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I Am a Virgin

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    I used to think am I the only one?

    Then I start to think is it weird, am I unattractive. But now I see it! There's a positive side in this I have zero chances of getting STD. So if you're gonna show-off about your love life then I don't give a ****! Just get out of my sight :P
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 13 Responses Aug 20

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    I don't get why everyone's trying to lose their

    virginity. Heck, even 12 year olds are trying to lose it. Why is there such a rush? Do you really love them or is it just lust? Sadly, a lot of people mistake lust for love. I've met a lot of people who lost their virginity. In most cases the guy was just using them. I know you...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 19 and still a virgin.

    I like it that way so far. Sex would probably be another added expense in my life that I cant afford
    LadyRubenesque LadyRubenesque 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 19

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    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 19

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 151 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    colombiankim colombiankim 18-21, F 10 Responses May 8

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 21 Responses Jul 5

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 16-17, F 13 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 19

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    I am 18 and have never had sex with a guy.

    I am not sure why, I am not really waiting for that "Special someone". I have just never really felt "I wanna sleep with him :P" Except Liam Neeson Haha. Is it weird that I am a virgin at 18? And my friends dont really agree with what I should do, some say I should have it and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    emjagrace emjagrace 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 18

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    18 and still a virgin!

    Its not like I haven't been tempted but after seeing what my friends went through. I want my first time to be with someone I love. And also the fact that im scared lol
    Gabbysthename Gabbysthename 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 19

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    Nobody dies a virgin

    because in the end life ***** us all.
    Krystal666 Krystal666 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    People find it surprisng

    but I am. Talk to me on here and I'll come across as flirty, cool and happy but 6 months later you will realise i'm a fat ugly egotistical git haha and that is not really date material :(
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am 27 and live in Michigan

    and am still a virgin, yes I am but willing to lose it soon and with a smart and funny woman
    Gunnera87 Gunnera87 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    What's the hurry guys?

    ! Keep your innocence and enjoy it while you can!
    lailase lailase 16-17, F 10 Responses May 20

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 16 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    I'm a virgin and I want to change that

    so hot guys 15 and up no old guys message be fit plz
    rileyolsen44 rileyolsen44 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    Virgins unite, body pillows

    and left hands ftw. Dont lie lmfao
    CURRYXBLAZE CURRYXBLAZE 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I'm not proud of it. It makes me feel like a

    child. I'm only 17 and I shouldn't care, but.... When the people you love don't love you and **** other people you start to care... I wanna be a man
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm 16, in my class over half of them are not

    virgins, I can think of 13 people that still own their virginity, me included, I've also never had my first kiss anything, but I don't understand what the rush is for everyone, like , I get it , a lot if guys won't even talk to you if they know that they aren't going to get any...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm old fashioned, I want to be with someone

    who is passionate, loyal, committed and faithful and the relationship to be strong and have a lot of trust and no secrets and maybe wait until marriage??
    MusicIsMyTherapy101 MusicIsMyTherapy101 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 20

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    I hate it! But it's true

    and I can't settle for just anyone so I have to wait . I hate waiting >.< -_-.
    moko212 moko212 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 26 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I'm a virgin by choice

    and I don't feel impatient to do it. Hell, the most intimate thing I have done is hug.
    Bl0ndie234 Bl0ndie234 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I have NEVER colored my hair!

    !! Therefore I have virgin hair= I'm a virgin!!!
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a virgin, not a nun,

    talking about sex won't corrupt me lol. I don't know why so many people see a problem with being a virgin. We were all virgins once.
    Lovelife090994 Lovelife090994 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 199 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I want to wait until marriage.

    I also believe that it will be more special and have more importance to experience it with someone you love. Some of the other people that are my age are worried about things that they should not rush. I have a purity ring that I wear. It's always wierd explaining it to people...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm not a conservative person

    and I did tried,but I'm still a virgin. There were opportunities,but each time I failed
    Allyanqi Allyanqi 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's hard for people to believe the fact

    that I've kept my virginity after having a boyfriend for such a long time. We started dating at an early age and me being asexual really doesn't help either. I just don't have a "sex drive" like normal people probably should. He understands that and is respectful of my decisions...
    ThatDarnKatz ThatDarnKatz 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    am proud to say am a virgin

    and not muther fu ck er is gonna push me into having sex i have a promise ring also :) virgins out there stand strong and has any body been watching virgin teritory spelling- but its a good show :) its on vh1 or mtv . cant remember but yea stand strong!
    meme1123 meme1123 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 1

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    Yep :) Parents are too conservative,

    Boys around are too Hot for me, :D Friends, Well i don't have any..... And ME, just giving myself a pleasure once intimacy sinks in, through eating..... :3
    yalalast yalalast 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Yep, that's the honest truth.

    I don't know how to feel about it though. I don't feel bad, no shame at all, I just wonder how future boyfriends will take it. The opportunity has presented itself many times, but I just lost interest because of the person. I am a very sensual person but the guys were total...
    Steffi627 Steffi627 18-21, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 33 Responses Mar 16

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 49 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 46 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I'm waiting till marriage to share my

    once in a lifetime gift with the man I love. Virgins are becoming rarer everyday. I'm proud and unashamed to be a virgin. I think of it like this: If the supply of sex decreases and the demand remains unchanged, then virginity becomes higher in worth and low in quantity. I value...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 17

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 11 Responses May 18

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 20 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Most of the time I am proud to be a virgin

    but for the other part of the time I seem to feel very down about it. I feel like no one truly understands how it is to be a virgin in your 20s. I don't have anybody in my life that I can talk to that is a virgin. The older I get the harder it is for me to be a virgin. I'm...
    Bitterrsweet Bitterrsweet 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 20

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 53 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    Well I'm 18 and still a virgin

    and definitely not ready yet to lose my virginity, though I enjoy getting turned on but still
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 21

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    coleirleee coleirleee 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 18-21, F 41 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    It's not a big deal. But people assume I've had

    sex. It's not that I'm against sex or anything just haven't had the right guy or chance.
    CeeAirAHH CeeAirAHH 13-15, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin boy,

    I'm not bothered but sometimes I think that I'm part of a species that will soon become extinct!
    Swilletts11 Swilletts11 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I new I have to do this

    because I now in my heart I am a virgin I have had a lot of girls only using me as a cash cow I don't want sex and I have been hurt so much girls some real crazy ones but I never had that love feeling from them so I am vary happy because I am a rare breed of man that cares a lot...
    pod911 pod911 18-21, M Aug 20

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    I'm a virgin and I'm dont care what anyone says,

    I will never willingly lose it to someone who I don't believe deserves it. Sure at times I think it would be easier to just get it over and done with, out of the way. But I know I could never forgive myself for losing it to someone who doesn't care and is only in it for the sex...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 12 Responses