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    I am 19, male, and a virgin.

    I used to mind being a virgin back in high school, but now that I'm a little older I'm glad I still have it. I think I'm going to wait until I find someone I really care about. I still jerk it of course since it's only natural, and of course I want to screw everything that moves...
    owf684 owf684 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 43 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 19

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 27 Responses Feb 9

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    I always had passing thoughts of embarrassment

    but I've never felt ashamed that I'm a virgin. I'm not exactly waiting for marriage but I am waiting for a guy who is worthy. It is what it is! I do wonder what it will be like though and want it to happen.
    chel93 chel93 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 14

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 40 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Someone actually told me that

    if I don't push for sex in a relationship, I'm not a real man. Seriously?
    Thalassophobic Thalassophobic 18-21, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm an 18 year old Virgin

    and am Proud of it! I'm waiting for the right one and don't plan to go with what society, and nowadays people say. I say, virginity is something very important!! Chastity until marriage ^_^
    FlowerLoveQueen FlowerLoveQueen 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I am a virgin but my boyfriend isn't.

    I assumed he was a virgin so I never asked until he told me the other day. I'm kinda disappointed in way because I thought that we would both be each other's first if we had sex in the future (I want to wait at least a year).
    alicebelle alicebelle 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 21

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    what does sex feel like?

    does it get worse or better after you do it a lot?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I'm not going to lie to you guys.

    I'm not the girl that says "Well, I'm a virgin, because I'm saving myself for marriage". I said that in the past because I was ashamed and wanted an excuse. Not saying that it's a bad thing, but for my case, it was a lie. I'm 23 and have yet to be kissed. I've never had one of...
    RoxannaM RoxannaM 22-25, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    So yeah, I'm 26 and still have my v card.

    Reasons? As a really hugely introspective person, I had to work on myself first. I had to also get rid of friends what were manipulative and actually cared about my well being. I needed to have actual healthy human relationships. I also had to work through my parents' divorce...
    sassyannabanana sassyannabanana 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 51 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jun 21

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    dragonrider11 dragonrider11 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 26 Responses Jan 24

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    I am a virgin and probably represent virginity

    at its highest level. I am 55 and have no sexual experience and have never kissed or dated. My virginity is public because it is obvious I will remain a virgin for life and never experience sex. I have spoken to other virgins but none in the same position and have often wondered...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 19

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 64 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Has anyone ever told you "you don't look like a

    virgin!" Being. sexually active doesn't have a look sillies!
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I've done everything,

    except for sex. I'm scared.
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 13-15, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Sometimes I wish I had let my ex take my

    virginity, I want to feel what it feels like to have someone inside me, so desperately, but I know I'd regret it. ❤️ But man I love penis you know? 😂 They are beautiful things, that just feel so right. 🙊 One day. Hopefully that right person comes sooner rather than...
    JacobbShields JacobbShields 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 28 Responses Jan 3

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    And I am saving myself

    for marriage for that special person who will cherish me, love me unconditionally, and stay by my side. I'm nervous and yet looking really forward to when that special day comes between me and my husband. He will be very lucky since We'll probably be like rabbits since I would...
    UsagiSnow UsagiSnow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage 22-25, F 18 Responses Apr 1

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    A 25 yrs old male from Egypt .

    still virgin as usual . because Im not married yet ... Im obsessed with plus size girls . Big breasts make me crazy .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 23

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 35 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 21 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    user869543 user869543 13-15, F 18 Responses Jun 11

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 43 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 27 Responses Jan 9

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    junglegirl72 junglegirl72 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Is sex really that great.

    I am about to be a senior in high school and a lot of my friends say that sex is the greatest thing.
    RonnocNavillus RonnocNavillus 18-21, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    I want to give my virginty to someone

    who loves me and cares for me but for now im gonna stay a virgin ..clean and fresh is the name of the game here ladies lol but yea ..I made a joke saying I don't wanna get all stretched out just yet lol jk I won't have sex that much tho
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 139 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    My girlfriend wants to start messing around

    and I don't know what to do. Can anyone help? Message me
    quanclopes quanclopes 18-21, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    I can't afford to be sexually reckless.

    There are sexually transmitted diseases for one, then there's the emotional impact sex can have on you and I'm already an emotional person. Then there's the possibility of conceiving. Some people even believe that sex binds you to the person you were intimate with. Basically you...
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    What happened to people treasuring their

    virginity for THE one ?? I don't know if people just lack patience or love ?.... ur virginity was supposed to be something very important, now even 15 year olds are having sex! what's up with that!? I'm even scared that my even my 7yrs old sister is going to grow up thinking...