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I Am a Virgin

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    Live in asian country

    where sex is prohibited and not so open . Parents are very strict and do not tolerate any underage sex. Asian tiger mum that make me so shelled like a tortoise
    asianahyang96 asianahyang96 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 11

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 201 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Seventeen and still a virgin.

    I've had many opportunities and I'm always in the mood. I just get super nervous.
    AlyseJay AlyseJay 16-17, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 16 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    I am a 23 year old virgin

    and have no plan to lose it anytime soon. However it isn't by choice, Its because I struggle from social anxiety, and I have trouble talking and approaching people. Even If I wasn't though, I still wouldn't be in any rush to lose it, I have a belief that something like sexual...
    LastChanceSaloon LastChanceSaloon 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 21 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I practice sexuak abstinence

    until marriage :)
    thegiggleatafuneral thegiggleatafuneral 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    FattyAndLovingMyself FattyAndLovingMyself 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I don't think people are educated enough about

    sex. that causes people to get curious making them experiment and want sex more. there are some people who know a good amount and still wait and they are the ones that were raised right and taught things the right way. I was interested in sex when I was very very young and...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 9 Responses May 18

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 21 Responses Jul 5

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    From a young age, I liked girls

    and wanted a girlfriend, not necessarily for sex, but to be emotionally connected to someone and to be there for them as much as they were there for me. For the first 16 years of my life, it seemed to me that almost no girls found me attractive, and if they did, they obviously...
    FD2014 FD2014 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 46 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Just yesterday, I was walking to school with

    two girls. I wasn't really "with" them, so much as a tag along just because I can't bring myself to say I would rather walk on my own. Anyway, they started talking about séx. I said nothing, just walked. They mentioned their first times and said all sorts about it, things I...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 9

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    I'm a virgin and I'm proud of it.

    My virginity is reserved for the one person I will give my all to when I get married. Until then I will do whatever it takes to preserve it.
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 30

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    I've found out I have learned to m*sturbate the

    "Prone" way, which is the wrong way. As a result, I don't enjoy sex. there's no physical joy in it so I can't even get hard long enough to fake it. It's a chain reaction. I've had plenty of chances to score. I have no problems getting opportunities - but it's pointless. Getting...
    LurkerLv99 LurkerLv99 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 53 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 147 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I'm waiting till marriage to share my

    once in a lifetime gift with the man I love. Virgins are becoming rarer everyday. I'm proud and unashamed to be a virgin. I think of it like this: If the supply of sex decreases and the demand remains unchanged, then virginity becomes higher in worth and low in quantity. I value...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 17

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 49 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 18-21, F 41 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    colombiankim colombiankim 18-21, F 12 Responses May 8

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    i feel so attached to my date

    when i know that shes a virgin
    wheniwasurman wheniwasurman 26-30, M Sep 8

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 23

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    Well I'm 18 and still a virgin

    and definitely not ready yet to lose my virginity, though I enjoy getting turned on but still
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 21

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 26 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I am a virgin. I've never had any sexual

    contact whatsoever apart from self pleasuring. I just believe in waiting for the right person. The right person does not necessarily mean the person I will marry and spend forever with. Life is more complicated and the elusive "one" does not exist. I am simply waiting for...
    nelby710 nelby710 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    Virgins unite, body pillows

    and left hands ftw. Dont lie lmfao
    CURRYXBLAZE CURRYXBLAZE 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I'm a Virgin, but when im ready ,

    I want to lose it to a guy who knows what he's doing . But I don't want to lose it to just any random guy who can give it to me , I want to lose it to a guy who loves and cares for me and who I love . <3
    Haii6130 Haii6130 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 10

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    I have never had sexual relations :) It is by

    choice. However im not abstinent. Im just looking for the one person I love that I can be safe with :)
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I'm not a conservative person

    and I did tried,but I'm still a virgin. There were opportunities,but each time I failed
    Allyanqi Allyanqi 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I believe you can have sex

    when your in love. I'm a virgin because I haven't found that perfect guy to love. I thought I did once, sometimes I can't stop thinking about him, but it's clearly insanity from my past. I dream he understood, but like I said insanity from the past.
    KWsuperstar KWsuperstar 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I've been chilling with this dude

    for a whole now and he tells me every personal things about him nd wants me to do the same. Every time he tries to ask personal things I would crack a joke and avoid it. I want to open up to him but I just don't know how. One time when we were messing around I lied nd said I am...
    sara2016 sara2016 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    i don't understand why people are in

    such a rush to have sex.
    pricilagudi pricilagudi 16-17, F 11 Responses Sep 9

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    I'm a virgin by choice

    and I don't feel impatient to do it. Hell, the most intimate thing I have done is hug.
    Bl0ndie234 Bl0ndie234 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 16-17, F 13 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    ameliapond999 ameliapond999 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm old fashioned, I want to be with someone

    who is passionate, loyal, committed and faithful and the relationship to be strong and have a lot of trust and no secrets and maybe wait until marriage??
    MusicIsMyTherapy101 MusicIsMyTherapy101 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 20

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    I'm a virgin and I'm dont care what anyone says,

    I will never willingly lose it to someone who I don't believe deserves it. Sure at times I think it would be easier to just get it over and done with, out of the way. But I know I could never forgive myself for losing it to someone who doesn't care and is only in it for the sex...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 12 Responses Jun 25

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    I don't know what's up with my generation

    but losing your virginity , to me atleast, isn't really anything to flaunt. I turn 17 soon and I really don't give a **** that I'm a virgin. Now don't get me wrong, I lust and get horny but I don't see losing it as a prize. If I lose it, I lose it. Nothing more nothing less.
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Remember: no one dies a virgin.

    Life ***** us all.
    thinkofonelater thinkofonelater 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    If it ever comes up in conversation like the

    other day with my friend ray. I'm always upfront about it. And then comes the shock face and the judgement. " how old are you again?" Yes, I'm 23. I think it's sad that virgins and non-virgins get shamed. You really can't win. And the saddest part, are girls who think being a...
    23starinthesky 23starinthesky 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 11

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    Thirty five and still no sex !

    !! But I got pizza. Oooooooo
    biguglyswampmonster biguglyswampmonster 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I am 18 and have never had sex with a guy.

    I am not sure why, I am not really waiting for that "Special someone". I have just never really felt "I wanna sleep with him :P" Except Liam Neeson Haha. Is it weird that I am a virgin at 18? And my friends dont really agree with what I should do, some say I should have it and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Aug 29

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    painisbeautyispain painisbeautyispain 13-15, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's by choice. Not because I can't get anybody,

    but because giving myself to someone means more then just ******* them for pleasure. It means love, sex means getting lost into someone so lost into them you know their feelings and thoughts without even having to ask them.
    Viccigee Viccigee 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 10

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    am proud to say am a virgin

    and not muther fu ck er is gonna push me into having sex i have a promise ring also :) virgins out there stand strong and has any body been watching virgin teritory spelling- but its a good show :) its on vh1 or mtv . cant remember but yea stand strong!
    meme1123 meme1123 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 35 Responses Mar 16

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm giving myself until the age of 30 to manage

    to have my first (romantic) kiss and lose my virginity. A little less than 6 years seems like a while but it's very nearly 6 years since I was actually hugged by a girl. That makes me feel that I'm being ambitious. Nothing like a challenge, though!
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 4 Responses