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I Am a Virgin

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 12,330 People

    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 25

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    First off, I would like to present the fact

    that I've been to this website time and time again and each time I come back, I tell of being a virgin but the story of the reason changes. I feel like sex with others is overrated. I don't NEED a man in my life to make me feel complete. There are ways to be satisfied doing...
    jboddika jboddika 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 27 Responses Feb 9

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    My future as a virgin was decided early on in

    life. The young office girls said as far as sex was concerned I wouldn't know what to do and I didn't mind because they obviously knew I was a virgin and they were correct. The older women also suspected I was a virgin and one of them put me to the test on a business car journey...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 64 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 26 Responses Jan 24

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    upurs558 upurs558 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why do I have these desires

    so soon. I'm just 18, why do I care?
    MrSpecify MrSpecify 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 26

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 20 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I have found being public about my virginity

    has been a rewarding experience. I am a 55yr old virgin who has never dated or kissed and has no sexual experience which is probably unknown in todays society. It is obvious that I will remain a virgin and never have sex but being public about it has allowed me to come to terms...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M Jul 14

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 51 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I honestly feel like I've been left behind.

    Because everyone else has lost it.
    Chickennuggets3005 Chickennuggets3005 18-21, F 30 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 26 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Sometimes I feel embarrassed

    that I am still a virgin at 23. But then I think, "that's okay, I want it to be with the right person, not some random person".
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91 22-25, F 21 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm not saying this is a bad thing

    because I am well aware that it most definitely is not. My issue is that I've been called square recently, (not in a hurtful way) my friend was called a square by her brother yesterday, (he literally thinks I've had sex before...) and finally the fact that it seems as if...
    smurfinaround smurfinaround 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 26

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 41 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I would rather lose my virginity to a dild0

    than a person to be honest.
    JointPuffer JointPuffer 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 16

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    I'm happy but unhappy about it at the same time.

    CONFLICTED. I think I'm saving myself for someone special, but I'm only 19 so I can wait longer.
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    emjagrace emjagrace 16-17, F 14 Responses Jul 18

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    user869543 user869543 13-15, F 18 Responses Jun 11

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    I'm 21 and still a virgin.

    It's hard for me to have sex because it hurts. I rarely have alone time at home with a special person.
    shykitty94 shykitty94 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 14

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 139 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 43 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 41 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    And I plan to change

    that soon. If you're from Sydney, message me and we can talk, hang out, tell each other jokes and one day enjoy explore each other's bodies.
    johnno99 johnno99 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    Well not a virgin anymore.

    That was a long time ago. But I did wait until 21. Reason was both some by choice, some not so much by choice. I do not regret waiting and I honestly wished I waited until the next person. But the point is, don't do it just to get it done. Make sure it is something you will...
    SlickFX SlickFX 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm a virgin and proud of it.

    While most girls my age are raising kids,I'm studying so I can get a good job.
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Jul 3

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    I'm the virgin of virgins.

    Haven't even had my first kiss yet #looserrr
    internallybroken internallybroken 16-17, M 12 Responses Jul 14

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    All my friends are talking about the girls

    they've slept with, and I'm just sitting here wondering what topping I want on my stuffed crust pizza. I'm thinking pepperoni.
    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 20

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    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Aren't you all kinda sick of it?

    I'm not actively trying to lose my virginity, but it's a bit embarrassing to be a college senior and still a virgin. I feel like college's been a disappointment. lol
    Storiesnotforthefaintofheart Storiesnotforthefaintofheart 18-21, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    I wanna lose my virginity

    as soon as possible with a more experimented person who would teach me everything about sex.
    DouceFolie DouceFolie 18-21, F 16 Responses a week ago

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    anoopjose176 anoopjose176 18-21, M 11 Responses Jul 18

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    What happened to people treasuring their

    virginity for THE one ?? I don't know if people just lack patience or love ?.... ur virginity was supposed to be something very important, now even 15 year olds are having sex! what's up with that!? I'm even scared that my even my 7yrs old sister is going to grow up thinking...
    Lihlya Lihlya 16-17, F 37 Responses Jul 2

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    EvoKinevil EvoKinevil 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 26

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    kashif112 kashif112 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 27 Responses Jan 9

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 14

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    To be a virgin at 55 is rare

    and I have only come across one or two virgins in this position. I have no sexual experience which is unheard of these days and have probably set a benchmark for the modern day virgin. I have learned to gain acceptance of my virginity and would I change the answer is no, will I...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 3 Responses