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I Am a Virgin

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 138 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    So I have a question I was raped last Friday

    night and he took my Virginty I was wondering if I'm still consider virgin or am I kicked out of the this group?
    dynimitecookies dynimitecookies 13-15, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    "Being a virgin in this day

    and age is something to be proud of. You're a rare breed. You're like a unicorn."
    tianajade tianajade 22-25, F 17 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    22 and still a virgin.

    I don't see that ever changing lol. :D Before, I was waiting for marriage but apparently my standards are too high. I'm not lowering my standards. If no one can meet them then so be it. I'm also fine with spending the rest of my life alone. I'm not great with keeping friends so...
    Cautionfragile Cautionfragile 22-25 3 Responses Jan 17

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    Yes, a virgin. But not entirely innocent.

    My hands have done a few things but I've never had anything done to me. I'm okay with that. Most situations I've been in have gone pretty awkward.
    BetsyLane BetsyLane 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    I'm just kind of curious about something.

    let's say I had sex when I was 8 and besides for that one time, never had sex again. Don't remember to much, don't even know what happened and so on and so forth. Would it really be lying if I say that I'm a virgin? Not saying it is like that, I'm just curious O.O
    Ichki Ichki 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    19 year old virgin girl.

    Everyone my age lost it ages ago. I feel so alone. I feel so lame.
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jan 11

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    I'm a virgin and proud of it.

    While most girls my age are raising kids,I'm studying so I can get a good job.
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Jul 3, 2015

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 12 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I'm a little conflicted.

    I did have a chance to lose it a couple years back, but it didn't feel right. I don't regret that choice. But I'm almost 23 and I feel like I'm not where I'm supposed to be. A part of me wants to stay strong and wait for "her" but the other part wants me to just do it and get it...
    blackrockwolf blackrockwolf 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Why does everyone think I'm lying

    when I say that lol. I'm conservative!
    MarieMe21 MarieMe21 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 9, 2015

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    I'm tired of being a virgin.

    I'm 23 and I've never had any sort of physical sexual experience. It's like there's some fundamental flaw with my existence that dooms me to being stuck a virgin.
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    I was always sort of taught

    that sex was a bad thing. Obviously, I know here are virgins in the world but at 21 I feel like I'm the only one at my age. It doesn't usually bother me but my friends sometimes get uncomfortable like they feel strange talking around me. Eh. Whatever. I think I need to get...
    deleted deleted 26-30 49 Responses Jan 1

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 23 Responses Feb 9, 2015

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    I'm 21 and I'm a virgin I'm waiting

    for that girl to come in my life still
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I'm in my fortys and still a virgin I've always

    been scared of loosing it if it hurts
    pansytights pansytights 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 40 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 24 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Sadly I'm a virgin and I want to lose my

    virginity to that special someone in the near future
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I feel embarrassed

    that I am still a virgin at 23. But then I think, "that's okay, I want it to be with the right person, not some random person".
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91 22-25, F 19 Responses Aug 2, 2015

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 41 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I am a virgin. sadly not by choice though.

    I've never been in a relationship so I haven't been close to losing my virginity. I feel like there's something wrong with me. I'm sweet caring and funny but girls just don't want anything to do with me.
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890 26-30, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    It's very difficult being a virgin in today's

    world. Most things you see in social medias always have sexual innuendos attached to them. I used to be so ashamed of my virginity which pressured me to open an account on a dating website so that i could lose it. I had a couple of dates with weirdos that only saw me as a sex...
    ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique 22-25, F 25 Responses Aug 20, 2015

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I'm 34 and people don't believe me

    when I tell them I'm a virgin.
    tinman3099 tinman3099 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 17

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 14, 2015

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    Hey guys- I'm on the hunt

    for virgins who are overweight and blame their size for lacking confidence to date. Can you message me privately for more info. Thanks!
    dannilevy dannilevy 26-30, F Feb 2

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 26 Responses Jan 3, 2015

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    I lost my virginity at 24,

    on the 22nd December 2014. It didn't magically make my insecurities go away, but it definitely as hell took the edge off. Still kinda new to the whole thing!!"
    Wellzie Wellzie 22-25, M Jan 22

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    Need some advice. So I'm 18

    and still a virgin which sucks but a buddy of mine is going to let me **** his gf at a party. My friends told me that it feels way better if you don't use a condom but I'm afraid to ask my buddy if I have to were one because I don't want him to get mad and change his mind. I...
    Rockstarben97 Rockstarben97 18-21, M 19 hrs ago

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    I'm 20 now, and I will be a virgin

    when I stand at the altar. I don't care how long it takes, I want to be able to give my husband something absolutely unique and precious and for him to know what I waited especially for him. I'm so grateful to my parents for bringing me up that way.
    AGirlNamedKim AGirlNamedKim 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    Why is being a virgin

    such a big deal now? Some teenagers are acting like its some sort of race, being a Virgin or not being a virgin has absolutely nothing to do with you as a person. Virginity is some society made title, it's not special, it's not religious. It's nothing.
    bflyboo14 bflyboo14 16-17, F 6 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I am about ready to pop it

    and get it over with ;)
    jadagee jadagee 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 14

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    dynimitecookies dynimitecookies 13-15, F 14 Responses Feb 2

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    Who's a virgin? I'm a virgin!

    And I am not giving it up any time soon! I am perfectly happy with being a virgin. No sex for me anytime soon. I'll wait till college is over for **** like that.
    FiftyLyricsInAMiracle FiftyLyricsInAMiracle 16-17, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 16

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 28 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    Ah the day I lose my virginity you know It

    doesn't matter I'm already 20 or at least I will be come February 13 of 2016 at this point unless I can go back in time which I know I can't. I don't wanna lose my virginity in my 20s or 30s or whatever but I don't wanna stay virgin either. god if I lose it now it would just be...
    NewFrost NewFrost 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch 18-21, F 23 Responses Jan 30

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm a virgin and I have no plan to ever loose

    my virginity I know I'm very young but I don't think I'll ever have the desire to have sex
    JaneRezubian JaneRezubian 13-15, F 14 Responses Jan 16

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    Honestly I'm so sick of being a virgin I get

    jealous when I hear people talk about how good is s*x the I more think the more I want it
    jadagee jadagee 18-21, F 34 Responses 5 days ago

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