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I Am a Virgin

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    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Since when did being a virgin become an insult?

    ? There's nothing wrong with waiting til you're ready
    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17 9 Responses Oct 8

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    So hard right now I'm a Virgin in tampa bay

    and really want to change it
    hb1357 hb1357 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11

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    yes so what I'm 22 still a virgin at least it

    will be with the rite one wen we both ready if I ever even get a girlfriend and it will be makeing love not just (that thing called sex) that's lost all meaning to alot of people especially wear I live girls are takeing pregnancy tests before they even take school exams
    Rossthayer Rossthayer 22-25, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am a virgin. I've never had any sexual

    contact whatsoever apart from self pleasuring. I just believe in waiting for the right person. The right person does not necessarily mean the person I will marry and spend forever with. Life is more complicated and the elusive "one" does not exist. I am simply waiting for...
    nelby710 nelby710 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    Landship Landship 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 11

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    Although I was rapped

    as a child, I consider myself still a virgin. I believe in the whole, "they can take what you didn't give them" thing and I've literally done nothing with a boy (or girl, for that matter) at all.
    LittleLexxi21 LittleLexxi21 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am. Im not ashamed of it

    and I definitely want to wait for the right person/till i'm ready but I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin either. Idk. I was going somewhere with this but I forgot.
    n0rthernwind n0rthernwind 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26

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    I'm a virgin and I'm dont care what anyone says,

    I will never willingly lose it to someone who I don't believe deserves it. Sure at times I think it would be easier to just get it over and done with, out of the way. But I know I could never forgive myself for losing it to someone who doesn't care and is only in it for the sex...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 11 Responses Jun 25

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    I am 25 years old and I am a virgin.

    It's never really bothered me being a virgin.
    Rippie Rippie 22-25, M 4 Responses Nov 13

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    And I hate it. Yesterday was my 18th birthday,

    and can't believe I'm still a virgin. Hell, I've never even been kissed - or even held hands with anyone! I feel like a freak... I hate being this way, why can't I find someone to lose this awful burden called virginity? Am I ugly? Unappealing? I wonder why nobody wants me, I...
    Apricity7 Apricity7 16-17, F 20 Responses Nov 8

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 140 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    paleprincess paleprincess 13-15, F 18 Responses Oct 29

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    And I been wanting to change it!

    !! I just have this sexual urge, even if its for something simple or a one time thing.
    ItIsMe69 ItIsMe69 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    SuckMyAwesome SuckMyAwesome 16-17, F 6 Responses Nov 11

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    ye I am im in year 10 .

    ...always funny when u think girls in my younger year are havinh abortions at the age of 12 and 13 frickin disgraceful
    skittay skittay 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 11

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 46 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 18 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    MaggieBlack MaggieBlack 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 20 Responses Jul 5

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    I am a virgin at 55 and have come to terms with

    my virginity by being open and transparent. I have never dated or kissed, the total package. Women say as far as sex is concerned I wouldn't know what to do which is wholly accurate and I am now content to display my virginity, if people wish to know if I am a virgin I am more...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Virginity is a very touchy subject

    but in my honest opinion, when and if you lose it lose it with the one you love, the one that makes your feel comfortable, the guy that makes you smile and laugh, someone who won't make you feel ashamed. If you lose it lose it with pride
    PrincessMarina PrincessMarina 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    I just don't understand how society works.

    . Male Virgin : Loser who can't get laid Girl Virgin : Smart Guy loses virginity : Coolest guy ever Girl loses virginity : Disgusting wh0rre I don't understand
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 8 Responses Oct 28

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    VIRGIN and proud. Not going to be pressured to

    losing it. I'm 19 and I plan on losing it to someone whom I love.
    CamilleStorm CamilleStorm 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've been out of the dating world

    for about a year and a half now and I'm planning to get back in it soon. I'm a virgin and that's something that's important to me, and honestly I would only feel comfortable dating a girl who was also a virgin. How would I need to approach that topic when dating? Just go ahead...
    frustratedinflorida frustratedinflorida 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 189 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm 17. I think I'll wait

    and find the right person who I truly love until I'm married.
    Directioner70 Directioner70 16-17, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 12 Responses May 18

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 18-21, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    am proud to say am a virgin

    and not muther fu ck er is gonna push me into having sex i have a promise ring also :) virgins out there stand strong and has any body been watching virgin teritory spelling- but its a good show :) its on vh1 or mtv . cant remember but yea stand strong!
    meme1123 meme1123 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 1

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    This is a very rare in teenagers these days.

    It's something that I'm very proud of and I love being one. At times though, it hard to be accepted. Seems like peolle treat you different just because you believe in waiting. It's just so easy to fall into the crowd and be sexually active like most people my age these days.I...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    ExpendablesWarrior ExpendablesWarrior 22-25, M 10 Responses Nov 8

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    Well I'm 18 and still a virgin

    and definitely not ready yet to lose my virginity, though I enjoy getting turned on but still
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 21

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 19

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    There nothing to be proud

    or embarrassed about this. Honestly.
    zitanz zitanz 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    so last night I had the chance to lose my

    virginity and I kinda wanted to but I was so nervous that I turned down the opportunity, I don't know if I regret my decision or not, I don't know how I feel about it, it's whatever
    melisss melisss 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    And I'm not ashamed. What is there to be

    ashamed of? Because I haven't done it yet? I'd be ashamed if I did it with someone that I have no feelings for. Sex is so meaningful and intimate and to just throw away your first time with someone who doesn't care about you would break my heart.
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 8

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    Im a virgin and staying

    that way until marriage, it's not to do with religion for me... It's about trust, idk why but I've always thought that I would like to be married first then loose my virginity...
    ImmaUnicornBro ImmaUnicornBro 13-15, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    As my inner voice said.

    They think I'm going to be a virgin forever until I die, just like Isaac Newton XD Meh I don't care! cx If I'm happy and healthy everything is going to be fine c:
    TheDesireToDance TheDesireToDance 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    Fairly recently, I came to the conclusion

    that I should wait until marriage to have sex. I'm not religious so I kind of decided that based on the fact that I am a virgin and I wasn't sure I'd be comfortable dating someone who had already had sex. Since I've joined some online dating sites however, I've kind of realized...
    frustratedinflorida frustratedinflorida 18-21, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 53 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    If it ever comes up in conversation like the

    other day with my friend ray. I'm always upfront about it. And then comes the shock face and the judgement. " how old are you again?" Yes, I'm 23. I think it's sad that virgins and non-virgins get shamed. You really can't win. And the saddest part, are girls who think being a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Sep 11

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