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    I am a virgin at the age of 31,

    and in an odd way I'm not really sure how it ended up being this way. I have CFS/ME and have done since I was about five. This and other factors in my life affected me and my understanding of my sexuality. The mixture of things has left everything almost too complicated to...
    warriorpoet99 warriorpoet99 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 15

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    I'd say I'm proud but a couple of years ago I

    was bullied for being one, which in my eyes seemed stupid. Anyway, I don't plan on losing it anytime soon.
    Meirin Meirin 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    And I'm staying that way till marriage i

    promise i will never lose my virginity no matter what lots of people have lost their virginity at my school they're surprised when i tell them that I'm a virgin I'm not like them and i never will be God wants me to hold on to my virginity till marriage and thats what I'm gonna...
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 9 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 41 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    I am 19 and yes a virgin.

    Some people may say that's weird, but it's not. Not to me. People may see their virginity as something to just get rid of, but to me it's giving it someone. Someone you trust and love. If that makes me weird then I'm proud
    HuddersfieldGirl18 HuddersfieldGirl18 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 14

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    Being a 21 year old virgin SUCKS.

    I need to have vaginal reconstructive surgery to fix some issues. Once I'm done with surgery I will have to do dilation for almost 2 years... What's the point? I might just stay a virgin.
    Lovelybaby18 Lovelybaby18 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 15

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    for some reason I started to be happy

    that I'm still this way. But on the other side of that thought it makes me sad to see that the chance to find a partner that's still a virgin becomes smaller with every day that passes. Because virginity for a girl (in my country at least) doesn't mean anything anymore it's...
    Ichki Ichki 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 18

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    I'm only fourteen, so obvi I'm a virgin.

    I know I want to wait until I'm financially, and mentally able to have a baby, because sex can always go wrong. I don't want to do it, and then get pregnant and have a baby with no money etc. And right now, boy and girl body parts gross me out lol
    totallytadj totallytadj 31-35 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Im scared to lose my Virginity,

    i don't think i look attractive and thats why i have all these piercings...
    LastNameSmith1996 LastNameSmith1996 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 6

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    So at school I get laughed at

    because I am a virgin. I don't really understand what's so funny. I'm 15 and wayyyy too young for sex. I also have a fear if sex so I find it pathetic i get laughed at but oh well. I know I won't be the next star of 16 & Pregnant.
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 20 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    Well technically I am

    since my Hymen hasn't been broken but I'm not an angel. I've had many opportunities to lose it but I refuse to give myself to some jackass but yet that seems to be the guys that orbit around me, makes me lose an inch a hope every time I run into one. Men/boys they are all the...
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 14

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    I am a 26yr old hispanic male,

    living in South Florida who is still a virgin. It seems to bother others more than it bothers me. I have had women walk away from me as soon as they find out and it is-absolutely embarrassing. My biggest issue is that many people see me as less of a person and always ask "why...
    Miaguy876 Miaguy876 26-30, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Even though I don't act like it.

    I am a Christian. I'd like to wait until im in a serious relationship, or better yet married until I lose my virginity. You fon't have to beleive me, but i could care less lol. Some guys get mad but it is their loss
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 17

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    Its sad to be virgin at 24 years.

    But this is life, i really want to lose my virginity.
    alexandru1990 alexandru1990 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 19

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 28 Responses Feb 9

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    Made It Into My Twenties!

    I'm still a virgin. Ive had one boyfriend and he was a jerk and he pushed me when i wasnt ready and i didnt cave. Im not religious, I dont care about sex before marriage but I do believe that love should come before sex. i want it to be free of fear and worry. i want it to...
    RoughKissGirl RoughKissGirl 22-25, F 40 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 44 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 65 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    I am so tired of girls my age at work judging me

    and excluding me from conversations because I am a virgin. They asked me if I was "still a virgin" like it was a bad thing or like it was something I had to get rid of. No one told me it was a race to lose it, It's my choice. They deemed me pure and innocent and left me out, and...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    20 years old and still a virgin don't know

    if I'll ever lose it. I don't want to wait I want it done
    Baileymill Baileymill 18-21 6 Responses Apr 15

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    I have a boyfriend I love very much

    and have been with him for about two years now. There's nobody else who will ever attract me like he does. I just know I will never find anyone like him. I'm proud I'm still a virgin and I do not intend on losing before marriage. I have had moments where I easily could have but...
    Wallflower369 Wallflower369 16-17, F 11 Responses Apr 14

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 30 Responses Jan 24

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 21 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    My Hands Are Shaking... I Feel Light Headed...

    H-he came inside.... And I showed my breasts and we kissed a lot... I finally breathed while kissing though... His warmth is leaking down my thighs and my shorts are soaked....
    DessyWessy DessyWessy 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 142 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Idk where I stand on it now.

    I just don't feel the same. I'm not sure if I'm ready to lose it, and I don't plan to until I'm sure . But I have the chance now. I never have before. No one has ever loved me like this before. No one here has ever gotten close to me. I turned it down. I almost regret it, just...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 35 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 52 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    be that until I am married

    and want to have children
    Julia1600 Julia1600 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Why wouldn't I be, I'm only 16 years old.

    Most people at school are not. I get made fun of quite a bit because I am a virgin. I'm not a sexual person. I dream about having a boyfriend but it's not going to happened for a while. I have been on two dates two months between. they treated me nice till the end of the night...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 21 and I've never had sex.

    I don't really mind being a virgin, nor am I embarassed, because I've never really met anyone I've wanted to have sex with. I do hope that changes someday, though. Someone will come along, I suppose.
    lilledrage lilledrage 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 1

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    KelsonTheDragon KelsonTheDragon 18-21, M 6 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    No Rush.

    It's ok to be a virgin. I would put it down to choice, although I've not been in a relationship yet, I've had some offers and I know I'm not unattractive so if I was really wanting to lose it I could find someone to deflower me but that isn't what I want. Some could argue I'm...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 26 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Let's just say my views on sex have been

    corrupted. I don't think of this as unfortunate because the subject is very painful for me. In my eyes, there is no such thing as "making love" because sex to me is not beautiful in the least. I am willingly going to die a virgin.
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 18

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    I am not a virgin, but I'm disturbed to see

    so many young ep users on here that are so eager to lose their virginity. It's even more disturbing seeing older ep users provoke them to "go for it". That's just so fvcked up. Value yourself, and your body. If you are a virgin, pat yourself on the back because you're literally...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 29 Responses Jan 3

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I'm 21 and I'm still a virgin I'm proud of it I

    guess I just feel like I'm old and if I'll ever have a family someday am I wrong
    yalzaga yalzaga 18-21, F 13 Responses Apr 14

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 19 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    i'm a proud 19 y/o virgin.

    i'm not going to lie.. sometimes i wish that i was getting the D but most of the time i'm ok with it. there is not "perfect" time to loose your virginity but for me personally the perfect time is when i'm out of my parents house. my parents are strict so i don't want to get...
    missnicething missnicething 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    I am a virgin with no sexual experience,

    to be a virgin at 55 is rare and I take pride in my virginity and I am open about my virginity. I made my virginity public to the world a few years ago and I am now enjoying being a virgin more than ever.
    redvase redvase 51-55, M 3 Responses Apr 18

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