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I Am a Virgin

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    When people ask me if I'm a virgin they are

    really shocked when I say yes. I'm not really sure why, but they are :-/ and they seem to be even more astonished when I tell them I want to wait until I find the right guy and get married. Then they say, "Good luck with that," as if it's not possible. Sheesh, people these days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 14

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    lalalalaland689 lalalalaland689 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yes I'm a virgin, by choice

    and not force. I want my first time to be with somebody I really love, not some **** who doesn't care about me.
    colecabellewis colecabellewis 16-17, M Jan 15

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    I'm just waiting for

    that right guy until marriage. If he can't wait then he's obviously not worth my time.
    Marysone Marysone 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I'm 22 years old and I have two sides of me.

    One side of me is wanting it now and the other side is waiting. Even if I wanted it now It wouldn't happen...besides I found a woman I want her to take it but I would have to wait for her when she's ready. I think about it all the time. I touch myself wanting someone else to...
    JEJ22 JEJ22 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 16-17, F 13 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I'm 17 almost 18 and I'm a virgin!

    I'm proud of it! I understand why some people think of it as such a bad thing? I'm glad being a virgin and I don't plan on changing it soon. ^.^
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 49 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I'm waiting till marriage to share my

    once in a lifetime gift with the man I love. Virgins are becoming rarer everyday. I'm proud and unashamed to be a virgin. I think of it like this: If the supply of sex decreases and the demand remains unchanged, then virginity becomes higher in worth and low in quantity. I value...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I though I would start my first story with this

    topic. So....hi lol my name is justin and I am 22 years old...and a virgin. In my life there were a couple of time I could have had it....but didn't. I'm not sure if I regret not going though with it or I'm happy I waited. I'm not one of those "wait for marriage" people but if...
    JEJ22 JEJ22 22-25, M 10 Responses Jan 6

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 36 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 157 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I'm not just going to give it up to the first

    person I see I want it to mean something and I want the person who I lose it with to care about me not just do it for another notch in their belt.
    xlec2014 xlec2014 16-17, F 8 Responses Jan 19

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    Will I Ever Do It

    it drives me mad most off the time i cant think about anything else since i seen him in the shower 
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Aug 14, 2013

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    kashish0077 kashish0077 31-35, F Apr 10

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 50 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 16-17, F 16 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 53 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I'm defiantly saving myself

    for the right guy!!
    BreMarley BreMarley 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 21

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    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 18-21, F 41 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    I don't really see the point in having sex with

    someone your not going to marry. I feel like in so many ways even if I wasn't going to get pregnant or get a std; I still think that is a very intimate part to express with someone that you LOVE and going to MARRY. I always see these shows or even people that I know say that...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Yay! :)

    Haha I honestly don't mind that I'm virgin. I have never kissed any guy (or girl) ever, never had a relationship, never dated, nothing whatsoever. Basically I'm untouched haha! I should start saying that from now on..."I am a virgin, totally & completely untouched." Seriously I...
    babydoll73 babydoll73 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    I used to be insecure about it

    when some people say it's weird. Now I see how immature I was and ridiculous to be thinking about it. I've got other things more important stuff to think about and if I haven't found someone I feel comfortable around it will never happen like ever and I'm happy that way. I'd...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 21 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I'm a virgin and proud!

    But sometimes i feel lonely because all my friends are getting boyfriends and having sex and it just feels like i will never have that.
    bluebird96 bluebird96 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I Am

    You know that amazing feeling of having sex, to share and to know that you're loved by your partner.....well I've never had that. Sometimes I wish maybe I should have but now I'm glad I haven't yet. I've always cherished the thought of sex and how it should be used for. I don't...
    SuperShoes24 SuperShoes24 22-25, M 15 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 30 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Today, I lost my virginity.

    Gave it away like it didn't matter, because it didn't matter to me. I wanted it G-O-N-E. When I woke up today, two months after I turned 28, it wasn't in the cards. But this year, I wanted to be more daring than the previous years that I've kept singing about losing my...
    survivingapple survivingapple 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    17 and still a virgin.

    18 in March 2014. Still waiting for that perfect girl, I'm not a one night stand kind of guy. I'm Australian. Message me if you want to chat.
    Silthill Silthill 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    ExplorerJoe ExplorerJoe 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    People always find it

    so hard to believe since I'm 17 & I've had a few boyfriends that have a reputation for having sex a lot. But I am a virgin & I'll lose it whenever I feel like it despite the little side remarks I get like "just do it already" or "you might as well just get it over with" lol no...
    omgchapstick omgchapstick 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 23 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 176 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    When my online boyfriend comes to visit me,

    he's going to be the one I give it to. We have been dating for over a year and I have saved myself for him and he has saved himself for me. I don 't know... It makes me feel special that he's waiting for me, too.
    MellifluousMilkshake MellifluousMilkshake 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Dirty Mind. Pure Body.

    sometimes I dont feel like a virgin the way I think sometimes. I feel like ive already had s*x. I know exactly what i would like. I know what my favorite position would be. I have such dirty fantasies sometimes I forget...
    IllecebrousIvy IllecebrousIvy 16-17, F 10 Responses Mar 14

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    Well I'm 15 basically 16 lol But I love being

    able to say I'm a virgin. Like I don't see the point in having sex with someone you don't care about, my virginity is special to me and I want to give it to someone special. I don't know about waiting until marriage but I'll wait until I feel like it's the right person and do it...
    iamj iamj 13-15, F 7 Responses Apr 11

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    Call me traditional, old-fashioned,

    or whatever; I am a virgin of choice. Don't get me wrong here. I'm not the type of girl to wait until marriage, I am just waiting for the right person to lose my virginity to. First experiences should be good experiences, right? And why not do it with someone you truly have...
    huoqiu huoqiu 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 25

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    Hiya. My name is bob( no it isn't)

    and I'm still a virgin and obviously abstinent. At times, it's a walk in the park. Like I'm on god mode pwning everything that moves. Other times? Not so much...It's like a war to protect my title. But you know what? I still find it funny that no soon as I fortify my mind, here...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    kashish0077 kashish0077 31-35, F Apr 10

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AdelaideHayashi AdelaideHayashi 22-25, F 17 Responses Mar 16

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    I've never done anything with anyone.

    Not even kissed. I'm very bery innocent.
    lalalalaland689 lalalalaland689 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Most girls my age (teens) have already lost

    their virginity, but not me. I'm planning to keep it for the person I love the most, when I get married.It makes me more comfortable... I'm proud to still have my flower, really.I think your first time should be with someone you are SURE is very special to you, I wish the others...
    ArcaneParadise ArcaneParadise 13-15 9 Responses Jan 8

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    lalalalaland689 lalalalaland689 18-21, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a virgin and I'm 17 years old.

    I know it may seem odd in our generation but I'm proud to say that I am pure unlike half of the teenagers in this world today. ✌️🌎
    SwiftieGirl SwiftieGirl 16-17, F 9 Responses Jan 8

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    Well Im 16 and still a virgin.

    It doesnt bother me and Im proud to be one and Im staying a virgin untill I get married. Ive also never been kissed but I have a boyfriend.
    tikani tikani 16-17, F 9 Responses Apr 10

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    Yuppers

    Yupp I am 18 and a virgin and proud of it :) nothings really stopping me from having sex other than not having a boyfriend ahaha I just don't wanna have it yet I guess
    Lexiebear18 Lexiebear18 18-21, F 18 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    you don't really have to get upset

    if you are a virgin. I actually look up to people who wait until marriage before having sex. I am one of those and I am proud of it. Very tempting to do stuff but being pure just raises your confidence and righteousness in yourself not to mention that you gain respect.
    wherethehealingbegins wherethehealingbegins 18-21, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    kashish0077 kashish0077 31-35, F Apr 10

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    I'm 14 and I want to wait

    until marriage.
    PinkChocolate00 PinkChocolate00 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 5

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    Most important thing to me!

    I'm keeping it.
    DangerouslyMe DangerouslyMe 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Yeah, still virgin, back then

    when still at Post Grad felt kinda sad and eager to lost as fast as possible with any one well, as long as Those People have Vagina, lol. And now working, not really feeling that much, I love to but not that desperate, kinda proud My Self kinda rare nowadays, right?! But have...
    fr33w1ll1 fr33w1ll1 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Dylan987 Dylan987 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Well I sorta am. When I was younger I was raped

    by my older cousin and well let's just say it wasn't pleasent....it really messed up my life for the past and future. In my eyes I'm still a virgin until I find the 1 I love and then u know magic....a little birds and bees 😝😂
    fredlez2306 fredlez2306 13-15, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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