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I Am a Virgin

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 51 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I am a virgin I have no sexual experience

    and have never kissed or dated, although I am 55 which is rare to be a virgin and unheard of in some quarters I am public about my virginity and if people wish to know I more than happy to tell them I am a virgin. Women have said as far as sex is concerned I wouldn't know what...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Well everyone is where I live having sex

    before marriage is a crime but am not a virgin bcs I am scared my dad would kill me if am not or bcs I don't want to be caught and go to jail but bcs I hate men who sleep with a woman take her virginity and throw her on the street that's what happens to woman where I live the...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 18

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 12 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 21 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    I don't like thinking about virginity

    as a "thing" that can be lost, or even a status. It's just whether or not you've had sex, but so what if you have? So what if you haven't? The reason a word exists for virginity is because virgins,
    sassycastiel sassycastiel 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    A 25 yrs old male from Egypt .

    still virgin as usual . because Im not married yet ... Im obsessed with plus size girls . Big breasts make me crazy .
    Passepartout307 Passepartout307 22-25, M Jun 23

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 14

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    It's not like I've never had the chance to lose

    it, but... Yeah, I've never had the chance to lose it, and I don't feel bad about it. I'm fine with waiting for the right person.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 10

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    I am a Virginia but not necessarily by choice.

    I had a scary moment as a child and it made me shut down my feelings to others. I want a boyfriend but find it difficult to let someone in. Really it comes down to wanting a intellectual and emotional connection before any physical connection. Haven't found a guy who wants the...
    thriftedsoul thriftedsoul 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 7

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage 22-25, F 19 Responses Apr 1

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    I always had passing thoughts of embarrassment

    but I've never felt ashamed that I'm a virgin. I'm not exactly waiting for marriage but I am waiting for a guy who is worthy. It is what it is! I do wonder what it will be like though and want it to happen.
    chel93 chel93 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am a virgin. I don't have any sexual

    experience. It makes some people laughed at me. They thought what kind of girl am i. Sometimes i wonder what is like to have sex, but i am going to wait until i find the right man to marry me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 22

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 27 Responses Feb 9

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 27 Responses Jan 9

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    user869543 user869543 13-15, F 19 Responses Jun 11

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    I'm a virgin. I don't want to lose my virginity

    to a boy, I want to lose it to a man.
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jun 15

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    Sometimes I wish I had let my ex take my

    virginity, I want to feel what it feels like to have someone inside me, so desperately, but I know I'd regret it. ❤️ But man I love penis you know? 😂 They are beautiful things, that just feel so right. 🙊 One day. Hopefully that right person comes sooner rather than...
    JacobbShields JacobbShields 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Has anyone ever told you "you don't look like a

    virgin!" Being. sexually active doesn't have a look sillies!
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    iamlonley24 iamlonley24 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 28 Responses Jan 3

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 26 Responses Jan 24

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    I am a virgin but my boyfriend isn't.

    I assumed he was a virgin so I never asked until he told me the other day. I'm kinda disappointed in way because I thought that we would both be each other's first if we had sex in the future (I want to wait at least a year).
    alicebelle alicebelle 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 21

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 35 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    I know a lot of girls think of their virginities

    as the most precious thing in the world but I don't really feel that way about mines. However I do know when you have sex it's supposed to be special I guess. Maybe I feel that way because I am a freak, I don't know but I do know that I wouldn't want to **** a stranger.
    TrivialName7 TrivialName7 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 10

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 19

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    I am 19, male, and a virgin.

    I used to mind being a virgin back in high school, but now that I'm a little older I'm glad I still have it. I think I'm going to wait until I find someone I really care about. I still jerk it of course since it's only natural, and of course I want to screw everything that moves...
    owf684 owf684 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Someone actually told me that

    if I don't push for sex in a relationship, I'm not a real man. Seriously?
    Thalassophobic Thalassophobic 18-21, M 6 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 40 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    I've done everything,

    except for sex. I'm scared.
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 13-15, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 64 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    what does sex feel like?

    does it get worse or better after you do it a lot?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I am a virgin and probably represent virginity

    at its highest level. I am 55 and have no sexual experience and have never kissed or dated. My virginity is public because it is obvious I will remain a virgin for life and never experience sex. I have spoken to other virgins but none in the same position and have often wondered...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 19

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 24 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    dragonrider11 dragonrider11 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Is sex really that great.

    I am about to be a senior in high school and a lot of my friends say that sex is the greatest thing.
    RonnocNavillus RonnocNavillus 18-21, M 5 Responses