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I Am a Virgin

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    user869543 user869543 13-15, F 18 Responses Jun 11

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 41 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Why do I have these desires

    so soon. I'm just 18, why do I care?
    MrSpecify MrSpecify 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 27 Responses Jan 3

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    What happened to people treasuring their

    virginity for THE one ?? I don't know if people just lack patience or love ?.... ur virginity was supposed to be something very important, now even 15 year olds are having sex! what's up with that!? I'm even scared that my even my 7yrs old sister is going to grow up thinking...
    Lihlya Lihlya 16-17, F 36 Responses Jul 2

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 64 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    kashif112 kashif112 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I would rather lose my virginity to a dild0

    than a person to be honest.
    JointPuffer JointPuffer 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 16

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 43 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 14

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    All my friends are talking about the girls

    they've slept with, and I'm just sitting here wondering what topping I want on my stuffed crust pizza. I'm thinking pepperoni.
    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm saving my first kiss

    for my wedding day!!
    maryelizabg maryelizabg 18-21 5 Responses Jul 16

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    dreamboat87 dreamboat87 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 42 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    EvoKinevil EvoKinevil 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I wanna lose my virginity

    as soon as possible with a more experimented person who would teach me everything about sex.
    DouceFolie DouceFolie 18-21, F 14 Responses 2 days ago

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 20 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    I'm a virgin and proud of it.

    While most girls my age are raising kids,I'm studying so I can get a good job.
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Jul 3

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    emjagrace emjagrace 16-17, F 14 Responses Jul 18

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    Well i better in check this box 0-0 Ermmm I'm

    kidding 0.0 I'm 99.9% Virgin
    Nataliebeans1 Nataliebeans1 13-15, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I am a virgin I have no sexual experience at

    any level, I am 55 and represent the virginity at its peak. I have proved beyond doubt that I will remain a virgin and never experience sex. I am public about my virginity and now gain much pleasure from it and enjoy talking to other virgins.
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I want to lose my virginity with a mature lady,

    I'm waiting for that one lady who can help me to feel the pleasure of heaven and hell equally with the magic in her hands.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Aren't you all kinda sick of it?

    I'm not actively trying to lose my virginity, but it's a bit embarrassing to be a college senior and still a virgin. I feel like college's been a disappointment. lol
    Storiesnotforthefaintofheart Storiesnotforthefaintofheart 18-21, F 7 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    anoopjose176 anoopjose176 18-21, M 11 Responses Jul 18

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    jacobnipper jacobnipper 13-15 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I have found being public about my virginity

    has been a rewarding experience. I am a 55yr old virgin who has never dated or kissed and has no sexual experience which is probably unknown in todays society. It is obvious that I will remain a virgin and never have sex but being public about it has allowed me to come to terms...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M Jul 14

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 26 Responses Jan 24

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    i just don't know what's happening

    but sexual forces , thoughts are becoming almost not possible to handle ...I feel so ashamed about it ...23 & still virgin ..Never even kissed any girl ..Girls are so strong & i admire them for how they control themselves ...
    Eshan29 Eshan29 22-25 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage 22-25, F 18 Responses Apr 1

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    To be a virgin at 55 is rare

    and I have only come across one or two virgins in this position. I have no sexual experience which is unheard of these days and have probably set a benchmark for the modern day virgin. I have learned to gain acceptance of my virginity and would I change the answer is no, will I...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 139 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I'm happy but unhappy about it at the same time.

    CONFLICTED. I think I'm saving myself for someone special, but I'm only 19 so I can wait longer.
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm the virgin of virgins.

    Haven't even had my first kiss yet #looserrr
    internallybroken internallybroken 16-17, M 11 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm 21 and still a virgin.

    It's hard for me to have sex because it hurts. I rarely have alone time at home with a special person.
    shykitty94 shykitty94 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 14

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    First off, I would like to present the fact

    that I've been to this website time and time again and each time I come back, I tell of being a virgin but the story of the reason changes. I feel like sex with others is overrated. I don't NEED a man in my life to make me feel complete. There are ways to be satisfied doing...
    jboddika jboddika 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I am 24 years old and am not ashamed to say I

    am still a virgin. Even though I am ready to lose it I'm not in any rush. I do consider myself a bit of a private person and will admit I want my first time to be with a woman who shares the same sexual interests as me. If you look at my profile you'll understand. The biggest...
    Jared09 Jared09 22-25, M Jul 7

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    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I'm not saying this is a bad thing

    because I am well aware that it most definitely is not. My issue is that I've been called square recently, (not in a hurtful way) my friend was called a square by her brother yesterday, (he literally thinks I've had sex before...) and finally the fact that it seems as if...
    smurfinaround smurfinaround 18-21, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 12 Responses