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I Am a Virgin

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    I'm old fashioned, I want to be with someone

    who is passionate, loyal, committed and faithful and the relationship to be strong and have a lot of trust and no secrets and maybe wait until marriage??
    georgiecrouch georgiecrouch 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 23

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    Yup I Am.....

    Well its true. Even though I like all these sexual experiences I am still a virgin, My imagination will sometimes get out of control and run wild with all the fantasies I have about those experiences LOL but still I respect myself more than anyone thinks, I respect my body...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 191 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 150 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 16-17, F 12 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I've seen more nude bodies

    than prostitutes, but Im still a virgin! Im a 23 y.o female Nurse who really just haven't found anyone to chat or talk to in a intimate way. I have a pretty boring life outside of my work environment.
    8Smile8 8Smile8 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    There's a good chance my girlfriend will invite

    me upstairs to her room next week when I go to meet her dad next week.
    HeyItsJosh HeyItsJosh 13-15, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm a virgin and I'm proud of it.

    My virginity is reserved for the one person I will give my all to when I get married. Until then I will do whatever it takes to preserve it.
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Like if your a virgin.

    You the real MVP:)
    successhasnoface successhasnoface 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I'm a virgin and I'm dont care what anyone says,

    I will never willingly lose it to someone who I don't believe deserves it. Sure at times I think it would be easier to just get it over and done with, out of the way. But I know I could never forgive myself for losing it to someone who doesn't care and is only in it for the sex...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 12 Responses Jun 25

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    Maybe I'm just old-fashioned

    but I'll be waiting until the right person comes into my life, and so I am a virgin
    LadyMarie123 LadyMarie123 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm a virgin. Not proud of it everyone else is

    getting into happy relationships and having sex and I'm the ugly pile of **** no girl wants.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm not too proud of it,

    but I've never been with a girl. Never had a date or short-lived fling either for that matter. And it's not for religious or "moral" reasons. No girl has ever shown enough interest that I'd go pursue her. Or maybe I'm just incredibly thick, that's also entirely possible. Some...
    MrHansen MrHansen 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 24

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    Why does everybody make a big deal out of it

    and give you a hard time if your a virgin?
    captaindexter captaindexter 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 15

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    Good afternoon, everyone!

    I was so happy that my original post's reception was very high. So much so that I have decided to create a new post. Please, sit back and read what I have to say. Nothing has really changed over the last few months. I am still the peach that has yet to be plucked; the candle...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    I am 19 and I am virgin.

    one half of me wants to go loose my virginity to a hooker. the other half pleads with me to wait till I get married. I just don't know what to do anymore. I want to share my gift to the woman I will love one day. any advice?
    DracovNasser DracovNasser 18-21, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 21 Responses Jul 5

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    My friends give me beef bc I'm still a virgin .

    They've all lost theirs to guys who aren't in the picture anymore . They act like its a competition and bc they've lost theirs, they're immediately more mature . I don't know , I may be old fashioned, but I want to wait until I find someone I love and who's committed to me...
    jhastme jhastme 18-21, F 17 Responses Jul 11

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 49 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Now and days it's weird to still be a virgin.

    . What happened to class? It's a shame that ******* a stranger is just another normal thing..
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I have managed to retain it despite all of the

    persistence of idiots. Thank the LORD. Amen
    schemily03 schemily03 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I feel that sometimes my friends shame me

    for saving my virginity until marriage. However, I save it for a choice, a choice that none of them understand because I respect myself enough not to follow them and hook up with others.
    ik0g ik0g 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    As i got older, it is

    so hard to preserve my virginity. The thing is although i probably would enjoy sex, i am not ready to have sex yet. I am not ready to think i am losing it to just a guy who come around and would leave me anytime, i felt like he needs to show me that he is worth the pain of the...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 20

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    What's the hurry guys?

    ! Keep your innocence and enjoy it while you can!
    lailase lailase 16-17, F 10 Responses May 20

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    I am going bald and I am

    so young .......my fiancé says maybe that's why I never got a girlfriend
    Phalguni9 Phalguni9 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I plan to keep it this way till marriage

    and that's a pic of my purity ring
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a virgin by choice

    and I don't feel impatient to do it. Hell, the most intimate thing I have done is hug.
    Bl0ndie234 Bl0ndie234 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    Good for us... Screw all you other hos my age

    that aren't! (Not including rape victims, obviously)
    Mechawaffle Mechawaffle 13-15, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    am proud to say am a virgin

    and not muther fu ck er is gonna push me into having sex i have a promise ring also :) virgins out there stand strong and has any body been watching virgin teritory spelling- but its a good show :) its on vh1 or mtv . cant remember but yea stand strong!
    meme1123 meme1123 22-25, F 9 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Hell yeah i'm a virgin.

    Well i watch a lot of ****, like everyone i have the urge well i think its a little too much for me. But still yeah, i try to flirt it doesn't work out. Either way i haven't had the chance to make a move too! I'm 21 year old virgin! i hope i don't hit it till 40 :P
    Abi936 Abi936 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm 16, in my class over half of them are not

    virgins, I can think of 13 people that still own their virginity, me included, I've also never had my first kiss anything, but I don't understand what the rush is for everyone, like , I get it , a lot if guys won't even talk to you if they know that they aren't going to get any...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 1

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    Call me traditional, old-fashioned,

    or whatever; I am a virgin of choice. Don't get me wrong here. I'm not the type of girl to wait until marriage, I am just waiting for the right person to lose my virginity to. First experiences should be good experiences, right? And why not do it with someone you truly have...
    huoqiu huoqiu 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 25

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 11 Responses May 18

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    I'm in my junior year of high school

    and I've still managed to keep my virginity, unlike almost everyone else in my school. Go me
    blackbirdfly84 blackbirdfly84 13-15, F 2 Responses 13 mins ago

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 28 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    My body is not a game,

    my body is a treasure !
    Sorayaa Sorayaa 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm a virgin and I'm not to proud about it

    really :( I just wanna get the deed over and done with
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M 8 Responses a week ago

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    I am a virgin at 31 and I don't think it's

    weird at all. Yeah people put a lot of stress on getting rid of your virginity earlier than later, but I don't think it makes me socially awkward or any less cool of a person. I guess it's all about your view of yourself. To me it's not about what people expect me to do. I am...
    simplycomplex82 simplycomplex82 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I don't think that being a virgin means you're

    pure. I can't buy in to that mentality. I don't think having sexual thoughts or having slept with someone makes you impure (assuming those sexual thoughts aren't heinous or illegal or anything). It's great that people wait until they're old enough and ready and everything, but I...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F Jul 17

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    LittleMiss97 LittleMiss97 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 17

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 22-25, F 22 Responses Mar 16

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    Well I'm 18 and still a virgin

    and definitely not ready yet to lose my virginity, though I enjoy getting turned on but still
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm waiting till marriage to share my

    once in a lifetime gift with the man I love. Virgins are becoming rarer everyday. I'm proud and unashamed to be a virgin. I think of it like this: If the supply of sex decreases and the demand remains unchanged, then virginity becomes higher in worth and low in quantity. I value...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 17

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    Phalguni9 Phalguni9 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I'M 17

    Yes, I am a virgin. I know that a lot of people lose their virginity in high school and sometimes even in middle school (it's sad). But that's not me. I'm waiting until I find someone who loves me for me. I'm waiting until I find someone who respects me and doesn't want me just...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 16 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    Yes, I still have my virginity :) I really

    don't mind. For me it's something precious to have.
    colombiankim colombiankim 18-21, F 13 Responses May 8

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    I don't think it's a bad thing,

    but lately I can't even date guys anymore. It's like I get to know them and and I see that even if I get along with some of them, they're not the one I see my future with, so then I lose interest...Guess I'm just waiting for the right guy. What I don't understand is why my...
    FlorescentBeauty FlorescentBeauty 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 47 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 18-21, F 42 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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