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I Am a Virgin

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    And I plan to keep it

    that way until marriage.
    DinosaurPie DinosaurPie 16-17, F 5 Responses May 15

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    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 1

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    I'm almost 16 so I feel like being a virgin

    would be normal for my younger age but I find myself being put down around others for not having sexual experiences. I'm young and shouldn't be belittled for not giving it up so easy.
    saavanah saavanah 13-15, F 10 Responses May 19

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    sunzoshi99 sunzoshi99 13-15, F 6 Responses May 9

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Lanese Lanese 26-30, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    Today I had to tell a guy

    who I've been dating for a month that I'm a virgin. Society is so ****** up. Why should I feel ashamed that I'm a virgin?
    Staybeautyfull Staybeautyfull 18-21, F 18 Responses May 18

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I'm a virgin. I'm 16.

    I'm gay. I've had a couple chances to lose my virginity with the same person but backed out both times. The first time I was too scared and the second time I realized it wasn't a love thing it was lust and I don't want to throw my virginity away for lust. I'm like a pure white...
    Nickbailes Nickbailes 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 25 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    sawanch sawanch 22-25, M May 15

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    Sounds weird but I am virgin

    even in my 20's.I am a bit frustated about that.Now a days the thirst to loose is really coming to haunt me but then I don't have a girl friend even : (
    darknight00 darknight00 26-30, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I haven't lost it yet

    and I'm in college. While my friends are out and about hooking up with guys and having fun "exploring", I'm stuck waiting for the "right guy" to come for me, who I don't know even exists. There are times I think I should go and just lose it, but I know I'll be forever resentful...
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 7 Responses May 11

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 28 Responses Jan 3

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I am. So what? I was never really interested,

    never gone through the phase where my hormones were racing. I was too busy trying to stay alive when I was going through puberty, I guess. Also, I never felt like having sex just for the sake of having sex. If I'm going to do it, it's gonna be with someone I love... or at...
    UselessNobody UselessNobody 31-35, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm still a virgin no really i'am still

    technically a virgin my old mans groping stuff don't count
    ChloeValintina ChloeValintina 26-30, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    18 and still a virgin.

    I haven't been in a relationship and never even had a first kiss. I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me at all; some people around me treat it like it's abnormal to have such little experience at my age. I guess it's not really the fact that I haven't been intimate with...
    astateofdisarray astateofdisarray 18-21, F 4 Responses May 10

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    I am a virgin not by choice

    but chance. I just haven't gotten that far with a woman yet. It will happen when it happens.
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 8 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    meanameicallmyself2 meanameicallmyself2 36-40, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    I don't want to be, but

    that doesn't mean I want you to spam me with your fantasies. I want to be with someone I love, not internet trolls.
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 2 Responses May 8

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    One of my good friends got married yesterday

    and I remember at the party she was so nervous to leave to the hotel because it was going to be her first time. I wished her good luck and watched her leave with her husband. I really admire her. I want to wait too. To meet the right man and to give myself to him for the first...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 17

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    Why are so many people proud to be virgins?

    Sex is a natural part of life. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Also, the waiting until marriage reason is complete bullshit. Marriage isn't a sacred covenant. It's a legal contract created by humans. Personally, I wish I wasn't a virgin. I wish I was confident enough to put...
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 6 Responses May 8

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    I'm 18 next month & im still a virgin I wanna

    have sex but girls aren't attracted to me
    parso16 parso16 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 51 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 44 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    OlliePolly OlliePolly 16-17, F 1 Response May 10

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    I'm not into any penetrati0n at all

    for myself, never tried it and don't want to. I wonder if that's going to be awkward to bring up to my future partners? I have time to consider how to bring it up.....
    lolitabrat lolitabrat 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Getting sexually frustrated

    when you're a virgin and too scared to have sex is the worst
    basketspace basketspace 18-21, F 27 Responses Mar 28

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    It's the beer!!! I am 40 years old now Ok,

    it begins when i was 13 when i found out how babies are made.Unlike other kids my age , I started to think differently. Without life there will be no suffering.The course of life is 5ex. If there is no 5ex there is no suffering in the form of life.So I don't want to course...
    madknightt madknightt 36-40, M 2 Responses May 8

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    so...ok then...I'm 19

    and I'm still a virgin. Several reasons really - my parents want me to wait until I get married - I think waiting is right too. I think its romantic that my first time will be with my husband, and if I have to wait until I'm 30 I don't mind - if I'm honest I'm a bit scared of...
    helloitsjayne helloitsjayne 18-21, F 9 Responses May 15

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 139 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I have did it with one person

    and he was horrible it was horrible. I wanted to try it cause I thought it would feel good, only he going pleasure. So I should have waited I was almost a 19 year old virgin but now I'm one in the hole
    Bryona Bryona 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 14

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 22 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Ladies, I think you should read this.

    Better yet, listen to it while reading, video at the bottom...I Will Wait For You by Janette...IKZSo it seemed,that it was cool,for everyone to be in a relationship but me.So I took matters into my own handsand… ended up with him.him, who displayed the characteristics of...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 64 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    I'm 25 and I'm a virgin.

    I choose to wait until marriage mostly because all of the guys that have ever "liked" me or at least pretended to, just wanted sex and when they realized they weren't gonna get that they would run. I've never been in a committed, serious relationship and most people that I tell...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 13

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    Not ashamed of this. It's just something

    that hasn't happened for me yet. I was always really shy and quiet. I went on a few dates in college but on some of them I was pretty awkward. There were a couple times I could have easily had sex (at least touching guys