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I Am a Virgin

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 27 Responses Feb 9

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 14

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    Not now. Wow it hurt.

    Never thought it would hurt thst much. Geeez
    Shonna15 Shonna15 13-15, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Who knew that there would be a day in time

    where saying "I'm a virgin" would be like saying "I have the black plague". It's so crazy how backwards things are. I get ridiculed, rejected, put down, left out and looked at as being weird because I haven't "done it" and because "everybody's doing it". Sure... I get punished...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    there was a time when I tried to get it however

    I could and I eventually went through the most embarrassing thing a man can go through. (not being able to get it up). now I just don't care, I've lost interest when I realized "getting tail isn't everything" and it wasn't even what I wanted...it's how it's publicized and...
    PorkythePig PorkythePig 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 21 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    Nothing wrong with waiting.

    Even though for some reason that's an insult in this day and age.
    masterjai masterjai 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    I am a virgin but my boyfriend isn't.

    My boyfriend and I started dating March 7th. He recently just dropped the biggest bomb on me. So he tells me he's not a Virgin and he's had sex not once but twice. I'm a virgin and I don't know how to take this. I'm pretty upset. He sees it as a no big deal but I don't know I...
    Anon2721 Anon2721 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    FearTheWorl FearTheWorl 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 15

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 44 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 141 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Hahaha sooo my friends invited me to play this

    game called have you ever... to make things interesting, all seven of us put in $20 lolz.. They overlooked one tiny little simple detail that would've made a world of difference.. I'm a virgin soooooo you cant keep asking me if i've done sexual things hahahahaha.. their facial...
    Tripp93 Tripp93 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 13

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    I'm scared to lose my virginity,

    maybe thats why I've done all these piercings so i will look more attractive and feel more attractive.
    SmithGirl96 SmithGirl96 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I would let myself do anything

    that enjoyable. If I did I would have to seriously hurt myself afterwards.
    persononinternet persononinternet 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 31 Responses Jan 24

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    I believe in waiting

    until marriage
    SweetJessieP SweetJessieP 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I will remain a virgin

    until the day I'm married as my culture and family expects me to act. I know one thing's for sure is that I get attached to people easily so I am never ever ever going to have a ONS or do anything stupid on Skype ever again.
    EnvysEnemy EnvysEnemy 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    21 and I still have my v card.

    I get made fun of when I go to parties or tell people but that's fine by me I'm wait to find the special someone to give it too and have it mean something rather than nothing
    Crackermiller21 Crackermiller21 18-21, M 6 Responses Mar 22

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Getting sexually frustrated

    when you're a virgin and too scared to have sex is the worst
    tattedariel tattedariel 18-21, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love being a virgin.

    I find it to be a great feeling I'm happy I'm not like most girls
    babygotback97 babygotback97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 14 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    If you were to put a doughnut,

    a beagle, and a vagina in a line up...I couldn't tell you the difference between them
    Josh1978 Josh1978 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 14

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    Anyone else proud? :) My boyfriend

    and I are waiting, and although I can't wait? I love how there's no pressure.
    Bobbiin Bobbiin 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I wouldn't let myself do anything

    that enjoyable. If I did I would have to seriously hurt myself afterwards.
    persononinternet persononinternet 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm so tight. I've tried fingering myself

    but it won't fit two or more fingers. I've tried different object as I don't have a ***** or vibrator. But nothing seems to work :( I'm just so hot and bothered I don't know what to do :(
    yoursonlyx yoursonlyx 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Really wanting to wait

    until marriage!
    Foreverme16 Foreverme16 16-17, F 9 Responses Mar 7

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 40 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 12 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    1John1990 1John1990 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 14

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    what age did you lose it?

    I need to asap.
    tattedariel tattedariel 18-21, F 47 Responses Mar 20

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    muse4246 muse4246 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 36 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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