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I Am a Virgin

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 39 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    So ya .. I am a virgin

    and I'm proud of it :3 hopefully I'll stay virgin until I find the one :3 oh yes I do get turned on and horny and stuff but I can keep that side to myself until I'll find him or maybe would that be her ? I doubt it's her oh well probably a him xD
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    I'm an 18 year old virgin.

    I once got called a "prude" because of this. I don't care what other people think. I value my virginity.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 44 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Why are so many people proud to be virgins?

    Sex is a natural part of life. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Also, the waiting until marriage reason is complete bullshit. Marriage isn't a sacred covenant. It's a legal contract created by humans. Personally, I wish I wasn't a virgin. I wish I was confident enough to put...
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 8 Responses May 8

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    Not ashamed of this. It's just something

    that hasn't happened for me yet. I was always really shy and quiet. I went on a few dates in college but on some of them I was pretty awkward. There were a couple times I could have easily had sex (at least touching guys a few times) but the moment just wasn't right. I've...
    lifeouttashell lifeouttashell 22-25, F 6 Responses May 9

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 27 Responses Jan 24

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 51 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    sawanch sawanch 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    meanameicallmyself2 meanameicallmyself2 36-40, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I haven't lost it yet

    and I'm in college. While my friends are out and about hooking up with guys and having fun "exploring", I'm stuck waiting for the "right guy" to come for me, who I don't know even exists. There are times I think I should go and just lose it, but I know I'll be forever resentful...
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 7 Responses May 11

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 28 Responses Jan 3

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 139 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I used to have this slave

    that use to beg me **** him. I got tired of him quickly and left him a pair of old shoes to remembered by. I like being a virgin goddess, you have to be worthy to take my flower.
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F 5 Responses May 11

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    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage 18-21, F 17 Responses Apr 1

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    I am a virgin I have never dated

    or kissed and am ok with my virginity. I am 55 and open and public about my virginity but does being a virgin make you a lesser person?
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 4 Responses May 3

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    sunzoshi99 sunzoshi99 13-15, F 6 Responses May 9

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 14

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    I am 25 and virgin.I wish wayt

    until I get married.I wish my husband be my first and last.I know is hard in this world where sex is all.But if yo trully wish and want you will wayt the right person.:)
    angelicahibrid angelicahibrid 22-25, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 12 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 8 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 22 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 28 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 19 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1 22-25, M 1 Response May 6

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    It's the beer!!! I am 40 years old now Ok,

    it begins when i was 13 when i found out how babies are made.Unlike other kids my age , I started to think differently. Without life there will be no suffering.The course of life is 5ex. If there is no 5ex there is no suffering in the form of life.So I don't want to course...
    madknightt madknightt 36-40, M 2 Responses May 8

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    I am. So what? I was never really interested,

    never gone through the phase where my hormones were racing. I was too busy trying to stay alive when I was going through puberty, I guess. Also, I never felt like having sex just for the sake of having sex. If I'm going to do it, it's gonna be with someone I love... or at...
    UselessNobody UselessNobody 31-35, F 4 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    One of my good friends got married yesterday

    and I remember at the party she was so nervous to leave to the hotel because it was going to be her first time. I wished her good luck and watched her leave with her husband. I really admire her. I want to wait too. To meet the right man and to give myself to him for the first...
    Dari97 Dari97 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 18 next month & im still a virgin I wanna

    have sex but girls aren't attracted to me
    parso16 parso16 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm 22 only did it once.

    . I was wasted and it lasted maybe 1 minute. I still consider myself a virgin. I've had plenty of chances to have intercourse but I chose not too. I have no sex drive at all. I lost my mojo and I'm fine with it. Haha
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 6 Responses May 6

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    Today I had to tell a guy

    who I've been dating for a month that I'm a virgin. Society is so ****** up. Why should I feel ashamed that I'm a virgin?
    Staybeautyfull Staybeautyfull 18-21, F 19 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 25 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    i am only fifteen so of course i am a virgin.

    i have a VERY specific very LENGTHY list of morals. also the fact that I've never met any girl intelligent enough for me to be interested in romantically. and finally no girl is interested as i am too unattractive.
    emoanimelover99 emoanimelover99 13-15, M 3 Responses May 2

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    I don't want to be, but

    that doesn't mean I want you to spam me with your fantasies. I want to be with someone I love, not internet trolls.
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 2 Responses May 8

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    I'm almost 16 so I feel like being a virgin

    would be normal for my younger age but I find myself being put down around others for not having sexual experiences. I'm young and shouldn't be belittled for not giving it up so easy.
    saavanah saavanah 13-15, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was brought up in a Mormon church

    since I was a little boy. I was taught to save it once I get married. I think its special to lose my virginity with someone that I truly care for. Not just to lose it with anyone that I don't have a feelings for. I am very respectful to one another. I am gay and I have a...
    StayingStrong21 StayingStrong21 22-25, M 3 Responses May 8

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    rosiewillington rosiewillington 18-21, F 7 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    OlliePolly OlliePolly 16-17, F 1 Response May 10

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    so...ok then...I'm 19

    and I'm still a virgin. Several reasons really - my parents want me to wait until I get married - I think waiting is right too. I think its romantic that my first time will be with my husband, and if I have to wait until I'm 30 I don't mind - if I'm honest I'm a bit scared of...
    helloitsjayne helloitsjayne 18-21, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.