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I Am a Virgin

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    I'm not saying this is a bad thing

    because I am well aware that it most definitely is not. My issue is that I've been called square recently, (not in a hurtful way) my friend was called a square by her brother yesterday, (he literally thinks I've had sex before...) and finally the fact that it seems as if...
    smurfinaround smurfinaround 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 26

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    emjagrace emjagrace 16-17, F 14 Responses Jul 18

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    EvoKinevil EvoKinevil 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 26

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    upurs558 upurs558 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm happy but unhappy about it at the same time.

    CONFLICTED. I think I'm saving myself for someone special, but I'm only 19 so I can wait longer.
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 25

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    Why do I have these desires

    so soon. I'm just 18, why do I care?
    MrSpecify MrSpecify 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 26

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    Still a Virgin At 43

    I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin.  I know how important it is to me.  Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way.  In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old...
    amanecer amanecer 41-45, F 51 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    Wow! I'm 14 and a virgin!

    So surprising! I say to just about all my friends. I just don't feel like risking a disease for a few minutes of pleasure. Plus, I have school to worry about.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 26 Responses Jan 24

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    Most Definately

    im going to be 18 in january, and yes im still a virgini know most guys would find me weird or whatever, but i dont care.im happy being a virgin, and im not planning on losing it anytime soon.id rather lose it to someone im going to spend my life with, than in a "one night stand...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 26 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    When three peoples have s.

    e.x they call it three_some When two people have s.e.x they call it two_some Oh god! just know why they call me handsome. LoL
    CasanovaBoy CasanovaBoy 22-25, M 12 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Okay Definetly not a virgin

    but was when I got married back in 1999 with my first husband so I can relate. Anyway I want to give all of you's kudos. It's an awesome thing to wait. Don't let anyone pressure. It'll be worth it when you find your true love. God bless
    NotperfectEver NotperfectEver 41-45, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My Theory On Love, and My Virginity

    I have never told anyone this before, mostly because they would think I was insane...but I believe that very few people will actually ever experience true love, honest to God true love. I think that about 75% maybe even more of the people who think that they are in love aren't...
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 64 Responses Aug 11, 2007

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    kashif112 kashif112 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    anoopjose176 anoopjose176 18-21, M 11 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm 21 and still a virgin.

    It's hard for me to have sex because it hurts. I rarely have alone time at home with a special person.
    shykitty94 shykitty94 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm saving my first kiss

    for my wedding day!!
    maryelizabg maryelizabg 18-21 5 Responses Jul 16

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    Sometimes I feel embarrassed

    that I am still a virgin at 23. But then I think, "that's okay, I want it to be with the right person, not some random person".
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91 22-25, F 21 Responses 1 day ago

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    All my friends are talking about the girls

    they've slept with, and I'm just sitting here wondering what topping I want on my stuffed crust pizza. I'm thinking pepperoni.
    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 20

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    why do teenage boys care about

    if a girl is a virgin or not like r u that eager 2 be the first 2 disappoint me
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 20 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Ugh. I Was Doing Fine Until I Seen An Explicit Film...

    I for some reason went to watch an explicit film and I was immediately in awe. They were so passionate with each other, it made me want that with someone.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Really not much to say.

    I'm 22 and have never been with a boy. My 21 year old sister is also. I don't plan on having sex with a guy until I'm married.
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 27 Responses Feb 9

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    I'm a virgin and proud of it.

    While most girls my age are raising kids,I'm studying so I can get a good job.
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Jul 3

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    And pretty proud, I mean most people have had

    sex by now but it's usually meaningless. I'd rather wait for the right person so I don't regret it in the future. 💃
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 13 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I'm a peach that's never been picked.

    I cannot be super careless with sex; it has to have emotion behind it. I can't understand how many can let any man sleep with them when it's like everytime that happens, it's like they're taking a piece of you with them.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 35 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Well i better in check this box 0-0 Ermmm I'm

    kidding 0.0 I'm 99.9% Virgin
    Nataliebeans1 Nataliebeans1 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have found being public about my virginity

    has been a rewarding experience. I am a 55yr old virgin who has never dated or kissed and has no sexual experience which is probably unknown in todays society. It is obvious that I will remain a virgin and never have sex but being public about it has allowed me to come to terms...
    redvase redvase 51-55, M Jul 14

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    I Had a Child Without Giving Up My Virginity

    Although I'm not opposed to sex before marriage, I do not want to have sex with anyone with whom I do not feel a deep connection and commitment. I didn't date in high school and barely dated in college and I found it harder and harder to date as I got older, so I focused on my...
    virginmother virginmother 41-45, F 38 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    First off, I would like to present the fact

    that I've been to this website time and time again and each time I come back, I tell of being a virgin but the story of the reason changes. I feel like sex with others is overrated. I don't NEED a man in my life to make me feel complete. There are ways to be satisfied doing...
    jboddika jboddika 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    And Theres No Way I'm Gunna Lose It Before Getting Married....

    "There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living" (jordan) Certainly virginity is dignity....cause its the seal of one's modesty and honesty and the person who deserve it is the one with whom Yr gunna get married with... its for the one with...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 22 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I'm the virgin of virgins.

    Haven't even had my first kiss yet #looserrr
    internallybroken internallybroken 16-17, M 12 Responses Jul 14

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    And I plan to change

    that soon. If you're from Sydney, message me and we can talk, hang out, tell each other jokes and one day enjoy explore each other's bodies.
    johnno99 johnno99 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I'm proud to be one as most people are losing

    theirs at 13-15! I'm nearly 18 and the only virgin in my friend group so I'm pretty happy about it, it's kind of an achievement :-)
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    I would rather lose my virginity to a dild0

    than a person to be honest.
    JointPuffer JointPuffer 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 16

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    Where No Man Has Gone Before.

    I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 43 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I honestly feel like I've been left behind.

    Because everyone else has lost it.
    Chickennuggets3005 Chickennuggets3005 18-21, F 31 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm 21 years old still a virgin.

    . But lately the urges to have sex Have been strong Af !!! But I told myself I would wait until I got married of found that right one not just for me but for God as well and if You don't believe please no rude comments thanks
    NicoleLovex20 NicoleLovex20 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Well not a virgin anymore.

    That was a long time ago. But I did wait until 21. Reason was both some by choice, some not so much by choice. I do not regret waiting and I honestly wished I waited until the next person. But the point is, don't do it just to get it done. Make sure it is something you will...
    SlickFX SlickFX 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I Am Proud Of It

    I am proud I am a virgin. I don't hate guys I don't. I just haven't met some one I think loved me enough to give "it" to. I don't let myself get in the position where my virginity is endangered. To all my fellow virgins be proud.Ally
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 41 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 41 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Aren't you all kinda sick of it?

    I'm not actively trying to lose my virginity, but it's a bit embarrassing to be a college senior and still a virgin. I feel like college's been a disappointment. lol
    Storiesnotforthefaintofheart Storiesnotforthefaintofheart 18-21, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    I wanna lose my virginity

    as soon as possible with a more experimented person who would teach me everything about sex.
    DouceFolie DouceFolie 18-21, F 16 Responses a week ago

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    I turned 18 not too long ago

    and the first thing my friend asked me was if I was still a virgin. Okay. So, I don't feel uncomfortable when I tell people who ask, it's just, what difference would it make? I'm planning on saving myself for marriage, I have a purity ring, and none of this is important at all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    People Are So Judgmental.

    im eighteen, and a virgin. it's a personal choice that ive made. I don't want to lose it to some ***, and then regret it when someone truly deserving comes past. majority of people frown when they realize that you're a virgin. why? perhaps they think that you're not good enough...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 139 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I'm 18 years old. I'm a virgin.

    My virginity is like a gift to me. I'm not just going to throw it away. I'm going to wait until I meet the right person.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    jackryan1 jackryan1 18-21, M 10 Responses