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I Am a Virgin

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    Honestly I'm so sick of being a virgin I get

    jealous when I hear people talk about how good is s*x the I more think the more I want it
    jadagee jadagee 18-21, F 33 Responses 2 days ago

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    Yes, a virgin. But not entirely innocent.

    My hands have done a few things but I've never had anything done to me. I'm okay with that. Most situations I've been in have gone pretty awkward.
    BetsyLane BetsyLane 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 40 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    And I don't plan on losing

    that to anyone but my girlfriend, one day when we can be together in person.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 20

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    I'm just kind of curious about something.

    let's say I had sex when I was 8 and besides for that one time, never had sex again. Don't remember to much, don't even know what happened and so on and so forth. Would it really be lying if I say that I'm a virgin? Not saying it is like that, I'm just curious O.O
    Ichki Ichki 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 22-25, F 17 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch 18-21, F 23 Responses Jan 30

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    22 and still a virgin.

    I don't see that ever changing lol. :D Before, I was waiting for marriage but apparently my standards are too high. I'm not lowering my standards. If no one can meet them then so be it. I'm also fine with spending the rest of my life alone. I'm not great with keeping friends so...
    Cautionfragile Cautionfragile 22-25 3 Responses Jan 17

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 41 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I lost my virginity at 24,

    on the 22nd December 2014. It didn't magically make my insecurities go away, but it definitely as hell took the edge off. Still kinda new to the whole thing!!"
    Wellzie Wellzie 22-25, M Jan 22

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    I'm 20 now, and I will be a virgin

    when I stand at the altar. I don't care how long it takes, I want to be able to give my husband something absolutely unique and precious and for him to know what I waited especially for him. I'm so grateful to my parents for bringing me up that way.
    AGirlNamedKim AGirlNamedKim 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 35 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    laulaud laulaud 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm tired of being a virgin.

    I'm 23 and I've never had any sort of physical sexual experience. It's like there's some fundamental flaw with my existence that dooms me to being stuck a virgin.
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage 22-25, F 17 Responses Apr 1, 2015

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    dynimitecookies dynimitecookies 13-15, F 14 Responses Feb 2

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    Im ashamed of being a virgin!

    ! Need to lose it soon!! I know it's not necessary to lose it but hey!!
    CamSpeeed CamSpeeed 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 14

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I'm a virgin and sometimes feel like I should

    just get it over with but then I know I wouldn't be happy with that like I want to be in a relationship when I lose it not with just some random but it seems like the only guys that are interested in me are like men that are Atleast 15 years older than me which sucks
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 3

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 39 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    I honestly feel like I've been left behind.

    Because everyone else has lost it.
    Chickennuggets3005 Chickennuggets3005 22-25, F 29 Responses Aug 1, 2015

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    Sometimes I feel embarrassed

    that I am still a virgin at 23. But then I think, "that's okay, I want it to be with the right person, not some random person".
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91 22-25, F 19 Responses Aug 2, 2015

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    I was always sort of taught

    that sex was a bad thing. Obviously, I know here are virgins in the world but at 21 I feel like I'm the only one at my age. It doesn't usually bother me but my friends sometimes get uncomfortable like they feel strange talking around me. Eh. Whatever. I think I need to get...
    deleted deleted 26-30 49 Responses Jan 1

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    One good thing about being virgin(

    although there are many ) is that your first time / first night with your partner is full of excitement both physically & mentally ..
    Calmsoul Calmsoul 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I'm 21 and I'm a virgin I'm waiting

    for that girl to come in my life still
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 4

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 63 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 138 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I'm 34 and people don't believe me

    when I tell them I'm a virgin.
    tinman3099 tinman3099 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 17

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    Being a virgin & keeping it till your marriage

    is the rarest thing ..But no hard feelings for those who couldn't or didn't ..It is just a way of living or we can say lifestyle ..
    Calmsoul Calmsoul 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I'm 28 and still a virgin.

    People's judgments, the few I've told over the years, are that it's either so admirable or so pathetic. "There's always prostitutes" and "Are you sure you aren't gay?" I've suffered pretty bad mental health issues over the years. Depression, social anxiety, self-harm, manic...
    Iscarpia87 Iscarpia87 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm a virgin and proud of it.

    While most girls my age are raising kids,I'm studying so I can get a good job.
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Jul 3, 2015

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    19 year old virgin girl.

    Everyone my age lost it ages ago. I feel so alone. I feel so lame.
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jan 11

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    So I have a question I was raped last Friday

    night and he took my Virginty I was wondering if I'm still consider virgin or am I kicked out of the this group?
    dynimitecookies dynimitecookies 13-15, F 6 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 40 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I'm 18 and I'm a virgin.

    Gee I don't know anyone of my age who are still virgins. Is it just me or I'm not alone? It's not that I'm waiting till marriage or I'm ugly,it's just waiting for the right moment probably. Strange?
    deleted deleted 26-30 33 Responses Jan 4

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 27 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I'm a little conflicted.

    I did have a chance to lose it a couple years back, but it didn't feel right. I don't regret that choice. But I'm almost 23 and I feel like I'm not where I'm supposed to be. A part of me wants to stay strong and wait for "her" but the other part wants me to just do it and get it...
    blackrockwolf blackrockwolf 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 9, 2015

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 26 Responses Jan 3, 2015

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