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I Am a Virgin

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    I don't mind being a virgin.

    Sex has never been on my priority list. The only part about being a virgin I really hate is the fact that I could be used as a virgin sacrifice at any given moment.
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I found a new web forum

    for people who are waiting till marriage: waitingtillmarriage.org. WTM.org is a community for people who have decided to wait until marriage to have sex.
    creativegal82 creativegal82 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    Paul998 Paul998 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    Yes, I'm virgin and I don't mind it

    because I'm so young and I don't need to have sex right now. But I feel like my not going to wait till marriage to have sex but till I find someone who I think I could have sex with I not going to worry about this and I do wonder but how my first time you be. Hopefully it will...
    cutekittycat cutekittycat 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    if any one would like join a facebook sex

    webcam with me that would be nice
    verino verino 22-25, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 14 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 22 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    Yes. Not needed to tell

    but whatever... I'm 27 years old, by the way.
    Starinthedeath Starinthedeath 26-30, F 8 mins ago

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    I will never in my life understand

    why people use it as a flaw of sorts. It's pathetic that today's definition of "cool" is sculpted around the perfect Barbie size bodies and being out with different guys every night.
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    Honestly... I'm terrified.

    What if It's not good?? What if my body disgusts him??? What if something goes wrong??? What if....what if... what if?!? What if he hates it?? What if... whatever possible bad thing that could happen??? I just keep thinking about my body. What if my body is just...horrible?? I...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    So, I just turned 25

    and I'm still a virgin. I want to wait until marriage. I'm starting to wonder if I'll be alone forever, maybe I'm too picky? Is a good christian girl too much to ask for? I've had many chances to lose it, now I'm starting to wonder if I'm doing the right thing.....
    zeroIkaruga zeroIkaruga 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 17

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 12 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    khaledalqadyy khaledalqadyy 18-21 1 Response Feb 11

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 9

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 140 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    So I really wanted to write my thoughts on me

    being a virgin at 23 and how it's affected my life but I've been having a hard time trying to figure out words to write down so I'm just going to write from the heart I'm been a virgin all my life. It has came up on several occasions when my friends have asked and I said yes...
    JEJ2259 JEJ2259 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 9

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    Is there any reason guys love virgins apart

    from us not having a chance of having a disease?
    boredasfuck666 boredasfuck666 16-17, F 9 Responses Feb 9

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    I am...an I'm really starting to feel a bit

    weird about it.I used to be proud an it used to make me feel happy but now I'm a sort o confused. I kind of wanna lose it but then again I'm scared that I may regret it or feel bad about it.
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    I am nearly 17 and all my friends have lost

    theirs and they keep tell me to go do it but every time I try I panic and back out I dunno what to do any more
    lucy2556 lucy2556 16-17, F 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I am 20 yet to be 21 this May

    and I am still a virgin because I am waiting for the right one. I like the reactions I get when I tell people I am a virgin. LOL! To them it's probably like seeing a rare exotic bird. and when I tell them I am single also, I had a boyfriend...had. *forever alone :(*
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 18

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 21 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    Yesterday I had this girl talking to me.

    She said her age is 14 and I replied saying, "oh? Wow you are young :)" Then she told me she is young but experienced. She flat out replied back again saying, "I'm not a virgin." Lol and as if I am so amazed that a 14 year old girl can have sex with a man? I got a bit...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    I'm hoping to stay a virgin

    for life. I am not interested in physical intimacy and I take pride in being something that is seemingly rare in today's society. I don't see my virginity as a failure, but more as something important to myself as a person.
    Shirogane Shirogane 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Some lady told me "I'm 49 years old.

    Virgin men are undesirable to me." That's funny. I don't think I ever asked her age, or if she found virgin men desirable.
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 8 hrs ago

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    Hi! I know that this might sound a bit stupid &

    you'll probably say that I shouldn't worry about it but I feel quite horrible & down because I turned 16 in November and from my class, only me and 2 girls who both turned 15 in December are virgins! This is out of the girls in my class(year 11) and there are about 9 of us. I'm...
    BiancaFashion98 BiancaFashion98 16-17, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Yes, I admit it! I'm a virgin!

    But I still won't tolerate perverts!
    alphawolfiecub alphawolfiecub 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    yes, I'm a virgin. not everyone wants to have s.

    e.x everything that walks, so stop harassing us to feel superior about how much "tail" you get. I mean do you really have nothing better to do? It's not because I can't, it's because I choose not to.
    PorkythePig PorkythePig 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 32 Responses Jan 3

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 13 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 26 Responses Feb 9

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 44 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I am still a virgin, never had any intimacy.

    I get turned on easily and I'm shy. Sometimes I have these vivid dreams about kissing a girl on the lips and licking her _____ and a wake up with a painful realization that it has never happened before. It tears me up sometimes just thinking about all the years I wasted, all...
    PawPrint07 PawPrint07 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    am still a virgin all my friends brag

    that they got layed and teas me all the time
    jessicalove02 jessicalove02 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 16

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 20 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 19 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 35 Responses Jan 24

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    So sick of people acting like it's a bad thing.

    I don't get picked on about anything other then the fact that I'm a virgin. Well guess what people I'm damn proud to be a virgin! It's not that I haven't had the chance it's that I haven't found anyone I really felt I wanted to take that big of a step with. At this point being a...
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 9 Responses Feb 14

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    I'm 39 and still a virgin,

    I never really cared for intercorse, it disgusts me, I don't want it, I don't get it,I don't need it. I have 3 kids that were artificial insemanation, and I'm happy that way, I hate how people are so rapped up in love making, and all that jazz. Im happy with being a Virgin, and...
    wellsure wellsure 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    How much will it hurt?

    I want to lose it badly but I'm scared I won't get enough pleasure from it.
    littlekitten201 littlekitten201 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    Hi! My name is Alma!!

    Im 14 and yes.... STILL a virgin!!! Which is a rare thing nowadays :/
    almita15 almita15 13-15, F 11 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Micahbreeart Micahbreeart 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago