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    I am a 56yr old male virgin I have never dated

    or kissed and never had a GF/BF. To me there is no stigma attached to being a virgin and I don't bow to social pressure I am open and public about being a virgin and if people wish to know if I am a virgin I tell the I am a virgin. I am proud to be a virgin and have a clear...
    redvase redvase 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 40 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 30

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Im ashamed of being a virgin!

    ! Need to lose it soon!! I know it's not necessary to lose it but hey!!
    CamSpeeed CamSpeeed 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 14

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 9, 2015

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 22 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I'm a virgin and I have no plan to ever loose

    my virginity I know I'm very young but I don't think I'll ever have the desire to have sex
    JaneRezubian JaneRezubian 13-15, F 14 Responses Jan 16

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    I honestly feel like I've been left behind.

    Because everyone else has lost it.
    Chickennuggets3005 Chickennuggets3005 22-25, F 30 Responses Aug 1, 2015

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    Honestly I'm so sick of being a virgin I get

    jealous when I hear people talk about how good is s*x the I more think the more I want it
    jadagee jadagee 18-21, F 34 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 24 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 22-25, F 17 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    I'm a virgin and proud of it.

    While most girls my age are raising kids,I'm studying so I can get a good job.
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Jul 3, 2015

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    I was always sort of taught

    that sex was a bad thing. Obviously, I know here are virgins in the world but at 21 I feel like I'm the only one at my age. It doesn't usually bother me but my friends sometimes get uncomfortable like they feel strange talking around me. Eh. Whatever. I think I need to get...
    deleted deleted 26-30 49 Responses Jan 1

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 39 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    Sometimes I feel embarrassed

    that I am still a virgin at 23. But then I think, "that's okay, I want it to be with the right person, not some random person".
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91 22-25, F 19 Responses Aug 2, 2015

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    I'm 18 and I'm a virgin.

    Gee I don't know anyone of my age who are still virgins. Is it just me or I'm not alone? It's not that I'm waiting till marriage or I'm ugly,it's just waiting for the right moment probably. Strange?
    deleted deleted 26-30 33 Responses Jan 4

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    I'm tired of being a virgin.

    I'm 23 and I've never had any sort of physical sexual experience. It's like there's some fundamental flaw with my existence that dooms me to being stuck a virgin.
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    I'm just kind of curious about something.

    let's say I had sex when I was 8 and besides for that one time, never had sex again. Don't remember to much, don't even know what happened and so on and so forth. Would it really be lying if I say that I'm a virgin? Not saying it is like that, I'm just curious O.O
    Ichki Ichki 22-25, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 63 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 12 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    19 year old virgin girl.

    Everyone my age lost it ages ago. I feel so alone. I feel so lame.
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 11

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 24 Responses Feb 9, 2015

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    itsme9009 itsme9009 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Yes, a virgin. But not entirely innocent.

    My hands have done a few things but I've never had anything done to me. I'm okay with that. Most situations I've been in have gone pretty awkward.
    BetsyLane BetsyLane 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    I'm 21 and I'm a virgin I'm waiting

    for that girl to come in my life still
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 4

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I'm 34 and people don't believe me

    when I tell them I'm a virgin.
    tinman3099 tinman3099 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 17

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    I am about ready to pop it

    and get it over with ;)
    jadagee jadagee 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 14

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    laulaud laulaud 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 17

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 40 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 27 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I'm 20 now, and I will be a virgin

    when I stand at the altar. I don't care how long it takes, I want to be able to give my husband something absolutely unique and precious and for him to know what I waited especially for him. I'm so grateful to my parents for bringing me up that way.
    AGirlNamedKim AGirlNamedKim 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    And I don't plan on losing

    that to anyone but my girlfriend, one day when we can be together in person.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 20

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    I'm 28 and still a virgin.

    People's judgments, the few I've told over the years, are that it's either so admirable or so pathetic. "There's always prostitutes" and "Are you sure you aren't gay?" I've suffered pretty bad mental health issues over the years. Depression, social anxiety, self-harm, manic...
    Iscarpia87 Iscarpia87 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 35 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    22 and still a virgin.

    I don't see that ever changing lol. :D Before, I was waiting for marriage but apparently my standards are too high. I'm not lowering my standards. If no one can meet them then so be it. I'm also fine with spending the rest of my life alone. I'm not great with keeping friends so...
    Cautionfragile Cautionfragile 22-25 3 Responses Jan 17

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    I've remained one because it's bad enough

    that I love too hard and care too much enough as it is. My big heart has gotten me in trouble with wrong people before. I feel like sex would only make things more difficult and complicated if it wasn't with the right person. I'd only be breaking myself if I did it with a person...
    XxLoveInTheDarkxX XxLoveInTheDarkxX 18-21 4 Responses Jan 1

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 16

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    I lost my virginity at 24,

    on the 22nd December 2014. It didn't magically make my insecurities go away, but it definitely as hell took the edge off. Still kinda new to the whole thing!!"
    Wellzie Wellzie 22-25, M Jan 22

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    And I will remain that way

    for the rest of my life, and even after that. If that's even possible. But whatever, I will end up being the 100-year-old virgin, and I'm fine with that.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999 16-17, M 7 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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