    khaledalqadyy khaledalqadyy 18-21 1 Response Feb 11

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    yes, I'm a virgin. not everyone wants to have s.

    e.x everything that walks, so stop harassing us to feel superior about how much "tail" you get. I mean do you really have nothing better to do? It's not because I can't, it's because I choose not to.
    PorkythePig PorkythePig 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    am still a virgin all my friends brag

    that they got layed and teas me all the time
    jessicalove02 jessicalove02 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    Hi, my name is Joanna!

    I'm 26 years old, and I'm still a virgin! I'm sure that some of you are thinking, "You're pushing 30 and you're still a virgin? How is that possible??!". Well, it all started when I was born... I have just never had sex. I almost did though... when I was going through my...
    joannaher123 joannaher123 26-30 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I don't mind being a virgin.

    Sex has never been on my priority list. The only part about being a virgin I really hate is the fact that I could be used as a virgin sacrifice at any given moment.
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I am...an I'm really starting to feel a bit

    weird about it.I used to be proud an it used to make me feel happy but now I'm a sort o confused. I kind of wanna lose it but then again I'm scared that I may regret it or feel bad about it.
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 140 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Yeah I'm a virgin. I've also never kissed anyone

    and never even had a boyfriend. I'm to ugly and weird for anyone to care about me :(
    MysteriousGirl15 MysteriousGirl15 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 15

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 19 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 35 Responses Jan 24

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    As the Bible tells us we must flee from sexual

    immorality. I respect my body as the Bible teaches.
    RuthT RuthT 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 16

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    I'm 26 and I've passed up plenty of

    opportunities to have sex, thinking it would be best to wait. Lately I feel like I've been missing out and not sure why I've waited. I feel so nervous, why did I ever leave it so long? I think the times right, when I next get the chance
    Harrythelad Harrythelad 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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